ShelBee is an aerial performer, instructor and sex worker originally from Taiwan and grew up in an Asian community in SoCal where she was taught using a tampon means you're losing your virginity!
In this episode we talk about:
- 03:19 ShelBee got me a gift!!
- 05:13 Cultivating Eroticism
- 08:58 The Impact of Positive Examples of Single Women
- 18:20 Asian Cultural Beliefs about Tampons
- 23:04 Older Siblings Are Our Saviors!
- 25:31 First Sexual Experiences
- 26:28 Understanding How to Please Women
- 29:18 Creating Mutually Beneficial Relationships
- 32:26 The Erasure of Female Anatomy In Medical History
- 35:11 Exploring and Discovering Sexual Preferences
- 39:22 The Impact of Shame and Internalized Shame
- 40:46 Coming Out and Overcoming Trauma
- 41:34 The Journey to Self-Acceptance
- 45:09 Entering the Sex Work Industry
- 47:05 Understanding Having a Sugar Daddy / Being A Sugar Baby
- 49:54 Dispelling Misconceptions about Sex Work
- 52:37 Unity and Support within the Sex Work Community
You can find ShelBee on Instagram at @shelbeestrong and if you're lucky, teaching or performing at a venue in Los Angeles!
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