Let God be the healing factor in a person's life.
If you love a person, or even when it comes to yourself allow space for healing to take place.
No external means can heal internal and emotional trauma, especially if it's connected to a problematic past.
Only the eternal God can heal the internal issues of a person's life.
You are not the healer.
If you could, would you want that responsibility to maintain it?
If you are looking for a person to do it for you, do you want them having that type of power and responsibility over you?
Let's love one another and allow folks to unpack baggage alone and as a team, but know this God is the healer from within and without.
In the words of John Coffee, I can help it Boss.
Some things gotta go to God in this case.
Help them by giving them space to heal.