In this empowering episode of Her Unshakeable Confidence, Simone and Olivia Knego unpack one of the biggest influences on our confidence: the voice inside our head. They discuss the “What-If Whisperer”—the relentless inner critic that loves to say you’re not enough, you might fail, or everyone will judge you.
Together, they reveal how much of our identity is shaped not by our abilities, but by the language we use about ourselves. From naming your inner critic “Sally,” to shifting from try to do, they share practical and relatable tools for taking back your power and speaking to yourself with respect.
They also explore:
- Why authenticity shouldn’t feel like taking off tight jeans at the end of the day
- How to support others without shrinking your own success
- Why the way you speak about yourself teaches others how to treat you
This episode is your invitation to rewrite the script playing in your mind—because when you change the words, you change the story. And the story you believe becomes the life you lead.
✅ Actionable Takeaways
- Name and externalize your inner critic to separate it from who you truly are
- Swap “I’ll try” for “I’ll do”—language builds belief
- Choose supportive self-talk: speak to yourself like a friend, not an enemy
- Don’t dim your light to fit others’ struggles—support without self-minimizing
- Set boundaries with that negative inner voice: you get to decide the narrative
- Teach self-respect early—kids learn confidence from how we model self-talk
📖 Chapters
00:00 – The What-If Whisperer: Our Inner Critic
03:20 – Performing vs. Living Authentically
08:44 – Shrinking Ourselves to Make Others Comfortable
12:58 – “I Failed Too!” The Tricky Art of Commiseration
18:45 – Words Matter: Language Shapes Confidence
24:05 – Treat Yourself Like Someone You Love
29:10 – Raising Kids With Self-Respect
30:41 – Final Encouragement: You Are Unshakeable
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