In this emotionally raw and revealing episode of Make Love To You, Darnell Davis dives deep into the early conditioning that shapes so many of our codependent patterns. From childhood roles that rewarded self-sacrifice to the unspoken belief that love must be earned through usefulness, Episode 45 unpacks how our earliest relationships can teach us to abandon ourselves in order to feel safe, wanted, or worthy.
Darnell reflects on his own story—being the oldest sibling, stepping into a caretaker role at a young age, and equating love with responsibility. But this isn’t just personal. This is a conversation for everyone who’s ever felt guilty for having needs, or confused service with self-worth.Through powerful insights and poignant storytelling, this episode challenges the listener to rethink what love is supposed to feel like—and asks an important question:What if you were never meant to earn love by being needed? What if you are worthy just because you are?Part of our 7-part series on codependency and loneliness, Episode 45 is an invitation to reclaim your identity, release the performance, and remember your inherent value—outside of what you can do for others.Listen now and follow the Make Love To You podcast so you never miss an episode.
