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Morning Rae
BIG SIS CHAT: Dating, Finding Balance + Friendships in Your 20s with Steph Robinson!
#151. Lan and Steph sit down to chat about all things dating, career, friendships in your 20s, navigating life, and building healthy habits! Enjoy xxFollow Steph Robinson ITEMS MENTIONED:Runna App (use code ALLANA for your first 2 weeks free)ColostrumSTAY UP TO DATE WITH LAN:http://instagram.com/allanablumberghttp://tiktok.com/@allanablumberghttp://pinterest.com/allanablumberghttp://youtube.com/allanablumberghttp://strava.com/athletes/allana_blumberghttp://goodreads.com/user/show/153512974-allana-blumbergFor business inquiries, only: lanibfit@gmail.comThis...
2023-11-13
54 min
Morning Rae
Heal from Within: Gut Health, Hormonal Acne, and Supplements with Steph Robinson
#133. In today's episode, we have Steph Robinson, a holistic nutritionist, on. She specializes in healing your acne from the inside out, gut health, and balancing female hormones. We talk about so many amazing things in today's episodes such as the 10 things she does in her morning routine as a nutritionist, nature's Ozempic, Berberine, the best time to have coffee, and how to balance your blood sugars. This episode is brought to you by Ritual. Head to www.ritual.com/ALLANA to get 20% off your first month.Follow Steph on IG.Join the #HotGirlReset group...
2023-07-03
37 min
Raised Resilient: Help Your Highly Sensitive Child
The Benefits of Unstructured Outdoor Play (& How to Get Your Child Outside!) with Allana Robinson
Getting kids outside is truly magical. Fresh air can calm a fussy baby, support emotion regulation, and provide the context change you need on a long day of parenting. And letting kids explore the outdoors *without* structured activities has SO many benefits! In this week’s episode, I talk with Allana Robinson – registered Early Childhood Educator and Developmental Specialist – about the many benefits of unstructured, independent outdoor play. We cover the logistics of getting kids outside (including weather & safety concerns), how to embrace unstructured outdoor exploration, and why it’s so important to let your child pla...
2023-06-28
37 min
Minimalist Moms Podcast
EP233: Free-Range Children (The Benefits of Children Outside Without You!) with Allana Robinson
We’ve heard all about the need to get our 1000 Hours Outside (thanks to friend of the podcast, Ginny Yurich) but what about getting our kids outdoors WITHOUT us? Joining me today is parenting coach, Allana Robinson. Allana believes a helpful developmental tool can be the role of outdoor play (and why it needs to be done (from time-to-time) without parents!) Her coaching encourages parents to ditch the overwhelm (and confusion) so they can actually focus on things that matter (which is right up my alley!)-------------------------------Show Notes for EP233: Free-Range ChildrenEn...
2022-08-09
34 min
Restful Parenting - All Things Sleep and Parenting
E. 95 The Importance of Unsupervised Outdoor Play with Allana Robinson
Join Restful Parenting this week for a very special episode with Parenting Coach Allana Robinson where we discuss the The Role Of Outdoor Play In Development And Why It Needs To Be Without Parents. With the weather warming up and summer being as beautiful as ever, this is a perfect time for parents to learn straight from a parenting expert about unsupervised outdoor play, why it is important and how you can incorporate this into your lives to improve your child's play! About Allana: Allana Robinson is Parenting Coach and CEO of U...
2022-06-27
36 min
High Vibin’ It
145. Heart Wide Open Living with Allana Pratt
Intimacy Expert, Allana Pratt joins us to talk about opening your heart and creating true intimacy (with yourself, your partner, and others).Allana shares processes for activating your heart, integrating your lower vibrational emotions, building a deep and resilient relationship with yourself, and so much more.Tune in if you want to learn, laugh, and open your heart today.Connect with Allana: https://allanapratt.com/Subscribe to Allan’s Podcast, Intimate Conversations: https://allanapratt.com/podcast/Find the extended version of this episode exclusively available on our Patreon (at patr...
2022-05-02
51 min
The Unshakable Company™ Podcast
112: 6 Figures, Now What? with Allana Robinson
You got to your goal of 6-figures! So, what's next? As a business owner, you think alot about making it to 6 figures. You may spend years striving towards that goal, dreaming about what your 6 figure business will look like and how it will change your life. But what about after you reach that goal? Then what?My client, Allana Robinson, is on the podcast today to share stories from her experience as an entrepreneur who hit that famous 6 figure mark, and what she had to figure out next. In this episode, we discuss how she...
2022-05-02
38 min
Don't Get Lost in the Laundry
Episode #81 Raising Competent Kids with Allana Robinson
Allana Robinson is the CEO of Uncommon Sense Parenting as well as a Registered Early Childhood Educator, Developmental Specialist, and Parenting Coach. Her mission is to empower parents of toddlers, preschoolers, and kindergarteners as the experts on their own children and to create a more inclusive world where every person is supported, valued, and given the tools they need to thrive. Allana supports parents of toddlers, preschoolers, and kindergarteners through her ParentAbility program where she focuses on helping parents understand why their children are misbehaving and how to fix it without yelling, shaming, or time-outs. free introductory...
2021-11-20
28 min
Motherhood Unshackled
Part 1: The Conscious Back to School Series with Allana Robinson
The Conscious Back to School Series Part 1 Join the conversation with Allana Robinson from Uncommon Sense Parenting all about; Stress, boundaries & behaviour. Explore how understanding your child’s behaviour allows for your child to have better improvement & ways to lower stress for the school year. Allana’s Zone of genius is behavioural intervention for toddlers, preschoolers & kindergarteners. She is a parenting coach for parents of toddlers, preschoolers, and kindergarteners. She helps parents understand why their children are misbehaving and how to fix it without yelling, shaming, or time-outs through her ParentAbility program. Allana is a Registered Early Child...
2021-08-23
35 min
Motherhood Meets Medicine
Allana Robinson on the Benefits of Being Outdoors and Free Play
We’ve all heard how great it is for our kids to engage in free play, especially while spending time outside. But what are the real benefits? Furthermore, how in the world do we even get our kids to play independently for more than five minutes at a time? Why is it so difficult for some children to be interested in playing alone? Our guest today, Allana Robinson, is an expert on this topic and she is sharing how to make this all possible for you and your children. In my conversation with Allana, we discu...
2021-07-07
1h 04
the Mudroom
4 Tips to Help You To Get Your Kids To Listen
If it's the KIDS that have a "listening problem", why is it that children will listen to certain adults easily and almost ALWAYS? There's a "trick" to getting children to listen quickly and easily, and I'm going to share it with you today. In this episode we'll discuss: - How we're actually making it difficult (if not impossible) for our children to listen to us. - The 4 things we need to keep in mind when giving our children instructions. - How we can make it easier for our children t...
2020-09-17
10 min
the Mudroom
Ask For Help During the Pandemic!
Asking for help is hard! But asking for help and receiving it is an essentail component to our mental well-being. Just like our children, we need to learn to budget our energy output. In this episode I discuss: - Why I've personally been struggling so much lately, and possibly why you are too. - The lies anxiety tells us about parenting. - The benefits of asking for an receiving help, and the effect it has on our kids. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making...
2020-09-14
12 min
the Mudroom
Are You Really Too Busy to Customize a Process for Your Child?
If I told you I could save you 60+ minutes parenting every day, would you give me 10? Of course, you would! We're all run off the rails busy, especially now with the lack of childcare. In this episode I will cover: - How to do an audit to discover how much time you're actually spending on discipline. - Why you're spending so much time repeating yourself every day. - How to parent yourself out of the job of disciplinarian. The beginning of the T...
2020-09-06
11 min
the Mudroom
Are Time-Ins Any Better Than Time-Outs?
Free Workshop: allanarobinson.com/freeclass Many parents, when looking for solutions to their parenting woes, try to just...do the opposite of what doesn't make sense/ isn't working. Time-ins appear to be one of those "things" that was born of a desire to do away with the damaging aspects of time-outs...but are they really any better? In this episode I cover: - Why the term "gentle" doesn't really fit with Uncommon Sense Parenting. - Where time-ins came from, what they propose to do differently from time-outs, and how they're similar. ...
2020-08-31
13 min
the Mudroom
Are You Making Your Child’s Irrational Fears Worse?
Sometimes the things out kids are "scared" of seem so completely ridiculous. It can be infuriating when- if they'd just DO IT- they'd realize there's nothing to be afraid of! In this episode we'll talk about: - Why kids develop these irrational fears. - Two things we do to actually make these fears worse. - The secret to moving them past these fears quickly. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: Join the Parenting Posse: prnt...
2020-08-21
13 min
the Mudroom
Is Your Child Having Trouble Coping with 2020 Changes?
Do your kids seem like they're gunning for the Guiness World Record for biggest and most mood swings in an hour? You're not alone! There's a reason young kids are EXTREMELY emotional right now. In this episode we're going to cover: - Why our kids are SO emotional right now. - The 3 things we need to be paying attention to ESPECIALLY as back to school season starts. - A special note about 4 year olds and the unique experience they've had with the pandemic. Grab the Scripts to Manage the...
2020-08-14
09 min
the Mudroom
Are Your Kids Only Calm When They’re In Front of a Screen?
Why is it so hard for some kids to calm TF down and be quiet?! Why can some kids happily play quietly with LEGO for hours, while others struggle to simmer down enough to even read a short picture book? In this episode we're going to cover: - The difference between quiet and calm - Why we need to focus on teaching out kids to calm down. - How to find your child's calming "thing." Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making...
2020-08-10
11 min
the Mudroom
Should My Children Go Back to Daycare or School?
How the HECK are we supposed to make a decision about returning to school (or daycare, or preschool, or...whatever care situation you've got)?! There really is no good answer. In this episode we'll be discussing: - The 5 factors I think are most important to consider - Some suggestions on how to weigh those factors for your family. - How to make a decision that- if you aren't thrilled about- you can at least be at peace with. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making...
2020-08-10
19 min
the Mudroom
Do Good Get Rewarded, Do Bad Get Punished....This Does Not Work!
Everybody's waking up to the idea that maybe punishments aren't really working. Many people are struggling with what to do instead. We're having a reckoning with punishments on a global scale. As a parent, what does this mean for your kids? In this episode we're going to discuss: - Why large swaths of people are terrified of removing "the enforcers" and replacing it with support. - What we as parents need to think about when it comes to how we're modeling support for our children. - What this looks like in...
2020-07-14
15 min
the Mudroom
How Do I Reintroduce My Child Back Into Society After COVID?
Society is slowly getting back to normal. Public spaces are slowly opening up again and we are beginning to return back to some resemblance of a "normal routine". Have you noticed that your child's behavior is getting worse during this transition time? In this episode we're going to discuss: - Why ending social isolation is just as stressful as starting it. - The two reasons that are causing children to react poorly to seeing friends and family again, even if they're really excited about it. - And two strategies I rec...
2020-06-27
14 min
the Mudroom
Why Is My Child So Rigid In Their Thinking?
It drives parents up the wall when children rigid in their thinking. This is a learned behavior. Parents model this quite a bit. In this episode we're going to discuss: - Why we like rules so much. - How to model discovering nuance in everyday situations. - The best way to teach your children to seek nuance. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every...
2020-06-22
12 min
the Mudroom
What Age Should We Start Talking About Racism?
Parents have been asking over the last few weeks due to the Black Lives Matter Movement, "how old should we be starting to talk to our child about racism?" In this episode we will be discussing: - When to start introducing the topic of racism to young children? - What should that discussion look like? - How to keep the conversation going. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the M...
2020-06-13
18 min
the Mudroom
Are You Getting Stuck In Your Own Head Regarding Your Child's Behaviour Problems?
Ever get stuck in your head going round and round on a behaviour problem, only to realize after far too long the answer's been right in front of your face the whole time? There's a way to avoid these circles we get stuck in our heads and cut straight to the solutions. In this episode I'm covering: - What it means to get stuck in your own head. - Why we get stuck in our heads so much when it comes to our kids' behaviour. - The fastest way to get u...
2020-05-30
12 min
the Mudroom
When I Am Looking Into Parenting Support Is Certification Important?
It's extremely confusing when you start looking for parenting support. Coaches, therapists, doctors, interventionists...we've all got different names, do different things, and have different qualifications. But the most frequent qualification question I get is- why aren't you certified?! In this episode I'm going to cover: - What does "certification" mean in the coaching industry. - What to look for when you're evaluating a potential support's qualifications. - And how to choose the right parenting support for your family. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Craz...
2020-05-19
14 min
the Mudroom
How Do I Deal With My Aggressive Child?
In this podcast I'm going to cover: - What are the two causes of aggressive behavior. - How to handle aggression long-term so that our kids develop healthy coping habits. - And how to handle aggression in the moment when it's happening so that both the victim and the aggressor are taken care of. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at...
2020-05-11
16 min
the Mudroom
Are You Setting Your Baby Up for Uncommon Sense Parenting Success?
Parenting Success? Here's 4 things to focus on with your children under 2 years old. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2020-05-10
16 min
the Mudroom
Are You Focusing On The Micro Problems With Your Child's Behaviour?
We're all getting VERY focused on our children's behaviour right now because they're ALWAYS THERE. But are you asking yourself these two questions to make sure that you're ACTUALLY solving the problems? Or are you just putting a bandaid on it? Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show...
2020-04-25
10 min
the Mudroom
How Do I Lower The Bar On Good Behaviour?
Following up on last week's MudRoom. What does lowering the bar actually look like? What should we be expecting from our kids during this pandemic? How can we be consistent and predictable WHILE expecting everything to be out of wack and awful? Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/ Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify...
2020-04-18
21 min
the Mudroom
My Child Is Regressing During This Isolation! Help!
Are you worried because your child has seemingly regressed in the last two weeks? Things they could easily do at school causing HUGE turmoil at home? THERE'S A REASON FOR THIS! And we all need to be more conscious of it as this social isolation stretches out into the foreseeable future. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/ Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices ...
2020-04-16
15 min
the Mudroom
How Do I Teach My Kids To Support And Be Kind To Each Other?
I know...there's a lot of *togetherness* happening right now. Supporting siblings to be kind and supportive of each other while also establishing their own boundaries is tough! Let alone while trying to work from home. Here's some tips that have helped me ease tensions between hundreds of kids over the last decade. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/ Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com...
2020-04-06
16 min
the Mudroom
HELP ME! My child is always wanting my attention!
When is it appropriate to use planned ignoring? Isn't that giving our kids the silent treatment?! No! Let's talk about when and how to use Planned Ignoring correctly. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/ Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2020-03-30
13 min
the Mudroom
Navigating Through Isolation and Social Distancing With Your Child
As the world is shutting down, most of us are at home for the next three weeks. Does this change anything?!? I will let you know how to navigate through these unprecedented times. The beginning of the Theorists Series: Lev Vygotsky! Originally recorded in October 2017. An introduction to Lev Vygotsky and how his theories from the 1930s apply to your kids today. Want to apply some constructivism to your life? Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every...
2020-03-25
12 min
the Mudroom
How Do I Survive Long Weekends Snow Days and School Strikes With My Child??
Whether it's weather, sickness, job-action, or something else-related...we've all had those days where we're unexpectedly at home with our kids. And many Posse members have been expressing stress over this lately- so let's talk about 4 things you can do to make these days easier on yourself and your child! Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/ Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice...
2020-03-16
14 min
the Mudroom
Does It Feel Like No One Is Believing You As A Mother? Or A Woman?
Recently it's really come to light how little we believe women and mothers- about our own bodies, about our children, about everything! And I want to talk about my own experience with not being believed and pledge to you my belief. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/ Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2020-02-24
17 min
the Mudroom
You Changed Your Parenting Technique.... But It Isn't Working, Why???
Have you noticed that when you start implementing Uncommon Sense Parenting things are actually...getting WORSE?! You're not alone- we expect this- so I want to make sure you know why this is happening! Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/ Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2020-02-17
15 min
the Mudroom
You Don't Need A Schedule To Be Predictable And Consistent!
I've found that often parents give up and creating predictability and consistency in their lives because "we don't have a schedule." Let's talk about the difference between routines and schedules and when you might use one vs the other, and why. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2020-02-07
13 min
the Mudroom
Why is My Child is Never Calm?!
I've heard you- you get it- you can't skill bulid with a child who isn't calm...but you've got a problem: YOUR CHILD IS NEVER CALM! So how exactly are you supposed to work on skill building? You're not alone. Let's talk about what to do when your child literally never seems to be able to stay calm enough to work on their mental skills. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/ Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm...
2020-01-27
16 min
the Mudroom
Punishment VS Discipline
What's the difference between punishing a child and disciplining them? Can you do one without the other? Why don't we want to punish children? EVERYTHING WILL BE REVEALED! Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/ Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2020-01-18
16 min
the Mudroom
Trauma Bonding
What is trauma bonding? How is it not helping your child's development. Tune in to understand why this behaviour is causing harm. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/ Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2020-01-13
10 min
the Mudroom
Why Is My Child An Angel For Everyone Else
Since May over a thousand new members of the Parenting Posse have told me that their child is an absolute angel at daycare, preschool, or kindergarten...only to turn into the second coming of the Demogorgon home. WHAT GIVES?! Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/ Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2020-01-03
13 min
the Mudroom
If Behaviour is Communication, Should We Believe Our Children
When is it time to pull in professional parenting support? Is it when your child gets a diagnosis? Is denied one? Before that? One of the most frequent questions I get is...but...who hires a parenting coach? So let me tell you. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: Parenting Coach Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show...
2019-12-23
18 min
the Mudroom
They Already Know Its Wrong!
Your child already knows it's wrong. Fix it without beating them over the head with that fact! Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: Parenting Coach Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2019-12-21
09 min
the Mudroom
Maintaining The Consistency During The Holidays
Here's my top 3 strategies for surviving the holidays with your young kids! Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/ Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2019-12-17
16 min
the Mudroom
Planning for Failure
Failure is inevitable! My tips to help you plan for failure, making it a little easier for everyone! Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scriptsWatch the video recording here: prnt.link/ Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2019-12-15
12 min
the Mudroom
Why You Need A Parenting Coach
Us...because we think we know better than them. We think we see the "real" problem...and we forget that our children's behaviour is really communication. What would happen if we believed them? Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: Parenting Coach Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2019-10-24
13 min
the Mudroom
One of The Reasons Your Child Is Struggling with Independent Play
One of the big struggles I get asked about by parents is that children won't clean up one toy before moving on to another toy. While children can clean up after themselves and be darn good at it too but if you've listened to my episode on what play actually IS- you'll remember this: it's not clean. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2019-10-23
09 min
the Mudroom
The Clumps
Every parent I've ever spoken to has "clumped". But the secret to a successful behaviour plan is to de-clump. Let's talk about what that looks like. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: Declump Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2019-10-09
10 min
the Mudroom
Scared Focusing on Skill Building Will Produce Entitled Kids?
Many parents fear that by giving a child what they need to regulate that they are creating an entitlement. Does it ring true for you that you can't seem to go all-in on skill-building because when you're in red-brain and when you feel affronted, you don't want to give an inch because that will surrender your position as the authority? Let's change that because it's not true. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: https://youtu.be/MBVDB-i6B3o Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is...
2019-10-08
15 min
the Mudroom
Bodily Autonomy
Last week we talked about how boundaries make children feel safe and that it's okay to put limits around space. I'd say on the whole millennial mothers spend a lot of time, effort, and energy teaching their children that they are the boss of their body. Yet somehow, we seem to have missed the memo that it also applies to us. And that's what I want to talk about tonight: OUR bodily autonomy. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: https://youtu.be/MBVDB-i6B3o Join the Parenting Posse...
2019-09-30
11 min
the Mudroom
Putting Limits Around Space
There is nothing I've recommended that seems to get people's backs up like my recommendation to parents to put limits around space for their children. I'm not suggesting you throw your children in a dungeon and throw away the key, but putting limits around space is actually helpful and a relief for your child - even if they rail against in the beginning. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: https://youtu.be/I-6O61yhjJw Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday...
2019-09-26
20 min
the Mudroom
Back To School Tips - 2019
After 10 years as an early interventionist and now going on 6 years as a mother, I am ALL about reducing stress, so I'm sharing my top tips to reduce the back to school stress for you and your kiddos as we start the school year. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: https://youtu.be/jJWDDfxLGWk Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify...
2019-09-25
15 min
the Mudroom
Back Episode: Why Yelling Really Doesn't Work
Are you a "yeller"? Does it feel like yelling is the ONLY way your kids sit up and listen? Yelling can become a self-fulfilling prophecy if used incorrectly and create more problems than it solves. In this back episode from June we discuss yelling as a parenting technique. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/yelling Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message...
2019-09-23
16 min
the Mudroom
Why build skills in early childhood vs elementary school?
Why focus on these tools with toddlers and preschoolers? It all comes down to energy. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: https://youtu.be/h9hcS0n_EPE Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2019-09-05
18 min
the Mudroom
Lying
Does the fact that your child lies mean that you're raising a dishonest little sh*t? Why do they lie when they know you know the truth?! Even when you SAW them do it? In this episode, we discuss why young children lie and how to respond when they do. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: https://youtu.be/h53jBYGF2e4 Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- ...
2019-08-23
14 min
the Mudroom
The "Sex" Talk
You're scared of talking about *sex* with your kids?! Join the club. Here's how to make it not so scary and 💣 like. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: https://youtu.be/M_6uGbqaFFg Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2019-08-09
15 min
the Mudroom
4 Things To Do NOW If You Want Well Behaved Kids
A colleague recently asked me if I could only teach you 4 things- what would they be? It took me a lot of mulling to figure it out, but I finally did. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2019-08-01
12 min
the Mudroom
Boys Will Be Boys
Let's unpack "Boys will be boys" and the damage it does to all children. Join us Thursday for our Misbehaviour-Proof class: prnt.link/register Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: https://youtu.be/mPD1tTGFx8c Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2019-07-16
10 min
the Mudroom
Social Justice
By now I'm sure you're aware that there are a lot of social justice issues popping up around the world. As millennials, we are gradually becoming responsible for governance in all areas of that process. As we work to restore respect and equality we need to pay close to not only the intellectual knowledge and values that we are consciously imparting but also to teaching our children the skills to actually put that knowledge to practice. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/socialjustice Join the Parenting Posse...
2019-07-05
18 min
the Mudroom
4 Things Calm Parents Do Daily
We hear it every time we fly - "Put your own oxygen mask on first." While this is great advice if your plane runs into trouble, it's also a great guideline to follow if you want to practice calm parenting with your kids. Because when we get hyperaroused, our kids tend to get hyperaroused, and that is where the challenges begin. We need to find things we can do daily to reduce stress in our lives. We discuss four that have been really effective for me and my clients in this episode. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making...
2019-06-21
12 min
the Mudroom
Parents Are The Change!
Have you ever felt like "upgrading" your parenting skills is worthless? That your kids are just going to turn out to be who they are no matter how you parent them? I think we've all been there but there's a new study that refutes that empirically. Study referenced: https://www.jaacap.org/article/S0890-8567 Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/ Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices ...
2019-05-22
13 min
the Mudroom
Extinction Bursts
Does it ever feel like you try all these parenting suggestions- from Pinterest articles, Facebook groups, and HERE!...and none of them work? In fact- does it feel like they actually make things worse? Well, there's a reason for that. If you've ever tried a suggestion I've made on the MudRoom and thought I'm full of shit- this episode is for you. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/extinctionbursts Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm...
2019-04-14
13 min
the Mudroom
What Exactly Is Stress?
Does the concept that your toddler or preschooler is stressed...stress you out? What does a 3/4 year old have to be stressed about anyways?! Well, stress is NOT just worry. In this episode we'll be discussing the concept of stress and how it may be effecting your kids. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/whatexactlyisstress Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message...
2019-04-11
19 min
the Mudroom
Comfort With Discomfort
Are you TOO comfortable? Having a comfort with discomfort is vital to our children's (and our!) success in life. Learning to take calculated risks is important. Here's why. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: http://prnt.link/comfortwithdiscomfort Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2019-03-16
20 min
the Mudroom
Your Kids Need to Play Outside WITHOUT YOU.
If the idea of sending your child outside to play without you completely freaks you out- then please, listen here. We're talking about why playing outside is necessary for healthy child development. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: http://prnt.link/outdoorplay Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2019-03-03
22 min
the Mudroom
Giving Your Child More Freedom Without Going Crazy with Worry: PING GPS
You know the benefits of allowing your child space and time to roam and play unsupervised but when it comes to DOING it....uh...that's freaking terrifying. Let's talk about the PING GPS and how it's helped me let go with confidence. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/ping Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show...
2019-02-27
23 min
the Mudroom
How to Ask for Help at School and Have the Teacher Listen
For a change of pace we had Meg Flanagan of MilKids Ed as a guest to discuss how to foster a positive relationship with your children's teachers. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/meg Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2019-02-26
25 min
the Mudroom
Natural and Logical Consequences
Have you been using the Logical Consequence process for a while now and are starting to feel like I'm totally full of shit and this is NOT WORKING? ...Well, you're not wrong. Natural and Logical Consequences are limited. They're the short game. We need to talk about what the long game is. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: http://prnt.link/nlcsdontwork Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- ...
2019-02-03
08 min
the Mudroom
Visuals
We expect a lot out of little children- and never is that more apparent than our expectation that they remember EVERYTHING they're told off the top of their head with no support. A standard that we don't even hold ourselves to. The solution? Visuals. Get your free daily routine visual schedule: http://prnt.link/visualsupgrade Watch the video recording here: http://prnt.link/visuals Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com...
2019-01-26
14 min
the Mudroom
Consistency is Key
When it comes to parenting generally the rule of "pick two" applies. But there is ONE thing ANYONE can do that will dramatically improve their child's behaviour no matter what parenting style or technique you're using. That is consistency. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: http://prnt.link/consistency Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2019-01-19
14 min
the Mudroom
The Limbic Leap
Why are four-year-olds so damn DRAMATIC?! They're moody, whiney, helpless, and generally just unpleasant to be around. They aren't babies anymore- aren't they supposed to be getting easier?! There's a very good reason that your 4 is driving you up the wall. So let's look under the hood and see what's going on. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/limbicleap Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send...
2019-01-13
16 min
the Mudroom
Children Don't Level Up: the Developmental Continuum
Development is on a Continuum- so are some parents using tactics (*cough crowdsourcing cough* ) that aren't serving them to figure out their child's development? What can we do instead? Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: https://www.facebook.com/arfamilyservices/videos/320364448559870/ Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2018-11-30
08 min
the Mudroom
Defiance vs. Lack of Skills
What if your child isn't defiant, what if they just don't know how to do what you're asking them to do? I don't mean physically don't know- I mean mentally. What if it's just a matter of weak executive skills? Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: http://prnt.link/defiance Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom...
2018-11-30
08 min
the Mudroom
You Are the Expert On Your Child
Never let anyone tell you that you don't know what is best for your child. On this episode we talk about how to claim your status as the expert on your own kid. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: http://prnt.link/expert Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2018-11-23
13 min
the Mudroom
Can We be done with Zero Tolerance?
Worried about your preschooler's preoccupation with war, weapon, and superhero play? It seems to go against every feminist, pacifist bone in our bodies to allow violent fantasy play- but this style of play is actually incredibly beneficial to both boys and girls. We talk about the reseach in this episode. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: http://prnt.link/violentplay Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in...
2018-11-14
17 min
the Mudroom
Parental Preference
Sometimes we just prefer one thing over the other- and kids are no different when it comes to their parents. If your toddler or preschooler has a strong preference for one parent over the other- here are some strategies for overcoming that. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: http://prnt.link/parentalpreference Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod...
2018-11-02
16 min
the Mudroom
Earlier is Not Better
The pressure to start your child off on the eighth academic foot as quickly as possible is intense. But- is earlier actually better? What should toddlers and preschoolers be doing to get ahead? The answer might surprise you. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/earlyacademics Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2018-10-31
16 min
the Mudroom
Your Kids Need Time Away From You
The guilt of not spending every waking moment engaged with our kids can be suffocating at times- but not only is separation important for you, it's important for your children's development as well. In this episode we discuss 4 reasons you need to take some time away from you kids. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: http://prnt.link/timeaway Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a...
2018-10-26
21 min
the Mudroom
Let's Talk About Time Timers!
So your 5-minute warnings aren't really doing the trick, are they? If transitions are a disaster in your house and only getting worse- let me introduce you to my little friend. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/transitions Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2018-10-14
17 min
the Mudroom
Misbehaviour vs. Stress Behaviour
You know how to recognize misbehaviour, but can you recognize STRESS behaviour? The difference between the two. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: http://prnt.link/stressbehaviour Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2018-10-03
08 min
the Mudroom
Banish Behaviour Charts
Why bother with all this critical thinking and relationship building stuff when behaviour charts exist?! Aren't they easier?! Behaviour charts fall into the same category as time outs and here's why the old carrot and stick method never works for long. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: http://prnt.link/behaviourcharts Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show...
2018-10-03
16 min
the Mudroom
Getting Dad on Board
Changing parenting tactics can breed a lot of discord between spouses. Especially when you were brought up in inherently different ways. Getting Dad on board isn't impossible. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: http://prnt.link/getonboard Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2018-09-16
15 min
the Mudroom
Practice Makes Perfect
Does it feel like no matter what you do NOTHING IS GETTING BETTER? What are you doing wrong?All you want is for your child to succeed. Embracing failure as a parent is hard...but it's a necessary evil. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/failure Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2018-09-12
11 min
the Mudroom
Disagreeing With Your Child's Teacher
The beginning of the Theorists Series: Lev Vygotsky! Originally recorded in October 2017. An introduction to Lev Vygotsky and how his theories from the 1930s apply to your kids today. Want to apply some constructivism to your life? Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: http://prnt.link/teachertrouble Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2018-08-31
14 min
the Mudroom
Back Episode: What Causes Tantrums?
Your child only has a tantrum because they're trying to get something from you, right? WRONG! There are 3 root causes of tantrums- and once you can identify them, you can better respond to them. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/tantrums Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2018-08-26
11 min
the Mudroom
Consent + Rough and Tumble Play
The beginning of the Theorists Series: Lev Vygotsky! Originally recorded in October 2017. An introduction to Lev Vygotsky and how his theories from the 1930s apply to your kids today. Want to apply some constructivism to your life? Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: http://prnt.link/roughandtumble Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2018-08-10
14 min
the Mudroom
Sharing
The beginning of the Theorists Series: Lev Vygotsky! Originally recorded in October 2017. An introduction to Lev Vygotsky and how his theories from the 1930s apply to your kids today. Want to apply some constructivism to your life? Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: http://prnt.link/sharing Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2018-08-05
11 min
the Mudroom
You Don't Have to Play With Your Kids
Parents feel an enormous amount of pressure to play with their kids all day every day. We've become convinced that if we don't play with our kids, they'll be stupid. Where did this come from? Let's chat about this cultural shift and why it's not actually serving you or your kids. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/playwithyourkids Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in...
2018-07-28
15 min
the Mudroom
Back Episode: Stop Saying No to Your Kids
Wait...isn't the lack of hearing "no" what's wrong with Millennial parents and their offspring? NO! The word "no" has become so bastardised by parents. So let me give you a wee English lesson along with your parenting tea today! Something tells me you won't want to say no much after this. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/no Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send...
2018-07-27
13 min
the Mudroom
Why Corporal Punishment is Unacceptable in 2018
Apparently, it needs to be said out loud: corporeal punishment does more harm than good for developing minds. Ever wondered why? Need some arguments to explain it to old Uncle Ephriam? Here's your talking points. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/corporalpunishment Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2018-07-25
16 min
the Mudroom
Collaborating with your Child
Have you tried the Logical Consequence Process- maybe repeatedly- but it's STILL NOT WORKING and you're wondering WHY? Most parents skip this step. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/lcpguide Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/lcp Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2018-07-20
11 min
the Mudroom
Things Shit Moms Do
Do you ever feel like a Shit Mom? Like you're completely screwing up everything when it comes to parenting your children, maintaining your household, and just generally living life? There's a list of things that Shit Moms don't do. I'm pretty sure you don't tick any boxes. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/thingsshitmomsdo Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https...
2018-07-18
11 min
the Mudroom
Boundaries = Safety
Many parents tell me that they feel "mean" and "overwhelmed" when they enforce boundaries. Boundaries are important for everyone to maintain, but especially parents with children- this is why. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/boundaries Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2018-07-17
15 min
the Mudroom
Back Episode: Teaching Things You Don't Know How to Do
It's hard to teach our kids skills we may not have mastered ourselves. Why seeking outside support is important. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/teachingnewthings Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2018-07-17
09 min
the Mudroom
Back Episode: Criticisms of Mainstream Attachment Parenting
Attachment Parenting means many things to many people- but why don't I consider myself part of the "attachment parenting" set? This is why. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/ap Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2018-07-14
33 min
the Mudroom
Support Vs. Punishment
Supporting vs. Punishing our kids- that seems like a fairly self-evident distinction to most parents, however, most still choose to punish their children. Why? I think it's because they don't truly understand the difference. Why does support work better than punishment? Let's talk about it. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/punishment Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify...
2018-06-13
10 min
the Mudroom
Back Episode: Bronfenbrenner
Today we talk about Bronfenbrenner's Ecological Systems Theory. Not a super glamorous topic, but one that really helps us give our children's behaviour context. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/bronfenbrenner Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2018-06-13
24 min
the Mudroom
What makes play- PLAY?!
As promised in the Blanket Time episode- this episode focuses on the 7 properties of play and what makes play genuine play according to Brown's 7 Properties of Play. Using these 7 properties to guide you, you can guarantee your child is engaging in genuine, brain building, social skills buffing, soul-fulfilling play. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/play Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice...
2018-06-04
21 min
the Mudroom
Back Episode: Breaking Down Blanket Time
A member of the Parenting Posse brought up the concept of "Blanket Time" ...so I decided to break it down and see if "Blanket Time" actually accomplishes what those who use it think it is. Spoiler Alert: Nope. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/blankettime Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2018-05-26
23 min
the Mudroom
Back Episode: Albert Bandura
What effect do the people in your child's circle of influence have on your child's behaviour, how can you predict what behaviour they'll imitate, and how can we guide this in a positive way? Let Bandura's theory guide you. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/bandura Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mudroom/message
2018-05-23
15 min
the Mudroom
Kids Who Ask Questions They KNOW the Answer To!
Kids like ask questions. But when they ask questions you KNOW they know the answer to, or has a really obvious answer- it can get very mentally exhausting, very quickly. There's a reason kids do this though, and often it's easier to deal with if we know what's driving it. Grab the Scripts to Manage the Top 10 Crazy-Making Behaviours: prnt.link/scripts Watch the video recording here: prnt.link/rhetoricalqs Join the Parenting Posse: prnt.link/group the Mudroom is recorded live every Tuesday at 9pm ET/ 8pm CT/ 6pm PT on Facebook: facebook.com/arfamilyservices --- Send in a...
2018-05-18
11 min