Have you ever felt like you were losing the connection with someone you love — especially your own child?
In this vulnerable episode of Her Unshakeable Confidence, Simone and Olivia speak with coach and author Sally Harris, a mom who has walked through the painful reality of estrangement and the long journey toward healing.
Together, they explore the guilt, shame, and fear many parents never talk about — along with the powerful shift that happens when we learn to let go of control, communicate with compassion, and love our kids the way they need to be loved.If you’re longing for stronger family relationships or reassurance that you’re not failing — this episode is a reminder that healing, hope, and connection are still possible.
✅ Actionable Takeaways
• Work on You First
Healing begins internally — confidence, self-care, and emotional stability create space for reconnection.
• Let Go of the Comparison Trap
Social media isn’t real. All families have struggles — you’re not failing.
• Shift from Fixing to Listening
Adult children want partnership, not control. Respect and empathy open doors.
• Avoid Making It About Your Emotions
Approach tough situations as if it were your best friend’s child — compassionate, but not reactive.
• Reconnect with Hope, Not Pressure
When stepping back is necessary, keep the door open gently — communication should show love, not demand it.
⏱️ Chapters
00:00 — Welcome & The Complicated Side of Motherhood
02:12 — What Estrangement Really Looks and Feels Like
07:40 — Parenting Adult Children vs. Parenting Kids
14:58 — Letting Go of Comparison and “Perfect Families”
21:34 — The Impact on Siblings & Family Dynamics
28:45 — When Emotion Takes Over: Repairing with Humility
33:52 — Group Coaching: Safe Support for Moms
40:03 — Numbing Pain vs. Building Confidence
41:30 — Confidence as the Foundation for Transformation
42:21 — The Best Parenting Advice Sally Ever Received
44:46 — Loving Your Children the Way They Need
46:20 — Where to Find Sally Harris
✨ About Sally Harris
Sally Harris, the host of "The Sally Harris YouTube Channel" which has amassed 2.7 million+ views with over 36,000 subscribers, is an international speaker and advocate in the realm of family dynamics, estrangement, self-care, and personal responsibility.
She has been featured as a guest on prominent shows such as "Families Divided TV," "The Justin American Radio Show," and "Watching America". She has recently been contacted by the ABC Tamron Hall show as well as The Dr. Phil show as an estrangement expert. She has worked with over 1k+ mothers dealing with estranged adult children and is on a mission to serve 1 million moms.
Connect with Sally Harris:
YouTube: Sally Harris- Moms of Estranged Adult Kids Expert
Website:Sally Harris Coaching
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