Pillars:Trust, Respect, Communication, Commitment, Chemistry, Connections,
Speak truth, let your actions, match the words you SPEAK!
Don't go through a Door if y our not fully ready....Be honest about your intentions....
Past relationships is the past. You don't step into a new relationship and still going public places with your ex. Especially, when it's public appearances..
It's things in life and your ex. May be present because of the relationship you and that person had, and that's OK, but you don't continue being romantically involved intimate with your Ex.
That Defines CHEATING!
When you move on, with someone new you must do things differently, you begin doing things with the new woman or man in your life. You begin building a new foundation with the new person.
You begin doing things together ❤️ in many situations you may still deal with your Ex, if you have children, but to h e new person in your life should be equally involved, it's called communication. And Respect!
Especially, if you want to be Exclusive, which means your both in agreement that your not going to see other people, your exclusively together. You both must be on the same page and be clear about your expectations and how your defining your relationship.
Dating is not being exclusive, dating means your both in agreement to see other people.
I personally if im dating someone, where just dating, which means getting to know one another, wespend time together, but I don't eng a ge in intimacy. I personally believe my body is sacred a temple, so im not sleeping are being intimate with a man im just dating. I date to marry, im looking for a commitment, im looking for marriage. So for me, how I define commitment under Pillars is different. I don't sleep with a man because we're dating. For me personally, the barriers must be stronger, the dedication must be stronger, I personally have to understand clearly where the relationship is going and the relationship must have potential otherwise, im personally not wasting my time.
I stand on my standards, morals and values and that's something for me that's non negotiable!
Always be clear on your intentions, expectations, and clear on what your wanting out of the relationship, and define things clearly so that both people are on the same page.
It doesn't cost anything to be Honest, that's having Intergrity!
Don't play games with a person, but yet be genuine.
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