Host: Sheryl Glick R.M.T.
Special Guest: Tara Eisenhard (http://www.taraeisenhard.com/)
In today’s episode of Healing From Within, your host Sheryl Glick author of The Living Spirit which shares stories of spiritual awakenings spiritual communication healing energies, miracles and ways to empower your health and joy in life, welcomes Tara Eisenhard author of The D-Word: Divorce Through a Child’s Eyes which shares an honest firsthand look at divorce its ramifications and possibilities that from life experiences families can evolve not dissolve through the process. The D-word addresses issues such as conflict, communication alienation attitudes and ultimately moving on to a new perception of Self and love. Tara believes that “Divorce isn’t about dissolution. It’s about evolution!”
Tara Eisenhard shares her views on a situation, Divorce, which impacts a large number of families in these complicated modern times and offers ways to transcend the fear and pain in the divorce process to reach a state of acceptance: allowing what is good and meaningful to lead us forward into other relationships and greater self-awareness. As Sheryl wrote in her first book Life Is No Coincidence… “I don’t believe any experience relationship or challenge is random, but part of a greater plan to help us navigate our human and soul essence for growth and ultimate success.”
Tara says in her blog that Yoga and Divorce can be compared together. She writes, “With time and perseverance, the Sweet Spot gets sweeter. With practice, we learn the art of gaining strength through surrender. We accept the necessity of continuous adjustment and relax into the flow. We go deeper and grow taller. The pose is no longer a battle, but a building block, part of a grander design. In life, we strive to find peace within ourselves. On the mat, we struggle against the laws of physics. In relationships, we struggle against others. In both cases, the recipe for success is the same: show up, find the Sweet Spot, then relax and work through it, one miniscule adjustment at a time.”
Tara says she was the daughter of cooperatively divorced parents and Sheryl remembers reading when actress Gwyneth Paltrow was separating from her husband she used a similar term, Conscious Uncoupling” to show they would still work together as parents to support their children and perhaps each other. Many think of divorce as the result of fights and anger as depicted by the media, literature and contemporary music and that it is always accompanied by deep hurt and negativity.
In the past, marriage was seen b y many religious groups and families to be unacceptable and tragic. In The Living Spirit, Sheryl has a section that helps clients heal from problems that result in intimate relationships and marriages. Many of Sheryl’s clients have expressed sadness about their inner ability to manifest and maintain loving and lasting relationships. We know there is a direct correlation between the love we saw expressed between our parents and how we follow these patterns through in our own relationships. In The Living Spirit, Sheryl writes in regard to divorce; “Once you have honestly done all you could to improve your behavior, control issues, and unrealistic expectations, it is time to offer the issue up to Spirit. We cannot have expectations of anyone other than ourselves. So if the relationship still lacks the qualities necessary for health and love, it may have simply run its course despite what your family, friends or society may believe, there is no disgrace or failure with ending a relationship. I am reminded through a message, unsolicited, and given to me by international Medium Peter Close of England, that my father, Myron, had a message for me and it was quite different from the belief that he had expressed when alive. My father believed divorce was unacceptable and tragic, but now in spirit, he realized divorce, or broken relationships were at times a necessary event of the physical life.
