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The Faith-Full Mama: Christian Motherhood, Spiritual Growth, Stay At Home Mom, Time ManagementFinding Freedom from Perfectionism in Motherhood w/ Andrea FortenberryIn today’s episode, we’re joined by Andrea Fortenberry—author, speaker, and member of the MomCo (formerly MOPS) ministry team. Andrea opens up about her journey through perfectionism and how it began to affect her motherhood. She shares how counseling helped her find freedom and peace, and now she’s passionate about helping other moms do the same.Together, we walk through three powerful principles to help you experience more freedom in your own motherhood:Take care of yourself.You may expect yourself to be perfect—but God doesn’t.It’s okay (and holy...2025-07-2327 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE108: Make a ListWelcome to Episode 108 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Today's episode is short and sweet, with a mini-life update and my encouragement on making lists.
Some of the resources I mention include:
PowerSheets: Use code ANDREAFORTENBERRY for 10% off your order of $25+. *
Any List
MOMCON
Full Circle by Andrea Barber.*
Monk on Netflix
"Still Waters" by Leanna Crawford
Just a reminder that you can connect with me via:
Instagram: @andreafortenberry
My website: andreafortenberry.com
2024-09-2917 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE100: Celebrating 100 Episodes!Welcome to Episode 100 of The Perfectionist's Guide to
Mothering! For this celebration, we have a special host, Stacey Morgan, who is interviewing Andrea all about the podcast, what she's learned, who her dream guest is and more!
A few handy links include:
The Perfectionist's Guide to Friendship - E51
Stacey's website: staceymorgan2000.com
Stacey's book, The Astronaut's Wife*
Find Stacey on Instagram @staceymorgan2000
Just a reminder that you can connect with me via:
Instagram: @andreafortenberry
My website: andreafortenberry.com
Subscribing to my email list
*Affiliate Link2024-05-2940 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE85: Strategies for the Sports MomWelcome to Episode 85 of The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering! I'm so excited to be chatting with my very funny friend, Noelle Rhodes, all about strategies for the sports mom. We are both moms of kids in sports and have some insight and tips to help you if you are a sports mom or if you become one in the future.
In case you don’t know her, Noelle Rhodes is a comedian, a pastor, and a previous guest of the podcast. We chatted all about Trusting God’s Timing in Episode 28 and she was also...2023-09-2034 min
Strength Dignity LifeS06E05 - Motherhood As A Ministry - Andrea FortenberryHave you been dreaming of being a stay-at-home mom your whole life? Can you see yourself baking cookies, playing with your kids, maybe even homeschooling? Have you ever considered motherhood a ministry? In this episode, Guest Andrea Fortenberry of The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering Podcast shares the joys, challenges, and surprises of living out the ministry of motherhood. She also has a sweet word of encouragement to single ladies who are always the bridesmaid and never the bride.Connect with Andrea Fortenberry:Website: andreafortenberry.comInstagram: andreafortenberryConnect with Me:2023-09-2022 minStrength Dignity LifeS06E05 - Motherhood As A Ministry - Andrea FortenberryHave you been dreaming of being a stay-at-home mom your whole life? Can you see yourself baking cookies, playing with your kids, maybe even homeschooling? Have you ever considered motherhood a ministry? In this episode, Guest Andrea Fortenberry of The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering Podcast shares the joys, challenges, and surprises of living out the ministry of motherhood. She also has a sweet word of encouragement to single ladies who are always the bridesmaid and never the bride.Connect with Andrea Fortenberry:Website: andreafortenberry.comInstagram: andreafortenberryConnect with Me:2023-09-2022 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE84: Digital Detox - A Tech Reset for KidsWelcome to Episode 84 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Today I’m sharing my conversation with Molly DeFrank, author of Digital Detox: The Two Week Tech Reset for Kids.* Molly is a mom to six children, three boys and three girls, ages six to thirteen. She spends most of her time telling them to put on their shoes. She helps parents get back in the driver’s seat to better navigate the stress of screen time in the home.
We chat all about her book and I share my experience with our family's digital detox we implem...2023-09-0626 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE83: A Teacher's Wisdom
Welcome to Episode 83 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! I am so excited to share this episode. I had the privilege of interviewing my high school biology teacher, Rick Cole.
We talk about what moms can do (and stop doing) to help their kids' educational journey, how we can love and support teachers, and much more! He offers such great wisdom and insight.
Some of the resources we mention in this episode include:
· Hawaii by James A. Michener*
· John Grisham Novels
You can connect with...2023-08-2440 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE82: Remaining You While Raising ThemWelcome to Episode 82 of The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering! Today I'm so excited to welcome my mentor and friend, Alli Worthington, back to the podcast. (You can listen to Episode 9: Standing Strong with Alli here.)
This time, we're chatting all about her new book, Remaining You While Raising Them.* We talk about how modern motherhood is broken, mom guilt, the greatest gift a mom can give her kids, and more.
Some of the resources we mention in this episode include:
Remaining You While Raising Them*
Happier Hour by Cassie Holmes...2023-08-0939 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE81: Body & Soul Summer Series - The Cure for Mom OverwhelmWelcome to Episode 81 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! This is the last episode of our Body & Soul Summer Series. It's been fun to chat through topics to help us as moms, body and soul.
Today I'm talking about mom overwhelm: why we feel it and the cure for it from Psalm 23.
Some of the resources I mention in this episode include:
Psalm 23:1-4 NASB
2 Corinthians 9:8
God Knows by Lisa Whittle*
The Hard Good by Lisa Whittle*
Called Creatives*
The Craig Groeschel Leadership Podcast
Lead Like It Ma...2023-07-2839 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE80: Body & Soul Summer Series - Pelvic Floor HealthWelcome to Episode 80 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Right now we’re right in the middle of our Body & Soul Summer Series and today’s episode is about the body, particularly pelvic floor health. I think we’ve all heard of the pelvic floor, but maybe aren’t sure what it is or how to take care of it. That’s why I invited Dr. Kate Palmer to join us on the podcast.
She is a Doctor of Physical Therapy specializing in women’s health, specifically pregnancy, postpartum, dancers, and pelvic health, and wellness...2023-07-1529 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE79: Body & Soul Summer Series - Finding True RestWelcome to Episode 79 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Today I’m chatting with Sarah Hauser. She is a writer, speaker, mom of four, and a very loud rescue dog. She is the author of All Who Are Weary: Finding True Rest by Letting Go of the Burdens You Were Never Meant to Carry.*
We chat about some of the soul-crushing burdens Sarah mentions in her book, one of which is perfectionism. We also chat about how unpacking the things we carry can help us be better moms and how we can let go o...2023-06-3032 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE78: Body & Soul Summer Series - Fit for the CallWelcome to Episode 78 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering!
We’re in our Body & Soul Summer series. I’m chatting with my friend Sarah Martin. Sarah Martin is a wife, mom, author, and a Certified FASTer Way Health & Wellness Coach. She is passionate about gathering purpose-driven women and coaching you in health and wellness to love God heart, soul, mind, and strength to be fit for the call He has on your life.
Some of the resources we mention in this episode include:
My friend Noelle's prayer challenge for your kids' friendships
Reach Noelle on Instagram: @noellerhodescomedy
The YouVersion Bible Ap...2023-06-1444 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE77: Body & Soul Summer Series - Spending Time with GodWelcome to Episode 77 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Right now we’re currently in our Body & Soul Summer series and I’m excited to share the conversation I had with my friend Courtney Lowman about spending time with God.
Courtney is a wife, mom, speaker and podcast host. Because she believes that everyone has an absolute need for discipleship and mentorship, Courtney created The Journey of Ruth Discipleship Podcast where episodes reflect her mission to help women Love Jesus, Read His Work, and Reach Others. Alongside serving her global audience, Courtney enjoys living...2023-05-3155 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE76: Body & Soul Summer Series - How to Build Body ConfidenceWelcome to Episode 76 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! This episode is kicking off our Body and Soul Summer Series!
Today I’m talking with my friend, writer, and speaker, Jessica Carey about body confidence. Jess Carey is a wife and mother of two teenagers, who has moved more than eight times across more than 11,000 miles in the past decade, including a stint internationally. From acting in New York to running a business overseas, she has consistently sailed into the unknown. She is open, honest, and vulnerable in her writing and her speaking. She gives her audi...2023-05-1848 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE75: How to Survive MaycemberWelcome to Episode 75 of the Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Also, happy May! It’s a new month and a busy one for most of us, as the school year is winding down. This means lots of extra things for our kids and us by default: concerts, recitals, school projects, field trips, class parties, teacher appreciation, and more!
It’s easy to feel overwhelmed by all there is going on. But I don’t want us to feel overwhelmed, I want us to take some time now on the front end of the month to help our future selves. Let's no...2023-05-0442 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE74: On BecomingWelcome to Episode 74 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! In this episode, I talk about hitting the milestone of 10k downloads. Thank you so much!
I also chat about becoming, discouragement, waiting, and what to do when we feel disappointed.
Here are some of my questions for you:
What did you enjoy doing as a child? What made you happy?
How has God used those things in your journey to becoming? What dots can you connect from your life now that you couldn’t see as you lived through them?
What...2023-04-1928 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE73: The Pace of GraceWelcome to Episode 73 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Today I’m talking with my friend, Rebecca George.
Rebecca is the founder of Radical Radiance® - a podcast community where listeners are equipped to blend what they love with the Jesus who makes them shine. She is a podcaster, speaker, and author whose greatest joy in life is discipling others to pursue their passions in a way that builds the Kingdom. In her free time, you can find her running outside, writing, or trying a new recipe with Garth Brooks playing in the backg...2023-04-0532 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE72: Hot Date NightWelcome to Episode 72 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Today I’m talking with my amazing friend, Jackie Kelley. Jackie is a stay-at-home mom to two wild boys based in Arizona. She is a self-proclaimed “maker” who loves to dream big. She has served with her local MOPS chapter for five years and has a passion for young moms and young families.
Along with her husband of eight years, she is on a mission to show the world that having intentional fun with your spouse is possible regardless of what season of life you are in. 2023-03-2238 min
Faith Fueled Woman: Christian Mindset & PurposeFinding Freedom from Perfectionism & How to Enjoy the Season of Motherhood with Andrea FortenberryOn today's podcast Kristin talks to Andrea Fortenberry, a writer, speaker, bible teacher and mom, about letting go of perfectionist tendencies in our lives and in motherhood and how to see the beautiful in our every day lives even in the midst of the busy season of motherhood.In this episode, Kristin and Andrea also talk about being kinder to ourselves, seeing ourselves as God sees us, when to ask for help and how to suppor each other as women.Connect with Andrea at her website here (AndreaFortenberry.com or onInstagram @andreafortenberry2023-03-1636 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE71: Untangling FaithWelcome to Episode 71 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering!
Today I’m talking with the very funny and insightful, Amberly Neese. Amberly is a popular speaker/teacher, comedian, author, and all-around encourager dedicated to helping you become the joyful person you were created to be.
Amberly is a featured speaker for the Aspire Women’s Events and the main host and female comedian for Marriage Date Night, two popular Christian events that tour nationally.
She and her husband have two adult children and live in Prescott, Arizona, where they enjoy the great outdoo...2023-03-0838 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE70: How to be a Time-Saving MomWelcome to Episode 70 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Today I’m talking with the amazing Crystal Paine.
Crystal is the founder of MoneySavingMom.com, host of The Crystal Paine Show podcast, and a New York Times bestselling author. Her desire is to help women across the globe live with more joy, purpose, and intention in their everyday lives. She lives with her husband and six kids in the Nashville, Tennessee, area, where she is actively involved in her local church.
Her biggest passions are helping women understand how the gospel can radically transform thei...2023-02-2235 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE69: How to Handle Decision FatigueWelcome to Episode 69 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Today I’m talking with my friend and MOPS coworker, Kelli Jordan.
Kelli Jordan is a mom, grandma, mentor and MOPS International staffer living in the Kansas City area. She loves a good story, especially the stories of real people doing good things in the world every single day. She is committed to helping others find and share the hope of Jesus and embrace the good all around them. Read more from her at kellijordan.blog.
In this episode, we talk all about decision fatigue. As m...2023-02-0838 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE68: Start SmallWelcome to Episode 68 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering!
Today I’m talking with my friend, Lain Ehmann. Lain is a radio show host, journalist, best-selling author, and consultant. Her superpower is creating clarity from confusion and helping her clients get their voices heard in a noisy world. A sought-after public speaker and coach, Lain loves leading retreats, facilitating masterminds, and bringing women together who want to change the world one conversation at a time.
She is the mom of three amazing kids and lives with her husband and family in Scottsdale, Arizona.
So...2023-01-2545 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE67: Start SlowlyWelcome to Episode 67 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering!
In this episode, I share how and why we can start this year out slowly. In a world that’s focused on hustle and going harder, starting slowly is very counter-cultural, but I think it’s the pace our souls were designed for.
Here are some of the resources I mention in this episode:
Matthew 11:28-30 MSG
Episode 20 of The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering: Rest for Weary Moms
Growing Slow by Jennifer Dukes Lee*
Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life by Anne La...2023-01-1126 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE66: Fan the FlameNow that December is almost over and Christmas has passed, you might find yourself feeling burned out and a little weary.
This message my dear friend Ginger Ciminello gave at Restore: Soul Care for Moms, is the perfect thing for us to hear as we recover from the activities of the holiday season.
Ginger is a dear friend, she’s a speaker, author and a previous guest of the podcast. You can find our previous conversation about Remembering God’s Faithfulness in Episode 7.
Last thing: If your church is interested in bringing Restore: Soul...2022-12-2828 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE65: Five Loaves and Two FishWelcome to Episode 65 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering!
In our last episode I shared the replay of my message from Restore: Soul Care for Moms 2022 with you. Today I’m going to share the replay of my friend Noelle’s message. Although it was recorded in June, I think her message is so poignant for us as moms in the Christmas season.
If case you don’t know her, Noelle Rhodes is a comedian, a pastor, and a previous guest of the podcast. We chatted all about Trusting God’s Timing in Episode 28. She is tru...2022-12-1426 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE64: What to Do When You're Distracted, Worried, and UpsetWelcome to Episode 64 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering!
I’m excited to share today’s episode with you, it is a recording of the message that I gave this summer at an event I host annually, Restore: Soul Care for Moms.
If your church is interested in bringing Restore: Soul Care for Moms to your church in 2023, let me know! I can produce the event at virtually cost to your organization.
Contact me here:
Website Contact Form
DM on Instagram
2022-11-3027 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE63: Life Can Be Good AgainWelcome to Episode 63 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering!
Today I’m talking with Lisa Appelo. Lisa Appelo is a speaker inspiring women to cultivate faith in life’s storms and author of Life Can Be Good Again: Putting Your World Back Together After It All Falls Apart. When life shatters and you're navigating a life you didn't sign up for, Lisa provides compassionate, Biblical insight to help you find your footing, process raw emotion, and anchor your threadbare hope to see you won’t merely survive this, but that life can be good again.
A form...2022-11-1629 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE62: The Perfectionist's Guide to the Holidays - Part 2Welcome to Episode 62 of The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering! I'm continuing the conversation all about the holidays with my friend and MOPS coworker, Jennifer Iverson.
Jennifer Iverson is a speaker, wife, mom and efficiency expert. With over 20 years of experience, Jennifer loves helping women develop as leaders and accomplish their goals. She believes that communication is the key that unlocks healthy relationships and that anything can be accomplished with a good cup of coffee. Jennifer is mom to six children, now ages 16-26, and truly does organize closets for fun. Find her at jenniferiverson.com and on...2022-11-021h 39
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE61: The Perfectionist's Guide to the Holidays - Part 1Welcome to Episode 61 of The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering! Today I’m chatting with my friend and MOPS coworker, Jennifer Iverson.
Jennifer Iverson is a speaker, wife, mom and efficiency expert. With over 20 years of experience, Jennifer loves helping women develop as leaders and accomplish their goals. She believes that communication is the key that unlocks healthy relationships and that anything can be accomplished with a good cup of coffee. Jennifer is mom to six children, now ages 16-26, and truly does organize closets for fun. Find her at jenniferiverson.com and on Instagram @ivymamma.
We...2022-10-1957 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE60: Blended and RedeemedWelcome to Episode 60 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering!
Today I’m talking with Scott and Vanessa Martindale. The Martindales founded Blended Kingdom Families (BKF) in 2020 with a passionate desire to equip and encourage blended families and married couples as well as to help the local church cultivate community among blended families. Through faith and radical obedience, Scott and Vanessa have partnered with God to better equip the local church to reach blended families. BKF exists to break the generational cycle of divorce by equipping marriages and uniting blended families with the truth of God’s Word.2022-10-0530 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE59: How to Follow God's WillWelcome to Episode 59 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering!
Today I’m talking with Brittany Ann, who is a repeat guest of the podcast. If you want to hear our previous episode, it’s Episode 18.
Brittany Ann is an ECPA bestselling author of Fall in Love with God’s Word* and Follow God’s Will* and the founder of EquippingGodlyWomen.com, a popular Christian-living website dedicated to helping busy Christian moms find practical ways to go "all in" in faith and family. Her work has been featured on CBN, The Christian Post, Crosswalk, and more.
...2022-09-2155 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE58: Friendship Q & A - Summer Series Part 8Welcome to Episode 58, aka Part 8 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Friendship. Today we’re wrapping up our summer series. It has been so fun to focus on friendship these past few months!
We’ve been soliciting your input and questions on social media and today we share your thoughts about this series, a story, and answer your questions. Thank you to everyone who connected with us and helped us with content for this episode!
Although this series is over, we’d still love to continue the conversation with you! Send us a DM on Instagra...2022-09-071h 07
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE57: Setting Our Kids Up for Friendship Success - Summer Series Part 7Welcome to Episode 57, aka Part 7 of The Perfectionist's Guide to Friendship! In this episode, we chat about how to help our kids navigate friendships and how to set them up for success. We talk about how to discern when to jump in a friendship struggle and when to step back. We talk about the importance of sharing our friendship stories and how a lot of what they learn about friendship is caught, not just taught.
We'd love to continue the conversation with you! Send us a DM on Instagram with your friendship questions and quandaries you want u...2022-08-2546 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE56: Friendship Lifecycles - Summer Series Part 6Welcome to Episode 56, aka Part 6 of The Perfectionist's Guide to Friendship! In this episode, we chat about friendship lifecycles and seasons. We talk about how to revive a friendship and how it's important to grieve when a friendship dies.
We mention The Four Seasons of Marriage book by Dr. Gary Chapman.
We'd love to continue the conversation with you! Send us a DM on Instagram with your friendship questions and quandaries you want us to talk about this summer. Find me @andreafortenberry and @staceymorgan2000.
We'd also love for you to share this episode wi...2022-08-1041 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE55: When Friendship Hurts - Summer Series Part 5Welcome to Episode 55 of The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering, aka Part 5 of our Summer Series, The Perfectionist's Guide to Friendship. Today we're chatting about when friendship hurts. As much as we'd like to ignore this topic, the truth is that we're all sinful, broken people and sometimes we will hurt our friends or they will hurt us. We talk about: some healthy things we can do when we face friendship hurt, the friendship bus, how to handle conflict, and more.
In this episode, we mention:
Proverbs 27:6
We'd love to continue the conversation with you! Send u...2022-07-2756 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE54: Vulnerability in Friendship - Summer Series Part 4Welcome to Episode 54 of The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering, aka Part 4 of our Summer Friendship Series!
Today we're chatting about vulnerability in friendships. We discuss what vulnerability is and how vulnerability helps our friendships grow. As usual, we also tell some personal stories to help us think about vulnerability and friendship in a new way.
Some homework from this episode is to think about which friend you can be vulnerable about and what will you be vulnerable about?
We'd love to continue the conversation with you! Send us a DM on Instagram with...2022-07-1356 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE53: How to Make Friends as An Adult Woman - Summer Series Part 3Welcome to Episode 53 of The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering, aka Part 3 of The Perfectionist's Guide to Friendship! Today we're talking about how to make friends as an adult woman. This is one of those things that isn't as simple as it seems.
We chat about why it's so hard, how many close friends someone should have, and our best suggestions for how to go out and make friends.
We'd love to continue the conversation with you! Send us a DM on Instagram with your friendship questions and quandaries you want us to talk about this s...2022-06-291h 06
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE52: Friendship Myths - Summer Series Part 2Welcome to Episode 52 of The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering, aka part 2 of our summer series!
Today we talk about five friendship myths women struggle with:
That friends should be easy to find
That friendships should last forever
That they will naturally get deeper with just time
That good friends will never cause you pain
That friendship is easy to maintain
We'd love to continue the conversation with you! Send us a DM on Instagram with your friendship questions and quandaries you want us to talk about this summer. Find me @andreafortenberry and @staceymorgan2000.
W...2022-06-1542 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE51: Summer Friendship Series - Part 1Welcome to Episode 51 of The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering! Today we're starting something new! We're kicking off a summer series all about friendship and my friend, Stacey Morgan, is joining me!
In this episode, we chat about:
Why a mothering podcast is spending the summer talking about friendship
Why we need friends
Some of our not-so-great friendship origin stories
We'd love to continue the conversation with you! Send us a DM on Instagram with your friendship questions and quandaries you want us to talk about this summer. Find me @andreafortenberry and @staceymorgan2000.
We'd a...2022-06-0137 min
StoryTellers LiveA Steady Safe Place - Andrea Fortenberry's Story :: [Episode189]Today's storyteller, Andrea Fortenberry, from Phoenix, Arizona, walks us through navigating the journey of her parents' divorcing when she was 33 years old. Andrea vulnerably shares the struggles she faced, but she also encourages us to know that no matter what happens in our earthly families, our ultimate identity is found as a daughter of the King. ON PATREON THIS FRIDAY: When you are hurting, forgiving the person who caused your pain can be a difficult path to choose, but as a child of God, it is a path He calls you to take. This mon...2022-05-2528 min
Strong and Free LeadersEpisode 1: Andrea FortenberryAndrea Fortenberry is a writer, speaker and Bible teacher who helps women find freedom from perfectionism and show up for the life God has for them. She is warm, wise, and the best at creating safe space for us to connect with God and others.
We talk about:
Transition in leadership
When leadership looks different
Recovering perfectionists
Dealing with messy teams
Cycle of fear, shame, and control
Want to connect with Andrea? Find her on instagram or through her website. Check out h...2022-05-1853 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE50: What I Wish I'd Thought OfWelcome to Episode 50 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering!
Before we dive into today’s conversation, I want to let you know about two things:
1. May 20th is the second birthday of the podcast! As a quick birthday gift, could you hop over to Apple Podcasts and rate and review the podcast? It means so much and will help more moms be able to find it.
2. Just a reminder that Restore: Soul Care for Moms is coming to Arizona on Tuesday, June 21st at Rock Point Church, 6:30-9 PM. Tickets are on sale...2022-05-1845 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE49: How to Thrive in MotherhoodWelcome to Episode 49 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering!
Before we dive into today’s interview, I have some announcements:
1. I have a new digital magazine, Restore. You can subscribe here.
2. Get your tickets to Restore: Soul Care for Moms in Arizona on Tuesday, June 21st
Now, on to today’s conversation:
Today I’m talking with Jaclyn Weidner. Jaclyn is the self-proclaimed former president of the Hot Mess Mom's Club. After God pulled her out of a pit of anxiety and depression she has been on a mission t...2022-05-0445 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE48: A Confident MomWelcome to Episode 48 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering!
Today I’m talking with Renee Swope. Renee is an award-winning author, a popular national conference speaker, and a former radio cohost and executive director with Proverbs 31 Ministries. Her most recent book is A Confident Mom: Simple Ways to Give Your Child What They Need Most.* Renee and her husband, J.J., have been married for 29 years and have three children ranging from middle school to married + two daughter-in-loves and two fur babies.
Some of the resources we mention include:
Renee's new book: A Conf...2022-04-2044 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE47: Helping Tweens with AnxietyWelcome to Episode 47 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering!
Today I’m talking with Caris Snider. Caris is a Christian Communicator who shares the hope of God through speaking and leading worship. She is the best-selling author of Anxiety Elephants: A 31 Day Devotional and Anxiety Elephants for Tween Girls and Boys*. Her passion for the Lord comes through as she shares her experiences of overcoming depression and anxiety. Her desire is to help women of all ages with their faith and mental health journey.
We chat about how to detect symptoms of anxiety in our...2022-04-0646 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE46: The Cranky Mom FixWelcome to Episode 46 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering!
Today I’m talking with Becky Kopitzke. She is a wife, mom of two, author, speaker, and writing coach. She’s the author of three books including The Cranky MomFix: How to Get a Happier, More Peaceful Home by Slaying the "Momster" in All of Us.* Becky and her family are living the dream in northeast Wisconsin, where they share precious space with two lazy dogs, and tables stacked with homework and craft supplies.
I loved this conversation with Becky, we are kindred spirits! We talked...2022-03-2340 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE45: Asking for HelpWelcome to Episode 45 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Today I'm sharing a story, encouraging you to ask for help, and asking for your help.
Could you please help me with these five things?
Subscribe to my email list! I recently refreshed the format of my monthly emails to a new monthly magazine, Restore, and I think you’re going to love it! New issues will appear in your inbox every first Friday of the month.
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If you enjoy this podcast, please subscribe and share it wi...2022-03-0930 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE44: What If It's Wonderful?Welcome to Episode 44 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Today’s guest is a familiar friend, Nicole Zasowski, who was with us for Episode 13. She is a licensed marriage and family therapist and the author of two books, including What If It’s Wonderful?*, which releases on March 8th. She lives in Connecticut with her husband and three young children.
Some of the resources we mention include:
Nicole's new book, What If It's Wonderful?*
The Way of the Heart by Henry Nouwen*
The Personal Librarian by Marie Benedict and Victoria Christopher Murray*
Eucalyptus Shower Steamers*
You...2022-02-2340 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE43: Marriage Q&AWelcome to episode 43 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Today’s guest is my favorite person, my husband, Will Fortenberry. We’ve been married for 17 years, we have two kids, ages 13 and 10. I could not do all that I do without him. Since it’s February and Valentine’s Day is this month, I thought it would be fun to have him on the show.
We talk about how we knew we were meant for each other, how we handle disagreements, how we balance family and ministry, and more.
You can connect with Will:
On Face...2022-02-0942 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE42: The Astronaut's WifeWelcome to today’s episode, friends, you’re in for a treat! My friend and MOPS coworker, the amazing Stacey Morgan, is back with us today. We recorded Episode 19 together on friendship and it is still my most listened to episode. If you’ve not listened, I encourage you to do that, just click here.
Today we’re going to hear all about Stacey’s book, The Astronaut’s Wife*, which launches into the world on February 22nd! (There has been a supply chain issue, so the book will launch a few weeks later than we mentioned in the episode...2022-01-261h 02
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE41: How to Embolden Our DaughtersWelcome to Episode 41 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering!
Today I’m talking with Amy Debrucque. Amy is a wife, mom of four, cancer survivor, and co-author of Embolden.* She is the founder of the Life On Purpose Movement and host of the Life On Purpose Podcast where she encourages women to live on purpose instead of fear.
We talk about how to embolden our daughters, differences in raising daughters and sons, how to care for yourself, and much more!
Some of the resour...2022-01-1235 min
Journey of Ruth Discipleship PodcastThe Lie of Perfectionism- Andrea FortenberryThis episode may seem like its for perfectionists, but it turns out we all have some perfectionist tendencies! I am talking with Andrea Fortenberry, the host of the Perfectionist Guide to Mothering Podcast. As a recovering perfectionist, Andrea encourages women to develop realistic expectations, find a supportive community, and understand where their true value comes from. As we spoke, she shared many practical tips to help us find a little more peace and grace in our daily lives.Show NotesHelp Courtney with her upcoming book by taking the Discipleship Survey (for women...2022-01-1155 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE40: How to Stop People PleasingWelcome to Episode 40 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering!
Today I’m talking with Karen Ehman. Karen is a Proverbs 31 Ministries speaker and the author of 17 books and Bible studies. You may also know her from the popular First 5 app or Encouragement for Today online devotionals from Proverbs 31 Ministries. She is married to her college sweetheart Todd. They are the parents of five adult children, three biological and two in-laws by marriage, although she forgets which are which. Her passion is to help women to live their priorities and love their lives as they serve God and...2021-12-0435 min
Self Care Simplified132. Overcoming Perfectionism and Unrealistic Expectations with Andrea FortenberryI’ll be honest - I can set extremely high expectations for myself and try to be a perfectionist at times, and I bet I’m not the only one here. Most moms have these tendencies in their life - whether that’s cleanliness and organization, or trying to be a perfect mom to their kids, or trying to do their workouts perfectly. The problem is that when we set these kinds of expectations, we usually fail to meet them. And we crash hard… getting discouraged and feeling like a full-blown failure. My guest today knows somet...2021-11-3045 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE39: Leaving a Legacy of FaithWelcome to Episode 39 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering!
Today I’m talking with Kathy Howard. Kathy is a treasure hunter. She hunts for the creamiest chocolate and richest coffee. She searches for cherished stories of faith that still impact hearts. And, she digs deep into God’s Word, mining His eternal truths for herself and to share with others. She is the author of 10 books, including the Deep Rooted devotional series and her latest book, Heirloom: Living and Leaving a Legacy of Faith (October 2021).
We talk about her what is means to leave a spiri...2021-11-1932 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE38: The Perfectionist's Guide to the HolidaysIn today's episode, I'm sharing my best strategies for not just surviving the holidays but enjoying them along the way.
Some of the resources I mention include:
MOPS Blog: Thrifty Christmas Gifts
Mom Personality Quiz
My Instagram Profile: @andreafortenberry
Chains, Ashes, and Forge by Laura Halse Anderson*
The Hard Good by Lisa Whittle*
"Joyful" by Dante Bowe
The Grove Collaborative: Use this referral link to receive a free $35 gift basket with your first order.
*Affiliate Link2021-11-0329 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE37: Messy HopeWelcome to Episode 37 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering!
Today I’m talking with Lori Wildenberg. Lori is a friend of mine I met through Called Creatives. Her passion is helping families build connections that last a lifetime. She is a licensed parent-family educator, speaker and author of six parenting books. Her most recent title is called Messy Hope: Help Your Child Overcome Anxiety, Depression or Suicidal Ideation.* She and her husband have four adult children, three bonus in-laws and three grandchildren.
We talk about why we need to impart our kids with hope, how...2021-10-2246 min
Have Hope; Will Travel{52} How to Listen Well [Andrea Fortenberry]We all know there are a lot of opinions, a lot of perspectives, and a lot of conflict in the world right now. Even though our opinions differ, reality is that we all want the same things: we want to be heard, we want to be understood, we want to be validated. This week on ... Read More about {52} How to Listen Well [Andrea Fortenberry]2021-10-1100 minHave Hope; Will Travel{52} How to Listen Well [Andrea Fortenberry]We all know there are a lot of opinions, a lot of perspectives, and a lot of conflict in the world right now. Even though our opinions differ, reality is that we all want the same things: we want to be heard, we want to be understood, we want to be validated. This week on ... Read More about {52} How to Listen Well [Andrea Fortenberry]2021-10-1100 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE36: How to Live GenerouslyWelcome to Episode 36 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering!
Today I’m talking with Leah Wacek. Leah is a teacher, wife and mom of four who lives in Minnesota. Leah and I met on Instagram, where a friend of mine, Sarah Wood (who was on Episode 34 of the podcast) shared about something she won from Leah’s account @a.generous.life. Leah is here today to talk about how to live a generous life.
Some of the resources we mention include:
Feed My Starving Children
Leigh's Blankies/Leigh's Mission
The Forest of Vanishing Stars...2021-10-0851 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE35: Living with LimitsToday I’m talking with my friend, Dena Dyer. Dena loves Jesus, her family, all things literary, coffee, and British television. She’s an author of ten books and many articles, a professional speaker, and a book proposal coach who’s been married to her hubby Carey for 26 wonderful years. They have two young adult sons. She spends too much time online or in the fast food drive-through--but she and the Lord are working on it.
We talk about how Dena has navigated motherhood and chronic illness. She tells us how she had to let go of perfec...2021-09-2236 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE34: How to Disciple Our KidsWelcome to Episode 34 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering!
Today I’m talking with my amazing friend, Sarah Wood. Sarah is a wife, mom, sister and friend, living on the sunny east coast of Florida. She is the Editor in Chief at Mom Mentor, and fiercely believes in the purpose and power of encouraging Moms in their everyday lives. An evangelist at heart, she loves to blaze new creative paths to share the love and saving grace of Jesus.
In this episode, we talk about what discipleship is and why it's important for us and...2021-09-0848 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE33: Strong MommasWelcome to Episode 33 of The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering! Today I’m talking with Megan Dahlman. Megan Dahlman is a certified trainer and nutrition coach whose passion is helping moms discover what it feels like to thrive in their God-given bodies. She knows what it feels like to struggle and have negative feelings about your body, and she knows exactly how to help you move forward. Megan has the unique ability to graciously lead moms toward being fit, strong, and healthy, while staying focused on what truly matters. Through her immensely popular podcast, The Strong Mommas Podcast, and online tr...2021-08-2545 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE32: Momming to Your StrengthsWelcome to Episode 32 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! In the first half of today’s episode, I’m sharing a recording of a talk I gave for my MOPS group about momming to our strengths. Sometimes it’s so easy for us to look around at other moms and think they’ve got this mom gig figured out. We compare their strengths to our weaknesses and it’s never a fair comparison.
But what if we changed our mindset and mommed to the unique strengths God has given us? I talk all about how to do that in t...2021-08-1130 min
Blended Kingdom Families PodcastBlended Families: Letting Go of Expectations, with Andrea Fortenberry.We are so excited to share this week’s episode, "Letting Go of Expectations", with Andrea Fortenberry. Andrea is a writer, speaker, and Bible teacher. She is the host of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering, a podcast that equips moms to find freedom from perfectionism and show up for the life God has for them. She is on staff with MOPS International as an Executive Leadership Coach, where she encourages and supports coordinators across the country.In this episode, we discuss:Expectations versus expectancyPerfectionism and motherhoodUnhealthy expectations within your marriageAndrea’s podcast, The Perfectionist’s Guide to...2021-08-0922 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE31: Navigating Mental Health ChallengesWelcome to Episode 31 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Today I’m talking with Jodi Kinasewitz.
Jodi lives in Mason, Ohio, with her husband of almost 20 years, Matt, and their four children. Jodi is a woman of many talents: She is an elementary level Reading specialist and a certified yoga instructor. She is passionate about sharing her struggles with, and victory over, seasons of mental health battles. Jodi also loves leading Christian inspired yoga classes, reading, and writing. She has been published by Milk & Honey Books in the Milk & Honey Women Devotional Journal*. She enjoys traveling with...2021-07-2859 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE30: Good Morning, MommyToday's episode is short and sweet. I am sharing a devotion I wrote eight years ago called, Good Morning, Mommy. I hope it encourages you in the midst of your busy summer days. 2021-07-1808 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE29: Letting God Be EnoughWelcome to Episode 29 of The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering! Today I'm talking with my amazing friend, Erica Wiggenhorn.
Erica is the author of several in-depth Bible studies including Unexplainable Jesus: Rediscovering the God You Thought You Knew.* Her newest book Letting God Be Enough is now available for pre-order at www.getericasbook.com. Erica loves to teach God’s Word through conferences, seminars and retreats, and around her own kitchen table. She lives in Phoenix with her husband and two children. For more information about Erica’s Bible studies and writing/speaking ministry, visit www.EricaWiggenhorn.com.
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The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE28: Trusting God's TimingWelcome to Episode 28 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Today I’m talking with the amazing Noelle Rhodes.
Noelle is a writer, podcaster and comedian who will win you with her bold, Jersey style and irresistible humor, all the while pointing you to Jesus. She is the host of the Friending Show, a podcast that helps women have meaningful female friendships in this modern age. Noelle is also a comedic performer who enjoys creating sketches for the internet, using humor to talk about the Bible. When she isn't podcasting and writing scripts, Noelle is living life in Ne...2021-06-1648 min
Simply WholeheartedProcrastination or Perfectionism? An Enneagram Two conversation with Andrea FortenberrySend us a textThe second guest our Ennea Summer is a friend you may have heard me mention before. If you are a part of the Wholehearted community, you got the heads up when I was on Andrea’s podcast, The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering. It was a super fun conversation where we talk about how Each Enneagram Type might struggle with perfectionism, not just the Enneagram Ones. Now, in this episode, Andrea Fortenberry is going to share a little about the struggles of being an Enneagram Two, motherhood, and an unexpected friendship birthed from a ra...2021-06-1440 min
Why I BelieveGod Is In Control ft. Andrea FortenberryWe are back with Andrea Fortenberry, podcast host of The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering. Her personal mission is to help women stop believing the lies of perfectionism and love their real, authentic lives. This conversation is an interesting one, jump in!Connect with Andrea:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreafortenberry/Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-perfectionists-guide-to-mothering/id15145296222021-06-1244 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE27: Why You Need to LaughWelcome to Episode 27 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Today I’m talking with the hilarious Jason Earls. If you tuned in for my Restore: Soul Care for Moms conference last year, you’ve already had the pleasure of meeting him. But if not, here’s a little about Jason.
This comedian from Virginia’s Eastern Seaboard doesn’t live to make you laugh; he makes you laugh to help you live. As a husband and the father of six children, Jason’s got a thing or two to say about how to navigate life. Jason has performed...2021-06-0246 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE26: Juggling All The ThingsWelcome to Episode 26 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Today I’m talking with my friend, Alana Dawson.
Alana is a podcast editor, producer, & coach. She is the host of The Podcasting Party and previously was the creator and co-host of The Mom Wants More Podcast. Alana is a military spouse, mama to two daughters & one French Bulldog, and a coffee fanatic. When she’s not podcasting you can find her sipping strong, hot coffee, reading a good book, or dancing in the kitchen.
We talk about how Alana juggles all the things: being a mili...2021-05-1940 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE25: Five Things I Know About MotherhoodWelcome to today’s episode! In honor of Mother’s Day this weekend, I’m sharing five things I know about motherhood. I hope you enjoy it! I’m not going to give recommendations today at the end of the episode, because I have some other things to share:
Here they are:
· On May 15th, The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering turns one year old! Thank you so much for listening in, it means the world to me that you spend time with me during your month.
· Be sure you’re following me on Instagram...2021-05-0520 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE24: The Burden of BetterWelcome to Episode 24 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Today I’m talking with Heather Creekmore.
Heather is a pastor’s wife, a homeschooling mom of four, a failed Netflix baker (season 1, episode 1 of Nailed It!), an author, podcaster, and speaker. Most of all, she’s a woman who loves Jesus but knows what it feels like to struggle with body image and comparison. Her passion is to see Christian women set free from the all-consuming worry over the scale, mirror, or lure of comparison so they are free to pursue God’s purpose for their lives.
We talk about Heat...2021-04-2141 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE23: I Am NotWelcome to Episode 23 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Today I’m talking with Simi John.
Simi is a speaker, author and a full time physical therapist. She has been married to her best friend Jayson John for 10 years and they have two beautiful children. Currently she lives in Oklahoma and serves with her husband who is the lead pastor of New Life Bible Church in Norman. Her calling is to the local church and her passion is to empower women to live in the abundant life Jesus offers them. Last year Simi released her first devot...2021-04-0735 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE22: The Enneagram and PerfectionismWelcome to Episode 22 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Today I’m talking with my friend, Amy Wicks.
Amy is a faith-based Enneagram Coach, workshop creator and speaker who lives in Kansas City with her family. She is the voice of the weekly Simply Wholehearted Podcast and has co-authored The Unseen Way, a book study created for Unseen: The Gift of Being Hidden in a World that Loves to be Noticed* (Sara Hagerty, Zondervan, 2017).
We talk about what the Enneagram is, how it can be helpful in our lives, and how each type has its o...2021-03-2439 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE21: Ordinary to ExtraordinaryToday I’m talking with my friend, Sherri Crandall, who is also my boss at MOPS International.
Sherri Crandall is the Vice President of Global Ministries and Leadership Experience for MOPS. She is also a blogger and speaker for women’s events where she shares her passion for encouraging women to live life to the fullest. Sherri loves to garden, read historical fiction, play tennis and most of all, hang out with family and friends in the beautiful Rocky Mountains. Sherri has been married for 34 years and has four young adult children.
We talk about how...2021-03-1040 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE20: Rest for Weary MomsWelcome to Episode 20 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Today I’m talking all about rest for the weary mom.
Do you wish you could stop your hectic schedule? Do you need time to refresh but can’t figure out how to make it possible? I’d love to share with you how to experience rest and peace during your busy week through practicing Sabbath rest.
I talk about five reasons we should observe Sabbath rest:
To Replicate: Genesis 2:2-3
To Remember God and His Commandments: Exodus 20:8
To Revere God: 1 Chronicles 16:29
To Rest in His P...2021-02-2440 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE19: Find Your PeopleWelcome to Episode 19 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Today I’m talking with my friend and MOPS teammate, Stacey Morgan.
Stacey is on staff with MOPS International as an Executive Leadership Coach and is a frequent writer for MOPS. She lives in Friendswood, Texas and has four children, ranging from high school to elementary school, and is married to Drew, a NASA astronaut. Her newest project is writing a book for Tyndale Publishing called The Astronaut’s Wife, which will be released next year.
We talk about how to...2021-02-101h 00
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE18: Fall in Love with God's WordToday I’m talking with author and speaker, Brittany Ann. She is the owner of EquippingGodlyWomen.com, where she challenges, encourages, and equips Christian women to be "all in" in faith and family.
Brittany is married and has three adorably energetic little ones. She is about to release a book called Fall in Love with God’s Word: Practical Strategies for Busy Women* on February 1st.
We talk about Brittany Ann's story of reading the Bible, five misconceptions we have when it comes to reading the Bible, how busy moms can make time in their busy s...2021-01-2750 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE17: Daring to HopeWelcome to Episode 17 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Happy New Year! It’s great to be back with you.
Today I'm talking about daring to hope, even as we navigate difficult times. Just a quick note that when I say Tuesday several times in the episode, I actually meant Wednesday of last week. Just got my days a little mixed up!
Some of the things I mention include:
Romans 15:13 NIV 1984: “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with h...2021-01-1328 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryEpisode 16: Quieting the Shout of ShouldWelcome to Episode 16 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Today I’m talking with author and speaker, Crystal Stine.
Crystal loves encouraging women to live the best life God has designed for them. She is the author of two books, Holy Hustle: Embracing a Work-Hard, Rest-Well Life* and her most recent book, Quieting the Shout of Should: How a Life of Less Can Lead to More*. She is also releasing The Holy Hustle Planner* next month.
We talk about some common "shoulds" moms struggle with both now and during the holidays, how to quiet thos...2020-12-1643 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE15: Start SimplifyingWelcome to Episode 15 of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering! Today I’m talking with Brooke French.
Brooke is a nurse, writer, and an encourager to moms. She is a wife and mom to two teenagers and lives in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina. Brooke has a passion for empowering moms to simplify, slow down, and find joy in their everyday life.
We talk about: how she became passionate about simplifying, practical tips for the holidays and year round, and the importance of rest.
Some of the things we mentioned include:
Brooke's Free Resour...2020-12-0248 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE14: Choosing JoyToday I share how we can choose joy this holiday season. I discuss my definition of joy, three joy stealers, and give antidotes for each. While choosing joy this holiday season may not come easy because of the pandemic and other circumstances, it’s still possible! Having a flexible attitude, determined to choose joy no matter what happens, is the best way to handle the holidays.
I hope you have great ones, my friends!
Some of the other things I mention in this episode include:
The Little House Series*
The Great British Baking Show
The...2020-11-1832 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryEpisode 13: From Lost to FoundToday I’m talking with my friend, Nicole Zasowski. Nicole is a licensed marriage and family therapist and author of From Lost to Found: Giving Up What You Think You Want for What Will Set You Free.* As an old soul who wears her heart proudly on her sleeve, she enjoys writing and speaking on topics that merge her professional knowledge and personal experience. She lives in Connecticut with her husband and two young boys and has a baby girl on the way! We talk about why a lot of women struggle with perfectionism and its related p-word cousins (pe...2020-11-0446 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryEpisode 12: Creating a Family CultureToday I’m talking with my friend, Kimberly Amici. Kimberly is the host of The Build Your Best Family Podcast and is a writer, speaker and Family Culture Coach. She’s the mom of three children, ages 13, 15 and 17. We talk about what it means to create a family culture, how culture is different than atmosphere, and how knowing your why allows you to make day-to-day decisions with courage and confidence.
Some of the things we mention include:
Our Pact
Psych
Family Matters
Gortimer Gibbons' Life on Normal Street
The Bible Recap App
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The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryEpisode 11: Be Where Your Feet AreIn this episode, I'm chatting with my friend Alison Wallwork. Allison is a wife, mom, author, speaker, and encourager. She has been in ministry for more than 15 years and she and her husband are the campus pastors of Dream City Church in Scottsdale, Arizona. She is the mom of four energetic boys, who range in age from 7-13.
We chat about some of the best advice Alison received from a mentor, "Be Where Your Feet Are." You can connect with Alison on her website and on Instagram @alison_wallwork.
Some of the resources we mention i...2020-10-0750 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryEpisode 10: Q&A With MeIn this episode, I'm answering your questions about motherhood, marriage, the podcast, and the pressure of perfectionism. Listen in for my answers to these questions:
What is the most challenging thing as a parent?
What advice would you give to a mom earlier in her motherhood journey?
Is there anything you changed your opinion or approach on along the way?
What is your best encouragement to give a friend who wrestles with perfection pressure?
How do you ask your non-parent friends for help? (We love to do so!)
How do you get your pre-teen to stop acting like...2020-09-231h 04
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE9: Standing StrongIn this episode, I'm chatting with my friend, Alli Worthington. Alli is the author of four amazing books, a speaker, and a business coach. She is the mom of five boys and she and her family live outside of Nashville, Tennessee. I love being part of Alli’s intern team, I learn so much from her, I’m sure you will too!
We talk about how to stand strong as a mom, our desire for control, where our true identity lies, self-care, and more!
Some of the things we mention in this episode include:
Standi...2020-09-0944 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryE8: Enjoy Every Minute, Really?Today I'm chatting with my friend, Becky Baudouin. Becky is a speaker and the author of a brand-new book called Enjoy Every Minute and Other Ridiculous Things We Say to Moms. She is the mom of three daughters, ages 21, 19 and 15. She and her family live outside of Chicago, IL. We talk about how to receive and give mom advice, mom guilt, and how God uses our parenting mistakes for good.
Some of the things we mention include:
Fledge: Launching Your Kids Without Losing Your Mind* by Brenda Yoder
Counter-Cultural Parenting* by Lee Nienhuis
Human(Kind)* by...2020-08-2644 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryEpisode 7: Remembering God's FaithfulnessToday I’m talking with my friend, writer, and speaker, Ginger Ciminello. Ginger is the mom of two girls, a second grader and a preschooler. I’m so grateful to be her friend and have her on the podcast. We talk about how to remember God's faithfulness, how false stories put us in bondage, and practical ways we can intentionally remember God's faithfulness in our lives.
Some of the things we mention include:
EMDR
The Next Right Thing Podcast with Emily P. Freeman
Expositional Preaching: How We Speak God's Word Today* by David R. He...2020-08-1249 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryEpisode 6: How to Keep DreamingIn this episode, I'm chatting with my friend, Jessica Carey, about how to keep dreaming as a mom. We also discussed how to persevere, praise, and give yourself grace as a mom.
Some of the things we mention include:
Waymaker
Risen Motherhood: Gospel Hope for Everyday Moments* by Emily Jensen and Laura Wifler
Fervent* by Priscilla Shirer
The Armor of God* by Priscilla Shirer
To connect with Jess, you can find her:
On Instagram @jess_careyaz
On her website: jessicacarey.com
After we stopped recording, Jess reminded me of some awesome FREE resources on...2020-07-2950 minThe Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryEpisode 5: How to Have Peace During a PandemicToday I’m talking about how to have peace through a pandemic. Life has certainly been interesting since March and things are constantly changing, but we can still have peace!
Some of the things I mention in today's episode include:
My 2016 Blog Post: Either Way
Psalm 146:1-2
Psalm 52:9
Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows* by J.K. Rowling
The Winding Ways Quilt* by Jennifer Chiaverini
Family Reunion
Family Matters
My Faith and Summer Playlists on my Pinterest Board
Beach Body on Demand
Proverbs 19:21
James 4:13-15
2 Corinthians 5:7
My Instagram Feed
*Affiliate Link2020-07-1532 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryEpisode 4: How to Parent on PurposeIn this episode, I'm chatting with my friend, Amy Carney, about how to parent on purpose, not for perfection. Amy is the mom of five teenagers and is a speaker and the author of Parent on Purpose.*
Some resources we mention in our conversation:
Amy's Summer of Significance 2020 Pack (It's just $9!)
Have More Fun by Mandy Arioto*
To connect with Amy, you can find her on Instagram @amylcarney and on her website amycarney.com.
*Affiliate Link2020-07-0144 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryEpisode 3: Strategies for a Neat and Tidy SpaceIn this episode, I interview my friend, Melissa Stutz. Melissa is the owner of The Neat and Tidy Space, a professional organizing business. We talk about:
Two common ways perfectionist moms approach cleaning and organizing and helpful strategies for both
How to ask for help and accept it
How to create practices
How to stay focused
The 30-Minute Hustle
Melissa's recommendations include:
Harry Potter and The Sorcerer's Stone*
Harry Potter and The Order of The Phoenix*
Jesus Calling*
The Year of Living Happy*
To connect with Melissa, head to her website and follow her on Instagram a...2020-06-1748 min
The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryEpisode 2: Choosing Faith Over Fear as a MomIn this episode, I interview my mom, Brenda Fuentes. We talk about:
What it was like to raise a perfectionist
How she chose faith over fear as a mom
How we can trust God with our kids and our mistakes
How to make confident choices for your family
Great things she recommends include:
"Rising Strong" by Brene Brown*
To connect with Brenda, head to the I Am Huruma College Fund website or Facebook page.
Hope you enjoyed this episode! Be sure to subscribe, rate, and review wherever yo...2020-06-0333 minThe Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering with Andrea FortenberryEpisode 1: Welcome to The Perfectionist's Guide to MotheringWelcome to The Perfectionist's Guide to Mothering! In this first episode, I share:
My story with perfectionism and why I started the podcast
What we'll talk about in future episodes
What God is teaching me in this season
I also shared some recommendations:
"Rejection Proof" by Jia Jang*
The Great British Baking Show
Spend time with your kids, but also spend time away on you.
Spend time in God's Word
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