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Better Husband39|Why the Need to "Be Right" Is Destroying Your Marriage. Here’s What to Do Instead🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com-You’re trying to stay calm. You’re doing your best to show up. But when she says something you disagree with—or finally admits something you’ve been saying for months—something inside you snaps. You want to be right. You want her to see it.In this ep...2025-07-2917 minBetter Husband038|How to Bring Pleasure, Play, and Joy Back into Your Marriage🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.-You’ve been doing the work. You’re leading with presence, staying grounded, learning how to communicate.But what about joy?In this episode of Better Husband, we’re talking about what happens when marriage becomes all responsibility and no pleasure—when everything feels serious, controlled, and...2025-07-2217 minBetter Husband037|The Better Husband’s Guide to Listening: A 3-Step Practice🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com-You’re physically present—but she still doesn’t feel heard.You’re responding—but she doesn’t feel understood.And the harder you try to fix it, the more it backfires.In this episode of Better Husband, we break down why most men struggle to l...2025-07-1521 minBetter Husband036|100 Ways to Love Your Wife—And Why None of Them Will Work Until You Do This🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.-You’ve tried. You’ve bought the book, made the effort, planned the date, said the right thing. But somehow… it still doesn’t land. You fall back into the same patterns. She still feels hurt or distant. And you’re left wondering: What’s wrong with me?In this episode of...2025-07-0817 minBetter Husband035|Be the Piece That Moves: How to Lead When Your Marriage Is on the Edge🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com-She’s distant. Checked out. Maybe she’s even told you she’s done. And you’re stuck wondering if it’s too late or waiting for the right time to bring it up.In this episode of Better Husband, we’re talking about what most men miss whe...2025-07-0114 minBetter Husband034|You Can Feel Her Pulling Away. Here’s How to Respond Before It’s Too Late🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.-She’s told you she’s unhappy. She doesn’t feel seen. She’s mentioned divorce—or maybe she’s already started packing emotionally. And now you’re wondering: Is it too late?In this episode of Better Husband, I’ll walk you through exactly what to do when your marriage fe...2025-06-2415 minBetter Husband033|Why the Greatest Men in the World Keep Failing at Marriage🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com-You’ve built a career. You’ve provided for your family. You’ve done everything you were taught to do.But if your wife still feels alone, your marriage still feels distant, and you don’t know why—it’s time for a wake-up call.In this episode o...2025-06-1714 minBetter Husband032|Not an Emotional Guy? Good. Here’s How to Show Up Anyway🧭 Feeling Shut Down in Your Marriage? Start Showing Up—in Just 5 Days 🧭 From Shut Down to Show Up is a free 5-day challenge designed to help you reconnect with yourself and your partner—one small, doable practice at a time. Join now at www.shutdowntoshowup.com-If you’ve ever been told you’re emotionally unavailable—and your first thought was,“What does that even mean?”This episode is for you.In this episode of Better Husband, we’re talking to the steady, even-keeled guys who aren’t sure how to “fe...2025-06-1016 minBetter Husband031|Why You’re Great with Clients, Co-Workers, and Strangers—but Struggle with Your Wife🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com-Ever notice how you can be calm, patient, and composed with coworkers, clients, or even strangers—But with your wife… you shut down, snap back, or feel like you’re failing?You’re not alone.In fact, the truth is: you already know how to be rel...2025-06-0315 minBetter Husband030|The Daily Habits That Saved My Marriage (And Still Keep It Strong Today)🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.-If you’ve ever wondered: “What do I actually need to do every day to be a better husband?” This episode is for you.In this episode of Better Husband, I’m giving you an honest look at the daily habits that have helped me rebuild...2025-05-2716 minBetter Husband029|You’re Making Progress—Here’s How to Make It Actually Feel Like It’s Working🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com-If you’ve been doing the work—If you’re showing up differently, staying grounded, trying to lead with integrity—But your marriage still feels tense… your wife hasn’t acknowledged the change… and conflict still shows up now and then…It’s easy to think: “None of...2025-05-2014 minBetter Husband[BONUS] Better Husband Academy Is Open—Here’s What It Is And Why It Matters🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com-If you’ve ever thought: "I know I can be a better husband—I just don’t know what to do next…"Then what I’m about to share could change everything.In this special episode of Better Husband, I’m introducing you to the...2025-05-1506 minBetter Husband028|She’s Upset. You React. And Now It’s Worse. (Here’s What to Do Instead)🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.-Most men don’t mean to make things worse. They just react... fast. A sharp reply. A shut down. A quick fix that backfires. And suddenly, things are tense again.In this episode of Better Husband, we’re talking about one of the most important changes you can make: le...2025-05-1313 minBetter Husband027|Most Marriages Struggle in Silence—Here’s What Happens When You Don’t🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com-Most marriages fall apart slowly... through silence, isolation, and the belief that you have to figure it out alone.But what if that didn’t have to be your story?In this episode of Better Husband, we’re talking about the quiet struggle most...2025-05-0615 minBetter Husband026|“I Can Fix This On My Own”—The Lie That’s Costing Men Their Marriage🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.-For a lot of men, asking for help feels like weakness.We’re taught to be self-reliant. To lead. To figure it out on our own. So when marriage gets hard, we do what we’ve always done—try to push through it solo.However, some p...2025-04-2914 minBetter Husband025|The First Move Every Better Husband Makes: Full Ownership🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com-From the outside, your apology sounds fine. You said the words. You admitted what happened. But then… you added a “but.”“I’m sorry I snapped… but you were being disrespectful.” “I know I overreacted… but you started it.”And just like that, your ownership disappe...2025-04-2212 minBetter Husband024|When You Feel More Like Roommates Than Lovers—How to Rebuild Connection in Your Marriage🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.-Tell me if this sounds familiar: Everything looks “okay” on the surface.You handle the tasks, manage the schedule, keep things running.But under all the logistics, something’s off. You’re not arguing but you’re also not laughing, talking, or feeling as close as you used to.2025-04-1518 minBetter Husband023|Staying Quiet Isn’t Helping—Here’s What She Actually Needs From You🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com-You stay calm. You keep the peace. You don’t push back.You think that makes you a good husband.But what if staying quiet is actually making things worse?In this episode, we’re unpacking the hidden cost of passivity in m...2025-04-0809 minBetter Husband022|Why “I’m Sorry” Isn’t Working — And the 4 Steps to Real Repair🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.-You apologized. You meant it. But for some reason, she still seems distant—and nothing feels resolved.If you’ve ever wondered why your “I’m sorry” doesn’t seem to work, this episode is for you. Most of us were never taught how to truly repair after a rupture in o...2025-04-0113 minBetter Husband021|Your Self-Esteem Is Hurting Your Marriage: 3 Faulty Beliefs That Keep Men Stuck🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com-The way you see yourself is shaping the way you show up in your marriage—whether you realize it or not.Most men are taught to base their self-worth on performance, possessions, or the approval of others. But when your self-esteem is built on shaky founda...2025-03-2514 minBetter Husband020|How to Build a Championship Marriage: 5 Winning Strategies🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.-The best teams in sports don’t win by accident—they follow a proven strategy. The same is true for marriage. If you want a strong, connected, and lasting relationship, you need a game plan.A few episodes ago, we covered the five losing strategies that keep co...2025-03-1813 minBetter Husband019|Why Most Men Don’t Prioritize Their Marriage (Until It’s Too Late)🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com-Most men say their marriage is a priority. But when life gets busy, when work, stress, and distractions take over, do your actions actually reflect that?This week, I had to make that choice. My wife’s birthday, family responsibilities, and commitments to the people I lov...2025-03-1107 minBetter Husband018|Why Your Arguments Never Get Resolved—And What to Do Instead🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.-Do you and your wife keep having the same arguments over and over? Do your conflicts feel like a frustrating loop, leaving you both unheard and disconnected?That’s because most couples fall into losing strategies—default behaviors that keep conflicts alive instead of resolving them. The wo...2025-03-0417 minBetter Husband017|Defensiveness Is Ruining Your Marriage—Here’s How to Fix It🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com-Ever feel like every conversation with your wife turns into a debate? Like no matter what you say, you’re under attack—and your first instinct is to defend yourself?Defensiveness is one of the biggest communication killers in marriage. It shuts down connection, escalates conf...2025-02-2513 minBetter Husband016|How 10 Minutes a Day Can Transform Your Marriage🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.-Most couples struggle to find quality time together. You live under the same roof, but between work, kids, and distractions, you barely connect. The good news? Just 10 minutes a day can completely transform your marriage.In today’s episode, I break down why distraction-free time is the eas...2025-02-1810 minBetter Husband015|The Secret to Handling Your Wife’s Emotions Without Feeling Overwhelmed🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com-Do you ever feel lost when your wife is upset? Do you freeze up, try to fix the problem, or just hope it passes? You're not alone. Many men struggle with emotions—both their own and their wife’s. But here’s the truth: the key to handling...2025-02-1113 minBetter Husband014|How to Use Valentine’s Day to Build a Stronger, More Connected Marriage🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.-Many men see Valentine’s Day as a commercial scam, an obligation filled with overpriced flowers and chocolates. But what if you could use it to strengthen your marriage instead of just checking a box?In today’s episode, I share how to reframe Valentine’s...2025-02-0410 min
Lets Have This ConversationHelping Men Become Better Husbands with: Angelo Santiago
According to the Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, the success rate for marriage counseling is approximately 70%. Many couples report a greater sense of emotional well-being and a positive outcome from therapy, depending on the therapist.
The idea of a happier life after marriage is not just a fairy tale; the data supports it as well. A Gallup Poll reveals that married adults report significantly higher levels of happiness compared to those in other relationship statuses.
From 2009 to 2023, over 2.5 million adults in the United States were surveyed on how they would rate their current life on a scale from...2025-01-2853 minBetter Husband013|Choosing Comfort Over Connection is Sabotaging Your Marriage🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com-Are you prioritizing comfort over connection in your marriage? Many men fall into the trap of avoiding conflict to keep the peace, but this avoidance creates distance and erodes intimacy. In today’s episode, I share why choosing comfort over connection is sabotaging your marriage and how to break...2025-01-2810 minBetter Husband012|Navigating Sexual Frustration in Marriage—And How to Fix It🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.-Do you and your wife seem to be on different pages when it comes to sex? Whether you’re the one wanting more intimacy or the one pulling back, differing sex drives can create frustration, hurt, and even resentment in a marriage. But it doesn’t have to stay that way.2025-01-2317 minBetter Husband011|The Secret to Ending Arguments in Your Marriage: Yield, Don’t Defend🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com-Arguments in marriage can feel like a never-ending cycle, but there’s a way to break free. In this episode of Better Husband, I uncover the secret to ending arguments in your marriage: learning how to yield instead of defend. When you make your wife’s experience the...2025-01-1412 minBetter Husband010|Rebuild Trust in Your Marriage: 5 Essential Steps After Breaking It🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.-Repairing your marriage after breaking trust can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be. In this episode of Better Husband, I walk you through five essential steps to repair the damage and rebuild trust with your wife. From taking ownership of your mistakes to meaningful apologies backed by action...2025-01-0712 minBetter Husband009|Create the Marriage You Want in 2025: 8 Powerful Questions for Husbands🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com-Download the Better Husband Questions PDF at http://www.betterhusbandquestions.comAre you ready to create the marriage you and your wife truly want in 2025? In this episode of Better Husband, I’ll guide you through eight powerful questions to help you set a clear...2024-12-3110 min
LOA Today - Your Daily Dose Of HappyAngelo Santiago: Transforming Husbands, Revitalizing MarriagesAs Walt and Anne Marie welcomed marriage expert Angelo Santiago to their show, an intimate and vulnerable discussion unfolded - one that struck at the heart of the challenges many men face in their relationships.
From Angelo's own journey of nearly losing his marriage to the transformative power of opening up and seeking support, this conversation offered a raw and honest look at the emotional landscape of modern husbands.
"I was one of those guys who thought I had it figured out," Angelo shared, recounting how distance and poor...2024-12-311h 01Better Husband008|What Every Husband Should Know About Forgiveness and Trust with Dr. Bruce Chalmer🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.-In this episode of Better Husband, I am joined by psychologist Dr. Bruce Chalmer. We explore the critical issues in marriage when trust has been broken. Dr. Chalmer shares insights from his book 'Betrayal and Forgiveness,' discusses common misconceptions about trust, and offers practical steps for maintaining strong, trusting...2024-12-2438 min
Couples Therapy In Seven WordsBecoming a Better Husband: An Interview with Angelo SantiagoFor the video of this episode, go to https://brucechalmer.com/angelo-santiago/.
How can men be better husbands and partners? Our guest in this episode is Angelo Santiago, a Marriage and Relationship Coach with a specialization in helping men become better husbands. Angelo had me (Bruce) on his podcast, “Better Husband,” and we were delighted to return the favor.
Angelo’s website is https://www.angelosantiago.com/.
Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for...2024-12-2053 minBetter Husband007|How to Avoid Conflict in Your Marriage By Asking This One Question First🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com-When conflict arises in your marriage, the words you choose can either help or hurt your relationship. In this episode of Better Husband, I explore the crucial question you must ask yourself during conflicts: Is what I'm about to say going to help or hurt my marriage...2024-12-1717 minBetter Husband006|Why Men Struggle to Seek Help in Marriage with Dr. Dean Sunseri🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.-In this episode of Better Husband, I'm joined by Dr. Dean Sunseri, a licensed professional counselor and coach with over 30 years of experience helping individuals and couples achieve lasting personal growth. We delve into the importance of mentorship for men as husbands and share personal stories about the impact of men's...2024-12-1039 minBetter Husband005|Why Gratitude Could Save Your Marriage🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com-What if I told you that gratitude could be the missing ingredient in your marriage that changes everything? In this episode we'll explore how practicing gratitude can strengthen and possibly save your marriage. I'll discuss common mistakes men make, actionable steps to enhance your relationship, and highlight...2024-12-0319 minBetter Husband004|How Your Attachment Style is Impacting Your Marriage with Bev Mitelman🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.-In this episode, I am joined by Bev Mitelman, founder of Securely Loved, and we dive into the world of attachment styles. We discuss the significance of attachment styles, their origins, and how understanding them can help you become a better husband. Bev provides insights into secure and insec...2024-11-2650 minBetter Husband003|How to Get More of What You Want in Your Marriage🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com-Are you tired of your needs or wants going unmet in your marriage? In this episode of Better Husband, we dive into how to effectively ask for what you want in your relationship using skill and intention. Let's debunk the myth that marriages should be easy. Th...2024-11-1920 minBetter Husband002|How To Be a S.T.R.O.N.G. Husband With Kristal DeSantis🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.-In this episode, I am joined by Kristal DeSantis, a licensed marriage and family therapist, and we discuss themes from her book 'Strong: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man.' Key topics include evolving paradigms of masculinity, the foundational elements of a STRONG relationship (Safety, Trust, Respect, Openness...2024-11-1247 minBetter Husband001|Overcoming Defensiveness: Improving Communication in Marriage🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com-If every time your spouse has a complaint about how things are going in the marriage or asks you to make a change you get defensive, you need to listen to this episode. In this episode of Better Husband, I discuss the common struggle men face wi...2024-11-0518 min
Better HusbandWelcome to Better Husband🔥 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🔥 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.-Welcome to Better Husband, the show that helps you answer the question "How can I be a better husband?" Join me every single week for expert interviews, responses to listener questions, actionable steps you can take in your marriage and so much more. Whether your marriage is struggli...2024-11-0101 min
Better HusbandWhy Men Struggle with ChangeIn this episode of We Are The Men, I explore the psychological barriers men face when embracing change and offer practical steps to overcome them. By understanding why our brains resist change and finding the right motivation, I encourage all men to adopt a growth mindset. I make sure to discuss the importance of stress balance and community support, and highlight the role of men's groups in fostering accountability and lasting behavioral changes. There's also a big change coming to this podcast, which I share about at the conclusion of the episode.-Connect with An...2024-10-2223 min
Better HusbandHow to Truly Live Authentically with Ray MartinIn this episode of 'We Are The Men,' host Angelo Santiago sits down with Ray Martin, an entrepreneur and award-winning business leader on a mission to empower people to live authentically. Ray shares his transformative journey from a successful businessman to finding his true calling as a coach and mentor. Following personal tragedies, Ray embarked on a six-month sabbatical, marking the start of his transformation into 'The Daily Explorer.' Through building self-awareness, owning experiences, and becoming one's own observer, Ray has found fulfillment helping others discover their authentic selves. Tune in for an inspiring conversation on embracing...2024-10-1538 min
Better Husband3 Reasons Every Man Needs a Men's GroupIn this episode of We Are The Men, I share my thoughts on the profound impact of men's groups on personal growth and relationships. I share my own journey from skepticism to life-changing experiences in a men's group, emphasizing the importance of community and connection for men. I also outline three key reasons why these groups are essential: getting out of one's head, learning to listen, and embracing accountability. By participating in a men's group, men can break free from isolation, improve their relationships, and gain the support needed to navigate life's challenges. -Connect with Angelo2024-10-0818 min
Better HusbandFinding Strength in Adversity with Rick CheathamIn this powerful episode of 'We Are The Men,' Angelo welcomes guest Rick Cheatham, a retired fire captain, transformational speaker, and life coach. Rick shares his profound and inspiring life story, detailing how he overcame significant adversities, including a nearly failed marriage, the tragic loss of his son, and a debilitating injury that left him paralyzed from the chest down. Through his experiences, Rick has developed the AIM approach to help men shift from a victim mentality to one of victory. The conversation delves into themes of forgiveness, resilience, and the importance of community and mentorship in navigating...2024-10-0139 min
Better Husband7 Qualities of a Truly Good ManIn this episode of 'We Are The Men,' host Angelo Santiago explores seven key qualities that define a truly good man, according to psychology. Angelo shares personal experiences, scientific studies, and practical tips for self-improvement, inviting viewers to reflect on their own lives. Learn how to become a better husband, father, community leader, and overall human being.-- Connect with Angelo: angelo@wearethemen.comSource Article: https://smallbusinessbonfire.com/7-qualities-of-a-truly-good-man-according-to-psychology/00:00 Introduction: What Makes a Truly Good Man?00:31 Exploring the Seven Qualities of a Truly Good Man02:00 Emotional Intelligence: The Foundation04:53 A...2024-09-2417 min
Better HusbandRaising Resilient Kids with Michael AndersonJoin Angelo Santiago in this conversation with Michael Anderson, a family therapist, coach, and author of the children's book series 'Jungle Tales.' They discuss the importance of parents doing their inner healing to show up more powerfully for their children, the principles of psychological flexibility, and the journey of overcoming personal fears and failures. Michael shares his experiences as a father of three and emphasizes the significance of slowing down, staying present, and prioritizing connection with oneself and others for holistic family well-being.-- Connect with Angelo: angelo@wearethemen.com Connect with Mi...2024-09-1744 min
Better HusbandBreaking Free From Social MediaIn this episode of We Are The Men, Angelo delves into his personal journey of the first 30 days of his social media detox. He shares the motivations behind his decision, the challenges faced in the initial days, and the positive changes experienced in his life and relationships. Angelo also discusses the impact of social media on mental health, provides insights from relevant studies, and offers recommendations for those considering a similar detox. Tune in to learn about the benefits of disconnecting from social media and reconnecting with your life.---Connect with Angelo: angelo@wearethemen...2024-09-1023 min
Better HusbandKilling the Nice Guy with Mike CampbellIn this episode of 'We Are The Men', Angelo chats with men's coach and author Mike Campbell. Mike, the founder of Everyday Legends Academy, shares his expertise on helping 'nice guys' build self-worth, self-respect, and security. They explore the idea of 'killing the nice guy' and transitioning into a solid, secure, good man. Mike also opens up about his personal journey, the importance of self-respect, and actionable steps men can take to transform their lives. If you're interested in men's personal development, this episode is a must-listen! Connect with Angelo:Angelo@WeAreTheMen.com 2024-09-0341 min
Better HusbandA Man Without a Vision is LostIn this episode, Angelo explores the critical importance of having a vision for one's life. He discusses how lacking a vision leads to being swayed by external expectations and ending up empty. Emphasizing the need for men to have a clear purpose, Angelo shares his journey of creating 'We Are The Men' and the challenges he faced in aligning his vision with his actions. He provides five steps to help clarify one's vision, encouraging listeners to reflect on their values, passions, unique strengths, and the importance of seeking guidance. Angelo underscores the value of patience and determination i...2024-08-2716 min
Better HusbandBuilding the Future Through Youth Mentoring with Trevor SpringIn this episode of the We Are The Men Podcast, host Angelo Santiago engages in a heartfelt conversation with Trevor Spring, founder and director of Sonz Youth. They discuss Trevor's extensive 21-year journey as a holistic movement coach and his 12 years in men's work, including his impactful initiatives with the Mankind Project and Sacred Sons. Trevor delves into the vital work being done through Sonz Youth's mentoring programs and rites of passage for 11 to 19-year-olds, sharing insights into the challenges and triumphs faced by today's young men. They also explore key topics such as the importance of mentoring, the...2024-08-2048 min
Better HusbandPattern Interrupts - A Strategy for a Fully Lived Life and Stronger RelationshipsIn this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago delves into the concept of pattern interrupts—intentionally breaking daily routines to uncover new possibilities and deeper connections in life.Drawing from his recent family vacation to Belize, Angelo shares personal experiences of how stepping out of comfort zones can rejuvenate relationships and inspire new life visions.--Register for Angelo's FREE LIVE TRAINING FOR MEN -- "RECONECT & REIGNITE: 3 Steps to a Fully Lived Life": https://www.angelosantiago.com/wearethemenSupport the Podcast: https://buymeacoffee.com/we...2024-08-1315 min
Better HusbandFinding Authenticity and Connection with Dauss MillerIn this episode of the We Are the Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago welcomes Dauss Miller, an award-winning commercial fashion and lifestyle photographer known for his transformative work with high-level entrepreneurs and thought leaders.The episode delves into Dauss's background, including his experiences as a 'super dad' to six children and his move to Austin, Texas. The conversation explores how Dauss uses authentic conversations and vision casting to help his clients express their true selves through photography.They also touch on overcoming fear, the impact of life's challenges, and the value of mentorship. Dauss shares...2024-08-0642 min
Better HusbandWhy Men Need Each OtherIn this solo episode of the We Are the Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago delves into the critical topic of why men need other men in their lives. He shares personal experiences and discusses the detrimental effects of loneliness, bolstered by research and statistics. Angelo emphasizes the importance of emotional and spiritual connections through brotherhood, offering practical steps for men to build meaningful relationships. The episode also highlights the upcoming 'We Are the Men Initiation' program, designed to reconnect men to themselves and their communities, launching in September 2024. If you're interested in joining the waitlist fo...2024-07-3022 min
Better HusbandBuilding a Strong Foundation in Life and Business with Robert KandellIn this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago speaks with Robert Kandell, an accomplished businessman, teacher, and author of 'Unhidden: A Book for Men and Those Confused by Them.' Robert shares insights from his life journey, including his venture from corporate environments to successful entrepreneurship. He discusses the importance of self-validation, the challenges men face today, and practical advice for entrepreneurs. Robert emphasizes the role of gradual self-improvement and sustainable business practices. Tune in for a deep dive into how men can build stronger connections with themselves, their relationships, and their i...2024-07-2345 min
Better HusbandA Level Deeper with Angelo SantiagoThis episode is a recording of Angelo Santiago's guest appearance on the A Level Deeper Podcast in May 2024. In this episode, host Chad Miles engages in a great conversation with Angelo about the evolving definition of masculinity. They explore Angelo's journey of self-discovery through men's work, the emotional challenges in his marriage, and the transformation he experienced by embracing vulnerability and self-awareness. The discussion covers the balance between intellectual thinking and emotional feeling, emphasizing the importance of intuition, mindful dialogue, and intentional living. --Support the We Are The Men Podcast: https://buymeacoffee.co...2024-07-091h 15
Better HusbandStrengthening Marriages Through Sexual Intimacy with Dan PurcellIn this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago connects with Dan Purcell, co-founder of Get Your Marriage On. They discuss the importance of sexual intimacy in strengthening marriages, the challenges couples face, and the resources available to help them.Dan shares his journey from a difficult sex life to becoming a coach and the impact of his work on other couples. They talk about the dynamics of sexual desire in long-term relationships, tools for improving intimacy, and methods for discussing sex openly. Dan also shares details about his retreats and the transformational...2024-06-2449 min
Better HusbandExploring Consent, Sexual Integrity, and Personal Growth with Mischa ByruckIn this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago speaks with Mischa Byruck, a men's sexual integrity coach and founder of Evolve.Men, about the profound topics of sexuality and sexual shadows. Mischa shares insights from his extensive experience in coaching and consent education, touching on issues like navigating the complexities of sexual desires, preventing sexual harm, the realities of consent. The conversation explores both the light and dark aspects of sexuality, the importance of vulnerability, and practices for maintaining sexual integrity while navigating personal and relational challenges.--S...2024-06-1751 min
Better HusbandEmbracing Your Leadership and Self-Trust with Jose AlejandroIn this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago welcomes Jose Alejandro, a certified men's life and leadership coach. They dive into topics such as personal growth, rites of passage, self-trust, and the importance of community in men's lives. Jose shares his journey as a co-founder of Modern Renaissance Man, an organization empowering self-led men, and discusses the transformative power of brotherhood, leadership training, and authentic connection. Tune in to hear compelling insights about men's work and how integrating these principles can lead to a fulfilling and impactful life....2024-06-1038 min
Better HusbandA Meaningful Life through Deep Conversations with Chad MilesIn this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiagotalks with guest Chad Miles, an entrepreneur, creator, husband, full-time traveler living in a self-built camper van and host of the A Level Deeper Podcast. Chad shares his journey from pursuing material success to finding meaningful connections and collaborations.Support the Podcast: https://buymeacoffee.com/wearethemenSubscribe to the Weekly Newsletter: https://www.wearethemen.com/subscribeThey discuss the power of deep, genuine conversations, the importance of allowing space versus pushing for outcomes, and the value of continuous self-improvement. The episode...2024-06-0342 min
Better HusbandRelational Evolution with Damien BohlerIn this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago connects with Damien Bohler, the founder of Evolve Relating. They explore Damien's work in helping individuals heal attachment traumas, integrate polarity, and develop advanced relational skills to foster transformational relationships.Support the Podcast: https://buymeacoffee.com/wearethemenSubscribe to the Weekly Newsletter: https://www.wearethemen.com/subscribeDamien shares his personal journey, shedding light on the influence of his Buddhist upbringing and his commitment to navigating life with a partner. The conversation delves into the intricacies of secure attachment, relational...2024-05-2745 min
Better HusbandBuilding Soulmates Through Growth, Love and Men's Work with Ryan St. JohnIn this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago engages in a heartfelt conversation with Ryan St. John, a father and husband committed to personal growth and helping other men. The dialogue explores the evolution of Ryan's life, from a corporate existence to a transformative journey prompted by men's work and holistic practices. Support the Podcast: https://buymeacoffee.com/wearethemen Ryan shares his story of meeting his wife, their unexpected move from the Virgin Islands, and their aspirations of creating a wellness center in Ohio. Together, they discuss the complexities of re...2024-05-2036 min
A Level DeeperOwning Your Experience with Angelo SantiagoAngelo Santiago is a men's coach and founder of We Are the Men—a men's coaching and development brand and podcast. In today's episode, Angelo takes us through his own powerful story about avoiding his feelings and bottling things up and the thing that finally sparked a radical change in his life. We open the conversation by "walking the walk" by sharing something we are each struggling with—what a way to start the show! I loved the parts of the episode where I ask Angelo about the intentionality behind his verbiage which led to us talking about...2024-05-141h 13
Better HusbandCulture, Fatherhood and Empowerment with Efrain ReyesIn this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago welcomes Efrain Reyes, co-founder of Latino Dad Connection. Efrain shares his journey from Mexico City to Southern California, touching on his undocumented status, gaining citizenship, and the importance of reconnecting with his cultural roots.If you'd like to support the We Are The Men Podcast, you can buy me a coffee here!Emphasizing the significance of safe spaces for men of color, Efrain discusses Latino Dad Connection's mission to empower fathers through community support, self-reflection, and reclaiming their power. The conversation also...2024-05-1333 min
Better HusbandBecoming the Medicine with Dr. Evan JohnsonIn this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago connects with Dr. Evan Johnson, a former two-sport college athlete turned CEO and founder of Utopian Medicine. Dr. Evan, also a TEDx speaker, flow science and peak performance expert, and author, discusses his mission to unlock individuals' and teams' true potentials.If you'd like to support the We Are The Men Podcast, you can buy me a coffee here!The conversation explores Dr. Evan's journey from a college athlete facing injuries and mental health challenges to developing a new paradigm of healthcare...2024-05-0638 min
Better HusbandConnecting to the Inner Teacher with Andrew HuvaereIn this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago is joined by transformational specialist Andrew Huvaere to discuss his journey of overcoming personal challenges through energetic transformation, ancestral healing, and exploring ancient knowledge.If you'd like to support the We Are The Men Podcast, you can buy me a coffee here!Huvaere shares insights into connecting with one's inner teacher, navigating the dissolution of fear, and the importance of engaging with life's uncertainties. The conversation delves into the significance of exploring one's heritage and spirituality through connections to sacred lands, with...2024-04-2938 min
Better HusbandAwakening the Authentic Self with Kevin WaltonIn this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago welcomes Kevin Walton, a spiritual leader, transformation specialist, and activational speaker. Walton shares his journey of helping thousands globally to unlock their full potential through self-creation and authentic expression.Kevin, founder of the Light Beings ministry and community and a central figure in Sacred Sons, shares his journey and insights on leading a life connected to one's purpose, the importance of emotional maturity, and navigating personal growth. They discuss the significance of clear vision, taking ownership of one's life, and how to face and...2024-04-2246 min
Better HusbandFrom Struggle to Strength with Ian MaiIn this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago invites men's health and inner strength coach, Ian Mai, to discuss the transformative power of confronting and overcoming addictions to pornography, food, and alcohol.Both share their personal journeys of battling these addictions and how it impacted their lives and relationships negatively. Ian, having overcome a 20-year struggle with pornography, offers insights and strategies on how men can achieve clarity and purpose in their lives. The conversation delves into the significance of understanding emotional states, the role of willpower, discipline, and the ability to...2024-04-1542 min
Sacred Sons PodcastRemembrance with Wayne Barkus, Angelo Santiago and Adam Jackson | SSP 178Sacred Sons leaders and men’s work coaches Wayne Barkus and Angelo Santiago sit down with Sacred Sons Co-founder Adam Jackson to share their story, discuss the grit and beauty of life. A deep dive into personal challenges, the journey of fatherhood, relationships, and the road to growth, from their first Sacred Sons experience to today. On this Episode: Wayne Barkus | @asacredkingAngelo Santiago | @angelomenscoach Adam Jackson | @adam___jackson 2024 EVENTS CONVERGENCE 9: REMEMBRANCEFor Men & Women Olympic Peninsula, WA - September 19 - 22 PRIME LEADERSHIP - Angelus OaksJoin Prime Leadership in SoCal - June 2025 THE ONE | 1:1 Men’s Coaching 2024-04-111h 01Sacred Sons PodcastRemembrance with Wayne Barkus, Angelo Santiago and Adam Jackson | SSP 178Sacred Sons leaders and men’s work coaches Wayne Barkus and Angelo Santiago sit down with Sacred Sons Co-founder Adam Jackson to share their story, discuss the grit and beauty of life. A deep dive into personal challenges, the journey of fatherhood, relationships, and the road to growth, from their first Sacred Sons experience to today. On this Episode: Wayne Barkus | @asacredkingAngelo Santiago | @angelomenscoach Adam Jackson | @adam___jackson 2024 EVENTS CONVERGENCE 9: REMEMBRANCEFor Men & Women Olympic Peninsula, WA - September 19 - 22 PRIME LEADERSHIP - Angelus OaksJoin Prime Leadership in SoCal - June 2025 THE ONE | 1:1 Men’s Coaching 2024-04-111h 01
Better HusbandReturn to the Waters of Self, Song and Sacred with Hunter ToranIn this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago connects with Hunter Toran, a somatic educator and therapist, explores the significance of reconnecting with the elemental aspect of water, integrating play, music, and ceremonial practices into men's lives for healing and self-exploration. Hunter emphasizes the transformative power of allowing oneself to embrace the 'playing child' within, competition in adulthood, and the importance of slowing down to align with nature's rhythms. He shares his journey of personal growth, the pivotal moments that redirected his life towards mentorship and somatic practices, and his commitment to f...2024-04-0836 min
Better HusbandLegacy Through Financial Freedom with Jesse SimpsonIn this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago interviews Jesse Simpson, a former U.S. Marine and firefighter turned entrepreneur and founder of Abundance Codes. Simpson shares his transformative journey from his childhood dream jobs to becoming an entrepreneur in Costa Rica, where he founded Abundance Codes.This venture aims to assist business owners in funding their startups or scaling their businesses without using their own money. Throughout the episode, Simpson discusses the importance of commitment, the value of service beyond oneself, and the financial strategies that can empower entrepreneurship. He delves...2024-04-0139 min
Better HusbandNavigating the Landscape of Masculinity with David Patrick FarrellIn this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago interviews David Patrick Farrell (DPF), a poet, youth worker, men's work facilitator, and co-founder of Men Rising Together.DPF shares his transformative journey from drug addiction to sobriety and his deep involvement in men's work. Having celebrated five years of sobriety, DPF details his transition from darkness to becoming a positive force in his and others' lives through facilitating workshops, retreats, and hikes with Men Rising Together in Ireland and collaborations with organizations in the US and Europe.He emphasizes the importance...2024-03-2535 min
Better HusbandCultivating Presence Through Mindfulness and Martial Arts with Alvaro FernandezIn this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago engages in a transformative conversation with Alvaro Fernandez, a meditation coach, father, and Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu black belt. Alvaro's unique blend of transpersonal psychology, NLP, mindfulness meditation, and fourth way philosophy principles offers a holistic approach to personal growth and self-defense.Embark on a journey through Alvaro's life as he recounts the pivotal moments that led him from a path of pain and loss to one of profound self-discovery and purpose. His story is a beacon of hope, demonstrating that even in the depths of...2024-03-1838 min
Better HusbandEmbracing Leadership and Legacy with Earl SagewolfIn this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago welcomes the multifaceted Earl Sagewolf, a dedicated family man, and a trailblazer in the realm of men's work. Earl, a father of five, takes us through his expansive journey of self-mastery, revealing how his quest for personal growth led to the creation of the Fellowship and King's Council, as well as his involvement with Sacred Sons and the Conscious Coach Collective.Earl opens up about the trials and triumphs of fatherhood, his evolution within his marriage, and the pivotal moments that propelled him into...2024-03-1137 min
Better HusbandHarnessing Spiritual Fitness with Trey SteeleIn this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago welcomes Trey Steele, the dynamic founder of the Hope Project, where fitness becomes a conduit for spiritual awakening. Trey, a seasoned fitness and performance coach, shares his compelling journey from an achievement-driven life to a faith-filled existence that marries physical prowess with spiritual growth.Delve into the depths of Trey's narrative, from his initial reluctance to his profound embrace of faith, and how he has harnessed the principles of fitness to catalyze not only his own spiritual development but also that of countless others...2024-03-0436 min
Better HusbandNavigating Fatherhood and Masculine Evolution with Jack VilliersIn this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago invites Jack Villiers, a visionary in the interwoven fields of leadership, healing, and human potential. Jack, founder of Human Work, is not just a coach and business mentor, he's a torchbearer, illuminating the path to authentic leadership and the healing of trauma, guiding both men and women to their true calling.Embark on a journey that traverses Jack's life story, from the absence of a father figure to his transformative role as a father himself, and the profound impact this has had on his...2024-02-2636 min
Better HusbandThe Alchemy of Authenticity with Chase TollesonIn this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago welcomes Chase Tolleson, a beacon of insight in the realms of entrepreneurship, philosophy, and the mastery of mindset. Chase is not just a coach; he's a catalyst for leaders seeking to unlock their true potential by embracing their authentic selves. Dive deep into a conversation that traverses Chase's own transformative path—a narrative punctuated by challenges, revelations, and the ultimate reclamation of self. From the echoes of a thwarted dream of becoming a Navy SEAL to the empowerment found in rewriting his life's script, Cha...2024-02-1931 min
Better HusbandFrom Nice Guy to Heart Warrior with Kevin McNeeIn this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago talks with Kevin McNee who shares his deeply personal journey from a life of conformity and falsehood to one of authenticity and transformation. Kevin reflects on his past experiences as a successful golf professional and corporate executive, where outward success masked internal dissatisfaction and disconnection.Through prioritizing his physical and mental well-being, Kevin began to unravel the layers of his identity, confronting uncomfortable truths and redefining his values. As Kevin navigated the complexities of personal relationships and confronted the need for honest communication, he...2024-02-1233 min
Better HusbandThe Power of Masculine Leadership with Jonathan BrajtbordIn this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago sits down with the insightful Dr. Jonathan Brajtbord, a urologist, integrative physician, and men's lifestyle expert.With the warmth of old friends, Angelo and Jonathan delve into a narrative of transformation and the courage to embrace change. Jonathan shares his personal odyssey from a place of overwhelm and stagnation to a life filled with action and purpose. He recounts the pivotal moments that propelled him from the brink of losing everything to taking bold steps towards a fulfilling professional and personal life. His story...2024-02-0537 min
Better HusbandThe Transformative Power of Community with Joe SperedonIn this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago engages in a deep and insightful conversation with Joe Speredon, a leader in men's work and the founder of Algiz Guard.Joe shares his journey of transformation, highlighting the pivotal role of connection, accountability, and community in his path toward personal growth. From initial resistance to embracing accountability, Joe reflects on the power of men's circles and consistent support in fostering emotional, mental, and spiritual well-being.Listeners will gain valuable insights into reframing masculinity, the importance of continuous commitment to growth, and...2024-01-2934 min
Better HusbandNavigating the Wilderness Within with Matthew CochranIn this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago engages in a profound conversation with Matthew Cochran, founder of Raven Dream Tracking and a rites of passage guide. Residing in the vast wilderness of Southern Utah, Matthew shares insights into his unique approach to men's work and self-discovery. Drawing inspiration from the elusive mountain lion, Matthew delves into the art of patient observation, understanding the balance between intention and the forces that shape our lives. With vivid descriptions, he paints a picture of the men's councils he facilitates around roaring fires, discussing topics seldom explored...2024-01-2233 min