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I Wish You KnewAurora Culpo & Adam Lane Smith: Breaking the Cycle of Toxic LoveIn this episode, Aurora Culpo returns with a candid and emotionally honest update about her personal life. She opens up about the complexity of dating after heartbreak, the internal battles of self-worth, and how she’s navigating a new relationship under the scrutiny of public attention. From emotional triggers and attachment patterns to navigating jealousy and miscommunication, Aurora invites listeners into the real, often messy, human experience of love and healing. Whether you're single, dating, or rebuilding after pain, her vulnerability offers comfort, wisdom, and perspective.
✨ Key Topics Covered:
👉 Dealing with recurring disappointment in dating
👉 The power...2025-05-091h 33
I Wish You KnewChildhood Trauma: How Abandonment Shaped Me | Adam Lane Smith| Anxious Attachment StyleIn this deep and vulnerable conversation, Kyle Cease opens up about his personal journey—from using comedy as a defense mechanism to confronting childhood trauma and stepping into authentic healing. He explores how false identities are formed through pain and how real transformation happens when we face the hidden parts of ourselves. With insights on attachment, inner work, spirituality, and the power of humor, this episode is both heart-opening and thought-provoking.
Topics Covered:
👉 Using comedy as a survival tool in childhood
👉 How childhood trauma shapes false identities
👉 Secure vs. anxious attachment styles
👉 The role of inner w...2025-05-021h 46
OAK PERFORMANCE RADIOEpisode 149: Senior Volleyball Players Reflect on Hard Work, Pressure & Team Support.What does it take to stay focused, stay driven, and still love the game after nearly a decade of training?Welcome to Oak Performance Radio—where performance is optimized and injury is minimized. Hosted by Adam Lane, this podcast shares conversations with athletes, coaches, and leaders who live at the intersection of hard work, recovery, and long-term success.Episode HighlightsIn this episode, Adam sits down with senior volleyball players Devynn Schulze and Julia Laidig, who share what it’s been like to grow up i...2025-04-2640 min
I Wish You KnewIs It Ever the Same After an Affair? Dr. Alexandra Solomon & Adam Lane SmithIn this insightful episode, Dr. Alexandra Solomon, a renowned psychologist and expert on relationships and intimacy, joins attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith to answer one of the hardest questions couples face: Can a relationship ever truly recover after an affair? Whether you’ve experienced betrayal or fear it might happen, this episode offers honest answers and real hope.
Topics Covered
👉 The psychological impact of infidelity, including PTSD symptoms in betrayed partners
👉 Whether love and trust can truly be rebuilt after someone cheats
👉 Who cheats more—men or women? Exploring modern trends and cultural shifts
👉 What mo...2025-04-2552 min
I Wish You KnewWhen Attachment Becomes a Disorder: Can Personality Disorders Be Fixed? | Adam Lane SmithIn this episode, Andrey and Adam unpack the deep connection between attachment styles and personality disorders. Together, they explore how childhood trauma, neurological stress, and emotional dysregulation contribute to avoidant, anxious, and disorganized attachment—and how these patterns can evolve into more severe conditions like borderline personality disorder, bipolar disorder, and even schizophrenia. Adam challenges the medical model, offering hopeful insights on healing, brain health, and the possibility of recovery without relying solely on medication.
✨ Topics Covered ✨
👉 The difference between attachment styles and personality disorders
👉 How avoidant behaviors can be self-protective—or damaging
👉 The impact of early c...2025-04-181h 41
I Wish You KnewEvan Marc Katz & Adam Lane Smith Heated Debate | Can We Truly Change Our Partner?In this episode, Evan Marc Katz joins Adam Lane Smith for a fiery and thought-provoking debate on one of the most challenging questions in relationships: Can we truly change our partner—or is it all about accepting them as they are? From practical dating strategies to deeper emotional dynamics, this conversation dives into the complexities of modern love and long-term compatibility.
✨ Key Topics Covered:
👉 Can good relationships be effortless—or do they always require "hard work"?
👉 Why trying to filter a future husband through dating profiles might be sabotaging your chances
👉 The hidden danger of rushing rela...2025-04-111h 21
I Wish You KnewHe Broke Her Heart But Won Her Back | Brandon DoerkseBrandon Doerkse opens up about how he nearly lost his marriage due to emotional numbness, distraction, and addiction. For years, he struggled with avoidance, failing to recognize how his actions were eroding the trust and intimacy in his relationship. It wasn’t until he hit rock bottom that he realized the painful truth—his marriage was falling apart, and he was the one responsible.
Topics Covered:
👉 The impact of emotional disconnection in marriage
👉 How avoidance and addiction sabotage relationships
👉 Why men must take the first step in healing a broken relationship
👉 Understanding attachment styles and their...2025-04-041h 21
I Wish You KnewAttachment Specialist Fixes Toxic Marriage | Adam Lane Smith The Attachment SpecialistIn this episode, Adam Lane Smith, the Attachment Specialist, navigates the challenges of a toxic marriage. Through raw and honest conversations, Adam uncovers the root causes of their struggles and offers practical guidance to rebuild trust, communication, and emotional connection. Whether you’re facing similar issues or just want to strengthen your relationship, this episode is packed with insights and advice that can make a real difference.
Topics Covered:
👉 The impact of unresolved trauma on marriage and relationships
👉 How pressure and past experiences shape relationship dynamics
👉 Addressing touch aversion and intimacy issues
👉 The importance of...2025-03-281h 40
I Wish You KnewAdam Lane Smith & Shallon Lester: Avoidant Attachment Red Flags – “Never Trust Words Alone”In this episode, Adam Lane Smith and Shallon Lester expose the hidden red flags of avoidant attachment and why trusting words alone can lead to heartbreak. They break down the toxic dating patterns that leave women feeling unworthy, discuss why men rarely change without consequences, and share practical strategies to build secure, lasting relationships.
Topics Covered:
👉 Why many women settle in relationships out of fear of abandonment
👉 The rise of emotionally unavailable men and the impact on dating
👉 Shallon’s no-nonsense approach to breakups and setting boundaries
👉 Why men rarely change without external consequences2025-03-211h 16
I Wish You KnewFemale Entitlement or Male Weakness? @HoemathIn this episode, we dive into the growing divide between men and women in modern society. Our guest, HTH, joins the conversation to explore the cultural and psychological shifts affecting relationships, attachment dynamics, and societal structures.
Topics Covered:
👉 The messaging that paints men as villains and its long-term impact
👉 Why men are walking away from relationships and societal expectations
👉 The rise of cultural and gender conflicts across the world
👉 How attachment styles influence modern relationships
👉 The effects of societal collapse on human behavior and survival instincts
👉 The growing divide between entitlement and re...2025-03-141h 44
I Wish You KnewThe Dark Truth Behind My Secure Attachment: Attachment Specialist Adam Lane Smith Tells AllAlyssa shares how growing up in an environment that discouraged emotional expression led to survival-mode thinking. She describes the intense stress it placed on her nervous system and the difficulty of accessing emotional regulation.
✨ Main Topics Covered ✨
👉 The long-term effects of survivalist attachment and avoidant behaviors
👉 The struggle of balancing masculine and feminine energy in childhood and adulthood
👉 The role of meditation as both a coping mechanism and a trap for avoidant individuals
👉 The journey of healing from disorganized attachment through therapy, mentorship, and faith
👉 The importance of self-reflection and ongoing personal development in...2025-03-0754 minOAK PERFORMANCE RADIOEpisode 145: The Foundation of Athletic Success: Training Young Athletes the Right Way.Welcome to Oak Performance Radio, the go-to podcast for athletes, parents, and coaches who want to build strong, resilient athletes while minimizing the risk of injury. Adam Lane hosts this podcast about sharing insights, strategies, and expert knowledge to help young athletes reach their full potential.What This Episode Covers:Athletic success isn’t just about raw talent but also proper training, consistency, and smart progression. In this episode, Adam Lane shares the philosophy behind his training approach, emphasizing the importance of multi-sport participation, foundational movement patterns, and phase-based progression. If you wa...2025-03-0227 min
I Wish You KnewWhy Women Settle (and How to Finally Put Yourself First)Many women find themselves in relationships that look perfect on paper but leave them feeling unfulfilled. In this episode, dating expert Julia Mazur shares her personal journey of settling in relationships and how she finally broke free. She discusses societal expectations, personal struggles, and the key mindset shifts needed to prioritize yourself in love and life.
✨ Main Topics Covered ✨
👉 The dating challenges many women face and why they often settle.
👉 The influence of cultural and family expectations on relationships.
👉 The emotional toll of being in a relationship with the “ideal” partner.
👉 How loneliness and lack...2025-03-0150 min
I Wish You KnewAvoidant Woman Trapped in Survival Mode | Adam Lane Smith | Avoidant AttachmentAlyssa shares how growing up in an environment that discouraged emotional expression led to survival-mode thinking. She describes the intense stress it placed on her nervous system and the difficulty of accessing emotional regulation.
✨ Main Topics Covered ✨
👉 The long-term effects of survivalist attachment and avoidant behaviors
👉 The struggle of balancing masculine and feminine energy in childhood and adulthood
👉 The role of meditation as both a coping mechanism and a trap for avoidant individuals
👉 The journey of healing from disorganized attachment through therapy, mentorship, and faith
👉 The importance of self-reflection and ongoing personal development in...2025-02-2856 min
I Wish You KnewAdam Lane Smith Coaches an Avoidant Woman LIVE🎙️ Welcome to this eye-opening episode of "I Wish You Knew" with hosts Adam Lane Smith, The Attachment Specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media.
Emily Humpert opens up about her struggles with relationships, attachment challenges, and emotional intimacy. Adam Lane Smith helps her uncover the roots of her avoidance and how it impacts her connections with others.
Topics Covered:
👉 Struggles with relationships and repeated failures
👉 Avoidant attachment and emotional barriers
👉 Fear of sacrifice in relationships
👉 The myth of a ‘perfect match’
...2025-02-211h 31
I Wish You KnewAurora Culpo: ‘I Only Date Avoidant Men…’ Here’s Why🎙️ Welcome to this eye-opening episode of "I Wish You Knew" with hosts Adam Lane Smith, The Attachment Specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media.
In this episode, Aurora Culp opens up about her experiences with relationships, attachment styles, and why she tends to be drawn to avoidant men. Through personal stories and deep reflections, she explores the patterns that have shaped her love life and what she’s doing to break free from unhealthy cycles.
✨ Main Topics Covered:
👉 Aurora’s struggles with dating and attraction to avoidant men
👉 The role of attach...2025-02-141h 29
I Wish You Knew"I Lost My Fiance in a Plane Crash… Then I Learned the Truth" Stephanie Quayle's Heartbreaking Story🎙️ This week’s episode features Stephanie Quayle who lost her fiancé in a tragic plane crash. She was consumed by grief—until she uncovered a shocking truth that turned her world upside down. What followed was a painful battle with betrayal, self-destruction, and the struggle to rebuild her sense of self.
✨ In this episode:
👉 The devastating loss that changed everything
👉 Discovering painful truths after her fiancé’s death
👉 How grief led to self-destruction and emotional rehab
👉 Overcoming attachment wounds and learning to trust again
👉 Finding love and building a healthy relationship after betrayal
This is not yo...2025-02-071h 23
I Wish You KnewInside the Mind of Avoidant Women | Avoidant AttachmentThis week’s episode features Jessica Preston who dives into the complexities of avoidant attachment in women, exploring personal experiences, emotional patterns, and the impact of past relationships.
🎙️ Welcome to this eye-opening episode of "I Wish You Knew" with hosts Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media.
The discussion highlights the struggles of avoidant individuals in forming deep connections, the role of masculine and feminine dynamics, and the journey toward self-awareness and healing.
✨ Key Moments ✨
👉 Personal realization of avoidant attachment after multiple di...2025-01-311h 34
I Wish You KnewThe #1 Reason Most Relationships Fail (And How to Avoid It)🎙️In this powerful episode of I Wish You Knew Podcast, Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, sits down with Axel and Chelby, a couple who faced the emotional turmoil of a breakup, only to come back together stronger than ever. With the help of the attachment specialist they explore the hidden dynamics of breakups, how attachment issues played a role in their separation, and how they navigated living together after calling it quits.
This episode uncovers the importance of space, communication, and understanding attachment patterns in relationships—especially after a breakup. We dive deep into the psychological impact...2025-01-241h 15OAK PERFORMANCE RADIOEpisode 142: Mastering Volleyball Recruiting: Building Trust, Culture, and Success with Coach Ben Briney.Navigating the world of recruiting and coaching in volleyball can feel overwhelming.
What does it take to find the right fit as a player? And how can coaches foster trust and authentic relationships in today’s fast-paced environment?
Welcome to Oak Performance Radio!
Hosted by Adam Lane, this podcast is about optimizing performance and minimizing injury. It offers actionable insights for athletes, coaches, and parents alike.
In this episode, Adam sits down with Coach Ben Briney, a seasoned volleyball coach with over 18 yea...2025-01-1954 min
I Wish You KnewDanielle Silverstein on Why Women Initiate 70% of Divorces🎙️ Welcome to this eye-opening episode of "I Wish You Knew" with hosts Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week’s eye-opening episode features Danielle Silverstein who dives deep with the hosts into the real challenges of marriage—beyond the perfect Instagram photos and couple goals. From hidden struggles to painful secrets, we’re revealing what actually happens behind closed doors in relationships.
Danielle, Adam, and Andrey share their personal journey through hardship, loss, and the strain of balancing kids, careers, and a relationship. It’s raw, real, a...2025-01-171h 17
I Wish You KnewAvoidant Husband & Anxious Wife Coached by Attachment Specialist🎙️ Welcome to this transformative episode of "I Wish You Knew" featuring Adam Lane Smith, attachment specialist, as he LIVE coaches a married couple on the path to a blissful marriage. Join us as we watch a married couple navigate their relationship struggles with Adam's coaching—an intimate, raw look at attachment styles, communication breakdowns, and how to heal emotional wounds that have festered for years.
In this episode, Adam helps a couple tackle their core issues—his avoidant behavior and her anxious attachment. Through real, on-the-spot coaching, they uncover powerful strategies to break the cycle of emotional disconnec...2025-01-101h 16
I Wish You Knew#1 Advice From Men’s Dating Coach: Modern Women Want THIS🎙️ In this insightful episode, Jamie, a men’s dating coach who specializes in helping men build authentic connections and attract emotionally secure women, joins Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and cofounder of Veritas Creative Media, to break down the hidden dynamics of modern dating and why so many men are struggling to find lasting relationships.
Jamie shares her expertise on what healthy women truly want, why most men fail in dating, and actionable strategies to stand out in a crowded, confusing dating world. This episode is perfect for men who want to...2025-01-031h 12
I Wish You KnewSathiya Sam UNVEILS The ONLY Way To End An Addiction🎙️ In this powerful episode, addiction recovery coach Sathiya Sam, an addiction recovery coach who guides men to overcome addictive behaviors by connecting with their faith, healing childhood trauma, building authentic identity, and mastering emotional regulation, joins Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and cofounder of Veritas Creative Media, to uncover the hidden emotional roots of addiction and its profound impact on our lives.
Addiction isn't just about substances—it’s a reflection of deeper emotional wounds, trauma, and unmet needs. Sathiya shares his expertise on how addiction manifests in different ways and why emo...2024-12-271h 26
I Wish You KnewLarry Hagner Reveals The Digital Dangers Your Kids Face DAILY🎙️ Welcome to this eye-opening episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we’re joined by Larry Hagner, founder of "The Dad Edge," for a powerful conversation about the realities of fatherhood in the digital age, the dangers your children face online, and the truth about modern fatherhood that most men are missing.
Larry, Adam, and Andrey discuss why being a dad is more than just providing financially, how real connection matters more than ever, and why your presence is your...2024-12-201h 16
I Wish You KnewHomeschool Mom WARNS About Public Schools’ Dark Secrets🎙️ In this eye-opening episode of I Wish You Knew, Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Claire Denault, a 2nd-generation homeschool mom, dive into the controversial topic of public schooling vs. homeschooling.
From the emotional toll of standardized education to the psychological impact of traditional schooling, Claire and Adam reveal why homeschooling might just be the solution to a broken system. They discuss the trauma children face from being forced into one-size-fits-all education models, and why many kids are leaving school with damaged self-esteem, unmet needs, and a lack of emotional security.
Wheth...2024-12-131h 12OAK PERFORMANCE RADIOEpisode 139: How VC United is Transforming Youth Volleyball Experiences.Is it time to rethink how volleyball programs grow and thrive?
Welcome to another episode of Oak Performance Radio! We have a passion for optimizing performance and minimizing injury. Today, your host, Adam Lane, is joined by Eric Schultze from VC United to explore the dynamic world of volleyball.
This conversation dives into the evolution of a volleyball program that has grown from humble beginnings to one of respect and competitiveness. Eric shares insights on the recent record-breaking tryouts with over 750 athletes and the introduction of a revamped team...2024-12-081h 20
I Wish You KnewLMFT Exposes Dysfunctional Families & Toxic Positivity🎙️ In this raw and honest episode, Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, team up with renowned radically honest psychotherapist Whitney Goodman to explore the complex world of dysfunctional families.
They delve deep into the heart of toxic positivity, generational trauma, and the impact of permissive and authoritarian parenting styles. Whitney shares her unique perspective on how these dynamics can shape our relationships, careers, and overall well-being.
✨ Key Highlights You Can’t Miss ✨:
👉 How toxic positivity can mask deeper issues and hinder emotional growth...2024-12-0659 min
I Wish You KnewFixing The Avoidant Man Part 2🎙️ In this emotionally charged episode of "I Wish You Knew," Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, a high-achieving CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, dive deeper into the journey of overcoming avoidant attachment and breaking free from past traumas. Andrey opens up like never before, reflecting on the ghosts of his past, the challenges of building trust, and the small but significant steps he's taking to reclaim connection and intimacy in his relationships.
From confronting the pain of childhood in post-Soviet Russia to navigating the complexities of trust with loved ones, this r...2024-11-291h 42
I Wish You KnewFixing The Avoidant Man Part 1🎙️ In this revealing episode of "I Wish You Knew," Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, a high-achieving CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, dive deep into the hidden struggles of avoidant attachment, guilt, and self-worth among high performers.
Adam guides Andrey through the deep, uncomfortable realities of living with avoidant attachment as a leader and the hidden emotional costs that come with high achievement. Andrey bravely opens up about the relentless guilt and inability to feel proud of his accomplishments, a common struggle among avoidant high-achievers.
This episode...2024-11-221h 38
I Wish You KnewInside the Minds of CEOs Who See Emotions as Threats🎙️ Are emotions a liability for leaders? In this eye-opening episode, Brian Goldstein, Andrey Korikov, and Adam Lane Smith unpack the surprising truth about why avoidant attachment styles just might be a leader’s secret weapon. If you've ever wondered how top CEOs manage to stay cool under pressure, build high-performing teams, and still get results, this conversation is for you.
Brian, Adam, and Andrey keep it real with stories from the field, so you’ll walk away with fresh insights on managing people, tackling burnout, and making the tough calls that drive results. Whether you're an executi...2024-11-151h 46
I Wish You KnewWhat Happens When an Avoidant Man Falls in Love🎙️ In this revealing episode of "I Wish You Knew," Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, reconnects with a returning guest with an avoidant attachment style. This time, he opens up about his relationship.
Adam and his client dive deep into the intense struggles avoidant men face when it comes to trust, vulnerability, and building genuine connections. Kimmi shares the breakthrough moments that led him to realize he isn’t a “bad person” for being guarded, and how opening up has become both a terrifying and rewarding journey.
This isn’t just another talk ab...2024-11-081h 19
I Wish You KnewGen Z’s Outlook on Gender Roles, Dating, and Marriage With Kenzie CarterIn this heartfelt and insightful interview, Kenzie Carter shares her journey from dating to engagement, revealing the secrets to building a deep, fulfilling relationship that stands the test of time. From early conversations about values to navigating conflicts with love and respect, Kenzie discusses what truly matters in a partnership. She offers her perspective on why so many relationships struggle, the importance of open communication, and how she and her fiancé foster mutual trust, respect, and affection.
Throughout, Kenzie opens up about how she knew her fiancé was "the one," the crucial role of a sha...2024-11-011h 08
I Wish You KnewWhy Quitting Therapy Was Necessary for The Attachment Specialist
🎙️ In this bold episode of "I Wish You Knew," Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, tackle the broken therapy system and why Adam walked away from it.
Adam and Andrey explore the uncomfortable truths about traditional therapy practices, how they often leave people stuck without real solutions, and the importance of having a purpose in relationships and life. They discuss why Adam felt compelled to shift away from a system that prolongs suffering and how he's now on a mission to help people build s...2024-10-251h 40
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🎙️ In this eye-opening episode of...2024-10-181h 30
I Wish You KnewTeal Swan Brutally Dissects Modern Therapy & Toxic Relationships🎙️ In this episode of "I Wish You Knew," Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, sits down with Teal Swan, a renowned spiritual teacher and trauma expert, to brutally dissect the flaws of modern therapy and its impact on relationships.
The conversation dives deep into why the current therapy system keeps people stuck in emotional cycles, how unresolved trauma is sabotaging your relationships, and the hidden reasons therapy often fails to bring true healing. Together, they explore the harsh realities of navigating relationships while dealing with trauma and offer powerful insights on how to break free from t...2024-10-111h 03
I Wish You KnewAttachment Specialist Helps Avoidant Man Face Trust Issues LIVE🎙️ Welcome to this episode of "I Wish You Knew" where Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist works with an avoidant man in a powerful LIVE coaching session. Adam coaches him through his struggles with trust issues, emotional openness, and relationship patterns that sabotage love.
This week, Adam helps his client unpack deep-rooted fears, guiding him to understand how avoidant attachment impacts his ability to build lasting relationships. It’s a raw and transformative conversation you won’t want to miss.
If you’ve ever struggled with avoidant attachment in your own relationships...2024-10-041h 12
I Wish You KnewDr. Amanda Hanson Exposes Toxic Femininity, Self-Sacrifice, & The Patriarchy
🎙️ In this episode of "I Wish You Knew," Dr. Amanda Hanson, a leading clinical psychologist, joins Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, to confront the hidden dangers shaping modern relationships.
Dr. Amanda Hanson exposes the toxic influences of femininity, self-sacrifice, and the patriarchy, unmasking how these forces impact every woman’s life and relationships. Together, they dive deep into the roots of these issues, exploring how societal expectations and outdated gender roles can create destructive dynamics in love and life.
Tune in t...2024-09-271h 11
I Wish You KnewNaftali Moses Reveals Why Modern Marriages Struggle Without Traditional Values
🎙️ Welcome to this powerful and thought-provoking episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we're diving deep into the complexities of modern masculinity, the importance of authenticity, and the consequences of rejecting our roots.
Joined by special guest Naftali Moses, this conversation explores why some men struggle to connect with the women they love, the dangers of straying from traditional values, and the impact of societal norms on our ability to form real, meaningful relationships.
...2024-09-201h 27
I Wish You KnewHavva Ramadan on Grief, Loss, Love and Creativity🎙️ Welcome to this deeply emotional episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we’re joined by the incredibly talented artist and poet, Havva Ramadan, for a raw and heartfelt conversation about the profound grief that comes from unspoken words, the pain of losing a loved one, and the regret of not saying "I love you" when it mattered most.
In this episode, we confront the pain of unspoken love, the weight of regret, and the silent burden of grief...2024-09-131h 30
I Wish You KnewSpiritual Coach Explains Psychedelics and Male Spirituality🎙️ Welcome to this powerful episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we’re joined by Adeyemi Adeyosoye, a renowned spiritual leader and coach, for an eye-opening conversation about the deep emotional challenges that high-performing men face and how psychedelics can be a transformative tool in breaking free from the chains of hypermasculinity.
In this episode, we dive into the heart of what it means to be a man trapped by societal expectations—exploring the disconnect that many high-drive...2024-09-061h 01
I Wish You KnewWhy Are Modern Men So Miserable? Andrew Shaw Reveals the Shocking Truth🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we’re thrilled to feature Andrew Shaw, a psychologist and mental resilience coach.
Get ready for an engaging deep dive into the modern challenges of masculinity and the limiting beliefs holding men back. In this episode, Andrew Shaw unpacks the profound impact of social media on men's mental health and navigates the confusion surrounding masculinity in today's world.
Tune in for a thought-pro...2024-08-3035 min
I Wish You KnewSabastian Enges Explains Why 40% of Americans Fear Civil War🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith and Sebastian Angus, a motivational coach and consultant with extensive experience in building successful sales teams and analyzing market dynamics. This week, we’re diving into a compelling discussion on the current societal shifts and the crucial role of conflict in personal and professional growth.
In this episode, we explore the ongoing societal changes and how conflict, whether internal or external, plays a vital role in shaping our lives. Sebastian Angus shares his insights on why understanding and navigating conflict is essentia...2024-08-231h 09
I Wish You KnewDr. Orion Taban Unveils the Future of Marriage🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we're excited to welcome Dr. Orion Taraban, an expert on transactional relationships and high-value dynamics, for a provocative discussion on the hidden aspects of relationships and marriage.
In this episode, we dive deep into the nature of transactional relationships and the impact of perceived value in romantic connections. Dr. Taraban, who specializes in analyzing the economic models of relationships, offers eye-opening insights into why relationships can feel t...2024-08-161h 25
I Wish You KnewMen, Listen Up! Dr. Alyssa Marie on Female Brain & Emotional Struggles🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we’re thrilled to have Alyssa Marie from Alyssa Marie Wellness, a dedicated advocate for mental health and wellness, to discuss the unseen stress women face, the real meaning behind "I'm fine," and the crucial role of therapy in relationships.
In this episode, Alyssa Marie sheds light on the dynamics of anxious and avoidant attachment styles, offering strategies for navigating these challenges. We also discuss how therapy...2024-08-091h 23
I Wish You KnewAttachment Experts Expose The MIND GAMES of Anxious-Avoidant Couples🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we're thrilled to have Rikki Cloos, a guide to anxious hearts, join us for an enlightening discussion on attachment styles, relationships, and gender roles.
In this episode, we delve into the intricacies of attachment styles and the keys to forming more connected and satisfying relationships through the lens of attachment theory. Rikki Cloos, who helps anxiously attached people through her extensive research in attachment theor...2024-08-021h 04
I Wish You KnewGreg Witz on the Real Reason Leaders Struggle with Team Dynamics🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we're excited to have Greg Witz, emotional intelligence expert and president and CEO of Witz Education, join us to explore the world of emotional intelligence in leadership.
In this episode, we dive into the importance of emotional intelligence for effective leadership. Learn how self-awareness and emotional regulation can transform team dynamics and enhance business relationships. Greg Witz shares insights on how understanding and managing emotions are key to...2024-07-261h 05OAK PERFORMANCE RADIOEpisode 129: Balancing Act: Professional Athletes on Adaptability and Resilience.Have you ever wondered what it takes to succeed as a professional athlete abroad?
Welcome to another episode of Oak Performance Radio, your ultimate resource for athletic performance and coaching, brought to you by your host, Adam Lane!
In this episode, we are thrilled to have Meg Wolowicz join us as we dive into the unique challenges of playing professional volleyball and basketball abroad.
Meg and Adam discuss the intricacies of overcoming language barriers, cultural differences, and the physical demands of high competition. They...2024-07-2156 min
I Wish You KnewMark Groves on Why We Stay in Toxic Relationships and How to Break Free🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we're joined by special guest Mark Groves to delve into the complexities of relationships, trust, and authenticity.
In this episode, we explore why trust is essential in relationships, how empathy can transform even the most hardened individuals, and what really goes on in the mind of a criminal. We discuss the profound impact of understanding and caring about others' pain, and why these elements are crucial for per...2024-07-191h 10
I Wish You KnewDr. John Delony “ The secret to Happy Marriages is Arguments “🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, and special guest John Delony, featuring insightful discussions on marriage, manhood, relationship dynamics, and personal growth.
This week, we dive deep into the transformative journey of reviving marital passion, understanding the importance of regular physical presence, and addressing modern emotional challenges.
Join us as we explore the critical role of non-verbal communication in relationships, the importance of consistent family time, and the impact of unresolved childho...2024-07-121h 19
I Wish You KnewHow Men and Women Deal with Breakups (And Maybe Forgive) |E36 | I Wish You Knew Podcast🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, and special guest Cole Zesiger, relationship advisor and coach.
Join us as we discuss the evolutionary reasons behind breakup pain, the necessity of behavioral changes for reconciliation, and the importance of accountability. We also delve into the differences in how men and women process breakups, the impact of infidelity, and the steps to rebuild trust and move on.
Don't miss this insightful episode filled with expert a...2024-07-051h 33
I Wish You KnewWill We Even Recognize Society & Relationships in 20 Years? |E35 | I Wish You Knew Podcast🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, and special guest Markku Wilenius, renowned futurist, award-winning author, professor, and speaker with more than 25 years of experience in future studies. This episode features insightful discussions on the future of relationships, marriage, and society.
This week, we explore the concept of marriage as a commitment in a world that values pure freedom and self-pleasure, and how to balance these ideals to avoid chaos.
✨ Key Highlights ✨:
👉 The re...2024-06-281h 19
I Wish You KnewWho Are You Afraid To Be? (& Why You Will Become Him) |E33 | I Wish You Knew Podcast🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, and special guest Connor Beaton, featuring insightful discussions on men's psychological development and self-improvement.
This week, we dive deep into the transformative journey of integrating the shadow, building emotional connections, and understanding the deeper concepts of masculinity and self-awareness.
Join us as we explore the critical role of addressing and integrating one's psychological shadow, the importance of vulnerability, and the impact of unmet needs and traumas...2024-06-211h 07
I Wish You KnewThis is What Kids REALLY Need From Their Dads |E32 | I Wish You Knew Podcast🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with the attachment specialist, Adam Lane Smith and Andrey Korov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we dive deep into the transformative journey of mastering fatherhood, building emotional connections, and understanding the deeper concepts of courage and responsibility.
Adam and Andrey explore the critical role of present fathers in child development, the importance of teaching courage, and the impact of a father's absence on mental health. They discuss how to navigate the challenges of modern fatherhood, turn obstacles into growth opportunities, and achiev...2024-06-141h 10OAK PERFORMANCE RADIOEpisode 126: Enhancing Metabolic Flexibility: Nutrition, Strength Training, and Wellness with Dr. Hunter Waldman.Welcome to another episode of Oak Performance Radio, your ultimate resource for athletic performance and coaching, brought to you by your host, Adam Lane!
Today, we are thrilled to welcome Dr. Hunter Waldman. Dr. Waldman, Ph.D., CSCS*D, is an Assistant Professor in the Department of Kinesiology at the University of North Alabama, where he also serves as the Director of the Exercise Biochemistry Laboratory. With a Ph.D. in Exercise Physiology from Mississippi State University and a concentration in Nutrition, Dr. Waldman's research focuses on exercise and nutrition interventions to improve various...2024-06-0955 min
I Wish You KnewThe Shocking Reason Your Relationships Are Falling Apart | Josh Trent |E31 | I Wish You Knew Podcast🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with the attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith, Andrey Korikov, and special guest Josh Trent. This week, we dive deep into the transformative journey of mastering financial intelligence, building emotional resilience, and understanding the deeper concepts of freedom and responsibility.
Josh, Adam, and Andrey explore the critical role of financial health in relationships, the importance of overcoming fear, and the impact of epigenetics on behavior and attachment. They discuss how to navigate life's challenges, turn obstacles into growth opportunities, and achieve true liberation.
Wheth...2024-06-071h 16
I Wish You KnewEx-Adult Star Reveals What NO ONE Tells You About the Industry | E30 | I Wish You Knew Podcast🎙️ Welcome to the 30th episode of "I Wish You Knew" with the attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, and special guest Candice Horbacz. This week, we delve into the fascinating journey of Candice, who transitioned from the adult industry to motherhood and a monogamous marriage, bringing you profound insights into personal growth and resilience.
Candice, Adam, and Andrey explore the challenges of overcoming public scrutiny and criticism while staying true to oneself. They discuss the impact of online negativity, the complexities of modern relationships, and the importance of rehumanizing indivi...2024-05-311h 09
I Wish You KnewAre You Unknowingly Hurting Your Marriage? | E29 | I Wish You Knew Podcast🎙️ Welcome to the 29th episode of "I Wish You Knew" with attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith and renowned therapist and author Elizabeth Earnshaw. This week, we dive deep into the complexities of modern relationships and therapy, bringing you expert insights that can transform your understanding of family dynamics.
Elizabeth and Adam reveal the shifting stressors in today's families, from financial strains to identity conflicts, and provide practical strategies for navigating these challenges. Learn why high-performing women face unique pressures in balancing career and family life and how couples can better support each other through these change...2024-05-2438 min
I Wish You KnewThe Real Reason Why ‘Nice Guys’ Finish Last | E28 | I Wish You Knew Podcast🎙️ Catch the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with our very own attachment specialist, Adam Lane Smith, and the always insightful Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we’re super excited to have Dr. Robert Glover join the conversation!
We're diving deep into some heavy, intriguing topics: Is monogamy really natural for humans? How have our tribal pasts shaped today's relationship norms? We're questioning everything from the pressures of lifelong monogamy to how modern relationships fit (or don’t fit) with our ancient wiring.
Whether you're curi...2024-05-171h 36OAK PERFORMANCE RADIOEpisode 124: Expert Coaching Tips & Parenting Insights for Young Athletes with Louis Jamison.Welcome to another episode of Oak Performance Radio, your ultimate resource for athletic performance and coaching, brought to you by your host, Adam Lane!
Today's guest we have Louis Jamison. He is CrossFit L-1 Certified, a Strength & Conditioning Specialist with the National Strength & Conditioning Association, and a Power Athlete Certified Coach. Louis grew up in Western Pennsylvania, deeply involved in sports. While not naturally gifted, he used training and the weight room to catch up with his teammates.
Eventually, he played football at Slippery Rock University, studying Health & Physical...2024-05-121h 07
I Wish You KnewWhy Men Avoid Vulnerability (and What Happens When They Do) | E27 | I Wish You Knew Podcast🎙️ Tune in to a new episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we are thrilled to have AJ Ellison as our special guest.
This episode delves into the often overlooked aspects of pain and resilience, contrasting societal expectations of toughness with the real benefits of facing hardships. We explore the dual nature of pain—distinguishing between what hurts and what actually harms—and discuss how embracing the former can lead to profound personal growth and self-awareness.
W...2024-05-101h 26
I Wish You KnewCan Society Survive Without God? | E26 | I Wish You Knew Podcast🎙️ Dive into a compelling exploration of faith and its profound impact on modern life in this episode of "I Wish You Knew." Join host Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and co-host Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative, as they dissect the controversial and often misunderstood role of religion today.
This discussion challenges the conventional views on religion and its relevance in an era dominated by technology and secular values. The hosts explore thought-provoking perspectives on why humans seek higher powers, the psychological significance of biblical stories, and the vital role of structured faith...2024-05-031h 30
I Wish You KnewThe Shocking Truths Narcissists NEVER Want You to Know | E25 | I Wish You Knew Podcast🎙️ This episode of "I Wish You Knew" tackles a complex guest: a diagnosed, self-aware narcissist. Host Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and co-host Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative, peel back the layers of narcissism.
Along with special guest Lee Hammock, they explore the rarely discussed world and mind of a narcissist. You'll hear firsthand how he navigates life, relationships, and therapy. Join us as we challenge the stereotypes and uncover the surprising truths behind this often stigmatized personality disorder.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone who's ever lov...2024-04-261h 15
I Wish You KnewAvoidants and How to Love Them | E24 | I Wish You Knew Podcast🎙️ Jump right into the deep end with us on "I Wish You Knew," as host Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and co-host Andrey Korikov, co-founder and CEO of Veritas Creative, explore some of today’s most intricate relationship issues.
In this episode, we’re unpacking the misunderstood world of avoidant attachment in men—why it happens, how it affects relationships, and what both partners can do to foster a deeper, healthier, more secure connection.
So, whether you’re struggling to connect with a partner or just curious about the psychological underpinnings of...2024-04-191h 05
I Wish You KnewCan You Find Love After 35? With Alex Clark | E23 | I Wish You Knew Podcast🎙️ Dive into the heart of today's most pressing relationship dilemmas with "I Wish You Knew," where host Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, co-host Andrey Korikov, co-founder and CEO of Veritas Creative, and this episode's insightful guest, Alex Clark, a vibrant voice from the Spillover podcast and Turning Point USA, tackle the complexities of love, societal pressures, and the invisible threads that tie us together or tear us apart.
This episode does more than scratch the surface; it digs deep into the controversial and the taboo, from premarital sex to mental health and personal fulfillment.
...2024-04-121h 15
I Wish You KnewInside the Mind of Avoidant Men (How It Shapes Relationships) | E22 | I Wish You Knew Podcast🎙️ In this episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast, host Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, teams up with Andrey Korikov, CEO & co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, to dive deep into the how and why of avoidant attachment.
No stone is left unturned in this eye-opening exploration. Get ready for an eye-opening discussion that mixes expert advice with real-life stories, exploring the complexities of avoidant behavior, its origin, and its impact on relationships.
This episode poses a thought-provoking question: How do we build genuine and caring connections in a world where e...2024-04-051h 20
I Wish You KnewWhy Men Fall for the Red Pill: What No One Tells You | E21 | I Wish You Knew🎙️ Welcome to the first episode of Season 2 of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast. This time around, host Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov CEO & co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, dive into the tricky topic of the "red pill".
Get ready for an intense exploration that blends professional insights with firsthand real stories discussing moving beyond superficial interactions, the transactional views of relationships today, and the role of virtue and character development in overcoming the red pill mentality.
This episode is throwing out a big question: In a world w...2024-03-291h 07
I Wish You KnewFinding Meaning Outside of Relationships (This Might Save Your Life) | Ep 20 | I Wish You Knew🎙️ Join us for on this episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast, where hosts Sarah Don Moore and Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, delve into the depths of personal transformation, relationships, and overcoming adversity with their special guest, Jillian Turecki.
Prepare for a profound discussion that intertwines professional expertise with personal experiences, offering a fresh perspective on therapy, coaching, and the path to authentic connection.
This episode challenges you to reflect on your own journey towards healing and understanding in relationships and poses the essential question: How can we cultivate...2024-03-2250 min
I Wish You KnewThe New Rules of Dating No One Dares to Discuss| Ep19 | I Wish You Knew🎙️ ️ Dive into an intriguing episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast, where marketing expert and entrepreneur Matt Daley joins relationship coach Sarah Moore and Attachment Specialist Adam Lane Smith for a candid conversation about relationships, psychology, and the gender war (and possibly how to end it)
This episode is packed with honest takes on relationships, connections, therapy and so much more. Get ready for a controversial conversation that will challenge some of your beliefs.
This episode invites you to ask yourself and the people around you: Can men and women live toge...2024-03-151h 12
I Wish You KnewGen Z’s Outlook on Gender Roles, Dating, and More | Ep18 | I Wish You Knew🎙️ ️ Dive into an intriguing episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast, where Gen Z voice Kenzie Carter joins relationship coach Sarah Moore and the attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith for a candid conversation about navigating expectations in today's relationships.
This episode is packed with honest takes on love, life, and everything in between. So buckle up for some thought-provoking conversations, and get ready to have your mind blown (or at least learn something new).
This episode tackles a crucial question: In an era of social media pressures and evolving gender roles, wh...2024-03-081h 00
I Wish You KnewUnrealistic Expectations Are Destroying The Dating Market | Ep17 | I Wish You Knew🎙️ Tune in to a riveting episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast, Relationship Coach Sarah Dawn Moore and Attachment Specialist Adam Lane Smith, delve deep into the labyrinth of male and female expectations within modern relationships.
This episode poses a compelling question: In today's world, dominated by social media influence and changing societal standards, what do men and women genuinely expect from each other in relationships and friendships?
Embark on an enlightening exploration of the nuanced interplay between evolving gender roles, relationship dynamics, and the impact of digital age da...2024-03-0158 min
I Wish You KnewWhat the West Gets Wrong About Masculinity | Ep16 | I Wish You Knew🎙️ Welcome back to another insightful episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast! Today, Adam and Sarah have an enlightening discussion with Indian podcaster Silawath Irshad about relationships and gender dynamics in India versus the West.
They tackle the pressing question: Can traditional family values and gender roles survive in an era of modern feminism and shifting cultural norms? This cross-cultural episode takes you on a thought-provoking journey through marriage, dating, femininity, masculinity, and how India compares to the US.
🌟Here's what to keep an ear out for in this episode: How the rise of feminism...2024-02-231h 00OAK PERFORMANCE RADIOEpisode 117: Marcus Posley, owner of NXT LVL Basketball Training.Join Adam Lane, the host of Oak Performance Radio, as he interviews Marcus Posley, the owner of NXT LVL Basketball Training.
We will discuss athletic performance, drawing on Marcus's background in basketball and track, including his state championship wins and personal best times. Marcus, a former college basketball player turned coach, will share valuable lessons from his career.
00:00 Athletic performance, coach's background, and track achievements.
4:00 Basketball career, coaching, and skill development
8:43 Coaching basketball and mastering skills.
13:29 Youth basketball development and prioritizing fundamentals.
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I Wish You KnewHigh Value Woman Mindset: OnlyFans Model vs Trad Wife? | Ep12 | I Wish You Knew🎙️ Welcome back to another episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast! Today Adam Lane Smith and Sarah Dawn Moore dive into a heated and enlightening debate about "What Makes a High-Value Woman." This topic has sparked numerous off-camera discussions between Adam and Sarah, and now they're bringing their debate to you!
In this episode, Adam and Sarah explore the nuances of what constitutes a high-value woman in today's society. They challenge common misconceptions and delve into the differences between intrinsic value and societal expectations. The discussion covers a range of topics, including:
The distinc...2024-01-2647 minOAK PERFORMANCE RADIOEpisode 116: Ansley Heise, Truman State University.Welcome to Oak Performance Radio with your host, Adam Lane! In this episode, we're joined by Ainsley Heisey, a former student-athlete and alumni of Truman State University.
Ainsley's journey takes us from her days as a Division II volleyball athlete to her current roles as the Rockford Rivets and VC United Media Director. She shares insights into her career, experiences, and recent move from Kansas City.
00:01 Sports marketing and coaching with Ainsley Heisey
4:01 College volleyball recruitment and selection.
9:08 College basketball and self-awareness.
16:50 College a...2024-01-211h 11
I Wish You KnewGoogle Executive Reveals The Happiness Algorithm: Discover The Secret | Ep11 | I Wish You KnewOn this week's "I Wish You Knew" Podcast, join hosts Sarah Dawn Moore and Adam Lane Smith for a conversation on modern dating and relationships. Our special guest, Mohammad "Mo" Gawdat, former Chief Business Officer for Google X and acclaimed author of "Solve for Happy" and "Scary Smart," brings a unique blend of technological insight and personal wisdom to the discussion.
Key Discussion Points:
Insights from a Tech Visionary: Mo Gawdat shares his experiences from Google X and how technology impacts relationships.
The Pursuit of Happiness: Drawing from his book "Solve for Happy," Gawdat discusses finding...2024-01-191h 09
I Wish You KnewDestructive, Millennial, Behaviors That Are RUINING Modern Dating | Ep10 | I Wish You KnewOn this week’s episode of the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast Adam Lane Smith and Sarah Dawn Moore discuss the complexities of modern dating. They share expert insights and practical advice, making this episode essential for anyone navigating the intricate world of dating and relationships.
Key Discussion Points:
Modern Dating Landscape: Exploring the current state of dating and its challenges.
Navigating Dating Dynamics: Strategies for both men and women to find love without getting hurt.
The Role of Honesty and Games in Dating: Discussing the importance of being upfront and genuine.
Gender-Specific Dating Challenges: Unique concer...2024-01-1254 minOAK PERFORMANCE RADIOEpisode 115: Dr. Sam Grams of The Athlete's PlaceWelcome to Oak Performance Radio! I'm your host, Adam Lane, and we aim to share inspiring stories for athletes, parents, and coaches. Today’s guest is Dr.Sam Grams, the owner and sole practitioner at The Athlete's Place.
Her journey began out of a deep passion for establishing a space dedicated to offering personalized support and respecting each client's unique body and aspirations. Dr. Grams provides care and resources to help you take ownership of your health and stay actively engaged in the activities you love.
As a lifelong mov...2024-01-0757 min
I Wish You KnewWhy NARCISSISTS Plague Millennial Relationships | Ep 9 | I Wish You KnewOn this week’s episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast, hosts Adam Lane Smith and Sarah Dawn Moore dive headfirst into the intricate world of narcissism, relationships, and self-reflection.
Key Discussion Points Include:
The distinction between narcissistic traits and true narcissism from a clinical perspective.
The rampant use of the term "narcissist" in today's digital age and the consequences of overusing it.
Unpacking the reasons why victims of narcissism may exhibit narcissistic tendencies themselves.
Attachment styles and generational patterns that influence our relationships.
The impact of social media on modern dating, including the shaping of...2024-01-0551 min
I Wish You KnewDebunking Dating Double Standards | Ep 8 | I Wish You KnewOn this week’s episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast, hosts Adam Lane Smith and Sarah Dawn Moore take a deep dive into the convoluted world of modern dating, exploring the double standards and hidden truths that often make navigating relationships a complex endeavor. They discuss the unexpected and sometimes shocking realities that both men and women face in the dating scene today.
Key Discussion Points Include:
The pervasive double standards in modern dating, where behaviors and expectations often differ drastically between genders.
How societal norms and misconceptions about masculinity and femininity can lead to...2023-12-2946 minOAK PERFORMANCE RADIOEpisode 114: Lily Jarrett, St. Thomas Track and FieldWelcome to Oak Performance Radio! I'm your host, Adam Lane, and we aim to share inspiring stories for athletes, parents, and coaches. Today, we have Lily Jarrett, a senior from Guilford High School, who will soon be a St. Thomas Track and Field athlete.
Lily's track journey began unexpectedly in high school when her coach recruited her from the hallways as a freshman. Despite not running much in middle school, Lily quickly fell in love with Track and Field. Join us as she shares her unique path, from an unexpected start to the prospect...2023-12-2649 min
I Wish You KnewOur WORST Dating Stories - Relationship Coaches Speak Out | Ep 7On this week's episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast, Sarah Dawn Moore and Adam Lane Smith engage in a discussion about their experiences as relationship coaches. This episode offers a unique, behind-the-scenes look at what it's like when coaches share their insights and advice.
Sarah and Adam open up about some of the most challenging cases they have encountered, delving into stories of clients struggling with relationship issues. The conversation takes an intense turn as they discuss scenarios where clients have faced significant difficulties in their love lives, from struggling to move past a first...2023-12-221h 00
Mind Pump: Raw Fitness Truth2225: How to be a great parent and raise successful children With Adam Lane Smith Installment #4: How to be a great parent and raise successful children. (1:24) Topics covered in this segment. (2:03) Why modern parenting is SO hard. (3:37) How people view parenting today. (10:55) How attachment issues poison parents. (18:08) How kids get wrecked. (20:37) Fixing your attachment is going to help. (23:55) The model of apprentice adults. (25:32) Building a self-correcting family system. (26:11) The 10-minute daily approach. (32:50) Raise adults so that you can be friends with them in adulthood. (35:16) Tactics for successful co-parenting. (38:34) How to...2023-12-1156 minOAK PERFORMANCE RADIOEpisode 113: Retired D1 AthletesWelcome to Oak Performance Radio with your host, Adam Lane! If you're new here, our mission is to deliver top-notch content for athletes, coaches, and parents, diving into every aspect of athletic performance.
We're here to inspire and help athletes unlock their full potential.
Join us in an insightful episode featuring retired D1 athletes – Paige Kaufman, Raeann Bergman, and Ava Vitale. All three powerhouse athletes played Division 1 volleyball, recently concluding their college careers, and have seamlessly transitioned into the real world.
00:01 Athletic performance, coaching, an...2023-12-101h 13
I Wish You KnewAuthentic Masculinity: a New Way With Zuby - Ep 5 | I Wish You Knew PodcastIn this week's episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast, hosts Adam Lane Smith and Sarah Dawn Moore delve into the complexities of modern masculinity with their special guest, Zuby. As a British rapper, author, speaker, and podcast host, Zuby brings a unique blend of personal and professional experiences, shaped by his diverse background and global perspective.
In this episode, Zuby explores the current crisis of masculinity in Western societies, dissecting the challenges and misconceptions surrounding traditional and contemporary male roles. He shares insights from his life journey, including his upbringing in Saudi Arabia, education at...2023-12-081h 07
I Wish You KnewThose Dating Games You Shouldn’t Play - Ep 4 | I Wish You Knew PodcastIn this week's episode of the I Wish You Knew Podcast, Adam and Sarah debunk some of the worst dating advice on the internet. They tackle myths around the friend zone, having sex early in the relationship, dating successful women, being "good enough" in bed, and more.
Topics covered include:
Why the "friend zone" has NOTHING to do with being her friend
Adam gives us a Quick Refresh on Attachment Styles
Do women judge you solely based on your sexual skills and prowess? The answer will surprise you…
Will a successful woman leave you if...2023-12-0157 min
Mind Pump: Raw Fitness Truth2215: Simple Hacks to Improve Any Marriage With Adam Lane Smith Installment #4: How to make marriage work in this complicated world. (1:30) Topics covered in this segment. (2:01) Staggering statistics on divorce. (5:02) Is there a reason to get married? (8:25) How people view marriage today. (11:36) Why do people cheat? (16:47) How attachment issues poison marriages over time. (21:36) The kid complication factor. (25:12) Any marriage can be fixed, as long as both partners are willing to do the work to fix it. (30:12) Treating marriage like a business. (35:57) The State of the Union meeting to check in on your marriage. (42:15) The four-step method to share with your wife to boost her emotional sex drive. (47:04) How women can get...2023-11-271h 11
I Wish You KnewTop Secrets of Stylish Masculinity with Tanner Guzy - Ep 3 | I Wish You Knew PodcastOn this week's episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast, Adam and Sarah sit down with Tanner Guzy, a masculine style coach and author of the fantastic (Adam recommended) book "The Appearance of Power." Together, they have an insightful conversation about masculinity, style, and how men can step into their power and have the confidence to be their best selves.
Tanner shares his perspective on why appearance matters for men, and how style is connected to confidence, leadership, and embracing responsibility. He explains his approach of starting from the inside out - getting clear on...2023-11-2459 min
I Wish You KnewSal De Stefano: Why ”Fit” Does Not Mean ”Happy” - Ep 2 | I Wish You Knew PodcastIn this week’s episode of the I Wish You Knew Podcast:
Hosts Adam Lane Smith and Sarah Dawn Moore interview renowned fitness and wellness expert Sal Di Stefano, co-host of the popular MindPump podcast.
In this episode, Sal shares his decades of experience in the health and fitness industry, discussing how fitness of mind and body are intertwined, and opening up about his own struggles with prioritizing appearance over true wellbeing. He offers hard-won advice on breaking free of negative thought patterns around diet and exercise, learning to nourish your body and soul.
T...2023-11-1656 min
Mind Pump: Raw Fitness Truth2205: Why Dating Sucks & How to Fix It With Adam Lane SmithInstallment #3: Why dating is so complicated in the modern world and how your attachment style is impacting your dating life. (1:51) Topics covered in this segment. (2:22) Why does modern dating suck so bad? (3:37) Why dating apps are bad. (13:11) Build your social life because it does 15 things for your dating life. (21:27) The art of matchmaking. (26:50) How to find people on apps and filter more carefully. (29:21) Four steps to a better dating app experience. (32:28) The 3-date method for filtering your potential partner. (39:07) Courting vs...2023-11-1359 minOAK PERFORMANCE RADIOEpisode 111: Lawrence Phillips, MMA Fighter.Welcome to Oak Performance Radio. I'm your host, Adam Lane. If you're tuning in for the first time, our mission is to provide top-notch content for athletes, coaches, and parents. We're passionate about sharing stories that inspire and delve into every facet of athletic performance. Our ultimate objective is to help athletes unlock their full potential and be the best they can be.
Today’s guest is Lawrence Phillips, a successful MMA fighter from Rockford, Illinois, who holds a world championship title. His rise to prominence began in February, and he boasts an impressive am...2023-11-1239 minOAK PERFORMANCE RADIOEpisode 110: Darren Hansen. Hansen Athletics in Pocatello, Idaho.Welcome to Oak Performance Radio. My name is Adam Lane, and I'll be your host. If you're new to the show, we aim to provide high-quality content for athletes, coaches, and parents. We are dedicated to sharing stories that inspire and explore all aspects of athletic performance. Ultimately, we aim to help athletes achieve their full potential and become their best.
Today’s guest is Darren Hansen, the owner of Hansen Athletics in Pocatello, Idaho. Darren and his team specialize in training High school and collegiate athletes to reach their athletic potential on the fi...2023-10-2957 minOAK PERFORMANCE RADIOEpisode 109: Mitch Hull; 3D Coaching.Welcome to Oak Performance Radio. I'm your host, Adam Lane. If you're new to the show, we aim to create fantastic content for athletes, parents, and coaches. We tell stories that last and delve into everything related to athletic performance. Our end game is to help athletes achieve their optimal performance and be their best.
Today’s guest is Mitch Hull of 3D Coaching. He has been involved in the athletic world most of his life. A 3-sport athlete in High School, Mitch won a State and National title in wrestling. After playing two yea...2023-10-1553 minOAK PERFORMANCE RADIOEpisode 106: Sydney Stanfield, senior at Rockford Christian High School.Welcome to Oak Performance Radio! I'm Adam Lane, your host. Our aim is to deliver great content for athletes, parents, and coaches. Join us as we share stories, laughs, and dive into everything that fuels athletic excellence. Our end game? Elevating performance and helping athletes be their best.
Today's guest is Sydney Stanfield, a Rockford Christian High School senior committed to Division 1 Sacred Heart University. Hear about her journey through college recruitment and her advice: Never Give Up!
1:28 Recruiting in New York City
7:03 Sophomore and junior years.2023-09-0349 minOAK PERFORMANCE RADIOEpisode 103: Claire Ammeraal, Central Michigan VolleyballWelcome to Oak Performance Radio, hosted by Adam Lane! In this episode, join us as we chat with Claire Ammeraal, a talented volleyball player from Central Michigan and the greater Madison Area. Claire shares her journey as a one-hit wonder, significantly impacting her 18th year playing for VCU United. She modestly brushes off her accomplishments, but her skills as a setter and towering presence on the court speak for themselves.
Tune in to gain insights into Claire's volleyball career, her experiences as a player, and the challenges she has overcome.
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Fearless Family BusinessE98: Adam Lane Smith - Lessons From the InterviewOn this recap episode of Flow Over Fear, Adam shares his reflections on his interview with Adam Lane Smith, an expert on attachment.
Adam is a renowned expert in helping people with attachment issues, and in our previous interview he imparted his wisdom on the essential steps to overcome these challenges. In this episode Adam Hill reflects on some of the nuggets of wisdom Adam Lane Smith shared, including the power of self-awareness and understanding in healing anxious attachment.
This recap also delves into the significance of identifying what is...2023-07-2016 minFearless Family BusinessE97: How to Overcome Attachment Issues and Build Meaningful Relationships with Adam Lane SmithLet’s talk about relationships - the source of both joy and fear in our lives. Today, Adam meets Adam. Adam Lane Smith, also known as Attachment Adam, is a licensed psychotherapist specializing in attachment issues, joins us today to help navigate these complex dynamics. By addressing attachment wounds, Adam helps clients build a new foundation for their lives and transform relationships in all areas - marriage, dating, work, friendships, and family. With his guidance, clients learn to find their voice, receive the love they've always wanted, and live without fear.
Here are some power takeaways from to...2023-07-1859 minOAK PERFORMANCE RADIOEpisode #100: Mr. Chad McGee, the pioneering Director of Meditation Training at the University of Wisconsin.Welcome to Oak Performance Radio with your host Adam Lane, where we delve into the world of athletic performance, providing captivating stories, invaluable insights, and the ultimate goal of helping athletes, parents, and coaches unlock their full potential.
Joining us today from the picturesque state of Wisconsin is Mr. Chad McGee, the pioneering Director of Meditation Training at the University of Wisconsin. In this groundbreaking role, Chad leads the way in integrating meditation practices into major sports, making waves in both practical applications with teams and cutting-edge scientific measurements to gauge their profound impact. ...2023-06-1152 min
OAK PERFORMANCE RADIOEpisode #59 w/ Joe & Robert Bennie - BENNIE BASEBALLEDUCATE. TRAIN. INSPIRE.
Listen to Coach Adam Lane talk with the founders of Bennie Baseball Joe & Robert Bennie about everything youth sports performance!
Joe & Robert are former pro baseball players who started Bennie Baseball in 2018 and it has been growing since.
The Bennie brothers do great things with each athlete that walks through their door. They believe in the athlete and bring out the best in them.
Whether you want to learn more about baseball or become better at softball, these guys are hands down the best in the Stateline.
2021-10-141h 02OAK PERFORMANCE RADIOEpisode #54 w/ Adam Lane - Oak Performance CEOCoach Adam dives into what and why strength coaches should be doing to help athletes improve.
Everything works but nothing works forever.2021-08-0711 min