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Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 426. Constitutional Crisis, Gayle In Space, Issa Rae's Acting, Shanti’s SpoilersIn this episode, Shanti has a Mother's Day photoshoot while Antoinette parties in Philadelphia. For politics, we discuss firings that may affect the nation's social security, and the normalization of abuse against black and brown bodies which is dulling the urgency for political activism and community support in regards to the recent unlawful deportations. We discuss the Democratic Party, the challenges of uniting diverse factions, and the delicate balance of free speech regarding anti-Zionism. For pop-culture we share our thoughts on the recent all women trip to space, debate about the R&B Mount Rushmore, and we review Issa...2025-04-211h 49Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 412. ICE, Measles, Buzbee, Diddy & Kanye’s Playing Games with Miss TinaFor this episode, Shanti questions Spike Lee's film making decisions while Antoinette battles an ongoing cold and develops a new obsession for a pop star. For politics, we discuss the many moving parts of politics at this moment, highlighting ICE deportations, Palestine, the influence of Andrew Tate, the implications of a measles outbreak, and discuss the recent shakeup at MSNBC with Joy Ann Reid. For pop culture, we talk about The Game and Kanye sliding in Ms. Tina's DM, Will Smith's newest release, Puffy's team against Buzbee, Teyana Taylor's collaboration with Victoria's Secret, and the secret to Halle Berry...2025-03-031h 17Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 409. ATWC Unscripted - The Crash Out ContinuesWhat happens when two best friends record a podcast inebriated? In this episode, Antoinette and Shanti crash out. Using the questions and prompts from our listeners, we follow a completely unscripted, unstructured episode. Together, we get carried away on topics such as what we would do if we swapped genders, which canceled artists we are still loyal to, the origins of our friendship, how we would hypothetically get prison sentences, and more unpopular opinions. Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive...2025-02-201h 09Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 408. EAGLES! Kendrick + Tricky Black History & Wyt Recessive GenesIn this episode Antoinette and Shanti celebrate the Eagles' Super Bowl victory! We discuss the team's performance, the strategic decisions made, and the cultural significance of the win. For our Black History highlight, Shanti shares the legacy of Dr. Frances Cress-Welsing. For politics, we discuss concerns about Trump's political maneuvers and legal troubles, emphasizing the importance of checks and balances. For pop culture, we share our thoughts on Kendrick Lamar's Super Bowl halftime performance, highlighting it's artistic depth and social commentary, Serena Williams and the redemption of Jonathan Majors. Join us...For Patreon, we offer a little...2025-02-171h 28Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 407. Wait, We Actually DO Want A 6ft, Big D, High-Value Man?In this episode, Shanti discovers Raising Caine's Chicken Fingers on a dark, cold night while Antoinette pays her condolences to Irv Gotti. We focus on our main topic after listening to very insightful listener voicemails about US farming and biracial coupling. Shanti poses the question: is modern mating in direct conflict with how we are biologically wired to select our partners? Is it wrong to want a man with height, muscles, and a lot of money or a woman with a fat ass, big breasts and a submissive nature if that is how our early ancestors choose their partners...2025-02-131h 09Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 406. President Musk, Onijah in Pakistan, The Grammys + Sports with ShantiIn this episode, Antoinette and Shanti share their recent experiences at New York theaters thanks to The Culture LP. For politics, we discuss the implications of Trump's statements on Gaza, Elon Musk's influence on the government, and the impact of USAID on global relations. For pop culture, we share our Super Bowl plans, Onijah in Pakistan, and the recent Grammys. We celebrate the achievements of artists like Doechii and Kendrick Lamar while expressing our opinions on the industry's dynamics and the significance of Beyonce's historic win for Album of the Year. Join us...To see "Liberation" at...2025-02-101h 48Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 404. Tabitha’s Tricky & Rocky’s Going to Jail A$APIn this episode, Shanti realizes she is the mother of an angsty teenager while Antoinette continues to celebrate the Eagles going to the Super Bowl. For Black History Month, Shanti highlights the complicated legacy of Lucy Parsons. This week we merge pop culture with politics and discuss the recent DEI rollback decisions made by major corporations. We share our thoughts about the reactions of major Black brands to the boycott such as Tabitha Brown and The Lip Bar. The conversation highlights the history that shaped Black folks' current economic disparity and the importance of community solidarity and necessary sacrifices...2025-02-031h 36Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 401. Navigating Love With A ChildIn this episode, Shanti talks about the recent girl's trip in ATL and her growing love for Bad Bunny while Antoinette considers how she will emotionally manage the next four years with Trump as President. After answering caller voicemails, we dive into our main topic. Shanti shares the conflicting roles of being both a mother and a lover. Together they work through her personal struggles with compartmentalization, communication, and a fear of failing her daughter. Antoinette creates a safe space, and offers advice to help invite more open dialogue and authenticity for Shanti to embody as both a mother...2025-01-231h 14Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsReprise. We’re 13 Years In & Still MarriedIn this episode, Shanti wrestles with her inner voice as revealed to her by her "morning pages" and Antoinette reflects on a lesson in faith from her beloved Godson. Together and with the help of psychotherapist Esther Perel, they explore the Paradox of Security vs. Freedom within their personal and working relationship. This brings Shanti to a sort of revelation about partnership. Join us.Watch the Esther Perel video referenced: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ODWcrvZhM94Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Join us on...2025-01-061h 17Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 395: Did-dy, Do IT? Jay Z x Luigi + RIP Nikki GiovanniHAPPY BIRTHDAY SHANTI!Cashapp $ShantiMayers * Make it rain for a real one *IG: https://www.instagram.com/thesablecollective/?hl=enWebsite: https://www.thesablecollective.com/Use discount code ATWC for 20% off the entire order for The Sable Collective https://www.thesablecollective.com/This week, Shanti has decided to crash out for her birthday while Antoinette drinks chia seed water. We touch on Donald Dump's recent shenanigans, Luigi Mangione' s arrest + Syria's new political climate. We then dive into Jay Z's sexual assault allegations & the legacy of...2024-12-161h 55Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 385. Trump, Beyonce, Kelly & Her Suit + Amber’s DelusionIn this week's episode, we discuss our Halloween (or lack thereof) as adults. Shanti reviews Tyler the Creator's new album Chromokopia and Antoinette shares a new documentary to watch. Together we delve into Trump's rally in Madison Square Garden and the implications of media bias. As election day approaches, Antoinette expresses optimism about voter turnout and the potential for change. For pop culture, Shanti is inspired by the recent break up of Zoe Kravitz and Channing Tatum and shares which celebrity couples she would wants to see split. We talk Beyonce, Kelly and Kelly's suit and Amber Rose. Finally...2024-11-041h 54Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 384. Hotline BlingIn this week's episode, Antoinette and Shanti explore the complexities of motherhood, the guilt associated with seeking joy, and the importance of vulnerability in parenting. We share a heartwarming story about a man who found purpose in helping dogs while recovering from addiction, and we discuss the challenges of supporting children through their identity explorations. This week is focused on listener voicemails. The conversation touches on listener feedback regarding political discussions and the importance of understanding diverse perspectives, friendship, playing it safe, and taking accountability.Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780...2024-10-3159 minAround The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 383: Slow Down & ListenFor this week's episode, Shanti returns from her trip to Mexico City, highlighting the vibrant culture and her desire to learn Spanish, while Antoinette opens up about her continued struggles with job searching and burnout. For pop culture, Antoinette feels frustrated by the imbalanced expectations of Kamala Harris versus Donald Trump and we are both delighted by the legal troubles of Rudy Giuliani. We dive into the harrowing case of Gisele Picole and how seemingly 'perfect' men can be involved in terrible acts. The discussion shifts to the digital age, addressing the roots of trolling and anti-blackness in online...2024-10-281h 26Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 382: Is it Care or Control?In this episode, Antoinette and Shanti explore the complexities of offering care that is masked control. Shanti guides us through three main topics: No one is completely selfless, why we control, & what's at risk if we lose control. The conversation challenges what we know to be care and invites us to reflect on our true intentions and reason for them. Join us. Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes00:00 Personal Updates2024-10-241h 00Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 380. Are We Addicted To Roller Coaster Relationships?In this episode, Shanti feels the pressure build as she prepares for high-school selections for her daughter while Antoinette deals with her pet parenthood challenges. Together, we listen to a voicemail that requests a bit more accountability from both of us beyond the "claim of victimhood". For our main topic, we discuss the addictive nature of tumultuous relationships and how childhood experiences shape adult relationships. We discuss the addictive nature of these relationships, the importance of self-awareness, and the role of therapy in breaking the cycle of toxicity. The conversation is tender for Shanti as it touches on the...2024-10-171h 23Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 369. Deliver Us From Lee Daniels & The DeliveranceIn this episode, Shanti and Antoinette discuss the tragic school shooting in Georgia including trying the 14-year-old shooter as an adult and a continued need for gun measures. The conversation then shifts to the new Netflix film 'The Deliverance' by Lee Daniels where Antoinette basically brings him up on charges. Does Lee Daniels deserve criticism for his continued use of stereotypical tropes lacking depth in the storytelling? Or are we just snobs? Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus...2024-09-091h 35Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsReprise: Do It Scared I GuessIn episode 281, Shanti reflects on being a mother to a teenage girl while Antoinette feels shame over a recent encounter with a dear friend. They listen and respond to some wide-ranging listener voicemails and finally deep dive into the main topic. Inspired by Shanti's internal strife and inability to see her own magnificence, we explore self-doubt and all the ways it both hinders and helps. Join us.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesSee...2024-07-111h 23Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsReprise: How Did You Learn To Love?While we are away, enjoy this reprise episode from 2019 in which Antoinette prepares herself for a white Thanksgiving while Shanti's only update is a new winter jacket. Together we share our love for Ryan Gosling and dive head-first into Shanti's recent disagreement with her mother about love. Provoked by the incident and inspired by Esther, we share our answers to Dr. Perel's questions about love beginning with "How did you learn to love"...Listen to Esther Perel's "Where Should We Begin?" here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/where-should-we-begin-with-esther-perel/id12379317982024-07-081h 48Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsReprise: Joe Biden: Lesser of Two Evils?Episode 306 premiered 11/16/23. It's interesting to hear where we are at vs where we are now. Shanti begins the wild ride of entering the Holiday season as a small business owner while Antoinette gracefully checks someone coming for Shanti out in these streets. Together, we dive into our current political climate discussing Biden's re-election and whether or not he truly qualifies as "the lesser of two evils". Join us.Contact Around the Way Curls:Follow us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCz6aYqKi7g-kZvFFWaxT2gQ Hotline: (215) 948-2780...2024-07-041h 44Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsReprise: Birkenstock, Bootcut, Big Belly BaeWe are on a brief hiatus. Please enjoy our reprise episode! In episode 293, the girls start off strong and steadily begin to unravel. To start, Shanti shares her hesitation about going to this year's Culture Con without Antoinette while Antoinette basks in pride over our Instagram's growing popularity as a meme account. Together, we very quickly lose control as Antoinette attempts to lead us into a serious conversation about self-love using excerpts from the book "You Are a Badass: How to Stop Doubting Your Greatness and Start Living an Awesome Life" while intoxicated, and Shanti is just S...2024-07-011h 17Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 359. The Check Engine Light Is OnIn this week's episode, Antoinette shares her excitement about receiving her recent Webby Awards while Shanti talks about a strange encounter with someone who wanted pictures of her feet. For the main topic, we discuss the break with Shanti away and its impact on us individually. We explore the difficult dynamics of our relationship and confess our need for outside help with the commitment to working on our friendship. Join us...Contact Around the Way Curls:Follow us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCz6aYqKi7g-kZvFFWaxT2gQ Hotline: (215) 948-2780Di...2024-06-1352 minAround The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 358. Rihanna's Haircare, Biden's Border, & Shanti's BackShanti is back from break and full of revelations pertaining to fruit, the kind of relationship she wants, fried chicken, & her athleticism. Antoinette gives us an update on Blue being at away camp & thanks all of the guest hosts for holding her down the past several weeks. For Politics as Usual they discuss various topics including Roc Nation's partnership with Philadelphia to provide scholarships, Gaza, Biden's executive order on the border, Hunter Biden's trial, and the blocking of the Fearless Fund by Edward Blum. For Pop Culture, they chat about Rihanna's launch of Fenty Hair...2024-06-101h 43Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 341. The Biology of DatingIn this week's episode, Shanti shares her discovery of a dating coach on TikTok which inspires her deep dive into the biology of falling in love for men and women. The conversation explores the different stages of love and attraction, highlighting the role of hormones in bonding and attachment. Lust, attraction, and attachment are discussed as distinct phases, each driven by specific chemicals in the brain. Can we make better choices about love if we understand our biology? Join us...VOTE FOR CAN"T AFFORD THERAPY FOR BEST INDIE PODCAST FOR THE WEBBY AWARDS! Vote now! Vote f...2024-04-1159 minAround The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 340. Emmanuel & Angel, Jerrod & Tyler, Conjoined Sisters & BeyonceIn this week's episode, Shanti asks for hair help from the community while Antoinette requests your votes for her podcast "Can't Afford Therapy" for The Webby Awards. For politics, we discuss the recent killing of 7 aid workers in Gaza by Israel's IDF, the selling of Bibles by Trump, and the new abortion law in Florida. For pop culture, we react to the premiere of Jerrod Carmichael's reality show and the complexities of relationships and unrequited love. The conversation takes a humorous turn when we discuss the viral conjoined twins and their intimate lives, and Jennifer Hudson stealing Cher's shine...2024-04-081h 36Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 338. Candace, Diddy… Good Times?Forgive us. Antoinette's has serious technical difficulties which is why her audio sounds a but... trickyIn this week's episode, Shanti tries to keep her head above water as she juggles motherhood and other responsibilities while Antoinette recovers from a medical procedure she was not expecting to be as painful as it was. For politics, we discuss Candace Owens by diving deep into her history and what influenced her controversial beliefs. We question the responsibility of Black media outlets when engaging with folks similar to Owens and whether or not she should be platformed at all if...2024-04-011h 53Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 333. Pray for Peace or Prove Your Point?In this week's episode, Shanti puts herself in harm's way for fried chicken while Antoinette does her best to talk Shanti off the ledge as she navigates her single life. After listening to voicemails, we delve into our main topic: We discuss the role our egos play when it comes to self-defense. When should we ignore untruths vs fighting back to set the record straight? How do we navigate the complexities of personal and public perceptions? Controlling our own narrative is everything right? But is that even possible? In the words of Marlo Stanfield, “My name is My Name”. Join...2024-03-141h 16Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 327. What’s My 5 Year Plan? To Have a Good DayIn this week's episode, Shanti has little to no updates while Antoinette attempts to get clear on her voting strategy for the coming presidential elections. For our main topic, Shanti invites us to consider possible 5,10, or 20-year life goals starting and ending with "have a good day". In this topic, we discuss the root causes of "bad days" and what control and responsibility we have as individuals to have a good day. Join us.Book referenced: Real Love "The Art of Mindful Connection" By Sharon SalzbergHotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/8X7d...2024-02-221h 26Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 321. Get Into Your GutsNEW MERCH JUST DROPPED! Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsIn this week's episode, Shanti aims high for a job at the airport while Antoinette resists being indoctrinated into the culture at her current job. For our main topic, Shanti tries to get to the root of her dissociation and is lovingly redirected by Antoinette to approach "the work" with compassion and without judgment. Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Join us on Discord or call in and leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948...2024-02-011h 22Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 317. We’re 13 Years In & Still MarriedIn this episode, Shanti wrestles with her inner voice as revealed to her by her "morning pages" and Antoinette reflects on a lesson in faith from her beloved Godson. Together and with the help of psychotherapist Esther Perel, they explore the Paradox of Security vs. Freedom within their personal and working relationship. This brings Shanti to a sort of revelation about partnership. Join us. Watch the Esther Perel video referenced:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ODWcrvZhM94 Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Join us o...2024-01-181h 17Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 316. Delulu: The Color Purple, Katt Williams, Jonathan Majors & CorettaAnd we are back! Thank you for everyone's patience and welcome arms after we return from a much-needed break. Shanti shares her recent trip to Savannah GA and her new favorite genre of television: white women cult leaders, while Antoinette shares her vacation escapades and her new obsession with perfumes. Together, we kick off 2024 jam-packed with topics as we attempt to keep up with all that has happened in pop culture while we were away starting with the iconic interview with Katt Williams, the terrible PR train wreck that is Jonathan Major's interview, the legacy of Coretta Scott King...2024-01-151h 55Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsReprise Ep 266. Are You Living A Creative Life?For this week's episode, Antoinette laments that her cat Blue may have disowned her while Shanti wants to know what the listeners' top 5 rapid questions would be to get to know a stranger.For the main topic, Shanti has recently been inspired by the work of authors Elizabeth Gilbert (Eat, Pray, Love + Big Magic) + Julia Cameron (The Artist's Way). Each author focuses on creativity and the transformation that can occur when we take up the courage to unblock, release fear and invite more creativity and curiosity into our lives. Join us.Would you like to...2023-12-281h 07Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 313. Sagittarius Season: Shanti’s BdayIn this week's episode, Shanti moves closer to her birthday and is feeling tender while Antoinette shares her excitement about the coming movie premiere of The Color Purple. Together we answer a caller's questions about maintaining friendship while doing business. For our main topic, Antoinette asks Shanti some birthday questions to help usher her into a reflective new year. Join us.Wanna bless shanti for her b day? Here's her cash app: $ShantiMayersMarvel Studios’ Black Panther in ConcertDecember 20 - December 23Experience the cultural phenomenon that is Ma...2023-12-141h 13Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsReprise: Ep 270. Koreans Fry The Best Chicken?Yall, We did not record the week of Thanksgiving and took a much needed break to be with friends, family and each other. Enjoy this reprise. We'll be back next week:) Shanti pours herself a drank (or 3) while Antoinette takes an edible before the chaos begins...The episode starts seriously with Antoinette sharing her frustrations about the men she is attracting (Shanti does her best to keep it together to console her). Things begin to unravel while listening to voicemails and the real shenanigans begin with us trying to figure out who knows the other...2023-11-271h 22Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 306. Joe Biden: Lesser of Two Evils?In this week's episode, Shanti begins the wild ride of entering the Holiday season as a small business owner while Antoinette gracefully checks someone coming for Shanti out in these streets. Together, we dive into our current political climate discussing Biden's re-election and whether or not he truly qualifies as "the lesser of two evils". Join us.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsDiscord https://discord.gg...2023-11-131h 44Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 305. Dating: DO Judge a Book By It’s Cover?In this week's episode, Shanti feels called by "The Void" but is pulled back by warm showers and daylight while Antoinette finally gives up on The Walking Dead and remembers the talent that is Kelly Price. In addition, Shanti goes on a tangent about often being misheard during sex which prompts Antoinette to give us some pointers for clitorial stimulation. For our main topic, Shanti invites us to judge a book by its cover. Maybe our first instincts and snap judgments are the immediate vibe checks we need to lead our decision-making. Join us...Contact...2023-11-091h 18Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 304. What’s Good With You, Yo?In this week's episode, Shanti sips wine while Antoinette takes an edible. Let the antics ensue! Shanti recaps her experience on Bet On Black while Antoinette's recent date leaves her questioning her relationship to luxury. Together we discuss The United States' rise in Anti-Semitism and lslamophobia, while offering further resources about BDS (Boycott, Divest + Sanction) of companies that profit from the occupation of Palestine. For pop culture we get into Britney Spear's memoir debut and Flava Flav's rendition of the National Anthem. Join us.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com2023-11-061h 35Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 295. The Relationship Attachment ModelThis week Shanti takes back all the things she's said about biracial men and teaches us about her new slang while Antoinette, due to her binging The Walking Dead realizes she is not ready for the zombie apocalypse. We listen and respond to some voicemails and finally Shanti introduces us to the Relationship Attachment Method (R.A.M.) which reveals some interesting aspects of our relationship. Join us.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch...2023-10-051h 09Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 293. Bootcut, Birkenstock, Big Belly, BaeIn this week's show, the girls start off strong and steadily begin to unravel. To start, Shanti shares her hesitation about going to this year's Culture Con without Antoinette while Antoinette basks in pride over our Instagram's growing popularity as a meme account. Together, we very quickly lose control as Antoinette attempts to lead us into a serious conversation about self-love using excerpts from the book "You Are a Badass: How to Stop Doubting Your Greatness and Start Living an Awesome Life" while intoxicated, and Shanti is just Shanti. Join us...Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-27802023-09-281h 17Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 286. Why is Miguel Hanging By Hooks?In this week's episode, Shanti returns and decides that she is ready to move while Antoinette feels all the feelings. Together we talk about Clarence Thomas' withholding of more financial information, Shanti's take on the car wreck that is "And Just Like That" and explore the polars of pleasure and pain inspired by Miguel's recent performance suspended from hooks.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collections2023-09-041h 20Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 283. What is Your Enough?This week, Shanti gets real when it comes to whether or not women especially single mothers can really have "it all while Antoinette grapples with the anxiety of going back to church. Together, they listen and respond to some really thoughtful and poignant voicemails, and then, inspired by a video on baboons, Antoinette takes us down a rabbit hole of hierarchy, social status, and inequity pondering if it's all just a part of our animalistic nature. Join usContact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www...2023-08-241h 10Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 281. Do It Scared I GuessThis week, Shanti reflects on being a mother to a teenage girl while Antoinette feels shame over a recent encounter with a dear friend. They listen and respond to some wide-ranging listener voicemails and finally deep dive into the main topic. Inspired by Shanti's internal strife and inability to see her own magnificence, we explore self-doubt and all the ways it both hinders and helps. Join us.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodesShop ATWC Merch: https...2023-08-171h 23Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 279. How Do You Want To Be Remembered?Due to personal matters, we were not able to use our recording equipment so the audio is not ideal but the content is there.This week, Shanti apologizes to Antoinette for coming at her for one of her VERY unpopular opinions while Antoinette responds to a voicemail from our new favorite Floridian. Finally, as a result of their recent loss, the girls reflect on their fears and feelings about what happens after death. It's a hard conversation but an important one. Join us.Contact Us:Hotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com2023-08-101h 18Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsREPRISE: Time - The Most Valuable Currency ft. BlackDue to unforeseen circumstances, we were not able to air a new episode this week. Enjoy this reprise.In this episode, Shanti is away and Antoinette is joined by one of her nearest and dearest friends...photographer, musician, multimedia artist extraordinaire, and overall brilliant being "Black" aka @thnwblk_ on IG. Together, they weigh in on a few interesting listener calls (of which both have gripes to pick with Antoinette) and discuss the concept of time. How do we utilize it? What is its value? Is it even real? What role does it play in how we govern and...2023-07-271h 33Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 272. All You Had to Do Was Be Quiet, DariusIn this week's episode, Shanti explores NYC and begins to imagine living a life there while Antoinette continues to float in her Disney Princess Divine Feminine energy, finding joy and pleasure in her domestic duties.For politics, Antoinette catches us up on the "Supreme" Court's recent rulings on Affirmative Action and LGBTQIA rights..Together, we discuss the delusions of Darrius in his response to Keke Palmer + Usher as well as the recent rants of India Irie on Megan Thee Stallion and Janelle Monae. Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like...2023-07-101h 38Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 271. Solo Shanti & The Disney Porcelain PrincessWe are back! To begin we share updates on our lives this past month. Shanti shares her new relationship status, takes an art class and awaits for summer to actually begin. Meanwhile, Antoinette realizes the power of flirting like a Disney Princess and recounts a fight in her hot yoga class. Together we discuss the downfall of Russel Simmons, the drama of Queer Ultimatum and listen to caller voicemails. Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Join us on Discord or call in and leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948...2023-07-061h 25Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsREPRISE: Ep 223. Did an Edible Change My Life?Gentle Reminder, we are taking a two-week break to rest. In the meantime enjoy some favorites from the catalog. In this episode, Shanti discusses the wonderful world of micro-dosing (shoutout to @Kimbology) while Antoinette explores the idea of having a sponsor. Together, the ladies discuss Spotify-wrapped reveals, World Cup controversies, the Defense for Marriage Act shortcomings, the delusion of Jennifer Lyn Lopez Affleck, and how men will embarrass you unprovoked. Lastly, Antoinette may or may not have had an edible during this episode. Join us. You are invited to our first Town Hall on our...2023-06-1957 minAround The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 270. Koreans Fry The Best Chicken?This is our last episode before we go on a 2-week hiatus and we intend to go out with a bang! Shanti pours herself a drank (or 3) while Antoinette takes an edible before the chaos begins... The episode starts seriously with Antoinette sharing her frustrations about the men she is attracting (Shanti does her best to keep it together to console her). Things begin to unravel while listening to voicemails and the real shenanigans begin with us trying to figure out who knows the other better. We end with a deep discussion on which...2023-06-151h 22Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 269. It's Giving Jail...In this week's episode, Shanti returns after completing The Roots Picnic Marketplace in Philly feeling thankful and proud. Antoinette shares her own experience at the festival with stories of her appreciation of Usher, Jazmine, Armani, being high, and catching a potential suitor red-handed. Together, we discuss the origins of Pride month, Trump's most recent indictment, Dr. Cornel West running for President, wildfires, and Kelis dating Bill Murray. Does Antoinette recant her infamous opinion about Usher + JT in a Verzuz?? Does Shanti think Bill Murray is a hot catch!? Join us...Hotline: (215) 948-2780Discord: https://discord.gg/6X4...2023-06-121h 35Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 266. Are You Living A Creative Life?For this week's episode, Antoinette laments that her cat Blue may have disowned her while Shanti wants to know what the listeners' top 5 rapid questions would be to get to know a stranger.For the main topic, Shanti has recently been inspired by the work of authors Elizabeth Gilbert (Eat, Pray, Love + Big Magic) + Julia Cameron (The Artist's Way). Each author focuses on creativity and the transformation that can occur when we take up the courage to unblock, release fear and invite more creativity and curiosity into our lives. Join us. Would you like to...2023-06-011h 07Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 265. The Dangers of Derrick Jaxn & Ron Disney DeSantisThis week, Shanti preps for The Roots Picnic and feels encouraged while Antoinette is consumed by the demands of home & aging parents. Still, Antoinette gives us a detailed rundown on the policies and political platform of Ron DeSantis and fails miserably at remaining bipartisan. Finally, the girls discuss Johnathan Majors dating Megan Good, the complicated legacy of Jim Brown, and DaNaia Jaxn's (former wife of Derrick Jaxn) recent interview. Join Us. Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Join us on Discord or call in and leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-27802023-05-291h 36Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 263. Janelle Monae Makes Us Project Onto HerWe're back baby! Shanti teaches us about Jewish matchmaking while Antoinette seeks refuge from her many stressors in girl's nights with Jade, Mandii, Fran, & Cristle. Shanti fills us in on some white excellence and Antoinette breaks down Trump's latest antics on CNN's Townhall. Finally, we give yall some pop culture and cover Beyonce's opening tour weekend for Renaissance, Kim K paying restitution fees for mothers on Mother's Day, & finally Janelle Monae's new song and video Lipstick Lover. Join us. Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Join us on Discord or call...2023-05-221h 23Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsREPRISE: Ep 204. Everyone Needs TouchIn this episode, Shanti commits herself to a white woman regimen while Antoinette shares the tragic aftermath of appearing on "The Pineapple Show". Together, we respond to a caller who thinks Shanti's "brown privilege card" should be revoked, while another caller accuses us of aging ourselves. For our main topic, we discuss touch deprivation, our personal experience with it, & the general effects it has on the human brain and psyche. How do we cope? How do we reconnect? How do we ask for touch? Once again we have more questions than answers. Join us...Do you have a...2023-05-181h 08Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 257. Shanti's Back & Ant is HighIn this week's episode, Upon Shanti's return, Antoinette eats an edible, resulting in an hour & 14 mins of ATWC chaos. Shanti celebrates "Beef" and Bjork while Antoinette manages the good and bad of being overwhelmed. Together, we talk about our upcoming hotep summer, some politics as usual (including the shooting of Ralph Yarl) & the continuing fall of Jonathan Majors. Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus content...2023-04-241h 14Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 255. Pandering, Group Think, & the Hypocrisy of it All. Ft Mandii BThis week, filling in for Shanti is the pod Gawd, Mandii B. Together, Mandii, and Antoinette make fun of her social life while also holding her accountable for creating the vibe she wants. They discuss cancel culture in response to Daniel Caeser's new album + give their takes on Cardi B vs the Dalai Lama. Antoinette also gets Mandii to deep dive into politics while dissecting what Fox News calls Justin Pearson's persona, "political cosplay". Join Us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!2023-04-171h 25Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 245. Should Chris Get Slapped Again?Antoinette returns for this week's episode! Shanti realizes that dating herself is exhausting and looks to create more simple experiences while Antoinette found herself in a precarious situation in the Bronx last weekend. Together, we discuss the monumental lawsuit against Fox News, decide if Micheal B. Jordan is really corny, and share our thoughts on Chris Rock's recent Netflix special. Does he deserve to get molly-whopped again? Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www...2023-03-131h 30Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 235. 4,094 Ancestors Before YouThis week, Shanti fully embraces her nickname, Shalom Shanti by becoming a yogi & expresses gratitude to a listener for her help in restoring The Sable Collective's IG. Antoinette gushes over the Eagles going to the Superbowl and shares some of the many lessons she is learning from working more closely with her girl, Mandii B. Together, they ring in Black History Month right by examining the SYSTEM that is white supremacy, expressing gratitude for the ancestors, and imagining the faith, love, & liberation that no system could rob them of. Join us for a very special episode of Around the Way...2023-02-061h 28Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 233. No Good News*Note* This episode was recorded before the video release of Tyre Nichol's' brutal murder at the hands of Memphis police.In this week's episode, Shanti manages the emotional and collateral damage of having her business' Instagram account stolen from her while Antoinette celebrates the release of her newest podcast "Can't Afford Therapy". Together, we agree that Bob Ross was good at stroking more than just a paintbrush! We disagree on the significance of Beyonce's recent performance in Dubai, shake our heads at Biden's growing stack of confiscated confidential papers, and the consequences of Florida's governor's "Anti-Woke" crusades. Join...2023-01-301h 23Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 232: Are Rewards Ruining Us?In this week's episode, Shanti stands by her mac and cheese and finds joy in headphones and Homegoods while Antoinette shares her shock at Black women getting facial cosmetic surgery. Together, we listen to callers' very different responses to the same episode about marriage and longevity. For our main topic, Antoinette finds that only a white man, Dr. Andrew Huberman holds the keys to her motivation. Inspired by his teachings, she offers his advice on how to start the day off "right" and stay motivated for a lifetime. Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd...2023-01-2659 minAround The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 229. A White Woman Reads Me To SleepHappy MLK DAY! We return to the New Year with updates about Shanti going back to school while Antoinette recovers from a disappointing new year & haircut. Together, we share hot new music, TV shows, and Antoinette's newest ritual of having white women read to her at night. Of course, we catch up on politics & Antoinette goes IN on the GOP/Speaker of the House chaos while finally getting into pop culture discussing Megan Thee Stallion, Diddy's new baby, and Jerrod Carmichael & The Golden Globes wins. Join us!Do you have a question or comment you'd like to...2023-01-161h 07Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 223. Did an Edible Change My Life?In this episode, Shanti discusses the wonderful world of micro-dosing (shoutout to @Kimbology) while Antoinette explores the idea of having a sponsor. Together, the ladies discuss Spotify-wrapped reveals, World Cup controversies, the Defense for Marriage Act shortcomings, the delusion of Jennifer Lyn Lopez Affleck, and how men will embarrass you unprovoked. Lastly, Antoinette may or may not have had an edible during this episode. Join us. Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls...2022-12-0557 minAround The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 221. Time: The Most Valuable Currency ft. BlackIn this episode, Shanti is away and Antoinette is joined by one of her nearest and dearest friends...photographer, musician, multimedia artist extraordinaire, and overall brilliant being "Black" aka @thnwblk_ on IG. Together, they weigh in on a few interesting listener calls (of which both have gripes to pick with Antoinette) and discuss the concept of time. How do we utilize it? What is its value? Is it even real? What role does it play in how we govern and navigate our lives? Join us.Follow BlackIG: @THNWBLK_Website: https://thnwblk.com/ 2022-11-281h 33Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 219. Projection Is a ThingIn episode 219, Shanti discusses her preparation for The Sable Collective's busy season while Antoinette fills us in on an unexpected stay in Philly. Shanti reveals another white crush and questions whether or not she is projecting on Jonathan Majors. Together, they discuss Hershel Walker's senate run, Trump's 2024 presidential campaign, impending WWIII, Dave Chappelle's SNL monologue, & the constant disrespect Kelly Rowland endures due to her proximity to Beyonce. Join UsDo you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www...2022-11-211h 26Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 218. Anxious Parenting ft. Dr. Isha MetzgerIn the first half of the episode, Antoinette and Shanti listen to Around The Way Curl community voicemails. Topics span from rape allegations, the continued spotlight on Antisemitism, and projecting insecurities onto Antoinette. For our main topic, Shanti sits with expert Dr. Isha Metzger. Together they discuss parenting anxious children and the ways in which we can disrupt patterns of anxiety and harm. Join us.To learn more about our guest Dr. Isha Metzger, go to https://www.drishametzger.com/ and to explore greater resources on Black children and anxiety go to https://www.drishametzger.com/care-package-for-racial-healing2022-11-171h 18Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 214. Do I Still Know How To Ride?In this episode, Shanti shares her newest kink while Antoinette shares a recent night of solo riding to make sure she ain't lose her capabilities. We enjoy listener call-ins about recovering from abuse, doing hard things, and general kikis. For our main topic, Antoinette realizes that radical honesty may be required in all areas of life including the bedroom. Join us as we navigate how to talk about unfulfilling sex, unrequited love, and loving up on small penises. Join us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!2022-11-031h 01Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 211. Catching Eyes from White GuysIn this week's episode Shanti disrupts her routine with walks in the woods while catching eyes from white guys. Antoinette shares she is seeking out both adventure and rest for the coming New Year while also clarifying her position to a concerned listener over Antoinette's recent comments about Lizzo. Together we talk politics and who is really responsible for inflation and the recent controversial defacing of Van Gogh's "Sunflower" by Environmental Activists in London. Was it worth it? Join us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!2022-10-241h 12Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 210. Personal New YearIn this week's episode, we comment on listener voicemails that range from seeking pleasure from porn to unconventional marriages. After, we discuss Antoinette's recent birthday celebration and explore how she feels now that the festivities have passed. For our main topic, Shanti composed a list of "Birthday Reflections" for Antoinette to ponder as she closes a chapter and enters a Personal New Year. Join us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for...2022-10-2051 minAround The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 209. Blink Twice If You Need HelpIn this episode, Shanti and Antoinette reflect on their weekend together. We big up Black Fathers, and share multiple hot takes on Sade, Lizzo, and Jennifer Hudson. Antoinette deep dives into the women-led uprising in Iran and more politics as usual while Shanti laments on the current state of women in hip hop. Join us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www...2022-10-181h 19Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 205. Rachel Dolezal Got a Body OdyIn this episode, Shanti laments after the realization that Philly is wildly segregated while Antoinette's plants teach her yet another life lesson. Together, they examine the authenticity of governments like Cuba's uplifting LGBTQIA families and brands such as M&Ms deep diving into DE&I work. Finally, we discuss Netflix's ethical or unethical approach to the new Jeffrey Dahmer show, transracial pioneer Rachel Dolezal seemingly being forced into Only Fans and Shanti capes for City's Girls' Caresha, and her dreams of becoming the next "Black Oprah" (which makes no sense). Join Us. Do you have a question or...2022-10-031h 22Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 204. Everyone Needs TouchIn this episode, Shanti commits herself to a white woman regimen while Antoinette shares the tragic aftermath of appearing on "The Pineapple Show". Together, we respond to a caller who thinks Shanti's "brown privilege card" should be revoked, while another caller accuses us of aging ourselves. For our main topic, we discuss touch deprivation, our personal experience with it, & the general effects it has on the human brain and psyche. How do we cope? How do we reconnect? How do we ask for touch? Once again we have more questions than answers. Join us...Do you have a...2022-09-291h 08Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 203. Desirability Won't Save Us.In this week's episode, Shanti asks the community to rally around a dear friend in need while Antoinette tires from hearing herself talk after recording 3 podcasts in 1 week! Together, we kiki about Atlanta, GOT, and A Different World. For politics we offer resources for Puerto Rico, discuss the crisis in Iran and beg the question: Is there such thing as an equitable billionaire? For pop culture, we dive into the Ime Udoka scandal and highlight some talking points we feel are getting lost in the conversation. Join us.Ways to support Shanti's friend in need:Venmo = BkindGZ 2022-09-261h 27Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 193. Do We Want To Vibrate Higher?In this "Kiki" episode Antoinette anticipates the arrival of her mom for the weekend while Shanti sits with the fact that she now has a 12 year old. Together we discuss the upsurge of lonely men, the hurt inner child of Irv Gotti, and our concern for Chrisean. For politics, Antoinette defends her boo Biden and all his recent accomplishments in the White House. Join us...Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for...2022-08-151h 24Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 188. Everything is Pink SauceIn this episode, Shanti prepares for JOJO to go back to school while Antoinette weighs her influencing options. Together, we catapult into pop culture - discussing Monique reuniting with both Lee Daniels and Netflix, Antoinette shares another unpopular opinion regarding the church, & Shanti has empathy for the infamous "Pink Sauce lady". Finally, we land on climate change and the end of the world. Join us.Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for...2022-07-281h 37Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 187. Are You In A Co-Dependent Friendship?In this "meat and potatoes" episode Shanti brings to the table her recent inspirations from the book "Conscious Loving - The Journey to Co-Commitment". In learning the difference between co-commitment and codependency, Antoinette and Shanti discuss the co-dependent patterns in their friendship and re-commit to creating a more dynamic, honest relationship. Join us.Book Reference = Conscious Loving - The Journey to Co-Commitment by Gay Hendricks, Ph.D and Kathlyn Hendricks, Ph.D Do you have a question or comment you'd like to share with us? Call in! Leave a message!Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls...2022-07-2558 minAround The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 183. Justin vs Usher, Jay vs Michael, Roe vs WadeSomehow the theme of this episode was verzuz. The girls discuss the train wreck that was Ray J, Bobby V, Pleasure P, Sammie, Omarion, and Mario & Shanti masterfully explain why there are the way they are. Antoinette is full of unpopular opinions on who would win between Usher and JT. Shanti then tries to misconstrue Ant's words during her attempt to praise the consistent brilliance that is Jay-Z by comparing him to Michael Jackson. Finally, we discuss the overturning of Roe V. Wade & Antoniette walks us through a political science course for dummies, from dummies. Join us. Link...2022-06-302h 05Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 179. Blacks Only, Biracial Baes + 21 QuestionsThis week Shanti and Antoinette are back in the studio. The girls lament over their white moms never tasting the wonder that is oxtail and gravy. Antoinette invites white to try while Shanti feels they should miss out. They acknowledge the importance of having an older Black woman in your life & who, if anyone, could be their biracial baes. Finally, in true Libra fashion, Antoinette wants to get vulnerable, so they answer invasive questions posed by Esther Perel's card game, "Where Should We Begin". As they answer, they reveal parts of themselves they should break up with, a fantasy of...2022-06-021h 28Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 175. Friends with ExesIn episode 175, Shanti and Antoinette reconnect after nearly a week and some change of no contact. Shanti argues Black Chyna is a true (new-age) revolutionary, while Antoinette argues Pamala Anderson was Kim K before Kim K. Oh, we also talk China's inhumane covid protocols, Joey's quest for student loan forgiveness, performance artist, Marina Abramovic, and how to approach being friends with an ex. Join us.Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes Shop ATWC Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsAudio Credit: Deborah Cox...2022-05-041h 52Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 174. Tight GripIn this week's episode, Shanti recovers from being sick after a weekend running these streets, while Antoinette reflects on the best and worst of being bi-racial during Easter dinner. Together we recap our weekend celebrations, ASAP Rocky's recent arrest, white folks restricting math books, and the unreasonable desire to learn money won't make us happen the hard way - by having lots of money. For our main topic, Shanti is inspired by the parental choices of Dwayne Wade + Gabrielle Union and asks us if we have a tight grip on the many relationships we have in our lives. What happens...2022-04-211h 39Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 170. Do You Really Have the Best P*ssy in the World?For episode 170, Shanti & Antoinette reflect on Jazmine's show, feeling like hell after staying out passed a certain hour & having a case of the "uglies". For pop culture, Shanti says goodbye to Maury while Antoinette reveals she didn't watch his show much but Ricky Lake was her girl, and together they discuss the unfortunate rise & fall of Wendy Williams. Shanti leads us through, "Politics as Usual" offering an interesting comparison to Ukraine and Palestine. And finally, for our main topic, we talk about whether or not it is even possible to have "the best p*ssy in the world." What are...2022-03-241h 36Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 133. Who Are You Performing For?Shanti finally watched season 4 of The Wire. As a result, she is questioning all things related to life. Antoinette was riding around and getting it in NYC & feeling free. Together, they talk politics (Shanti leads on this!), Tessa Thompson's polyamory/love triangle, who JLo should date next, and whether or not we are all in a constant state of performance because the world is our stage. Join us.Shop Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsGeneral Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurls2021-06-101h 44Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 131. When "Let Me Cater To You" Goes WrongIn ep 13, we celebrate or merch release! Antoinette is coming to Philly while Shanti is headed to the school of "unschooling". Shanti doesn't really know Drake, respect J Cole, or watch verzuz & Antoinette is appalled. For our main, topic we go full-on problematic & discuss how our most toxic relationships brought out the domestic diva in both of us. Sidebar* Antoinette apparently washes her man's feet among other things... What happens when "catering to you" goes wrong? Join Us.Shop Merch: https://www.aroundthewaycurls.com/collectionsGeneral Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 ...2021-05-271h 41Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 130.Comparison is the Thief of JoyShanti has a major meltdown & JoJo calls her dramatic while Antoinette calls her a hater. Antoinette also grapples with the notion she may or may not be a peasant. Chrissy Teigan is wildin. We don't care about Nicki Minaj. Merch finally drops next week. Capitalism is ruining the world but cash still rules everything around us. Join us.General Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurlsPurchase Cardi B's Up Here : https://music.apple.com/us/album/up/1552255107?i=1552255281See Privacy Policy at...2021-05-201h 49Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 129. Love is Just a FeelingShanti walked into a glass door. Antoinette prepares for vax #2. They argue over Allen Iverson (again) and interestingly enough, Adam Levine. Shanti apparently hates Adam Levine. Lists of "white boy who could get it" were made. Can you guess Shanti's top-pick? And finally, we talk Xscape and SWV, politics as usual, and whether or not love is just a feeling. Join us.General Inquiries: Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurls Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.com/aroundthewaycurlsPurchase Marron 5's Love Somebody here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/love-somebody/1440808308...2021-05-131h 56Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 115. I Feel Most In Love With Myself When....This week Shanti reminisces on jumping rope and addresses her poverty mindset, while Antoinette shares her dismay with everyone looking the same and her new discovery that healthy skin is life. We also clarify the rules + intent of our coming V-day speed dating event. For our main topic, we attempt to answer the prompt posed by Warsan Shire: "Document the moments you feel most in love with yourself - what you're wearing, who you're around, what you're doing. Recreate + repeat." Join us. To participate in Speed Dating with Antoinette email aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com subject “V DAY”F...2021-01-281h 36Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 114. Lovecraft Country SPOILER ALERT!!In this week's episode, to Shanti's annoyance, Antoinette discovers Jonathan Majors. We spend a healthy amount of time discussing sex with him and how he is the prototype. We also announce Antoinette has agreed to participate in virtual speed dating moderated by Shanti. We also invite listeners looking for an opportunity to flex their social media skills to hit us up. For our main topic, we enter into an in-depth discussion and share our reactions to the HBO series, "Love Craft Country". Join usSPOILER ALERT: If you have not watched Lovecraft Country stop listening after the break. 2021-01-212h 00Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 112. F*ck Them GoalsOn our first episode of 2021 Antoinette's SD card fails her, so we have to resort to using audio from Zoom. (It's so upsetting). We get back into the swing of things by discussing Antoinette's money habits, Shanti believing she is British and the Pixar movie "Soul". For our main topic, we discuss Goals vs Systems and which is more important while trying to achieve some of these New year resolutions. Join us. Contact Us: IG: @aroundthewaycurlsHotline: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comBuy J Cole's Motiv8 here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/motiv8/1373858456...2021-01-071h 22Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 109. Dealing with Addiction ft. Ben JadakaIn episode 109. Shanti wasn't able to join us this week but guest favorite, Ben Jadaka filled in for her. Together, we discuss Antoinette reconnecting with her former lover and why Shanti is great. Finally, we talk about our experiences dealing with loved ones who suffer from addiction. Join us. Contact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsPhone: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsBuy God's Property's More than I Can Bear here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/more-than-i-can-bear/423931465?i=4239314779See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California...2020-12-171h 41Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 108. Are You Betraying Yourself?In this episode, Antoinette & Shanti discuss oral hygiene, All About the Benjamins being one of the greatest songs of all time, a potential Lil Kim vs Foxy Brown verzuz, and weight in on propaganda meets fear re: vaccinations. For our main topic, Shanti discusses her recent revelation after she ignored her gut feeling and betrayed herself. Join us.Follow @asiliglamcooks Purchase Brown Girl Spice here: https://shopbrowngirlspice.com Contact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsPhone: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsBuy Lil Kim's Queen B@#$...2020-12-101h 44Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 99. The Reformed F*ck Boy ft. Dennis AllenFor updates this week, Antoinette shares her most recent injury + the revelations that came with it, while Shanti makes plans to head to the country after her trip to Ithaca NY. Together, we sit down with Antoinette's Brother in Law & special guest Dennis Allen to discuss his evolution from being a former fuck boy to a more conscious, loving, and intentional man in addition to the ways in which he is choosing to redefine his manhood as a Black man and husband daily. Join us.Shop Love Lavender Shea & use code: Around for 15% off!https://www...2020-10-081h 53Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 86. We're BackIn episode 86, return after a one-week hiatus to talk about everything under the sun including Antoinette feeling fragmented and slightly canceled in some internet circles while Shanti gives us classic, supportive, hilarious, & problematic Shanti but also works through some challenging relationship and business matters with Antoinette. Join us. For video footage of this episode and other exclusive content join our Patreon here: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsContact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsCall us: (215) 948-2780Email us: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comBuy Jadakiss's We Gonna Make It ft. Styles P here: https://music.apple...2020-07-021h 43Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 82. Disassociation Is A ThingIn episode 81, Shanti takes on Politics as Usual and admits she may need herbs to control her crazy. Antoinette shares new love for the trampoline and why music is her ultimate healer. Together, we explore a fictitious world where Malcolm X is alive and well. Lastly, Shanti stresses over HBO’s Euphoria and Antoinette acknowledges either one of them could have ended up as crackheads. Join us.Join Patreon for exclusive content here: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsNext Pleasure Activism Chapter is: Part 2 of Pleasure After Childhood Sexual Abuse page 297Purchase Bobby Womack's Fly Me...2020-05-281h 43Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 79. White People Won’t Save You (Neither Will Squirting)In episode 79. we return with many realizations: Shanti is an Instagram shoe hoe, Antoinette realizes we are all entitled S.O.Bs, Karen will remain as the go-to identifier for white women and neither squirting, the government (Barack Obama specifically in Shanti's opinion) nor white people will save you. But we know what will… Join us for another episode.White People Won’t Save You is from Terrance Nance's work of art. Check it out here. http://www.whitepeoplewontsaveyou.org/Book Club:Next week’s Pleasure Activism Chapter: From #MeToo to #WeConsentedReclaiming the Pl...2020-05-071h 20Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 62. Ghana Year of the Return RecapWe're back! In episode 62 Shanti and Antoinette catch up on each other's lives since their two-week hiatus. Shanti talks about ringing in the new year content and crying in the tub while Antoinette recaps her recent trip to Morocco and Ghana for The Year Of The Return. Duality is a thing right? Join us. Remember to rate and subscribe here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/around-the-way-curls-podcast/id1440112847Buy Shenseea ft Tyga's Blessed here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/blessed/1463440877?i=1463441136See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at...2020-01-091h 32Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 59. When They Go Ghost Ft. TsehaituIn episode 59, Shanti is joined by Tsehaitu while Antoinette recovers from bronchitis. Shanti shares how she ruined the mac and cheese for Thanksgiving and together they bring life to the act of Ghosting. Is ghosting wrong? Is it just a sign of the times? What are the consequences of ghosting? How do we stop ghosting and being ghosted? Join us for another episode...Buy Prince's How Come U Don't Call Me Anymore here https://music.apple.com/us/album/how-come-u-dont-call-me-anymore/212972881?i=212976426See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com...2019-12-051h 45Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 57. How Did You Learn To LoveIn episode 57, Antoinette prepares herself for a white Thanksgiving while Shanti's only update is a new winter jacket. Together we share our love for Ryan Gosling and dive head-first into Shanti's recent disagreement with her mother about love. Provoked by the incident and inspired by Esther, we share our answers to Dr. Perel's questions about love beginning with "How did you learn to love"...Listen to Esther Perel's "Where Should We Begin?" here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/where-should-we-begin-with-esther-perel/id1237931798Buy Mary J Blige here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/therapy/1440851006?i=1440851216See...2019-11-211h 48Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 51. Guess Who's Back?Guess who's back?! Shanti returns from her hiatus and jumps back in the ring with Antoinette. In this week's episode, we discuss how to have difficult conversations around social issues and politics after Antoinette was confronted with criticism for her support of Dave Chapelle's newest stand-up. We discuss cancel culture and end up arguing and canceling each other for our opposing views about Amber Guyger getting 10 years for MURDER! Always with the sh*$! Join us...Buy Scarface's Guess Who's Back here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/guess-whos-back/713222941?i=713223265See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com...2019-10-101h 42Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 47. Shanti & Sable Step Out On FaithIn episode 47 Shanti talks all things Sable. She discusses her new role as sole owner of The Sable Collective and how she is channeling some of her gangster energy from her past a result She also shares her top business practices for entrepreneurs, what it's like to step out on faith, and how she is choosing to define "failure and success". Join us and be sure to #ShopSable !The Sable Collective is a boutique curated for women of color to explore our own narratives of joy, beauty, and wellness. Sable Address: 1101 Market Street Philadelphia Pa 191702019-09-121h 22Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 42. Petty PeevesIn episode 42, we start with Antoinette talking about starving herself in healthy increments and Shanti updates us all on The Sable Collective opening. Our main topic is focused on our petty peeves not just in relationship to these raggedy love interests but also to the general public. Finally, Antoinette and Shanti touch on a seemingly sensitive topic in their relationship that begs us to question "are we really friends"? Weigh in. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.2019-08-081h 35Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 38. My Ariel Is BlackIn episode 38, we begin with Shanti discussing her spiritual link to Beyonce, Antoinette asks for prayers for her passport, and for the first time both Shanti and Antoinette's mothers make their debut in the newest segment "Ask Our White Moms". For the main topic, we dive under the sea and rescue Ariel from the waves of racism and white rage after Disney debuts a Black "Little Mermaid". Join us as we call Disney out for its years of racism and inappropriateness.Music: "Revolution" by Arrested DevelopmentSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy...2019-07-111h 43Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 37. Beauty Is Her NameIn episode 37, we take it back to our roots...literally. As requested by our listeners, we rehash the good ol' days of bloggin' and beauty which ATWC's was originally founded upon. Join us as we share our thoughts on the beauty "influencer world" and how we keep our hair did, skin clear and teeth white. Just trying to hear what applies to you? Skip ahead with the list below: ATWC’s Beginnings in Beauty : 14:47Black Beauty Internet Trail Blazers You Should All Know 17:15 How we feel about being considered “Beauty Influencers” 22:00How We Approa...2019-07-031h 24Around The Way CurlsAround The Way CurlsEp 3. Oh Hell Nah - The Non Negotiables Of RelationshipsIn the 3rd Episode of Around The Way Curls, Antoinette & Shanti share their lists of non-negotiables as they pertain to partnerships (both petty & in-depth) as well as speak a new boo into existence for Antoinette. Join us. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.2018-11-0846 min