In today’s episode of “Healing From Within” your host Sheryl Glick
author of The Living Spirit: Answers for Healing and Infinite Love is
delighted to have Lisette Schuitemaker (https://lisetteschuitemaker.com/en/) join us as a returning guest to
discuss her newest book The Childhood Conclusions Fix. To hear her
former show The Eldest Daughter Effect go to my website
www.sherylglick.com (http://www.sherylglick.com) and click on the radio shows link for February 2018.
As listeners of “Healing From Within” know Sheryl and her guests try to
establish a clearer view of life both physically and
energetically/spiritually and challenges we all have experienced as a
result of childhood traumas, relationship or health issues, economical
stresses that create emotions, both positive and negative so we may come
to know ourselves, the environment we live in, personally and
collectively. These observations may offer workable means to grow,
prosper and thrive, no matter what leftover or misperceived impressions
or conclusions we hold from childhood.
In today’s episode of “Healing From Within” Lisette Schuitemaker
addresses an important topic… One that many avoid, deny or conceal,
either because of fear shame self-doubt or thinking there is no way to
change any of it. The topic we explore now is how did the impressions we
internalized in childhood condition us to make harsh assumptions about
ourselves, the world and our place in it. These childhood conclusions
produce habitual thoughts that mark our behavior, health and quality of
life to this day. We will today discover how it all happens and how to
see ourselves with new eyes and finally turn negative self talk around.
Lisette remembers and describes three incredible women from her
childhood that influenced her in a most positive way The first was her
loving grandmother another was the mother of a friend who had a terminal
illness but always had a smile and delighted in the time she spent with
the children and the third was a teacher who always seemed to see
Lisette just as she was and appreciated her in that way beyond any
expectations. Sheryl always loves to ask her wonderfully creative
authors to think back to childhood and remember a person place or event
that may have led them to this present moment in their adult life and
the values they hold dear for she believes we are the composite of our
experiences and must revisit them to understand how we are dealing with
life today.
Lisette shares how she discovered that negative self-talk hides our
precious gifts and creates childhood conclusions that limit our level of
health well being and happiness.
Lisette writes, “Our childhood conclusions mirror our greatest gifts.
Where we feel the most insecure is where we hide our truest treasures.
Even as tiny babies lies the innate gift to open hearts and connect to
others through our mere presence. Since we are divine creations of
consciousness we harbor gifts to feel…to experience deep concern and
empathy to be inspired as well as inspire and most of all to share
love.”
So many young children believe mistakes have been made by them and they
are not welcome and don’t belong in this brutal harsh world. How we make
them feel welcome and grounded to their physical life is the way to
overcome Childhood Conclusion Number 1 I am not welcome.
We can begin to help ourselves by paying attention to what our mind says
and begin to understand where and when these thoughts began and what
situations in our childhood is triggering negative self thinking. By
learning that our inner conversation is not one voice, but the voice of
many situations that cause us to question ourselves and others, and
repeat stories that may defeat our greatest dreams. The trouble is we
tend to believe what we think. However the truth is thoughts are just
thoughts. There is no need to believe everything we think. Especially
