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Tony shares his thoughts on how to think better about how you think. You think the thoughts you do because you're the only version of you ever to walk the planet...so you think thoughts and feel feelings because, well, you do! You also need to stop telling yourself to stop thinking...don't think about a green giraffe wearing yellow rain boots right now! And finally, he reveals why it can be detrimental to believe that when you think A, you just need to think B.

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Hey, everybody. Welcome to episode 340 of the Virtual Couch. I'm your host, Tony Overbay. I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist, and I am going to speed through the business side of this podcast and get right to the topic because I'm kind of excited just to go on a little bit of a ramble today. I was going to call it a rant, but it's not a rant. It has a negative connotation and this is just something I'm really fascinated by of what we do with thoughts and some of the things that I think that we do that are maybe not the most helpful when it comes to dealing with the thoughts that we have because we have so many thoughts all day long. So from a business standpoint, I would love if you would go to the show notes and last week I had Monica Tanner on and we talked about [00:01:00] a summit called Secrets of Happily Ever After, where there's me, there's Jennifer Finlayson Fife, there's about 30 other marriage therapists and coaches, and we are providing a lot of information and it is free and go to the link that is in my go to the link that's in the show notes are on my Instagram at Virtual Couch or on Facebook at Tony Overbay, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and just click on that link and you can sign up and get all of this wonderful data and information free and go to Tony over Macomb Workshop.

[00:01:31] There's a $19 an hour and a half marriage workshop that I am very happy with. I was going to say, very proud of, and for some reason that sounded very arrogant. But I'm going to stand in that healthy ego and say that I really do feel like there's a lot of good information there, and if you don't like the information, just shoot me a note and I'll refund that $19. And if you are interested in doing some couples coaching and it is completely anonymous, then you can reach out to info at Tony over Macomb and start to look at being on my Magnetic Marriage podcast, [00:02:00] which is going to be a paid subscription based podcast, which will be well under the cost of one therapy session for a full year's access. There are a lot of episodes I've already recorded and it is just going to be a phenomenal thing th...