In today’s episode of Make Love To You: The Podcast, Darnell Davis pulls the curtain back on one of the biggest myths we were ever sold: the idea that we can’t heal until someone explains why they hurt us. Spoiler alert? Closure is a scam — and Darnell is here to break it all the way down.
If you’ve ever sat by your phone waiting for an apology that never came, or rehearsed speeches in your head for conversations that never happened, this episode is the reality check you didn’t even know you needed. Darnell dives deep into the hard truth: most of the time, when we say we want closure, what we really want is one more chance to be chosen — one more hit of a toxic situation dressed up as “clarity.”
Through raw honesty, hilarious metaphors (yes, we’re talking about fires showing up with flowers), and powerful emotional insight, Darnell reminds us that healing isn’t about getting answers from broken people — it’s about giving ourselves the love we were waiting for.
This episode isn’t just about letting go — it’s about taking your power back. About closing the door yourself, without waiting for someone else to hand you the key.
If you’re ready to stop bleeding over people who wouldn’t even bring you a Band-Aid, if you’re tired of revisiting the wreckage hoping it looks different, if you’re ready to be your own closure — this is your moment.
Get ready for laughs, some hard truth, and a whole lot of self-love.
