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Past ChaosCan We ConfessThere was so much to unpack, we didn't even have time to unpack it all! During this busy week, we celebrated a birthday for one of our middle children. Find out what people do in pictures that really bugs the women. Loren has a confession for April. This leads to a discussion on Loren's habit of running from her relationships, and why April thinks it is perfectly healthy this time. Then, April has a little confession for Loren. Hear why it was difficult for her to decide the right time to tell Loren, due to the fact A...2023-01-2330 minPast ChaosAre You Ready For A New Year?After a rough start, April and Loren are back and ready to take on this new year! Are we a shit show? We are really questioning ourselves, especially after finding out what some of our neighbors think of our lifestyle. This revelation makes Loren reveal what an ex referred to our house as.April had an epiphany that has her rethinking the way she handles things in her life.In this episode, April and Loren discuss 2022. They talk about the good and bad parts and what they learned from it, both agreeing that they are happy to s...2023-01-0936 minPast ChaosHow Do You Handle HolidaysAfter surviving the world's longest week, the women are preparing for the holidays. While attending their child's orchestra concert, the ladies were recognized as "the girls from TLC". April shocks Loren by telling her that she was pulled over by the cops this week.To kick off the weekend, the women attended a concert that gave them high school nostalgia. The ladies discuss meeting in-laws and how they felt meeting the parents. April divulges her feelings of being on the other end of that scenario.Listen to find out what types of gifts April and Lore...2022-12-1935 minPast ChaosAre You A Crazy ExAfter listening to the start of last week's episode we realized it sounded like we were having our toenails plucked. Sorry for that, because we are in fact not miserable! This week we brought our positive attitudes and good vibes.Do you drunk shop? One of the women admits they do, while the other shops enough sober. Also, are you aware of your surroundings. April admits that she has become much more situationally aware, while Loren says when she feels safe, she lets her guard down.April talks about a feeling she got this week, and how h...2022-12-1239 minPast ChaosHow Do You Help OthersAfter surviving a house full of sick children, the ladies were ready for the weekend. Loren had a first time experience...she attended her first body building show. April was glutton for punishment and chose to stay home and play monopoly with the kids. It was not a tragic ending like most monopoly games.This week, April and Loren discuss helping others when you have no experience in the situation. The women also take a listener question. Turns out, they know a thing or two about marriage, divorce, and coparenting.Find out which ex Loren would recycle, how A...2022-11-0730 minPast ChaosCan You Balance Love and FriendshipsAfter a two week break, the women are back! April and Loren admit that even though they see each other every day, their lives are still so hectic that they sometimes only have time for a quick hi and bye.Why has April been feeling 'mom failure' lately? What do the ladies have planned for Halloween? In this episode, April and Loren discuss being in relationships and still making time for friendships. Should you just dive head first into romance and forget about your friends? Hear what the women have to say about this topic and so much more...2022-10-3128 minPast ChaosWhat Is Our Relationship Really LikeOur lives are so chaotic that even this episode was unplanned! The topic we were supposed to discuss got lost in the mess. However, you are in for a treat. You're invited to listen in on one of our regular, day to day conversations. April admits that she actually does need help in one area of her life, after Loren calls her all the way out. Listen to the embarrassing event that took place in their neighborhood - as if they need to give the neighbors another reason to dislike them.Loren tells us about her g...2022-10-1037 minPast ChaosGiving Advice to MomsIt's been a long week! From surviving another week of school, to remaining calm amidst the slew of house guests we've had, it is amazing they are still somewhat sane. In this episode, April and Loren discuss giving unsolicited mom advice. They are all for accepting help, especially from good, seasoned moms. The issue is getting unwanted wisdom from the not so wise.The ladies talk about their night on the town, how important cleanliness is in their world, and speaking of unsolicited advice - April received some words of discouragement about her sex life. Ready for a shoc...2022-09-2635 minPast ChaosDid We Just BreakupIn this episode, April and Loren finally discuss Loren's most recent breakup. After giving a brief update on what's been going on in their lives, the women realize they left out a big chapter of their story. So, April put Loren in the hot seat and asked very personal questions about the relationship and why it ended. Listen as Loren shares very intimate and personal details of her breakup.Since Loren seems to be such a professional at ending things, April requests her help in how to let men down easy.Don't forget, you can now...2022-08-2237 minPast ChaosCould You Survive Life On The RoadIn this episode, April and Loren interview a very special guest. Sarah and her husband made a big decision to go against the grain. After her husband's retirement from the military, Sarah decided they should purchase a giant RV and take their 3 daughters and pet children on the road for a year. Listen to the interesting details of her travels and how she stays sane during her journey of life on the road.Can you guess the "spicy" question April and Loren are dying to know from Sarah?Also, find out how Loren was recently interrogated on her...2022-06-2743 minPast ChaosAre Your Kids A Reflection Of YouIn this episode, April and Loren discuss the behaviors of their children and ponder the question...is it a reflection of their parenting?April talks about an incident with Tanner on the soccer field that opened her eyes to a different perspective. Loren reveals a parenting mishap with Jagger and how she stuck with her consequences for his negative behavior.The women also make a big confession about their relationship - do they ever argue with each other?A big THANK YOU to That's It. fruit bars for sponsoring this episode of Past Chaos.H...2022-05-3037 minPast ChaosWhat's Going OnIn this episode, April and Loren discuss what's been going on lately. They took a hiatus; they were on a break! But why? Don't worry, they always kiss and tell! The women give a bird mom update. You will also hear some really exciting news that involves a new family member.Which child has been giving them a run for their money lately? Also, find out what happened recently that made the women question what is and isn't being taught to their children in school.April asks Loren if she thinks their relationship is "too cl...2022-05-2339 minPast ChaosIs Your Life FulfilledIn this episode, April and Loren discuss living a fulfilling life. However, this is not what they were supposed to be discussing this week. This was supposed to be a break-up episode, but that is a tale to tell for another time.Are you fulfilled? Listen to what the ladies have to say about their lives and where they find fulfillment. Also, get an update on the sugar daddy search. Loren ends the episode with a dating life update. Hear the deep question she has for April.Remember, you can now stream Season 1 of "You, Me & My Ex"...2022-04-1137 minPast ChaosHave You Been Relationship ConnedIn this episode, April and Loren discuss relationship cons. It's like being catfished, but worse! Both women admit to their biggest relationship con. They also reveal who they feel was the one man that brought the biggest con to them.Loren announces a major scare she recently had. She brings us up to speed on her dating life, while reminding us to stay off the internet when drinking wine.April confesses to an awkward internet search. Ironically, this episode also contains a lot of embarrassing boob talk.Remember, you can now stream Season 1 of "You, Me...2022-04-0427 minPast ChaosWhat Is Self-Destructive BehaviorIn this episode, April and Loren discuss self-destructive behaviors. The ladies are vulnerable as they divulge their individual patterns they experienced when going through their divorces. April opens up about her vices while attempting to heal from heartache. Loren talks about the scary truth behind her healing from the pain of her divorce.Remember, you can now stream Season 1 of "You, Me & My Ex" on Discovery+.A big THANK YOU to Kindred Bravely for sponsoring this episode. Visit them online at kindredbravely.com, and be sure to use our code "20CHAOS" at checkout for 20% off your...2022-03-2833 minPast ChaosAre You Ready To Give BirthIn this episode, April and Loren talk about birthing stories. Loren goes into detail about all 3 of her births, including the shocking conception of her first child. Hear the scary details of her second and the almost home birth of her third.April tells us all about her first teen pregnancy, and if that wasn't enough, she manages to do it all again...still as a teen! Her third and final was full of delivery room surprises. Listen to find out what happened that kept her from sending our birth announcements for the last baby.Also, Lore...2022-03-2142 minPast ChaosWhat Do Women Really WantIn this episode, April and Loren discuss what they think women really want.What do they want out of life, relationships, or just for themselves?You are sure to learn a lot, and you are sure to relate a lot. April reveals that she had a procedure done this week and gives a PSA on what lead to the decision. Loren gives an update on her dating life. Listen to hear all this and so much more.You can now stream Season 1 of "You, Me & My Ex" on Discovery+.Support the show2022-03-1440 minPast ChaosHow to Survive Raising TeenagersIn this episode, April and Loren discuss how to survive raising teenagers. They have six children, they have successfully raised two teen daughters, but will they survive these boys?April confesses something that she is sure she will be mom-shamed for. Loren divulges a secret from her childhood that she feels bad about now.In this week's dating escapades, April reveals that she had a date! Loren also tells us that she was just invited on an out of town date. How does April feel about that? Listen to find out all about this and so much...2022-03-0737 minPast ChaosWhat Are You Giving UpIn this episode April and Loren talk about giving up. More specifically, what they have given up for marriage, motherhood, and careers.Listen as the women discuss things they missed out on in order to have a happy marriage, be great moms, and have a successful career.Loren rates her date! Hear the most recent date Loren went on and they outcome. Will there be a second date? Listen to find out!Remember, you can now stream the full season of "You, Me & My Ex" on Discovery+.A big THANK YOU to LOME...2022-02-2836 minPast ChaosWhy Did I Get MarriedIn this episode, April and Loren discuss the reasons they got married. Loren talks about both of her marriages and what made her decide to take the plunge of matrimony.April divulges the reasons she got married each time.The women are celebrating one of their children getting married this week. In honor of the event, the ladies give advice on what they would have wanted someone to say to their younger selves,Why do people get married? Love, money, children? Listen as April and Loren go through reasons they feel people get married and what the...2022-02-2133 minPast ChaosHow Strong Is A Woman's IntuitionIn this episode, April and Loren discuss a woman's intuition. To start, the women tell us their first impressions of the ex and current meant in their lives. What did Loren first think about John? How did April first feel about Roy?Do you have a strong intuition? Find out what the ladies think about intuition and how it has helped them in their relationships. Also, listen to how these women have used their intuition to grow personally.Don't forget, you can now stream the full season of "You, Me & My Ex" on Discovery+....2022-01-1731 minPast ChaosCan You Escape Your PastIn this episode, April and Loren discuss getting closure from your past. April reveals some big family news, while Loren divulges some huge upcoming changes in her relationship.Can you ever run away from past mistakes and experiences? Find out what the women think as they take a deep dive into their former lives.What has Loren been running from? How has April struggled to overcome? You will hear all about it in this episode.Also, the women end the episode with a "bang".Don't forget, you can now stream the full season of "You, Me...2022-01-1037 minPast ChaosLet's Talk About Sex, BabyIn this episode, April and Loren dive into the topic of SEX! The women discuss how the sexual experiences they've had throughout their lives have changed the way they communicate with their partners.April admits that this is a very uncomfortable topic for her, but she knows Loren will offer her 'SEXpertise' on the subject.Find out what the women really like, and also the things they are not a fan of. There will be no new episode next week. The women will be taking the week off for Christmas. They will be back with a BRA...2021-12-2033 minPast ChaosCan We Modify OurselvesIn this episode, April and Loren discuss making modifications in themselves.April had an epiphany while traveling and wants to make some changes in the way she handles certain situations. Loren offers advice from her own journey of self-discovery.Will Loren be able to take what she has learned and help find solutions for April's dilemmas? Will April accept the help and be willing to make the necessary changes in her life to rid her of some self-imposed stress?Don't forget you can now stream the full season of "You, Me, & My Ex" on Di...2021-12-1434 minPast ChaosAre You Scared Of AgingIn this episode April and Loren discuss sexual bias in aging. Why are women so afraid of getting older? Why is it considered "sexy" for men to age but women are scrutinized for the same thing. Loren embraces beauty in her age and urges all other women to do the same. April admits that she has struggled with aging but is trying to accept the blessing it is.Reminder, you can not stream the full season of "You, Me & My Ex" on discovery+.Support the show2021-11-1434 minPast ChaosIs Giving Your All Too Much To HandleIn this episode, April and Loren discuss feeling burn out but still pushing through. The women talk about how hard it is being in a slump, yet being required to do all the things expected of you as a mother.These two always put it all on the table, but sometimes they are limited to what they are able to divulge. Rest assured, it will all come out in the end.April and Loren are working on a BIG project and have some announcements to share SOON!Remember, you can now stream the entire season of...2021-11-0735 minPast ChaosDo You Have Mom EnvyIn this episode, April and Loren discuss good mom envy. Do you look at other moms and think they are doing a much better job than you? Do you ever wish your motherhood looked more like someone else's?Listen as the women compare their motherhood to others that seem to be more successful at it.The women also talk about their crazy week where they played neighborhood watch. April spills the beans on what Loren did to cause low flying helicopters in their neighborhood!Remember, you can now stream the full season of "You, Me, & My...2021-10-3134 minPast ChaosAre We Hurting Our ChildrenIn this episode, April and Loren discuss how divorce can cause parenting challenges and how it affects children.April explains how each of her children handled her divorces very differently.Loren worries that her divorce will have greater lasting affects on one child more than the others.Find out why the friendship between April and Loren could end their romantic relationships.Also, is it ok to be honest when your friends are messing up their lives. Hear what the women have to say about that!Remember, you can now stream the full season o...2021-10-2432 minPast ChaosDo You Suffer From Relationship TraumaIn this episode, April and Loren discuss relationship trauma. Loren reveals how trauma from sexual abuse leads to problems in her current relationship. April talks about how abuse and infidelity from her first marriage has created issues in her relationships since then.Find out which child was brought home by the sheriff and which child is in the hot seat this week!You can now stream the full season of "You, Me, & My Ex" on Discovery+.Support the show2021-10-1742 minPast ChaosHigh Conflict CoParentingIn this episode, April and Loren continue discussing high conflict coparenting. Loren reveals more of her paranoia and why she has cell phone trauma.April talks about her close call last week and how Loren is her go-to during a crisis.The women dive into how they have both been guilty of being high conflict coparents in the past. They also give advice on how to recognize and defuse high conflict situations.Remember, you can stream the full season of "You, Me & My Ex" on Discovery+.Support the show2021-10-1040 minPast ChaosAre You Married To The High Conflict CoParentIn this episode April and Loren get real personal! The women talk about a topic that is most requested by their listeners - high conflict coparenting!More specifically, the women discuss being married to the high conflict coparent. Loren stumps April with this week's "What Would April Do". However, April gets a little payback when she reveals exactly "who" they will be discussing during this week's topic. This episode may require more than one glass of wine!Don't forget, you can now stream "You, Me & My Ex" on discovery+.Support the show2021-10-0343 minPast ChaosDo You Keep Secrets In Your RelationshipIn this episode, April and Loren discuss relationship secrets. Should you keep things private or be open? The women discuss how they feel about filtering the truth on social media, when it comes to their significant others.April reveals that it is hard for her to understand the concept of staying in an abusive relationship, now that she is on the other side of the situation.Loren talks about speaking the hard truth and how women should use their voice to stand up against domestic violence in relationship.You can stream the full season of...2021-09-2642 minPast ChaosAre You In A Codependent RelationshipIn this episode, April and Loren discuss codependency. April realizes that she has suffered from codependency for a very long time. Loren, on the other hand, is the complete opposite in that scenario.The women talk about a parenting issue that they are not necessarily on the same page about, but discuss healthy ways to solve it.Listen to how they explain the closeness of their relationship and the relationships they have with some of their exes.You can stream the entire season of "You, Me, & My Ex" on discovery+.Support the show2021-09-1939 minPast ChaosHave You Experienced Mom BurnoutIn this episode, April and Loren discuss mom burnout. After two weeks of quarantine, this conversation is so relevant. How have the women handled coparenting with two family members testing positive for Covid? Listen to Loren's experience of being exhausted in motherhood, especially after a bitter custody battle.Hear April's take on being a young mother and now stepping into a big role as bonus mom to very young children.Remember, you can now stream the full season of "You, Me & My Ex" on Discovery+.Support the show2021-09-1241 minPast ChaosAre You On a Journey To Find YourselfIn this episode, April and Loren recount their cross-country adventures.the women decided to take a journey to find themselves and do a little self-reflection. Did their friendship survive nine days of travel? Find out how Loren made April face her fears and the extreme measures she took to do so. Also, April experienced a lot of "firsts". Listen to find out her favorites.The women tell listeners their biggest takeaway from their journey and how it affected their future plans.Don't forget to watch the season finale of, "You, Me & My Ex" Sunday at 1...2021-08-2539 minPast ChaosHow Important Are Your FriendshipsIn this episode, April and Loren discuss friendships and how important they are. The women talk about past relationships with friends and how they have changed them for future friendships.Has being on a reality television show changed their outlook on friendships? April has a question for Loren about feeling left out with other moms. Loren admits to telling a fib to her boyfriend.Don't forget to tune in to our new show, "You, Me & My Ex" on TLC at 10 pm EST.Support the show2021-08-1535 minPast ChaosAre You Living Someone Else's DreamIn this episode, April and Loren discuss living someone else's happily ever after.Following a day spent reminiscing with Loren, April realizes that she may be having doubts about her future. Will Loren be able to tell April, "I told you so"?Does Loren feel like she should have stayed married to John? What is her boyfriend doing the is causing her to feel disrespected? Don't forget to tune in to our new show, "You, Me & My Ex" Sundays at 10 pm EST on TLC!Support the show2021-08-0832 minPast ChaosDid Your Ex Get Your Best YearsIn this episode, April and Loren discuss who got the best years of their lives. Do you think one of your exes took your best years? Or are your best years yet to come?Loren discusses a parenting moment, and the women decide how to tackle a teachable moment with one of their sons.April has an epiphany and decides to make a big change in her life. How will this affect the family dynamic?Don't forget to tune in to the newest episode of You, Me & My Ex Sundays on TLC at 10pm EST.S...2021-07-2535 minPast ChaosDoes The Truth HurtIn this episode, April and Loren discuss how the truth can hurt once we hear it. The women talk about decisions they have made in their lives and relationships that come back to haunt them later in life.They also reveal how it feels to hear the men in their lives divulge feelings on national television that they have never revealed to them in person.April and Loren discuss what they hope the future of their relationship looks like.Support the show2021-07-1146 minPast ChaosThe Reality of RelationshipsIn this episode, April and Loren discuss expectations in relationships versus the reality of them. The women also divulge what it is really like watching their lives unfold on a reality television show.April admits how the 90/10 rule of relationships has affected her outlook on her marriages to Roy and John.Loren tells us how difficult it has been to see the portrayal of her ex on television. Support the show2021-07-0450 minPast ChaosCan Moms Be SexyIn this episode, April and Loren discuss the mom "dress code". They debate the age-old question of, "Can moms be sexy?"April recalls the triggers of her past that cause her to have issues when it comes to being body shamed. Loren talks about her feelings of needing approval and validation to dress the way she wants.Is it ok for women to feel sexy after becoming a mother? Listen to this episode to hear what the women think.Also, don't forget to tune in Sundays at 10pm EST on TLC to watch the lat...2021-06-2740 minPast ChaosIs It Hard Being With Someone's ExIn this episode, April and Loren discuss the difficulties of being married to someone else's ex. The women divulge the most difficult aspects of their relationships with the same man.April talks about how hard it was to accept the end of her first marriage and how horrible she was to Jerry's new wife.Loren tells us the struggles she had in the beginning of John and April's relationship and how she still works to combat them.Don't forget to tune in to our NEW show, "You, Me & My Ex" on TLC - airing Sundays at 10p...2021-06-2042 minPast ChaosShould You Travel With Your ExIn this episode, April and Loren discuss traveling with their exes. The women give details of the recent trip they took as a BIG blended family.April recounts her travels with her first husband, Jerry. She also talks about traveling with Roy and how she feels about it.Loren admits that she prefers to not travel with John, due to the lack of communication between them.Don't forget to check out the premiere of their NEW show on TLC, "You, Me & My Ex" on Sunday, June 20th at 10pm EST!Support the show2021-06-1836 minPast ChaosWhat Are CoParenting TriggersIn this episode, April and Loren talk about their top three triggers that set them off during their bitter custody battle. Loren discusses an interesting parenting moment with one of the boys. April reveals a big move in her career, and how she will be taking time to focus on being a mom and working closely with Loren to build their business.Don't forget, their new show, "You, Me & My Ex" will premier on TLC on June, 20th at 10PM EST.Support the show2021-06-0633 minPast ChaosCan Your Attitude Affect Your CoParenting RelationshipIn this episode, April and Loren talk about how changing your attitude can help create a better coparenting relationship with your ex. Loren tells us how she was a bitter baby momma and what made her decide to take a different approach. April recalls how she learned valuable lessons from her first coparenting relationship with Jerry and that she decided not to bring those negative actions into her new coparenting dynamic.The women also answer a very intimate question sent in by a follower.A big THANK YOU to Podcorn for sponsoring this episode. To lea...2021-05-2338 minPast ChaosWhat Are Relationship Red FlagsIn this episode, April and Loren talk about relationship red flags. The women discuss some of the red flags they have personally dealt with in past relationships, as well as ones you should generally look out for prior to dating someone. The women also discuss the great advice their moms gave them growing up and why we often choose to learn lessons the hard way.April discovers the reason Loren and John's marriage did not work out. Loren recounts a great teachable moment she recently had with her boys.A huge THANK YOU to Podcorn for...2021-05-1640 minPast ChaosHow To Walk Away From What Does Not Serve YouIn this episode, April and Loren discuss leaving things that no longer serve you and how the universe moves us when we are unsure of what we should do. The women also open up about how they learned to accept change, say no, and find peace. April confesses about something she has not been honest about for years. She finally opens up and make a huge confession. Loren tells us something that happened in her life recently that really rocked her world.Support the show2021-04-2546 minPast ChaosFinding Clarity In The Midst Of A Chaotic Custody BattleIn this episode, April and Loren discuss the continuation and culmination of their divorces and child custody battle. April remembers the call from Loren that lead to the beginning of their friendship. She goes into detail about her feelings and how things could have gone very wrong if she would have allowed the volatile nature of their past to continue. Loren recalls the moment she made the decision to reach out to April and her fear of how things could have gone.A huge THANK YOU to Usual Wines for sponsoring this episode. To find out...2021-04-1839 minPast ChaosCan You Survive The Pain Of DivorceIn this episode, April and Loren continue the saga of the early stages of their relationship. April opens up about the dark place she was in during the end of her relationship to Roy. Loren also details how she was feeling on the other side of the fence, having some of the same emotions.The women discuss the loneliness and heartache they felt at such a dark time in their lives. They also talk about the beginning of unpredicted relationships that brought them a shred of hope for the future. April and Loren answer a question they get...2021-04-0432 min