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Widow We Do Now?Ep. 240 | Time Travelers: Then vs NowIn this episode, Anita and Mel take thoughtful stroll down memory lane, comparing the first half of their widowhood journey to the more recent happenings. As a bonus, learn about Anita's camping adventures that may involve a dump truck, a fake junkyard, an actual junkyard, and a guy named Rick.*Check our Patreon to submit tributes of your person to be read in an episode!*http://www.patreon.com/wwdnSponsored by:BetterHelp.com. Save 10% off the first month of online therapy done securely, online with our unique link: https://trybetterhelp.com/wwdn 2025-06-241h 01

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 239 | Changed For GoodFather’s Day hits differently when you’re a widow—and even more so when you don’t have kids. In this episode, Anita and Mel dive into the complicated emotions that come with this holiday for everyone: from grief and exclusion to support and meaning. They also put out a call to the widowed community for their opinions on a very important matter. Extra: Anita visits the pit of Wicked and learns things.*Check our Patreon to submit tributes of your person to be read in an episode!*http://www.patreon.com/wwdnSponsored by:2025-06-1754 min

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 235 | Pancake Feet and Jellybean Tears with Anita and MelWould you rather a) go with Anita to an endless track meet or b) be her emotional support human as she competes on Survivor? Join Anita and Mel for a fun and light-hearted episode where the shenanigans and lore are at an all time high.*Check our Patreon to submit tributes of your person to be read in an episode!*http://www.patreon.com/wwdnSponsored by:BetterHelp.com. Save 10% off the first month of online therapy done securely, online with our unique link: https://trybetterhelp.com/wwdnMint Mobile: Mobile...2025-04-2943 min

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 212 | Anita and Mel's Top 5It's been....how long? Five years since Widow We Do Now has been a thing? Anita and Mel are stunned, not only that they've survived widowhood thus far, but that there have been so many wonderful, funny, crazy, and shocking moments along the way. Join them for their behind the scenes stories of the last 5 years.Sponsored by:BetterHelp.com. Save 10% off the first month of online therapy done securely, online with our unique link: https://trybetterhelp.com/wwdnMint Mobile: Mobile phone plans with great service and coverage starting at $15/month https...2024-10-0949 min

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 206 | Squirrel Bags and CrowdStrike AdventuresAnita and Mel have had quite the stories to tell in the past few weeks. Join them to learn what in the world a squirrel bag is, and if Mel ever returned from Indiana/Illinois/India.Sponsored by:Rock House Financial & the podcast: He's Gone But The Money's Nothttps://rockhousefinancial.com/podcasts/BetterHelp.com. Save 10% off the first month of online therapy done securely, online with our unique link: https://trybetterhelp.com/wwdnMint Mobile: Mobile phone plans with great service and coverage starting at $15/month https://trymintmobile.com...2024-08-0532 min

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 205 | Detective Anita pt. 3: Banana Soup and Fantasy CoffinsIn this episode, we travel (via google) to the South Pacific islands, Asia, Ghana, New Orleans, and more. What does fermented banana soup have to do with death? What fantasy coffin would you design? Join Anita and Mel to find out in this week's episode.Sponsored by:BetterHelp.com. Save 10% off the first month of online therapy done securely, online with our unique link: https://trybetterhelp.com/wwdnMint Mobile: Mobile phone plans with great service and coverage starting at $15/month https://trymintmobile.com/wwdnJoin our Patreon for ad-free episodes...2024-07-1552 min

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 203 | Summer Check-InHow's summer going? Anita and Mel do a summer check in which may or may not include suggestions of a reality dating show featuring Anita. Sponsored by:BetterHelp.com. Save 10% off the first month of online therapy done securely, online with our unique link: https://trybetterhelp.com/wwdnMint Mobile: Mobile phone plans with great service and coverage starting at $15/month https://trymintmobile.com/wwdnJoin our Patreon for ad-free episodes and more!http://www.patreon.com/wwdnNeed some Snarky Grief merch?http://shop.widowwedonow.com 2024-06-2440 min

Widow We Do Now?Ep 193 | Diagnosis: Widowed Child Psychologist, Jenn Vriend*This episode contains discussion of suicide, mental illness, and substance abuse and may not be suitable for some listeners*Jenn Vriend. Is she a widow? She isn't sure, but Anita and Mel use the widow index scale to assess. Jenn is a child psychologist, mom to a great kid, and a survivor of partner suicide. Twice. Check out this discussion with the trio of trauma to hear validating stories, psychologist advice, and shenanigans. Anita and Mel are excited about their new "Vriendship" with Jenn, and can't wait for you to meet her too. Listen to...2024-03-181h 28

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 186 | A Little Late To The New Year with Anita and MelDid someone say it's already 2024? Join Anita and Mel in this top of the year discussion. Anita reflects on 5 years of widowhood, and Mel, almost 6.5. Help us keep the Widow We Do Now podcast going, get ad-free episodes, and more!http://www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowNeed some Snarky Grief merch?http://shop.widowwedonow.comSponsored by:BetterHelp.com. Save 10% off the first month of online therapy done securely, online with our unique link: https://trybetterhelp...2024-01-2229 min

Widow We Do Now?What I Want My In-Laws To Know (Replay)Anita and Mel delve into the rarely-talked-about-in-public topic of: in-laws. The scope and spectrum of experience among young widows is wide with this one, but is a hot topic. Anita is stoked. Mel is terrified, but copes by wearing cat leggings. This is a replay of Ep. 39 from Oct. 2020Help us keep the Widow We Do Now podcast going!http://www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowSponsored by: BetterHelp.com. Save 10% off the first month of online therapy done securely, o...2023-07-2446 min

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 136 | Widow Mafia Boss: Nikki CatapanoDo not cross Nikki. You will not win. She knows all the spells Harry Potter knows, she teaches middle school children, she's Mel's bodyguard, AND she's a widow (and obviously head of the widow mafia.). Join Anita and Mel as they get to know more about Nikki and her story. Help us keep the podcast going!http://www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowSponsored by: The Misner Family Foundation in memory of Elisabeth MisnerMint Mobile: Mobile phone...2022-09-271h 16

Widow We Do Now?Episode 102 | Updates From Guests Past!!Anita and Mel are BACK! Mel is helping her mom navigate the first few weeks of widowhood, Anita has just passed her 3rd year after her husband's death, and lives are still going on. Anita and Mel love their widow friends and guests and want to share with you some updates from a few of them. The updates in this episode are from:Lynne Rothrock (ep. 18)Beckie Menzie (ep. 19)Brittany Bussio (ep. 21)David Kelly (ep. 22)Mindi Holmgren (ep. 23)Liz Mecham (ep. 25)Hillary Childress (ep. 26)Karen Cornell (ep. 27)Treagan White...2022-01-171h 38

Widow We Do Now?A Little (Tragic) UpdateAnita and Mel intended to take a short holiday break and return with a new episode today. However, we need to extend that break and just wanted to give you a heads up.We will see you on the flip side.Anita 2022-01-0304 min

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 87.5: Widowsode | Grief HangoversWe know what grief is, and most know what a hangover is, but what's a grief hangover? When does one happen? What does one do about it? Join Anita and Mel in the discussion!Help us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowSponsored by: BetterHelp.com. Save 10% off the first month of online therapy done securely, online with our unique link: https://trybetterhelp.com/wwdnand 2021-09-1618 min

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 83.5: Widowsode | The Grief Olympics*FANFARE* Did you know there are grief olympics? No, not the kind where you get to wear cool uniforms to represent your country. The kind of contests we are talking about are the kind that pit grief against grief. Join Anita and Mel in the discussion.Help us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowSponsored by: BetterHelp.com. Save 10% off the first month of online therapy done securely, online with o...2021-08-1930 min

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 82.5: Widowsode | FOODAfter significant loss, it is common for one's relationship with food to change. Overeating, underrating, changes in taste, as well as loss of experience with our person, are all topics Anita and Mel cover in this widowsode. Help us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowSponsored by: BetterHelp.com. Save 10% off the first month of online therapy done securely, online with our unique link: https://trybetterhelp.com/wwdnan...2021-08-1221 min

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 81.5: Widowsode | Passive SuicidalityWhat is the term for when you don't seek to jump in front of a bus, but you welcome the bus hitting you, AND is this normal after suffering significant loss? The answer is: passive suicidality, and yes. Much shame can be associated with such feelings, however, it is typical of people in the widow situation, as well as others who have faced devastation. Anita and Mel face the convo head on, as well as share tips to managing it. Help us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.co...2021-08-0524 min

Widow We Do Now?Episode 81 | Jenny Lisk: Lover Of Illegal CheeseAnita and Mel interview fellow podcaster, Jenny Lisk, host and creator of The Widowed Parent Podcast. Jenny is also author of the book, Future Widow, available at http://www.jennylisk.com. She also happens to be a fan of cheese that is not legal outside of France. Help us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowSponsored by: BetterHelp.com. Save 10% off the first month of online therapy done securely, online wi...2021-08-021h 30

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 80.5: Widowsode | Firsts and Lasts (plus helpful tips!)The first year after losing your person SUCKS SO BAD! It's confusing, full of ups and downs, and grievers find they are navigating through sludge with no roadmap. In this widowsode, Anita and Mel discuss the firsts, lasts, and some helpful tips to make it through. Help us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowSponsored by: BetterHelp.com. Save 10% off the first month of online therapy done securely, online with our...2021-07-2931 min

Widow We Do Now?Episode 80 | Great Lakes Griever: Rachel EngstromAnita and Mel interview concert-goer, Prince fan, and cancer widow Rachel Engstrom, who just happens to also be an author! Check out her book "Wife, Widow, Now What?" at https://www.amazon.com/Wife-Widow-Now-What-Navigated/dp/B08KBV5DBLHelp us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowSponsored by: BetterHelp.com. Save 10% off the first month of online therapy done securely, online with our unique link: https://trybetterhelp.com/wwdn 2021-07-261h 23

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 79.5: Widowsode | GratitudeThinking positive, finding the silver lining, being grateful....just how helpful is it in the grieving process? Join the conversation and tell us your thoughts! Help us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowSponsored by: BetterHelp.com. Save 10% off the first month of online therapy done securely, online with our unique link: https://trybetterhelp.com/wwdnandThe Misner Family Foundation in memory of Elisabeth Misner 2021-07-2231 min

Widow We Do Now?Episode 79 | Finding Joy After Spouse and Child Loss: Autumn Toelle JacksonAnita and Mel interview the lovely Autumn Toelle Jackson, who has survived spouse loss, child loss, written a book, started a website, ranched llamas...ok just kidding with the llamas...but you get the idea: Autumn is a wonder woman who has earned her stripes. Check out her website www.growingwithgrief.com for all resources grief!Help us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowSponsored by: BetterHelp.com. Save 10% off t...2021-07-191h 03

Widow We Do Now?Episode 78 | Kid Grief (Part 2) Connection and Belonging: Kyndel Marcroft, LCSWAnita and Mel continue the discussion in part 2 of this episode on grief in children, parents, and overall humans, with child therapist, Kyndel Marcroft LCSW.Help us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowSponsored by: BetterHelp.com. Save 10% off the first month of online therapy done securely, online with our unique link: https://trybetterhelp.com/wwdnandThe Misner Family Foundation in memory of Elisabeth Misner 2021-07-151h 00

Widow We Do Now?Episode 77 | Kid Grief (Part 1) with Kyndel Marcroft, LCSWAnita and Mel make an exciting announcement! Oct 15-17, 2021, they will be presenters at Camp Widow in San Diego. COME ONE, COME ALL! We would love to see you! They then get down to business with child therapist, Kyndel Marcroft, LCSW. Our fellow widows submitted all the questions and Kyndel gives all the trauma-informed answers. This episode is part 1 of 2. Help us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowSponsored by: Be...2021-07-121h 21

Widow We Do Now?Episode 76 | Emily Cave: The NHL WidowAnita and Mel interview Emily Cave, who was widowed at 25 when her husband, professional hockey player for the Edmonton Oilers, Colby Cave, died unexpectedly in 2020. Emily discusses what it's like to grieve in the spotlight as an introvert during Covid. The widow unity is strong with these three, and further topics include importance of the widow community and, of course, dark humor. Follow Emily on IG at @em.caveHelp us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?ht...2021-07-051h 06

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 75.5: Widowsode | Secondary Loss...(?!?!?!)What the **** is secondary loss? Is it different than losing your partner? What does it look like? Feel like? Is it positive, negative, in-between? Join the discussion! Comment belowHelp us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowSponsored by: BetterHelp.com. Save 10% off the first month of online therapy done securely, online with our unique link: https://trybetterhelp.com/wwdnandThe Misner Family Foundation in m...2021-07-0129 min

Widow We Do Now?Episode 75 | The Near Death Experience Widow: Jozet Richardson HulleyAnita and Mel are fascinated with the complex and colorful story of Jozet Richardson Hulley. Jozet's first husband, Lance, had a near-death experience while in a coma. Lance lived for five years post-NDE, wrote a book, then died for real. Jozet is remarried and discusses grief, having an alive husband and a dead husband, step-parenting, and how she has chosen to frame her experiences for the past 17 years.Help us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www...2021-06-281h 19

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 74.5: Widowsode | Widows vs Social MediaAh, the double-edged sword of social media. Most people are familiar with the pros and cons, and Anita and Mel do a deep dive to discuss some of the various circumstances and opinions in this fake, real, good, bad, neutral, funny, annoying MINE FIELD! Help us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowSponsored by BetterHelp.com. Save 10% off the first month of online therapy done securely, online with our unique li...2021-06-2437 min

Widow We Do Now?Episode 74 | Ask Dr. Julie Hanks About ALL THE THINGSAnita and Mel learned many helpful things from the queen empress of the world (and the internet), Dr. Julie Hanks. From informed self care suggestions to social media guide posts to grief boundaries, Dr. Hanks drops all the mics, all the time. Help us keep the podcast going, and join our Patreon starting at $5:www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowThis episode is sponsored by:The Misner Family Foundation in memory of Elisabeth MisnerBetter Help | Our listeners r...2021-06-211h 08

Widow We Do Now?Ep 73.5: Widowsode | WIDOW BRAIN!!Every widow ever knows about the ups, downs, and tangled spectacle that is 'widow brain.' Join Anita and Mel in the discussion!Help us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowSponsored by BetterHelp.com. Save 10% off the first month of online therapy done securely, online with our unique link: https://trybetterhelp.com/wwdnMel's custom relaxation YouTube music channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL1WrSiQGVw2q...2021-06-1734 min

Widow We Do Now?Episode 73 | The Hospice Doctor's Widow: Jennifer O'BrienAnita and Mel interview Jennifer O'Brien, who not only is the widow of a hospice doctor, but is also an artist and award-winning author. After years of caring for people with serious illness as a physician, Jennifer's husband was diagnosed with cancer. Now, Jennifer works to help caregivers feel supported while caring for others and taking care of themselves. Check out Jennifer's website at http://www.hospicedrswidow.comJoin Anita and Mel's Patreon starting at $5:www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowThis ep...2021-06-141h 20

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 72.5: Widowsode | GUILT!!Internal, external, regret, should's, should-not's....it's a lot. Join the discussion with Anita and Mel as they discuss guilt and its complexities in the widow world. Help us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowSponsored by BetterHelp.com. Save 10% off the first month of online therapy done securely, online with our unique link: https://trybetterhelp.com/wwdnMel's custom relaxation YouTube music channel:https://www.youtube.com/ch...2021-06-1029 min

Widow We Do Now?Episode 72 | Complicated Grief: Ruth Valjean Lives One Day More!Anita and Mel interview Ruth Valjean, widowed when her husband died while out of town pursuing a secret extramarital affair. To say Ruth has suffered and survived betrayal trauma would be highly accurate. Oh, and she also has metastatic breast cancer. Ruth is an amazing survivor who shares her story to help others dealing with complicated grief. Join Anita and Mel's Patreon starting at $5:www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowThis episode is sponsored by:The Misner Family Foundation in m...2021-06-071h 04

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 71.5: Widowsode | TerminologyWords, words, words. We develop thoughts, feelings, and meanings to particular words when living in the world of widows, and the divide is real! Join Anita and Mel in the discussion. Help us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowSponsored by BetterHelp.com. Save 10% off the first month of online therapy done securely, online with our unique link: https://trybetterhelp.com/wwdnMel's custom relaxation YouTube music channel:2021-06-0321 min

Widow We Do Now?Episode 71 | Tawny Platis is HilariousAnita and Mel interview fellow young widow and podcaster, Tawny Platis of Death is Hilarious. Dark humor, dead husband jokes, the Babs Bible, and psychopathy are just a mere few of the intriguing topics the trio explores. Check out Tawny's podcast on every major podcast platform! https://deathishilarious.comJoin Anita and Mel's Patreon starting at $5:www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowMel's custom relaxation YouTube music channel (Drömkatt):https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL1WrSiQGVw2qavRi_7BlQA/featured 2021-05-311h 10

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 70.5: Widowsode | TattoosMany people get tattoos to memorialize someone special to them, especially after that person is no longer alive. Black and white, water color, traditional, sleeve, half-sleeve, fine line, single needle....the options are many. On the flip side, some people WANT to get a tattoo, but are hesitant for various reasons. Join the conversation and comment below!Check out our podcast: Widow We Do Now? on iTunes, Spotify, and all the other places where podcasts can be found. iTunes link: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/widow-we-do-now/id1483235636Help us keep the podcast going by...2021-05-2720 min

Widow We Do Now?Episode 70 | Surgical Empathy with Dr. MoroseAnita and Mel interview serial name-dropper, doctor, and the pop-culture icon you never knew about: Dr. Mark Goulston aka Dr. Morose. From stories of Hollywood tragedy to picking up dropped names, Dr. Goulston gives us much food for thought. Join Anita and Mel's Patreon starting at $5:www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowMel's custom relaxation YouTube music channel (Drömkatt):https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL1WrSiQGVw2qavRi_7BlQA/featuredMel's meditation music album:https://music.apple.com/us...2021-05-241h 14

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 69.5: Widowsode | DatingOoookkkkk.....this can be a sensitive one, depending on where we grievers are at at any given time. Some widows choose not to date, some choose to date, and everyone seems to have an opinion. Check out the episode to join the discussion. Join Anita and Mel's Patreon starting at $5:www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowMel's custom relaxation YouTube music channel (Drömkatt):https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL1WrSiQGVw2qavRi_7BlQA/featuredMel's chakra balancing album:ht...2021-05-2025 min

Widow We Do Now?Episode 69 | Angel Collinson: Tiny Hands Around The WorldAnita and Mel have a fun-filled interview with pro athlete and big mountain skier, Angel Collinson, who knows a thing or two about partner death, grief, and what it's like to have some time under her belt living with all of it. Tiny hands, cacti watering, and round the world sailing are just a few exciting tips Angel shares to keep the stoke alive. Join them in the discussion, leave a rating and review, and share!Join Anita and Mel's Patreon starting at $5:www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?h...2021-05-171h 27

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 68.5: Widowsode | Scammers!Scammers be warned: don't mess with these widows! The old school phone scams have migrated to digital format, and scammers are always coming up with new and innovative ways to scam. Some of these ways might surprise you. Be on the lookout, and be prepared to slay the scams!Join Anita and Mel's Patreon starting at $5:www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowMel's custom relaxation YouTube music channel (Drömkatt):https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL1WrSiQGVw2qavRi_7BlQA/featured 2021-05-1321 min

Widow We Do Now?Episode 68 | IVF and House Pigs: Sarah ShellenbergerAnita and Mel interview the widow Shellenberger, mere days before her IVF-post-spousal-death first-born child makes his entrance into the world.. Farm life, house pigs, rescue donkeys, and fertility treatments in Barbados are just some of the topics the trio discusses. Sarah gracefully navigates the conversation about everything that brought her to her decisions. Join Anita and Mel's Patreon starting at $5:www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowMel's custom relaxation YouTube music channel (Drömkatt):https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL1WrSiQGVw2qa...2021-05-101h 06

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 67.5: Widowsode | Self Care vs SelfishAnita and Mel discuss self caring while widowing. Is it possible?Join Anita and Mel's Patreon starting at $5:www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowMel's custom relaxation YouTube music channel (Drömkatt):https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL1WrSiQGVw2qavRi_7BlQA/featuredMel's chakra balancing album:https://music.apple.com/us/album/inriktning-chakra-balancing-music/1558390723Better Help | Our listeners receive a 10% discount off their first month of professional online counseling with this unique link: https://trybetterhelp.com/wwdn 2021-05-0631 min

Widow We Do Now?Episode 67 | The Koolest Kat in Kalifornia: Kat Jucar ForbesAnita and Mel reconvene after Anita's second successful family trip as a solo parent. Mel makes a life-changing discovery about her brain. Kat joins in on the conversation, and the trio discuss widow life, celebrities, widows in film and tv, and even death doulas (what!?)Join Anita and Mel's Patreon starting at $5:www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowMel's custom relaxation YouTube music channel (Drömkatt):https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL1WrSiQGVw2qavRi_7BlQA/featuredMel's chakra balancing al...2021-05-031h 22

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 66.5: Widowsode | Funeral HomesEmbalming, price ranges of caskets, vaults, eagle statuettes....these are some of the topics discussed in this episode of Anita and Mel's widow convo.Help us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - http://www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwed...Mel's custom relaxation YouTube music channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL1W...This episode is sponsored by Better Help | Our listeners receive a 10% discount off their first month of professional online counseling with this...2021-04-2923 min

Widow We Do Now?Episode 66 | Using Her Marbles: Peter RukavinaAnita gets brave and takes a second family trip less than a month from her first family trip. Fingers crossed that her widow t-shirt keeps all meanies at bay! Mel guests on another podcast (click here to listen: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-happy-musicians-podcast/id1481777344?i=1000517838978), and then, the pair does possibly the most ridiculous Patreon shout out in their history together. Luckily, Peter Rukavina - widower, and all-around cool guy, steps in and keeps things grounded as he tells us the tales from the widower vault. Peter's e-book, Using Her Marbles, is available at http://UsingHerMarbles.com 2021-04-261h 21

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 65.5 Widowsode | HeadstonesDouble headstone, single, obelisk, mausoleum, urn....OH MY! Join the discussion about the vast world of headstones (and why it can sometimes take years to make a decision).Help us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - http://www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwed...Mel's custom relaxation YouTube music channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL1W...This episode is sponsored by Better Help | Our listeners receive a 10% discount off their first month of prof...2021-04-2221 min

Widow We Do Now?Episode 65 | Grief Chats with Dana and MiraAnita and Mel meet their dopplegangers, Mira and Dana, of Grief Chats, and discuss many taboo things. Check them out (Dana) www.forcedjoyproject.com & @forcedjoyproject (Mira) www.newmoonmira.com & @newmoonmira and help keep the conversations going.Join Anita and Mel's Patreon starting at $5:www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowMel's custom relaxation YouTube music channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL1WrSiQGVw2qavRi_7BlQA/featuredMel's chakra balancing album:https://music.apple.com/us/album/inriktning-chakra-balancing-music/1558390723T...2021-04-191h 32

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 64.5: Widowsode | Widowed Moms vs Kidless WidsWho has it worse? Better? Neutral? Anita (mom of 4 kids) and Mel (zero kids and all the dogs) discuss the down and dirty of these different flavors of widowhood.Help us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwed...Mel's custom relaxation YouTube music channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL1W...This episode is sponsored by Better Help | Our listeners receive a 10% discount off their first month of prof...2021-04-1521 min

Widow We Do Now?Episode 64 | Melissa Gould: WidowishAnita and Mel interview author, screenplay writer, and widow, Melissa Gould. Check out Melissa and her book at http://www.widowish.comJoin Anita and Mel's Patreon starting at $5:www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowMel's custom relaxation YouTube music channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL1WrSiQGVw2qavRi_7BlQA/featuredThis week's podcast sponsors: Use the code WWDN at checkout for 10% off widow gift boxes:https://www.filledwithgold.orgBetter Help | Our listeners receive a 10% d...2021-04-121h 14

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 63.5: Widowsode | In-LawsDo you have mentally unstable, abusive in-laws, in-laws that handle all situations with the stability and kindness of the Buddha, or somewhere in between? Join Anita and Mel in discussion of this tricky topic. For more, check out podcast Episode 39: What I Want My In-Laws to Know - Widow We Do Now? https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...Help us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwed...Mel's custo...2021-04-0816 min

Widow We Do Now?Episode 63 | Kirsten Stromberg, Imposter Widow ExtraordinaireAnita and Mel discuss Easter, vacations with kids, tapping (EFT), and other helpful trauma tips. Kirsten Stromberg joins the conversation and tells her widowhood story and shares what it's like to lose your person to a rare, genetic cancer during quarantine, and what it's like to feel like an imposter widow. Join Our Patreon:www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowMel's custom relaxation YouTube music channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL1WrSiQGVw2qavRi_7BlQA/featuredThis week's podcast sp...2021-04-051h 23

Widow We Do Now?Ep. 62.5: Widowsode | To Ring or not to Ring?To Ring or not to ring? That is the question widows want to know. Should you keep wearing it after your person is gone? Should you take it off immediately? Is there a timeline? Join the discussion and let us know what you think!Join Anita and Mel's Patreon:www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowMel's custom relaxation YouTube music channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL1WrSiQGVw2qavRi_7BlQA/featuredUse the code WWDN at checkout for 10% off wi...2021-04-0117 min

Widow We Do Now?Episode 62 | The Widow Edit with Emily LassiterAnita and Mel discuss peasant fashion, mom jeans, and what to do when you've over-hydrated yourself and subsequently find yourself stuck in a traffic jam. Fellow widow and inspirational human being, Emily Lassiter, drops many a-wise-word in this fun-filled interview. Founded in 2020, The Wealth Edit is an online community for women looking to confidentially discuss and expand their knowledge of personal finance. Led by Birmingham-based financial mavens Lauren Pearson and Emily Lassiter, the membership-based community provides a space for women of all ages to gather, learn, and plan their financial journey through virtual courses, weekly guest speakers...2021-03-291h 26

Widow We Do Now?Episode 61 | Crisis Convo with Dr. Stephen MerrellAnita and Mel discuss the topics of mental health, suicide, and the medical field with Dr. Stephen Merrell, as it relates to widows and the general population. Help us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowMel's custom relaxation YouTube music channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL1WrSiQGVw2qavRi_7BlQA/featuredThis week's podcast sponsor: Use the code WWDN at checkout for 10% off widow gift boxes:htt...2021-03-221h 27

Widow We Do Now?Episode 60 | Books, Boxes, & Bravery: Melissa PierceAnita and Mel interview the fun, talented, and widowed Melissa Pierce. They discuss everything from bodysurfing in the cold PNW waters to foster care, adoption, mediums, and what it's like to be a remarried widow-author-entrepreneur. Use the code WWDN at checkout for 10% off widow gift boxes:https://www.filledwithgold.orgHelp us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowMel's custom relaxation YouTube music channel:https://www...2021-03-151h 16

Widow We Do Now?Episode 59 | Krista St. Germain: Master Certified Life CoachAnita and Mel try to derail master life coach, Krista St. Germain, but to no avail. Krista turns the tables on them and addresses thought-work in thought-provoking ways about grief, parenthood, non-parenthood, and good ol' fashioned just being humans on the planet trying to survive the day. Krista's podcast: The Widowed Mom Podcasthttp://www.coachingwithkrista.comHelp us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowMel's custom...2021-03-081h 19

Widow We Do Now?Episode 58 | The Unofficial Widow: Kirsten RobinsonAnita and Mel interview 31 year old widow-turned-social-worker, Kirsten Robinson. Kirsten was suddenly widowed at age 24 when her partner, and father of her child, had a stroke at work. Follow her on instagram at @unofficiallywidowedHelp us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowMel's custom relaxation YouTube music channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL1WrSiQGVw2qavRi_7BlQA/featuredThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp. Our listeners receive a...2021-03-011h 19

Widow We Do Now?Episode 57 | Shannon's Sh*t ShowIf you've ever wondered what it's like to deal with spousal suicide, domestic abuse, child abuse, drug abuse, mental illness, and incarceration, Anita and Mel are here to help you out. Shannon's story is so wild - you can't make this stuff up. We are grateful she is willing to share her story and help others who find themselves in similar situations.Help us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonow...2021-02-221h 14

Widow We Do Now?Episode 56 | Lauren LentzAnita and Mel survived Valentines day and are on to interview 2nd grade teacher, mom of a toddler, and young widow: Lauren Lentz. Lauren's husband was killed by a car while riding his bike. Help us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowMel's custom relaxation YouTube music channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL1WrSiQGVw2qavRi_7BlQA/featuredThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp. Our listeners receive...2021-02-151h 28

Widow We Do Now?Episode 55 | Adoption, Autism, & Widowing: Christine AndersonAnita has a special weekend all to herself and is a new person. Mel plays the piano for a funeral with New Orleans funeral traditions. Valentines Day is coming and a Widow Wives Club hang is on the books! Join us!Christine Anderson, fellow widow extraordinaire, flawlessly tells us her story of her familiarity with grief. Between infertility, cancer, adoption, autism, and now young widowhood, she shares her experiences and how she keeps going through it all. Christine is also a magnet for psychic mediums and someday will bring one of them to our podcast....2021-02-081h 12

Widow We Do Now?Episode 54 | Light Topics: Alcoholism, Shame, and Death - Maureen's Story34-year-old Maureen, a cheesehead from Wisconsin, is one great lady. She's also really mad. Why? Her husband died as a result of alcoholism, and she learned a lot as a spouse of an addict that makes her want to take action and open up the conversation. Anita and Mel have an insightful discussion with Maureen about transplants, organ failure, shame, and cheese. Yes, cheese. For more information on how to understand drug and alcohol abuse and shame, visit http://www.drugabuse.govHelp us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5...2021-02-011h 21

Widow We Do Now?Episode 53 | Lorindafied: The Curse ContinuesAnita and Mel have their most epic adventure of podcasting yet when they interview Lorinda Hopper Beadle Lefevre and MAYHEM ENSUES! This is a special episode complete with time travel smoke and mirrors, dead husbands, living husbands, and a curious cheese preference. A good time is had by all (at least for Lorinda and Mel) during this exciting episode.Help us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnWant to buy us some tacos?https://www.buymeacoffee.com/widowwedonowMel's custom relaxation Y...2021-01-251h 13

Widow We Do Now?Episode 52 | Kick Lines, Fire Juggling, and Life Insurance: Connor SchwantesWhether it be crafting choreography, presenting a beautiful bag of potato chips with baby smooth hands, or having awkward conversations about beneficiaries and the difference between whole life vs term life, Connor Schwantes is our favorite expert. His experience in multiple, and seemingly opposite niches make him one of Anita and Mel's most exciting guests. Connor Schwantes is available for life insurance consultation for New York state residents and can be reached at connorschwanteslife@gmail.comMel's custom relaxation YouTube music channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL1WrSiQGVw2qavRi_7BlQA/featuredH...2021-01-181h 23

Widow We Do Now?Episode 51 - Erin and the Baby JoeysAnita and Mel discuss Pokemon, Harry Potter, superheroes, and all other relevant widow topics. They interview Erin Posik, Aussie widow who happens to know a thing or two about fostering baby kangaroos and wombats. She is also well-versed in organ donation and shares the story of her husband Moose's passing and her life since. U.S. organ donor registration site:http://www.organdonor.govMel's custom relaxation YouTube music channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL1WrSiQGVw2qavRi_7BlQA/featuredHelp us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting a...2021-01-111h 47

Widow We Do Now?Episode 50 - The Post-Holiday ShakedownAnita and Mel have returned from (and survived) the holidays! Anita updates us on her 2nd deathiversary happenings and feelings, while Mel has started putting together a dog treadmill and started a relaxation music youtube channel. Relaxation music channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL1WrSiQGVw2qavRi_7BlQA/featuredHelp us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp. Our listeners receive a 10% discount off their first month of professional online counseling with this unique link: https...2021-01-0434 min

Widow We Do Now?Episode 49: A Very Mel-Nita Christmas To You!Tis the week of Christmas and Anita and Mel are wishing everyone, especially the widows, strength and peace as holidays are hard without your dead person! Anita ruminates over fancy phrase, "surge capacity" and Mel mulls over which video game to play next. Help us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp. Our listeners receive a 10% discount off their first month of professional online counseling with this unique link: https://trybetterhelp.com/wwdn 2020-12-2124 min

Widow We Do Now?Episode 47 - Inner Monster Wrangling with Tessa JoyAnita and Mel catch up post Thanksgiving, which was filled with funerals, anger, and other feelings. The duo announces an exciting surprise coming up, and Anita sings a song in honor of our patrons. The pair interviews Tessa Joy, professional monster wrangler, nutritionist, kinesiologist, energy worker, and healer. Anita and Mel learned so much during the interview that they are considering having Tessa take over entirely as podcast host. Tessa shares experiences from her own journey of loss, addiction, anger, shadow work and healing. For more info about Tessa, visit https://www.thequantumbutterfly.com. FB...2020-12-071h 49

Widow We Do Now?Episode 43: Avoiding Financial Pitfalls - The Fancy Lady, part 2Anita and Mel pull themselves together after Halloween. Anita is getting one step closer to figuring out her headstone situation while Mel faces her husband's 3rd 'deathiversary' in a few days. The fancy lady, Joy Kirsch, enters the conversation and drops amazing financial knowledge bombs on them. Anita and Mel realize JUST how fancy the fancy lady is. Second Opinion for listeners and Free checklist/articles for widows:https://www.meritfinancialadvisors.com/services/loss-of-a-spouse/Help us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com...2020-11-021h 44

Widow We Do Now?Episode 42 - The Fancy Lady: Joy KirschAfter Anita gets investigated by the police, and Mel returns from multiple dogmergencies, life gets a whole lot fancier. Joy Kirsch, "The Fancy Lady", discusses her 27 year journey since her husband's suicide. Anita and Mel keep their fingers crossed that Joy can snag Oprah as their new fancy friend. Help us keep the podcast going by joining our Patreon starting at just $5 - www.patreon.com/wwdnThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp. Our listeners receive a 10% discount off their first month of professional online counseling with this unique link: https://trybetterhelp.com/wwdn 2020-10-261h 30