Reality Check My Life | Bonus Snack | E69: The Difference Between Depth and IdentitySome people live their depth — forged through trauma,initiation, shadow work, and self-resurrection.
Others adopt an identity — a curated mask made of aesthetic spirituality andborrowed language.They are not the same.In this Bonus Snack, we explore:
- What “depth” actually is (and why so few people have it)
- The difference between lived experience and adopted identity
- How depth shapes your nervous system, intuition, andworldview
- Why shallow identities imitate deep people
- Why people can copy your language but never your resonance
- The emotional cost of being a depth-holder in a surfaceworld
- How to stop expecting reciprocity from people who have notlived what you’ve lived
If you’ve ever felt copied, minimized, flattened, ormisunderstood — this episode names exactly why.
Your depth was earned.
Their identity was assembled.
