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Beyond the LetterLetting Go of Control | S2E41 BEYOND I DO PODCASTControl might feel like safety—but in marriage, it can become a silent wedge. In this heart-check of an episode, Adam and Ashlee dive into what it means to truly trust God in your relationship. Whether it’s trying to force outcomes, micromanaging your spouse, or holding onto fear disguised as “leadership,” they unpack how surrendering control creates space for both people to thrive spiritually and emotionally.Grounded in faith and full of practical insight, this conversation challenges couples to examine their dynamic and re-center on grace, trust, and God’s guidance. If you’re ready to release the pressure of...2025-07-241h 06
Beyond the LetterHow to Keep Christ at the Center of Your Wedding | S2E40 BEYOND I DO PODCASTWeddings are beautiful — but they’re not just about the flowers, the dress, or the guest list. In this week’s episode, we talk about what it means to enter marriage as a sacred covenant, not just a celebration. From the meaning of communion at your ceremony to the weight of commitment before God, this convo challenges couples to keep Christ at the center — even in the chaos of planning.If you’re engaged, dating, or even already married, this one will reframe how you see your wedding day and the lifelong promise that follows.--Join our AFTER I DO communi...2025-07-1756 min
Beyond the LetterWaiting 40 Years for God’s Promise | S2E39 BEYOND I DO PODCASTWhat does it look like to truly wait on God’s timing—especially in love? In this moving episode, Adam and Ashlee sit down with Eric and Thalia Bradley to unpack their 40-year journey of sexual purity before marriage. Their story is a powerful reminder that faithfulness is never wasted, and that God’s promises often exceed what we could ask or imagine. Rooted in 1 Corinthians 6, their testimony challenges cultural norms and highlights what it means to honor God with your body and trust Him with your future.Whether you’re single, dating, or struggling to stay the course, this epi...2025-07-1052 min
Beyond the LetterUnified Parenting Starts With Us | S2E38 BEYOND I DO PODCASTHow can you raise godly children if your marriage isn’t united? In this episode, Adam and Ashlee unpack the power of unity in parenting and why your relationship as husband and wife sets the tone for your entire household. From handling in-law dynamics to the biblical principle of "leaving and cleaving," they share how oneness in marriage creates stability, safety, and spiritual clarity for your kids.This conversation is full of practical insight on conflict resolution, modeling Christ-like behavior, and making sure your faith isn’t just taught—it’s lived. If you’re a parent, planning to be one, or...2025-07-0344 min
Beyond the LetterParenting, Priorities, and Non-Negotiables | S2E37 BEYOND I DO PODCASTWhat are the non-negotiables that keep a marriage grounded when life gets busy—especially with kids in the picture? In this practical and honest episode, Adam and Ashlee talk about how parenting has challenged and strengthened their relationship. They unpack the values that keep them aligned, the systems they’ve put in place to stay connected, and how they navigate tough moments without losing sight of what matters most.From spiritual rhythms to dividing up household responsibilities, this conversation offers wisdom for couples trying to balance family, faith, and each other. If you’re in the thick of parenting—or just...2025-06-261h 05
Beyond the LetterBuilding Together: Faith, Business, and Family | S2E36 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn this inspiring episode of Beyond I Do, hosts Adam and Ashlee Mesa sit down with Lester and Kirsten Baron—longtime friends and cherished members of the Patria community. Together, they dive into the journey of building a life side-by-side in marriage, business, and parenthood. From pursuing separate careers to launching a financial planning practice together, the Barons share the real and raw moments that shaped their path—including their experience with infertility and the beautiful story of adopting their daughter.This honest conversation is full of insight on navigating life as partners, staying grounded in faith, and holding onto...2025-06-1955 min
Beyond the LetterHoly Spirit, Should I Marry Them? | S2E35 BEYOND I DO PODCASTWhat does it really mean to be led by the Holy Spirit in relationships? In this episode, Adam and Ashlee—joined by pastors and marriage coaches George and Tondra Gregory—dig into what spiritual discernment looks like when you're choosing who to marry, how to navigate conflict, or just trying to figure out if you're on the same page as your spouse. It’s not just about hearing an audible voice from heaven—it’s about walking in daily partnership with the Holy Spirit, especially when your emotions, opinions, or logic want to take the lead.Together, they break down commo...2025-06-121h 00
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Beyond the LetterWhen One Believes and One Wanders | S2E34 BEYOND I DO PODCASTWhat happens when your spiritual walk is strong—but your spouse's isn't? In this raw and honest episode, Adam and Ashlee dive deep into the emotional and spiritual tension that arises when couples find themselves spiritually unequally yoked, even after marriage. They unpack the biblical responsibility of the believing spouse, offer encouragement from personal experience, and share tools to avoid bitterness, pride, and disconnection.Whether you're married to someone who’s lost their fire or you're the one who’s struggling, this conversation is packed with grace and real talk. It's not about dragging your spouse to church—it’s about mo...2025-06-0549 min
Beyond the LetterWhen You're Fighting Alone | S2E33 BEYOND I DO PODCASTCan a Christian marriage survive when only one person is willing to fight for it? In this raw and deeply honest episode, Adam and Ashlee tackle one of the toughest realities many couples face: what to do when your spouse checks out. With biblical wisdom from 1 Corinthians 7:12-16 and real-life counseling insights, they explore how faith, patience, and self-work play a role in standing strong when the other person has given up.They also dive into the different ways men and women communicate distress, how to recognize emotional breadcrumbs before it’s too late, and why personal healing is of...2025-05-2945 min
Beyond the LetterWhen Love Doesn’t Feel Like Love | S2E32 BEYOND I DO PODCASTThis episode gets real about the emotional rhythms of marriage—how we process things differently, how we misread each other, and what it means to feel truly seen and appreciated. Adam and Ashlee unpack how emotional awareness, resilience, and regular feedback have strengthened their relationship over time.They talk about why words of affirmation still matter (even 10 years in), how unspoken expectations can wear a couple down, and why understanding each other’s emotional wiring is key to a lasting connection. Whether it's about navigating anger, sensitivity, conflict, or unmet needs, this conversation will challenge you to be more inte...2025-05-2251 min
Beyond the LetterRekindling Romance After Marriage Gets Real | S2E31 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn this heartfelt episode, we explore the beauty and challenges of intimacy in marriage through the lens of Ephesians 5. How do couples stay connected—physically, emotionally, and spiritually—especially after kids, stress, or past trauma? This conversation dives deep into the ways love mirrors Christ’s relationship with the Church, emphasizing the importance of communication, healing, and seeking both divine wisdom and practical support. Whether you're newlywed or years in, this message is a powerful reminder that nurturing your marriage honors God and strengthens your family.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a ques...2025-05-1559 min
Beyond the LetterMarried, Frustrated, and Oversharing? Let’s Talk About It | S2E30 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashlee explore how the wrong voices can quietly unravel even the strongest marriages. From TikTok satire that touches on uncomfortable truths to stories from real counseling sessions and their own experiences, they unpack the importance of choosing your inner circle with wisdom.Whether it’s venting to the wrong friend, taking advice from someone who doesn’t know your relationship, or oversharing frustrations that breed bitterness, they challenge couples to think critically about who they trust with their marriage. Ashlee reflects on the power of discretion, while Adam shares hard-earned less...2025-05-0855 min
Beyond the LetterFrom Conflict to Connection: Boomer-Millennial Parenting | S2E29 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn this episode of Beyond I Do, we explore the evolving dynamics between baby boomers and millennials within the modern family. Why do so many millennials feel unheard by their boomer parents? And how can families move past the tension to build stronger, more unified relationships?From differing parenting styles to conflicting values around marriage, work, and child-rearing, generational gaps can strain even the closest families. We dive into these issues with honest dialogue, relatable stories, and actionable strategies to create deeper connection. Whether you're navigating in-law tension, raising children with grandparent input, or trying to communicate...2025-05-0150 min
Beyond the LetterA Military Family's Story of Faith and Purpose | S2E28 BEYOND I DO PODCASTJoin Anthony and Marie Pinedo on Beyond the Letter as they share their powerful journey from military life to a purpose-driven family built on faith, healing, and service. In this heartfelt episode, the Pinedos open up about overcoming PTSD, navigating financial stress, and transitioning into civilian life—all while raising a Christ-centered family and building authentic community.This conversation dives deep into what it means to live beyond surface-level faith, embracing the hard work of restoration, leadership, and legacy. Their story is a testament to the power of vulnerability, the importance of spiritual resilience, and the calling to...2025-04-2454 min
Beyond the LetterHonoring Parents vs. Obedience | S2E27 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn this powerful episode of Beyond I Do, we explore the delicate balance between honoring our parents and establishing healthy boundaries in our relationships. The key spiritual lesson here is that honor doesn't mean blind obedience or allowing disrespect. We're reminded of the commandment to 'Honor your father and mother' (Exodus 20:12), but we also see how this principle evolves as we grow into adulthood and form our own families.The conversation draws interesting parallels between our relationships with our earthly parents and our relationship with God - both require respect, open communication, and sometimes difficult conversations. As we navigate...2025-04-1744 min
Beyond the LetterMarriage Advice from 78 Years of Experience | S2E26 BEYOND I DO PODCASTStrengthen your marriage with timeless wisdom. In this powerful episode of Beyond I Do, we sit down with two incredible women—Miss Paula Johnson (30 years married) and Miss Evelyn Joyce Cooper (48 years married)—who share over 75 years of combined marriage experience.They open up about: • The keys to long-lasting love • How to overcome marriage struggles with faith and unity • The role of prayer, community, and selflessness in a thriving relationshipWhether you’re newly married or have decades together, this episode offers biblical, practical, and heartfelt advice to help your relationship grow stronger through every season.👉 Subscribe for more real conversations o...2025-04-101h 11
Beyond the LetterA Poet & Free Spirit’s Love Story | S2E25 BEYOND I DO PODCAST🔹 How do structure and free-spiritedness coexist in marriage? Join us for an inspiring episode of Beyond I Do as we explore the love story of Heron & Cass Kaiza—a pastor and teacher navigating faith, marriage, and personal growth.💬 What You'll Learn:✔️ How Heron's structured nature balances Cass's free spirit✔️ The challenges & joys of marriage in ministry✔️ Overcoming communication & financial hurdles✔️ The power of friendships & community in relationshipsWhether you're married, dating, or love hearing unique relationship stories, this episode blends wisdom, humor, and heartfelt reflections.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask...2025-04-0342 min
Beyond the LetterInterracial Love: Faith & Hope | S2E24 BEYOND I DO PODCAST🌟 In this heartfelt episode of Beyond I Do, we dive into the transformative power of love, faith, and resilience in overcoming life’s toughest challenges. Join us as we share the inspiring journey of an interracial couple navigating societal prejudice, family disapproval, and, ultimately, acceptance. Drawing parallels to the biblical story of the prodigal son, this episode reminds us of the importance of unconditional love and embracing our loved ones despite differences and past conflicts.❤️ Key Takeaways You'll Learn:How prayer and faith can strengthen relationships.Why communication is essential in overcoming challenges.The power of resilience and daily commitmen...2025-03-2747 min
Beyond the LetterBlended Family Success | S2E23 BEYOND I DO PODCASTJoin us for a powerful episode of Beyond I Do as we welcome Dana and Diane Hall to share their inspiring journey as a blended family. Dana, a retired NFL player, and Diane open up about the real challenges and victories of merging their families, offering heartfelt wisdom on love, faith, and forgiveness.Learn how their faith has been the foundation of their relationship and how they are actively involved in the church’s Forward Program, a ministry focused on healing and deliverance. Whether you're navigating the complexities of a blended family or simply seeking encouragement in yo...2025-03-2050 minPatria SermonsBeyond I Do Night with Pastors Adam and Ashlee Mesa2025-03-201h 00
Beyond the LetterChallenges, Lessons & Lasting Love | S2E22 BEYOND I DO PODCASTJoin us for an inspiring episode as we explore love, relationships, and personal growth. Our guests share real-life experiences, from unexpected beginnings to defining moments in their partnerships. Learn how they overcame challenges, embraced new perspectives, and found joy in life’s meaningful moments. Whether you're navigating your own relationship or love heartfelt stories, this episode offers wisdom, humor, and valuable insights. Tune in for a conversation that celebrates the beauty and complexity of human connections.--Join our AFTER I DO community for Exclusive Content & community!www.afterido.app--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link be...2025-03-131h 10
Beyond the LetterLessons from 45 Years Together | S2E21 BEYOND I DO PODCASTJoin us for an inspiring conversation with Edward and Cozette Bradley, a couple celebrating 45 years of joyful marriage. In this episode of Beyond I Do, the Bradleys reveal their secrets to a lasting, faith-filled relationship, including how they raised godly children, stayed committed through challenges, and leaned on prayer and resilience in difficult times. Hear their powerful testimony of overcoming adversity, including Edward’s battle with illness and a life-saving liver transplant. Whether you’re single, newlywed, or married for decades, this heartfelt story of love, faith, and perseverance offers valuable wisdom for every stage of life.📌 Don’t miss this...2025-03-0657 min
Beyond the LetterBalancing Ministry, Family & Personal Growth | S2E20 BEYOND I DO PODCASTJoin us for a conversation with Sammy and Chandler Rodriguez, a couple balancing church ministry, family life, and personal growth. They share their experiences navigating new parenthood, career shifts, and faith, offering honest insights on marriage, mental health, and building a strong community. Hear how they stay grounded in their calling while adapting to life’s changes. Whether you're interested in ministry, personal development, or navigating transitions, this episode has something for you.Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more real talk on love, faith, and relationships.--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the li...2025-02-2752 min
Leaders in Living RoomsLILR 127 | Adam & Diego Mesa on the Patria Church SuccessionChurch leadership transitions are complex and require intentionality, humility, and a clear vision. For Adam and Diego Mesa, their transition was shaped by a long preparation period, a willingness to embrace change, and a commitment to mission over methods. They address leadership shifts that must be handled with care, clarity in roles and expectations, and the role of trust and humility. While challenges inevitably arise, a well-structured transition that prioritizes the church’s long-term health can lead to a lasting impact.Welcome to Episode 127 of the Leaders in Living Rooms Podcast with Sean Morgan. ...2025-02-251h 15
Beyond the LetterSetting Boundaries and Expectations for a Stronger Relationship | S2E19 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashley dive into one of the biggest relationship questions: When should you start talking about marriage? We break down the tension between expectations and reality in dating, how different values shape your future together, and why timing matters.From setting healthy boundaries to avoiding the trap of rushing into intimacy, this conversation is packed with wisdom for singles, couples, and married folks alike.Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more real talk on love, faith, and relationships.--Have a question about...2025-02-2056 min
Beyond the LetterLove, Marriage, and Money Unfiltered | S2E18 BEYOND I DO PODCASTWelcome to a special episode of Beyond I Do, where we dive deep into love, marriage, and family dynamics in an open and unfiltered conversation. This week, we’re joined by special guests Aaron, Erica, Colin, and Eileen, who bring real-life experiences, cultural insights, and faith-filled wisdom to the table.In this episode, we discuss what it truly means to build a strong foundation in relationships—whether you’re dating, engaged, or married. From navigating cultural differences to raising a family with faith and intention, we explore the highs and lows of love and commitment. We also break down the im...2025-02-1359 min
Beyond the LetterCommunication and Miscommunication in Marriage | S2E17 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn this episode of "Beyond I Do," we explore the complex dynamics of leadership and communication in marriage. We dive deep into the unspoken expectations that can either lead to misunderstandings or strengthen the bond between partners. Through real-life stories and humorous anecdotes, we discuss how couples can align their dreams, responsibilities, and leadership roles in the home. Learn how to effectively communicate, manage finances, share household tasks, and understand each other’s strengths to build a healthier relationship. Tune in for valuable insights on how clear expectations and open communication can transform your marriage into a stronger, more un...2025-02-0642 min
Beyond the LetterBeauty Standards and Christian Presentation | S2E16 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn this thought-provoking discussion, we delve into the complex topic of beauty standards and self-presentation from a Christian perspective. While no specific scripture is directly cited, the conversation echoes themes from 1 Peter 3:3-4, which reminds us that true beauty comes from within. We explore the delicate balance between taking care of our outward appearance and nurturing our inner selves. The dialogue challenges us to consider: Are we presenting ourselves authentically, or are we playing a character?
This connects to the broader spiritual journey of discovering our true identity in Christ. As we navigate societal expectations and personal convictions, we're...2025-01-301h 02
Beyond the LetterCultivating Character and Communication in Parenting | S2E15 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn our journey of faith, we often encounter the challenge of raising spiritually and emotionally strong children in a world that seems to coddle and overprotect. This conversation delves into the importance of allowing our children to face and overcome obstacles, drawing parallels to how God allows us to face trials to build our spiritual resilience. Just as we're called to 'consider it pure joy' when facing trials (James 1:2-4), we're encouraged to view our children's struggles as opportunities for growth.
The discussion emphasizes the need to balance love and discipline, teaching our children to be socially adept and...2025-01-2349 min
Beyond the LetterFrom Brokenness to Blessing: A Journey of Transformation | S2E14 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn this powerful conversation, we witness the transformative power of faith and community. We see how a couple's journey from a life of motorcycles and worldly pursuits to one centered on Christ can radically change not just their own lives, but the lives of their children and those around them. The story reminds us of the biblical narrative of Paul's conversion - a dramatic shift from persecutor to apostle. Just as Paul's life was completely reoriented by his encounter with Jesus, we see how this couple's lives were fundamentally changed by their decision to fully commit to Christ.
This...2025-01-1653 min
Beyond the LetterNavigating Marriage, Ministry, and Family Transitions | S2E13 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn our journey of faith, we often face transitions that test our resolve and challenge our relationships. This conversation reminds us of the importance of unity in marriage and family, especially during times of change. We see how open communication, vulnerability, and the willingness to seek God together can strengthen our bonds. The story of Joshua leading the Israelites into the Promised Land parallels our own experiences of stepping into new seasons with faith and courage.
Just as Joshua had to trust God's plan, we too must lean on His guidance when facing the...2025-01-0953 min
Beyond the LetterA Christian Perspective on Talent and Recognition | S2E12 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn our journey of faith, we often encounter moments where we feel God's presence in unexpected ways. This conversation reminds us of the shepherd's light that guided the way to Jesus. Just as the shepherds followed a divine sign, we too can experience moments where we feel God's guidance in our lives. However, it's crucial to discern between genuine spiritual experiences and our own projections.
The story shared about misinterpreting a dimmed light as a divine sign humorously illustrates how easily we can mistake everyday occurrences for spiritual interventions. This serves as a gentle reminder to approach our faith...2025-01-0238 min
Beyond the LetterNavigating Christian Dating and Marriage with Wisdom | S2E11 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn our journey of faith and relationships, we often grapple with the question of timing - especially when it comes to marriage. This conversation delves into the biblical perspective on dating and engagement, reminding us that while there's no set timeline, there's wisdom in patience. The discussion touches on Ephesians 5:25, where husbands are called to love their wives as Christ loved the church. This powerful metaphor challenges us to examine our relationships through a spiritual lens. Are we cultivating Christ-like love in our dating lives? Are we seeking to honor God in our pursuit of a partner? These questions...2024-12-2653 min
Beyond the LetterPersonal Experiences with Love Languages | S2E10 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn today's discussion, we explore the profound impact of understanding and appreciating our loved ones' love languages. Drawing from Dr. Gary Chapman's 'The Five Love Languages,' we're reminded that each person has unique ways of giving and receiving love. This insight isn't just about improving relationships – it's about deepening our capacity for empathy and selflessness, qualities that are at the heart of Christ's teachings. As we reflect on how Jesus demonstrated love in various ways – through acts of service, quality time with disciples, affirming words, and physical touch in healing – we're challenged to broaden our own expressions of love.2024-12-1946 min
Beyond the LetterPractical Advice for Christian Couples | S2E9 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn our journey of faith, we're often challenged to navigate the complexities of family life, especially in blended families. This discussion reminds us that building a strong foundation in Christ is crucial, whether we're newlyweds or bringing children from previous relationships. The emphasis on developing a voice of leadership while showing grace and patience echoes the biblical model of Christ's leadership in the church.
We're encouraged to create intentional moments of connection, like family dinners, where we can discuss our faith openly. This practice aligns with Deuteronomy 6:7, which instructs us to talk about God's commandments with our children in...2024-12-1245 min
Beyond the LetterNavigating Grief: A Christian Perspective on Loss and Support | S2E8 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn our journey through grief, we're reminded that it's not a process with a defined end, but rather a stone we carry in our pocket - always present, though its weight may lessen over time. This powerful metaphor invites us to embrace our grief as part of our ongoing spiritual journey. Just as Jesus wept for Lazarus, we too are allowed to grieve, even as people of faith. The story of Hannah in 1 Samuel teaches us about the importance of allowing others to grieve without trying to 'fix' their pain.
As we support loved ones through loss, we're called...2024-12-0552 min
Beyond the LetterA Thanksgiving Special | S2E7 BEYOND I DO PODCASTHappy Thanksgiving Beyond I Do family! Today we bring you a special episode as we briefly discuss bringing in new family traditions, the importance of rest, and tease a big milestone that will be celebrated in a future episode...
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Beyond the LetterNavigating Friendships and Loyalty in Marriage | S2E6 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn this powerful discussion, we explore the transformative power of forgiveness and reconciliation in our relationships. The story of Joseph and his brothers from Genesis serves as a poignant backdrop, reminding us that even in the face of betrayal and hurt, God can bring about restoration. We're challenged to examine our own hearts and consider how we handle conflict and correction. Are we quick to cut people off, or do we pursue reconciliation with patience and grace?
This message encourages us to view our relationships through a lens of long-term growth and discipleship, recognizing that God often uses friction...2024-11-211h 19
Beyond the LetterEmbracing Challenges: A Journey of Faith and Family | S2E5 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn this powerful discussion, we explore the transformative power of unconditional love and the impact of making difficult choices guided by faith. The story of taking in a troubled young family member mirrors the biblical narrative of adoption and redemption. Just as God adopts us into His family, we're called to extend that same grace to others, even when it's challenging. This experience teaches us about patience, perseverance, and the importance of community support in our spiritual journey.
We're reminded that sometimes, answering God's call means stepping out of our comfort zone and embracing uncertainty. The parallels drawn between...2024-11-141h 01
Beyond the LetterThe Importance of Community and Accountability in Marriage | S2E4 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn our journey of faith and marriage, we often underestimate the power of community. This conversation reminds us that building strong, Christ-centered relationships isn't just beneficial—it's crucial for our spiritual growth and marital health. We're challenged to step out of our comfort zones and invite others into our lives, not just superficially, but in ways that allow for genuine accountability and support.
The discussion echoes the wisdom found in Ecclesiastes 4:9-10: 'Two are better than one... If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.' By cultivating these deep connections, we create a network of...2024-11-0751 min
Beyond the LetterBalancing Personal Time and Family Life in Marriage | S2E3 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn this thought-provoking discussion, we explore the delicate balance between personal interests and family responsibilities in marriage. While no specific scripture is directly referenced, the conversation echoes the biblical principles of mutual respect and understanding found in Ephesians 5:21-33. We're challenged to examine our own relationships and consider how we can better support our spouses' individual pursuits while maintaining a strong family unit. The dialogue highlights the importance of open communication, shared calendars, and setting clear expectations.
As we reflect on this, we're encouraged to ask ourselves: Are we truly present for our loved ones? Are we allowing space...2024-10-3155 min
Beyond the LetterNavigating Marital Challenges with Open Communication | S2E2 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn this powerful discussion, we delve into the complexities of marriage and the importance of open communication. The central theme revolves around how misunderstandings can arise even in the strongest relationships, and how we must be vigilant against allowing insecurities to take root. We're reminded of the biblical principle found in Ephesians 4:26, 'Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry.' This story beautifully illustrates how addressing issues promptly and honestly can prevent small misunderstandings from growing into larger problems.
The conversation also touches on the dangers of comparing our private struggles with others' public...2024-10-2445 min
Beyond the LetterCultivating Biblical Leadership and Submission in Marriage | S2E1 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn our journey of faith, we often encounter the challenge of balancing our personal lives with our spiritual commitments. This conversation reminds us of the importance of prioritizing our marriages and relationships, even amidst the demands of ministry and family life. The biblical principle of 'leaving and cleaving' from Genesis 2:24 is beautifully illustrated here, as we're encouraged to establish healthy boundaries with extended family and invest in our core relationships.
Just as Christ prioritized His relationship with the Father, we too must make intentional efforts to nurture our closest bonds. This may mean scheduling regular date nights, taking couple...2024-10-171h 02
Beyond the LetterThe Importance of Mentorship and Accountability in Marriage | S1E52 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn our journey of faith, we often encounter the challenge of balancing our personal lives with our spiritual commitments. This conversation reminds us of the importance of prioritizing our marriages and relationships, even amidst the demands of ministry and family life. The biblical principle of 'leaving and cleaving' from Genesis 2:24 is beautifully illustrated here, as we're encouraged to establish healthy boundaries with extended family and invest in our core relationships.
Just as Christ prioritized His relationship with the Father, we too must make intentional efforts to nurture our closest bonds. This may mean scheduling regular date nights, taking couple...2024-10-101h 04
Beyond the LetterNavigating Marital Boundaries and Conflict Resolution | S1E51 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn this thought-provoking discussion, we explore the delicate balance of defending our spouses and maintaining personal accountability in our relationships. While the Bible doesn't directly address this topic, we can draw wisdom from Ephesians 5:25, which calls husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church. This love isn't about blindly defending, but about nurturing growth and maturity.
We're challenged to consider: When should we step in to defend our spouse, and when should we allow them to handle situations independently? This reflection invites us to examine our own reactions, biases, and communication patterns within our marriages. Are we...2024-10-0347 min
Beyond the LetterDebunking Marriage Clichés | S1E50 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn our journey of faith and relationships, we often encounter clichés that seem to offer simple solutions. However, as we delve deeper, we realize that true wisdom lies beyond these surface-level statements. One such cliché we explored is 'Happy wife, happy life.' While it may sound appealing, we discovered that making our spouse's happiness the sole focus can lead to unhealthy patterns and neglect of God's greater purpose for our marriages.
Instead, we're called to seek a vision for our family that aligns with God's will, balancing our desires with discipline and long-term goals. This reminds us of...2024-09-2648 min
Beyond the LetterMaintaining Marital Boundaries and Honor in a Secular World | S1E49 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn this powerful discussion, we delve into the sacred bonds of marriage and the importance of maintaining strong boundaries. While no specific scripture is directly quoted, the message strongly echoes the principles found in Ephesians 5:33, which calls husbands to love their wives and wives to respect their husbands. We explore how seemingly innocent interactions can potentially dishonor our spouses and compromise the sanctity of our marital covenant.
The conversation challenges us to examine our own behavior, asking whether we're truly putting our spouse first in all situations. Are we, perhaps unknowingly, inviting temptation or disrespecting our partner through our...2024-09-1956 min
Beyond the LetterBoundaries in Christian Dating and Marriage | S1E48 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn our spiritual journey, we often grapple with the question of how to balance our individual relationship with God and our shared faith experiences. This discussion delves into the importance of maintaining healthy boundaries in our spiritual lives, especially when it comes to dating relationships.
We're reminded that while praying together and supporting one another's faith is beautiful, there's a level of spiritual intimacy that's best reserved for marriage. The wisdom shared encourages us to focus on observing how potential partners live out their faith in everyday actions, rather than engaging in deep Bible studies together before marriage. This...2024-09-1252 min
Beyond the LetterNavigating Communication and Vulnerability in Marriage | S1E47 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn this exploration of marital communication, we discover the profound differences between how men and women express themselves and process emotions. We're reminded of the importance of understanding our spouse's unique communication style, which reflects God's intentional design for complementary partnerships.
Just as the body of Christ has many parts with different functions (1 Corinthians 12:12-27), so too do husbands and wives bring diverse strengths to their union. By embracing these differences and learning to communicate effectively, we can build stronger, more resilient marriages that glorify God.
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Beyond the LetterNavigating Christian Dating and Relationships | Beyond The Letter Podcast S2E44In this engaging discussion, we explore the challenges and joys of Christian dating and relationships. The conversation reminds us of Ruth's story in the Bible, where Naomi gave practical advice for finding a spouse. We're encouraged to be open to God's unexpected plans, just as Sanaz was when she met her husband Nathan, who didn't fit her preconceived notions. This teaches us to trust in God's wisdom over our own preferences.
The dialogue emphasizes the importance of character over superficial traits, urging us to seek partners who embody Christ-like qualities rather than worldly ideals. We're reminded that growth in...2024-08-121h 30
Beyond the LetterSupporting Your Spouse in Faith, Family, and Fitness | S1E46 BEYOND I DO PODCASTIn this powerful episode, we explore the vital connection between faith, family, and fitness. We're reminded that these three 'F's are essential for a healthy, balanced life. The discussion emphasizes the importance of supporting our spouses in their health and fitness journeys, recognizing that true support goes beyond mere words.
We're challenged to create an environment that fosters growth, whether it's removing temptations from the home or adjusting schedules to accommodate workout routines. This aligns with the biblical principle of treating our bodies as temples of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). The message encourages us to find a balance...2024-08-0151 min
Beyond the LetterSupporting Your Spouse's Faith Journey | S1E45 BEYOND I DO PODCASTWhy is it important for your spouse to support you in your faith, in marriage, while dating, and engaged?
In our journey of faith, we often encounter challenges in supporting our spouse's spiritual growth. This discussion reminds us of the importance of encouraging our partners in their relationship with God. We're called to create space for our loved ones to develop their faith, whether it's through personal Bible study, prayer, or attending church.
Let's reflect on how we can better support our spouse's faith journey, remembering that our actions often speak louder than words.
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Beyond the LetterBuilding Strong Family Relationships | BEYOND I DO PODCAST S1E44Welcome to Beyond I Do with your hosts, Adam and Ashlee!
In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashlee are on vacation in Mexico, but the conversations don't take a break! We explore the significance of building strong family relationships, touching on the importance of knowing key family dates and being actively involved in our children's lives. We also highlight the impact grandparents can have on family dynamics.
Balancing work and family responsibilities is another key topic we cover, discussing how to ensure every child feels equally valued and loved. We tackle the role of social media...2024-07-201h 00
Beyond the LetterMarriage Challenges: From Postpartum to Reconnection | BEYOND I DO PODCAST S1E42In this powerful discussion on marriage, we're reminded of the sacred covenant between husband and wife. The conversation delves into the challenges faced by couples, especially after having children. We're encouraged to view marriage as a lifelong commitment, not subject to fleeting emotions or physical changes.
The message emphasizes the importance of selflessness, patience, and understanding, particularly during difficult seasons like postpartum depression. We're called to reflect on how we can support our spouses through life's challenges, rather than focusing on our own desires. This echoes Paul's teachings in Ephesians 5:25, 'Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the...2024-07-0457 min
Beyond the LetterBalancing Work and Family Time as A Married Couple | BEYOND I DO PODCAST S1E41In our journey of faith and marriage, we often face challenges balancing our personal ambitions with family responsibilities. This conversation highlights the importance of mutual support and understanding between spouses, especially when one partner has a demanding career or calling.
We're reminded of the biblical principle of 'two becoming one' in marriage, and how this unity can be strengthened through open communication and shared goals.
Ashlee demonstrates a Christ-like attitude of sacrifice and support, recognizing Adam's calling and choosing to be a 'team player' in their shared mission.
We're encouraged to reflect on our own relationships and consider how...2024-06-2756 min
Beyond the LetterNavigating Dating, Marriage, and Providership | BEYOND I DO PODCAST S1E40In this insightful discussion, we explore the profound spiritual lessons that can guide us in building strong, God-centered relationships. The key message emphasizes the importance of evaluating a potential partner's character, work ethic, and relationship with God, rather than focusing solely on superficial aspects like material provision.
We are reminded of the biblical principles that define a true partnership - selflessness, commitment, and the desire to honor God through the union. The conversation draws thought-provoking parallels between society's misguided relationship expectations and the timeless wisdom found in scripture. As we reflect on these insights, we are encouraged to prioritize...2024-06-2059 min
Beyond the LetterPrioritizing Marriage and Family Relationships | BEYOND I DO PODCAST S1E39In this inspiring discussion, we explore the profound importance of nurturing our marriages and making quality time with our spouses a top priority. Just as we need to care for our own bodies as temples of the Holy Spirit, we must also tend to the sacred bond of marriage, even amidst the busyness of parenting and life's demands. Through honest communication, self-reflection, and seeking God's wisdom, we can identify areas where our marriages need strengthening. By intentionally setting aside time to connect with our spouses, free from distractions, we create space for emotional intimacy, healing, and falling in love...2024-06-131h 02
Beyond the LetterLessons after one year of Marriage | BEYOND I DO PODCAST S1E38In this lively and candid episode of Beyond I Do, newlyweds Colin and Eileen reflect on their first year of marriage, diving into the joys and challenges they've faced. Navigating new careers, setting healthy boundaries with opposite-sex friends, and learning to communicate effectively are just a few of the key topics discussed.
They share insightful tips on balancing traditions during the holidays, the importance of pre-marital counseling, and how their relationship has grown stronger despite the busyness of life. Plus, a humorous debate over their latest pickleball matches brings plenty of laughs.
Join us for an authentic look at...2024-06-0641 min
Beyond the LetterHealthy Sexual Boundaries in Marriage | BEYOND I DO PODCAST S1E37In today's episode we are answering a listeners question!
This discussion dives deep into the importance of maintaining healthy boundaries and purity within a marriage. We learn that introducing external sexual influences, whether pornography, strip clubs, or other deviant behaviors, can slowly erode the intimacy and oneness God intended for the marital relationship.
Just as detoxing from an addiction is a difficult process, removing these negative elements from a marriage is challenging but essential for the couple's spiritual wellbeing. We emphasize the need for open communication, counseling, accountability, and most importantly, anchoring one's identity firmly in Christ.
Ultimately, we...2024-05-3038 min
Beyond the LetterWoman Proposes to Boyfriend, Wedding Planning, Conflict Resolution | BEYOND I DO PODCAST | S1E36Hey BID Fam! We got an update on the rims lol but we also have a lot more in this episode (BID S1E35)
In this heartfelt conversation, we explore the profound spiritual lessons that can be gleaned from the everyday moments and challenges of married life. From the seemingly trivial frustrations over damaged car rims to the deeper questions around gender roles and wedding traditions, there are treasures of wisdom to uncover when we view our relationships through the lens of faith.
We are reminded of the importance of maintaining healthy boundaries, open communication, and mutual respect as...2024-05-231h 05
Beyond the LetterResolving Conflict as a Couple | BEYOND I DO PODCAST S1E35Have you ever been upset with your spouse? lol who hasn't!
Our conversation this week mirrors the roads couples travel, with twists, turns, and the occasional need for roadside assistance. We open the trunk on the tools necessary for nurturing the long haul of relationships—listening, laughing, and learning from each misstep.
Revving to the finish line, we park at the intersection of personal space and shared life paths, discussing how respecting each other's belongings is more than just about things—it's about valuing effort and affection. We also reflect on how friendships shape our married lives, exam...2024-05-1646 minPatria SermonsOur G.P.S. || Ashlee Mesa#alfc #abundantlivingfamilychurch #jesus #love #churchonline #churchservice #2023sermonIf you would like to create and register for your Church Pass visit: https://alfc.church.ai/onboarding/create-profileIf you would like to support this ministry in reaching people around the globe, click here: https://www.alfc.faith/giveIf you’ve just made a decision for Christ and said YES, please respond HERE: https://www.grow.faith/If you are new, please click HERE: https://bit.ly/alfcnewguestJoin us every Sunday for service at 9am and 11am, as well as We...2023-02-1624 min