Anyone else feel totally not okay with the invisible expecations placed on us once in a relationship?
Like, you MUST share a bed with that person for the rest of your life otherwise your relationship isn't okay. Or YOU MUST HAVE CHILDREN. Living in seperate homes as a long term couple?... avoidance issues! Seeking pleasure and sexual experiences outside of your couple? Is there is something wrong with you? And NEVER have extended time alone, are you insane??? Also, it is completely frowned apon to ever have kindred friendships with those of the same sex. YOU ARE IN A COUPLE NOW, aka yet another jail created by society.
It's time to get out. Think big. Go left... sounds political. It's not....Or is it? (It's all very criptic this season with these titles, so happy to have you along for the ride).
Bottom line : it's time to rebel a bit. A least in thought, and then maybe action if it feels right.
These rules as to how we must show up in our romantic relationships, specifically as women, is tiresome. Grab your rubber and let's erase these edges. Time to go for what feels right.
Lisa
@selfwithlisaclarke
