Stop Letting Fear Be Your Life's Remote ControlPlot twist: Fear and excitement are identical twins! Same racing heart, sweaty palms, butterfly tornado in your gut. The only difference? Your brain's commentary.Fear whispers: "You'll embarrass yourself!"Excitement shouts: "This is going to be AMAZING!"Forget "calm down"—that's like telling a hurricane to chill. Instead, hijack your brain with this ninja move:When fear strikes: Count 5-4-3-2-1! This jolts your prefrontal cortex awake (hello, rational brain!).Then deploy your "anchor thought": "I'm EXCITED to nail this presentation!" or "I'm PUMPED to finally visit Paris!"Your confused brain thinks: "Oh, we're excited? Cool, that explains these sensations!"