* Disclaimer- this episode is specificly for married &/or long term couples. There's nothing crazy, but we do use the word "itimacy" a few times and would rather be safe and let everyone know.
Without further ado-
Most advice about emotional intimacy and romance assumes you experience connection the “typical” way — but for many Autistics, that’s like being handed directions in a language you don’t speak. You may deeply love your partner, yet struggle to read the unspoken cues they rely on. You may crave closeness, but find the process of getting there exhausting or confusing. And no one ever sat you down to explain that this isn’t about being cold or unfeeling — it’s about having a different wiring for how you notice, process, and express emotions. The result? You both feel misunderstood, even when your love is real.
In this episode, we break open the myths and unspoken rules around Autistics and emotional intimacy. You’ll learn why “trying harder” rarely works, what to focus on instead, and how to create a romantic connection that feels safe and authentic for both partners. We’ll share stories, practical steps, and mindset shifts that can help you move past the fear of getting it wrong and into the joy of getting it real. Because once you understand how your brain works — and how your partner’s does too — romance isn’t about meeting some impossible standard. It’s about building a rhythm of connection that’s yours alone.
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Music for the show’s intro is provided (with permission) by Matt Langston & EleventySeven.
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Music for the show’s outro is provided (with permission) by Sean Rogers & Shineunder. The band doesn’t exist anymore, but Sean is still doing great work and can be found here - https://heyworldcreative.com/
