The Hidden Reasons Why Teens Lie & What Parents Can Actually Do About It
Why do teens lie…even if they have good parents, open conversations, and no reason to hide?
In this episode, Sue and Randee unpack one of the most misunderstood parenting challenges: lying. You’ll learn how most teen lies aren’t about rebellion, they’re about protection, privacy, and power. Sue shares her personal story of being a “frequent teen liar” and how that insight reshaped her parenting philosophy. Together, they explore why tightening control only increases deception, and how a calm, curious response can transform dishonesty into trust and growth.
You’ll discover:
- The real purpose behind lying (and what it’s protecting)
- How to stop taking lies personally and start reading them as communication
- What it means to brand yourself “unshockable” …and why your reaction determines your child’s honesty
- Simple neutral statements that build connection instead of confrontation
- How “control invites lies” and why giving up control earns truth
It’s not about catching your teen in a lie, it’s about creating an environment where the truth feels safe to live.
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Listen through the end for specific age-based examples and Sue’s powerful “We Language” strategy that rewires your child’s honesty through trust, not fear.
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