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Hold to TalkThe Husbands Come on the Podcast, living abroad, military life, kids, careers, the future ambitions, family, our relationships👱🏽‍♂️👱🏾‍♂️In this episode of the Hold to Talk podcast, we welcome our husbands, Ollie and Mike, to discuss their experiences living abroad, cultural shocks, and the unique challenges faced by veterans. The conversation flows through various themes, including sports culture in the US, funny misunderstandings, and the impact of military life on personal growth and family dynamics. The episode culminates in reflections on future aspirations and the importance of resilience in parenting.TakeawaysThe sports culture in the US fosters a sense of community.Living abroad offers unique experiences that shape personal preferences.Cultural misunderstandings can lead to humorous situations.Vete...
2025-09-3049 minHold to Talk"The True Cost of Moving Abroad" honest comparing prices, cost of living, moving a family, rental prices, food prices, deposits🤑 NEW EPISODES OUT EVERY TUESDAY - In this episode of the Hold To Talk podcast, we talk honestly about the financial realities of moving abroad. We share personal experiences of relocating to the United States and Portugal, discussing the unexpected costs and challenges they faced. From selling furniture and dealing with rental markets to the high costs of moving pets and the nuances of credit ratings, we cover it all. Listen in to hear their insights on managing expenses, the impact of cost of living on lifestyle choices, and the economic implications for loc...
2025-09-2340 minHold to Talk'Identity, Belonging, and I guess the Immigrant Question?' Immigrant vs Expat, Belonging, Feeling at home, Where is home, What are our identities now.In this episode of the Hold to Talk podcast, we go into how we feel about of living as immigrants in a new country. We explore the nuances of cultural adaptation, the feeling of belonging, and the challenges of maintaining our own identity while embracing new customs. Through personal anecdotes and candid discussions, we reveal the emotional journey of integrating into a new society and the ongoing quest for a sense of home. Join us as we navigate the delicate balance between holding onto their roots and embracing a new cultural identity.
2025-09-1640 minHold to Talk'Moving abroad Changed our Marriages' intimacy, gift giving, things we didnt expect, having a new mindset towards each other, becoming each others person💕 In this Episode we get real about how our relationships have shifted since moving abroad. From intimacy and gift-giving to figuring out who settled in first (and who’s still finding their groove), we talk about the ups, downs, and everything in between. It’s an honest convo about love, growth, and what it’s really like building a life together in a new place.
2025-09-0944 minHold to Talk'The Ones we Left Behind' Missing us, what it was like when we left, how did that feel and what feelings you have now vs then, Thoughts of our lives now, from there perspectiveIn this episode of the Hold To Talk podcast, we try something different, interviewing our family members, we welcome our niece Libby to introduce the episode. We then welcome our older sister and mum onto the podcast, to discuss how they feel about being the ones we left behind.The conversation flows from introductions to deeper discussions about maintaining relationships across distances, with lighthearted moments sprinkled throughout.
2025-09-0250 minHold to Talk'Homesick but Happy' Homesickness, loss of pets, aging parents, goodbyes, family dynamics, relationships, hosting, whatsapp groups, children's feelings, accents, languagesIn this heartfelt episode of Hold to Talk, we open up about the often unspoken side of expat life—homesickness. From the heartache of missing aging parents to the loss of a beloved family pet, we share honest stories about love, loss, and the bittersweet goodbyes that come with living far from home.The conversation dives into cultural differences, the role of technology in staying connected, and how distance reshapes relationships over time. With warmth and candor, we reflect on what it means to embrace change, honour family ties, and find strength in ne...
2025-08-2543 minHold to TalkWould you move abroad again? Would you move back? How we feel now we moved, was it what we thought, would we do it again, are we going to stay where we chose forever, would we do it all again?🌍 In this mini episode, we answer the big questions many expats and traveler's wrestle with: Would you move abroad again? And just as importantly, would you ever move back home? We reflect on the highs, lows, and lessons learned from living overseas, and explore what really shapes the decision to stay, return, or start fresh in a new country.
2025-08-2211 minHold to Talk'Making Friends as an Adult is Brutal' Adult friendships, social connections, making friends abroad, moving abroad, technology and friendships, friendship challenges, personal growth, social anxietyIn this episode of the Hold to Talk podcast, we delve into the complexities of making friends as adults, especially after relocating to a new country. We discuss the emotional challenges, the importance of deep connections, and how technology, like friendship apps, can aid in finding new friends. The conversation highlights personal experiences, cultural differences, and the evolving nature of friendships over time.Our TakeawaysMaking friends as an adult can be challenging, especially after moving to a new country.School and work environments provide natural opportunities for socialising that are often...
2025-08-1951 minHold to TalkDid we have any pre-conceived notions when we moved abroad good or bad? What did we think before, does it live up to our expectations, is it what we thought it would be, did we choose rightYou asked. We listened. Introducing our brand-new mini-series—where we dive into real questions from YOU, the Hold to Talk family. Our pilot? A standout from Stacy, who asked whether our initial impressions of life abroad were actually true. Ready for our honest take on preconceptions versus reality?Drop your burning questions in the comments—seriously, we can’t wait to answer them in upcoming episodes.Catch the full mini-episode now—follow, rate, and share to help us keep this going. And don’t forget: the next full episode drops Tuesday 19th!...
2025-08-1818 minHold to Talk'Culture Shock is Real' Celebrations, Mindsets, Service culture, Healthcare, Insurances, Education, School Safety, Gun culture, Reflections on UKNEW EPISODE OUT EVERY TUESDAY In this episode, we dive into the quirks and surprises of life in the USA and Portugal. From navigating driving rules and tipping customs to deciphering bureaucracy and social habits, we share our firsthand experiences. Plus, in our "Voice Notes from the Week" segment, we recount the moments that truly made us say, start this Podcast.Whether you're an expat, a dreamer, or just curious about life abroad, join us for a candid and humorous look at the highs and lows of cultural adaptation.
2025-08-1251 minHold to Talk'So, We Moved' Intro, Our Expat Journeys, Reasons for moving abroad, Cultural Adjustments, Family Dynamics, First Impressions, Loneliness, Emergencies, Parents ApprovalNEW EPISODE OUT EVERY TUESDAY Dive into the pilot of Hold to Talk—where sisters span geographies and cultures collide.In this inaugural episode, we introduce ourselves, explain why each of us moved to the USA and Portugal, and set the tone with our trademark blend of sister banter, honesty, and big emotions. From the initial culture shock and that one moment that had us gasping, to our first-week surprises and the “Would Mum & Dad Approve?” segment—where we laugh about early missteps that only family can forgive—this episode is all about grounding...
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