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The Ope Podcast79. The Ope Girls Reunion feat. NickiAbby has her previous co-host, Nicki, back on the podcast this week for a little reunion episode. The ladies breakdown what’s changed since the last time they recorded together. They discuss the movie, Babygirl, and how they loved the overall theme of the movie. Nicki and Abby deep dive their thoughts on the men in the movie, the shame that was depicted in it, and the overall sex positive message it portrayed. The girls talk a little pop culture and give their thoughts on the Blake Lively and Justin Baldoni scandal. The girls disagree on their takes. Abby ex...2025-02-121h 28The Ope Podcast78. She's Back feat. Jess
After taking a year off from the podcast, Abby is finally back to doing her favorite thing. Yap! She has her sister, Jessica, on the podcast this week to discuss their celebrity crushes. For anyone that doesn’t know, spoiler alert, Abby’s crush is Timothee Chalamet and Jess keeps hers a mystery. Abby tells the listeners what’s changed in her life since the last time she recorded from her relationship status, therapy, and hygiene. Abby provides some insight as to why she stopped recording podcast episodes and now why she’s finally bringing it back. Jess talks about he...2025-01-081h 07The Ope Podcast77. Darby Part 2This is part 2 of Abby's conversation with Darby. They discuss how "Ope" and ope sound different in their heads. The ladies deep dive The Walking Dead, binge worthy second watches like Buffy The Vampire Slayer, Veronica Mars, and Gilmore Girls. Abby has a theory on Saltburn. Darby closes the episode out with one of the funniest Ope Stories.
2024-04-0941 minThe Ope Podcast76. Darby Part 1Abby has Darby on the podcast this week - part 1 of their conversation. The ladies open the episode up by discussing the drama with Darby's almost released podcast. Abby makes a confession on the podcast that she's never opened up about publicly. They discuss being confident at work and how to ask your boss for a raise. Abby opens up about her midlife crisis and the girls deep dive their thoughts on being creative as a career. They reveal their age when discussing the social media platforms they had when they were in high school (myspace). They close the...2024-03-0556 minThe Ope Podcast75. Jose Ortiz Part 2Abby has Jose on the podcast again this week for part 2 of their interview. They open the episode by discussing how they've learned to treat people no matter what their status is. They discuss their upbringings and what it's taught them. Jose and Abby deep dive a few of their favorite comedian and podcasts that they listen to and random fact they've learned from them. Abby tells a story about how birth control affected who she's attracted to.
2024-01-101h 20The Ope Podcast74. Jose Ortiz Part 1Abby has Jose on the podcast this week (part 1). They open the episode up by discussing how they became friends. Abby thanks Jose for being a true platonic guy friend. The two deep dive how to not be creepy as a male friend to women and their thoughts on losing male friends after a woman gets into a relationship. They discuss parts of Jose's relationship. Jose and Abby open up about not wanting to parent the way their parents did. 2023-12-201h 21The Ope Podcast73. Omar Part 2Abby has Omar back on the podcast for part 2 of her interview with him. They ask each other several questions about their relationships. Abby opens up about the things she had to do to be ready for a healthy relationship with Omar. He deep dives his thoughts on her childhood trauma and gives advise on how to deal with being in a relationship with someone who has gone through childhood trauma. Omar reveals the ways Abby has impacted his life for the better. They both deep dive the toxic cycles they were in when they were single. Omar's "Ope...2023-11-2357 minThe Ope Podcast72. Omar Part 1Abby has her boyfriend, Omar, on the podcast for the very first time. She opens the episode up with a confession to the listeners. In part one, Abby asks Omar several very serious questions we've all been wonder. Omar answers the listener's questions regarding his trip to Egypt, his favorite thing about Abby, and how he feels loved. They deep dive when they first knew they were madly in love with each other. Stay tuned for part two where they reveal even more intimate details about their relationship.
2023-11-061h 06The Ope Podcast71. Lavendelle Part 2TW: Suicide / Ketamine
Abby finishes her interview with Lavendelle in part 2 of the podcast. The ladies get into more personal topics in this episode. Lavendelle opens up about her relationship, personal struggles with mental health, and how ketamine infusion therapy has positively impacted her life. The ladies play a rapid fire question and answer segment. They end the episode with an Ope Story that includes a wardrobe malfunction.
Resources discussed in the episode:
https://dancesafe.org/
Socials:
@lavendelleburlesque
@abbymccarville
@theopepod
2023-10-191h 05The Ope Podcast70. Lavendelle, The Purple Pillow PrincessAbby has Lavendelle, burlesque artist, also known as The Purple Princess on the podcast this week. She explains how she created Lavendelle and the difference between her two personas. The ladies discuss trusting your intuition and following your gut. Abby and Lavendelle deep dive social media including the amazing community that comes with it. In addition, they talk about the scary parts of the internet. The ladies wrap up the episode discussing Lavendelle's confidence on stage. 2023-10-051h 07The Ope Podcast69. Love Coma, For Better Or For Worse, & Calming Your Nervous SystemDespite this being the 69th episode, it has nothing to do with the position. Abby has Mads on the podcast again this week. The girls deep dive Abby’s love coma. She explains how she’s learning to trust that some people stick around. Maddie deep dives her thoughts on vowing to be with someone forever. The ladies discuss what it’s like to watch your partner to have a relationship with your parents.2023-09-181h 11The Ope Podcast68. Two Geminis Are Better Than One feat MaddieAbby has Maddie Gerrity on the podcast this week. Abby opens the pod by explaining how the girls became instant work besties several years ago. They discuss Maddie's confidence from a young age, their thoughts on bachelorette parties, and owing people money. Abby closes the episode with a story about being in the same room with Shaq.
2023-09-1143 minThe Ope Podcast67. Abby's Submission As Proof Of Undiagnosed ADDAbby discusses how her predictions came true and she got tickets for the 2nd US leg of the Eras Tour. She goes on a side rant about weird behavior on a Zoom call. Abby reveals how she truly feels at concerts. She gives an update on her gluten free journey. She deep dives the celebs that have responded to her DMs. Abby's Ope Story included a Morgan Wallen concerts and the drunkest fans alive.
2023-08-2837 minThe Ope Podcast66. And Suddenly, All Of The Love Songs Were About YouAbby goes solo on the podcast this week. She discusses how she was nervous opening up with her listeners about her love life. Abby opens up about how different it has been being in a relationship in her 30s vs her 20s. She explains how her attachment styles can change based on the beginning of the relationship. She explains the peace she's been experiencing from this relationship. She talks about her thoughts on her solo episodes and what she's trying to do moving forward with them. She closes the episode with why she thinks her relationship is worth it...2023-08-2141 minThe Ope Podcast65. Lover Era feat SaigeAbby has Saige on the podcast again this week for part 2 of her interview. The ladies open up the podcast by discussing Barbie and Oppenheimer. Saige is very interested in the marketing case studies that went into promoting the Barbie movie. Abby deep dives two TikTok dating scenarios that have captivated her; a nightmare dating app story and a high school crush. Abby has a BIG announcement for the listeners. Saige takes over the podcast and does the interviewing to let the listeners in on it! Saige closes out the episode with her Ope Story which includes a wedding...2023-08-0854 minThe Ope Podcast64. Speak Now, The Golden Bachelor, and Selena MysteryAbby has Saige on the podcast for the 300th time. The girls breakdown everything that's happened in Taylor Swift's world since the last time Saige came on the podcast. This includes discussing the Speak Now album and the Eras Tour. The ladies discuss The Golden Bachelor. They end the podcast discussing their confusion regarding Selena Gomez. Are they too old for her??
2023-07-3146 minThe Ope Podcast63. Social Media, Jonah Hill, and Leftover Taco Bell feat JessAbby has Jess on again this week. They open the episode up by discussing the Jonah Hill controversy. They discuss the reason behind posting on social media. Jessica tries to describe her type on the pod (again). The ladies deep dive what they would do if the "airplane lady" was on a flight they were on. Abby lets the listeners know how Jess has ruined Dark Romances for her. The girl's Ope Story includes a friend from Jess' past and Tacobell.
2023-07-2348 minThe Ope Podcast62. Good Girl Conditioning, Jury Duty, and Long Live feat Jess
Abby has Jess on the podcast this week. They discuss their thoughts on "good girl conditioning." As always, Abby talks about a new song from Speak Now (Taylor's Version) that she thinks Jess will relate to (Long Live). Abby deep dives Jury Duty.
2023-07-1745 minThe Ope Podcast61. Therapy, Grief, and Repressed Memories feat Madison EshelmanThis is part 2 of Abby's conversation with Madison. Abby opens up about her experience with therapy. Madison gives advise on the different types of therapy. The girls deep dive grief and where it lives in the Change Triangle. Madison deep dives how she has done inner child work. Abby reveals something new on the podcast. She explains how she's experienced repressed memories. Madison's Ope Story includes getting your period at the worst possible time. 2023-07-1053 minThe Ope Podcast60. Madison Eshelman Groundwork Coaching(TW: Suicide) Abby has Madison Eshelman on this week's episode of the pod. Madison is the founder of Groundwork Coaching, an emotional wellness coach. The episodes opens up with Madison telling the listeners how she became a wellness coach. She opens up about her life story; deconstructing religion, divorce, and the loss of her ex husband. She explains the importance of being seen and how that has lead her to do what she loves i.e. helping others. She explains how the Change Triangle changed her life and how we can use it to uncover and heal deep repressed...2023-07-031h 05The Ope Podcast59. In My Podcast EraAbby goes solo this week on the pod. She gives the listeners the key highlights from the Taylor Swift Eras Tour in Detroit night 1. She recaps how she felt during the show and if/when she cried. If Taylor isn't your thang, no worries, you can fast forward to around ~20ishhhh minutes. Abby goes off on a few tangents (classic) to end the episode. She explains why she's really proud of herself recently and gives a little life update. In contrast, she deep dives something that's been on her mind.
2023-06-261h 13The Ope Podcast58. Makeup Tips with Julie RubyAbby has Julie Ruby on again this week to talk all things makeup artist. Julie opens up the episode revealing her nightmare experience. She also tells the listeners why she loves doing this as a full time job. Abby asks Julie her honest opinion about a situation she's experienced while getting her makeup done. Abby asked her listeners what questions they had for Julie and they do a spitfire round of questions at the end of the episode. Julie's Ope Story includes a million dollar house and brownies.
2023-06-191h 10The Ope Podcast57. Julie Ruby FW Makeup ArtistAbby has Julie Ruby, a Fort Wayne makeup artist, on the pod this week. Abby apologizes for the sound quality in the first ~20 minutes of the podcast. There were some technical difficulties. Feel free to fast forward past the first segment if you hate the way it sounds. The ladies open up the episode by deep diving how Julie started doing makeup and her journey to making it into a business. Julie reveals to the listeners the behind the scenes of her financials with creating content.
2023-06-1257 minThe Ope Podcast56. Dating Advice, O's, and Confidence feat BrittAbby has Brittany on the episode again for part 2 of their conversation. Abby opens the episode up by asking Britt what she'd ask a past lover if they had an unfiltered conversation on a podcast. Britt tells the listeners how her and her fiancé got together. Abby opens up about her marriage pact. Britt gives Abby a little dating advice. The girls deep dive how they've gotten more confident with themselves and gives the listeners some tips. Britt's Ope Story includes a tiger and her ex boyfriend.2023-06-0559 minThe Ope Podcast55. Two Is Better Than One? Feat BrittAbby has one of her besties on the pod this week, Brittany Swartz. It's a very special birthday episode for the Gemini host of The Ope Podcast. The girls give an overview of how their friendship came to fruition. Britt has an extremely open conversation about her sexuality, and what it was like "coming out" while in a heterosexual relationship. Tune in to hear how she's explored her sexuality while in a committed relationship.
2023-05-311h 06The Ope Podcast54. Future Yachtie On Deck feat SarahAbby has Sarah on this episode. The girls open the episode by deep diving what happens if you fertilize your eggs with a partner and then split from said partner. Abby’s recent Bumble match has been sending her voice memos which leads Abby to making a confession on the pod. Sarah thinks Abby should drop all of her responsibilities and become a yachtie. Or a thottie… who knows? Abby reveals she gave a guy a metaphorical gift which resulted in him ditching their plans. Sarah gives Abby her opinion on metaphorical gift giving. The ladies deep dive their advice on h...2023-05-221h 09The Ope Podcast53. Happy One Year
Abby has Sarah on to celebrate one year of doing the podcast. Abby recaps where she started to where she's at now with the podcast. It all started as The Ope Girls Podcast with a co-host to now interviewing friends and exes as a solo podcaster. Abby has some very juicy confessions pertaining to her guests and reviews her thoughts on specific episodes.
2023-05-151h 12The Ope Podcast52. My Body Has Kept The ScoreAbby goes solo on today’s episode of the podcast. She reveals she has been on the struggle bus with her anxiety and talks about her experiences with depression. Abby talks about how loving Murphy has made her become the dog she was always supposed to be. She ends the episode with an example about how you truly never know what’s going on in someone’s life so stop blaming yourself for everything.2023-05-081h 03The Ope Podcast51. Didn’t Everyone Want To Be Famous? Feat. JessAbby has her sister, Jess, on the pod again this week. Abby opens up the episode about her embarrassing obsession with Bryce Hall. Jess reveals her influencer obsession as well. Jess tells the listeners about how she met her famous obsession in real life. Abby talks about how she might need to start paying her exes to come on the podcast. Abby reveals she has always wanted to be famous since she was little. The girls deep dive what this means for the podcast. Jess and Abby tell an Ope Story together which involves dating apps and matching with the...2023-05-011h 03The Ope Podcast50. Soulmates, 23 Year Olds, and Sex Swings feat JessAbby has her big sister, Jess, on the pod this week. They open the episode talking about their neighbors and the fake stories the create about them. Abby’s recommendation for the listeners turns into her realizing she may have watched the Spanish version of a movie. Abby gives her thoughts on the Taylor and Joe breakup. The girls deep dive the question, “If you knew with 100% certainty that you’d meet your person in one year. What would you do with your life in the meantime?” Abby contemplates inviting a 23 year old on the podcast. The girls deep dive if they...2023-04-2452 minThe Ope Podcast49. My Red Flags feat SaigeAbby has Saige on the pod for the 300th week. The girls open the episode up by talking about how they’d feel if they never find their “person.” They reveal their worst date and the worst thing a guy has ever done to them. The ladies deep dive the hardest lesson they’ve learned about love. They reveal their personal red flags. Saige and Abby get sentimental about what they’re proud of. Saige’s Ope Story includes the first day she got her pup and an animal trap.2023-04-1750 minThe Ope Podcast48. Five Dates No Kiss Guy feat. SaigeAbby has Saige on as her unofficial guest host for the 3rd week in a row. They start off the episode by addressing the internet controversy they caused from a previous episode. Abby has a little payback on Saige by doubling down on the this or that segment. Saige opens up about her first kiss. The girls are going to try to have a flirty girl summer, but they deep dive how awkward they actually are. Abby tells the listeners about all of the bad kissers she’s encountered and all of their nicknames.2023-04-1043 minThe Ope Podcast47. I Have To Create Or It Was All For Nothing feat SaigeAbby has Saige on the podcast again this week. They discuss the saying, “I have to create or it was all for nothing” and what that means to them. Abby gives the listeners an update on her dating life, and opens up about a conversation that triggered her. The girls discuss the thought of getting into a relationship and what they’ll miss most about single girl life. Find out what hypothetical question they sent to their friends and hear their crazy responses. Saige’s Ope Story includes multiple bras.2023-04-0338 minThe Ope Podcast46. Unhinged Text Messages, Video Game Guys, and Deleting Dating Apps feat SaigeAbby has Saige back on the podcast this week. The girls talk all things TikTok from the Eras tour, Chris Olson’s love life, and Kelsea Ballerini’s divorce. Saige and Abby give several recommendations to the listeners. Abby tells Saige about her experience going to a psychic. Saige asks Abby her version of the “this or that” questions which gets completely unhinged. Abby reads her embarrassing texts messages and reveals her favorite first date. The girls discuss what it’s been like for them since they deleted their dating apps.2023-03-271h 04The Ope Podcast45. Crying at Weddings, Dog Adoption, and Nair Gone Wrong Feat. JamiThis is part 2 of Abby’s interview with Jami. The girls finish their conversation about the wedding in Jamaica. They admit how much crying happened on the trip. Abby admits she’ll be a runaway bride if her future man doesn’t cry at their courthouse wedding. Abby tells the listeners about her amazing new pup, Murphy. Jami’s Ope Story includes a failed Nair attempt and even more epically failed cover up.2023-03-2036 minThe Ope Podcast44. Jamaica Jami Part 1Abby is joined by her new friend, Jami, to discuss all things Jamaica. Jami discusses her favorite things about the trip. Abby reveals a few confessions from the trip as well. Including but not limited to a sexy captain and threesomes.2023-03-1355 minThe Ope Podcast43. Phil’s Shameless Plugs Part 2This is the second half of Abby’s interview with Phil. He discusses his first time doing burlesque and how he felt after. Abby explains her thoughts on going to a burlesque class and how she likes to be sexy on her own terms. Abby and Phil discuss body positivity vs body neutrality. They discuss when they feel most like themselves. Phil confirms that no grown man wants to be just your friend. Phil’s Ope Story involves a crazy college night.2023-02-261h 00The Ope Podcast42. Confidence and Burlesque feat Phil Parkison Part 1Phil comes on the podcast to discuss his experience with burlesque. Phil opens up the episode by doing a little dance for Abby. He explains how he got into burlesque and what to expect from a burlesque class. Abby grills Phil about his nipple piercings. They discuss one thing they like about their personalities and one thing they like about their bodies. Phil discuss body positivity. Abby asks Phil about confidence and where it comes from. He gives advice on how to build confidence as well.2023-02-201h 06The Ope Podcast41. Sisterly Love feat Jess Part 2This is part two of Abby’s interview with her big sister, Jess. They open up the interview with Abby asking questions about herself. Jess gives a few sentimental answers. Find out what the listeners may not know about Abby, what annoyed Jess most about Abby growing up and what they miss most about living together. Jess’ Ope Story includes bad decisions and a night out with Abby.2023-02-131h 10The Ope Podcast40. Signs From The Universe feat Jess Part 1This is part 1 of Abby’s conversation with her big sister, Jess. Abby opens up the episode describing an embarrassing story about oil rubbing. Jess and Abby deep dive Abby’s depressive episode and her slip up with gluten. Jess describes her journey to becoming a believer in the universe’s signs and how she’s done some self discovery. The girls give examples of the signs the universe has sent them. Abby is a hopeless romantic and prematurely pictured her life with Mr. KCCO. The ladies end the episode by describing why they believe their childhood made them so open to...2023-02-061h 11The Ope Podcast39. The Ezekiel Ryan, TikTok Personality Part 1This is part 1 of Abby’s interview with The Ezekiel Ryan, TikTok personality. Ezekiel gives the listeners an overview of his thoughts on fitness influencers, his goals for YouTube, his journey to 90k TikTok followers, and the overall hustle it takes. Ezekiel and Abby discuss Snapchat and how it can be a huge red flag. Ezekiel opens up about losing friends once they get married. Abby admits she has researched vasectomies, and Ezekiel tells the listeners his thoughts on it. Abby makes an embarrassing confession about a comment she posted on his TikTok. Ezekiel describes the type of woman he se...2023-01-301h 37The Ope Podcast38. IVF, Motherhood, & Friendship Post Baby feat. Sarah Part 2This is part 2 of Abby’s interview with Sarah. Abby discusses how she thinks Sarah is a damn superhero when she got home from giving birth. Sarah opens up about how vulnerable she felt during that time and how her husband really supported her. Abby confesses Sarah scared her into celibacy. Sarah discusses her experience with IVF. Abby cries for the first time in podcast history when the girls talk about Sarah’s sweet baby boy. They deep dive how their friendship has changed now that Sarah is a mom. They also discuss single parents and stay at home moms. Sara...2023-01-231h 19The Ope PodcastBONUS LIL EP: 37. My Guests and Their ZodiacsFirst official BONUS mini episode of the podcast!! Sarah guesses all of Abby’s guests’ zodiac signs. Hear all of the tea, and their insights on each guest’s persona.2023-01-2016 minThe Ope Podcast36. This is 30 Years of Friendship feat Sarah Part 1This is part one of Abby’s interview with her childhood bestie, Sarah. Abby opens the episode up by telling Sarah about her wild night. Sarah gives the listeners an update on how she thinks the podcast is going so far and which guest host she wants Abby to marry. Abby gives an important PSA to her listeners. The girls come up with some great questions for future men Abby has dated. Sarah tells the listeners about her HS sweetheart and how they make it work all of these years later. Abby deep dives the best relationship advice Sarah has ev...2023-01-161h 05The Ope Podcast35. Sexting, Mansplaining, and Ghosting feat Tyler part 2This is part 2 of Abby’s interview with Tyler. He reveals what he thinks is the sexiest non-sexual thing about women. Tyler and Abby deep dive feminine energy vs masculine energy. Tyler admits he loves a strong independent woman who can change a tire. Abby asks him if he’d date a woman that makes more money than him. They nerd out on their retirement plans. Abby plays a mansplaining segment where she tells him her grievances and Tyler explains why men behaved a certain way. Tyler’s Ope story includes ghosting and sexting.2023-01-091h 03The Ope Podcast34. These Are My Confessions feat Tyler part 1This is part 1 of Abby’s interview with Tyler. They start out the episode discussing if they’re friends or acquaintances. Tyler reveals that he has made advances towards Abby, so he confirms they are in fact friends. Abby makes a few confessions to Tyler which include the first time they met and an event they both attended. Tyler gives the listeners a confusing answer to his relationship status. Abby deep dives her feelings about her ex boyfriend telling Tyler that she is off limits to him. He opens up about an unfiltered question he’d ask one of his exes.2023-01-021h 11The Ope Podcast33. My Mind is a Dangerous PlaceAbby opens up about her struggles during the holiday season. She spend her first day of Christmas break at home aka thinking which everyone knows is a dangerous place to be. Abby deeps dives her thoughts and feelings on this week’s episode. She opens up about how she’s not sure if there’s ever been a romantic partner that has taken the time to truly get to know the “real” her. Abby’s Ope Story involves licking and biting in public and almost getting arrested.2022-12-2638 minThe Ope Podcast32. I’d Rather Be a Betch Than Dead feat SaigeThis is part 2 of Abby’s conversation with Saige. Saige asks Abby how she feels about sharing locations with a partner. Abby reveals she’s been having a quarter life crisis and deep dives grievances she has with people in relationships. Saige reveals things she wants to remind people about single people. Saige’s Ope Story is about “Boring Guy” and him possibly overbearing an unfiltered conversation.2022-12-191h 03The Ope Podcast31. Who Inspired Your Fav Midnights Song? Feat SaigeSaige is back on the podcast this week. She talks about her thoughts on Abby’s interviews so far. Saige thinks Abby should go out on dates with all of these guys. The girls discuss what’s “off brand” about themselves. Abby’s answer may surprise the listeners. Saige and Abby discuss their experience buying tickets to the Eras Tour. They deep dive Taylor Swift’s Midnights album. The girls deep dive their favorite songs from the album and why they connect with each song. Abby spills some major tea about who her top two favorite songs are about.2022-12-1252 minThe Ope Podcast30. Did You Marry a Narcissist? Part 2 feat Ryan (hatfish)This is part 2 of Abby’s conversation with Ryan. He admits one thing he loved about being married and one thing he’ll miss about being single. Ryan opens up about what question he’d ask his ex. Hear the hilarious story which includes an online narcissist test. Find out if Abby and Ryan still love their exes and if Abby would get back with hers. Find out if men wash their booty. Ryan’s Ope Story includes a stalker and a police chase.2022-12-0540 minThe Ope Podcast29. Till Death Do Us Part feat. Ryan Hatfish (part 1)This is part 1 of Abby’s interview with Ryan aka hatfish. He tells Abby how he felt when he realized Abby told the story of their first date on the podcast (Ep. Tinder is Walmart. Bumble is Target). Ryan planned the perfect first date, but it allegedly wasn’t an original idea. He opens up about his marriage and how he feels about it now that it’s ended. Abby confesses an insecurity she had when they were discussing love languages. Ryan tries to convince Abby to change her mind about weddings. Find out why Ryan is a secret feminist.2022-11-2850 minThe Ope Podcast28. Do guys follow the guy code? Featuring Jason (not-dewey) Part 2This is part 2 of the interview with Jason. Abby asks Jason if he knew one of his BFF was in love with her. They deep dive their opinions on guy code and if it even exists. Jason asks Abby if she has a marriage pact with anyone. Jason explains the importance of communication styles. Abby tells a story about a guy that lead her on. Abby plays the this or that game with Jason. Jason’s Ope Story includes a poorly executed lap dance.2022-11-2159 minThe Ope Podcast27. Am I a Cougar? Featuring Jason (not-dewey) part 1Abby introduces her guest host, Jason. This is part 1 of the interview with him. Abby asks Jason how he felt about her after their first date and why he thinks we didn’t go on a second one. Abby realizes she may have been a cougar. Jason reveals his relationship status and if his DMs are open. Abby deep dives her FBI skills. Jason explains how he feels about splitting the bill on a first date. They discuss what are appropriate questions to ask on a first date.2022-11-1448 minThe Ope Podcast26. Winky Face featuring Joey (part 2)This is part 2 of Abby’s interview with Joey. They begin the episode with Joey giving the listeners a piece of dating advice. Abby and Joey discuss the importance of learning someone’s travel style. Abby asks Joey if men actually ~like~ women. They deep dive Joey’s thoughts on what’s more important to him: a high character woman or a woman that makes him feel good. He opens up about his experience with showing emotions and his favorite thing about being single. Does body count really matter to Joey and Abby? We play a this or that game - female...2022-11-071h 05The Ope Podcast25. It’s The Pheromones For Me featuring Joey (part 1)Abby gives the listeners an update from Saige’s Ope story. Her guest this week is Joey who slide into her DMs. This is part 1 of 2! Joey let’s the listeners know how they know each other and why they never went on a date. He deep dives what dating apps you can find him on and his favorite pickup line. He gives an overview of his current relationship status and what his “type” is. Hint: he describes Abby ;). They deep dive platonic friendships and his thoughts on unfiltered conversations with exes from the past. Joey and Abby express how they’ve...2022-10-311h 07The Ope Podcast24. Will You Accept Saige’s Rose? Part 2 featuring Saige (LOL)Abby starts the episode asking Saige for her best relationship advice and what she loves most about being single. Abby tells the listeners she can’t wait until she can be her ugliest self and watch 85 episodes of TWD with her future hypothetical man. We find out why Saige continues to push through and go on all the dates. Abby learns she needs to be more direct (WWSD). Tune in to find out Saige’s type and what she’s looking for. Saige’s Ope Story involves an awkward text message and just friends.2022-10-2439 minThe Ope Podcast23. Let Me Reintroduce Myself Part 1 featuring SaigeThis is part 1 of Abby introducing the new format of the podcast. Or at least her hopes and dreams for the pod! One of her girlfriends, Saige, guests hosts with her. They deep dive all of the important questions that need answered including the crazy/hot scale. Tune in next week to hear Saige’s Ope Story!2022-10-1746 min
The Ope PodcastThe Girls BreakupNicki and Abby recap their thoughts on episode 6 & 7 of the House of The Dragon. Fast forward to avoid spoilers (timestamp: 11:42). The girls open up about the one word their peers would describe themselves as. TikTok made Abby ask Nicki about Jesus, the Devil, and the Eiffel Tower. These true crime girlies talk about why they think the serial killer population has gone down. Nicki drops a bomb on the listeners and explains why she is breaking up with the podcast. Abby let’s the listeners know she’s still going to continue solo. Stay tuned for more deets! Nicki’s last O...2022-10-1055 minThe Ope PodcastAbby Goes Solo (classic)Abby deep dives the Adnan Syed case from Serial and the new Netflix show Dahmer. She makes a confession that involves Taylor Swift. Don’t ever call Abby “hun” if you’re interested in dating her. She tells the listeners about a few recent dating red flags. Abby realized recently that she wants to be held at night. The Ope Story includes lots of shredded cheese and going through an ex’s phone.2022-10-0346 minThe Ope PodcastThe Good, The Bad, and The Disagreement of FriendshipAbby and Nicki discuss the last 2 episodes of House of Dragon. Abby tells Nicki about a TikTok that includes her least favorite position and 12 hours of filming. The girls deep dive what they consider a homie hopper and if there’s a statute of limitations on it. Abby and Nicki have their first argument on the podcast. Tune in to find out what they strongly disagree on! Nicki’s Ope story includes going to a wedding solo and her manifestations coming true.2022-09-261h 10The Ope PodcastOur Most Dramatic Episode YetAbby goes back to Ohio, but it won’t be her last adventure there this year. Nicki went to a beautiful wedding with lots of single men, cheesecake, and unlimited booze which is Abby’s dream. Nicki made a purchase to help her relationship which may include football season. The girls discuss Glennon Doyle’s podcast and deep dive what goes on in their crazy minds. This week’s topic is a deep dive on alcoholism, addiction, Al-Anon, and childhood trauma. To respect the listener’s time, we’re pushing the Ope Story to next week.2022-09-191h 13The Ope PodcastHungover, Hungry, and HornyAbby learns she shouldn’t drink and try to publish the podcast. Nicki gives Sam a special honey do list to prepare for Christmas. The girls talk about the importance of expressing your love and doing what makes you happy because of brain aneurysms. Abby asks Nicki who her first love was and why she fell in love with them. They talk about nudes and thirst traps. Abby’s Ope Story involves Wellbutrin and shape wear.2022-09-1241 minThe Ope PodcastReligion Is A Gift From BobAbby and Nicki tell their thoughts on House of The Dragon. Skip ahead to be spoiler free! Abby will be unwell on Oct 21st. The girls chat about the Gabbie Hanna gossip and what May or may not be going on with her. The girls deep dive traveling to get laid. How far would you travel? Nicki and Abby talk about their thoughts on religion. Nicki’s Ope story includes a wholesome moment and Nicki being a dirty dog.2022-09-0559 min
The Ope PodcastBig Girl TalkAbby visits Ohio twice in one week and picks up a new pickup line. She now wants to move to the Perrysburg’s chipotle. Abby and Nicki discuss if it’s ever appropriate to wait on someone to be ready for love. Demi Lovato’s song, 29, inspired a confession from Nicki and Abby. *TW* Nicki shows her vulnerability by opening up about living with an eating disorder. Abby’s Ope Story was inspired by the Columbus Chicken Chase which may include a stranger and her butt.2022-08-291h 19The Ope PodcastRules Are Meant To Be BrokenNicki and Abby start the episode discussing T Swifts sexuality after watching the same Tik Tok conspiracy theory. The Ope Girls share their takes on what automobiles they think are hot and what are NOT. In this Episode Nicki really talks about what it was like growing up in a super conservative catholic home and Abby compares her moms more lax parenting style to the crazy shenanigans they found themselves in during their youth. Nicki takes home the Ope Story with a kayaking disaster that caused a tad bit of tension between her brother and Sam.2022-08-2250 minThe Ope PodcastDirty PopNicki and Abby do a FMK which includes good vibes. They ponder over the age old question, “would you rather love and loss or to never have loved at all.” The ladies give the listeners an update on Nicki’s former soulmate. Nicki is completely free from FOMO. The ladies deep dive all things Bachelorette, Kardashians and the celebrities that Abby is obsessed with. Abby’s Ope Story includes a married man and a fake booty pic.2022-08-151h 00The Ope PodcastWho Killed The C Word?Nicki and Abby feel different about summer coming to an end. Nicki has a change of heart after watching Nikki Glaser’s new comedy special. Abby makes a strange confession. The ladies deep dive their thoughts on chivalry. Find out who thinks the guy should pay for the first few dates. Nicki’s Ope Story includes an ex and TikTok.2022-08-081h 03The Ope PodcastAre You Dating Norman Bates?Abby tells the listeners about how her week went, but on the bright side she’s sleeping like a king. Find out what Nicki would do for 20 million dollars. Abby gives Nicki an assignment that involves a mirror and alone time. Nicki and Abby deep dive their experiences with a Norman Bates. Abby’s Ope story includes a best man speech and trying something for the first time.2022-08-0152 minThe Ope Podcast~soul~ mates?Abby gives the listeners an important update from the cheaters episode. She also tells the listeners about her pet peeve which includes a Facebook DM. Nicki and Abby talk about vabbing. Abby recommended Nikki Glaser content because she’s her spirit animal. Nicki and Abby deep dive their thoughts on soulmates. Nicki shares her Ope Story that was caught on her parents Ring Camera.2022-07-2557 minThe Ope PodcastWill He Actually Think Next Time Before He CheatsAbby recaps her Nashville trip which includes an embarrassing FaceTime and too much confidence. Nicki reveals a Fort Wayne scandal that Abby was involved in. Nicki deep dives her experiences with cheating and Abby asks the listeners their thoughts on her experience with a rogue condom. Abby’s Ope Story includes Taylor Swift (classic) and a FWB.2022-07-1748 minThe Ope PodcastOops She Did It AgainNicki and Abby do a Zoom call due to a Fall Nicki took to the foot! Abby gives us her Independence Day Scoop, and a litle life update that involves a big girl bed. Nicki and Abby keep the call light with a reddit story and another FMK continuing Nickis Dad-Bod kink she has going on. Abby explains her experience with corporate misogyny and sexism in this weeks Ope Story.2022-07-1135 minThe Ope PodcastIt’s (not) A SignTW: Nicki and Abby briefly discuss the Supreme Court’s decision to overturn Roe v Wade (01:50 - 10:15). Nicki tells the listeners if she’s planning on proposing to her boyfriend. Abby discusses her hopes and dreams of becoming a rock star. Nicki and Abby deep dive their astrology charts and their experiences with tarot cards. Abby may or may not have major relationship changes over the next 7 months. Nicki’s Ope story includes 7 oopsie babies.2022-07-041h 05The Ope PodcastTo Our Future Baby Daddies**This episode was recorded prior to the Supreme Court’s decision to overturn Roe v Wade** Abby gives a Father’s Day update. Nicki and Abby discuss their plans for the apocalypse. It involves Nicki becoming a vegetarian and Abby needing a boat. Nicki tells the listeners her fears about space. Nicki deep dives her 5 year plan which may or may not include babies. Abby talks about wanting to adopt kids, but her future baby daddy may be able to convince her to push one out. Abby’s Ope Story involved blue balls and a crazy ex boyfriend.2022-06-271h 00The Ope PodcastBest Friends For NeverNicki completes the assignment and listens to the new TSwift songs. Abby tells the listeners about her crush on TikTok star Fibula and how she’s in love with podcaster/golfer Barstool Trent. Nicki tells the listeners all the things she’d get done before getting a BBL. Abby gives a few recommendations: All American on Netflix and the song Pain by Ingrid Andress. Nicki explains her heartbreak from the loss of her best friend. Nicki and Abby deep dive their friendship break ups and talk about how important friendships are to them. Nicki’s Ope Girl story includes Zac Efron’...2022-06-201h 00The Ope PodcastTinder is Walmart. Bumble is Target.Nicki and Abby recap Abby’s birthday celebration. They partied like they were 21 again. Find out who was called “Good Girl” by a random guy at a tattoo shop. Abby tells a story about how she has been hatfished, and Nicki explains what a DUFF is. Find out Abby’s long list of what gives her the ick on dating apps. The Ope story of the week involved a lot of whiskey and Fred Grote.2022-06-131h 00The Ope PodcastRoommates Are For The BirdsAbby recaps her 30th birthday and explains how her manifesting has crashed and burned. Abby and Nicki give their hot take on short king season. Abby describes what it was like living with her sister during the height of the pandemic. Nicki deep dives her roommate from hell. Abby’s ope story of the week includes a 6’6” attractive man, making out, & how her tummy problems have terrible timing. Nicki gives a PSA to all the shy guys out there.2022-06-0650 minThe Ope PodcastAlmost 30 In The MidwestAbby makes a confession to the listeners. Nicki and Abby deep dive their favorite non-sexual thing that makes men 100% more attractive. Abby tells the world about how she healed from her abandonment issues and what dating is like at almost 30 in the Midwest.2022-05-3047 minThe Ope PodcastIt’s a nope for me, taxi manNicki and Abby play FMK with MGK, Pete Davidson and Jack Harlow, and they deep dive a new TikTok trend. Abby tells the story that inspired the podcast episode about an old taxi driver that may want to be her sugar daddy. Nicki shares her experience with a catfish that also met her grandparents at a church fish fry. The ladies both tell a story from their favorite hometown bar when they were newly 21. They both admit to their creep story confessions which include too many fire emojis and serenading with The Little Mermaid. Nicki closes out the episode revealing...2022-05-2348 minThe Ope PodcastThe Ope Girls Make a PodcastNicki and Abby introduce themselves to the listeners. Nicki talks about her life with Sam, being a dog mom and briefly introduces her trauma from growing up in an overly conservative religious household which eventually led her to rebel! Abby introduces her experiences living with childhood trauma, growing up with a single parent and how her abandonment issues have affected her life. She briefly tells a story about her first love. Nicki and Abby tell their friendship story and their hopes for the podcast! Special thanks to Steph for being the resident Ope Girl and Austin Robinson for being the...2022-05-1652 min