Most people, especially women, don't wake up one day loving less.
They wake up carrying more.
In this episode, Diana explores a subtle but powerful shift that happens in many relationships: when love slowly moves from being chosen to being assumed. Not because anyone demanded it but because responsibility quietly accumulated.
Using Matthew 11 and Galatians 6, this conversation reframes heavy love as a relational signal, not a moral failure. Love was never meant to feel crushing. When it does, something has drifted, and it's worth paying attention.
You'll also be introduced to the concept of attunement, awareness with intention, and why it's essential for loving well without losing peace.
This episode is not about pulling back, doing less, or judging yourself.
It's about learning to notice early, before exhaustion turns into resentment or withdrawal.
In this episode, you'll learn:
Why love often becomes heavy without anyone doing anything "wrong"
How responsibility quietly shifts from chosen to assumed
What Scripture means when it says to carry your own load
How attunement protects peace in relationships
Practical questions to help you discern what is actually yours to carry
Reflection questions:
Is this actually mine to carry?
Am I choosing this or assuming it?
Is this a clear yes from the Lord, or an obligation?
Love doesn't need to be withdrawn.
It needs to be aligned.
And when love is aligned, peace returns.
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