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The Gray Divorce Podcast
Understanding Equity Compensation in Divorce with Laurie Itkin
Equity compensation—like restricted stock units (RSUs) and stock options—can be one of the most confusing (and valuable) assets in a divorce. In Episode 80, Andrew welcomes Laurie Itkin, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA) and founder of The Options Lady, to demystify this complex topic. Laurie shares how equity compensation works, what divorcing couples need to know about taxes, vesting, and division, and the biggest mistakes to avoid when stock-based pay enters the marital balance sheet. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transc...
2025-11-01
31 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
How to Tell Your Spouse You Want a Divorce with Alexandra Geczi
How do you start one of the hardest conversations of your life—the one where you tell your spouse you want a divorce? In Episode 79, Andrew Hatherley speaks with family law attorney Alexandra Geczi, about the six steps to approaching this emotional and delicate moment with honesty, compassion, and clarity. From emotional preparation to timing and communication, Alex shares insights on how to minimize conflict, foster understanding, and set the stage for an amicable separation. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars...
2025-10-18
32 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Can Politics Contribute to Gray Divorce?
Is political polarization just a national issue—or is it playing out in our marriages too? In Episode 78, Andrew Hatherley explores how today’s divisive political climate may be impacting relationships in later life. Through personal observations and expert insight, this episode asks: could our political obsessions be contributing to the rise in gray divorce? Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2025-10-04
14 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
The 3 Questions of Life-Centered Financial Planning After Divorce
What if your financial plan didn’t start with your money, but with your life? In Episode 77, Andrew dives into the transformative power of life-centered financial planning, especially for those navigating the challenges of gray divorce. Discover how to prioritize purpose, relationships, and personal goals—without waiting for a “magic number” in your retirement account. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2025-09-20
16 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Working with a Realtor in Divorce with Lori Hawkins
Andrew is joined by Lori Hawkins, a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert (CDRE™) and seasoned Realtor® who specializes in guiding divorcing couples through the emotionally charged process of selling the family home. With neutrality, clarity, and a client-centered approach, Lori ensures smoother transitions and smarter financial outcomes. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2025-09-06
37 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Dealing with Insurance in Divorce
Life insurance is often misunderstood in the divorce process—especially in gray divorce. In Episode 75, Andrew breaks down how different types of life insurance play into divorce settlements, spousal support protection, and marital asset division. Whether you’re the one paying or receiving support, this episode will help you make smarter insurance decisions during divorce and beyond. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2025-08-23
19 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Mediation is Not for the Weak with Melissa Farag
Andrew is joined by Melissa Farag, a family law mediator, former divorce litigator, and host of the High Vibe Divorce podcast. A recovering litigator turned compassionate conflict-resolution guide, Melissa brings a transformative approach to divorce through insight-based mediation. She shares how curiosity, emotional intelligence, and a non-adversarial mindset can change not only the divorce process—but the life that follows it. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2025-08-09
31 min
The Amicable Divorce Network Podcast
Chapter 49 - Andrew Hatherley: Achieve the Best Financial Result
In this episode, host Tracy Ann and Andrew Hatherley discuss essential financial strategies for individuals going through a divorce. They cover topics such as preparing financially, organizing documents, understanding assets and tax implications, timing considerations, social security benefits, budgeting for post-divorce life, the importance of professional guidance, and the role of a chief financial officer during and after divorce. The conversation emphasizes the need for a well-structured approach to ensure the best financial outcomes and emotional well-being during this challenging time.Andrew is a CDFA®, financial advisor, and host of The Gray Divorce P...
2025-07-31
27 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Dealing with Annuities in Divorce: What You Need to Know
In this episode, Andrew breaks down the complexities of annuities in divorce—one of the most misunderstood and often mishandled assets in marital separation. Whether you’re receiving or dividing annuities, understanding how they’re taxed, valued, and distributed is key to securing a fair financial settlement. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2025-07-26
17 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
A Values-Based Approach to Divorce with Hirsch Serman CPA, CDFA
Andrew is joined by Hirsch Serman, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst®, CPA, and trained mediator. Hirsch helps navigate the complex financial terrain of divorce with a values-based approach, empowering clients to take control of their financial future. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2025-07-12
33 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
The "F" Word in Divorce - It's Not Fair
In this solo episode, Andrew takes on the “F” word in divorce—and no, it’s not the one you think. While many professionals warn against using the word “fair,” Andrew digs deeper into another emotional force that holds even more power over midlife divorce: fear. Drawing from personal experience, neuroscience, and psychological research, Andrew explores how fear can intensify as we age, how it impacts our decision-making during divorce, and what we can do to move through it with more clarity and control. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast an...
2025-06-28
17 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
From Chemist to Coach: Helping Men Navigate Divorce with James Traub
Andrew is joined by Certified Divorce Coach® James Traub. James helps men (and women) navigate the divorce process with clarity, emotional resilience, and purpose—especially those in midlife facing the complex realities of separation, identity shifts, and life after marriage. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2025-06-14
30 min
Divorce and Mortgage Strategies
EP: 08.25 Jody Bruns with Andrew Hatherley
Life After Gray Divorce: Rebuilding Identity, Security, and Connection After 50What does life look like after divorce when you're already nearing—or living in—retirement? In this episode of the Divorce and Mortgage Strategies Podcast, host Jody Bruns is joined by Andrew Hatherley, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® and host of The Gray Divorce Podcast, to explore the emotional and financial impact of divorce later in life.Together, they discuss:The financial shock of splitting assets near retirementRethinking retirement goals and lifestyleThe emotional weight of losing not just a spo...
2025-06-11
31 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Dealing with the Family Home in Gray Divorce
In this episode of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew tackles one of the most emotional and financially complex aspects of late-life divorce, the fate of the family home. From affordability to emotional attachment to tax implications, this episode offers a deep dive into how to make thoughtful, informed decisions about selling or keeping the house after divorce. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2025-05-31
15 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Strengthening Your Mindset for Growth with Nicole Comis
Andrew is joined by Certified life and mindset coach Nicole Comis. Nicole partners with her clients to break through unconscious patterns, strengthen their mindset, and build the clarity, confidence, and courage to go after what they truly want. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2025-05-17
41 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Gray Divorce meets Silver Divorce with Lisa McCluskey
Andrew chats with Lisa McCluskey, host of The Silver Divorce Podcast, who talks about her personal journey through divorce after retirement and how it inspired her to launch a platform to support others navigating mid-to-late life divorce. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2025-05-03
36 min
The Amicable Divorce Network Podcast
Chapter 11 - Andrew Hatherley: Gray Divorce
Tracy Moore-Grant and guest Andrew Hatherley discuss the benefits of amicable divorce, particularly for those over 50, known as gray divorce. They explore the financial implications, emotional recovery, and the importance of having the right professionals involved in the divorce process. The conversation emphasizes the need for a team approach to navigate complicated assets and the significance of maintaining relationships post-divorce.To dive deeper into the amicable approach; get your own copy of our new book Divorce Amicably: Your Road to Resolution covering everything you need to know to be well-informed. Find it on AmazonMore from ADN on...
2025-04-23
31 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Stock Market Volatility and a Free Book Offer!
Andrew dives into the recent volatility we’ve seen in the stock market—and how that kind of financial uncertainty can affect those of you going through mid-late-life divorce. He also announces a drawing for a free copy of the new book Divorce Amicably: Your Roadmap to Resolution. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2025-04-19
16 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Horses and Divorces with Kim Smith, LMFT
How can horses help you get through divorce? Learn all about equine facilitated therapy in my chat with Kim Smith LMFT. We discuss examples of the incredible impact horses can have in treating emotional issues. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2025-04-05
29 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Retirement is an Inside Job with Suzanne Campi
Divorce represents a major life transition, and when it coincides with retirement, it presents unique challenges and opportunities. In this episode, Andrew sits down with life transitions coach Suzanne Campi to discuss how to navigate retirement successfully. With a background in psychology, Suzanne emphasizes the importance of a holistic approach to retirement that goes beyond financial planning. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2025-03-22
34 min
Silver Divorce Podcast
Ep. 32 - Making Smart Money Moves in Divorce with Andrew Hatherley, CDFA
*Please share this podcast with friends, follow, and leave a comment or question.* When divorce knocks on your door, the financial aspects can leave you bewildered. You are not sure what the smart money moves are or how to make wise decisions. Listen as Andrew Hatherley, a certified divorce financial analyst shares how he helps people make wise money moves. Andrew discusses:How a certified divorce financial analyst can help you assess your financial standing in order to craft a fair and equitable divorce settlement.The important considerations in deciding when to file for divorce.
2025-03-17
1h 03
Silver Divorce Podcast
PODCAST SWAP! My Morning Cup Interview with Mike Costa
This week, we are doing something different. A podcast swap featuring My Morning Cup with Mike Costa. Mike interviews leaders around the region as they discuss careers and life. I sat down with Mike to talk about my meandering career and how the Silver Divorce Podcast came to be. I hope you enjoy this departure from our norm.My Morning Cup is released on Mondays. If you like what you hear, head over to https://mymorningcup.podbean.com/for interviews with the top movers and shakers in the Tennessee region.Stay tuned next...
2025-03-10
1h 02
The Gray Divorce Podcast
The Book on Amicable Divorce with Tracy Ann Moore - Grant
Tracy Ann Moore Grant, founder of the amicable divorce network, returns to the podcast to talk about the publication of her new book Divorce Amicably: Your Roadmap to Resolution. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2025-03-08
27 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
International Divorce with Chloe O
Divorce can be difficult enough in the simplest of situations. But imagine that you live overseas, and you've decided to get divorced. Imagine the added stress of dealing with divorce in a different culture with a different language and different laws. This episode’s guest, Chloe Oudiz, is a divorce and separation coach who specializes in working with expatriate, international and cross-cultural couples at all stages of the divorce or separation process. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wis...
2025-02-22
28 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Dating after Gray Divorce with Bela Ghandi
In a special Valentine's Day episode of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew interviews nationally acclaimed dating coach Bela Gandhi. Bela discusses the work she does with gray divorcees, coaching them through the dating process. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2025-02-08
36 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
When to Say No - Setting Boundaries in Divorce with Tracy Gould Sheinin
Do you know when to say no? Are you a people pleaser who would rather defer to someone else's wishes just to get along? In this episode Andrew talks to Tracy Gould Sheinin, a specialist on setting boundaries. Andrew and Tracy dig into the importance of setting boundaries before, during and after divorce. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2025-01-25
35 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Blue Zones, Ikigai and a Long, Happy Life
What can a small town called Ogimi on the north end of Okinawa in Japan teach us about living a happy life after gray divorce? What can a mountain village in Sardinia teach us about staying fit? In episode 59 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Divorce financial planner Andrew Hatherley examines 5 Blue Zone communities which seem to have found the secret of a long and happy life. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2025-01-11
22 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
The Mediation Experience with Attorney Amber Robinson
In this episode Andrew discusses the inner workings of a mediation session with family law attorney Amber Robinson. Having served as a financial neutral mediator in several mediations with Amber and her clients and other attorneys and their clients, the discussion details what a mediation looks like from the introductory meeting to drawing up the settlement paperwork. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2024-12-28
42 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Dealing with Family and the Holidays with Kathleen Shack, LMFT
Andrew chats with Kathleen Shack, a marriage and family therapist and divorce coach. They discuss the unique challenges of dealing with gray divorce and families over the holidays. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2024-12-14
26 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Why You Need a Divorce CFO
In episode 56 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew discusses the role of the Divorce Chief Financial Officer (or Divorce CFO) in your divorce. While divorce may be a legal process, it’s really about money. Listen to the podcast and find out why it may be wise to hire a Divorce CFO before an attorney! Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2024-11-30
21 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Married to the Mortgage with Jennifer Brown, CDLP®
Andrew chats with Jennifer Brown, a Certified Divorce Lending Professional. They discuss the various mortgage financing options available to divorcing couples, including potential mortgage assumptions. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2024-11-16
38 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
The Danger of Free Time - Retirement and Gray Divorce with Marianne Oehser
Andrew chats with Marianne Oehser, a Certified Retirement and Relationship Coach. They discuss the link between retirement and late life divorce and the danger that an unstructured, poorly planned retirement can have on a marriage. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2024-11-02
34 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Be Aware of Taxes in Divorce!
In Episode 53 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew discusses the effects of taxes on your divorce settlement. Failing to plan for the after-tax effect of your marital settlement agreement can result in you coming out with much less money than you thought! Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2024-10-19
16 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Insights From a Family Law Conference
Andrew attends the 2024 Nevada Family Law Conference and provides some key takeaways to help your divorce case. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2024-10-05
19 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
What You Need to Know About QDROs with Shann D. Winesett
Andrew chats with Shann Winesett, a family law attorney and experienced QDRO preparer. They discuss the importance of the QDRO in retirement plan division in divorce. They discuss common mistakes that are made in preparing QDROs and how to avoid potential financial grief in the future. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2024-09-21
30 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Special 50th Edition of The Gray Divorce Podcast
Andrew celebrates the 50th episode of the podcast by reviewing your five favorite episodes. He also discusses the origins of the podcast In the hope that it might inspire listeners to get started on their own creative projects. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2024-09-07
16 min
NOWPLAYING Video game music
August 2024 - Best Video Game Music 💥
My longest and most authentic VGM mixtape yet. While making it, I realized that it spans basically all the music genres I like. It was such a blast sorting through these outstanding albums. August has been an incredible month for VGM lovers. I do hope you’ll agree after listening to this mixtape!Also, sorry, but I had to remove all the links in the credits section. They took up too many characters, and I couldn’t even write a few words to you guys. You can easily find the tracks with the IDs provided below. Ever...
2024-09-01
1h 02
NOWPLAYING Video game music
August 2024 - Best Video Game Music 💢
My longest and most authentic VGM mixtape yet. While making it, I realized that it spans basically all the music genres I like. It was such a blast sorting through these outstanding albums. August has been an incredible month for VGM lovers. I do hope you’ll agree after listening to this mixtape!Also, sorry, but I had to remove all the links in the credits section. They took up too many characters, and I couldn’t even write a few words to you guys. You can easily find the tracks with the IDs provided below. Ever...
2024-09-01
1h 02
NOWPLAYING Video game music
August 2024 - Best Video Game Music 💥
My longest and most authentic VGM mixtape yet. While making it, I realized that it spans basically all the music genres I like. It was such a blast sorting through these outstanding albums. August has been an incredible month for VGM lovers. I do hope you’ll agree after listening to this mixtape!Also, sorry, but I had to remove all the links in the credits section. They took up too many characters, and I couldn’t even write a few words to you guys. You can easily find the tracks with the IDs provided below. Ever...
2024-09-01
1h 02
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Does Money Buy Happiness?
In Episode 49 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew discusses the question of whether money can buy happiness. He discusses recent research that suggests a high degree of correlation between money and happiness. He discusses previous research which suggested limits to the correlation and tries to find some common ground. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2024-08-24
16 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Business Valuation in Divorce with Jennifer Allen CPA, ABV
Andrew chats with Jennifer Allen, a business valuation specialist based in Las Vegas. They discuss the importance of business valuation in divorce. How do business buyouts work? What does she look for in business financials to detect attempts to undervalue the business? What happens when each party brings in their own business valuation expert? Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2024-08-10
28 min
Race to your Career
Life as a member of Ground Staff
In this episode we head to the racecourse and catch up with the Grounds Staff team and the Head of Racing at Newmarket Racecourse! Andrew Morris and Alan Hatherley discuss what happens on the racecourse even when there’s no spectators, keeping the course maintained and looking in tip-top condition all year-round. Find out more about what they do and how they got into their roles.Learn more about careersinracing here - https://notgoingtouni.co.uk/provider/careersinracing
2024-08-09
17 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Life After Gray Divorce - Rebuilding Overseas with Jeff Opdyke
In episode 47 of The Gray Divorce Podcast Andrew chats with writer and international traveler Jeff Opdyke. Jeff went through a midlife divorce at age 50, after a 25-year marriage. Shortly after the divorce his life was shaken again when he lost his job. But Jeff is now flourishing. He's remarried, living overseas and writing professionally and creatively. His story is truly a testament to the fact that there is life after divorce.Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow...
2024-07-27
46 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Finding Hidden Cash in Divorce with Laurie Dyke CPA, CFF, CFE
In Episode 46 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew chats with Laurie Dyke, a Certified Public Accountant, Certified in Financial Forensics and Certified Fraud Examiner. They discuss some of the ways a spouse may hide cash or intentionally undervalue marital assets, such as a business, in divorce. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2024-07-13
29 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Resetting after Gray Divorce - The Importance of Gratitude
In Episode 45 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew discusses the importance of practicing gratitude both during and after divorce. He discusses the psychological and physical benefits of gratitude and offers some tips on how to bring more gratitude into your life while going through or emerging from divorce. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2024-06-29
15 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
The Legal Cost of Divorce
In Episode 44 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I discuss the legal costs of divorce. I look at four different divorce processes; traditional litigious divorce through the courts, Collaborative Divorce, mediation and the Amicable Divorce Network and discuss the financial costs of each. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2024-06-15
15 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Living Abroad After Gray Divorce, Part 2 with Jennifer Stevens, Editor of International Living
In Episode 43 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew chats with the editor of International Living magazine Jennifer Stevens in the second of a two-part discussion. They discuss the results of International Living’s Global Retirement Index, an annual survey of the best countries in the world to retire. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2024-06-01
49 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Coaching Stepparents at all Stages of Life with Maria Natapov
In Episode 42 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew chats with Stepparenting Coach Maria Natapov. They discuss Maria’s focus on helping her clients confidently blend their families through all stages of life. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2024-05-18
37 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Living Abroad After Gray Divorce, Part 1 with Jennifer Stevens, Editor of International Living
In Episode 41 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew chats with the editor of International Living magazine Jennifer Stevens in the first of a two-part discussion. They discuss some of the benefits of living internationally and some of the key concerns that people moving overseas may have. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2024-05-04
36 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Working with Men as a Relationship Engineer with Bob Wischer
In Episode 40 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew chats with Life and Health Coach Bob Wischer. A self-described “relationship engineer” Bob is the founder of Heart Forged Coaching and the host of the Men Becoming Better Men podcast. They discuss Bob’s focus on coaching men after mid-late life divorce after he experienced his own mid-life divorce. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2024-04-20
39 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Working with Women as a Divorce Coach with Nanette Murphy
In Episode 39 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, Andrew chats with Life, Health, and Divorce Coach Nanette Murphy. They discuss Nanette’s focus on coaching women through mid-late life divorce after she experienced her own mid-life divorce after decades of marriage. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2024-04-06
40 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Estate Planning and Gray Divorce with Attorney Amanda Wedl
In Episode 38 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I chat with attorney Amanda Wedl. We discuss the topic of estate planning and gray divorce. What are some “must dos” and “must avoids” for older divorcees to ensure that their last wishes are fulfilled, whether they die after the divorce or even during the divorce. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2024-03-23
33 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
All About Pre-Nups and Post-Nups with Attorney Molly Rosenblum
In Episode 37 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I chat with attorney Molly Rosenblum. We discuss the topic of prenuptial and postnuptial agreements. What are they and why should a couple have a pre-nup before marriage or get a post-nup after marriage? Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2024-03-09
29 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Divorce and Finances - A Chat with Carol Lee Roberts, IDFA President
In episode 36 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I am interviewed by Carol Lee Roberts, president of the Institute for Divorce Financial Analysts. In our conversation, we talk about the role of the Certified Divorce Financial Analyst in divorce, and I share my experience working with older divorcing people. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2024-02-24
34 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Important Retirement Plan Changes: The Implications for Late Life Divorce
In Episode 35 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I discuss the impact of recent congressional legislation relating to retirement plans. The Secure Act 2.0 contains 92 new provisions which could affect the financial decisions of people getting divorced, both in the short run and the long run. Download the checklist of the issues covered in the SECURE Act here.Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2024-02-10
10 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
The Two Key Financial Tools in Divorce
In Episode 34 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I discuss the two very important financial planning tools to help you before, during and after the divorce process, your budget and your net worth calculation. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2024-01-27
20 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Reverse Mortgages and Gray Divorce with John Drennen, CDLP
In Episode 33 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I chat with Certified Divorce Lending Professional John Drennen. We discuss the topic of reverse mortgages, an often misunderstood financing option for older homeowners. You can download the Client Data File here.Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2024-01-13
34 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & More
The Best of "Off the Fence" in 2023
Have you ever felt stuck in indecision and trapped in a life you no longer want to live? Have you hesitated to get a divorce because you KNOW how ugly your toxic spouse will make it?Are you worried about getting a divorce and starting all over again "at your age"? ( ... i.e. when you're over 50!)Have you suffered from trauma in your marriage and wonder if you'll ever be able to trust again?Have you wondered whether you'll ever find love again after your divorce, or what getting a divorce w...
2024-01-03
50 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
All About Gray Divorce and the Origins of the Podcast
In Episode 32 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I am a guest on Real Talk Las Vegas, a YouTube program hosted by Las Vegas realtor Joe DiRaffaele. Joe and I talk about how the Gray Divorce and how The Gray Divorce Podcast came into being. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2023-12-30
30 min
The Amicable Divorce Network Podcast
Gray Divorce w/ Andrew Hatherley
In this episode Andrew Hatherley discusses the things to be considered if you are going through a 'gray' divorce. Andrew hosts the The Gray Divorce Podcast. Andrew is a Divorce Financial Advisor and Retirement Planning Counselor. Listen as Tracy and Andrew discuss how his work complements those seeking an amicable divorce. As always follow Amicable Divorce Network on all social channels @amicabledivorcenetwork!
2023-12-24
20 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Should I Stay or Should I Go? Discernment Counseling with Linda Hershman, LMFT
In Episode 31 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I chat with Marriage and Family Therapist Linda Hershman. We discuss the subject of discernment counseling, a short-term counseling approach designed to deal with the question of whether you should stay in your marriage. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2023-12-16
36 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Know Yourself! The Wheel of Life - Tools for Growth after Gray Divorce, Part 4
In Episode 30 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I discuss the coaching tool known as The Wheel of Life. I review the tool, discuss how you might use it in your life and offer a few thoughts as to its efficacy.Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2023-12-02
15 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Know Yourself! Ikigai - Tools for Growth After Gray Divorce, Part 3
In Episode 29 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I discuss the Japanese concept of Ikigai, or meaning and purpose in one's life. I review the concept and offer some practical tips on how you might find some ikigai in your life. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2023-11-18
16 min
Top Advisor Marketing Podcast
How Andrew Hatherley Leveraged the PodRocket Influence Academy to Build COI Relationships (Ep. 441)
ProudMouth’s PodRocket Influence Academy is a phenomenal resource. It’s one thing to hear us say that, but something entirely different to learn how an advisor made it work for them out in the real world.
2023-11-14
00 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Pet Custody in Divorce with Karis Nafte
In this episode, I chat with Pet Custody Mediator Karis Nafte. Karis discusses the key issues that can arise in the process of deciding who keeps the pets in divorce. We also discuss the special situations of older adults and their pets. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2023-11-04
31 min
SHIFT with Ross Marino
The Rise in Gray Divorce with Andrew Hatherley
Andrew Hatherley joins Ross Marino discussing the rising trend of divorce over 50.
2023-10-26
16 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
The Team Approach to Gray Divorce
In this episode, I talk about the team approach to divorce. Attorneys specialize in the law. But divorce is about money and emotions are involved. Listen to why it makes sense to bring in other professionals to help you get through the process.Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2023-10-21
18 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
The Perils of DIY Divorce with Attorney Philip Spradling
In this episode, I chat with Attorney Philip Spradling. Philip discusses the problems that can arise when couples decide to divorce themselves without the assistance of an attorney. DIY divorce can be just as problematic as a long, drawn-out contentious divorce. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2023-10-07
32 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
How to Shape a Life of Money and Meaning with Brian Portnoy
In this episode, I chat with Brian Portnoy. Brian is one of the world's leading experts on the psychology of money. Our discussion focuses on his book The Geometry of Wealth. We discuss the important distinction between being rich and being wealthy and the role money plays in what Brian terms “funded contentment.” Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2023-09-23
35 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Ready for Divorce? A Chat with "Recovering" Divorce Lawyer Karen Covy
In this episode, I chat with “recovering” attorney and divorce coach Karen Covy. Karen talks about her dislike for the divorce system in the United States and how she transitioned to work as a divorce coach. Karen distinguishes between the work of a divorce coach and a therapist and encourages divorcing parties to a team approach to divorce. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2023-09-09
38 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Real Estate Financing and Divorce with Tami Wollensak, CDLP
In episode 23 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I talk to Tami Wollensak, a Certified Divorce Lending Professional based in Chicago, Illinois. We discussed the important role of divorce mortgage planning in the divorce process and how a divorce mortgage professional can work with a family law attorney to help their client with future financing or refinancing needs. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2023-08-26
31 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Know Yourself! The VIA Character Strengths Survey - Tools for Growth After Gray Divorce, Part 2
In Episode 22 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I look at our character strengths. Are we aware of what they are? And how can we use them to heal and thrive in the wake of mid-late life divorce? I discuss The VIA Survey of Character Strengths and how it can help gray divorcees move on with their lives. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2023-08-12
17 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Know Yourself! The Big Five Personality Tests - Tools for Growth After Gray Divorce Part 1
In Episode 21 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I ask the question “Do we really understand ourselves? You may be surprised at the answer. This podcast is the first of two parts. In part one, I discuss The Big 5 Personality Test and how it can help gray divorcees move on with their lives by taking that important first step of really coming to term terms with who we are. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too...
2023-07-29
28 min
Retirement Unlocked
The Gray Divorce Phenomenon: Redefining Your Life and Retirement with Andrew Hatherley (Ep. 133)
Today’s guest, Andrew Hatherley, CDFA®, CRPC® is the founder and CEO of Wiser Divorce Solutions, LLC and Transcend Retirement, LLC. After going through a divorce at 52, Andrew realized that there was a niche that wasn’t fully being attended to; people who are divorcing later in life. In this episode, Larry Heller, CFP®, CDFA® gets … Read More Read More
2023-07-26
30 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
What is Amicable Divorce? with Tracy Moore-Grant, Founder, The Amicable Divorce Network
In Episode 20, I welcome Tracy Ann Moore-Grant, a family law attorney practicing in northern Georgia and the founder of the Amicable Divorce Network.We discuss the Amicable Divorce Process, a non-adversarial approach to divorce, an alternative dispute resolution process designed to keep divorcing couples out of court.By the way, I am a founding member of the Amicable Divorce Network in Nevada and a member in many states across the country.Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or...
2023-07-15
28 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Watch Out for Bad Divorce Statistics!
In this episode, I discuss the danger in using outdated economic statistics in discussing the economic consequences of divorce for men and women. If we are to improve the situation for women and men emerging from divorce, we should only start from an accurate understanding of the current environment. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2023-07-01
09 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
The Practice of Holistic Divorce with Dara Marias
In this episode, I speak with Dara Marias, who oversees the Holistic Divorce Practice at Kainen Law Group in Las Vegas. We discuss the three key areas of Dara's practice: holistic divorce education, divorce mediation, and amicable divorce representation. We review the core concepts of holistic divorce education and how they can be incorporated into divorce mediation. We also discuss our respective roles in the Nevada Chapter of the Amicable Divorce Network. The ADN was founded in 2019 and is dedicated to helping people divorce in a low-conflict and cost-effective manner. Thanks for listening! We...
2023-06-17
54 min
Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & More
Andrew Hatherley: Rising from the Ashes of Gray Divorce to Create an Amazing Life
Are you prepared to navigate the complexities of Gray Divorce and uncover the potential for personal growth that comes with it? Join this conversation with Andrew Hatherley, founder and CEO of Wiser Divorce Solutions, Transcend Retirement, and host of the Gray Divorce podcast. Andrew dives deeply into the concept of post-traumatic growth and how it can help those going through a divorce develop resilience and strength in spite of the challenges they face. Andrew shares how committing to a healthier lifestyle, opening a new business, and even writing a novel, helped him bounce back from hi...
2023-06-14
40 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Dating After Gray Divorce with Maria Spears, Part II
In episode 17 of The Gray Divorce Podcast, I welcome back dating and love coach Maria Spears. In the second part of our conversation about dating after gray divorce, we focus on the nuts and bolts of real-world dating once the recent divorcee has decided to take the plunge and enter the world of dating after divorce. We talk about online dating and the opportunities to meet people in the “real world." Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solu...
2023-06-03
50 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Adult Children of Gray Divorce with Dr. Carol Hughes
In this episode, I talk with Dr. Carol Hughes about a much-neglected subject in the gray divorce world: adult children of gray divorce. We discuss why the impact of gray divorce on adult children is often dismissed, the unique challenges adult children of divorce contend with, and things that older parents and adult children can do to make the transition easier.Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2023-05-20
34 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Divorce Mortgage Planning with Jody Bruns
In this episode I speak to the founder of the Divorce Lending Association, Jody Bruns. We talk about divorce mortgage planning and the role a Certified Divorce Lending Professional can play in the divorce process. We pay special attention to options and strategies Gray divorcees have with lenders. Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2023-05-06
30 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Mediating High Conflict Divorce with Liz Merrill
In this episode, I discuss High Conflict Divorce with mediator Liz Merrill. We talk about recognizing high-conflict personalities and how to deal with them both as a mediator but also as a spouse. We break down the mediation process and discuss the overused term “narcissist.”Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2023-04-22
41 min
The Tech Money Podcast
75. Navigating Money and Divorce with Andrew Hatherley
Nobody enters a marriage expecting to get divorced. Yet, regardless of our best intentions, relationships can and do fall apart. While the emotional roller coaster of divorce is difficult enough, the added frustration of financial litigations can make a situation that much worse. Unfortunately, the current system of divorce in the United States does a poor job of educating clients on the alternatives to litigation. And in the event legal arbitration is the only choice left: where does one turn?Given their higher salaries and equity arrangements, tech workers are more likely than most to enter marriages...
2023-04-12
38 min
This Time Is Different
Tech Money Podcast: Navigating Money and Divorce with Andrew Hatherley
Nobody enters a marriage expecting to get divorced. Yet, regardless of our best intentions, relationships can and do fall apart. While the emotional roller coaster of divorce is difficult enough, the added frustration of financial litigations can make a situation that much worse. Unfortunately, the current system of divorce in the United States does a poor job of educating clients on the alternatives to litigation. And in the event legal arbitration is the only choice left: where does one turn?Given their higher salaries and equity arrangements, tech workers are more likely than most to enter marriages...
2023-04-12
40 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Divorce After 65
Episode 13 of The Gray Divorce Podcast focuses on divorce after 65. While many people realize that the divorce rate for people over the age of 50 has gone up over the past 30 years while the divorce rate has dropped for younger people, fewer realize that couples getting divorced after 65 are really the engine pulling the gray divorce train. Something very interesting has happened from 2010 to the present. The overall gray divorce rate has flattened. In 2010 there were 10 people over age 50 divorcing out of 1000 married people but by 2019 it was still high, but it dropped a little bit to...
2023-04-08
21 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Dating After Gray Divorce with Maria Spears
In this episode, I speak with dating and love coach Maria Spears. Maria empowers her clients to date smarter and confidently choose a compatible life partner. Maria discusses what she has learned from studying dating and relationships and how she works with clients after experiencing mid-life divorce herself.Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2023-03-25
40 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Military Divorce with Special Guest David Smith (Lt. Col. ret.)
In this episode I talk to David Smith, A CDFA in Panama City who specializes in Military Divorce. Military Divorce is a different creature than civilian divorce and has a particular set of rules and regulations, as might befit the military!David and I untangle the various rules and benefits that apply to couples in military divorce.Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2023-03-11
30 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Key Items in Your Post-Divorce Checklist
Now you're divorced. You can relax. You can breathe easy. Dip your toes in the sand. OK, that's all good. But there's still work to do. Here are 17 items that need to be taken care of after your divorce to make sure your post-divorce financial planning is in order.Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2023-02-25
18 min
Divorce and Mortgage Strategies
Ep: 3.2023 - Exploring Grey Divorce & Financial Implications with Andrew Hatherley, CDFA, and Jody Bruns
What's up with the number of divorces for those over the age of 50? 1 in every 3 divorces are now couples over 50, and a failed marriage can be as hard on your wallet as it is on your heart. Join Jody Bruns and Andrew Hatherley, CDFA, on the Divorce Literacy Podcast as they discuss why more couples in later life are divorcing and their financial concerns. Couples can divorce later in life for the same reasons younger couples split up – but when you’re over 50, these reasons are framed by aging and the realization that you ma...
2023-02-23
30 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Lifestyle Analysis in Divorce
In this episode we tackle the topic of lifestyle analysis in divorce. Lifestyle analysis is a useful tool for attorneys in cases where one party has a claim for spousal support. The lifestyle analysis establishes the standard of living of a couple in marriage. It's a very detailed look at the income and day-to-day expenses incurred during the marriage and looks closely at the spending habits of both parties.A lifestyle analysis might be referred to as a budget on steroids. Typically, a lifestyle analysis is done in a high net worth divorce case. Discretionary expenses such...
2023-02-11
12 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Retirement Coaching with Amy Ginsburg
In this episode I am pleased to interview Retirement and Career Coach Amy Ginsburg.Gray divorce often causes us to rethink retirement and what it means to us. We may have to work longer to recover from the financial impact of divorce. Or we may have to re-enter the workforce, which may cause stress for a number of reasons.Amy and I discuss the distinction between therapy and coaching, personal growth through our work and the mental shifts we can make in retirement to thrive both emotionally and physically in our 60s, 70s and beyond.
2023-01-28
32 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
The 11 Things to Do Now in Divorce
In this episode I offer an abridged version of my presentation: The 11 Things To Do Now in Divorce. This presentation is periodically presented at the Wiser Divorce Workshop that I host in Las Vegas. The workshop usually features me talking about the financial aspects of divorce, which are covered in this presentation, and a family law attorney dealing with the legal aspects of divorce.Tipping my hat to my attorney friends, it's important for people going through divorce to seek good counsel and to know the law. But divorce is about family, emotions, and money....
2023-01-14
24 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Why New Year's Resolutions Fail and Three Suggestions for Gray Divorcees
Andrew discusses why New Year's Resolutions usually fail and offers a different approach to resolutions for Gray Divorcees (or anyone who's emerging from divorce). He offers three important resolutions for beginning a fulfilling post-divorce life.Have a great 2023!Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2022-12-31
22 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Alternatives to Litigation: Mediation and Collaborative Law
Stay out of court! Joining The Gray Divorce Podcast today is Family Law Attorney Rebecca Miller. Rebecca and Andrew discuss alternatives to litigation in divorce. Specifically they focus on Mediation and Collaborative Law as methods to reduce the emotional and financial stress of the divorce process.Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2022-12-18
41 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Personal Growth after Divorce
There is life after divorce. It can be a better, richer, more rewarding life because we're given an opportunity to start again, to reexamine our lives and, frankly, to reflect on the fact that we're emerging from a situation that wasn't right for us. If you are emerging from Gray Divorce, you can't turn back the clock to who you were as a husband or a wife. You have an opportunity to create a new identity. You have the opportunity to grow. Think of the diamond forged under pressure or the pearl that emerges from an irritating grit. The...
2022-12-03
22 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
Social Security and Divorce
Divorce Financial Analyst Andrew Hatherley discusses social security benefits and divorce. You might be able to claim benefits based on your ex-spouse's record. It pays to find out if you are eligible first. If so, what happens if you remarry, or your ex-spouse dies. Tune in to find out!Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2022-11-19
17 min
The Gray Divorce Podcast
What is Gray Divorce and Why Does it Matter?
In this episode Andrew speaks with Life Coach Nicole Brodie about all things Gray Divorce. Why is it on the rise? What are the key issues for late-life divorcees? How does Gray Divorce differ for men and women?Thanks for listening! We'd be very grateful if you'd subscribe to the podcast and give us 5 stars! Please visit Transcend Retirement or Wiser Divorce Solutions. Follow Andrew on LinkedIn too!
2022-11-05
37 min