In this episode, Tanushree and Anu (The Desi Condition’s Communications Lead) explore the evolutionary purpose of friendships as we grow into adulthood. They navigate the anatomy of the unspoken “friendship contract” and the ever-evolving dynamics that shape our social connections from a young age.
From the three circles of friendship—outer, inner, core—to the delicate balance of vulnerability and investment, they dissect how friendships change over time and what moves individuals between these circles. They uncover the unique and often cautious aspects of how South Asians are primed to approach their friendships throughout childhood. Anu and Tanushree discuss how examining shared backgrounds, familial influences, and balancing societal expectations held many of their earlier friendships together - and how this approach ultimately fell apart to make room for something much deeper over time. Finally, they interrogate the complexities of breaking the "friendship contract," and offer their own insights on gaining acceptance, closure, and reframing relationships based on their personal anecdotes.
