This is a valuable replay of Episode 4- Have Your Own Back. Eveything Else Is A Bonus
External validation can feel good in the moment, but when we rely on it for our self-worth, it creates frustration, resentment, and emotional suffering. In this episode, I introduce the concept of a Validation Detox—a process to stop seeking external approval and start building the self-love and empowerment you deserve.
What We Cover:
1.What is Validation and Why Do We Seek It?
The psychology of validation and how it connects to our need for belonging and esteem.
Why we often give away the responsibility for our worth to others.
2.How External Validation Shows Up in Your Life:
Common behaviors like overachieving for praise, difficulty setting boundaries, or constant comparison to others.
Everyday examples, from posting on social media to seeking compliments for reassurance.
3.The Validation Detox Process:
Step 1: Awareness—identify where you're seeking external validation in your life.
Step 2: Interrupt—pause the habitual behaviors that seek validation from others.
Step 3: Validate Yourself—practice self-affirmation with thoughts that empower you.
4.The Byproduct of Self-Validation:
How validating yourself leads to self-love, empowerment, and unshakable confidence.
Why external validation becomes a bonus instead of a necessity.
Key Takeaways:
Your worth isn't determined by others—it's a decision you make about yourself.
Interrupting validation-seeking behaviors is hard, but it's the first step to empowerment.
Self-validation is the foundation of a life filled with love and less drama.
Actionable Insight:
Write a list of the ways you seek external validation, then practice pausing those behaviors. Replace the need for approval with the affirmation: “I've got my own back, everything else is a bonus.”
A Warm Invitation:
Ready to start your Validation Detox? Download the free Validation Detox Workbook now and take the first step toward self-love and empowerment. Click here to get it delivered straight to your inbox.
