How to Stop Overparenting: Trust Yourself, Not Your Fear!
Are you doing everything for your child…and calling it love?!?
In this episode, Sue peels back the curtain on overparenting and calls out the subtle ways control shows up (micromanaging, rescuing, rushing, rewriting their essays) and how it can backfire.
Spoiler: Letting go isn’t giving up your authority, it’s how you gain influence and raise independent, resilient kids who actually want to talk to you because they trust you and don’t feel judged by your control.
What We Talk About:
The sneaky ways control hides in “good parenting”
- Why micromanaging robs your kids of confidence, and you of your sanity
- How fear fuels overparenting (and how to stop letting it drive the car)
- The “structure not a script” strategy to give kids autonomy within boundaries
- Why overcontrolling kids can turn them into rebels, people-pleasers… or liars
- A decision-making skill you’re accidentally preventing your kids from developing
- Instrument practice, friend choices, and the tightrope between encouragement and control
- The parenting question that will change your day: “Am I helping or hovering?”
- Your challenge for the week: Pick one place to loosen your grip and watch what happens
One-Liner to Remember:"When we prevent our kids’ discomfort, we also prevent their growth. You want to raise a problem-solver, not a puppet."Listener Challenge:Pick one area where you’re over-involved. Is it homework? Doing laundry? Friend drama? Step back…
on purpose. Let your child try. Let them fail safely.
Then
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