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Surrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations113. How to tell your child their birth storyHear the simple yet meaningful technique that Psychologist Katrina Hale has developed to help you develop the unique birth story narrative for your child. Katrina and covers questions such as:❤️ How do I tell my child their birth story?🧡 When to tell them?💛 Why is it important?💚 How much information do I share?💙 What language do I use?💜 How often should I tell them?🤎 How formal/informal does it need to be?These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Austra...2025-07-2747 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations112. Those 1% issues turn into something bigger if you don’t speak upSJ birthed as a surrogate in Brisbane in March 2025 for a couple who were initially strangers and are now life long friends. They had a little girl, Blake, and her parents are Emma and Steve who also live nearby on the Gold Coast. SJ is a member of the Surrogacy Australia Board, a regular on our Zoom monthly catch ups and advocates for surrogacy at every chance she gets!These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates...2025-07-2028 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations111. Endometriosis is isolatingLaura and husband Brendan from Penrith, became parents to their son (Mason) in February 2025. Mason was carried by surrogate Brie, who is Brendan's sister, and was also created using donor eggs from Laura's niece, Tiger. It was a very long journey to parenthood with endometriosis, adenomyosis, a full hysterectomy and low AMH levels (meaning low egg reserves). So Mason was nearly a 10 year journey in the making. These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration l...2025-07-1330 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations109. It's nobody's fault - surrogacy broke our friendship.Kristen birthed as a surrogate in April 2019 for a couple who also live in QLD. The husbands worked together prior to surrogacy, as well as Kristen and the Intended Mother (which we abbreviate to IM), and they welcomed a little girl into the world. Unfortunately the Surroship dissolved in the later stages of pregnancy and post birth. Kristen has had time to reflect on her journey and has some teachable moments for us all. These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head t...2025-06-2939 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations108. Her Intended Mother passed away 2 years laterErinna birthed as a surrogate on the Gold Coast in January 2017 for a couple who were initially strangers. They had a little boy, named Sidney, for his mum and dad Alison and Pearce. Unfortunately, when Sid was nearly 2 years old, Alison passed away from ongoing health issues (health was part of her reason for needing a surrogate initially). These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can also be found on our YouTube c...2025-06-2237 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations107. I feel like I grew an extra heartDane and his husband Wes from Sydney, became dads to their son Theo (Teddy) in January 2025. Their surrogate, Storme, who is a single mum living locally to them, connected with them in one of the national surrogacy facebook groups in January 2023 and now they're friends for life. This is a full circle webinar as Dane and Wes joined one of these webinars in June 2021, and now 4 years later they are a co-host and sharing their story to inspire others. These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would l...2025-06-1634 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations106. It’s OK to say no. 12 years of surrogacy - a surrogate’s reflectionsCharmaine has been in the surrogacy community for 12 years since 2013. Originally from New Zealand, she is 41 and lives in Brisbane. She’s a mum to 5 children herself, one who is an angel baby, and she’s also Nanna to a 5 year old. In her time in the surrogacy community she has done the whole surrogacy paperwork journey with 5 sets of IPs, had 11 embryo transfers, 4 of which resulted in losses, and there have been 2 live births - so far. Hopefully another baby in the coming year for her new Intended Mother, Jess. These podcasts were recorded as part of th...2025-06-0832 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations104. He had 4 hearts that loved him into this worldJessie and Andrew became parents through surrogacy in March 2020. Their son, Arlo, was carried and birthed by Susan, who was previously a stranger and is now a lifelong friend. Jessie is a SASS Parent Mentor and has helped many IPs at the beginning of their journey.These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can also be found on our YouTube channel so you can see the photos that are described in the...2025-05-2630 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations103. Born without a uterus (MRKH) - dreams do come trueBillie and husband Rob, from Western Sydney, became parents to their daughter Westyn in December 2023. Westyn was carried by her sister, Shannen, as Billie has MRKH - meaning she was born without a uterus. You may have seen their team featured on channel 9's show Big Miracles. If you’d like to watch their story, be sure to check it out on 9Now, Big Miracles, Season 3, episodes 4 and 5.  You can hear from her surrogate, her sister Shannen, in the previous episode 102.These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Su...2025-05-1931 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations102. Even when I was vomiting in the toilet, I'd FaceTime herShannen, from the Central Coast, birthed as a surrogate in Sydney in December 2023 for her sister and brother-in-law, Billie and Rob. They had a little girl, Westyn, and she also has four children of her own. You may have seen their team featured on channel 9's show Big Miracles. If you’d like to watch their story, be sure to check it out on 9Now, Big Miracles, Season 3, episodes 4 and 5.  You can hear from her Intended Mother, her sister, Billie, in the next episode 103.These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webin...2025-05-1131 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations101. Mothers of SurrogatesHear from 3 mothers whose daughters have been surrogates in Australia. Guests: Tammy, Karina and Patti* What were your first thoughts when she brought up the idea of being a surrogate? Were you worried, and why?* How did you explain this to your extended family and how did they react?* Did you meet the IPs?* What was your involvement in the journey/pregnancy?* What were some of the challenging times?* How was the birth and those first few weeks/months after?* Surrogates usually feel a high after surrogacy...2025-05-0447 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia ConversationsCelebrating 100 episodes - my surrogacy journeyThis episode was recorded in May 2024 to celebrate me (Anna) having hosted 100 free webinars since April 2021. My friend and fellow surrogate, Danni, took the reins and interviewed me about my own journey. I've been in the surrogacy community since August 2016, have been an egg donor 3 times, and birthed as a surrogate in September 2020 for two dads (Brendan and Matt) who were previously strangers. My own surrogacy journey took 2.5 years until birth and had challenges such as post natal depression.You can hear from one of my Intended Fathers, Brendan, in episode 71.These podcasts were r...2025-04-271h 40Surrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations98. 2 children - 2 different surrogatesLeah and James are parents through surrogacy - TWICE! Their first daughter, Alyza, was carried and birthed by Leah's cousin, Belinda. Their second daughter, Ottilie (Lottie), was carried and birthed by Julie, who was previously a stranger. They met through the online communities and are now life long friends. You can hear from her surrogate, Julie, in episode 92.These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can also be found on o...2025-04-1332 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations97. A surrogate without her own childrenRachel birthed as a surrogate in Brisbane in November 2024. They had a little girl, Lenny, for dads Caleb and James and she knew Caleb's brother in law from school. Their first pregnancy was ectopic and needed a fallopian tube removal and the second was a miscarriage just before 8 weeks, requiring medication and two D&Cs. Rachel expressed milk for 7 weeks before going back to work and Uni 2 months post birth. Rachel's story is also unique as she has not had children of her own before surrogacy and is also single.You can hear from one of the...2025-04-0627 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations96. Be vulnerable, put yourself out thereJames and his partner Caleb from Brisbane, became dads to their daughter, Lenny, in November 2024. Their surrogate, Rachel, who lives locally, was known to them as a school friend of Caleb's sister's partner. Their egg donor is James' sister, so the whole family was involved in this journey. Their first pregnancy was ectopic and needed a fallopian tube removal and the second was a miscarriage just before 8 weeks, requiring medication and two D&Cs.You can hear from his surrogate, Rachel, in the next episode 97. These podcasts were recorded as part of the f...2025-03-3032 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations94. Well that was more than a poo​Fiona birthed as a surrogate in NSW in April 2021 for a couple who were initially strangers and are now life long friends. They had a little girl, Ari, and her two dads are Josh and Jack who were in Sydney and are now in Canberra.You can hear from one of the dads she carried for, Josh, in the previous episode 93. These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can also be...2025-03-1629 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations93. World egg bank and an Australian surrogateJosh and Jack, originally in Sydney and now in the ACT, became Dads to their daughter (Ari) in April 2021. Ari was carried by their surrogate (previously a stranger) Fee who lives in Newcastle, NSW. Josh has been a Mentor with SASS and has supported many new gay Intended Dads who are at the beginning of their journey.  You can hear from his surrogate, Fiona, in the next episode number 94. These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website f...2025-03-0947 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations92. “I grew in your tummy Julie - do you know that?”Julie is heading for retirement as a surrogate - again! She has been in the community for 10 years, had 11 embryo transfers for 3 different IPs, 100s of blood tests and ultrasounds, 1000s of hours invested resulting in 2 beautiful girls and life long friends with surrogates and parents. Julie birthed Ottilie in May 2019 creating a sibling for that family (Leah, James and Alyza) and then retired as a surrogate aged 42. She had built a friendship with Trudy from the community, came out of retirement and offered to carry a sibling for Trudy, Tom and Bonnie. She birthed Lily in August 2024 aged 48...2025-03-0336 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations91. We’d lost hopeMelissa and her husband Harry lived in Adelaide when they became parents to their son Harvey in August 2024. Harvey was carried by surrogate Rachael, who was previously a stranger, and who lives in Goolwa, regional South Australia. Melissa has MRKH (being born without a uterus) and it was a long journey to motherhood - initially being part of uterus transplant trials, a move from Sydney and then a couple of years in the surrogacy community before Rachael found them. A very determined mother!These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy...2025-02-2335 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations89. It’s a case of When not If, when you choose to do surrogacyMitchell and Stephen from Brisbane expanded their family when their close friend carried and birthed their little girl, Elizabeth, in July 2019. Mitchell is a passionate advocate for surrogacy and the promotion of same-sex parents. He has written three children’s books to date ‘Lizzy’s Day at the Zoo’, ‘Lizzy’s Day at the Beach’ and ‘Lizzy’s Christmas Day’. You can find him on instagram @gaybrisbanedad These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration lin...2025-02-0929 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations88. Their baby, my birthMichelle and husband, Glenn, live in Wollongong with their 2 children and she has birthed 2 children as a surrogate, Alice in March 2019 and Isaac in November 2020. Michelle works as a nurse at IVF Australia and that is where we met one of the dads - Dr Shadi Khashaba. She has also donated her eggs 10 times to help 5 families, as well as supporting many people through surrogacy - both through her work and part of the wider surrogacy community. You can hear from one of the dads she carried for, Shadi, in episode 44.  These podcasts were recorded a...2025-02-0229 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations87. Surrogacy Legal issues with lawyer Sarah BevanSarah Bevan Family Lawyers are experts in surrogacy, having assisted many Australian and international intended parents and surrogates. Sarah led the team responsible for the landmark NSW decision for the first same-sex couple to be registered as parents on their child’s birth certificate, after that child was born through a surrogacy arrangement. If you’d like to arrange your own session with Sarah, you can find her on her website, Sarah Bevan Family Lawyers. We hear from Sarah and cover questions such as: ❤️ What are reasonable expenses that we can cover for our...2025-01-2644 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations85. The journey of self discovery is not absent from this processJames and his husband JimBob from Brisbane, became dads to their son, Rupert, in March 2023. Their surrogate, Jemma from north QLD, was previously a stranger whom they met at a Growing Families conference in June 2021. Jemma's waters broke early at 30 weeks resulting in quick action from all families. Jemma birthed Rupert at 32 weeks via an emergency C-section but he has been strong and healthy since birth. Their egg donor, Zoe, is James' sister and she offered to be their donor when they were teenagers. You can hear from his surrogate, Jemma, in episode 11. These podcasts...2025-01-1242 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations13. I’m way more resilient than I thought I would be - A pregnancy between Sydney and New York during COVID lockdownsTrudy and Tom became parents to their daughter (Bonnie) in August 2020. Bonnie was carried by their surrogate Sarah who is Tom's sister. Sarah lives with her husband and their two children in New York, meaning this was one complex surrogacy journey. Trudy is also a SASS Parent Mentor and has helped many IPs at the beginning of their journey. These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can also be found on our...2025-01-0735 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations5. Believe it can happen and enjoy the process​Sarah and Ben from Adelaide became parents to baby girl Evie in Feb 2021 when their surrogate, and now life long friend, Danni, birthed as a Traditional Surrogate after a long journey first as their Gestational surrogate. Sarah is also a SASS Parent Mentor and has helped many IPs at the beginning of their journey.  These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can also be found on our YouTube channel so you can see...2025-01-0738 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations2. Don't just come for a baby, engage with the communityTyson and Daniel from Melbourne became Dads to their daughter (London) in December 2021. London was carried by their surrogate Beth who was previously a stranger. Tyson has supported many Intended Parents who are at the beginning of their journey. He is also the author of the Surrogacy Process Chart and video interviewing 3 surrogates in the style of 'you can't ask that' - he’s clearly a contributor to the surrogacy community!  These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our...2025-01-0737 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations84. Mel birthed two boys for two dadsMel birthed as a surrogate in Wollongong in January 2022 for a couple whom she knew through the brother of one of her friends. They had a little boy, Jetson, through a home birth. The two dads, Warwick and Jason, live in Sydney. Mel went on to be a surrogate again for this couple, and she once again birthed at home in May 2024 - a little boy Jasper.  Mel’s journey with expressing breast milk is quite impressive! She did lots of direct feeding in the first few days and then pumped milk for 5 and a hal...2025-01-0525 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations83. Communication is #1 - especially with the surrogate’s partnerWarwick and Jason, from Sydney, became parents to their son (Jetson) in January 2022. Jetson was carried by their surrogate Mel who already had a connection before surrogacy, as a friend of Warwick's sister. They navigated a journey with some distance (Sydney to Wollongong) and were able to stay near and with Mel in the weeks before and after birth. And since then, they have gone on to have another son, Jasper who was born in May 2024. Mel was their surrogate and birthed at home for the second time.  These podcasts were recorded as part of the free w...2024-12-2935 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations82. Mum to 3 children through surrogacyMarian is a mum through surrogacy three times! Marian and David, from Adelaide, became parents to a boy, Hugo, in September 2016 and a girl, Matilda, in June 2018. Those children were carried by surrogate Rachel, who lives in QLD, and was previously a stranger. Their second daughter, Sophia, was born in March 2021 by a different surrogate who lives in Adelaide and was also initially a stranger and now friends for life. We will be chatting about the lessons learnt from 3 journeys and from many years in the local and national community.  She is also an artist and you c...2024-12-2235 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations80. x2 surrogate - there’s no guarantee you’ll be a Gold Standard teamBec from Bacchus Marsh is a single mum to 5 and has been a surrogate twice. She birthed a girl in 2016 and a boy in 2024 - for 2 different sets of IPs, each who were previously strangers. She is an admin for the national facebook group and organises catch ups locally in Melbourne. Hear from Bec about her observations from her nearly 10 years in the surrogacy community - what it promises and what it's really like. These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head...2024-12-081h 08Surrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations79. If you want this dream, you’ve got to hustleShane and his partner Clinton near Newcastle, NSW became parents to their son Easton in February 2024. Their surrogate, Jennie, who lives nearby, is a friend of Shane's sister. Their egg donor, Teneale, is Clint's sister so there's a whole village involved! They started their surrogacy journey in late 2021 with a previous surrogate that Shane met through the gym. They went down the traditional surrogacy path initially but that journey ended after an ectopic pregnancy in mid 2022. Surrogacy is certainly a marathon, not a sprint. These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by...2024-12-0140 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations77. I never thought it would happen to meSamm birthed as a surrogate in Port Hedland, WA in May 2022 for a couple who were initially strangers and are now life long friends. She had a little boy, Joshua, for his parents Lisa and Jared in Adelaide, SA. Samm and her family are now in Perth, however it was a long journey with COVID restrictions limiting in person catch ups during the pregnancy.  These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can a...2024-11-1027 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations75. Bring people in to what you're doingMatt, from Adelaide, and his husband, Aldo, met their surrogate, Rachel from Melbourne, in October 2020. Following their first embryo transfer in January 2022, they welcomed their son, Ari, in September of that year.  You can hear from his surrogate, Rachel, in episode 48. ASC - Australian Surrogacy Community  EDA - Egg Donation Australia These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can also be found on our YouTube channel so...2024-10-2730 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations74. I knew my surrogate had the support of SASSLindsay's SASS team is one that we have supported from their introduction through to birth and now beyond for a year. Lindsay and her husband, Antony, from Brisbane became parents to their son in February 2024. He was carried by surrogate Kim, who lives in Perth, WA. A journey of over a decade to parenthood due to Lindsay's complex health issues including multiple surgeries and liver transplant. They met Anna at the Growing Families conference in Brisbane in June 2021, joined SASS in October and were introduced to Kim 5 months later in March 2022.  These podcasts were recorded as part o...2024-10-2036 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations73. Joining SASS was a non negotiable for meKim's journey started in March 2020 when she first joined SASS. After joining, Kim and her family were fortunate enough to meet two couples through the surrogacy community, however both IP (Intended Parents) couples decided to pursue other options to start a family, After taking some time out to regroup, in March 2022 Kim accessed the SASS database and asked to be introduced to Lindsay and Antony in Brisbane, as they matched what Kim and her family were looking for in regards to being around the same age, a heterosexual couple, sharing the same values and expectations. This would be especially...2024-10-1334 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations71. When it comes to pregnancy, best to just leave it to your surrogate, she knows her bodyTim and Sasha joined SASS in January 2022 having attended the Rainbow Families Seminar and the Growing Families Conference in 2021. In May 2022, I introduced them to their surrogate Lizzy as part of SASS and began surro-dating as complete strangers. Tim and Sasha met their IVF doctor during the Growing Families Conference. They later created their embryos with their IVF clinic in Los Angeles with an American donor. Fast forward to May 2023, Tim, Sasha and Lizzy travelled to LA for an embryo transfer and it was a success at first try. Atticus was born a healthy, chubby boy in February 2024. Tim...2024-09-2939 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations70. Children of surrogatesGuests: Clarity, Cooper and Eleanor Hear from 3 teenagers whose mums have been surrogates in Australia. * How did you get to know the IPs (Intended Parents)? * What were your first thoughts when she brought up the idea of being a surrogate? Were you worried, and why? * Did you siblings feel the same/different about surrogacy? * How did your extended family react? * How do you explain surrogacy to other kids? * Surrogacy is a long journey before pregnancy - what memories do you have of that? ...2024-09-2241 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations68. My 2 surrogate babies call me mum and they have 2 dads. Our modern family.Bonnie, who lives near Hervey Bay, was a traditional surrogate for Andrew and Sam who live in Canberra. She birthed their daughter Paige in December 2020 and son Cole in February 2023. The births were total opposites with Paige needing to be in the NICU for 7 weeks but Cole was a homebirth. You can hear from one of the dads she carried for, Andrew, in previous episode 38. These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. T...2024-09-0835 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations67. We were interviewing Anna as much as she was interviewing usBrendan and Matt, from Adelaide, became Dads to their son, Baker, in September 2020. Their son was carried by their surrogate (previously a stranger) Anna (me!) who lives in SA too. Brendan has been a mentor with SASS and has supported many new gay Intended Dads who are at the beginning of their journey. You can find them on instagram @the_real_dads_of_adelaide These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can...2024-09-0151 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations66. We felt like we had failed our surrogate LauraCandice and her partner, Robert, from Adelaide became parents to their daughter (Abigail) in December 2023. Abby was carried by surrogate Laura who was previously a stranger. At 4 years old, Candice was diagnosed with cancer: non-Hodgkin's lymphoma. Due to the radiation therapy and multiple cases of pneumonia she now has only 30% lung capacity and doctors advised her that she would need a surrogate to become a mum. You can hear from her surrogate, Laura, in the previous episode 65.  These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would l...2024-08-2435 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations65. I did every breastfeed for the first 9 days (and pumped milk for 5.5 months)Laura and husband, Justin, live in Adelaide with their 3 children and she birthed a little girl, Abigail, as a surrogate in December 2023. The parents, Candice and Robert, were previously strangers whom they met through the facebook communities. Laura expressed milk for 5.5 months and even continued to do some direct feeds until 4.5 months. Their team had roadblocks along the way so it took them a few years to get to birth.  These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for d...2024-08-1132 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations63. Team Culture with psychologist Katrina HaleWhat do the dynamics of your surrogacy team look like and how can that be nurtured to ensure a healthy journey during and beyond birth. It is best to see this episode on our youtube channel to see the graph that Katrina has created to explain this concept. These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can also be found on our YouTube channel so you can see the photos that are described...2024-07-2848 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations62. A single, male Intended Parent (IP) - it’s not a journey for the timidSam is a trail blazer as one of the first men to become a single dad through surrogacy in Melbourne. His daughter, Hazel, was born in January 2024. It was traditional surrogacy, meaning his surrogate was also the egg donor. They were previously strangers but met through friends of friends during the first lockdown break of 2020 - now friends for life! These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can also be found on...2024-07-2233 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations60. It wasn’t worth it - I would not go back and have this experience againZoe birthed a little boy as a surrogate in Wollongong in October 2018 for her sister and brother in law who live in New Zealand. Unfortunately the relationship dissolved during the pregnancy and post birth. Surrogacy has had a huge impact on her life, contributing to the strains in her now separated marriage, and she wants to share her story so future surrogates and Intended Parents can be aware of the challenges.   These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website fo...2024-06-3025 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations59. When surrogacy did not work out the first (or second) timeIntended Parents, Dan and Stu who live in Sydney but are originally from Yorkshire, did find a surrogate and began the journey with her and her family. Their surrogacy team went through the counselling and legal process, however due to a change in her family situation, the surrogate was no longer able to continue.  Although it took a lot to put themselves back out there to look for another surrogate, Dan and Stu have learnt a lot about themselves and the process and want to share their story to help others. These podcasts were recorded a...2024-06-2427 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations58. It’s such an intimate experience - you need love and trustMenaka's SASS team is the first that we have supported from their introduction (or match) with their surrogate through to birth and now beyond for a year. Menaka and her husband, Simon, from the Gold Coast became parents to their daughter Isabelle in October 2023. Isabelle was carried by surrogate Nikita, who lives outside of Brisbane, who was previously a stranger and now a lifelong friend. It was a very long journey to parenthood with 7 years of IVF, myomectomy surgery, joining SASS in 2019 and 2 years later being introduced to Nikita and her family. Definitely a marathon not a sprint!  2024-06-1633 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations56. It’s a marathon - not a sprintJanna birthed a little boy as a surrogate in Adelaide in October 2023 for a couple who were previously strangers and are now life long friends. Janna and her team have not only created an extended modern family but have all supported many other IPs and surrogates in the SA and National community over the years. These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can also be found on our YouTube channel so you can s...2024-06-0242 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations55. Psychologist Narelle DickinsonThis episode features Psychologist Narelle Dickinson. At her practice, Lotus Health and Psychology, Narelle leads a team of expertly trained perinatal specialists to support people through pre-conception, pregnancy and into parenthood.  If you’d like to arrange your own session with Narelle, you can find her at Lotus Health and Psychology These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can also be found on our YouTube channel so you can...2024-05-2648 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations54. It’s a marathon - chip away at it every dayJay and his husband Mika from Melbourne became parents to their son Leonidas in August 2022. Their surrogate Kim, who lives in Adelaide, was previously a stranger and now a life long friend. Their egg donor, Sadie, is a family friend of both Jay and Mika.  These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can also be found on our YouTube channel so you can see the photos that are described in the recordings.2024-05-1941 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations52. (100th webinar!) Just do the next right thing - that’s all you can do (as Elsa would say 😉)Nikita's SASS team are the first that we have supported from their introduction (January 2021) through to birth and now beyond for a year. Nikita birthed as a surrogate in Brisbane, QLD in October 2023 for a couple who were initially strangers and are now life long friends. They had a little girl, Isabelle, and her parents are Menaka and Simon who live on the Gold Coast. These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They...2024-05-0531 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations51. Just keep swimmingBell and her husband Keiron from regional South Australia became parents to their son Emmett in November 2023. Emmett was carried by surrogate Halina, who was previously a stranger, and was also created using donor eggs from one of Bell’s friends. It was a very long journey to parenthood with 2 stillbirths and 13 miscarriages as a result of Antiphospholipid Syndrome which is an immune condition where the blood is too thick. A very determined mother! These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to...2024-04-2229 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations50. Inducing LactationGuests: Kelli, Trudy and Hannah Hear from 3 mothers through Australian surrogacy who induced lactation and were able to directly breastfeed their babies. We discussed: ❤️ What’s the name of the protocol / process you follow?🧡 When do you need to start taking meds/tablets?💛 What pump did you use?💚 How much should I expect to get each pump?💙 How often to pump?💜 Did you see a lactation consultant?🤎 And when baby is born…. Did you have enough milk?🤍 How long did you breastfeed for? These podcasts were recorded as part of the free...2024-04-1548 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations49. Do surrogates get paid?❗️ NO ❗️ Surrogates are not paid / compensated in Australia. We have our surrogacy and pregnancy related costs covered for by the Intended Parents (IPs). ❤️ Surrogacy in Australia is altruistic and is legal   🧡 Commercial surrogacy is illegal in Australia Check out the full episode show notes: https://www.surrogacyaustralia.org/podcast/episode-49-do-surrogates-get-paid Looking to find a surrogate in Australia? Consider joining SASS. Looking for an overview of surrogacy? Join us in a free, fortnightly Wednesday night webinar. Looking to chat with other IPs and surrogates in a c...2024-04-0703 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations48. The value of the connection of surrogacy is what I get out of itRachel, from Melbourne, birthed as a surrogate in Adelaide September 2022 for a couple who were strangers and now life long friends. Matt and Aldo are now dads to their son Ari and have embraced Rachel as part of their modern family. Rachel's story is also unique as she has not had children of her own before surrogacy. These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can also be found on our YouTube channel...2024-03-3143 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations47. There are fears on both sides - Embrace the vulnerabilitySam and his husband Sam from Coffs Harbour became parents to their son Charlie in September 2023. Allison, who also lives locally, was their surrogate and they knew her socially before starting their journey. Their egg donor, Claire, was previously work colleague of the other Sam and has been a part of their second family for many years already.You can hear from his surrogate, Allison, in episode 4. These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and...2024-03-2436 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations46. Seeing them as a family is why I did itAngela birthed as a surrogate in Tamworth in December 2019 for a couple who were friends of a friend and they connected through a facebook post. The parents, Casey and Andrew, live nearby with their first son Nate and surro bub Darcy. She is a single mum to four children of her own. These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can also be found on our YouTube channel so you can see the...2024-03-1726 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations45. Help us advocate for surrogacyA recap of our webinar titled 'Becoming an advocate for surrogacy in Australia'. If you’re keen to help us spread the word about surrogacy in Australia, regardless of what month/year you’re listening to this episode, please get in touch via email to volunteer your time.  anna@surrogacyaustralia.org Check out the full episode show notes: https://www.surrogacyaustralia.org/podcast/episode-45-help-us-advocate-for-surrogacy/ Looking to find a surrogate in Australia? Consider joining SASS. Looking for an overview of surrogacy? Join us in a free, fortnightly Wednesday night webin...2024-03-1004 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations44. You should be the pilot of your journey, not just the passengerHear from Dr Shadi Khashaba (IVF Specialist and dad himself through surrogacy) as he takes us through: ❤️ How are the eggs collected from a donor? 🧡 How are the embryos made and genetically tested? 💛 What tests will the surrogate need? 💚 How is a surrogate's menstrual cycle tracked prior to embryo transfer? 💙 Who is present at embryo transfer? 💜 Can a surrogate have a natural cycle instead of medicated? These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can also be fo...2024-02-2534 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations43. The more time and effort you invest, the easier it getsMira and her husband Daniel are parents through surrogacy - twice! Their first son, Thomas, was born in July 2021 in Canada with surrogate Nadine. Their second son, Angus, was born in September in 2023 with their surrogate Lisa. Lisa is Daniel's sister and the two families live in Sydney.  You can hear from her sister-in-law, Lisa, in episode 42.  These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can also be found on our Yo...2024-02-1829 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations42. I wish I’d spoken to a surrogate before going on my journeyLisa birthed as a surrogate in Sydney in September 2023 for her brother Daniel and his wife Mira. They had a little boy, Angus, who made a big brother out of Thomas who was born through surrogacy in Canada. Lisa's husband Vincent and two young daughters went on this journey together and have helped to expand a family.  You can hear from her sister-in-law, Mira, in episode 43.  These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and re...2024-02-1131 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations41. The Fourth TrimesterThe fourth trimester refers to the first three months after birth. This episode salutes one phenomenal resource which surrogacy teams should ALL use as their road map “Surrogate Post Birth Emotional Needs – A Guide for Intended Parents” by Psychologist Katrina Hale.  Pair this episode with episode 37 - The Third Trimester. Katrina Hale’s podcast on the Fourth Trimester in the Resources section of her website. Check out the full episode show notes: https://www.surrogacyaustralia.org/podcast/episode-41-the-fourth-trimester Looking to find a surrogate in Australia? Consider joining SASS. Loo...2024-02-0403 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations40. Don't assume there's a problem unless you're told there's a problemMeg and her partner, Matt, became parents to their daughter (Imogen) in September 2022. Imogen was carried by their surrogate who was a former work colleague of Meg's and they all live in Brisbane. Meg needed a surrogate after radiation therapy to her pelvis damaged her ovaries and uterus. These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can also be found on our YouTube channel so you can see the photos that are described in the...2024-01-2846 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations39. It’s gnarly - so many emotions going on post birthMerindah birthed as a surrogate on the Central Coast in November 2020 for a couple who were previously friends through her wife’s work. They had a little girl, Josie, and the two dads live in Sydney.  Merindah's wife Kelly can be heard (with 2 others) on an episode about Partners of Surrogates. Watch it on youtube or listen to it on episode 36.My own reflection piece about my postnatal depression can be found on my blog, Surrogacy Safari - it’s a written piece and a recorded video. These podcasts were recorded as part of the f...2024-01-2233 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations38. Drop the insecurities about your child being loved by your surrogateAndrew and Sam from Canberra became parents to their daughter Paige in December 2020 and son Cole in February 2023. Bonnie, who lives on the Sunshine Coast and knew Sam from high school, was their Traditional surrogate, meaning it was her egg. The births were total opposites with Paige needing to be in the NICU for 7 weeks but Cole was a homebirth. They have been advocates for legalising Traditional surrogacy in the ACT to be legally recognised as their children's parents. These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would...2024-01-1940 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations37. The Third TrimesterThe Third Trimester refers to the last 13 weeks of a 40 week pregnancy. This episode shares contacts and resources, and unpacks the idea (by Psychologist Sarah-Jayne Duryea) that "Babies are gestated in the mind as well as the body" Psychologists mentioned in this episode: Queensland - Narelle Dickinson at Lotus Health and Psychology New South Wales - Katrina Hale Victoria - Sarah-Jayne Duryea at HappyMinds Katrina Hale’s podcast in the Resources section of her website. Also by Katrina: Surrogacy birth planning with your hospital  S...2024-01-0404 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations36. Partners of SurrogatesGuests: Jayden, Kelly and Troy Hear from 3 people who supported their partners through Australian surrogacy. What were your first thoughts when she brought up the idea of being a surrogate? How did you find IPs? How did your children feel about their mum being a surrogate? How did your extended family react? How was the pregnancy? How was the birth and those first few weeks/months after? Surrogates usually feel a high after surrogacy by birthing a child for their friends - how did you feel? Do you still see the parents and the child? What would you...2023-12-3148 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations35. If you really believe you are meant to be a mother it can happen - it just might not be the way you thought it would beAngela and husband Sandro from Melbourne, became parents to their daughter (Milana) in November 2016. Milana was carried by surrogate Cindy, who was previously a stranger, and was also created using donor eggs from Melinda whom they met through Egg Donation Australia. It was a very long journey to parenthood with Angela birthing 2 stillbirths at 24 weeks and 2 miscarriages before a 4 year surrogacy journey with 5 embryo transfers to Cindy (one was a miscarriage at 8 weeks). A very determined surrogacy team! These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like...2023-12-2528 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations34. If I could be paid, I would consider being a surrogate againTalitha birthed as a surrogate on the Sunshine Coast on New Years Day 2023 for a couple who were previously friends. Talitha expressed milk for little Leo for 9 weeks, as well as direct feeding for the first 3 days until her milk came in. Their IPs, Sindia and Tom, are from Brisbane and Talitha and her husband, Barton, were friends with Dad Tom long before surrogacy. These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can...2023-12-1740 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations33. How does it feel to give away a baby?Amazing - is the answer from most surrogates. Hear the answers from 3 surrogates about their experiences. Community member, and dad-through-surrogacy, Tyson has worked hard to plan and edit an interview with 3 surrogates from Australia. ❤️Are you thinking about being a surrogate but have some concerns and want to hear from 'real' surrogates about what it's like? 💚Are you an Intended Parent (IP) and are wondering who these surrogate women are? 💜You want to share with your friends and family that you're learning about surrogacy but not sure how to? Then this...2023-12-1303 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations32. Do counselling (during pregnancy) - do more than you need toNathan and Troy, from Sydney, became parents to their son (Noah) in May 2023. They are actually a SASS team and came to us already self matched. Noah was carried by their surrogate Amy, who has been friends with Nathan since high school. They navigated a journey with some distance (Sydney to the Central Coast) and moved to stay closer to Amy and her family from a month before birth to 8 months post birth. Their embryos were made in Utah using an egg donor from a clinic in the US, so they have many experiences on which to draw insights. ...2023-12-1036 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations31. Postnatal depression as a surrogateLee birthed as a surrogate in Adelaide in June 2019. She carried for her cousin Hannah, who is a single mum, and they had a little girl, Imara. Lee has been an active member of the Adelaide surrogacy community, spoken at surrogacy seminars and has supported many of her surro sisters through their journeys.  You can hear from her cousin, Hannah, in episode 28.  These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can al...2023-12-0428 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations30. Is traditional surrogacy ‘riskier’ than gestational surrogacy?Featuring: Psychologist Narelle Dickinson We hear from Narelle as she explores the findings of her research: ❤️ Is TS (Traditional surrogacy) harder on the surrogacy relationship? 🧡 Are TS more/less supported by their IPs? 💛 How do TS/GS perceive the surrogate pregnancy compared to their own? 💚 Do TS have a harder time relinquishing the baby? 💙 Is there more conflict between the surrogate and IPs in TS? 💜 Are there greater mental health challenges in TS? Narelle is a Brisbane-based, ANZICA accredited, Clinical and Health Psychologist specialising in the perinatal field...2023-11-2643 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations29. What is GS and TS?GS = Gestational Surrogate (not the egg of the surrogate) TS = Traditional Surrogate (using the egg of the surrogate) Check out the full episode show notes: https://www.surrogacyaustralia.org/podcast/episode-29-what-is-gs-and-ts Looking to find a surrogate in Australia? Consider joining SASS. Looking for an overview of surrogacy? Join us in a free, fortnightly Wednesday night webinar. Looking to chat with other IPs and surrogates in a casual setting? Join us for a monthly Zoom catch up, one Friday of each month.  Looking to hear stories from p...2023-11-2203 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations28. Letting go as an IP - you’re not in controlHannah became a mum through surrogacy in June 2019. Her daughter, Imara, was carried and birthed by Lee, who is Hannah's cousin. Hannah is a midwife and was diagnosed with MRKH in her early 20s, which essentially means she was born without a uterus.     Hannah has been a Mentor with SASS, especially for single mums, and has supported many new Intended Parents at the beginning of their journey.At the time this podcast goes to air, November 2023, I can tell you that Hannah is due to be a mum for the second time in early 2024. She is expe...2023-11-1927 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations27. What if I did surrogacy for another couple and it’s worse?Jess and husband, Jayden, live in Adelaide with their 2 girls and she has birthed another 2 girls as a surrogate, Amalia in May 2020 and Oriana in July 2023. The dads, Baden and Nelson, previously strangers and now friends for life, live in QLD so their journey was long distance and in the peak of Covid the first time. Jess’ husband Jayden can be heard (with 2 others) on a webinar episode about Partners of Surrogates. On youtube and episode 36. These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to...2023-11-1227 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations26. Transparency, vulnerability and making sure you have family back upDane and Ben from Newcastle became parents to baby boy Rupert in January 2022. Rupert was carried and birthed by their surrogate Chelsea who was previously a stranger and who lived on the Gold Coast now NZ. Dane's sister is their egg donor so there is a whole village involved to create their son! These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can also be found on our YouTube channel so you can see...2023-11-0532 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations25. Are you jealous when another woman carries your baby?Each mum is different and it’s ok to have lots of different feelings. Mums through surrogacy may feel some initial jealousy, but they soon move past this and embrace the unique and beautiful way of bringing a child into this world. Engaging in some counselling with an experienced surrogacy counsellor is recommended to work through these feelings.  One mum through surrogacy, Elle, talks about her feelings of jealousy in podcast Episode 16. Check out the full episode show notes: https://www.surrogacyaustralia.org/podcast/episode-24-are-you-jealous-when-another-woman-carries-your-baby Looking to find a surrogate in Australia? Con...2023-11-0202 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations24. Don't be a D!ckDanni birthed as a surrogate in Adelaide in February 2021 for a couple who were initially strangers and are now life long friends. She had a little girl, Evie, for Sarah and Ben. Danni was initially a gestational surrogate for the couple but they moved to traditional surrogacy - meaning Danni is also the egg donor. Danni has been a SASS Surrogate Mentor, was the long term host of our Zoom monthly catch ups, and is a very dear friend of mine! These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If...2023-10-2939 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations23. How to find a surrogate (from 3 Intended Parents who did)On the topic of: How to find a surrogate (What to do while waiting to connect) Guests: Trudy, Alex and Carlo, Sue Hear from 3 sets of Intended Parents who have been active members of the Australian surrogacy community. * How do I find a surrogate from family/friends? * How do I find an unknown surrogate? * How long will it take to find a surrogate? * What does it mean to be 'active' in the community - online and in person? * How do I put myself out there without being fake? * How do you stay positive when others find a surrogate before...2023-10-2352 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations22. Make sure you have done your grievingLauryn and David are parents through surrogacy - TWICE! Their surrogate Sarah, from Canberra, was previously a stranger and now a life long friend. Sarah carried and birthed their daughters, Everlie, in April 2019 and Piper in November 2022. Lauryn needed surrogacy as she was born without a uterus, also known as MRKH syndrome. For their first journey, Lauryn and David lived in Victoria and for the sibling, they were in NSW. So they have a range of experience navigating surrogacy in 2 states. Their team became known for creating some hilarious parody videos during their journeys. I’ll put...2023-10-1538 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations21. What is a Surroversary?An anniversary for the surrogacy team to mark a significant event (that is not the birthday of surro bub). There are also other milestones which should be celebrated as a team, and I’ll unpack these in this episode. Check out the full episode show notes: https://www.surrogacyaustralia.org/podcast/episode-21-what-is-a-surroversary Looking to find a surrogate in Australia? Consider joining SASS. Looking for an overview of surrogacy? Join us in a free, fortnightly Wednesday night webinar. Looking to chat with other IPs and surrogates in a casual setting? Join us...2023-10-1005 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations20. Under promise and over deliverLeanne, a single mother of 3, birthed as a surrogate in July 2020 for two Intended Fathers who live in NSW. They were initially strangers, built a Surroship, navigated COVID, and welcomed a little girl into the world. Unfortunately the Surroship dissolved post birth. Leanne is proud of being a surrogate and how she and her children helped to create a family. They are now planning a new journey with two Intended Fathers who live in Melbourne. Leanne has been one of our Sydney Mentors within our SASS program and at the time of this podcast release, she is...2023-10-0847 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations19. This is your journey - make it one you’re proud to one day tell the world is your journeyJosh and husband Cam from Brisbane became parents to baby boy Colton in June 2023. Colton was carried and birthed by their surrogate Machelle who was previously a stranger. Machelle lives near Toowoomba so they’re 2 and a half hours apart, and the distance does feel enormous when their team experienced 2 miscarriages at 6 and 10 weeks, and then a scare when 26 weeks pregnant.  These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can also be found on...2023-10-0227 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations18. What if the relationship dissolves post-birth?This does happen sometimes because surrogacy is hard. Nobody wants this to happen. How can we try and prevent it? Check out the full episode show notes: https://www.surrogacyaustralia.org/podcast/episode-18-what-if-the-relationship-dissolves-post-birth Looking to find a surrogate in Australia? Consider joining SASS. Looking for an overview of surrogacy? Join us in a free, fortnightly Wednesday night webinar. Looking to chat with other IPs and surrogates in a casual setting? Join us for a monthly Zoom catch up, one Friday of each month.  Looking to hear stories from p...2023-09-2804 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations17. If I didn’t try to do this, I knew I would regret it foreverSarah birthed as a surrogate in Adelaide in March 2023 for a couple who were initially strangers and are now life long friends. She had a little boy, Alfie, for parents Elle and Luke and made a big brother for Sonny. Sarah met bridesmaid Elle while photographing a wedding while heavily pregnant and also has a son named Sonny.  These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can also be found on our YouTube c...2023-09-2426 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations16. Are these feelings normal? I feel like I should be carrying the babyElle and her husband, Luke, from Adelaide expanded their family with son (Alfie) in March 2023. Alfie was carried by Sarah, whom they met at a mutual friend's wedding. Elle also has Sonny who is 4, two still born babies - Taj and Lenny, and needed a surrogate due to her cervix not holding pregnancies to term. You can hear Sarah’s version of this story in the next episode. These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and re...2023-09-1734 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations15. Do you get to see the baby?Yes - is the answer from most surrogates. We become surrogates so we can continue to see the baby we birthed and also to continue the friendship with the Intended Parents (IPs).  Check out the full episode show notes: https://www.surrogacyaustralia.org/podcast/episode-15-do-you-get-to-see-the-baby Looking to find a surrogate in Australia? Consider joining SASS. Looking for an overview of surrogacy? Join us in a free, fortnightly Wednesday night webinar. Looking to chat with other IPs and surrogates in a casual setting? Join us for a monthly Zoom c...2023-09-1703 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations14. Love Languages with psychologist Katrina HaleThis episode features Psychologist Katrina Hale. She is committed to helping Intending Parents and Surrogates and their partners successfully navigate their surrogacy journey together. If you’d like to arrange your own session with Katrina, you can find her at katrinahalepsychology.com.au In this episode we explore how Love Languages look for surrogacy teams and how best to plan for them. The five love languages are five different ways of expressing and receiving love:  ❤️ words of affirmation 💛 quality time 💚 receiving gifts 💙 acts of service 2023-09-1058 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations12. Is surrogacy legal in Australia?Yes - but we do the altruistic model, not the commercial model. What are the differences between the two? Who is the legal parent at birth? What steps do you have to go through legally before getting pregnant? If you want to consider commercial overseas surrogacy, check out Growing Families. Previous episodes will explain How much surrogacy costs in Australia and How do I find a surrogate? Check out the full episode show notes: https://www.surrogacyaustralia.org/podcast/episode-12-is-surrogacy-legal-in-australia Looking to find a surrogate in Australia? Consider joining SASS.2023-08-3004 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations11. I needed to continuously, shamelessly flirt with these 2 gay menJemma, from north QLD, birthed as a surrogate in Brisbane in March 2023 for a couple who were initially strangers and are now life long friends. Despite her waters breaking 10 weeks early and an emergency C-section, she had a little boy, Rupert, at 32 weeks for two dads James and JimBob. Jemma is also an admin of EDA (Egg Donation Australia), has donated 13 times for 6 different families, with 7 babies born and 2 on the way! These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our...2023-08-2739 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations10. Don’t tell her what you think she wants to hearAdam and Angus from Sydney became parents to baby girl Vivian in October 2022. Vivian was carried and birthed by their surrogate Kate who was previously a stranger. Adam's sister is their egg donor and you may have seen their team featured on channel 9's show Big Miracles. You can hear Kate's version of their journey in episode 8. These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can also be found on our YouTube channel...2023-08-2049 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations9. How do I find a surrogate?🤷🏻‍♀️ This is the million dollar question isn't it? As Intended Parents (IPs) you will find a surrogate who is either known or unknown to you. Which one are you more likely to find? How many surrogate births are there in Australia each year? Check out the full episode show notes: https://www.surrogacyaustralia.org/podcast/episode-9-how-do-i-find-a-surrogate Looking to find a surrogate in Australia? Consider joining SASS. Looking for an overview of surrogacy? Join us in a free, fortnightly Wednesday night webinar. Looking to chat with other IPs and surrogates in a casual set...2023-08-1706 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations8. If you have to work too hard, something isn’t rightKate birthed as a surrogate in Sydney in October 2022 for a couple who were initially strangers and are now life long friends. She had a little girl, Vivian, for two dads Angus and Adam. You may have seen their team featured on channel 9's show Big Miracles and can hear Adam’s version of this journey in episode 10.  These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can also be found on our YouTube cha...2023-08-1336 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations7. Babies are gestated in the mind as well as the body.This episode features Psychologist Sarah-Jayne (SJ) Duryea. As well as a mum, through surrogacy, to two children herself, she is passionate about helping parents manage parenting trials and create secure attachments to their young children. If you’d like to arrange your own session with SJ, you can find her at happyminds.net.au These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can also be found on our YouTube channel so...2023-08-0657 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations6. How long does surrogacy take in Australia?Are you an Intended Parent (IP) considering surrogacy but not how many months or years it will take? Once you’ve found a surrogate, how long might it take until you have your baby in your arms? How long do the different stages of the journey take? Can any stages be sped up? Another valuable resource is the Surrogacy Process Chart created by village member and dad through surrogacy, Tyson. It will give you guidance on how long surrogacy might take, what each stage costs and what range to expect.  How much does surrogacy cost? Lis...2023-08-0205 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations4. Lessons from a 3 time surrogateAllison is a single mum living in Coffs Harbour, who birthed her third surrogate baby September 2022. Baby Charlie and his two dads also live locally, and the families knew each other socially before starting this journey.  Allison has previously birthed two boys as a gestational surrogate for other families in QLD, in 2013 and 2014, as well as helping 5 families through egg donation. She also helps run a support group for egg donors and surrogates on the NSW mid-north coast. These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend o...2023-07-2233 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations3. How much does surrogacy cost in Australia?Are you an Intended Parent (IP) considering surrogacy but not sure if you can afford it? What is the average amount and what is a reasonable range to expect? Which part of the journey will cost the most and how do the costs blow out? Another valuable resource is the Surrogacy Process Chart created by village member and dad through surrogacy, Tyson. It will give you guidance on how long surrogacy might take, what each stage costs and what range to expect.  Check out the full episode show notes: https://www.surrogacyaustralia.org/p...2023-07-2005 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations1. Get pyjama comfortable to find Intended Parents (IPs)Kirsty-Lea birthed as a surrogate in QLD in 2020 for a couple who were initially strangers. They surro dated, then completed the surrogacy paperwork before a failed embryo transfer and one where the embryo didn't survive being thawed out. They then juggled the intensity of hospital restrictions in 2020 to bring Anton into the world in November of that year.  These podcasts were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links. They can also be found on our YouTube ch...2023-07-0941 minSurrogacy Australia ConversationsSurrogacy Australia Conversations0. Trailer - Welcome to the villageJoin me (Anna McKie) in conversation with surrogates and parents who have navigated Australian altruistic surrogacy. I am a gestational surrogate, high school Math teacher and surrogacy educator working with Surrogacy Australia and running SASS (Surrogacy Australia’s Support Service).  These conversations were recorded as part of the free webinar series run by Surrogacy Australia. If you would like to attend one, head to our website for dates and registration links.  They can also be found on our YouTube channel so you can see the photos that are described in the recordings - because we all...2023-04-2702 minThe Happy Mama Movement with Amy Taylor-KabbazThe Happy Mama Movement with Amy Taylor-KabbazSurrogacy and the Gestation of a Parent with Anna McKieSometimes there are conversations which surprise you, fascinate and delight you and that send you a bit sideways in how they relate to your very own journey. The conversation between Amy and Anna McKie is exactly that. This is a conversation which allows tears, laughter, intrigue, lots of wow moments and a memorable and inspirational experience.Listen as Anna, a surrogate in Adelaide Australia, speak about:Giving back as a surrogate and what that means for the entire journey, including the 4th trimester, PND, friendships and beyond.Surrogacy laws and permissions within Australia.How it takes...2021-11-2447 min