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Relationship Goals?Working From Home MomsIn this week's episode Amber details the benefits and struggles of working from home as a new mom. Listen in as she discusses the pros and cons of getting to be home while the baby is in his first year and how women are taking a stand to compensate for the lack of help provided to them in the US. Support the show2024-03-2822 minRelationship Goals?Gender DisappointmentIn this emotionally resonant episode of "Relationship Goals?", hosts Danny and Amber Zakem candidly share their personal experience with gender disappointment during pregnancy. Delving into the complexities of this widely felt yet often undiscussed emotion, the couple opens up about how this unexpected feeling shaped their journey to parenthood. Despite not having a strong preference for their baby's gender, they explore the societal expectations and stereotypes that contribute to these sentiments. Through their heartfelt conversation, Danny and Amber emphasize the significance of breaking the silence surrounding gender disappointment, fostering a supportive space for others to acknowledge and navigate their...2024-02-2928 minRelationship Goals?Relationships Post BabyNo one talks about how hard relationships can be after having a baby. This week Amber and Danny Zakem dive into postpartum relationship struggles and how they are focused on getting through the hard times. Support the show2024-02-2234 minRelationship Goals?Valentine's DayWelcome to "Relationship Goals?" – the podcast that explores the intricacies of love, connection, and everything in between. In Season 3, Episode 12, join your hosts, Amber and Danny Zakem, for a heartfelt journey into the world of romance in their special annual Valentine's Day episode.In this episode, Amber and Danny share their personal reasons for cherishing Valentine's Day, offering insights into why this holiday holds a special place in their hearts. From cherished traditions to unique celebrations, they delve into the various ways to make Valentine's Day meaningful, regardless of your relationship style or background.Discover th...2024-02-1330 minRelationship Goals?MotherhoodAmber answers your burning questions about her journey into motherhood. Tune in to hear about how she navigates the ups and downs of postpartum and the first year with a baby. Support the show2024-02-0130 minRelationship Goals?Windy City Wonders: Your Ultimate Chicago Winter Guide🎙️ Welcome to "Windy City Wonders: Your Ultimate Chicago Winter Guide" podcast! 🌨️❄️Get ready to discover the magic of Chicago's winter wonderland with hosts Amber and Danny Zakem as they navigate the city's coolest season. From family-friendly activities to romantic date night spots, we've got the inside scoop on making the most of the chilly months in the Windy City.🍽️ Hungry for adventure? Join us as we dish out recommendations for the coziest restaurants serving up hearty winter fare. Whether you're craving comfort food or looking to explore the city's diverse culinary scene, we've got your taste buds covered...2023-12-2828 minRelationship Goals?Pregnancy StyleWe are chatting Amber's pregnancy style in this week's episode. The number one thing she loved about pregnancy was dressing her bump. Listen to us chat about what went into curating a pregnancy wardrobe. Support the show2023-12-1430 minRelationship Goals?Everything Amber Hated About Being PregnantAlthough pregnancy comes with a lot of positives, hello a sweet angel baby, but what no one talks about is all the hard shit. We are blowing big pregnancy wide open with these top things Amber hated about her pregnancy.Support the show2023-12-0728 minRelationship Goals?Thanksgiving 2023Amber's favorite holiday is here! We recap our Thanksgiving holiday and why we enjoy this time of year so much. Tune in for our schedule, menu, and what we are most thankful for this year! Support the show2023-11-3028 min
Relationship Goals?Season ThreeWe're back and better than ever! Listen as Amber and Danny Zakem recap the last year of their life and kick off season 3 of Relationship Goals? Support the show2023-11-1628 minRelationship Goals?Friends with Kids Part 2After a nine month hiatus Amber and Danny Zakem are welcoming Derrick and Alexa Welton back to the podcast. Last time the Weltons were on they discussed their journey to becoming parents. In part 2, they are discussing the ups and downs of parenthood and what that looks like for their relationship. Strap in for an emotional and informative ride with a great set of guests! Alexa recommends @biglittlefeelings on Instagram Support the show2022-09-1549 minRelationship Goals?7th Wedding AnniversaryThis week Damber celebrates their 7th wedding anniversary! In this episode Danny and Amber Zakem discuss some of the highlights from the last 7 years of marriage and what they are looking forward to in year 8! Support the show2022-09-0831 minRelationship Goals?What I've Learned From My PartnerIn this week's episode Danny and Amber list all of the things their partner has taught them. Some silly, some serious, it makes a great way to connect with your partner in a new way! Support the show2022-09-0127 minRelationship Goals?7 Questions to Strengthen Your RelationshipThere was an article written for the New York Times entitled, "7 questions to strengthen your relationship" Danny and Amber Zakem are taking on these questions to help better strengthen their relationship and see if they can get on or stay on the same page. Check out the article here: https://www.nytimes.com/2022/07/01/well/family/relationship-questions.htmlSupport the show2022-08-2528 minRelationship Goals?Amber's 32nd BirthdayIt's your favorite podcast hosts birthday! Amber turns 32 on August 18th and in this week's episode she details all her love for her birthday and Danny's memory fails majorly. Send her a bday wish! Support the show2022-08-1824 minRelationship Goals?InspirationIn this week's episode Danny and Amber Zakem discuss what is inspiring them right now. Between their relationship, work, and their personal lives, it is great to reflect on the things that are contributing to your happiness and making you feel motivated. It is important to reflect on what is inspiring you to refocus and center yourself which will ultimately lead to achievement of goals! Support the show2022-08-1125 minRelationship Goals?Back From VacationIn this episode, Danny and Amber Zakem discuss their recent trip to Europe. They detail their time onboard Uniworld's S.S. Antoinette, and talk about relationship issues that arise while traveling -- especially with family. Support the show2022-08-0430 minRelationship Goals?Night Before the WeddingBack with another wedding episode! Amber and Danny Zakem discuss their dos and don'ts the night before your wedding. They discuss the things they did, what they would do all over again, and the things they would change. With a couple major PSAs. Tune in! Support the show2022-07-2831 minRelationship Goals?Marriage is not End GameAmber and Danny discuss how marriage does not create the start of your life. Live now and if you find someone along the way that you mesh with, then great. Marriage is a lot of work and isn't riding off into the sunset at the end of a movie. Support the show2022-07-2125 minRelationship Goals?Amber's StyleFind out where Amber shops, how she feels about her style, and how she puts outfits together. Hear from Danny and Amber about Amber's best "looks" and enjoy this fun episode that exactly 3 people asked for! Support the show2022-07-1435 minRelationship Goals?F*ck SCOTUSWe were going to give you a nice little 4th of July episode where we detailed the flag cake that Amber makes every year, renting boats and enjoying the lake here in Chicago, and watching fireworks at our tennis club. But instead, the Supreme Court of the United States decided to take rights away from every woman in this country, so we changed things up. Listen is as we yell about how terrible the decision to overturn Roe V. Wade is for 20 minutes and get mad with us! Support the show2022-06-3028 minRelationship Goals?StaycationAfter a lot of highs and lows over the last few months, Amber and Danny Zakem took advantage of a free weekend and had a staycation. Check out what they have to say about what it did for their relationship and how you can make staying home or staying in your city a fun filled, recharging, weekend! Support the show2022-06-2330 minRelationship Goals?Le Dollar BeansHappy Pride Month! We are welcoming Amber's sister, Tilli Evans and her girlfriend Della Ferguson to the podcast! Tilli and Della have been dating for just over a year and they are talking coming out, their love story, what Gen Z does differently when it comes to LGBTQ+ as well as what they think is Relationship Goals! Support the show2022-06-1627 minRelationship Goals?Relationships are HardIf you haven't been able to tell we have been going through a hard time lately. We finally discuss the ins and outs of where we have been mentally in our relationship and why relationships are so hard. Thank you to everyone for tuning in and helping us along our journey, that is this podcast. Support the show2022-06-0931 minRelationship Goals?Getting a Pet with a Significant OtherSo you are in a relationship, and now you want to expand your family, but wait, not children!! --Pets!! Congratulations, there is nothing better than loving on a fur baby, but wait, have you thought about all that comes with getting a dog, cat, or other pet with your sig o?! Danny and Amber, in this week's episode, detail some of the things you should think about before diving in on the pet parent train! Support the show2022-06-0231 minRelationship Goals?Summer Should be FunThe episodes have been a little heavy, as of late, so Damber is giving you some fun. Whether you live in Chicago, are in a relationship, need some Inspo for a Bumble date, or are going to be visiting the Windy City here are a ton of fun options for things to do this summer! Support the show2022-05-2630 minRelationship Goals?Life RutDanny Zakem takes on this week's episode solo. He gets very vulnerable about things he has been going through, and how relying on the people in your life is so essential to meet your goals. Sometimes we just need to talk through where our heads are at and Danny leads the charge. Support the show2022-05-1217 minRelationship Goals?Shifting PrioritiesHave you ever found yourself in a transition period in your life? Do you find that things that used to be your main source of fun, entertainment, or joy, are suddenly not giving you the same shine? In this week's episode Amber and Danny Zakem discuss how they can feel their priorities shifting as they start the mental journey to starting a family. There are a lot of isolating feelings when you can feel your priorities shifting, whether it is in your job, with your family, or just to a new stage of life. Join the conversation today! S...2022-05-0537 minRelationship Goals?InspirationYou're the meaning in my life, you're the inspiration. In this week's episode Amber and Danny Zakem discuss the real life couples, peoples, places, and tv characters who have played a part in the people they are and relationship that they have. Support the show2022-04-2828 minRelationship Goals?BreakupsYou are getting a solo Amberol Spritz episode this week. As Danny has never truly experienced a real breakup, Amber is here to reflect on what the major breakups in her life have had her reflecting on. If you have ever gone through a breakup in the past or are going through one right now, know that it changes you in ways that you can't even imagine, but it also opens the door for so much more of life. Breakups suck, grab a cocktail and enjoy this week's episode! *correction* in the podcast I say that I d...2022-04-2130 minRelationship Goals?Best DaysWhen you think back on your life, what are the best days that come to mind? In this week's episode Danny and Amber Zakem discuss how sometimes it's not the days that are the biggest milestones, but often the quiet unassuming ones that tend to have the most impact. Listen while they unpack the best moments from the last 31+ years. Support the show2022-04-1443 minRelationship Goals?Post Pandemic Relationship RealizationsThe pandemic shone a light on a lot of the negative traits that our relationship, or person lives, and our work lives had instilled in us since we were born. In this week's episode Danny and Amber Zakem discuss how the pandemic changed the way they communicate, how they look at social issues, and the importance of mental health. Support the show2022-04-0731 minRelationship Goals?Attachment StylesIn this week's episode Danny and Amber Zakem are exploring their attachment styles and how they affect their relationship. The four attachment styles are: anxious, avoidant, disorganized, and secure. You can visit attachmentproject.com to take the quiz and learn more about your own attachment style or read about the other 3. Sources: attachmentproject.comSupport the show2022-03-3029 minRelationship Goals?Same Book, Different PageRelationship Goals? is back after a few weeks hiatus. Kicking off this week's episode with a common fight Amber and Danny Zakem are having. If you can relate not being on the same page as your partner, you will resonate with this episode. Working through this common fight on the podcast helps these two sort out their issues and realize that being on the same page is the goal, but knowing they are in the same book helps them come together. Support the show2022-03-2429 minRelationship Goals?Changing Vs. GrowingPeople never change, but they can grow. Amber and Danny Zakem take a look at how dangerous wanting to change a partner can be, and how it more often than not doesn't result in said change. On the flip side, they talk how growing as individuals and in your relationship is necessary to become Relationship Goals? Sources: https://possibilitychange.com/the-difference-between-change-and-growth-and-knowing-which-you-need/https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/why-you-shouldnt-try-to-change-your-partner/ Support the show2022-03-0329 minRelationship Goals?Friendship Goals?In this week's episode Danny and Amber detail why friendship is so important as both an indicator and as part of romantic relationships. Listen as they describe how their friendships have played key roles in their lives and in the relationship of damber. Support the show2022-02-2434 minRelationship Goals?Valentine's DayHappy Valentine's Day everyone. We hope you have a love filled day. Enjoy an episode filled with a "how well do we know each other" quiz questions and some historical Valentine's Day fun facts. We love you all!! sources: quiz questions: https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a32160810/couples-quiz-questions/fun facts: https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/holidays/valentines-day-ideas/a26863/valentines-day-facts/Support the show2022-02-1031 minRelationship Goals?Chicago Date GuideWe LOVE Chicago and we are bestowing you some ideas for the perfect date, or day with friends. Whether you like something low-key, fancy, or active, Danny and Amber Zakem are giving you their favorite neighborhoods, bars, restaurants, and activities to do throughout the Windy City! Support the show2022-02-0329 minRelationship Goals?Relationships + Body ImageBody image is such a personal journey, and how it relates to dating and relationships is something that everyone experiences. Listen as Amber and Danny Zakem discuss their individual journeys with their own body image and how it affected their relationships in both past and present. Support the show2022-01-2732 minRelationship Goals?Work | Life | Relationship BalanceAs we get older our priorities shift. One major thing many of us learned during the pandemic is what is truly important to us. On this week's episode Danny and Amber Zakem discuss how they manage work, life, and relationship balance, what they could do better and how they see this shifting in the future. Support the show2022-01-2028 minRelationship Goals?Relationship Health CheckI big part of growing in yourself and in your relationship is reflection. Taking the time to understand how you are contributing in a negative and positive way to your relationships will help you find balance in your life. Find out what Danny and Amber are working on in 2022. Support the show2022-01-1331 minRelationship Goals?Friends with Kids part 1We welcome our first guests of season 2 -- Derrick and Alexa Welton! These two have been friends of ours since college, and have since welcomed two beautiful children. Derrick and Alexa are some of our first friends to have kids and are detailing their struggles with IVF and how that impacted their relationship. Stay tuned for the next episode where we explore parenting roles, how their relationship has changed, and what they find to be relationship goals! Support the show2022-01-061h 01Relationship Goals?New Year's AspirationsTake some time this week to write out all of the great things that you have achieved this year. All the small things you've add up to a really great year! In this week's episode Amber and Danny Zakem talk about all the things they felt like they achieved this year and look forward to 2022! Support the show2021-12-2844 minRelationship Goals?Holiday traditionsWe're having a holly jolly Christmas over at the Zakem house. Hear how we celebrate the holidays. *We apologize for the audio, we are trying to figure somethings out, we're so sorry!*Support the show2021-12-2331 minRelationship Goals?Relationships + HomeownershipThinking about entering escrow together? Listen as Amber and Danny Zakem discuss the ups and downs as well as their tips and tricks on buying a house with a significant other. Mark Kowalik: @Markkowalik on IGSupport the show2021-12-1634 minRelationship Goals?Relationships + TechnologyTechnology plays a huge role in our lives, and thus a large role in our relationships. Whether you are in a new relationship, something long-term, or are in platonic relationships there are good and bad ways technology can contribute to your relationships. Support the show2021-12-0928 minRelationship Goals?Happy Thanksgiving 2021In today's episode Danny and Amber Zakem detail all they are thankful for in 2021. They challenge all of the listeners to think about all the good things that happened to you this year and reflect on what you are thankful for this year! Support the show2021-11-2541 minRelationship Goals?Balancing Your Sig O's GoalsWelcome to episode 3 of season 2! We are loving season 2 so far and we hope you are too! In this week's episode Danny and Amber Zakem discuss how they, as a couple, have balanced each other's life and career goals! This is something that anyone in a relationship can probably provide advice on, but is it something we think about before getting into a relationship? See what Damber thinks! Support the show2021-11-1832 minRelationship Goals?Learning how to FightLearning how to fight is a major component to a successful relationship. Whether that is romantic or otherwise. In this week's episode Amber and Danny detail the tools they have found that work over the years and dive into to some great articles sharing their findings with everyone! Sources: https://time.com/5402188/how-to-fight-healthy-partner/https://www.huffpost.com/entry/8-things-successful-couples-do-differently-during-arguments_n_569fd4f0e4b0875553c2a5e0https://www.oprahdaily.com/life/relationships-love/a28124713/relationship-fights/Support the show2021-11-1131 minRelationship Goals?Keeping it SpicySEASON 2 BITCHES!!! We are officially back and better than ever (except we had a microphone malfunction so Danny sounds far far away). In this week's episode Amber and Danny Zakem discuss how they keep it spicy after a decade together. Want to turn up the heat this week? Check out the first episode of season 2! sources: https://nypost.com/2015/02/09/just-how-much-sex-are-people-having-on-vacation/Support the show2021-11-0427 minRelationship Goals?Season 1 FinaleIn the final episode of season 1 Amber and Danny Zakem reflect on and wrap up season 1 of Relationship Goals? This has been an incredible ride and we can't wait to come back better than ever in Season 2! Support the show2021-09-3032 minRelationship Goals?Normalize Having Needs Met Outside the RelationshipHaving our emotional needs met is essential to mental health, however you can't get all of your emotional needs met by just one person -- your significant other. It's time to normalize getting some of your needs met outside of your relationship and understanding what relationships in your life tend to your needs to build a better relationship with yourself and your sig o. Sources: verywellmind.comhttps://www.healthline.com/health/emotional-needsSupport the show2021-09-2338 minRelationship Goals?Getting Married YoungDanny and Amber Zakem discuss the pros and cons of getting married young. They started dating at 22, engaged at 24, and married at 25. There are plenty of reasons why getting married at 25 is a bad idea, but there are also some great reasons. It might not be right, or even possible, for you, but it seems to be working for Damber! sources:https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/ Support the show2021-09-1633 minRelationship Goals?Relationship Imposter SyndromeDo you ever feel like a fraud in your relationship, job, or anything else you are successful at? That's a common feeling known as imposter syndrome. Although Danny and Amber are fairly transparent on this podcast, sometimes they don't let you guys all the way into their relationship. Today is a hard day, and we are discussing feeling like a fraud in our relationship sometimes. But they are here to tell you that you can have bad days and still be very successful at anything you do! Support the show2021-09-0937 minRelationship Goals?To Prenup or not to PrenupIn this week's episode Amber and Danny Zakem make the case for all couples creating and signing prenups before entering in marriage. Listen as they detail why a prenup is romantic, sexy, and about a marriage not about divorce. Sources: https://hekmatfamilylaw.com/prenups/5-prenup-truths/https://www.moneyunder30.com/should-you-get-a-prenuphttps://helmersomerslaw.com/can-a-prenuptial-or-postnuptial-agreement-be-modified-or-revoked/Support the show2021-09-0230 minRelationship Goals?Gift GivingDo you love or loath receiving gifts? In today's episode Amber and Danny Zakem discuss how they handle giving gifts as a couple, what they do with their families, and gift giving with friends. Whether you are a giver or receiver this episode is for you! Support the show2021-08-2625 minRelationship Goals?Dealing with your Partner's FamilyLove or loathe your in-laws, they are going to be around for life! Whether you are in a long term relationship, married, newly dating, or ready to find a relationship, your partner's family will pay a roll in your life. Danny and Amber Zakem discuss the ins and outs of what has worked for them over the years and give their best advice on the topic. Support the show2021-08-1928 minRelationship Goals?Getting to Know your Host: Danny ZakemWelcome to the Getting to know your Host episode, this time with Danny Zakem! Laugh, cry, and enjoy the unique experience of learning more about your favorite male co-host. Danny gives us an in-depth look into his life, and an outpouring of love to his co-host Amber Zakem. Tune in for a fun filled episode that will leave you wanting more. Donate to: PAWs Chicago: https://www.pawschicago.org/how-to-help/donatePlanned Parenthood: https://www.plannedparenthood.org/get-involved/other-ways-giveFacebook page: Relationship Goals? Podcast I...2021-08-1221 minRelationship Goals?Check In With YourselfOne key component to any/every relationship is communication. But before you can communicate effectively with your partner, you need to check in with yourself. In this week's episode Amber and Danny Zakem check in with themselves, they talk about the struggles they have and how they affect their relationship. Are you checking in with number one? Support the show2021-08-0535 minRelationship Goals?CheatingIf your significant other cheated on you would you immediately break up? Danny and Amber Zakem explore the multi-faceted world of what it means to be cheated on and how they believe they would respond.Support the show2021-07-2935 minRelationship Goals?Bachelor/Bachelorette PartiesSo you're engaged, congratulations! Now it's time to start planning your bachelor/bachelorette parties. Today Amber and Danny talk about why communication and setting expectations is the number one way to have a great day/weekend/week. See what they think about combo bachelor/bachelorette parties and hear about what they did for their own parties! Support the show2021-07-2228 minRelationship Goals?Getting to Know your Host: Amber ZakemA fun twist on the traditional Relationship Goals? episodes this week, will be a deep dive with your favorite hostess -- Amber Zakem. Learn a little bit more about Amber, allow her to answer some random questions about herself, and fall even more in love with her. They say you can't be someone's other half until you are a whole on your own. xoxo Amberol SpritzQuestions:https://www.quizbreaker.com/get-to-know-you-questionsSupport the show2021-07-1532 minRelationship Goals?Setbacks in RelationshipsExpect the unexpected! When life hands you lemons, add vodka! In this week's episode Danny and Amber Zakem are talking about derailments in relationships. The setbacks in life can't be avoided, so Damber discusses how to handle that as a couple, ways to change your mindset, and how to enjoy relationship journeys in whatever way they happen. Quote: “Mouthful of Diamonds.” One Tree Hill, contributor role by Austin Nichols, season 8, episode 8, Warner Bros. Studio, 2010.Support the show2021-07-0831 minRelationship Goals?Relationships + TravelWelcome Back!! This week's episode is talking all things travel. Danny and Amber are chatting about how different travel experiences have helped their relationship and how other experiences can bring out the worst in you and/or your partner. They discuss traveling together vs. traveling without significant others and how both can strengthen your relationship. Support the show2021-06-3032 minRelationship Goals?Making your Partner Feel LovedDanny and Amber are in their feels after a family wedding and want to express how important it is to tell your partner when and how they make you feel loved. Often times we focus on the reality that is spending your life with someone and forget the true reason for relationships and that is simply love. Get inspired to tell your partner or someone special in your life, how they make you feel loved and why that is important! Support the show2021-06-0320 minRelationship Goals?Do the Clothes Make the Man?Don't think clothes have anything to do with relationships? Think again! In this week's episode Amber and Danny discuss what our clothes tells the world about us, and what it tells our partners about ourselves as well. Plus, if you've ever had an argument over clothes with a significant other you'll understand the struggle. Tune in for Danny's revelation! Support the show2021-05-2723 minRelationship Goals?Wedding Trends Part 3Back again again by popular demand is Wedding Trends part 3! In this episode Amber and Danny Zakem tackle the trends that COVID has blessed all the current weddings with. Micro weddings, virtual events, to-go cocktails. Find out what we are loving and hating about these trends and more! Articles Consulted: https://www.theknot.com/content/new-wedding-trendshttps://www.brides.com/wedding-trends-to-expect-in-2021-5094228Support the show2021-05-2041 minRelationship Goals?Date Night BlunderDanny invites Amber to a date night and doesn't show up. A fight ensues, Amber leaves, what went wrong? Let Amber and Danny Zakem detail their most recent fight for you and work their way through it on this week's episode of Relationship Goals? Support the show2021-05-1333 minRelationship Goals?The Evolution of SexLet's talk about sex baby! In this week's episode Danny and Amber discuss how sex has changed for them as individuals and as a couple since they both began having sex. Through telling the story of losing their virginities to how sex is after 9 years together, they get into the nitty gritty of how your mindset, goals, and comfortability change over time. Support the show2021-05-0634 minRelationship Goals?Communication in RelationshipsLet's Talk! In episode 31 Amber and Danny discuss communication within relationships. Why it's so important, knowing how you best communicate, and learning what our partner needs in terms of communication. Tune in to hear their hot take on chatting. Resources:https://www.tonyrobbins.com/ultimate-relationship-guide/key-communication-relationships/Support the show2021-04-2937 minRelationship Goals?Red FlagsEpisode 30! Tonight we are talking about red flags in relationships. The good, the bad, the hilarious. What are your red flags? Amber and Danny dive into red flags that they have, ones that they embody, and ones that are complete deal breakers. Sources: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-flux/201407/10-relationship-red-flagshttps://www.boredpanda.com/people-share-red-flags-relationships/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=organicSupport the show2021-04-2239 minRelationship Goals?Relationships + FinancesIt may be taboo to talk about money, but it could save your relationship. In this week's episode Amber and Danny Zakem discuss the ins and outs of the hot button topics surrounding money and making a lifelong commitment. Sources: marketwatch.comInvestopedia.com “Top 6 Marriage Killing Money Issues”thebalance.com “3 Ways to Handle Your Finances when you get married”Support the show2021-04-1531 minRelationship Goals?Dating Your SpouseWelcome to Episode 28! Sit down and join Amber and Danny for date night! Tonight we are talking the benefits of dating your spouse/significant other! Danny and Amber detail the types of things they do to date one another, and describe their perfect dates. Drinks: Smoojhttps://drinksmooj.com Resources: Pew Research Support the show2021-04-0830 minRelationship Goals?Pre-Baby Pre-NupIn Episode 27 Amber and Danny Zakem discuss what they are dubbing as a "Pre-Baby Pre-Nup". This is a sort of before kids agreement on decisions that would need to be made about the kids in the event of a divorce. Find out how Amber and Danny are ordering their pre-baby pre-nup and why they think this is a genius invention! Resources:https://www.expertise.com/divorce-attorney/divorce-and-child-custody-everything-you-need-to-knowWikepidia.com My own life Support the show2021-03-3146 minRelationship Goals?CompatibilityWe're back (like we never left) talking about compatibility this week. We use the online site Gottman.com and their quiz, "How well do you know your Partner". We take the compatibility test, after almost 9 years together, see how well we do! Support the show2021-03-2526 minRelationship Goals?Our Love StoryAmber and Danny Zakem discuss how they met, their first kiss, what they remember about the early years of dating, engagement, and getting/being married. Reminisce along with them in this week's episode. Support the show2021-03-0427 minRelationship Goals?Long Distance Relationships Part 2In part 2 of Long Distance Relationships we continue discussing the highs and lows of living separately from your partner for extended periods of time. Our resident experts, Libby and Saville divulge their inside experiences of long distance dating for the majority of 11 years. Support the show2021-02-2535 minRelationship Goals?Long Distance Relationships Part 1Amber and Danny dive in with their second set of guests to discuss long distance relationships. In this two part series, they interview Amber's sister Libby and her boyfriend Saville. Libby and Saville have been dating for about 11 years, and have never spent an entire year consecutively living in the same place. Tune in for their experiences and how the ups and downs have shaped how they work as a couple today. Support the show2021-02-1841 minRelationship Goals?Things I Don't Like About My SpouseYou read that right, Amber and Danny are making a list and checking it twice about they things they don't like about each other! Listen while they discuss a current issue and wrap things up in a cute little bow by talking about what they love most about each other. Come on, we all have things we don't like about our Sig O, right?! Support the show2021-02-1128 minRelationship Goals?Things to Normalize in a RelationshipEpisode 21 explores the ideas that not everything you've been told about relationships is true. Amber and Danny debunk relationship myths, and let you know its ok to "normalize" certain human behaviors inside of the relationship. Want to have a friend of the the opposite sex? Occasionally like to sleep alone? Find out what Amber and Danny think about these common relationship no-nos. Inspiration and research for this episode is cited in the courses below! Sources: Instagram : @justgirlprojecthttps://www.bustle.com/p/8-common-relationship-goals-to-ignore-if-you-want-a-healthy-partnership-15724194Support the show2021-02-0433 minRelationship Goals?Damber UpdateWelcome to Episode 20! Amber and Danny are giving you an update on all things Damber; things they've said on the pod, promises they've made to one another, resolution tracking, it's all part of it. Coming to you today from bed, these two spill the tea on what is going on in their world, how they are feeling with the state of the pandemic, and how that is hitting them in their relationship. Sweatshirt discussed in the podcast from Phenomenal Woman: https://phenomenalwoman.us/collections/crewnecks/products/ambitious Support the show2021-01-2824 minRelationship Goals?Never Have I EverIn episode 19 Amber and Danny play "Never Have I Ever" revealing tid-bits about their relationship, as well as untold stories, that the two of them have never even shared with each other. Grab a drink and play along, or strap in for an episode full of laughter and embarrassment. To continue playing along join their patreon page for the xxx-version of Never Have I Ever. www.patreon.com/relationshipgoalsqmSupport the show2021-01-2133 minRelationship Goals?How to Fall in Love Part 3In episode 18 Amber and Danny continue to use the New York Times Article, "The 36 Questions that lead to love" by Daniel Jones to discuss getting to know you questions. This article is based on Mandy Len Catron's essay "To fall in love anyone, do this" where she discusses a study by psychologist Arthur Aron and his associates which notes that intimacy can be accelerated by a specific series of questions. Amber and Danny break down the 36 questions continuing with part 3 here. See if true love really comes after just 36 questions. New York Times article: https://www.nytimes.c...2021-01-1430 minRelationship Goals?How to Fall in Love Part 2In episode 17 Amber and Danny continue to use the New York Times Article, "The 36 Questions that lead to love" by Daniel Jones to discuss getting to know you questions. This article is based on Mandy Len Catron's essay "To fall in love anyone, do this" where she discusses a study by psychologist Arthur Aron and his associates which notes that intimacy can be accelerated by a specific series of questions. Amber and Danny break down the 36 questions continuing with part 2 here. See if they fall in love all over again in section 2! New York Times article: https://w...2021-01-0733 minRelationship Goals?How to Fall in LoveIn episode 16 Amber and Danny use the New York Times Article, "The 36 Questions that lead to love" by Daniel Jones to discuss getting to know you questions. This article is based on Mandy Len Catron's essay "To fall in love anyone, do this" where she discusses a study by psychologist Arthur Aron and his associates which notes that intimacy can be accelerated by a specific series of questions. Amber and Danny break down the 36 episodes, beginning with part 1 here. New York Times article: https://www.nytimes.com/2015/01/09/style/no-37-big-wedding-or-small.html?smid=fb-nytimes&s...2020-12-3134 minRelationship Goals?Wedding Trends Part 2Back by popular demand is wedding trends part 2! Amber and Danny dive back into some classic, some trendy, wedding trends and give their, sometimes, brutally honest opinions on what they love and hate about your wedding days. sources: brides.com Support the show2020-12-241h 03Relationship Goals?New Year's ResolutionsIn Episode 14 Danny and Amber talk New Years resolutions! Some they've kept, others they haven't. They look back on all the good that has happened in their lives in 2020 and make predictions about what is about to happen in 2021. Will they be right? Only time will tell. Support the show2020-12-1732 minRelationship Goals?Relationship AdviceIn un-lucky episode 13 Amber and Danny Zakem debunk commonly give relationship advice, plus share their experiences on the best and worst relationship advice they've ever been given. Think the first kiss matters, should you never go to bed angry? Find out what Damber has to say on this week's episode! Support the show2020-12-1038 minRelationship Goals?Wedding TrendsIn episode 12 "Wedding Trends" Amber and Danny talk their own wedding, what they did, what they wished they did, and what they would not do looking back. They then take a deep dive into traditional and modern wedding trends and controversially remark if they love or loath said trend. Whether you agree or disagree this episode is sure to give you some wedding Inspo! Support the show2020-12-0349 minRelationship Goals?Core Group of Friends Part 2In the second part of the "Core Group of Friends" Episode Danny and Amber are still joined by Emma Schremp and Caina Weiner. In this part, the group switches gears from discussing Relationship Goals in the romantic sense, to talking about Relationship Goals in the friendship sense. Amber, Caina, and Emma have been friends for over a decade and have gone through breakups, moves, family hardships, and talk about what they value in long term friendships as well as looking to the future in making new friends. The episode ends with an unfiltered "Ask Damber" segment where our hosts D...2020-11-2650 minRelationship Goals?Core Group of Friends Part 1In part 1 of the two part episode titled "Core Group of Friends" Danny and Amber welcome their first guests, Emma Schremp and Caina Weiner. Emma and Caina have been Amber's closest friends for over a decade, and are on the podcast talking about what they find to be relationship goals, as well as giving us all a sneak peak into their own relationships. Emma is newly engaged to her boyfriend of approximately 15 years (on and off, don't worry she explains). And Caina is newly dating her high school boyfriend, who she hasn't been with in over 12 years. This episode...2020-11-1942 minRelationship Goals?KidsIn this week's episode Danny and Amber discuss the rollercoaster of life that has brought them at their current decision to have kids. Danny makes a PSA, Amber discusses her dream of being the cool drunk aunt, however will these two eventually pull the plug? Find out on this week's episode of Relatinship Goals? Support the show2020-11-1233 minRelationship Goals?The Hinge ExperienceAmber and Danny, a married couple, individually download the dating app Hinge and spend a week experiencing the app to the fullest. Find out how spending a week living as a pseudo-single person in the world of internet dating went for this long term (8 years) coupled up duo. Support the show2020-11-0530 minRelationship Goals?Social MediaEpisode 7 was inspired by an Instagram poll by one of Amber's friends. In the poll, followers were asked, "Is posting a sexy selfie the same as liking a sexy selfie". Amber and Danny give their take on this poll question and expand further on establishing a line in a relationship and understanding your significant other's intentions. Tell us what you think of this episode on any of our social media pages or by rating/reviewing us on Apple Podcasts! Support the show2020-10-2929 minRelationship Goals?HolidaysBring on the Christmas cheer mother fuckers! In Episode 6 Danny and Amber Zakem talk about how they have made the holidays their own. Sick of the family drama? Constant travel? Well sit back and enjoy a cup of holiday cheer with your new favorite couple #RelationshipGoalsQMSupport the show2020-10-2236 minRelationship Goals?The OneIn Episode 5 Amber and Danny discuss how they knew that each other was "the one". They talk about the significant moments in their relationship that solidified their feelings about one another and how choosing each other over and over again plays a crucial role in going the distance. The Zakems also discuss ways to know if the person you are dating is "the one". Support the show2020-10-1536 minRelationship Goals?Love LanguagesIn episode 4 Amber and Danny Zakem talk the 5 love languages. Why knowing these languages about yourself is important, but also for your romantic and platonic relationships. Enjoy this light hearted take on the concept developed in the 1992 book by Gary Chapman. Support the show2020-10-0830 minRelationship Goals?Shared ResponsibilitiesIn Episode 3 Danny and Amber Zakem discuss the task of splitting responsibilities in their lives and how this has led to one of their biggest, and longest fights. From handling household duties, taking care of pets, and paying bills, this is one relationship fight that many couples can related to! Support the show2020-09-3029 minRelationship Goals?Surviving 2020In episode 2 Amber and Danny do a deep dive into how 2020 affected their relationship as a couple. They look at the good and the bad times, and as 2020 continues, they both take a step back to re-evaluate some of their feelings during this very unknown, yet telling year. Support the show2020-09-1630 minRelationship Goals?Relationship Goals?In the first episode of the podcast, Amber and Danny discuss what relationship goals really means to them, what factors contribute to being relationships goals, and what the future of this podcast holds. Meet your favorite new couple known as "Damber". Support the show2020-09-0836 min