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The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastDrop Your Mask and Show Up - with Gretchen SchoserToday's episode follows Gretchen Schoser's chilling story of despair and rebirth.  Gretchen is a suicide attempt survivor, award-winning podcaster, and tech-savvy entrepreneur whose work focuses on healing the mental health Western society wears down.  Gretchen and I muse over topics as far afield as the importance of community, how friends love friends no matter what, and why baby raccoons are the balm for all maladies.REFERENCES:Gretchen Schoser’s website:  https://www.schosersolutions.com/Sh!t That Goes on in Our Heads Podcast:  https://goesoninourheads.net/Follow Gretchen on Instagram: https://www.instag...2025-07-181h 00The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastExploring Life with Open Curiosity - with Tigrilla GardeniaToday I welcome Tigrilla Gardenia's plant wisdom to the show.  Tigrilla is a Nature-Inspired Mentor, Certified Life Coach, and World Ambassador for Plant Advocacy.  We consider topics as conceptually diverse as humanity's integration into Earth's story, Eco-feminism as our new word for how humans used to live, and whether Tiggers are made out of rubber or springs.REFERENCES:Tigrilla Gardenia’s Website:  https://tigrillagardenia.com/Follow Tigrilla on Facebook: https://facebook.com/tigrillagardeniaFollow Tigrilla on YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@tigrillagardeniaFollow Tigrilla on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/tigrill...2025-07-111h 04The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastRevealing the Masterpiece Within with Bobbi BarringtonThis week's episode features Bobbi Barrington's ability to reframe the stories she told herself all her life.  Bobbi is a keynote speaker, coach, and transgender woman who helps others reveal their own stories and how they can change them for a better life.  Bobbi and I discuss topics as far afield as the power each of us has to tell our own story, how authenticity unlocks deep emotional regulation, and the beauty of getting chatted up in a bar.REFERENCES:Bobbi Barringtons’s Website:  https://www.bobbibarrington.com/Follow Bobbi on Facebook: https://www.faceb...2025-07-041h 01The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastMagic in Diversity - with Storm FaerywolfToday's episode features the life and magic of Storm Faerywolf.  Storm is an author, educator, warlock, and Co-Founder of Modern Witch University.  In our discussion, Storm and I take on topics as far afield as the base nature of gender roles, each of our lasting legacies, and our favorite Monty Python movies.REFERENCES;Storm Faerywolf’s Website:  https://faerywolf.com/Follow Storm on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/faerywolf/Follow Storm on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/faerywolf/Follow Storm on Threads:  https://www.threads.net/@faerywolfFollow Storm o...2025-06-271h 04The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastJust Trying to Live with LouLouToday's episode features the incredible Louise, or LouLou, and what life as a T Elder means.  LouLou is just a lass trying to live her life, a transgender advocate, and hostess of 'The T Elders' podcast.  We get pretty dang philosophical about topics as diverse as preventing gatekeeping within the transgender community, how gender never stops evolving, and Dickens's lesser-known novel, "Nancy Twist."REFERENCES:Louise’s Linktree:  https://linktr.ee/Itsloulou43Follow Louise on Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/itsloulou43.bsky.socialFollow Louise on YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@itsloulou43...2025-06-201h 01The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastThe Reality of Being Human with Maevius LynnToday's episode is a special Pride Month offering featuring Queer Thelemite Maevius Lynn.  Lynn is an esoteric author, content creator, and advocate of the new religious movement, Thelema.  We discuss topics as far afield as Aleister Crowley, how Thelema soothes religious trauma, and why screwing your neighbor isn't the same as Sex Magick.REFERENCES:Maevius Lynn’s Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/maeviuslynnFollow Lynn on YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MaeviusLynnFollow Lynn on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/maeviuslynn/Follow Lynn on Bluesky:  https://bsky.app/profile/maeviuslynn.bsky.soc...2025-06-131h 03The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastFinding Peace in Not Knowing with Paul CramToday's episode features some funny (and poignant) stories from Paul Cram.  Paul is an actor, book lover, and multimedia designer who catalogs and celebrates Queer experiences everywhere.  Paul and I consider topics as far afield as growing up knowing we don't matter, how acting can be identity therapy, and how we should discover who our children are, not dictate who they are.REFERENCES:Paul Cram’s Website:  https://iampaulcram.comFollow Paul on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/iampaulcramFollow Paul on YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@iampaulcramFollow Paul on Ins...2025-05-231h 10The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastStrength is about Being Seen with Koby FalksIn this episode, we hear Koby Falks's story of finding authenticity and strength by challenging toxic masculine stereotypes.  Koby is an adult content creator, entrepreneur and advocate for authenticity in the adult content industry.  Koby and I muse over topics as diverse as when masculinity turns toxic, how negating sex negates ourselves, and what it means to be a good bottom.REFERENCES:Koby Falks Linktree: https://linktr.ee/KobyFalksFollow Koby on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChRpGMrLi-pnJFZCdP3e1TgFollow Koby on TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@kobyfalksofficialFol...2025-05-091h 01The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastClearing Triggers Through Forgiveness with Katharine GiovanniToday we hear a story of pain and forgiveness from Katharine Giovanni.  Katharine is a three-time award-winning, best-selling author; speaker; and forgiveness and transformation coach whose system of forgiveness empowers others to clear their own energy, even if others do not.  Katharine and I talk about topics as diverse as the missed opportunities from holding on to anger, how even entrenched hate and discrimination can be overcome personally, and why forgiveness might reward you with a long trip to the bathroom.REFERENCES:Katharine Giovanni’s website:  https://katharinegiovanni.com/Follow Katharine on Facebook:  https://www.fa...2025-04-2558 minThe Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastEmbracing Your Full Humanity with Pepper KatThis week, I chat with Pepper Kat about Western society's difficulty in embracing physicality and sexuality.  Pepper is an adult entertainer and podcaster who founded Design Your Dreamgirl to provide a space for all people to explore their desires with no judgment. Pepper and I discuss the spectrum of sexual fantasy, how shaming intimacy is the worst form of control, and why Sigmund Freud should probably be retired.REFERENCES:Pepper Kat’s website: https://www.pepperkat.com/Spicy Spectrum Podcast:  https://www.pepperkat.com/heartfelt-perspectivesFollow Pepper on TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com...2025-04-1156 minThe Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastAttract Your Tribe by Being You with Leah SpasovaMy guest this week is Leah Spasova, a psychologist, sex and relationships expert, and Founder of the website lifesexplicit.com, which provides resources for exploring identity, gender, and sexual wellness.  Leah and I muse over topics as far afield as why people have sex, why bro culture needs sex, and how to find Jesus.REFERENCES:Lifesexplicit website: https://www.lifesexplicit.com/Follow Lifesexplicit on Facebook: https://facebook.com/your.lifesexplicitFollow Lifesexplicit on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lifesexplicit_Follow Lifesexplicit on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leahspasova/2025-04-041h 07The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastLove Your Life in Mind Maps with John DiggsIn today's episode, we hear John Diggs's story of distilling wisdom and personal insight using Mind Maps.  John is a Mappineering Mentor, retired NFL and CFL player, and founder of MappineerVille.com, a community for the practice of Mappineering.  John and I consider topics as far afield as the purpose of life, making sound decisions, and the importance of embracing who you are deep in your Soul.REFERENCES:John Diggs website: https://johndiggs.comJohn’s I AM method: https://johndiggs.com/iam/Follow John on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JohnDiggsMappineer/2025-03-211h 01The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastMermaids, Witches, and Fairies with Mhara StarlingIn this episode is Mhara Starling's truly amazing magical journey of gender and self-acceptance.  Mhara is a Welsh witch, spiritual leader, and author of the recent book "Welsh Fairies."  Mhara and I muse over topics as far afield as natural churches, bigger-than-life mentors, and a Scooby Doo lesson in witchcraft.REFERENCES:Support Mhara on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/mharastarlingFollow Mhara on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@mharastarling2730Follow Mhara on TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@mharastarlingFollow Mhara on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MharaStarlingFollow Mhara on In...2025-03-071h 06The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastDiscovering Our Princess of Light through Hypnosis with Deane BenninghovenToday's episode features Deane Benninghoven's stories of subconscious symbolism.  Deane is a certified hypnotherapist and hypnosis instructor who helps everyday people overcome everyday problems.  Deane and I mull over topics as diverse as the value of dissociative states, Jungian archetypes in everyday life, and the lack of value in clucking like a chicken.REFERENCES:Summit Hypnosis website:  https://www.summithypnosisnw.com/Follow Deane on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/summithypnosisFollow Deane on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/summithypnosisnw/Émile Coué:  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/%C3%89mile_Cou%C3%A92025-02-281h 02The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastEscaping Tribal Outrage with David BeckemeyerToday's episode features David Beckemeyer discussing tribal identity and the outrage it brings.  David is a bridge-builder and host of the "Outrage Overload" podcast.  David and I consider topics as far afield as social media detox, street epistemology, and libraries lousy with drag queens.REFERENCES:“Outrage Overload” website:  https://outrageoverload.net/Follow Outrage Overload on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/OutrageOverloadFollow Outrage Overload on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/outrageoverload/Follow Outrage Overload on YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@OutrageOverload?sub_confirmation=1Follow David on Mastodon:  https://toad.social...2025-02-141h 07The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastCapturing Our Inner Story with Elizabeth SnyderToday's episode features Elizabeth Snyder's honest humor.  Liz is an author, women's portraiture artist, and confidence expert whose work focuses (little photography pun there) on encouraging all humans to find their inner beauty and take pride in who they are.  Liz and I range over topics as diverse as the government's role in tearing down women's confidence, our fear at accepting who we are, and thumbs lucky for their wealth.REFERENCES:Elizabeth Snyder Photography website:  https://www.elizabethsnyderphotography.com/Follow Elizabeth on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/espllc1Follow Elizabeth on Pinterest:  https...2025-01-311h 02The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastFacing Our Heroic Journey with Allison StiegerIn this week's episode, we hear the story of humanity in myth with Allison Stieger.  Allison is a mythologist, author, speaker, and storyshaper who founded Mythic Stories Consulting.  Allison and I muse over topics as far afield as our path to becoming ancestors, learning compassion through application of archetypes, and the Current of the Universe.REFERENCES:“Mythic Stories” website:  https://mythicstories.com/Follow Allison on LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/allison-stieger/Follow Allison on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/allison.stieger"Where the Two Came to Their Father:"  https://www.artworkarc...2025-01-171h 08The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastHealing into Congruent Choice with Katharine LazarukToday's show features Katherine Lazaruk and some hilarious stories!  Katherine is a Professional Presence Expert and author of the book “Executive Being: Humanizing Business One Leader at a Time.”  Katherine and I muse over topics as far afield as preparing our environment for us to occupy it, the pain of getting out of our box, and not dumping on Judith Butler.REFERENCES:LZRK Consulting website:  https://lzrkconsulting.com/Follow Katherine on LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/katherinelazarukFollow Katherine on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/katherinelazarukFollow LZRK Consulting on Facebo...2025-01-031h 00The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastUnlearning the Tools of Silence with Lindsay BindmanIn this episode, a wonderful friend of mine: Lindsay Bindman!  Lindsay is an advocate, ally, sailor, and hostess of the "Getting Reflective" podcast, about unlearning the social norms that serve us poorly.  Lindsay and I cover topics as diverse as learning to live life to its fullest, society as a tool for silence and punishment, and how you can actually meet nice people on the internet.REFERENCES:“Getting Reflective” website:  https://www.gettingreflective.com/Follow Lindsay on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/lindsaybinds/Listen to “Getting Reflective” on Apple Podcasts:  https://podcasts.apple.com/ca...2024-12-271h 09The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastBreaking Our Personal Narratives with K AndersonToday's episode features K Anderson's dry wit and charm.  K is a podcaster who hosts the "Lost Spaces" podcast, available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.  K and I run the gamut of topics from tempering your expectations of community to choosing labels carefully to the importance of checkbox-action inclusivity.REFERENCES:“Lost Spaces” website:  https://lostspacespodcast.com/Listen to “Lost Spaces” on Apple Podcasts:  https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/lost-spaces/id1484938210Listen to “Lost Spaces” on Spotify:  https://open.spotify.com/show/2QyzJQIlsUcdpRQ6H6eSV7?si=f590b547274f4b37(00:00) - Openi...2024-12-201h 05The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastGender-Affirming Self-Care with Matty HennesseyToday's episode features Matty Hennessey and his journey within the gender-expansive community.  Matty is the Founder, CEO, and Product Designer for Eversense Toys, a sex toy company targeted directly at making intimacy more comfortable for the gender-expansive community.  Matty and I mull over topics as diverse as how children observe gender innocently, the struggle to be seen, and how important it is to take action when you know something is right.References:Eversense Toys website:  https://eversensetoys.com/Eversense Toys Indiegogo page:  https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/eversense-toys#/Follow Eversense Toys on I...2024-12-131h 01The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastBridging Wisdom across Traditions with Bob MartinOn the show today, Bob Martin and I talk about Taoism!  Bob is a criminal trial lawyer, meditation teacher, and author of the book "I Am The Way," which recasts the I Ching in Christian terminology.  Bob and I discuss topics as diverse as the I Ching, the Tao of gender, and Sonny Crockett's "Miami Vice" wardrobe.REFERENCES:Bob Martin’s website:  https:/awiseandhappylife.comFollow Bob on LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/bob-martin-995b30127/Follow Bob on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/awiseandhappylife(00:00) - Opening credits...2024-12-061h 08The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastChoosing a Life without Misery with Louise RichardsonAs a special 50th Episode, I speak with Louise Richardson, a transgender woman whose transition in the 1970s demonstrates how - despite many strides made in society - the transgender experience is no better understood.  Louise is an author, poet, and playwright whose work can be seen, heard, and read across many media.  Louise and I discuss topics as diverse as early transgender community, how gender transition has changed, and how the girl next door always keeps you guessing.REFERENCES:Follow Louise on YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@snardflukBuy Louise's books on Amazon:  http...2024-11-221h 08The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastLife, Death, and Equilibrium with Kristoffer HughesThis week's episode is with the ever-effervescent Kristoffer Hughes.  Kristoffer is an esoteric author, teacher of Death Midwifery, and Chief of the Anglesey Druid Order.  Kristoffer and I discuss such diverse topics as growing up gay, The Middle Pillar, and what you should try if you think performing an autopsy looks difficult.REFERENCES:Anglesey Druid Order website:  https://www.angleseydruidorder.co.ukView “Marw gyda Kris” on BBC:  https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p0jsv129Follow Kristoffer on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/kristoffer.hughesFollow Anglesey Druid Order on Facebo...2024-11-151h 13The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastThe Patterns in Our Biology with Dominika StaniewiczIn this episode, I chat with Dominika Staniewicz about the brain, biochemistry, and the origin of identity.  Dominika is a Brain Coach, Elite Neuroencoding Specialist, and Holistic Life Coach who also writes fiction in between all her other activities.  Dominika and I talk about topics as far afield as patriarchy, neuroplasticity, and how the color purple doesn't exist (much to my chagrin!).REFERENCES:Dominika Staniewicz’s website:  https://yourbraincoachd.com/Follow Dominika on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/YourBrainCoachD/Follow Dominika on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/yourbraincoachd/Follow Dominik...2024-11-081h 07The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastYou're Not Kinky, You're Cool with Max CareyIn today's fascinating episode, Max Carey discusses the world of kink.  Max is a producer and director who created the documentary "tOuch Kink," about the BDSM community and the value it brings to humanity.  Max and I talk about topics as diverse as the philosophy of pain, the wave theory of kink, and how it's always the quiet ones...REFERENCES:Official tOuch Kink website:  https://touchkink.comView tOuch Kink on Kinema:  https://kinema.com/films/touch-kink-vwykek Follow Max on LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/toddmaxcarey/Follow Max on Instag...2024-10-251h 07The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastFinding Ourselves in Sexual Fantasy with Artemisia de VineToday's episode features Artemisia de Vine's theory of sexual fantasy.  Artemisia is a sexual fantasy expert, sexologist and author who uses fantasy not as a source of shame and guilt, but as the key to unlocking our deepest motivations and desires.  Artemisia and I discuss prevailing theories of sexual fantasy, the three paradoxes we seek to rectify through sex, and the origin of airborne penetration of pastry products.REFERENCES:deVining the Erotic (free) Substack: https://substack.com/@artemisiadevineArtemisia de Vine’s website:  https://www.artemisiadevine.com/Follow Artemisia on LinkedIn:  https...2024-10-1858 minThe Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastBuilding Community through Diversity with Ailsa BlairOn today's episode, I speak with Ailsa Blair about the drag community.  Ailsa is a neurodiverse, nonbinary product designer and research leader who founded Drag Me, a company whose mobile app empowers drag artists to connect with their fans.  Ailsa and I talk about topics as far afield as Tech Bros treating employees as tools, features of the Drag Me app, and invoking Rule 34 and Godwin's Law at the same time.REFERENCES:Ailsa Blair’s website:  https://www.ailsamblair.com/Follow Ailsa on LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/ailsamblair/Follow Ailsa...2024-10-111h 00The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastClaiming Our Identity through History with Neil LairdIn this episode, I talk history with Neil Laird. Neil is an Emmy and BAFTA-nominated TV producer, novelist, and ancient history geek whose fiction retells gay stories across early human civilizations. We discuss such diverse topics as The Tomb of the Brothers, the Myth of Stonewall, and Toxic Avenger 3 or 4 - whichever was worse.REFERENCES: Neil Laird’s website: https://www.neillaird.com/ Follow Neil on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/neillaird/ Follow Neil on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61557422344116 Follow Neil on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gay_histor...2024-10-0457 minThe Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastChoosing to Quit for Life with Duncan Bhaskaran-BrownToday we hear an inspirational story from Duncan Bhaskaran-Brown.  Duncan is a speaker, author, sober coach, and Morris dancer whose work challenges the stranglehold alcohol maintains over Western life.  Duncan and I cover topics as diverse as alcohol addiction, how drinking affects the rich more than the poor, and The Agrarian Reforms of the 16th Century.REFERENCES:Duncan Bhaskaran Brown’s website:  https://www.bhaskaranbrown.com/Follow Duncan on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/duncan.brown.5648/Follow Duncan on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/soberwarriorcoach/Follow Duncan on LinkedIn:  https://www.link...2024-09-271h 03The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastStrength in Our Weakness with Eric GeeToday's episode features a story of what can go right when you don't like school. Eric Gee is an author, a writing and life coach, and founder of the Youtopia Project, which helps people discover their personality and work with the strengths and weaknesses within. Eric and I mull over topics as far-flung as holistic personality theory, how we disagree with our negative traits, and the beauty of Abyssinian pottery. REFERENCES: Eric Gee’s website: https://www.projectyoutopia.com/ Youtopia Assessment: https://youtopiaproject.com/youtopia-16-assessment-2/ Follow Eric on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/eri...2024-09-2156 minThe Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastThe Adult You’re Looking for Is You with Kyleigh WeathersToday we hear a heartbreaking story of disconnection with Kyleigh Weathers.  Kyleigh is an attachment coach, podcaster, and the founder of Queerly Attached, through which she helps others overcome feeling outside the family to become secure in themselves.  We speak about topics as diverse as how being raised Mormon demands so much, feeling and dealing with attachment wounds, and a prescient poem.REFERENCES:Kyleigh Weathers’s Queerly Attached website:  https://queerlyattached.net/Follow Kyleigh on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/QueerlyAttached/Follow Kyleigh on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/queerlyattachedFollow...2024-09-131h 08The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastTransforming Weakness into Strength with Jhenah TelyndruToday's episode features the eminently magical Jhenah Telyndru!  Jhenah is an author, Celticist, and Priestess who founded the Sisterhood of Avalon.  In this illuminating discussion, Jhenah and I consider the role of culture in gender, promote spiritual service to all, and have a good chuckle over ancient Welsh poetry slams.REFERENCES:Jhenah Telyndru’s website:  https://ynysafallon.com/Sisterhood of Avalon website:  https://sisterhoodofavalon.org/Follow Jhenah on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ynysafallon/Follow Jhenah on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/ynysafallon/Find Jhenah on YouTube:  https://w...2024-08-301h 10The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastHow to Be Human with Louise BoyeOn today's show, I speak with the wonderfully introspective Louise Boye.  Louise is a Qi Gong instructor and musician who also facilitates groups in learning Nonviolent Communication.  We cover topics that span from honoring our bodies and emotions, recovering from isolation, and how Hamlet really fits into daily conversation.REFERENCES:Louise Boye's Qi Gong website: https://www.facebook.com/QiGongLouiseBoye/Empati Venner / Empathy Buddies Discord server: https://discord.gg/cvxgkrCyXEFollow Louise on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@zhcoopFollow Louise on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/qigonglouiseboye/Support Louise on...2024-08-261h 03The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastInformation Is Not Transformation with Gao MotsemmeToday's episode features a fascinating discussion of psychic energy with Gao Motsemme.  An African Quantum Witchdoctor and Psychic Surgeon, Gao's work teaches us how to tune into our natural energetic fields to build a better life.  Gao and I discuss topics as diverse as the power inherited through our names, the unsinkable honesty of our soul, and the social philosophy of Depeche Mode.REFERENCES:Gao Motsemme’s website:  https://www.gaomotsemme.com/Follow Gao on TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@gaoconfidence.motsemmeFollow Gao on YouTube:  www.youtube.com/@gaomotsemme4856Follow Gao on Link...2024-08-161h 11The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastThe Liminal Spaces of Humanity with Dr. Redfern Jon BarrettIn today's episode, I have a delightful chat with Dr. Redfern Jon Barrett.  Redfern is a writer, journalist, and activist who recently published "Proud Pink Sky," an alternate history of Nazi Germany and the establishment of the first gay state.  Redfern and I discuss topics as diverse as being flexible with labels, the history of homosexual relationships, and the best Pokemon there is.REFERENCES:Redfern Jon Barrett’s website:  https://www.redjon.com/Follow Redfern on Bluesky:  https://bsky.app/profile/redfernjon.bsky.socialFollow Redfern on Mastodon:  https://mastodon.social/@redfern...2024-07-121h 05The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastSpeak Truth to Power with Catherine Stagg-MaceyToday's episode features the amazing Catherine Stagg-Macey.  Catherine is an Executive Coach, hostess of the podcast Unsaid @ Work, and finder of lost mojo.  We discuss topics critical to improving the workplace today, including living our own dreams, being safely authentic, and wearing a purple Speedo to work.REFERENCES:Catherine Stagg-Macey’s website:  https://www.conversationsattheedge.co.uk/Unsaid @ Work podcast:  https://www.podpage.com/unsaid-at-work/Follow Catherine on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/staggmacey/?hl=enFollow Catherine on LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/staggmacey/(00:00) - Openin...2024-07-051h 03The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastSex and Gender in Magic with Josephine McCarthyIn this episode, I have an enchanting conversation with Josephine McCarthy.  Josephine is an esoteric author and the Director of Quareia, a free, online, magical training course (that I highly recommend!).  We cover topics as diverse as goddesses beautiful and terrible, how physical changes affect our magical connection, and dangerous cows.REFERENCES:Josephine McCarthys’s website:  https://josephinemccarthy.com/Quareia’s website:  https://www.quareia.com/Quareia Publishing website: https://www.quareiapublishing.com/Follow Quareia on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/quareia(00:00) - Opening credits (00:37) - Show ope...2024-07-021h 14The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastTrauma is a Gift for Growth with Sara WebbIn today's episode, I speak with Sara Webb, a Resilience Coach who specializes in breakup and meditation therapy.  Sara and I talk about topics as off-the-wall as how trauma can be seen as valuable to growth, Western medicine's focus on symptoms instead of health, and the billions of bits of data that hit you every second.REFERENCES:Sara Webb’s website:  https://www.sarawebbsays.com/Follow Sara on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/sarawebbsays/Follow Sara on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/SaraWebbSaysFollow Sara on LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in...2024-06-251h 04The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastFind Your Life's Meaning in Uncomfortable Experiences with Andrea LeighIn this episode, I speak with Andrea Leigh about saying "yes" to experiences.  Andrea is a high-impact coach, fashionista, and Co-Host on Thriving Women Network TV.  Topics include finding comfort in discomfort, living life to the fullest, and parents who accept gender transition as long as football isn't impacted.REFERENCES:Andrea Leigh’s website:  https://www.andrealeigh.com/Follow Andrea on LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrea-leigh-borth-b72159b/Follow Andrea on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/therealandrealeigh/(00:00) - Opening credits (00:37) - Show opening (01:27) - Introducing Andrea Leigh ...2024-06-141h 05The Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast07 June 2024 - Kink Will Bring Us TogetherToday's episode features Jake Didinsky, a pansexual, nonbinary DJ and Producer.  Jake is also co-founder of the inclusive night club event "Lights Out, Barks Out."  In our discussion, we cover topics as far afield as the power of inclusivity, helping cis / het people understand the queer experience, and the Right Old White Guy.REFERENCES:Jake Didinsky’s website:  https://jakemaxwellproductions.com/Follow Jake on MixCloud:  https://www.mixcloud.com/live/jakeMaxwell/Follow Jake on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/LightsOutBarksOutFollow Jake on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/lightsoutbarksoutdc/Gender I...2024-06-071h 11The Purple PawedcastThe Purple PawedcastWithin Madness Lies Power - 31 May 2024In today's episode, I speak with Karen Anne Coccioli.  Karen is a queer author and public speaker whose queer memoir "Paradise" is available on Amazon.  We cover topics as disparate as fleeing fascism, madness as a source of gender, and the purple light within.REFERENCES:Karen Anne Coccioli’s website:  https://www.karenannecoccioli.com/Annie Moon’s website:  https://www.authoranniemoon.com/Follow Karen Anne on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/karenannecoccioli/Follow Karen Anne on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/karenanne.coccioli/Gender Identity Today:  https://genderidentitytoday.com2024-05-311h 05The Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast24 May 2024 - Changing the NarrativeToday's episode features the effervescent Cherish Amber!  Cherish is a queer sex, love, and relationship coach who teaches we must know ourselves in order to have good sex and solid relationships.  We talk about topics as diverse as prerequisites to good sex, stigmatizing sex to maintain control, and Virgin Condoms.REFERENCES:Cherish Amber’s website:  https://www.cherishamber.com/Follow Cherish on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/cherishambercoachingFollow Cherish on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/thecherishamber/Follow Cherish on TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@cherishambercoachingGender Identity Today: ...2024-05-241h 03The Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast17 May 2024 - Doing What It Takes Because You MustIn today's episode, I speak with the incredible Jasmine Vine!  If you've been living under a rock for the past decade, Jasmine is a trans empowerment specialist with training in several modalities of mental health treatment.  Jasmine and I discuss the urgency of gender transition, being able to identify with your therapist, and West Coast Privilege.REFERENCES:Javine Coaching:  https://www.javinecoaching.comFollow Jasmine on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/jasminevineeFollow Jasmine on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/jasmine.vineeFollow Jasmine on TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@j...2024-05-171h 02The Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast10 May 2024 - Breaking All the RulesIn this episode, I am proud to feature my dear friend Kaedyn Nedopak.  Kaedyn is an Award-winning Queer Transgender Producer, Author, Podcaster, and Activist...and he really lives up to the list!  Kaedyn and I talk about such interesting topics as Hollywood's failure to break gender roles, Pagan practices with Irish goddesses, and dissin' from the 80s.REFERENCES:Follow Kaedyn on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/transfaerieprince/Follow Kaedyn on TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@transfaerieprinceFollow Kaedyn on LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kaedynnedopak/Watch CAGD Interview with...2024-05-101h 13The Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast03 May 2024 - Evolving Past AdversityThis episode features Win Charles, an award-winning author, podcaster, and advocate for people with disabilities.  Win and I discuss the abuse people with disability face, the help available after abuse, and why you should have a rainbow sticker on your wheelchair.REFERENCES:Win Charles on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ButterfliesofWisdomWin Charles on LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/wincharles/“I, Win” on Amazon:  https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B009YLKW54Win Charles on YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGN0mfJdlpKG8IdJTBjKTowCEO of a Disabil...2024-05-0354 minThe Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast26 April 2024 - The Stories That Must Be ToldToday I present an amazing conversation with Lindsay Law.  Lindsay retired from a career as an executive producer and President of Fox Searchlight Pictures to become a novelist.  Lindsay and I discuss the story of "Boys Don't Cry," why we need more gay people in media, and the magic of Vermont.REFERENCES:Lindsay’s personal website:  https://www.lindsaylaw.net/Follow Lindsay on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/lindsay.law/“The Orphan from Shepherds Keep:”  https://www.amazon.com/Orphan-Shepherds-Keep-Intertwined-Rightful/dp/B0CXYPYX23(00:00) - Opening credits (00:37) - Show openin...2024-04-261h 08The Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast19 April 2024 - Reclaiming the Present MomentIn this episode, I host Dr. Lino Martinez!  Dr. Lino is an author, podcaster, and Professor of Psychology who views his ability to survive not as extraordinary, only human.  Lino and I discuss existential psychology, depleting ourselves to please others, and The Meaning to Life.REFERENCES:Lino’s professional website:  https://www.alittlelessfear.com/A Little LESS FEAR podcast:  https://www.alittlelessfear.com/podcastMuckle-Wells Syndrome:   https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Muckle%E2%80%93Wells_syndrome(00:00) - Opening credits (00:37) - Show opening (01:32) - Introducing Dr. Lino Martinez (03:09) - Birth as we choos...2024-04-191h 04The Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast12 April 2024 - Music, Community, and How We BecomeToday's episode features Mx. Crys/ta Song, a Speech Language Pathologist and vocalist who is also Board Co-Chair of Queer Oriented Radical Days of Summer (QORDS).  Crys/ta and I talk about such topics as why the South should not be discounted as a political forum, how we cannot help but be part of humanity, and obscure William Makepeace Thackeray quotes.–REFERENCES:Follow Crys/ta Song on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/mx.singasong/QORDS website:  https://qords.org/Follow QORDS on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/Qo...2024-04-121h 05The Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast05 April 2024 - Marketing to the Transgender ExperienceThis week's episode features the ever-talented Danni Velasquez-Mora.  Danni is Founder and Creative Director of Womankind Creative and - because we had such a great conversation about women's representation the first time (see the link below), Danni wanted to interview me to get an angle on how the transgender community would appreciate representation in marketing.  We talk about topics as far-reaching as where gender originates, who fits the mold of "normal" woman, and the importance of label-lumping.–REFERENCES:Womankind Creative:  https://www.womankindcreative.com/Womankind Creative LinkedIn:  https://www.li...2024-04-051h 09The Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast29 March 2024 - In Praise of the Mammal BrainIn this week's episode, I speak with Professor Loretta Breuning about human behavior.  Loretta is a Professor Emerita of Management, the Founder of The Inner Mammal Institute, and author of the book "Habits of a Happy Brain."  We consider such topics as how our undesired behavior can be modified given the appropriate reward, finding forgiveness even for our parents, and why not everybody is mad at you.–REFERENCES:The Inner Mammal Institute:  https://innermammalinstitute.org/Alice Miller:  http://www.alice-miller.com/Albert Ellis:  http://www.albertellis.info/2024-03-2958 minThe Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast22 March 2024 - The Stories That Live between the LinesToday's episode features an amazing artist and friend, Cendrine Marrouat.  Cendrine really has done it all: poet, photographer, painter, podcaster, and author.  We discuss topics as diverse as camels, the importance of haiku, and why Hemingway is boring.-- REFERENCES:Cendrine’s professional website:  https://creativeramblings.com/Auroras & Blossoms website:  https://abpositiveart.com/(00:00) - Opening credits (00:37) - Show opening (01:29) - Introducing Cendrine Marrouat (03:11) - How does one become this creative? (07:50) - Perfectionism taken to the right level (10:54) - Challenge yourself constantly (15:34) - Being comfortable looking ignorant (19:27) - Good writing lets y...2024-03-221h 07The Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast15 March 2024 - The Effect of Childhood on Who We AreIn today's episode, I have a fun discussion about a serious topic with Brittany Sandoval.  As a registered nurse and foster parent, Brittany had to process her childhood trauma to help her children become better people.  Brittany and I talk about the meaning of anger, how generational trauma can be healed, and Lesbian TikTok.  P.S.  No cats were harmed in the making of this podcast.--REFERENCES:The Odd Mom Pod:  https://link.chtbl.com/oddmompodInstagram:  https://www.instagram.com/brittanysandovalrn/(00:00) - Opening credits (00:37) - Show o...2024-03-1558 minThe Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast01 March 2024 - Becoming UnstoppableIn today's episode, I have an honest conversation with Victoria Pelletier, an executive leader, best-selling author, and motivational speaker.  Victoria talks me through what it takes to push through adversity, how transgender care is even more difficult for parents, and why jerks need honesty more than the rest of us.--REFERENCES:Victoria’s website:  https://victoria-pelletier.com(00:00) - Opening credits (00:37) - Show opening (01:24) - Introducing Victoria Pelletier (02:36) - Victoria's Origin Story (04:49) - Can you choose to become unstoppable? (07:52) - Facing discomfort (11:12) - Being aware of your role in the situation (14:57) - Ma...2024-03-0146 minThe Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast23 February 2024 - Representing Humans in MarketingIn this episode, I talk with Danni Velasquez-Mora, an absolutely amazing woman who ups the game in marketing as Founder and Creative Director at Womankind Creative.  Danni and I talk about important topics as healing through representation, seeing our own possibilities, and why Wonder Girl should have had a longer run.--REFERENCES:Womankind Creative:  https://www.womankindcreative.com/Womankind Creative LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/company/womankindcreative/Womankind Creative Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/womankindcreative/(00:00) - Opening credits (00:37) - Show opening (01:24) - Introducing Danni Velasquez-Mora (02:19) - Woma...2024-02-2359 minThe Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast16 February 2024 - Finding Our Soul in DanceIn this on-location podcast shoot, I have a grand time with Julia DiVerdi.  Julia is a stunning burlesque and belly dancer who shifted her focus to an inclusive dance studio where she can teach anybody how to dance!  We talk about subjects as far afield as accidentally starting to teach, how learning dance can be healing, and Julia's plan for my first burlesque routine (yikes!!).--REFERENCES:Julia DiVerdi and Starlight Studio:  https://juliadiverdi.com/Overcoming My Hidden Transphobia:  https://genderidentitytoday.com/overcoming-my-hidden-transphobia/(00:00) - Opening credits (00:37) - Show opening (01:29) - Intr...2024-02-1658 minThe Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast09 February 2024 - The First Step Is to BelieveIn this episode, I speak with John C. Morley.  John is a prolific podcaster and writer, a great storyteller, and a serial entrepreneur.  John and I talk about believing in ourselves as the foundation of success, taking the risks necessary to achieve what we want, and why hypnotists shouldn't embarrass people during their shows.--REFERENCES:John’s Linktree:  http://believemeachieve.comThe JMOR Tech Talk Show:  https://www.youtube.com/@TheJMORTechTalkShowInspirations for your Life:  https://podcastscj.podbean.com/John’s Recent Articles:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/joh...2024-02-091h 02The Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast02 February 2024 - Building a Community IdentityToday I have the distinct honor of interviewing Emily Kailyn.  Emily began a community called The Transverse and continues her great work for the transgender, nonbinary, and gender non-conforming community.  Emily and I consider the hard decisions required in building community, the dreams we need to move society forward, and why confidence makes the gender.--The Transverse: https://thetransverse.net/The community Discord server: https://thetransverse.net/discordInstagram:      https://instagram.com/thetransversenetwork     https://instagram.com/thetransgendershowYouTube:     Video: https://youtube.com/thetransverse      The Transgender Sh...2024-02-0258 minThe Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast19 January 2024 - Adequate Representation in FictionToday on the program, I speak with Amanda Lien, a technical copywriter and published science fiction author.  Amanda gives us the lowdown on why technology and fiction must show humanity as it is - to remind each of us we are a part of it.  We talk about how marketing frequently doesn't get it, lament villains made worse by being gay, and remember 1970s pop music.REFERENCES:Amanda Lien professional website:  https://www.amandajlien.com/Find Amanda on LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/amandajlien/-sense"I Am Woman" by Helen Reddy:  https...2024-01-191h 05The Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast12 December 2024 - Building Technology That Supports HumanityIn this fascinating episode, get ready to geek out with Lindsay Tabas, a technologist also known as The Lady Engineer®.  Lindsay and I have some great discussion around why technology works against us instead of for us.  I only make a few diversions...like why that red button requires a new security architecture.REFERENCES:Lindsay Tabas professional website:  https://www.lindsayt.com/Follow Lindsay on LinkedIn:  https://linkedin.com/in/lindsaytabasMake Sense w/ the Lady Engineer®: https://www.lindsayt.com/make-senseProduct-Market Fit E-book: https://www.lindsayt.com/produc...2024-01-121h 04The Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast05 December 2023 - Relationships as a Study of SelfIn this episode, I have a great conversation with Mona Lazar, an artist, writer, and relationship coach.  Mona and I contemplate finding reflection in a relationship, why social roles must change for humanity to survive, and how filled doughnuts probably roll downhill better than those with holes in the middle.REFERENCES:Mona's personal website:  https://monalazar.com/Find Mona on Medium:  https://medium.com/@monalazzarFind Mona on Substack:  https://wordwhisperers.substack.com"And Then All the Women Wanted to Be Lesbians":  https://medium.com/the-soulciety/and-then-all-the-women-wished-they-were-lesbians-419923cf10fGen...2024-01-051h 06The Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast30 December 2023 - The Labels We Choose for OurselvesIn this episode of the show, I speak with my very good friend Shannara Quissell, an amazing attorney and Executive Director of the Colorado Name Change Project.  Shannara and I discuss the important things in life: our right to define ourselves, our obligation to trust each other, and the beauty of the brocket for storing documents.REFERENCES:Connect with Shannara on LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/shannara-quissell-25072387/The first of name change blogs:  https://www.zalesskylaw.com/blog/name-changesColorado LGBTQ Bar Association:  https://www.clba.netColorado Name...2023-12-301h 03The Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast22 December 2023 - Perceiving Our True SelvesIn today's episode, I speak with Lisa Haukom: a dear friend, photographer, and developer of The Self-Portrait Method - a course designed to help us learn to see who we truly are.  Lisa and I talk about topics as diverse as self-objectification, why we must approve of ourselves first, and the claptrap of a French Bitch.REFERENCES:Goldenbrand Photography:  https://www.thegoldenbrand.co/The Self-Portrait Method:  https://www.thegoldenbrand.co/self-portraitstudioAustin Kleon:  https://austinkleon.com/Gender Identity Today:  https://genderidentitytoday.com/(00:00) - Show opening (00:36) - Introducing Lisa ...2023-12-221h 00The Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast15 December 2023 - Role-Playing Games as Identity DiscoveryToday on the show, I discuss role-playing games with Bill Tucker, an experienced improv actor and tabletop role-playing gamer.  Bill and I get philosophical about good and evil, when we can't be the person we want to be, and Darth Vader's poor fashion choices.REFERENCES:Find Bill on Twitter:  https://twitter.com/imbilltuckerSly Flourish - Playing D&D can save your life:  https://slyflourish.com/playing_dnd_can_save_your_life.htmlDungeons & Dragons:  https://dnd.wizards.com/Traveller:  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Traveller_(role-playing_game)Shadowdark:  https...2023-12-151h 00The Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast01 December 2023 - Sex, Gender, and SexualityToday I speak with the one and only Ossiana Tepfenhart, who covered the adult film industry as a journalist and has written on topics from music to politics to sex.  Ossiana and I discuss Lolita fashion, control freaks, and why we should not be embarrassed to appreciate a good orgasm.REFERENCES:Find Ossiana on Substack:  https://ossiana.substack.com/ Find Ossiana on Medium:  https://medium.com/@ossiana.tepfenhart Find The Refugee Newsletter on Substack:  https://therefugee.substack.com/Gender Identity Today:  https://genderidentitytoday.com/(00:00) - Show opening (00:35) - Introducing Ossiana (03:46) - Gen...2023-12-0154 minThe Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast17 November 2023 - Divination as a Path to IntrospectionIn this slightly different show, I engage my witchy side with Miriam Rachel, a medium and tarot reader who writes and teaches how to improve your life through divination.  Miriam and I discuss karma, finding your inner depths, and why social media kinda sucks.REFERENCES:Miriam Reads Tarot on the web:  https://miriamreadstarot.com/Find Miriam on Substack:  https://miriamreadstarot.substack.com/ Find Miriam on Medium:  https://medium.com/@msmir Find The Refugee Newsletter on Substack:  https://therefugee.substack.com/Gender Identity Today:  https://genderidentitytoday.com/(00:00) - Show openin...2023-11-1757 minThe Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast10 November 2024 - Body, Embodiment, and IdentityIn this episode, I talk to Caitie Corradino, a Registered Dietician and body worker who explains the connections among body, mind, and spirit.  Caitie and I talk about topics as diverse as fasting, dietary supplements, and one step better than acceptance.REFERENCES:Full Soul Nutritiion:  https://www.fullsoulnutrition.com/Whole, Full, & Alive Podcast:  https://www.fullsoulnutrition.com/wholefullandalivepodcastFind Caitie on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/caitie.c.rd/Gender Identity Today:  https://genderidentitytoday.com/(00:00) - Show opening (00:36) - Introducing Caitie (01:12) - Identity and the body (04:19) - Why Caitie is so...2023-11-1051 minThe Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast27 October 2023 - Art as a Method of IdentityToday I talk to Tucker Lieberman, an excellent author and philosopher whose transgender journey took place in part through his creativity.  Tucker and I discuss important artistic media, how we find ourselves in fictional characters, and give a nod to Wes Craven.REFERENCES:Tucker’s Personal Website:  https://tuckerlieberman.comFind Tucker on Medium:  https://medium.com/@tuckerliebermanGender Identity Today:  https://genderidentitytoday.com/(00:00) - Show opening (00:35) - Introducing Tucker (01:28) - The role of creativity in who we are (05:54) - Photography as a medium of identity (10:02) - The value of not ha...2023-10-2758 minThe Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast20 October 2023 - Gender-Affirming Voice TherapyIn this episode, I have an informal discussion with my good friend Alison (Dragon) Hiester - because any discussion we have is informal!  We talk about what it means to be cis / het in a world of rainbow, what would make a good speech language pathologist, and apologize to Robert DeNiro.REFERENCES:Prismatic Speech Services:  https://prismaticspeech.com/Alison Hiester on Prismatic:  https://prismaticspeech.com/about-us/#alison Gender Identity Today:  https://genderidentitytoday.com/(00:00) - Show opening (00:33) - Introducing Alison (02:50) - Gender and communication (03:54) - Being cis/het in a rainbow world (08:55) - We...2023-10-2054 minThe Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast13 October 2023 - The Transgender Experience in TürkiyeToday I am honored to share this interview with my inspiring Sister Döro.  She speaks under cover of anonymity about being transgender in Türkiye.  The stories she tells are harrowing, and I ask each of you listening please to share this with as many people as you can.  Improving conditions for transgender people everywhere must be a global concern.REFERENCES:Döro on Medium:  https://medium.com/@DoroVolkovaGülya on Medium:  https://medium.com/@GulyaKerimogluTransgender Mental Health:  https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/transgender-mental-healthUS Transgender Employment:  https://tra...2023-10-1359 minThe Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast06 October 2023 - Observations on FeminismToday's episode is about feminism. My friend Kendra and I muse on Western society and feminism's role in it. REFERENCES: Dreamers & Doers: https://www.dreamersdoers.com/ The Kochfidential: https://www.thekochfidential.com/notes Get Touchy Feely: https://gettouchyfeely.com/ Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.com (00:00) - Show Opening (03:22) - Trying Harder Doesn't Always Work (06:15) - How Kendra and I Got into Feminism (08:22) - Ami Takes an English Course (13:18) - Feminism is a Western Concept (15:44) - Other Cultural Takes on the Divine Feminine (19:39) - Why Kant Women Have a Career? (21:25) - Growing up in...2023-10-061h 06The Dingbat Diaries WeeklyThe Dingbat Diaries Weekly08 September 2023 - Mental Health and the LGBTQ CommunityThis episode is the beginning of what is to become Gender Identity Weekly - my existing Dingbat Diaries idea, but engaging other contributors to Gender Identity Today.  I may someday break this out into a separate podcast, but I will publish them here as well until the change occurs.REFERENCES:CDC Statistics:  https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/suicide-data-statistics.htmlThe Trevor Project:  https://www.thetrevorproject.org/survey-2023/Williams Institute - LGBTQ:  https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/press/suicide-coming-out-press-release/Williams Institute - Transgender:  https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/publications/suicidality-transgender-adults/Gender Identity Today:  https...2023-09-081h 00The Purple PawedcastThe Purple Pawedcast08 September 2023 - Mental Health and the LGBTQ CommunityThis episode is the beginning of what is to become Gender Identity Weekly - my existing Dingbat Diaries idea, but engaging other contributors to Gender Identity Today.  I may someday break this out into a separate podcast, but I will publish them here as well until the change occurs.REFERENCES:CDC Statistics:  https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/suicide-data-statistics.htmlThe Trevor Project:  https://www.thetrevorproject.org/survey-2023/Williams Institute - LGBTQ:  https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/press/suicide-coming-out-press-release/Williams Institute - Transgender:  https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/publications/suicidality-transgender-adults/Gender Identity Today:  https...2023-09-071h 00The Dingbat Diaries WeeklyThe Dingbat Diaries Weekly31 August 2023 - Being Blonde, Female, and DepressedOn the program today:- Why I missed the Dingbat Diaries video for last week- A response to an article that explained my absence last week in which I was called female- Do I really buy into the rhetoric that genetics is gender?--REFERENCES:Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.comSeries of articles I wrote:    "All Except for My Parts":  https://genderidentitytoday.com/all-except-for-my-parts/    "To Bear Responsibility is Transgender":  https://genderidentitytoday.com/to-bear-responsibility-is-transgender/    "Writing My Transgender Life":  https://genderidentitytoday.com/writing-my-transgender-life/Transgender suicide statistic...2023-08-3119 minThe Dingbat Diaries WeeklyThe Dingbat Diaries Weekly18 August 2023 - New Web Site, Haterade, and D&DOn the program today, I talk about these fabulous topics: - I launched the new web site I've talked about for a month - I had a short video get many views - and many hate comments - I want to talk about role-playing...probably not what you're thinking -- REFERENCES: Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.com Instagram video with 13K views: https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cv8kE1uJIkQ/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Gender-affirming care statistics: https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/what-the-science-on-gender-affirming-care-for-transgender-kids-really-shows/ Transcurrent Explorers...2023-08-1920 minWhy Are You?Why Are You?Ari - Healer through LiteratureIn this show, we meet Ari - a writer and editor whose healing energy inflames her fiction.  Ari and I talk about hate on the internet, Wicca's gender binary, and no actual jokes about squirrels.REFERENCES:Clan of the Cave Bear:  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Clan_of_the_Cave_BearKaikeyi:  https://www.amazon.com/Kaikeyi-Novel-Vaishnavi-Patel/dp/0759557330Ari's Medium:  https://medium.com/@arijensineinkAri's Substack "Fighting for Writing": https://fightingforwriting.substack.comAriel Jensine Web Site:  https://www.arieljensine.ink/Gender Identity Today:  https://genderidentitytoday.comAmethysta's Website:  https...2023-08-1856 minWhy Are You?Why Are You?Morgan - Leader of the Parrot Incense CabaretIn this episode, we meet Morgan - a hilarious, irreverent and vibrant woman...whom I ask to picture herself in the pirate's life.  Morgan and I discuss such important topics as naming cars / boats, allowing your crew to choose for themselves, and whether we can float Florida out to sea a bit.REFERENCES:The Mandela Effect: https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-the-mandela-effect-4589394Amethysta's Substack:  https://amethystadings.substack.com/Amethysta's Website:  https://amethysta.io(00:00) - Intro (00:33) - Show Opening (01:31) - Morgan, Why Are You? (01:45) - What's with the Pirate Icon? (05:15) - The Journey to...2023-08-1146 minThe Dingbat Diaries WeeklyThe Dingbat Diaries Weekly10 August 2023 - Gender and Voice with Kevin DormanHi, Kittycats! This is The Dingbat Diaries for the week of August 10th, 2023, which features Kevin Dorman of Prismatic Speech Services: - What is gender-affirming voice? - How do we develop gender and gender identity?- How is gender perceived out there in the world today?--Linktree: https://linktr.ee/amethystadings Prismatic Speech Services:  https://prismaticspeech.com/Transgender Voice article:  https://medium.com/the-identity-current/sound-off-using-my-transgender-voice-46402382d48Home Free - "Man of Constant Sorrow":  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ew_bfFvros(00:00) - Show Introduction (01:10) - Introd...2023-08-1049 minThe Dingbat Diaries WeeklyThe Dingbat Diaries Weekly04 August 2023 - Barbie, Music for Minors, and Cisgender DysphoriaHi, Kittycats! This is The Dingbat Diaries for the week of August 4th, 2023: - What in the world makes "Barbie" such a controversial movie? - A new friend of mine helped open my eyes to greater issues of mental health around youth developing identity - A couple conversations that reminded me how gender and gender identity is understood today --Linktree: https://linktr.ee/amethystadings"Barbie": https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barbie_(film) Naomi Alderman "The Power": https://littlemountainpublishing.biz/the-power-by-naomi-alderman"Transgender Meh": https://medium.com/the-identity-current/transgender-meh-finishing-before-i-was-done-b989f53db019...2023-08-0528 minWhy Are You?Why Are You?Reading "I Cried for 'Barbie'"Today's episode comes from an article I wrote this week after seeing the movie "Barbie."  In short, I loved it, and I cried.  My article is very heartfelt, and I get pretty emotional in this reading.  So be aware.  💜There are also very minor spoilers in this reading.  If you do not want "Barbie" spoiled for you, go see it first!REFERENCES:Amethysta's Substack:  https://amethystadings.substack.com/Amethysta's Website:  https://amethysta.io"Why Are You Theme" composed and recorded by Amethysta  (00:00) - Intro (00:33) - Show Opening (01:41) - Reading "I...2023-08-0406 minWhy Are You?Why Are You?Shannara - The Dark Night's LightIn this episode, we meet Shannara, one of the wackiest - and most wonderful - women I know.  Shannara and I have a serious discussion about butterflies, the Power of Water, and the bastards whose deaths are celebrated.REFERENCES:Colorado Name Change Project:  https://www.namechangeproject.org/Amethysta's Substack:  https://amethystadings.substack.com/Amethysta's Website:  https://amethysta.io"Why Are You Theme" composed and recorded by Amethysta  (00:00) - Intro (00:33) - Show Opening (01:26) - Shannara, Why Are You? (01:45) - Making a Difference (05:24) - It's Hard to Change Your Name (06:30) - Don't...2023-07-2856 minThe Dingbat Diaries WeeklyThe Dingbat Diaries Weekly27 July 2023 - Shapewear, Aliens, and The BoostHi, Kittycats! Today on The Dingbat Diaries, I discuss: - Medium's new Partner Plan for August 2023 - How I finally found shapewear that suits my budget and my butt - Aliens in Congress, which is why transgender people should be left alone -- Linktree: https://linktr.ee/amethystadings Buster Benson's MPP changes article: https://blog.medium.com/new-partner-program-incentives-focus-on-high-quality-human-writing-7335f8557f6e Robin Wilding's article about the Boost: https://medium.com/new-writers-welcome/mediums-boost-is-killing-writers-4c741c6b61f4 Orchard Corsets: https://www.orchardcorset.com/ Angel Curves: https://www.angelcurves.com/ Maidenf...2023-07-2831 minThe Dingbat Diaries WeeklyThe Dingbat Diaries Weekly20 July 2023 - I'm Scientific and You're NotHi, Kittycats! Today on the Dingbat Weekly, I talk about my newest article detailing my gender theory, "Gender as Mediator," but also how I ended up getting to the point of writing the article. I finish up with a scathing indictment (not really) of Christian thoughts around gender. Linktree: https://linktr.ee/amethystadings"Gender as Mediator:" https://medium.com/the-identity-current/gender-as-mediator-between-the-origin-of-identity-and-social-environment-5a6f390b1bd6 Walter Rhein's "Medical Industry:" https://aninjusticemag.com/why-wont-the-american-medical-industry-research-alternative-treatments-707ded0c1a8 2023-07-2323 minThe Dingbat Diaries WeeklyThe Dingbat Diaries Weekly13 July 2023 - Medium, My Future, and Having ThoughtsThis is the first in a series of discussions I have with myself about what I thought about in the past week. Today I talk about: - Where publishing to Medium has gone, including discussion with  @robin_wilding - A new publication web site I'm considering - How I think in abstractions and what that means Robin Wilding on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@robin_wilding Robin Wilding on Medium: https://medium.com/@robin_wilding A.J. Cralle on Medium: https://medium.com/@ajcwrites5 My Website: https://amethysta.io My...2023-07-2313 minWhy Are You?Why Are You?Robin - Seeker and TravelerIn this episode, we meet Robin - a sincere seeker of humanity and the truth.  Robin and I discuss such scintillating topics as doing time in Timor, the best spices for cooking your leg, and saying goodbye when you know you'll never see the person again.REFERENCES:Find Robin on Medium:  https://medium.com/@robin_wildingFind Robin on YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@robin_wildingAmethysta's Substack:  https://amethystadings.substack.com/Amethysta's Website:  https://amethysta.io"Why Are You Theme" composed and recorded by Amethysta  (00:00) - Intro (00:30) - Show...2023-07-2148 minWhy Are You?Why Are You?Nanie - Natural Woman and NonconformerIn this episode, we meet a vibrant woman who found herself in the quiet of Ireland.  Nanie and I laugh about the horrors of home, bland British food, and the value of carrying a bag of dirt with you in case you need a perfume.REFERENCES:Find Nanie on Medium:  https://medium.com/@naniehurleyAmethysta's Substack:  https://amethystadings.substack.com/Amethysta's Website:  https://amethysta.io"Why Are You Theme" composed and recorded by Amethysta  (00:00) - Intro (00:33) - Show Opening (01:23) - Nanie, Why Are You? (43:38) - Show Closing     ★ Support this podcast ★2023-07-1444 minWhy Are You?Why Are You?Saoirse - Sensual SpiritIn this episode, we meet a woman with a spiritual network across the globe.  Saoirse and I discuss writing, bathtub guacamole, and mushroom fairy circles.REFERENCES:Find Saoirse on Medium:  https://medium.com/@nimue_40902Amethysta's Substack:  https://amethystadings.substack.com/Amethysta's Website:  https://amethysta.io"Why Are You Theme" composed and recorded by Amethysta  (00:00) - Intro (00:33) - Show Opening (01:22) - Saoirse, Why Are You? (40:10) - Show Closing   ★ Support this podcast ★ 2023-07-0741 minWhy Are You?Why Are You?Molly - Teaching InclusionIn this episode, we meet a woman who heals herself through improv and setting good boundaries.  Molly and I discuss such heady topics as chocolate carrots, inappropriate hugs, and our favorite Spice Girl.REFERENCES:Find Molly on Medium:  https://medium.com/@mollygmillerAmethysta's Substack:  https://amethystadings.substack.com/Amethysta's Website:  https://amethysta.io"Why Are You Theme" composed and recorded by Amethysta  (00:00) - Intro (00:33) - Show Opening (01:28) - Molly, Why Are You? (47:01) - Show Closing   ★ Support this podcast ★ 2023-06-3048 minWhy Are You?Why Are You?Lilith - Beautiful FighterToday on the podcast, we meet a writer who won't let oppression go without a fight.  Lilith and I talk about Christina Aguilera, conservative Christianity, and the cold comfort of fish breath.REFERENCES:Find Lilith on Medium:  https://medium.com/@lilith.helstromAmethysta's Substack:  https://amethystadings.substack.com/Amethysta's Website:  https://amethysta.io"Why Are You Theme" composed and recorded by Amethysta  (00:00) - Intro (00:33) - Show Opening (01:25) - Lilith, Why Are You? (39:04) - Show Closing ★ Support this podcast ★ 2023-06-2340 minWhy Are You?Why Are You?Michelle - All-Encompassing and UncompromisingIn today's show, we meet a woman with a wonderful podcast voice.  Michelle and I muse about too much coffee, saving the world, and the versatility of the avocado.REFERENCES:The MLG Collective:  https://themlgcollective.com/Find Michelle on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/michelleglogovac/Amethysta's Substack:  https://amethystadings.substack.com/Amethysta's Website:  https://amethysta.io"Why Are You Theme" composed and recorded by Amethysta  (00:00) - Intro (00:33) - Show Opening (01:22) - Michelle, Why Are You? (32:38) - Show Closing          ★ Support this podcast ★ 2023-06-1633 minWhy Are You?Why Are You?Bianca - Survivor and MotherIn this episode, we meet one of the originals in the LGBTQ technology community.  Bianca and I talk about parenting, overtone singing, and trees.  REFERENCES:Overtone Singing:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UHTF1-IhuC0Baobab Tree:  https://www.britannica.com/plant/baobab-tree-genusAmethysta's Substack:  https://amethystadings.substack.com/Amethysta's Website:  https://amethysta.io"Why Are You Theme" composed and recorded by Amethysta  (00:00) - Intro (00:33) - Show Opening (01:38) - Bianca, Why Are You? (37:20) - Show Closing         ★ Support this podcast ★ 2023-06-1038 minWhy Are You?Why Are You?Tori - Perceiver and EncouragerToday we meet a woman who won't hesitate to tell you the good news or the bad.  Tori and I talk about Washington, D.C., how to determine if you're a good person, and the stereotype around marketing (SPOLIER: Tori isn't an example).REFERENCES:Amethysta's Substack:  https://amethystadings.substack.com/Amethysta's Website:  https://amethysta.io"Why Are You Theme" composed and recorded by Amethysta         ★ Support this podcast ★ 2023-06-0228 minWhy Are You?Why Are You?Fiona - Folk Singer and IntellectualIn today's episode, we meet an Irish woman who has more past in a year than I do in a decade.  Fiona and I discuss Irish myth, what makes a good song, and a new ice cream flavor from Ben & Jerry.REFERENCES:Follow Fiona on Medium:  https://medium.com/@fionafeng78Amethysta's Substack:  https://amethystadings.substack.com/Amethysta's Website:  https://amethysta.io"Why Are You Theme" composed and recorded by Amethysta  (00:00) - Intro (00:33) - Show Opening (01:50) - Fiona, Why Are You? (48:25) - Show Closing       ★ Support this podcast ★ 2023-05-2649 minWhy Are You?Why Are You?Sirona Ryan - Place Holder and Video Game CharacterI had a nice interview to publish, but the audio quality wasn't good, so we decided to try again.  In the meantime, enjoy this audio from a video I posted regarding Sirona Ryan.  More information below.REFERENCES:Original video:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s7q8N0sS-qM Seattle Voice Lab:  https://www.seattlevoicelab.com/Substack:  https://amethystadings.substack.com/Website:  https://amethysta.io"Why Are You Theme" composed and recorded by Amethysta  (00:00) - Intro (00:32) - Show Intro (01:30) - Sirona Ryan (06:53) - Show Outro       ★ Support this podcast ★ 2023-05-2107 minWhy Are You?Why Are You?Jill - Dancer and FighterOn the show today is a woman capable of setting the boundaries that helped her achieve a high level of skill in several fields.  Jill and I talk about divorce, menopause, choreography, and being interesting.REFERENCES:Substack:  https://amethystadings.substack.com/Website:  https://amethysta.io"Why Are You Theme" composed and recorded by Amethysta  (00:00) - Intro (00:38) - Show Opening (01:36) - Jill, Why Are You? (46:50) - Outro     ★ Support this podcast ★ 2023-05-0547 minWhy Are You?Why Are You?Sieran - Therapist and PokéfanIn this episode is a man who has struggled with what life has to offer, which is why he chooses to change other people's lives now.  Sieran and I discuss topics as varied as mental health, gender-affirming surgery, and Pokémon!REFERENCES:Find Sieran on Medium:  https://medium.com/@sieranlaneSubscribe to Sieran's Ghost newsletter:  https://sieranlane.ghost.ioFollow Sieran on Twitter:   https://twitter.com/LaneSieran Read Anastasia the Dragon stories:  https://tapas.io/series/Anastasia-the-Enby-Dragon--Amethysta's Substack:  https://amethystadings.substack.com/Amethysta's Website:  https://amethysta.io"Why Ar...2023-04-2832 minWhy Are You?Why Are You?Rae - Warrior and HealerOn the show today is a person who combats misrepresentation in the human experience academically, professionally, and in their daily life.  Rae and I have a discussion that spans many topics: from ingrained gender roles to use of voice in therapy.REFERENCES:Imari Babarin:  https://www.instagram.com/reel/CqjVf0ctuBy/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= For more about gender-affirming voice work:  https://www.becomingthroughsound.com/gender-affirming-voicework Substack:  https://amethystadings.substack.com/Website:  https://amethysta.io"Why Are You Theme" composed and recorded by Amethysta  (00:00) - Intro (00:38) - Show Openin...2023-04-2145 minWhy Are You?Why Are You?Zach - Brother and SeekerOn the show today is a person who feels kinship with all of humanity.  Zach and I talk about moving to the USA and finding ourselves through the mist of our parents' aspirations.REFERENCES:Substack:  https://amethystadings.substack.com/Website:  https://amethysta.io"Why Are You Theme" composed and recorded by Amethysta  (00:00) - Intro (00:38) - Show Opening (01:32) - Zach, Why Are You? (21:29) - Outro   ★ Support this podcast ★ 2023-04-1822 minWhy Are You?Why Are You?Shannon - Physician and AllyOn the show today is a man whose humility is only overshadowed by his conversation.  Shannon raises some exceptional questions - ones neither of us can truly answer!REFERENCES:Follow Shannon on Mastodon:  https://mastodon.social/@ShannonWebbSubstack:  https://amethystadings.substack.com/Website:  https://amethysta.io"Why Are You Theme" composed and recorded by Amethysta  (00:00) - Intro (00:38) - Show Opening (01:36) - Shannon, Why Are You? (32:07) - Outro ★ Support this podcast ★ 2023-04-1433 minWhy Are You?Why Are You?Cypress - Philosopher and Thinker As the first episode in this series, I wanted to ask a real philosopher to discuss identity, and Cypress was kind enough to oblige.  We start off with a theory of identity before I ask Cypress "Why are you?"  Cypress is a profound thinker - this is a wonderful inaugural episode!REFERENCES:Cypress's Academic Profile:  https://philosophy.yale.edu/people/cypress-hallCypress's Advisor, Robin Dembroff:  https://www.robindembroff.com/real-men-on-top.htmlJudith Butler:  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Judith_ButlerSubstack:  https://amethystadings.substack.com/Website:  https://amethysta.io"Why Are You...2023-04-1137 min