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Coffee & ChaosIs Tom Single? Is Alina Dating? What's Up With Daniela?Alina, Tom, Trina and Daniela end the year with ugly sweaters and answers to your burning questions.
2025-12-241h 12Coffee & Chaos"I Don't Need No Man!"Alina and Tom bump heads around women who say they're good without a man in their lives.
2025-11-131h 04Coffee & ChaosMen or Women? Alina's Asking the QuestionsAlina hosts a full cast (welcome back Tom!) with a behavioral comparison of how mean and women react in different situations.
2025-10-3055 minCoffee & ChaosFood & Funny: The Wilmington Weatherman and MoreAlina and Trina Welcome Angel, Manager of Cochinitos restaurant, and returning funnyman Raymond to talk about their hilarious collaborations, and of course great food!
2025-10-231h 04Coffee & ChaosMisunderstanding Texts and EmojisTexting today is practically a different language, and innocent-looking emojis improperly used can get you in trouble! Alina and Trina welcome back Daniels and David to discuss their misunderstood experiences.
2025-10-1658 minCoffee & ChaosSuicide Prevention: It's up to All of UsAlina and Trina welcome Mitch to share his experiences of family members who unfortunately passed by their own hands. The three discuss the signs to look for and steps to take, including dialing 988.
2025-10-021h 09Coffee & ChaosDo You Want Your Kids to Be Just Like You?What part of your life would you never want your kids to find out about? That's the question for the group as Tony comes back to join Alina, Tona and Daniela.
2025-09-1151 minCoffee & ChaosEx Pics and Spank Banks: Should You Delete Them?Phones are great for communication, but also for ending relationships depending what's stored on them. Pics of former lovers and select body parts cause arguments and worse. Alina and the girls discuss what's tolerable and when pics from the past have got to go.
2025-07-3151 minCoffee & ChaosWould You Sign a Prenup? Would You Ask Your Partner to Sign One?It's ladies' night on Coffee & Chaos as Alina, Trina and returning guest Daniela tackle a topic that many older and previously married couples deal with. Under what circumstances would you sign a prenup or ask your partner to sign one? And does it signal a lack of trust or unhealed trauma?
2025-07-1758 minCoffee & ChaosWhen No One Believes Your Child Has AutismAlina and Trina have an emotional discussion with Yami, who recognized symptoms in her toddler, only to be rebuffed by her doctors, family and even her husband. Join us to hear her struggle in standing up for her child when no one would listen.
2025-07-031h 01Coffee & ChaosThe ONE THING Women Want from a Man!Alina, Trina and Lexie give their takes on the man traits that women value most.
2025-06-261h 04Coffee & ChaosMan on a MissionThe "honorary Mayor of Wilmington, Calif.," Erick Ojeda Garcia tells Alina about his service in the Marines, the influences of his mother and grandmother, and his love for the city in which he grew up.
2025-06-1957 minCoffee & ChaosHere's to the Dads!Alina and Trina welcome Trina's hubby Michael to talk about his experience of being a father early in life and later adding children through marriage.
2025-06-1259 minCoffee & ChaosTell Me Thursday: The True Crime EpisodeAlina and Lexie move to Set A to talk about true crime, from the Menendez brothers to the lady who allegedly forgot she ran over her boyfriend ... and a little Diddy and Chris Brown throw in for good measure.
2025-05-2252 minCoffee & ChaosDreamDads: Supporting and Uplifting Dads EverywhereAlina and Trina welcome Brian and Victor, who spearhead programs to advocate for involved dads and deter gang violence through basketball.
2025-05-1553 minCoffee & ChaosIt's Men-Bashing Time!Alina and Trina welcome back Jackie and Daniela to discuss the characteristics of strong women and how that strength impacts relationships with men.
2025-05-0157 minCoffee & ChaosMarried, But Living Separately: Does it work?Former Coffee and Chaos co-host Jen Joins Alina on Set A to discuss the merits--and pitfalls--of her unique living arrangement with her husband.
2025-04-2440 minCoffee & ChaosThe REAL Meaning of Easter: It's Not all Eggs and RabbitsAlina welcomes back Roman, who is joined by two of his brothers in Christ Kevin and Danny. The group discusses what Easter means to them and how their relationship with God manifests in their daily lives.
2025-04-171h 01Coffee & ChaosA Safe Space for Men ... and God ... and CoffeeDavid found and saved Alina's grandmother, and they have been close ever since. He sits down with her and Trina to revisit the traumatic time and talk about how his love for God not only put him in the right place at the right time but continues to be shown in his work to use a local coffee shop for men to convene in story and spirit.
2025-04-101h 00Coffee & ChaosThe Tattooing TandemAlina and Trina welcome famed San Pedro tattoo artists Tom & Terri to talk about their lifelong friendship and some of their craziest tattoo stories. Join in!
2025-03-2757 minCoffee & ChaosThe Chase: Can Men Still Pursue Women the Old-Fashioned Way?Tom and Lexie join Alina and Trina to discuss the change in how men court women in 2025. At the same time, how does classic romance clash with female entitlement pushed by social media?
2025-02-271h 04Coffee & ChaosHeartbreak Trauma: Do You Have the Guts to Try Again?Is it better to have loved and lost or not loved at all? That's the topic for Alina and her guests as they explore how much people put into "first love" relationships compared to those that come later. Can we enter new loves without reservation, or are emotions held back by fear, protectionism and trauma? Join the conversation!
2025-02-1358 minCoffee & ChaosLong Beach Carlos on Love, Loyalty & FamilyAlina sits down for a solo chat with a guy who's made a name for himself promoting music and culture in So Cal. Join Us!
2025-02-0656 minCoffee & ChaosActor Noel G Joins C&C!Alina and Trina welcome Noel G and take him down memory lane on some of his most popular and most obscure roles, plus his new projects centered on spreading the Word.
2025-01-241h 00Coffee & ChaosTattoo for You: Terri on the Art of Skin ArtAlina and Trina welcome famed local tattoo artist Terri to talk about how she started, challenges being a woman in a man's space, and what she's got planned next.
2025-01-1659 minCoffee & ChaosAre You Triggered? Real Trauma vs. Social Media FrenzyAlina and Tom add on a younger perspective with returnee Frank Rios to discuss what triggers people and how they should be addresses, especially in relationships. Join in the conversation!
2025-01-0952 minCoffee & ChaosWilmington's Hidden Gems, 2025's New GoalsAlina welcomes Wilmington's own audiologist and part-time funnyman Raymond Luevanos to help bring in the new year!
2025-01-0254 minCoffee & ChaosOur Last Hurrah of 2024!We bungled the attempt to go live (YouTube made us wait 24 hours), but that didn't stop Tom from first defending his position on women, and Alina and Trina fielding questions from a live TikTok audience. Join us as we celebrate 2024 and welcome the New Year!
2024-12-261h 01Coffee & ChaosHoliday Dating: How Long Before They're Invited to Family Dinner?Alina, Solomon and Lexie dive into the "rules" for bringing new SO's around for special family events.
2024-12-0550 minCoffee & ChaosFamily Secrets: How Bad Can They Get?Alina and friends welcome Auntie Sheryn to shed light on the tradition of keeping family secrets ... whom did they protect, and how did they impact families once they were revealed?
2024-11-211h 02Coffee & ChaosToy Drive Time!
Alina welcomes back Steve and Roman to promote the Annual Toy Drive event, complete with food, music and more. Monetary donations accepted at https://square.link/u/S8s5MPUn.
2024-11-1458 minCoffee & ChaosThe News: Dodgers, Rodents & Post-Halloween Ghost StoriesAlina and Tony take to the desk to give you their views on what's happening online. Plus, Grandma has a great day with "friends" on Dia de los Muertos!
2024-11-0546 minCoffee & ChaosIs Male Vulnerability an Expected Right ... or a Turn-Off?Tom, Alina & Trina reflect on some of their past opinions about mens' need for affirmation and reveal surprising changes.
2024-10-3156 minCoffee & ChaosHalloween Trauma Stories & TriviaJoin in for s Spoooooky time! Alina welcomes Tony back, and Solomon leads the group on a round or two of Halloween trivia, plus some questions from peanut gallery.
2024-10-1751 minCoffee & ChaosWielding Food as a Weapon Against IllnessAlina, Gina and return guest Angie take a deep dive into the effects food have on our bodies and mental performance, with comparisons of ingredients of U.S. servings versus other countries. Can we eat our way to health? Dig in!
2024-10-1054 minCoffee & ChaosThe "New: News Desk: San Pedro Anchors, Take 1Alina and Trina pair off to discuss topics impacting the community, including the recent truck battery fire, proposed bridge closure and emergency preparedness.
2024-10-0355 minCoffee & ChaosKicking Them Out, Letting Them inAlina and the gang take on a range of topics from determining the right time to give kids the boot, to making room for -- and giving time to -- a new partner in life. Join the conversation!
2024-09-2656 minCoffee & ChaosSingle Parents: Does Having Help Change the Definition?Is a single parent one who has no help, or is it defined by the how the parent sees their role? Alina, Trina and Angel discuss with Solomon.
2024-09-1247 minCoffee & ChaosDating & Sharing Expenses: There's Levels to This StuffHow do couples split the bills when they're just starting out versus adult marriage versus post-kids romance? Tom, Alina and Gina discuss how who makes more, who does more and who has more baggage shapes love at every level.
2024-09-0544 minCoffee & ChaosOne of Our Own: Let's Find Annie's Daughter
Alina, Trina and Tony are helping to spread the word about the disappearance of Annie's daughter, Jeanie.
2024-08-2934 minCoffee & ChaosToo Late to Appreciate? Lost Loves, Friendships & OpportunitiesWhy does it seem like good relationships don't last? Why does it take one person leaving to pursue greener grass, only to later appreciate what they had? Is it regret, or something else? Alina, Tom & Trina welcome back Niz to drop knowledge on lessons learned late.
2024-08-2258 minCoffee & ChaosHow Do Your Kids Talk to You? A Now-Then ComparisonSmart-aleck, headphone wearing brats who act like you're their friend ... wait, we're talking about our kids! Alina, Steph, Tony & Gina explore how kids interact with parents today versus the "the old days" -- and why. Plus, Alina grapples with the meaning of "single parent." Tune in!
2024-08-151h 01Coffee & ChaosThe Tom Show! Hurt People Hurt PeopleWhile Alina proclaims that anyone who loves mayonnaise must have gone to prison, Tom broaches the topic of taking damage into new relationships.
2024-08-081h 13Coffee & ChaosLive First, Marry Later: Is This the New Way for Today's Youth?Tony's back to join Alina and Gina in welcoming Frank, a 25-year-old entrepreneur who represents a different take on the traditional order of life.
2024-08-0147 minCoffee & ChaosYep, We're Talking About Self Care ... and the 'J' WordAlina, Tom and Trina welcome back Ramon and his shiny new bible to talk about how self-love and self-care are represented in God's word.
2024-07-2553 minCoffee & ChaosWhen Does a "Harmless" Crush Run a Relationship Off the Rails?How far should a person tolerate -- or entertain -- a partner's fantasy romance? Recent posts on social media have Alina, Tom, Trina and Gina questioning how far a celebrity crush should go, especially when things get a little too real!
2024-07-1855 minCoffee & ChaosRed Light, Green Light, The Dating Version!Alina wrangles Tom, Gina & Solomon into answering questions that decide whether a person is worth running toward or skipping town.
2024-07-1157 minCoffee & ChaosWhen is Too Soon to Dump on a Date?Your hangups, phobias, baby daddies and mommas, that rash ... everybody takes baggage into the next relationship. But when -- and how much -- should you spill in the pre-dating stage, on the first date, and on the fifth? Alina and the gang try to figure it out -- join in!
2024-07-0252 minCoffee & ChaosPartnership, Parenthood & Recovery SupportThis is a special one. Alina and Tony bring in TikTok aficionados Gerardo and Ruben, who received hate after posting videos of the dad duo at their daughter's celebration. The pair get into the challenges of raising a daughter with a coparenting mom, the struggle of supporting a partner with substance abuse and the resilience to see it all through. Catch them on TikTok, Facebook, IG and YouTube: @ytuquieneres213.
2024-06-271h 05Coffee & ChaosThe Crazy, Annoying & Downright Unexplainable Things Women Do ... From Men's Perspectives!No matter how good a man cleans, a woman always finds fault! That's just one of the pet peeves men have with women, and Alina is joined by Trina and Stephanie to "defend" or explain their actions. Tony plays referee in this fun episode.
2024-06-2051 minCoffee & ChaosMen's Mental Health: Has Anything Changed?Alina and Yaya team up to talk Men's Mental Health Month with Tom, Solomon and Alina's cousin Nick. In 2024, are men more open to talking with each other about their mental health? And how are wives playing their part in ensuring their husbands have a supportive outlet when needed? Tune in for this very special episode!
2024-06-131h 17Coffee & ChaosTime for a Girls' Episode!Alina and Steph welcome Trina and newcomers Carmen and Anjanette to talk about the impact of strong women in family and on society.
2024-06-0654 minCoffee & ChaosOur One Year Anniversary! The Good, Bad & UnmentionableAngel's back to help Alina, Tom and Tony celebrate one year of Coffee & Chaos! As usual, she doesn't disappoint and delivers thoughtful insight in her no-nonsense way. From relationships to Tom on TikTok, join the crew as they recount the year's best discussions.
2024-05-3058 minCoffee & ChaosHow Much of a Say Do Non-Baby Daddies Have?When stepdads enter the picture, are they given full parental rights, or do they have to earn them? Lexie and Alina share some very pointed views on the subject!
2024-05-301h 00Coffee & ChaosDo Work Wives and Work Husbands Cause Cheating?It's a hot one! Alina and guest Yaya share some pretty strong views on extra-work activities with close co-workers of the opposite sex. Do these relationships open the door to affairs on the job? Do looks play a part? And does the working environment matter? Solomon, Tom and Tony weigh in!
2024-05-3052 minCoffee & Chaos4 Women Take on the 'M' Word (and it's Not Marriage)More than 50 percent of women over 40 will get symptoms, yet few talk about it. The 3 "Inas" -- Alina, Gina and Trina -- and guest Jackie discuss their experiences, fears, and life impact of this midlife condition.
2024-05-0951 minCoffee & ChaosDon't Ever Let Tony Pick the Card Game Again!Alina and the gang break out Tony's card game Substance in hopes of turn-by-turn, fun-filled admissions. Instead, they each reveal deep and insightful thoughts they haven't told anyone else. Get your tissues ready!
2024-05-0258 minCoffee & Chaos2 Moms, 2 Dads on Raising Tomorrow's MenFresh back from Mexico, Alina leads Tom, Lexie and Niz in a discussion on what's necessary to create strong men in a society that tells kids to conform. How can we raise boys to manhood with all of their "man" traits intact?
2024-04-2552 minCoffee & Chaos"You Can't Make Me a Sandwich?" The Value of Serving Your ManIn this age of gender equality and soft girl / guy eras, can the traditional roles of men and women in relationships survive? Alina welcomes the Triple T Team -- Tom. Trina & Tony -- to discuss how women can keep men happy and engaged. Tune in!
2024-04-1854 minCoffee & ChaosTom Asks: When Should You Tell a Date About Your "Enhancements"?This one starts with a story about a toupee and goes off the rails from there! Alina, Tom and Trina welcome guest Niz and get into when -- or if -- you should tell a date about cosmetic enhancements. Also, should it matter if they are temporary or permanent? Chime in below!
2024-04-0444 minCoffee & ChaosHappiness vs Fulfillment ... an Angel Weighs in!Well, not a real Angel, but close! Tony fills in for Tom, and Alina's sis Angel takes to the couch to tackle the subject of life satisfaction in middle age. Are happiness and fulfillment the same thing? And what are the keys to achieving either one?
2024-03-2852 minCoffee & ChaosKeeping the San Pedro Culture: Music By the SeaSteve Linares and Wayne Moore join Alina to promote the upcoming Music By the Sea event spanning 6 Sundays of Summer!
2024-03-2146 minCoffee & ChaosMen / Women Dating Dilemma: Is It Them ... or is It Us?One married, one single, one looking! Alina brings on Trina and Marcella to discuss why it's so difficult to find and connect with the right man. What starts as a blame game turns into some pretty real self-revelation. Stay tuned!
2024-03-1453 minCoffee & ChaosWe Started on Love Bombing, But Then It Got Interesting!Alina ditches the crew and brings back DJ Daniel Carranza for a one-on-one convo on music and dating past 40. Should the older generation take a practical approach to relationships or emotionally trust the heart -- and should younger generations follow suit? Stay tuned for a fun one!
2024-03-0753 minCoffee & ChaosThe Pet Peeves We Love to HateLeaving the toilet seat up? Bringing the car back on empty? Alina welcomes the crew in to talk about their worst pet peeves, plus your responses from Instagram. Tom brings a whole list, and Lexie chimes in with some pretty specific pet peeves on dating!
2024-03-0444 minCoffee & ChaosOnline vs. IRL Dating: Which Works Best?Alina brings back Suzanne and Felipe to get updates on their online dating progress, and invites newcomer and anti-online dater Lexi to get her take on the more traditional partner path. Tune in!
2024-02-2253 minCoffee & ChaosWe All Take the Love Language Test!Alina wrangles Tom, Stephanie, Tony -- and yes, even Solomon -- into taking The Love Language Quiz, and the results are surprising! Somebody got the lowest possible score in one of the big categories -- you won't believe who!
2024-02-1547 minCoffee & ChaosIt's The Boys' Show! Their Takes on the Self-Proclaimed "Bomb -Ass B*tch" BrigadeWhy do select women refer to themselves as a "Bomb-Ass Bitch?" Alina welcomes Tony, Tom and newcomer Jimmy to differentiate the B.A.B. from the traditional independent, single women and mothers.
2024-02-0350 minCoffee & ChaosVegas vs. San Pedro: Trading Harbor Life for NightlifeAlina and Steph welcome San Pedro native Daniel to the couch to talk about his experience leaving the neighborhood to become a DJ in Sin City. Of course, you-know-who has to chime in on her fear of leaving San Pedro, and Solomon changes his mind on important advice for Alina. Join us!
2024-01-2553 minCoffee & ChaosBlack Biden ... Protecting Children and Exposing PredatorsAlina and the gang take a different tack on today's show, welcoming child advocate "Black Biden" to the couch. Join us to hear about some of his most dangerous encounters, his relationship with local police, and the laws that are making it harder to punish child predators.
2024-01-1850 minCoffee & ChaosIs It Daily Topics ... or Current Events? (Ask Alina's Mom!)Anybody over 60 or under 15 would classify this episode under Current Events, but to the gang (minus Tom), it's whatever comes across their TikTok feeds. Alina, Steph and Tony get into battling Gramma, Katt's rant, hiding firearms and more!
2024-01-1150 minCoffee & ChaosThe Hard Question: Should Trans Athletes Compete Alongside Cisgender Athletes?It's dominated the news over the past year; now our crew weighs in from a community point of view. Coach Ron joins Alina, Steph and Gina to discuss if transgender inclusion should stop at competitive, non-coed sports. Is it a question of equality vs. evolution?
2024-01-0443 minCoffee & ChaosIt's Christmas! Trees, Traditions & TamalesIt's our last episode before the big holiday! Alina and Steph bring back Tony and Gina to debate fake vs. real trees, the best holiday dishes, preferred presents and the tried-and-true tamale. Dig in!
2023-12-3050 minCoffee & ChaosAlina Downs Online Dating ... Then Gets Exposed!!Pot and kettle anyone? Alina's made it known that she's against meeting up with an online date for fear of ending up in a basement somewhere. But in this episode, someone close to her spills the tea on a time when she wasn't so careful!
2023-12-1453 minCoffee & ChaosDating Older: Upgrade or Nursemaid?Vivian joins the Alina and Steph to talk about dating older when you're older. They're active enough to keep up now, but when will those extra years start having an effect? Is the race against Father Time worth it? Add your take in the comments!
2023-12-0750 minCoffee & ChaosThe Union: Doing Good in the CommunityAlina and Steph welcome Big Rome and Steve as the four touch on the public's perception of union workers. But more important to this group is how they care for and interact with the community. Steve and Rome reveal the origins of their annual toy drive and how it's touched the lives of kids and families. Listen in!
2023-11-2254 minCoffee & ChaosMid-Life Crisis or Life Restart?The gang’s all here! Alina, Tom, Steph and Angel talk about
the unflattering “mid-life crisis” myth you see in the movies versus the real transition from being a caretaker to finally getting your life back. Should we feel guilty for going all out? Join the discussion!
2023-11-1640 minCoffee & ChaosGender Roles vs. Gen Z: Do They Even Matter?Who takes out the trash? Who cleans the gutters? The traditional answer has always been a 3-letter word, but today, many will say "it depends." Alina and Tom welcome back sis Angel to look at how those hard lines that once defined the responsibilities of men and women are now much softer, and in some areas, gone altogether. Join the discussion and leave your opinion in the comments!
2023-11-0944 minCoffee & ChaosOnline Dating vs. Ending Up in the Basement #relationshipsYes, *someone* in this discussion thinks she'll end up chained to a basement wall if she joins the millions of people who swipe for soulmates! Alina's guests share their wins and losses with online dating and reveal some of the bait-and-switch tricks used by catfishers and desperate date-hunters. Come on in!
2023-11-0237 minCoffee & ChaosJoseph's Bakery: Can It Stay Old School in an Online World?It's one-on-one as Alina welcomes Vic Tuberosi, co-owner of the San Pedro icon Joseph's Bakery. While the cameras weren't rolling for all the catching up of old friends, they did capture Vic's incredible neighborhood involvement, his dreams for the bakery, and the love and respect he has for his dad. Join us!
2023-10-2643 minCoffee & ChaosThe Next Time You Think "Kids Today ..." Remember THIS Kid!Gen Xers. Millennials and Gen Z were all called slackers by their predecessors. But every now and then, you find one who defies the stereotype. Alina brings back Steph and Tony to meet JJ, a self-made entrepreneur who, at 18, is already profiting and setting goals for her future. Hear her inspiring story, and just ignore Stephanie's wardrobe malfunction!
2023-10-1943 minCoffee & ChaosMexican (and not-so-Mexican) Wives' TalesWet hair, bare feet, raw eggs ... what do they have in common? Each spells doom for the unlucky person --- if you believe in that kind of stuff! Alina and guests share their best old-world superstitions handed down from grouchy grandmas. Got a few of your own? Listen in and compare!
2023-10-1249 minCoffee & ChaosIs It Kids Today ... Or Are We Just Too Damn Old?Ron, or "Coach Carter" to his San Pedro teams, joins Alina and Steph to discuss the learning environment for kids in middle and high school. Are parents and teachers' ability to influence kids limited by social media and the new advocacy for self-expression? Coach has an effective and straightforward way of getting through!
2023-10-0547 minCoffee & ChaosDo Same-Sex Couples Have It Better? #samesex #relationshipsIs it a myth that same-sex couples get along better because of the "same sex" part? Alina and Steph welcome two women in same-sex relationships -- one dating, the other married -- to talk about growing up gay, how they solve problems within the relationship, and how they view -- and are viewed by -- society. Tune in!
2023-10-0353 minCoffee & ChaosWomen Working, Losing Our Culture ... It is a Weaker Society or Just Changing Times?It's a quartet in the studio as Tom and Tony rejoin Alina and Steph! The crew digs into traditional roles in relationships, work and household and gives opinions as to the impact on the new generation. Put your waders on: it gets deep!
2023-09-2343 minCoffee & ChaosStepping Out? Better Keep Steppin'!Why do people cheat? Alina and Steph welcome Lou and special guest Sherman to tackle the stay vs. stray topic. Is it in our bones, or does social media make it easier to slide? And can these 3 guests chip away at Alina's "No way, Jose" resolve? Join the discussion!
2023-09-2343 minCoffee & ChaosGrowing Up With Alina? Seth Sets Us Straight!
Welcome back to another episode! We finally get to welcome Alina's much-talked-about son Seth to the couch along with self-proclaimed co-host Stephanie, He talks about growing up without a dad and where he found his male influences, many of which came from his mom.
2023-08-3154 minCoffee & ChaosSocial Media Mania? They Needed Bullet Points for This One
Alina welcomes back Tony and Stephanie to talk about the effects of social media on kids, dating and relationships. The group works collectively to keep Alina on task (which ain't easy), and Solomon compares the social media world with high-end sushi.
2023-08-2447 minCoffee & ChaosCan a Household Survive Differences in Politics & Religion?Can the difference of opinions in politics or religion shake up a household? Can you have different parenting styles? Alina welcomes back Stephanie to discuss these serious topics but laughs a little too much thanks to Solomon’s simple forgetfulness.
2023-08-2352 minCoffee & ChaosAre Women Ruining Today's --and Tomorrow's -- Men?It seems like every other podcast is covering the topic of how men are not the same as the men of old, and as a result are less attractive to women. Alina welcomes back her sister and Tom to give their opinions on today's men as well as the young men they are raising. Of course, Alina ALWAYS has her two cents, and Solomon chimes end toward the end. Join us!
2023-08-2357 minCoffee & ChaosWhere You From, Homie? Dealing with Nationality and Race in Life & RelationshipsAlina welcomes Stephanie Bancroft on the show to talk growing up half-black, half-white and how it impacted her self image and external relationships. Alina also examines her own feelings about her kids discovering other aspects of their nationality that are as far from Mexican as you can get!
2023-08-2346 minCoffee & ChaosWho's Got the Biggest Checklist of Relationship Must-Haves?Yes, relationships can come down to pen and paper (or in Tom's case, the Notes app on his phone), and this week, Alina, Tom and Angel compare their deal-breaker dating characteristics!
2023-08-2359 minCoffee & ChaosIs It Too Late to Co-Habitate?Can longtime single women actually live with men? Alina and Jen dive into the barriers to living under the same roof, and reveal some long-hidden fears to taking the steps toward new committed partnerships.
2023-07-2044 minCoffee & ChaosWhen Does Caring Become Enabling? Tough Love Tactics for Parents (and Family) of AddictsJen is back from her 2-week dental stint, and she opens up about the struggles of raising an addict. Parents have to make tough choices each day to decide how to best support an addict without being drowned in debt and guilt. Alina and Solomon chime in with their own familial experiences. Join us for fun and powerful conversation!
2023-07-1344 minCoffee & ChaosFriends, Frenemies & Foes: The Ladies DiscussAlina is joined by her sister and two besties to talk about what makes a great friendship. The answer? There's levels to this stuff! Hear their takes on the ones you keep close, the barriers that can break friendships, and those you keep at arm's length (or further!)
2023-07-0644 minCoffee & ChaosIt's Mens' Mental Health Month ... Do We Care?Alina is sans Jen this week, but it doesn't means she's solo! She's joined by friends Tony and Tom as the trio discusses a subject that most men don't like to talk about: mental health. The boys candidly discuss some of their own issues and reveal how their experiences shape their approach to mental health with their children. And Alina asks the question so many women ask: how can women help and support men when it comes to mental health? Lock in for a revealing and emotional ride.
2023-06-2952 minCoffee & ChaosCan Men and Women Actually Be Friends?Hey everyone! You see a lot of male-female friendships ... but how did they start? And if one person expresses interest in taking it further, would that friendship turn into a situation-ship, a hookup-ship, or worse? Join Jen and Alina as they apply the question to family friends, co-workers, and EXES! Plus, here what Solomon says a person in a relationship should never, ever do. Tune in!
2023-06-2741 minCoffee & ChaosIs My Picker Broken? Dating & Surviving the Bad Boys
They're back ... and the topics get juicier! Alina and Jen discuss picking the wrong guys and how those experiences shaped their views on mid-life dating. Plus, Jen shows off IG body pics, and Alina weighs dating versus grandkids ... can she do both? Tune in!
2023-06-1953 minCoffee & ChaosOld vs. New: Who Did it Better?
Welcome back! Pour yourself a cup and tune in as Alina and Jen dig into kids and grandkids, life goals and sacrificing for the family. Plus, Alina gets challenged to take on a life-changing task!
2023-06-1950 minCoffee & ChaosGet to Know Alina & Jen!Our first episode: Listen for 10 minutes and you'll understand the "chaos" after the coffee! Subscribe and stay tuned as we unpack dating, relationships, older kids and mid-life everything. We'll see you here each week! Find us on Instagram: @CoffeeandChaospodcast
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