Every life is a unique life and trying to squish yourself into a box that says you need to have a big why, intense singular passion for something and one sole purpose in life is nuts. Yet that's what the whole self-improvement industry is saying.
That may be the way for some people, but like every rainbow, every colour wheel, there are millions of shades of each colour. Purpose, passion and the big why are exactly the same.
If you are enjoying doing something, and you're getting better at it little by little, then keep doing more of that.
Let me share my perspective as someone who has been wandering around this question for the last few years.
