Stop Trying to Fix Me
Sometimes the Pause Is the MedicineSome people can't help themselves — they hear pain and immediately reach for a fix.
But here’s the truth:Not everything broken needs a solution.
Some things just need to be witnessed.In this episode, Gin serves up a fierce reminder for the fixers, helpers, and compulsive advice-givers of the world — and a holy invitation for the rest of us to reclaim the sacred art of presence.You’ll hear:
- Why offering advice too soon can feel like abandonment
- How rushing to fix can actually rupture trust
- What it means to hold space without needing to control the outcome
- And why the most powerful healing often happens in the pause
If you've ever felt unseen because someone couldn’t sit in silence with your pain —
or if you’ve been the fixer trying to rescue instead of relate —
this one will land like a sacred mirror.Sometimes silence is the salve.
Sometimes not fixing is the most loving thing we can do.
Because presence is medicine — and it doesn’t always come with a to-do list.If you feel called to support us, please visit: https://gofund.me/6d4edfe8
