Sadly Leighton Fields could not uphold his commitment to the podcast due to work, but we hope he can pop in from time to time. We are excited that Bernie Diamond decided to be our co host for the next 3 episodes. If you would like to hear his insane life story and survival of a shooting in Dallas please listen to his gripping Episode 46 and watch it on youtube. We talk about how marriage is tough as it is and if you break the trust by cheating it is almost impossible to survive. Very few marriages are in healthy spots and if kids are involved it makes everything so much worse. Social media has made it so much easier to cheat, and people compare their relationships because of it. It is very rare that social media matches up to what someone’s real life is. Ask yourself the question: “Could you give your phone to your significant other for an entire day?”Marcella thinks that guys think too much with their little head. Bernie then tells a recent story where a fun evening took a drastic turn that ended a serious relationship. A fun night out instantly turned into hell out of nowhere. Marcella tells us about one of her exes when she found out that he cheated, and she believes that cheaters will go to their graves denying, denying, denying. She also feels that you can paint an excuse on anything to make it ok to cheat. One nights stands, midlife crisis etc. Broken and hurt people hurt people. It is important for someone to heal themselves before jumping back into dating. Bernie tells us a recent experience with online dating. Gabrielle believes that you have to have God in your lives and in the center of your marriage to give yourself a chance of a successful marriage. Bernie says that people are so fearful of being alone that they stay in relationships they shouldn’t be in. We all agree that not being appreciated is a huge problem in all relationships. Our little Too Posh Podcast comes to the conclusion that relationships and marriages cannot survive cheating, however if our listeners disagree with us we would love to hear from you. Miss Polly was not available for this episode but we did have the Question of the Day segment: Do you believe in Love at first sight
