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Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 72 - Strategically Presenting Your SidePresenting your side clearly and effectively can change everything—whether you’re sitting in a mediation or standing in front of a judge. This episode breaks down how to tailor your message to the setting, avoid common pitfalls, and stay focused on what actually moves the needle. If you’re a self-represented party or just want to communicate smarter, this is for you. Strategy isn’t about being slick—it’s about being clear.--Newsletter: https://mymm.substack.com/Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyour...2025-07-2329 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 71 - Navigating Difficult ConversationsDifficult conversations are hard enough—but when legal issues, co-parenting, or emotional history are involved, they can feel impossible. In this episode, I share practical strategies for staying grounded, focused, and effective during high-stress discussions—whether you’re in a mediation session or just trying to keep things civil. Learn how to manage emotions, communicate clearly, and use tools like caucusing and note-taking to your advantage. Mediation doesn’t have to feel like a minefield.--Newsletter: https://mymm.substack.com/Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook...2025-07-0922 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 70 - All About DiscoveryUnlock the essentials of discovery in Arizona family law! In this episode, I break down the rules, tools, and strategies every self-represented party should know—whether you’re in court or seeking alternatives like mediation. Learn what to expect, how to stay organized, and how discovery can empower your legal journey.--Links MentionedRule 51. General Provisions Governing Discovery - https://govt.westlaw.com/azrules/Document/N59F257A0EA1211EF91B1D2A5E36369C6?viewType=FullText&originationContext=documenttoc&transitionType=CategoryPageItem&contextData=(sc.Default)Rule 52. Subpoena - https://govt.westlaw.com...2025-06-2536 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 69 - All about DisclosuresIn this episode, I break down Rule 49—the key disclosure rule in family law cases—and explain what you need to share, when, and why it matters. Whether you're headed to court or working things out in mediation, understanding these requirements helps you stay prepared and avoid costly mistakes. I also share how I use these court standards as a roadmap in mediation to keep things moving smoothly. If you’re in a family case, this is a must-listen.--Links MentionedRule 49. Disclosure - https://govt.westlaw.com/azrules/Document/N933C1C80997...2025-06-1122 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 68 - New and Improved ServicesIn this enlightening episode, we explore innovative legal support services designed to empower individuals navigating family law matters independently. I chat my new comprehensive suite of coaching services, which provide flexible, cost-effective solutions for those seeking professional guidance while maintaining control of their cases. Additionally, I share a powerful story leading to recent improvements to my mediation process, highlighting my commitment to safety and client well-being through enhanced screening procedures.--Newsletter: https://mymm.substack.com/Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/...2025-05-2120 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 67 - Silent DivorceDiscover the hidden dynamics of "silent divorce"—where couples remain legally married but emotionally disconnected. This episode explores the subtle signs of emotional separation, from communication breakdown to parallel lives, and examines why couples often stay in these situations. Learn about the impact on family members and practical steps toward either resolution or conscious uncoupling.--Newsletter: https://mymm.substack.com/Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation--CreditsIntro an...2025-05-0712 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 66 - Step-Parent RightsIn this episode, we explore the complex world of step-parent rights in Arizona, from the initial challenges of blending families to the legal options available for establishing parental rights. I break down the requirements for stepparent adoption and "in loco parentis" status, while offering practical advice for navigating these important family relationships. Whether you're a step-parent seeking legal rights or just beginning your journey in a blended family, this episode provides essential insights into building successful family dynamics while understanding your legal position.--Newsletter: https://mymm.substack.com/Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.com2025-04-2314 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 65 - Prenups for 2nd+ MarriagesWe’re wrapping up our prenup mini-series today! Tune in to learn all about the differences to consider when seeking a prenup for a second or subsequent marriage.--Newsletter: https://mymm.substack.com/Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity...2025-04-0921 min
Divorce, Dating & Empowered Living ShowThe Power of Mediation in Your Divorce with Abbie GodlesMediation-focused Attorney Abbie Godles shares insights about the value of using mediation, instead of litigation, to save money, reduce stress and better protect your children during and after divorce.Rosalind Sedacca, CDC is a Divorce & Co-Parenting Coach and founder of the Child-Centered Divorce Network for parents. Her ebook provides an innovative and effective way to break the tough divorce news to children that supports everyone in the family.Contact Rosalind at: www.childcentereddivorce.com/letstalkNEW Streaming Network.com home of WGSN-DB Going Solo Network, Radio, TV & Podcasts - #1 Internet Talk Network www.goingsolomedia.com2025-04-0426 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 64 - Prenup Considerations for Same-Sex CouplesAs we continue our prenup mini-series, we’re getting into LGBTQ+-specific considerations. Beyond the basics that apply to all prenuptial agreements, learn how they can provide opportunities for LGBTQ+ couples to overcome challenges unique to this community.--Newsletter: https://mymm.substack.com/Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Softwa...2025-03-1917 min
Going Solo with Cece ShatzPost Divorce - Modifications & Enforcement with Abbie GodlesWelcome to 'Going Solo Life After Relationship Loss,' the show where resilience and empowerment take center stage. Today, we have a special guest joining us to shed light on navigating the legal aftermath of divorce. Abbie Godles, Attorney and Mediator from Mind Your Manners Mediation, brings her expertise to the table as we discuss 'Post Divorce - Modifications & Enforcement.' Alongside our compassionate host, Cece Shatz, the doyenne of relationships, we'll explore the complexities of post-divorce legal matters and empower you with insights to navigate this challenging terrain. Let's embark on this journey of legal empowerment and self-discovery on...2025-03-1844 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 63 - Prenup Considerations for Business OwnersWe’re continuing to delve into more nuanced prenuptial agreement topics. In this episode, we’re chatting the importance of prenups for business owners. Tune in now to learn the specific considerations to keep in mind and common provisions to include.--Newsletter: https://mymm.substack.com/Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecordin...2025-03-0518 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 62 - Prenups and The Younger Gens: A New PerspectiveWe’ve discussed prenuptial agreement in previous episodes, including general details on AZ prenups, considering mediation over traditional negotiations, and how to bring up the topic with your fiancé(e). Today, we’re going further and chatting how Millennials and Gen Z are taking a new perspective on prenups. Listen now to hear why the prenup is making a comeback with the younger generations!--Links MentionedEp. 26 - Legal Fundamental - Prenuptial Agreement BasicsEp. 27 - Mediation Fundamental - Mediating Prenuptial AgreementsEp. 53 - How to Discuss Prenups with...2025-02-1925 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 61 - Determining Which Professionals to UseWe’ve discussed which professionals can help with divorce, and also covered why it’s so important to consider consulting with them. Today, we’re taking this topic in a new direction! Tune in now to get my two cents on “just because you can use them, should you?”--Previous Episodes MentionedEp. 13 - Professionals Who Help with DivorceEp. 44 - Importance of Consulting Relevant Professionals--Newsletter: https://mymm.substack.com/Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.c...2025-02-0548 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 60 - The Role of Religion and Culture in Divorce MediationOur world generally, and the US specifically, is more diverse than ever. Litigation constrains these beautiful differences whereas mediation offers them the chance to shine! Listen now to gain insight on the importance of considering religion in culture in how you approach you divorce or custody matter.--Newsletter: https://mymm.substack.com/Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available unde...2025-01-2922 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 59 - Legal Fundamental - Grandparents’ Visitation RightsToday we’re covering a less-common topic: grandparents’ rights. Listen now to learn about grandparents’ visitation and custody rights in Arizona generally before covering what you need to know about visitation rights specifically.--Links MentionedA.R.S. § 25-409. Third party rights - https://www.azleg.gov/viewdocument/?docName=https://www.azleg.gov/ars/25/00409.htm--Newsletter: https://mymm.substack.com/Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation--2025-01-1544 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 58 - The Importance of Setting Boundaries Post-DivorceSetting and maintaining boundaries with your ex is a must at all times, and only more so during the holiday season. Tune in now to find out why boundaries are a must, which boundaries to consider, and how to successfully implement them.--Newsletter: https://mymm.substack.com/Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRe...2024-12-1127 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 57 - Maintaining a Positive Relationship with Your ExConsidering a positive relationship with your ex can be anywhere from daunting to downright disaster. But finding a way to an amicable relationship is a must, especially if you share kids or maintain mutual business connections. Listen now to get the inside scoop on why this is so important for life and legal contexts, and learn valuable tips to succeed with this goal.--Newsletter: https://mymm.substack.com/Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation...2024-11-2716 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 56 - Prioritizing Kids’ Well-BeingAs we approach the holiday season and new year, our focus shifts to the children affected by divorce or separation. Prioritizing their well-being during this time is crucial. Today's episode highlights the importance of this approach and explores effective ways to address children's needs throughout and beyond this transitional period.--Links MentionedEp. 23 - Talking to Your Kids About Divorce or Separation - https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-23-talking-to-your-kids-about-e39Ep. 24 - Helping Your Kids Adjust to Divorce or Separation - https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-24-helping-your-kids-adjust-to-da3...2024-11-1330 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 55 - How Child Abuse Impacts CustodyAs we wrap up Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we’re discussing another relevant and incredibly important topic—child abuse. In this episode, we’re examining what child abuse is under Arizona law and how it can impact your custody case. Listen now to learn all the need-to-know details!--Links MentionedA.R.S. § 8-201. Definitions - https://www.azleg.gov/viewdocument/?docName=https://www.azleg.gov/ars/8/00201.htmA.R.S. § 25-403.03. Domestic violence and child abuse - https://www.azleg.gov/viewdocument/?docName=https://www.azleg.gov/ars/25/00403-03.htm2024-10-2314 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 54 - Safety PlansAs we get further into Domestic Violence Awareness Month, I’m speaking on a very important on-theme topic: safety plans. What is a safety plan, who needs one, and how do you develop one? If you or a loved one is facing domestic violence, this is a must-listen episode!--Links MentionedEp. 7 - Legal Fundamental - Orders of Protection - https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-7-legal-fundamental-orders-of-c62Arizona Coalition to End Sexual and Domestic Violence - https://arizonasurvivors.org/safety-planning/AZPOINT -https://azpoint.azcourts.gov/...2024-10-0913 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 53 - How to Discuss Prenups with Your Fiancé(e)We’ve covered the basics of prenuptial agreements without going over how to discuss this sensitive, important topic with your partner in the first place! Tune in to finally learn how to chat prenups with grace and confidence so you and your fiancé(e) can soar into secure wedded bliss.--Previous Episodes MentionedEp. 26 - Legal Fundamental - Prenuptial Agreement Basics - https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-26-legal-fundamental-prenuptial-370?r=3qhi9gEp. 27 - Mediation Fundamental - Mediating Prenuptial Agreements - https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-27-mediation-fundamental-mediating-c74?r=3qhi9g2024-09-2516 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 52 - The Importance of Confidentiality in MediationWhile we’ve discussed generally that mediation is a confidential process, we haven’t explored the full impact of confidentiality in reaching agreements. In this episode, we’re chatting why confidentiality is such an important aspect of mediation and how it helps set you up for success.--Links Mentioned§12-2238. Mediation; privileged communications; exceptions; liability; definitions - https://www.azleg.gov/viewdocument/?docName=https://www.azleg.gov/ars/12/02238.htmRule 67.3. Private Mediation - https://govt.westlaw.com/azrules/Document/N75F90990D90111E8BA5DD26C9DC5154F?viewType=FullText&originat...2024-09-1118 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 51 - The Pros and Cons of Online MediationAlthough online mediations were taking place pre-pandemic, the pandemic ensured it was here to stay. And while it’s amazing that technology allowed us to pivot when the world was shut down, now that the world’s back in action, what are the true pros and cons of virtual mediation? Listen now to learn what to consider when exploring online versus in-person mediation.--Newsletter: https://mymm.substack.com/Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation--...2024-08-2121 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 50 - Grieving Your Lost RelationshipFacing the loss of your divorce or breakup is difficult no matter what. This is true regardless of which route you choose for divorce or custody proceedings or where in that process you are. Listen now to learn what the 5 stages of grief may look like during divorce and hear tips on coping with the end of your relationship.--Newsletter: https://mymm.substack.com/Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation--Cred...2024-08-0734 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 49 - Community ResourcesLife is expensive in 2024 and legal costs are no exception. If you’re facing difficulty accessing needed resources due to finances, today’s episode is for you! We discuss several organizations that offer free or reduced cost services to help you with your family law matter.--Links MentionedCommunity Legal Services - https://clsaz.org/DCSS - https://des.az.gov/dcssFamily Lawyers Assistance Project - https://clsaz.org/flap/Lawyer Referral Service - https://maricopabar.org/?pg=LRSHomeMilitary Legal Assistance Project / Mode...2024-07-3127 min
The Self-Intimacy JourneyDivorce Differently - Choose Mediation with Abbie GodlesJoin host Charlene, the Intimacy Maven, and special guest Abbie Godles, Divorce Lawyer and Mediator, in a new episode of The Self-Intimacy Journey. This eye-opening discussion explores why you should consider divorce mediation over litigation.We provide a comprehensive map to this peaceful approach, highlighting its benefits for your well-being, finances, and children. Learn how mediation can help you close this chapter of your life amicably, allowing you to heal and step into your new season feeling fresh and renewed.Listen up!If this episode blessed you, please consider subscribing, leaving...2024-07-241h 06
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 48 - Meet Amanda LaRussa, Loan OfficerToday we’re chatting with guest, mortgage loan officer Amanda LaRussa. Listen now to hear Amanda’s expert advice on approaching your mortgage needs during your divorce.--Where to Find Today’s GuestAmanda LaRussaPhone: 480-440-0107Email: amanda.larussa@edgehomefinance.comWebsite: https://linktr.ee/amanda.larussa--Newsletter: https://mymm.substack.com/Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation--C...2024-07-1730 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 47 - Other Ways Family Mediation Can HelpDid you know mediation can benefit your family beyond your main divorce or custody proceeding? Listen now to learn when else you may consider using family mediation.--Newsletter: https://mymm.substack.com/Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a regist...2024-07-0324 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 46 - Meet Tina Huggins, CDCToday we’re chatting with guest, divorce coach Tina Huggins. Listen now to hear Tina’s expert advice on approaching your coaching needs during your family law proceedings.--Where to Find Today’s GuestTina HugginsWebsite: www.divorcecoachspecialist.comPhone: 719-580-6684Email: coachtinalynn@gmail.comPodcast: Awakening Show with Tina Lynn & Joe Huggins on the WGSN-DB Going Solo Network--Newsletter: https://mymm.substack.com/Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebo...2024-06-1929 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 45 - When Coming Out Leads to DivorceIf you or your partner have recently come out (sexuality or gender), how do you navigate this added layer of an already emotional and challenging time? Today, we’re covering how to handle any potential reconciliation, considerations when informing your kids, and whether the main process will look any different.--Previous Episode MentionedEp. 23 - Talking to Your Kids About Divorce or SeparationEp. 28 - Navigating LGBTQ+ Issues--Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/Linke...2024-06-0525 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 44 - Importance of Consulting Relevant ProfessionalsWe’ve previously discussed which other professionals you should consider consulting during your divorce or custody matter. Today, we’re diving even deeper and getting into why it’s vital to actually consult applicable professionals.--Previous Episode MentionedEp. 13 - Professionals Who Help with Divorce--Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay Licens...2024-05-2926 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 43 - Considerations in a Gray DivorceIn today’s episode, we’re covering specific considerations for gray divorces. Tune in to learn what a gray divorce is, which considerations are more important than in other divorce scenarios, and get tips on how to approach a gray divorce with your eyes wide open.--Newsletter: https://mymm.substack.com/Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay...2024-05-1529 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 42 - Parallel ParentingToday we’re chatting parallel parenting as an option for high-conflict cases. If you and your (soon-to-be) co-parent are experiencing a failure to communicate, tune in to find out if this parenting plan is the answer you’ve been seeking.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourma...2024-05-0126 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 41 - Pet CustodyThis episode is for all the pet parents who are curious about how our furry friends get considered during divorce proceedings. Listen now to learn all the important details about our beloved fur babies in the context of divorce!--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourma...2024-04-1718 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 40 - Putative Father RegistryPicking up where the last episode left off, today we’re chatting the Putative Father Registry. Whether you’re a potential dad or soon-to-be mom, listen now to learn the key things to know about the registry.--Links Mentionedhttps://www.azdhs.gov/documents/licensing/vital-records/correction-paternity-claim.pdf--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Websit...2024-04-0321 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 39 - Father’s RightsIn previous episodes, we’ve spoken about Arizona law being gender neutral and not favoring either parent based on gender. While that remains true, we haven’t approached a custody chat from a father’s perspective. Today’s episode changes that and focuses on ensuring fathers (and potential fathers) know their rights.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegals...2024-03-2720 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 38 - Co-Parenting AppsToday’s episode covers everything you should know about co-parenting apps. Whether you’ve been curious to know more or this is the first you’re hearing about these apps, tune in now to learn the 5 W’s and H of it all!--Links MentionedAppClose - https://appclose.com/Co-Parent Hub - https://www.coparenthub.comDivvito - https://divvito.com/OurFamilyWizard - https://www.ourfamilywizard.com/ProperComm - https://www.propercomm.com/TalkingParents - https://talkingparents.com/home--2024-03-1322 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 37 - Accountability & Enforcement CourtLast episode, we delved into what to do if your ex isn’t following your court orders. This episode, we’re going even deeper and exploring the Accountability & Enforcement Court for close oversight of chronic non-payors of child support and/or spousal maintenance.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www...2024-02-2121 min
Divorce Coalition LiveMediating Couples When Domestic Violence Is An Issue with Abbie GodlesWith 1 and 3 women experiencing domestic abuse, the situation is catastrophic. So what can we do here? Share the knowledge, break the chains, and reach out to help another. Today our guest is Abbie Godles, an Attorney and Mediator who’s going to talk with me about Mediating couples when DV is an issue Abbie Godles walks through whether families with a history of domestic violence should pursue mediation and, if so, how to succeed in it.She chats about the importance of working with professionals who identify domestic violence through screening, discusses the importance of analyzing the specific hi...2024-02-1433 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 36 - Legal Fundamental - Enforcement of Court OrdersIf you’re frustrated by your ex’s refusal to abide the court orders, this episode is for you! Today’s episode is all about how to get the court’s help enforcing current orders that aren’t being followed accurately—or worse—at all.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.face...2024-02-0718 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 35 - Cohabitation AgreementsWhat do you do if you’re looking for the protections of a prenup but have no wedding plans on the horizon or perhaps no intention to marry at all? In today’s episode, I’m covering how you and your partner can secure your respective rights independent of choosing the traditional marriage path.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: ww...2024-01-3122 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 34 - Post-Divorce ConsiderationsAfter your divorce has been granted, is that it? Are you good to just move on? Not necessarily! This episode covers all the considerations that come after the judge has signed on the dotted line.--Links Mentionedhttps://www.azleg.gov/viewdocument/?docName=https://www.azleg.gov/ars/14/02804.htm--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--2024-01-1722 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 33 - Legal Fundamental - Default ProceedingsWhat happens if you open a case for your divorce or custody matter and your ex doesn’t respond? Are you stuck married and/or without a formalized custody arrangement? Fear not! In this episode, we’re covering everything you need to know about what happens if you find yourself in this scenario.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: w...2024-01-0712 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 32 - Equitable vs. Unfair AgreementsThis episode covers an important update on the standard used to approve agreements reached outside of court. Tune in to learn about the recent case that clarified the unfair versus equitable standards used within family court.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/LinkedIn: www.lin...2024-01-0716 min
Mind Your P's and Q's2023 End-of-Year UpdateTune in for this brief update episode where I address why there were no new episodes released in November. You’ll also find out a little about what to expect from the podcast going forward.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/compan...2023-12-1812 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 31 - DV Doesn’t Automatically Preclude Alts to LitigationIf you’re facing a divorce or custody matter with a history of domestic violence, you may assume you’re automatically precluded from pursuing an alternative to litigation. In today’s episode, I’m breaking down why that assumption isn’t true and shedding light on key considerations when deciding whether an alt may be a viable option in your case.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trad...2023-12-1828 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 30 - Mistakes to Avoid in Family CasesIf you’re facing a divorce or custody matter, you’re likely to make mistakes if you plow ahead blindly—and that’s to be expected! So, whether choosing to litigate, mediate, or seek some other alternative to litigation, listen to this episode to get ahead of the top mistakes to avoid.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegalsol...2023-10-1122 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 29 - Legal Fundamental - NEW Spousal Maintenance CalculatorThe updated spousal maintenance guidelines and BRAND NEW spousal maintenance calculator are here! Tune in now to learn about the changes, including their effective date, and where to find the guidelines and calculator for yourself.--Links MentionedSpousal Maintenance Calculator - https://www.superiorcourt.maricopa.gov/app/selfsuffcalc/Spousal Maintenance Guidelines - https://www.azcourts.gov/Portals/22/2023-119_1.pdf--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021...2023-09-2732 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 28 - Navigating LGBTQ+ IssuesIf you and/or your spouse identify as LGBTQ+, you may be curious if/how your divorce or custody matter will differ from a heterosexual one, in terms of both process and specific issues. Tune in now to learn all about navigating an LGBTQ+ divorce or custody matter in Arizona.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.com2023-09-1326 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 27 - Mediation Fundamental - Mediating Prenuptial AgreementsDid you know you can mediate your prenup? Consider this healthy alternative to reduce or remove the stress and tension that can be involved when using the traditional process. In this episode, find out all the details you need to know about mediating your prenuptial agreement, including the benefits and what the general process entails.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--We...2023-08-2324 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 26 - Legal Fundamental - Prenuptial Agreement BasicsToday, we’re talking all things prenup! Learn exactly what a prenuptial agreement is, who should get one and why, what agreements can be included, and how to actually get one. We’ll also cover amending or revoking your prenup and enforceability of it during your divorce or legal separation.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comIns...2023-08-0921 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 25 - Signs Mediation Won’t Work for YouMediation is a powerful tool that can help couples avoid litigating their divorce or custody matter. Nonetheless, not all cases are well suited for this alternative. Tune in now to find out when it may be best to skip mediation and go straight to court, including discussion on whether mediation may be successful at helping you work through limited issues at any point.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audaci...2023-07-1923 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 24 - Helping Your Kids Adjust to Divorce or SeparationOnce you tell your children about your divorce or break-up, they’ll need to start adjusting. Listen now to find out how you can help your kids best adjust to your separation and their new normal!--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/LinkedIn: www.linke...2023-07-0523 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 23 - Talking to Your Kids About Divorce or SeparationSo, you’ve decided to divorce or break-up and now you have to tell the kids. If you’re currently dreading this talk or are simply unsure the best way to approach it, tune in now! Today’s episode goes over all you need to know to best prepare for and have the discussion as well as be ready to respond to your kids’ questions and concerns.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team...2023-06-2115 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 22 - Nesting Co-ParentingHave you heard about nesting co-parenting or are you already considering whether it’s the right plan for you? Whether you know nothing or want to learn more, tune in now to discuss what nesting is, considerations in choosing it as your co-parenting plan, and terms you might include.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram...2023-06-0716 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 21 - Parenting Plans in Cases Involving Domestic ViolenceWe’re diving deeper into parenting plans in today’s episode! Curious what factors to consider when developing a parenting plan when there is a history of domestic violence? Listen now to hear best practices to follow and get your ideas flowing with some example provisions you might want to include.--Links MentionedMaricopa County’s Domestic Violence Program - https://superiorcourt.maricopa.gov/apd/domestic-violence/City of Kingman’s Domestic Violence Court - https://www.cityofkingman.gov/government/departments-i-z/municipal-court/domestic-violence-court--CreditsIntro an...2023-05-3116 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 20 - Common Parenting PlansIn this episode, we discuss crafting an appropriate parenting plan for your family. Tune in to learn overarching considerations for your parenting plan and hear some specific examples of common parenting schedules.--Links MentionedCourt Guide on Planning for Parenting Time - https://www.azcourts.gov/portals/31/parentingTime/PPWguidelines.pdf--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--2023-05-1732 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 19 - Coping with the Emotional Aspects of MediationEmotions run high during divorce and custody mediations and that’s perfectly normal! That said, how do you actually deal with emotions constructively? Tune into this episode to learn tips on coping with your emotions in family mediation.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/LinkedIn: www...2023-05-0319 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 18 - Mediation Fundamental - Tips for a Productive MediationAs you prepare to head into your mediation sessions, listen to today’s episode to learn tips for a productive mediation. By preparing for your mediation sessions and using the tips in this episode, you best ensure a successful mediation where full agreement on all issues is reached.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: ...2023-04-1924 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 17 - Mediation Fundamental - Preparing for MediationMoving along in the unofficial mediation fundamentals series, in this episode we’ll be discussing how to prepare for your mediation sessions. By preparing for your mediation sessions, you’ll start on the “right foot” and put yourself on the best path toward a successful mediation.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutions2023-04-0513 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 16 - Mediation Fundamental - Benefits of MediationNow that you’ve got a better idea of what mediation is, including styles of mediation for you to consider, now learn about the benefits mediation can offer as an alternative or supplement to litigation.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/compan...2023-03-2912 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 15 - Mediation Fundamental - Styles of MediationWhen choosing a mediator, it’s important to know which style(s) of mediation they use and whether that’s the best style for your situation. Listen now to learn all about the different mediation styles, including which one(s) may be most appropriate for your circumstances.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @mode...2023-03-1525 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 14 - Mediation Fundamental - What is Mediation?We’ve covered the legal fundamentals so now let’s chat mediation fundamentals starting with what mediation actually is and how it can help in your divorce or custody matter.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation This is a pu...2023-03-0115 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 13 - Professionals Who Help with DivorceDid you know lawyers are only the tip of the iceberg when it comes to professionals who help with divorce? In this episode, learn about other professionals to consider, from legal professionals to experts from related industries.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/LinkedIn: www.l...2023-02-1522 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 12 - Legal Fundamental - Legal Separation vs. DivorceIf you’re unsure of the differences between divorce and legal separation, this is the episode for you! We cover considerations for choosing between legal separation and divorce, discuss the requirements and process to get legally separated, and end on how to convert your legal separation into a divorce or terminate the legal separation entirely and restore your marriage.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark...2023-02-0115 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 11 - Legal Fundamental - Modifications of Spousal MaintenanceIf you’re considering modifying spousal maintenance, this episode covers how to determine whether you’re eligible to modify or terminate the ordered support and the court process for doing so.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediati...2023-01-2508 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 10 - Legal Fundamental - Modifications of Children’s IssuesAfter your initial parenting plan is put in place, how do you address any changes that may be needed? Whether you are looking to modify legal decision-making, parenting time, or child support, learn the requirements to request modifications and what the court must see to approve them.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: ...2023-01-1124 min
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Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 9 - Holiday Co-ParentingAs we head into the holiday season, we’re taking a slight detour from the fundamentals to chat co-parenting during holidays. Tune in to hear tips on navigating separate events and dealing with a first holiday without your kids to suggestions on combined events and more; we’re covering it all!--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegalsol...2022-11-2320 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 8 - Legal Fundamental - Spousal Maintenance BasicsLearn all about spousal maintenance (alimony) in this episode. We’ll cover first determining whether one spouse is eligible for any support, discuss figuring out the amount and duration if entitled, and chat other key details to keep in mind.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmanner...2022-11-0917 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 7 - Legal Fundamental - Orders of ProtectionFor our second Domestic Violence Awareness Month episode, we will be discussing Orders of Protection. You will learn the requirements to request an Order of Protection, the standard for the Court to grant it, and what relief can be ordered. We will also cover how to actually apply for an Order of Protection and what happens after an Order of Protection is granted.--Links MentionedDV Law Information and Resources - https://www.azcourts.gov/domesticviolencelawProtective Order Information and Resources - https://superiorcourt.maricopa.gov/llrc/protective-orders/...2022-10-1928 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 6 - Legal Fundamental - How DV Can Impact Your MatterIt’s Domestic Violence Awareness Month as we continue the unofficial fundamental series. Themed accordingly, this episode tackles how a history of domestic violence can impact your divorce or custody matter.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-media...2022-10-0523 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 5 - Legal Fundamental - Parenting Plan BasicsIn the last episode, we covered paternity and custody basics. This episode goes a step further and explains the required elements to be included in your parenting plan.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediation/LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/mind-your-manners-mediation This is a public...2022-09-2124 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 4 - Legal Fundamental - Paternity and Custody BasicsWhether you were ever married to your child(ren)’s other parent or not, get all the most important information on Arizona custody in this episode, including details on establishing paternity (if needed), legal decision-making, parenting time, and child support.-- Links MentionedChild Support Calculator - https://superiorcourt.maricopa.gov/llrc/child-support-calculator/--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity software is copyright 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity is a registered tradema...2022-09-0730 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 3 - Legal Fundamental - Divorce BasicsIn this episode, dive deeper into the Arizona divorce process. Learn about Arizona’s requirements to get divorced — from process requirements to requirements for your final agreements — and find out more on the steps involved in litigating your divorce.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebook.com/mindyourmannersmediati...2022-08-3131 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 2 - Legal Fundamental - Divorce and Custody ProcessHow do you seek a divorce or custody arrangement? While litigation is the most traditional method of getting a divorce or custody plan in place, that’s far from your only option in Arizona. In this episode, you’ll learn about all your process options in and out of court, including some pros and cons of each.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--...2022-08-1725 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sEp. 1 - Meet Host Abbie Godles, Esq.What better way to start a new podcast than to learn about the host? Find out the inside scoop on Abbie Godles, Esq. and her approach to family law by peeking into her background, education, and what drew her to family mediation.--CreditsIntro and Outro Music: “Motivational Day” by AudioCoffee, available under the Pixabay LicenseRecording and Editing Software: Audacity® software is copyright © 1999-2021 Audacity Team. The name Audacity® is a registered trademark.--Website: www.modernlegalsolutions.comInstagram: @modernlegalsolutionsFacebook: www.facebo...2022-08-0312 min
Mind Your P's and Q'sComing Soon - A Podcast All About Arizona Divorce and CustodyComing soon! Join attorney Abbie Godles for her new podcast, “Mind Your P’s and Q’s,” where she discusses important family law topics to help you navigate your Arizona divorce or custody matter. New episodes out odd Wednesdays at 10 am on all your favorite platforms. First episode releasing August 3, 2022. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit mymm.substack.com2022-07-0700 min