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Parenting in Real LifeEp 147 - Proof We're Making Our Kids FragileToday we're going to be talking about the book, t=The Coddling of the American Mind. Alan recently read it and it definitely changed his perspective on parenthood. The book talks about how these two authors have seen a trend in particularly in colleges. We're not gonna focus on the college part because we have small kids, but they give tips on how to keep your kids mentally strong so that they don't become a part of this coddled generation that can't handle anything.The Coddling of the American Mind BookYou can find the p...2023-03-2921 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp 135 - 5 Top Parenting Mistakes We Made This MonthThis episode was inspired by what Alan thought would be a fun call to Santa Claus on the Google that turned into a frightening moment for our 4 year old. This made us think about other mistakes we've made over the last few weeks. From the funny to the frustrating, we're sharing a few of the mistakes we've made recently. In parenting, you're always learning and making mistakes so we hope this episodes helps you know that you are not alone in parenting!Podcast we recommend: On Boys Podcast with Janet Allison and Jennifer L.W. Fink. 2022-10-1920 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp 134 - Halloween, A History + Worst Candy in America + Halloween Dad JokesIn this episode we are talking about Halloween traditions, our favorite family costumes, America's least favorite candy, and sharing some of our favorite Halloween jokes. Share them with your kids or whoever loves a good dad joke. You can see the photos we talk about on our YouTube Channel or on Instagram. Tanner Fam Sugar Cookie Recipe: https://www.parentingirlpodcast.com/amazing-sugar-cookie-recipe/?swcfpc=1Make sure to check us out on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHVc1_Kv8Ojb3HE9xI3XoiwDon't forget to follow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/p...2022-10-0519 min
Parenting in Real LifeParenting Pep Talk - Joy in the Small ThingsToday's parenting pep talk is all about finding joy in the small things. We love both the sayings "Water what you want to grow" (Alan's mom) and "Look for the good and soon it's all you'll see" (Ralphie Jacobs). As you look for the good around you and in your children, then you'll not only find more joy in your surroundings, but you'll also find the positive behaviors in your kids that they'll want to repeat as you point them out. Look for the good in your kids today!Thanks so much for listening! Find us on...2022-04-1102 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 113 - Tanner Update Winter EditionBack by popular demand, we are doing another Tanner update. We are sharing what life is looking like for us right now as well as a challenge we are starting in March. Join us for the No Screens challenge from March 7-31 and see what changes you see in your family when you have less screen time. We are still going to do our Friday night movie night and let the kids do screens on Saturdays, but Sunday through Friday night, no screens! If you want to try this experiment with you family, sign up for our newsletter on...2022-02-2316 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 102 - Christmas Book Read Aloud: Sam's Christmas WishWith the hustle and bustle of the holiday season, we thought it would be fun to share some of our favorite Christmas stories so you can listen as a family as you are driving to recitals, programs, and family events. This story is Sam's Christmas Wish. We were introduced to this book a few years ago and it instantly became a favorite. It's a sweet story that always makes both Alan and I cry! I had to edit out Alan's tears/sniffles, but left a few at the end. :-)You can find Sam's Christmas Wish on...2021-12-0109 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 97 - Disneyland: The Most Expensive Happiness on EarthWe just went on a 4 day trip to Disneyland and California Adventure with our kids. It was our first time going as a family. As a Southern California native, Alexis grew up going as a kid so she was excited. But Alan only went a handful of times and hates crowds and was feeling pessimistic about it. Overall, we were glad we did it and it was a really fun vacation, but we're planning to wait a bit before we go again.Today we’re diving into the dos and don'ts of Disneyland. What worked for us an...2021-10-2741 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 95 - Permission to Pursue Your Dreams and Passions | Ceri PayneHave you ever had a dream or passion, but haven't pursued it yet because of parenting? Then this episode is for you! As moms and dads, we sometimes sacrifice our own dreams because of time, money, or even guilt. In this episode, we are talking with Ceri Payne who is a life coach who helps women in motherhood and their business and helps them figure out how to accomplish their goals without sacrificing the things they value most. We talk about money, finding time, and knowing if something is a desire to pursue or just a distraction. You can...2021-10-0637 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 94 - Should Kids Share a Room? Pt 2Should kids share a room? We did an episode on this 4 years ago (episode 21) and found there are a lot of good things that come from kids sharing rooms, but we recently found that sharing a room in our family wasn't working out very well. In this episode we talk about the pros and cons of kids having their own rooms, how to make sharing or not sharing work (if it's an option for you), and we end the episode with some funny sleep stories.Fall Bucket List Poster Print from Alexis' WebsiteMichelle's Seek L...2021-09-2927 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 88 - Why it's the Best Time to Change Things UpThis time of year is a great time to reset goals, change up your routine, or start something new. In this episode, we’re going to tell you why September is the new January. Alan also shares his word for the year and our new family motto - you don’t want to miss this, it’s not what you think! We are also sharing our Back to School Traditions. If you’re looking for some laughter and lightheartedness today, this is the episode for you!This month’s Sponsor is City Threads. Use Tanner10 for a 10% discount!I’ve been letting...2021-08-1826 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 86 - First Time Parenting in a Pandemic | David & Abby TannerThis is an awesome interview with first time parents David and Abby Tanner. They share with us the best and unexpected things about having a baby especially in the middle of a pandemic. They have some great ideas on how to help with the loneliness that can come when having a baby. They also have a great parenting in real life moment you don’t want to miss!This week’s Product That Makes Parenting Stink Less is Velcro Swaddles. If you like to swaddle your baby, then these are a must!David and Abby also...2021-06-0233 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 85 - How to Have a Great Summer (H.A.G.S.)Summer can sometimes feel a bit daunting with all your kids home from school for 3 solid months. We've definitely had some fun summers, but some rough summers too. We're finally finding things that work for our family that we'd love to share with you. Here are 10 ideas for having a great summer! One of our favorite things to do is create a giant calendar and bucket list of all the fun things we're doing that summer. You can find this Summer Calendar on Alexis' website for 50% off through Memorial Day. Then just upload the JPEG to Office Depot...2021-05-2620 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 83 - Enjoying Your Teens | Christi DavisIf you have teenagers or will in the future, you're definitely going to want to listen to this episode. We interview Christi Davis of Christi Davis Coaching all about teens and how to build relationships with them so that you enjoy them. From changing parenting roles to what to do when you have a kid that doesn't follow boundaries you set, Christi shares her expertise as an experienced life coach and a mother of 7 kids. You can find Christi on instagram at christidaviscoaching or on her website. This week’s Product That Makes Parenting Stink Less is Fidget...2021-05-0534 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 73 - Intrinsic Motivation - How to Get Kids to Want to Do Their BestBeing intrinsically motivated is having the inner drive that propels a person to pursue an activity, not for external rewards, but because the action itself is enjoyable. People who are intrinsically motivated are more likely to be successful, committed, persistent, and creative. We all want our kids to be motivated to do their best and that comes from having this intrinsic motivation. So how do we teach them this? We're sharing 8 different ways to help your kids learn to be internally motivated. This week’s Sponsor is ABC Mouse. Today (February 17th) is the last day of their...2021-02-1734 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 72 - Sharing is CaringDo your kids have a problem with sharing? Ours do. We thought this would only be a problem when they were toddlers and preschoolers, but we have found this has trickled into the daily lives of our school-aged kids as well. After doing some research, we found some tips to help children of all ages learn to share and what to do and expect with each age group. This week’s Sponsor is ABC Mouse. We love using ABC Mouse for our 3 youngest kids as it helps them with letter identification and sounds and builds those skills that w...2021-02-1027 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 71 - How to Know Your Kid's Love LanguageDo you know your love language? Your spouse’s love language? How about your kid’s love language? This is such an important way to help your family members feel loved how they want to be loved. We used the quizzes at 5lovelanguages.com for both the adult and children quizzes. Or you can just watch your family members and see what they like. I also created a free resource to help you come up with ideas on how to show your kids love according to their love language. Go to www.alexistannerlane.com.This week’s Product Th...2021-02-0322 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 70 - Getting Your Kids to SleepSleep is so important for both you and your kids. We recently asked our instagram followers something they would like to hear more about on our podcast, and sleep was the biggest answer we got. So today we're discussing sleep schedules, nap time, and bedtime routines. If you aren't getting sleep right now because of your kids, we feel for you. We've been there too! Hopefully some of the research we did and our own personal experience can be of some help. This week’s Product That Makes Parenting Stink Less is kinetic sand. We give it 4.5 stars...2021-01-2730 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 69 - Tips from Family Vacation VeteransWe love going on family vacations and have taken a quite a few over the last few years from driving across the country, to cabins, to beaches in the car and once or twice on a plane. This episode we're sharing our best family vacation tips fresh from our recent trip to Zion National Park, which we highly recommend. Today we're talking mostly about when we drive, but Episode 30 is tips for flying with kids if you want to go back to that one.Our Product That Makes Parenting Stink Less products is the Amazon Fire Tablet. We...2021-01-2036 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 68 - Finding Good from 20202020 was a challenging year for everyone, but before we move on to 2021, we thought it be good to reflect on 2020 and find the good things that happened despite the rough year. So today we're sharing 10 good things or things we learned from 2020 that we're taking with us into 2021. If you haven't done this yourself, hopefully ours will help you think of some of good things that came out of 2020 for you too.In this episode we also mentioned a fantastic mechanical pencil sharpener. If you're interested, here's our Amazon Affiliate link to the one we got. It's wor...2021-01-1328 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 67 - How to Get Kids to Eat Their FoodDo you have kids that won’t eat their dinner? How about a picky eater, or a few? Today we’re diving into two articles written by kidseatincolor.com who is an expert on kids nutrition. Find out how to help your kids eat dinner and see if you actually have picky eaters.Here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.https://kidseatincolor.com/toddler-not-eating-dinner/https://kidseatincolor.com/what-to-feed-picky-toddler/Don't forget to follow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/alexistannerlane We’d love to hear your co...2020-12-0323 min
Parenting in Real LifeTiny Tips - 7 Thanksgiving TraditionsDon't you just love November? I love the Thanksgiving holiday and we have some fun traditions that we do to make it fun and memorable. From our thankful turkey to a family turkey trot with homemade t-shirts, we have a couple of traditions that you might enjoy too. Here's a link to the thankful turkey printable I mentioned in this episode: https://mailchi.mp/71ca7491595f/freebie-landin-page. Make sure to check out our instagram as well @alexistannerlane.Thanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to hear yo...2020-11-0511 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 66 - What Anxiety Looks Like in KidsBoth of us have experienced anxiety as children and we recently discovered that one of our kids is experiencing it as well. It took a little digging, but we finally figured out what was going on. Anxiety can be frustrating and confusing especially when kids don’t know that they’re experiencing it. Today we’re sharing what we discovered and some tips to help manage and provide tools for kids who may be experiencing anxiety.And here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.https://www.deseret.com/2019/1/7/20662752/alexis-tanner-be-confident-in-yourself-your-abilities-and-those-around-you-who-want-to-helph...2020-10-2925 min
Parenting in Real LifeTiny Tips - 3 Ways to Start Planning for Christmas in October!Christmas may seem far away, but it will be here before we know it! Sometimes it's easier to focus on one holiday at a time, but because Christmas has so much going on, it gets a bit crazy with all the things to do. So if you’re looking to have a less crazy Christmas, I have 3 quick tips to help it run a bit more smoothly and to start doing now.Make sure to join the conversation on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexistannerlane/You can check out the written version of these podcasts at h...2020-10-2209 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 65 - Hallo-WIN TraditionsHalloween is right around the corner. There’s still lots of time to create some Halloween fun with your family. We’re sharing our favorite things to do to celebrate Halloween. And instead of scrolling Pinterest for more ideas, make sure to check out Alexis’ new Halloween ebook filled with 2 recipes, 2 family activities, 1 kids craft, a service project, a home decor hack, and links to our favorite Halloween books.https://alexistannerlane.com/product/halloween-traditions-e-book/Don't forget to follow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/alexistannerlane We’d love to hear your comments on this episode!And leave us review! Here's a sim...2020-10-1523 min
Parenting in Real LifeTiny Tips - Surviving the After School HoursWhen my kids come home after school, it seems like my house explodes! Backpacks, school work, snacks, shoes, and voices fill my kitchen. It's quite the whirlwind, but it's so much less stressful when I have certain plans in place. This episode we're talking about after school schedules and easy meal ideas. And if your kids are distance learning and after school doesn't quite look like this right now, I hope there's still some good ideas to help your day be less chaotic. Also, I just launched my first ebook! Find fun Halloween family activities, crafts, and recipes in my Hallow...2020-10-0811 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 64 - What It’s Really Like Having a Puppy.Have you considered getting a puppy? Or did you recently get one? We did! (Blaming it on COVID). We've had a puppy for 7 weeks and have definitely seen some pros and cons and we have our best tips that we feel like anyone getting a puppy should know. Let us know if you have a puppy too and share your best tips on my instagram account: https://www.instagram.com/alexistannerlane. And make sure to check out our interview on The Irish Mummy Podcast. https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-irish-mummy-podcast-work-life-balance/id1490008477Thanks so much for listening! Find us on In...2020-09-2430 min
Parenting in Real LifeTiny Tip - How to Keep Your Family OrganizedAs life has been a bit crazy lately for everyone, it's super important for us to keep our families organized to help things run a bit more smoothly especially as we are able to do some of our old activities again - like school, extracurriculars, shopping, etc. As a mom of 5 kids, organization is essential to keeping me sane. Here are my 5 best tips for keeping a family organized.Make sure to check out my instagram account @alexistannerlane for a picture of our command center and let us know how you stay organized.Also check ou...2020-09-1708 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 63 - Our world's on fire, how about yours?...But you still have to talk to your kids about it.2020 has been a year of hard things. And we feel like we should be talking to our kids about the different events, but how do we do that? What should they know and not know? In this podcast, we share 10 tips for talking to your kids about hard events that are happening in the world around us. From COVID-19 to Black Lives Matter, we hope this episode helps these conversations happen in your home in an open and loving way.And here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.https://www...2020-09-0320 min
Parenting in Real LifeTiny Tips - How to Teach Your Children About PatriotismWe recently put an American flag on our home to celebrate the 4th of July and our 9 year old asked us why we would do that. I was surprised by her question and felt like this would be a great time to learn more about patriotism. So today we're sharing why we should be patriotic, how to teach your children about patriotism, and some fun activities you can do this weekend to celebrate the 4th of July. Thanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode! And i...2020-07-0110 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 62 - Surviving Summer Pt. 2Surviving Summer part 2! If you want to listen to our first surviving summer episode when our kids were a little younger, check out episode 36. Today we're sharing some tips to help you survive this summer especially as things are a bit different this year.Here are the links to the websites we referred to in this episode:8 minute classes:https://www.instagram.com/p/CAXzXczFLWD/Johnson Files Mom watch instagram series:https://www.instagram.com/p/B8UunQvBGJD/https://www.instagram.com/p/BzLq9P9hLKA/...2020-06-0323 min
Parenting in Real LifeTiny Tip: How to Have a Great Mother's Day EVEN When You Have Small ChildrenMother's Day is around the corner and whether you have children or not, I hope you include yourself as a woman to celebrate on that day. We all can nurture the children around us. Mother's Day is not always what I hope for in my mind because I have young children who still need help and still fight all day. So I keep my expectations really low. Today I'm sharing 5 tips that will hopefully help you have a great Mother's Day no matter how the day turns out.Thanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podc...2020-04-2907 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 60 - Finding the good when you find yourself stuck at home.So many of us are stuck at home. Life is challenging right now. But in today’s episode we’re sharing ways that we’ve found good things. We came up with a list of 10 things and challenge you to come up with a list of 10 too! Also, as members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, the president of our church has asked us to fast to help end COVID-19 on Good Friday. People of all faiths are invited to join us in this worldwide fast and we hope that you participate too. Thanks so much for li...2020-04-0820 min
Parenting in Real LifeTiny tip: 5 Christ-centered Easter TraditionsToday I’m sharing 5 Christ-centered Easter traditions. If you’re feeling overwhelmed with the affects from Coronavirus, just write down your favorite and do it next year. 😉Don’t forget to share your Easter traditions with us on Instagram! You can find me at @alexistanner.lane. Resources:Easter Week: https://www.thesmallseed.com/blog/2018/3/16/easter-week-2018Resurrection Eggs: https://www.thesmallseed.com/blog/2016/03/resurrection-eggs-family-lesson-learning-about-the-saviors-last-weekIdeas for a passover meal: https://www.gatherandgrow.co/how-to-share-a-family-passover-meal/https://www.instagram.com/p/BwTRIYmDRwu/?igshid=la9b1v4azduzResurrection Rolls: https://www.inspirationalmomma.com/easter-resurrection-rolls/A Christ-Centered Easter: Adults https://deseretbook.com/p/celebrating-a-christ-centered-easter-childrens-edition?variant_id=155223-hardcove...2020-04-0206 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 59 - How to Thrive in Homeschooling and Working from Home during COVID-19These are challenging times as many of us are now homeschooling our kids and working from home. That's a lot of changes at once that were forced upon us. With almost 2 weeks of social distancing under our belts, we're sharing our best tips with how to help kids stay motivated and to have a good school and work environment at home. Let us know what other tips you have by commenting on my instagram account at https://www.instagram.com/alexistanner.lane/.And leave us review! Here's a simple explanation of how to leave a review on itunes: http://www.imo...2020-03-2524 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp 58 - There's a Wrong Way to Praise a Child, Who Knew?This episode is all about the tools for praise and appreciation. Seems pretty easy, but did you know there are better ways to praise your child? In fact, certain praise can actually stop a child from doing a good activity. Who knew? We’re going to review the tools to help praise in ways that will help and not hinder. This is the 4th and final episode that we are discussing the book How to Talk so Little Kids Will Listen by Joanna Faber and Julie King. To hear the first 3 episodes about this book, refer back to episodes 53, 55, and 56...2020-02-1919 min
Parenting in Real LifeTiny Tip: 7 Easy Valentine's Day TraditionsI'm sharing 7 fun and simple Valentine's Day traditions with you. Some of these our family does and some I found online. Definitely don't try to do all of these! Try 1 this year if you're looking for a new tradition or want to shake things up a bit and see if it's a good fit for your family and if it wasn't too stressful for you. :-)Here are some of the resources:Valentine's Mystery Mealhttps://makinglifeblissful.com/2017/01/printable-valentine-dinner-menus.htmlThings I love printable:https://www.teacherspayteachers.com/Product/Val...2020-02-1209 min
Parenting in Real LifeTiny Tip: How to Guide the Decisions You Make This YearHave you heard about choosing a word of the year? Do you have one? Why should you choose a word of the year and how do you do it? All of these questions are answered in today's episode. I'm also sharing my word of the year and why I chose it.Make sure to go to my Instagram account at www.instagram.com/alexistannerlane and tell me what your word of the year is. I would love to hear it!Sourceshttps://www.blessingmanifesting.com/2017/12/choose-word-of-the-year.htmlThanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love...2020-01-1508 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 57 - Helping Your Kids Set Achievable GoalsThe beginning of the year is the perfect time to set new goals. This may be a natural thing for some adults, but how do you help your kids set goals and want to achieve them? We’re sharing different categories to set goals in, how to choose SMART goals, and how to help your kids celebrate their achievements. This doesn’t have to be done at the beginning of the year. Set new goals whatever time of year it is! And here is the link to the websites we referred to throughout the episode. https://www.veryw...2020-01-0919 min
Parenting in Real LifeTiny Tip: 5 Simple Christmas Traditions you can doChristmas traditions can be so fun, but some of them take a lot of work and can be pretty overwhelming. So I have 5 simple Christmas traditions to share with you today that don’t take a lot of preparation. So if you are looking for one or two new intentional Christmas traditions, hopefully one of these will spark an idea. And please come share your favorite traditions on my instagram account: www.instagram.com/alexistannerlaneEggnog cookies: https://alexistannerlane.com/2014/12/chewy-eggnog-cookies.htmlThanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to hear your thou...2019-12-1108 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp 56 - The Alternative to PunishmentsIn this week’s episode we discuss chapter 3 of How to Talk to Kids. We talk about how you can get your kids thinking of solutions to their behavior problems that don’t include sending them to the room for the rest of the day. Don't forget to follow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/alexistannerlane We’d love to hear your comments on this episode!And leave us review! Here's a simple explanation of how to leave a review on itunes: http://www.imore.com/how-rate-or-review-podcast-your-iphone-or-ipadTheme music by Dave Depper Thanks so much for listening! Find us on Ins...2019-11-2726 min
Parenting in Real LifeTiny Tip: Thanksgiving gratitude activities PLUS helping kids learn gratitude all year!Thanksgiving is the perfect time to share what you're thankful for. I'm sharing a few different activities you can do with your family during the Thanksgiving holiday to help them express gratitude. But why stop at Thanksgiving? I'm also sharing some activities you can do all year long to help your family be happier and think about others as they learn gratitude.Resources:Count your blessings A-Z https://www.funlovingfamilies.com/count-your-blessings-from-a-to-z-a-thanksgiving-gratitude-activity-for-families/?utm_medium=social&utm_source=pinterest&utm_campaign=tailwind_tribes&utm_content=tribes&utm_term=488321084_17327862_201914Paper chain - https://www.sunshineguerrilla.com/2018/11/twelve-thanksgiving-traditions-to-help.htmlBooks on gratitude - https://www...2019-11-1410 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp 55 - Getting kids to get crap doneResponsible, independent kids. That’s what we all want right? But it’s hard to imagine they’ll ever be responsible when they can’t seem to pick up their own shoes, or stop hitting their siblings, or throw their trash in the garbage rather than the ground. So today we are sharing tools that help you get your kid to do what they’re supposed to do. It’s going to take a lot of work, but we’re helping our children learn how to make their own choices and be in charge of their own behavior. Here's a link...2019-11-0721 min
Parenting in Real LifeTiny Tip: Ways to Calm the Christmas RushWe are just 2 months away from Christmas! It will be here before you know it. The fun can be sucked out the holiday with everything going on, but if you start planning now, I have a few tips to help you create calm during the Christmas rush.We are also giving away a $20 Amazon gift card to anyone who leaves a written review on our podcast during the month of October! Here's a simple explanation of how to leave a review on itunes: http://www.imore.com/how-rate-or-review-podcast-your-iphone-or-ipadDon't forget to follow us on...2019-10-1613 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp 54 - The Pinocchio ProblemDo you struggle to get your kids to tell the truth? We do. So we are sharing what you can do to help your kids break the habit of lying and start telling the truth.Thanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode! And if you liked the episode, leave us a review! 2019-10-0924 min
Parenting in Real LifeTiny Tip: How to Make Mom FriendsIt seems like connecting with other women keeps coming up in conversation with others lately. In a world with so much online connection, women are missing the face to face relationships. We often feel alone. I think I’m not alone in the desire to have good relationships with other women. But it’s hard. Especially for those who consider themselves introverts. So here are 5 ways to help you find mom friends. You don't have to do them all especially because some may not work for you, but find one and start there!Thanks so much for listening! Find us on...2019-10-0415 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp 53 - Little kid emotions. A wild ride.We started reading How To Talk So Little Kids Will Listen by Joanna Faber and Julie King and loved the tools in the first chapter that really help with emotional situations with your kids. When they have meltdowns or whine and complain, the initial thought is to teach them why they shouldn’t be doing that. But it turns out, children just want their emotions to be validated. Take a listen as we share how to respond to your kids when they have emotional meltdowns. And here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.https://ww...2019-09-2523 min
Parenting in Real LifeTiny Tip: How to Make Your Family Awesome!Your family is as awesome as you think it is! Find out how you can have a more positive attitude about your family members with this quick thought. Thanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode! And if you liked the episode, leave us a review! 2019-09-1708 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp 52 - In the Know About NoHere are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.https://www.verywellfamily.com/parenting-an-oppositional-child-2764635https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.mykidstime.com/for-parents/8-top-tips-for-dealing-with-an-older-childs-tantrum/amp/https://www.google.com/amp/s/offspring.lifehacker.com/when-to-let-your-kid-quit-and-when-not-to-1821104935/ampDon't forget to follow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/alexistannerlane or https://www.instagram.com/lorikeetsistersAnd leave us review! Here's a simple explanation of how to leave a review on itunes: http://www.imore.com/how-rate-or-review-podcast-your-iphone-or-ipadTheme music by Dave Depper Thanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to hear yo...2019-09-1230 min
Parenting in Real LifeRR - Updates and How to Be a More Patient ParentWe are excited to be podcasting again after our summer break! We are rebroadcasting our most popular episode about being a more patient parent which first aired in October 2018. We also have some updates of how things are going to go forward with the podcast (hopefully). Now that school is back in, we are hoping to post a new episode next week. Thanks for listening!Thanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode! And if you liked the episode, leave us a review! 2019-09-0324 min
Parenting in Real LifeEP 51 - Why are my kids so hard? Do your kids seem hard to raise? Do they seem so different from when you were a kid? Research shows that it IS harder to raise kids today because of the world they’re growing up in. It’s so different than any other time in history. We’re going to talk about why it’s different and also what to do about it to help your kids be successful in this changing world. And here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.http://3in30podcast.com/katherine-reynolds-lewis/https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1610398386/ref=as_li_tl...2019-06-1227 min
Parenting in Real LifeEP 50 - How to be a happy parentWe chose to be parents. We wanted kids and this life. So why aren’t we feeling the happiness we expected? In this episode, we’re going over a few ways to be happier parents by sharing some tips from KJ Dell’Antonia’s book “How to be a Happier Parent” and also sharing some of our own thoughts on happy parenting.It’s also our 50th episode! We’re sharing a few more fun things about us, so we hope you’re excited to get to know us a bit better!And here are the links to the websites we referred to thr...2019-05-1526 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp 49 - To Grandmother's House We GoAccording to studies, there are multiple benefits for raising your kids near their grandparents for both the kids AND the grandparents. We’re sharing 5 benefits as well as tips for families who may not live close to grandparents.And here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.https://www.mother.ly/news/benefits-living-near-grandparents-for-children?rebelltitem=3#rebelltitem3Don't forget to follow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/pirlpodcast/ or https://www.instagram.com/lorikeetsistersIf you would like to support us, you can go to https://www.patreon.com/PIRLAnd leave us review! Here's a simple explanation of...2019-05-0122 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp 48 - Shake up your parentingAlexis recently had a meltdown that led to some changes in our family. We’re moving our schedules around so that we can share responsibilities better. We're sharing what is working so hopefully you can better support your significant other and enjoy your parenting more. Don't forget to follow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/pirlpodcast/ or https://www.instagram.com/lorikeetsistersIf you would like to support us, you can go to https://www.patreon.com/PIRLAnd leave us review! Here's a simple explanation of how to leave a review on itunes: http://www.imore.com/how-rate-or-review-podcast-your-iphone-or-ipadTheme music by Da...2019-04-1730 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp 47 - Winning the Whining WarDoes your kids whining drive you crazy? Do you try to hide under the covers and hopes it go away? Do you feel hopeless that you just don’t know how to make it stop? These are all things that we have felt about our kids whining. Sunday afternoon we had an especially whiny afternoon and did some research on how to make it stop. From toddlers to elementary school, these tips are sure to help the whining stop.And here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.https://happyyouhappyfamily.com/stop-your-kid-from-whining/https://www.psychologytoday.co...2019-03-2722 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp 46 - Boys vs GirlsHave you ever wondered why your parenting works with one gender, but not the other? Do you only have boys and are about to have a girl or vice versa and aren’t sure what to expect? It’s proven by science that boys’ brains are different than girls’ brains. We’re going to talk about how they’re different and share some tips given by experts on how to parent each gender.And here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.https://www.parents.com/parenting/better-parenting/advice/boys-vs-girls-how-to-tailor-your-parenting-techniques/https://www.everydayhealth.com/kids-health/parenting-bo...2019-03-2230 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp 45 - Week Without: Kids Screen TimeWe took the plunge. We went a week with (mostly) no screen time. Devices are addicting and destructive and our week is proof. Find out what we learn and where we landed now. Don't forget to follow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/pirlpodcast/ or https://www.instagram.com/lorikeetsistersIf you would like to support us, you can go to https://www.patreon.com/PIRLAnd leave us review! Here's a simple explanation of how to leave a review on itunes: http://www.imore.com/how-rate-or-review-podcast-your-iphone-or-ipadTheme music by Dave Depper Thanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram...2019-03-0632 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp 44 - Teaching Self ControlChildren with greater self-control become independent teenagers with intrinsic motivation, capable of coping with difficulties and failures. If you want your kids to develop better self control, here are some tips to help them recognize their emotions, some relaxation techniques, and techniques to help control anger. To help with techniques to control thoughts, we did a podcast episode on negative thinking and how to overcome that on episode 20 and also an episode on helping anxious children which was episode 29.Here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.https://psychology-spot.com/self-control-activities-for-children/https://www.youtube.com...2019-02-1223 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp 43 - Listen to this on repeatDo you wake up in the middle of the night with the lyrics of Moana going through your head and you know every. single. word? Is it because it’s your child’s favorite movie and they’ve watched it half a dozen times just this week? It turns out, letting your child re-watch the same movie over and over as well as reading them the same books, allows for brain development. Find out why watching the same movies helps your child learn.Here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.https://www.huffingtonpost.ca/2019/01/09/outdoo...2019-01-3028 min
Parenting in Real LifeEP 42 - Parenting with StyleMost of us know that during the teenage years, peers are more influential than parents. But new research has found that parents do have significant impact on whether their teens move on from an experimental sip to binge drinking. The best way to do that is to have an Authoritative parenting style? Now, what is that? We’re glad you asked! There are 4 parenting styles and although most will have characteristics that overlap all four categories—and all parents develop their own distinct style over time—most will identify with one of the four styles. Today we’re talking about those 4...2019-01-2327 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp 41 - When Your Kid's a SuckerAre you ready to wean your kids from their pacifier? It can seem a little daunting, especially if they’re super attached. So here is some great info on the right time to wean and different methods to help them kick the habit. And if you have a kid like ours, they may have a pacifier until they’re in kindergarten.Here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.https://www.mom365.com/baby/baby-health/tips-for-weaning-off-the-pacifierhttps://www.webmd.com/parenting/baby/features/using-pacifiers#1https://www.parents.com/toddlers-preschoolers/development/behavioral/bye-bye-binky-ending-the-pacifier-habit/Don't forget to follow us o...2019-01-0918 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp 40 - Being a Patient Parent (or at least trying really hard)Sometimes we yell at our kids even when we don’t want to. Parenting can be hard and stressful and then we end up exploding when our kids do something that we don’t like. So here are some tips to help us all be a little more patient in our parenting.And here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.https://www.handinhandparenting.org/article/why-so-hard-to-be-patient-parent/https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/liking-the-child-you-love/201505/three-ways-be-more-patient-parenthttps://www.pgeveryday.com/family/parenting/article/13-expert-tips-for-becoming-a-more-patient-parentDon't forget to follow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/pirlpodcast/ or http://www...2018-10-2224 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp 39 - Companionship Inventories for ParentsAs a married couple, it’s important to work together. We like to do a semi annual companionship inventory to check on our goals as a couple and for our family. We go through what we talk about on ours as well as what others do.And here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.http://www.marriagelaboratory.com/blog/improving-your-marriage-with-weekly-companionship-inventory/https://www.matttownsend.com/Don't forget to follow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/pirlpodcast/ or http://www.instagram.com/alexistannerlaneIf you would like to support us, you can go to https://www.pa...2018-10-1525 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 38 - What's a Motto with Your FamilyFamily Mottos are a great way to instill family values in your family. The words you repeat to them will become their inner voice. So it’s important to say things that will help them along their journey. Not sure how to create a motto or what a motto looks like? We have some tips and examples of real family mottos to help you find one or many for your own family.The book Alan referenced is How Will You Measure Your Life by Clayton M. ChristensenAnd here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.ht...2018-10-0120 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 37 - Tips for Moving with Kids (Hint: don't)Moving can be hard on you and especially your kids. We feel like we’re moving experts because we’ve done it 8 times in 8 years, but this is the first time our older kids were sad to move. They would miss their friends and their school and were a little nervous about the future. Now a month in our new place, our kids are doing great! We’ve collected some tips as well as sharing our own experiences of what helped ease our kids in our move across the country.Here are the links to the websites we referred to throug...2018-09-0320 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp 36 - Surviving the SummerSummer as the parent of young kids can be SCARY. But we have learned a few things that can help. If you have tips you want us to share be sure to email us at parentinginreallifepodcast@gmail.com or find us on social media.And here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.Some summer schedule ideas:Summer activity binder: https://www.thirtyhandmadedays.com/printable-summer-binder-activity-sheets/Bored jar: http://homeschoolon.com/im-bored/Don't forget to follow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/pirlpodcast/ or http://www.instagram.com/alexistannerlaneIf you would like to support us...2018-05-2121 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp 35 - Taking the Anxiety Out of Separation AnxietyShownotes:Many kids experience a period of separation anxiety whether as a baby, toddler, or preschooler. If your child is going through this, then we have some awesome tips to help you and your child get through this time. And here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.https://www.parents.com/advice/toddlers-preschoolers/development/how-can-i-help-my-4-year-old-with-his-separation-anxiety/https://www.parenting.com/article/separation-anxiety-age-by-ageHere’s that awesome teacher with the handshakes for each kid: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=I0jgcyfC2r8Great resource for when starting a new school: http://www.pbs.org/parents/ex...2018-05-0719 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp 34 - Tips for Surviving a NewbornWe have a few tips to share as we are in this phase of life again and are also sharing our babies slightly crazy birth story. Thanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode! And if you liked the episode, leave us a review! 2018-04-0822 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 33 - Better Behavior in KidsTen tips for better behavior from your kids.Thanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode! And if you liked the episode, leave us a review! 2018-02-1121 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 32 - So...Dads are ImportantResearch shows 4 ways to help dads play their important role in the family.Thanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode! And if you liked the episode, leave us a review! 2018-01-1526 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 31 - How to Survive WinterLearn how the Danish tradition of hygge (hoo-gah) can help you survive your long indoor months.Thanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode! And if you liked the episode, leave us a review! 2018-01-0718 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 30 - Flying with KidsOut of the box ideas for making flying with kids more manageable.Thanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode! And if you liked the episode, leave us a review! 2017-11-1219 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 29 - Helping Anxious ChildrenGiving your kids tools to cope with anxiety.Thanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode! And if you liked the episode, leave us a review! 2017-11-0521 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 28 - Parenting is FunnySome of the most hilarious parenting tweets we found this week.Thanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode! And if you liked the episode, leave us a review! 2017-10-2916 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 27 - Sorry, Not SorryTeaching your kids to feel sorry, not say sorry.Thanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode! And if you liked the episode, leave us a review! 2017-10-1622 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 26 - Mastering the Morning RoutineTips and ideas to make your morning with kids a success.Thanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode! And if you liked the episode, leave us a review! 2017-09-2424 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 25 - Big Family HacksWe are excited to be back! As you may know, we are advocates for big families. So if you have a big family or plan to have one, here are some great hacks to help keep your sanity. Also, we have a BIG ANNOUNCEMENT so make sure to listen!Theme music: Upbeat Whistle by Dave DepperArticle: http://offspring.lifehacker.com/how-to-parent-in-bulk-when-you-have-many-kids-1806837476Website: http://learnaswego.org/podcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/pirlThanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode! And if you liked the episode, le...2017-09-1723 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 24 - Tips for Family RoadtripsIt's family vacation season and we have some science to back up why family vacations are important as well as some great road trip tips. We love doing road trips with our family and even though they're not perfect, we've found some things that work for us. We hope to encourage your next family vacation too. And here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.http://www.smartparenting.com.ph/life/travel/5-reasons-why-we-should-go-on-more-family-vacations-a1162-20170207http://learnaswego.org/2015/09/7-tips-for-successful-road-trip-with.htmlDon't forget to follow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/pirlpodcast/ or http://www.instagram.com...2017-05-2826 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 23 - How to Make Your Kids Feel SpecialStudies show that when you make your kids feel special their behavior issues decrease and it creates a stronger bond between parent and child. Find out 6 tips on how to make your kids feel special and also what made us feel special as kids. And here is the link to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.http://www.parents.com/parenting/better-parenting/advice/small-ways-to-make-each-of-your-children-feel-special/Don't forget to follow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/pirlpodcast/ or https://www.instagram.com/learnaswegoIf you would like to support us, you can go to https://www.patreon.com/PIRLAnd leave...2017-05-2119 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 22 - What's Causing Your Family Stress?Researchers have found what's causing middle class families stress and most of it has to do with too much stuff and not enough family time. So we have a few ways to help battle the clutter and to live a more minimalist parenting style without going overboard.And here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.http://www.stuff.co.nz/life-style/home-property/88343278/behind-closed-doors-the-athome-challenges-facing-middleclass-familieshttp://www.theminimalistplate.com/minimalism-parenting/Don't forget to follow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/pirlpodcast/If you would like to support us, you can go to https://www.patreon.com...2017-05-0725 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 21 - Should Kids Share a RoomShould kids share a room? It seems that the goal is to have enough bedrooms that your kids can each have their own room, but research and trends are showing that sharing a room is very beneficial. In this episode, we share the benefits and issues you might come across if you have children sharing a room.And here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.http://www.parents.com/toddlers-preschoolers/bedroom/nursery-transition/shared-kids-rooms/https://www.learnvest.com/2012/08/should-your-children-be-sharing-a-room/http://www.chicagotribune.com/lifestyles/sc-shared-rooms-family-0524-20160522-story.htmlAnd don't forget to follow us on Instagram...2017-04-2318 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 20 - A Positive Spin on Negative ThinkingWe all have negative thoughts, especially in parenting. Although this is normal, if we let our negative thoughts take control, it can hurt our happiness and even our health. Here are a few tips to help push those negative thoughts away and to be more positive. This not only helps ourselves but helps our parenting and models positive behavior for our children.Here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.https://www.nytimes.com/2017/01/03/well/mind/the-year-of-conquering-negative-thinking.html?_r=0Affirmation Girl Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qR3rK0kZFkgAnd don't forget to follow...2017-04-0924 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 19 - Living Frugal with Kids Part 2Did you know couples who had a child in 2015 will end up spending an average of $13,000 a year raising that child, which adds up to $233,000 by the time the kid is 17? That's a lot of money, but you may not have to spend that much if you can live frugally.We've been living frugally for the past 7 years and try to be very conscious about our spending. We have 14 awesome tips split over a two part series that will help you get started on becoming a frugal family.And here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout...2017-04-0318 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 18 - Living Frugal with Kids Part 1Did you know couples who had a child in 2015 will end up spending an average of $13,000 a year raising that child, which adds up to $233,000 by the time the kid is 17? That's a lot of money, but you may not have to spend that much if you can live frugally.We've been living frugally for the past 7 years and try to be very conscious about our spending. We have 14 awesome tips split over a two part series that will help you get started on becoming a frugal family.And here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout...2017-03-2026 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 17 - Good Tips for Raising Good KidsHow do you raise a good kid? Times have changed from when our parents were raising us. With a changing world, it's hard to know how to raise a good kid. Psychologists at Harvard University have found 5 core elements for raising good kids and we will tell you what they are!Here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.http://curiousmindmagazine.com/parents-who-raise-good-kids/Episode 5 - Habits for a Closer Familyhttps://soundcloud.com/parentinginreallife/habits-for-a-closer-familyEpisode 10 - Raising Kind Kidshttps://soundcloud.com/parentinginreallife/raising-kind-kidsTheme music by Dave DepperThanks so much for listening! Find us on...2017-03-1328 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 16 - Potty Training -tips, tricks, and toddler-led?Potty Training. Depending on your kid, it can be simple or it can be quite the struggle and pretty gross. There are typically 3 main methods that are used that we'll touch on as well as a great British article all about child lead potty training. And here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/lyndsey-stoner/toddlerled-potty-training_b_14637992.htmlhttps://www.lucieslist.com/toddlerhood/potty-training-methods/https://www.pull-ups.com/en-us/potty-training/when-to-start/readiness-quiz Theme music by Dave DepperThanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d...2017-02-2617 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 15 - Valentine's Edition: Keeping the Love AliveJust in time for Valentine's we are sharing some tips for how to keep the love alive after the kids start showing up. We know that it isn't always easy, but it can be done!Thanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode! And if you liked the episode, leave us a review! 2017-02-1324 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 14 - The Benefits of Family DinnerLots of research has been done on how eating dinner together as a family has lasting benefits on your children. These range from building vocabulary to creating a better relationship with your kids. And if you aren't doing this just yet or would like to more often, we have a few tips to help you find the time and energy to have dinner as a family. The article we referenced can be found here:https://www.washingtonpost.com/posteverything/wp/2015/01/12/the-most-important-thing-you-can-do-with-your-kids-eat-dinner-with-them/?utm_term=.d559343748ca Making family dinnertime happen http://wapo.st/1BMnHNJAnd don't forget to follow our new instagram...2017-02-0520 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 13 - Benefits of BoredomBeing bored can be an uncomfortable feeling for kids (and adults, if we are being honest). In this episode, we talk about research that shows the benefits of boredom and how to help you kids manage their boredom. And here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.https://www.weforum.org/agenda/2016/09/being-bored-is-good-for-children-and-adults-this-is-why?utm_content=bufferb8f6b&utm_medium=social&utm_source=twitter.com&utm_campaign=buffer http://pbskids.org/video/?guid=aed05462-b533-4410-898b-89bab380fe69Thanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d lo...2017-01-3021 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 12 - 1st Time Parenting Tips with Scott and Jenna TannerWe are back after a long break with the first episode of our spring season. We interviewed Alan’s brother and sister-in-law, Scott and Jenna, and asked them to give us their tips on how to be a first time parent—the tips that you may not see in every other list out there. The audio quality isn’t perfect but their tips are great. We hope you enjoy it!Theme music by Dave DepperThanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode! And if you like...2017-01-2325 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 11 - Kids and TechnologyHow much screen time is ok for your kids? How do you protect your kids from bad influences when they have their own phone? In this podcast we discuss how much screen time is recommended, how to protect your kids when they have phones, and some ideas for managing screens in your own home.And here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.http://www.cnn.com/2015/10/06/health/screen-time-rules-change-pediatricians/http://www.thirtyhandmadedays.com/guidelines-for-technology-with-kids/http://foreverymom.com/mom-gold/horror-stories-real-dont-give-children-smartphone-jonathon-van-maren/https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2003/10/let-our-voices-be-heard?lang=engThanks so much for listening! Find us...2016-11-1325 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 10 - Raising Kind KidsIs raising a kind child one of the traits you hope your child will posses as an adult? If so, in this episode we discuss 4 techniques shared by Harvard researchers on how to raise a kind and caring child.And here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.http://www.thebump.com/a/how-to-raise-kind-kids?utm_source=thebump.com&utm_medium=email&utm_term=parenting-newsletter&utm_campaign=parenting-newsletterExtraordinary Momshttp://extraordinarymomspodcast.com/episode87/Theme music by Dave DepperThanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to hear your th...2016-11-0623 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 9 - Managing and Preventing Toddler TantrumsDo your toddlers through tantrums? Of course they do. Research shows that it's completely normal. But that doesn't make it any easier. Here we share some tips to help with the tantrums in the moment and ways to help prevent them.Here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.http://www.deseretnews.com/article/865659010/Parents-its-okay-for-your-toddler-to-have-tantrums.html?pg=allhttp://www.parents.com/toddlers-preschoolers/discipline/tantrum/tame-your-kids-tantrums/view-all/Thanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode! And if you liked the episode, le...2016-10-2426 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 8 - Limiting Kids ToysAre you overwhelmed by your kids toys? In this episode we talk about a mom who got rid of ALL her kids toys and how that worked for them and we discuss what is and isn't working for us.And here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.http://abcnews.go.com/Lifestyle/mom-threw-kids-toys-life-back/story?id=42396129Thanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode! And if you liked the episode, leave us a review! 2016-10-1624 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 7 - Teaching Your Kids to Be ResilientA college recently found that their students were having a hard time coping with the stresses of college - they are having panic attacks and lack the ability to cope. It’s important to teach your children to be resilient so when they fail, they know how to handle it. We found some great tips on how to teach your children to cope with failure and disappointment.And here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.http://www.nbcnews.com/feature/college-game-plan/college-teaches-anxious-students-not-see-failure-catastrophic-n641521http://www.parents.com/kids/development/behavioral/failure-is-an-option/Theme music by Dave De...2016-10-0327 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 6 - Family Fun TimeWe've talked a little bit about spending time with our families, but what are some activities to do with your family? In this episode, we give you some fun and inexpensive ideas of simple activities you can do with your family to encourage family together time - or Hygge as they say in Denmark.And here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-26078/the-parenting-trick-you-should-steal-from-the-happiest-country-in-the-world.htmlhttp://learnaswego.org/2015/12/10-winter-family-fun-night-ideas.html Theme music by Dave DepperThanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to...2016-09-2517 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 5 - Habits for a Closer FamilyFamily habits and traditions are a great way to create a strong bond as a family. Here are 6 great tips on how to bring your family closer together.Here are the links to the websites we referred to throughout the episode.http://learnaswego.org/2014/03/5-birthday-traditions.htmlhttp://learnaswego.org/2012/03/st-patricks-day-traditions.htmlhttp://learnaswego.org/2014/03/general-conference-traditions-and.htmlhttp://www.quickanddirtytips.com/parenting/school-age/10-healthy-habits-that-strengthen-your-family-part-1http://gretchenrubin.com/happiness_project/2015/12/5-habits-relationships/Thanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode! And if you liked the episode, leave us a review! ...2016-09-1820 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 4 - Teaching Kids to WaitDo you feel like your kids can’t wait for anything? We do too. In this episode we talk about an article written by an occupational therapist who gives us some solutions to helping our kids learn to wait.Article: Why are our children so bored at school, cannot wait, get easily frustrated and have no real friends?http://yourot.com/parenting-club/2016/5/16/why-our-children-are-so-bored-at-school-cant-wait-and-get-so-easily-frustratedThanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode! And if you liked the episode, leave us a review! 2016-09-1123 min
Parenting in Real LifeEp. 3 - Big FamiliesWe have 4 kids and we love big families. If you're curious to know what it's like to have 4 kids and the benefits of big families you'll want to check out this episode! We know not everyone has the opportunity or desire to have a big family, but if you're hoping to have a big family of your own, here are some great tips.And here are the 3 blog posts we referred to throughout the episode.http://nortorious.blogspot.com/2016/06/life-saving-tips-for-mother-of-big.html?m=1https://mollydefrank.com/2016/06/14/what-its-like-to-have-four-kids/http://learnaswego.org/2014/04/10-minutes-of-chaos-mommy-style.htmlThanks so much for listening! Find us on...2016-09-0423 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 2 - The More They Sleep, the More They SleepGetting your kids to go to stay in bed has been compared to a hostage negotiation (cred: Jim Gaffigan). Would you believe that putting your kids to bed earlier could help? It does. Take a listen to find out what we've learned.Thanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode! And if you liked the episode, leave us a review! 2016-08-2818 minParenting in Real LifeEp. 1 - Playing with Your KidsIf playing with your little kids isn't your idea of a great time, we have some tips for you. - Theme music: Upbeat Whistle by Dave Depper- Article: http://www.deseretnews.com/article/865653229/Motherhood-Matters-What-if-I-don7t-like-playing-with-my-kids.html- Website: http://learnaswego.org/podcast- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/learnaswego/?hl=enThanks so much for listening! Find us on Instagram @parenting.irl.podcast. We’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode! And if you liked the episode, leave us a review! 2016-07-0416 min