When the spark fades, small habits — not lack of love — usually explain why. This condensed 6-minute breakdown (originally 2 hours) of Shawn Ryan’s conversation with sex therapist Vanessa Marin gives busy listeners the science-backed tools to restore intimacy. Learn why spontaneous vs. responsive desire matters, how to separate initiation from action, and why clitoral stimulation is crucial for most women. Vanessa and Shawn walk through practical hacks: have sex before the date, use the GET technique (gratitude, eye contact, touch), try short daily rituals, and run five simple conversations to rebuild closeness — plus warnings about AI, porn, and risky practices. Listen now to get the key ideas in minutes.
