What happens when families stop waiting for the system to fix itself—and start building what their loved ones need?
In this episode of Finding Common Ground, Heather and Steve sit down with Dawn O’Hara, a mother of two adult children with disabilities, to explore what it really takes to support independence, dignity, and inclusion. From leaving behind one system in Pennsylvania to navigating New York’s evolving landscape, Dawn shares what she’s learned and why she refuses to sit on the sidelines.
Early in the episode, Dawn shares a moment no parent forgets: watching her daughter work hard for a paycheck—only to lose her benefits because of it. It’s a gut‑punch that too many families know too well, and it raises critical questions about what we’re really incentivizing in our systems. Dawn reflects, “You are your children’s strongest advocate and their loudest voice.” Her honesty speaks directly to those who may feel defeated or unsure—reminding us that staying quiet doesn’t serve our kids.
Steve adds his own challenge to the status quo: “If OPWDD didn’t exist, families would still find a solution. They’d fix it.” It’s a powerful reminder that waiting for change isn’t the same as creating it—and families have always led the way when the system came up short.
