Sometimes, you must reevaluate your circle 🔵 your surroundings, and your friends. Although it may be difficult but even family needs to be reevaluated. We must do what's always in our best interests and what's in the best interests of the people you love and care about. We must always hold on to truth, and that enner voice called intuition. I always say that when something is solid, it's unbreakable. Sabotage means when someone does something intentionally. People actually tried to sabotage my wedding weekend. September13th, 2025, was to be one of the happiest days, moments in my life. My Wedding DAY, after all the planning, unexpected I didn't get married on this day, it wasn't the most happiest moment in my life, my fiance flight kept getting delayed, they even began overnight layovers, a 15 hour flight from France, turned into a 32 hour flight, it was horrible, our guests began arriving on the 11th from out of town, im thinking all is well, the 12th was our SCHEDULE Meet & Greet, wedding Rehearsal & Rehearsal Luncheon. It was at this time, i begin to worry, peopls we're telling people nit to go to our wedding, they were trying to make it seem fake, my fiance still hadn't arrived, due to the countless layovers, I begin looking for other alternatives to get him to Louisiana. Our guests begin calling me that Friday evening. It's our Meet & Greet, and now im historical and eyes full of tears. On Saturday morning, my fiance was still dealing with the flight cancellation and rescheduling in France. This is now our Wedding Day, and he still hadn't arrived, i still had faith that we would get married. But once my makeup appointment had to be canceled. I realized our wedding day was being Sabatoged! Those were the words i was texting him, someone people were trying to Sabatoged our wedding!!!! After all our guests began to arrive for our wedding, I was horrified with tears, I began reaching out to guests around 1:30 pm that Saturday, and our wedding was for 4 pm in New Orleans. Louisiana, many responded that they were already in New Orleans for the wedding. At this point, i stopped sending messages . Guests began praying for his flight just to land safely, and we appreciated that! I knew I wouldn't reach everyone, and I didn't. Sabatoged is the deliberate, intensions to destroy or hindering something to prevent the function from being successful, its intentional and I was very disappointed, to learn that we had people intentional trying to destroy a woman wedding day. No, we didn't get married of the 13th of September and as of the day of this episode we still haven't, but we are getting married, inspired by their intentions, my fiance and I will conquer through. We will get married very, very soon.I try not to think about the money lost, The money spent, the venue offered for us to get married on the 20th Of September 2025 to compensate us for last weekend, which we totally appreciate, I decided not to send out a new invitation. But we reached out only to those that had went to New Orleans, to be part of our celebration 🍾 We intend to celebrate with them, but we're planning our Big Day, for another time, very very soon. I decided not to wear the wedding attire because, my fiance was traveling with my dresses for the weekend, including the Wedding Day, i didnt feel comfortable to even wear the dresses, im not even taking them out of the garments bag, Im planning on returning all the dresse & get new attire, even for Saturday the 20th, Im just going buy a nice evening gown. It's hard trying to get vendors on short notice and we just didn't want to pay for that expense all over again, so on the 20th, we're going to Meet, Greet, Eat Dinner, Dance its called, Good Music, Good Drinks, Good Food, Good People, and just enjoy the company of those we felt genuinely wanted to be part of our special day, yes our families and a few friends & Yes, our Big Day is coming! But we definitely decided not to have our big day in New Orleans, Louisiana we had to reevaluate our guest list, after everything that happened, our relationship only got stronger, we became more solid, we are excited about the days to come.
"When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible. "
"The perfect couple grows together, laughs together, and faces life's challenges together. "
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