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Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love050 - Parafilia, Fantasy, & SexThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.On today’s episode, we answer the following questions:I’ve been leading Betrayal & Beyond groups. Sometimes I’ll have women whose husbands are involved in paraphilia and I wonder how to help them. (Cross dressing, exhibitionism, anonymous sex with other men even though they are not homosexual, etc.) I haven’t seen or heard any advice from PD on this subject. Can you offer some encouraging things I could share with them? I don’t want to make them feel worse by s...2025-05-0617 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love049 - The Fallout of Addiction & BetrayalThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.On today’s episode, we answer the following questions:I left my abusive marriage for the safety of my children and myself, and my ex-husband has since passed away. As I grow through recovery and faith, I've started considering dating again. However, I've begun having intrusive thoughts about whether the men around me are engaging in problematic behaviors like masturbation and porn. Do you have any suggestions for minimizing these intrusive thoughts or handling them when they occur?My husband has be...2025-04-2917 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love048 - Getting Through Your Husband's Prostitution, Affairs, & LiesEmail us your questions! - unfiltered@puredesire.orgThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.In this episode, we answer these questions:- I’m 27 and married for four years with no kids. Six months in, I discovered my husband’s porn addiction and his solicitation of a prostitute. Over the years, he’s continued deceptive behavior, including porn use on a hidden phone, and refusing counseling. In February 2025, he received a threatening call from the 'cartel' (not the first time in our marriage). Though he pro...2025-04-2221 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love047 - Emotional Betrayal, Trauma, & HealingEmail us your questions! - unfiltered@puredesire.orgThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.In this episode, we answer these questions: In 2006, I found out my husband had a pornography addiction. He later worked at a church and grew close to a female coworker. In January 2021, he admitted relapsing and revealed that this coworker helped him stop, claiming to be in love with her. I saw it as an emotional affair and asked him to stop texting her. Four years later, he still texts he...2025-04-1523 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & LoveHealing from Betrayal with Dr. Barbara Steffens | Guest EpisodeEmail us your questions! - unfiltered@puredesire.orgThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.When we experience betrayal, it seems as though our world has been turned upside down. This type of trauma can leave us feeling paralyzed and alone, unsure of what’s happening to us and if healing is even possible. On today’s episode, we are honored to have Dr. Barbara Steffens as our guest. She is the author of Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal and the founding Presiden...2025-04-0844 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love046 - Is It Possible For My Husband To Achieve Sobriety?Email us your questions! - unfiltered@puredesire.orgThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions:- Is lifelong sobriety possible? My husband has been addicted to pornography since he was 12-13. He has gone through a 12 step recovery program and gained 2 years of sobriety and good recovery. Recently, he has started relapsing over a 6 month period and has reached a point where he quit his job and checked himself into a 30-day inpatient addiction recovery center. I am trying to...2025-04-0118 min
The Covenant Eyes PodcastBreaking the Silence on Sexual Brokenness: Empowering Women to Heal with Ashley JamesonSend us a textLearn More About Arise for Women: https://cvnteyes.co/3ZvW65UIn this powerful episode of The Covenant Eyes Podcast, host Karen Potter is joined by Heidi Cooper, Covenant Eyes' recovery specialist, and Ashley Jameson from Pure Desire Ministries. Together, they dive deep into the struggles women face in dealing with sexual brokenness, including addiction, shame, and the devastating impact of pornography. They explore the difficult conversations around healing from sexual trauma, the challenges of discussing these topics in the church...2025-03-2633 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love045 - Menopause, Addiction, & Reintegrating SexEmail us your questions! - unfiltered@puredesire.orgThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.In this episode, we answer these questions:Do you have any suggestions on menopause and the effect it has on sexual intimacy? How to work through it, as well as just how important is sexual intimacy in a relationship? I know emotional intimacy is key but what about the physical?I would be interested in hearing a talk about the challenges of sex after menopause, especially when porn was in our...2025-03-2518 min
Relationship Prescriptions with Dr. CarolA Conversation on Porn, Marriage, the Church, and Raising Kids in a Digital AgePornography is no longer just a "worldly issue"—it has deeply impacted Christian marriages (including women) and families. In this powerful episode, we sit down with Ashley Jameson, Associate Director of Women’s Groups for Pure Desire, who has not only faced the reality of porn in her own story but has also walked alongside countless women seeking freedom and healing. She shares eye-opening statistics on porn’s devastating effects, from intimacy struggles in marriage to the rising number of women battling addiction. But this conversation isn’t about fear—it’s about redemption. Ashley Jameson offers hope-filled guidance for...2025-03-2541 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love044 - Unique Forms of BetrayalEmail us your questions! - unfiltered@puredesire.orgThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.In this episode, we answer these questions:The language often used by Pure Desire is for married couples, but what about the seriously dating couples who are moving toward marriage? What counsel do you have for young Christian adults in committed dating relationships who are close to engagement/marriage when porn addiction comes into the light?When a husband asks his wife to perform sexual acts he’s seen in porn, is...2025-03-1811 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love043 - The Complexity Of SexEmail us your questions! - unfiltered@puredesire.orgThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions: How do I tread the line between being a trigger for my husband and still being sexy and flirty? I used to love wearing lingerie type nightgowns and throughout the day send messages to my husband about plans for our sexy time. But now I’m scared that if I send him a text like this, it will make him have sexual thoughts and he will hav...2025-03-1115 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love042 - How Can an Addicted Husband Lead?Email us your questions! - unfiltered@puredesire.orgThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions:I'm the addict spouse, and I've had a porn addiction since I was 11 years old (I'm 26 now). I've struggled with sexual addiction well before my wife and I met. I'm in recovery and making progress, but it’s still a very present struggle. How do I lead in my marriage when I feel like I'm not good enough in this area? Or perhaps from my wife's pe...2025-03-0420 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love041 - I think I'm Done With This MarriageEmail us your questions! - unfiltered@puredesire.orgThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.In this episode, we answer these questions:I’m 62 years old and found out about my husbands porn addiction over 6 years ago. He had disclosed to me that he had been masturbating and using porn since he was 12 years old. It was devastating. We’ve sought help in many areas: from our church, groups, and counseling. The problem: my husband has never been able to achieve sobriety, ever. He has never stop...2025-02-2517 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love040 - What Do I Do After An Affair?Email us your questions! - unfiltered@puredesire.orgThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions:How do I start a discussion with my husband? He's now bringing up that he thinks I was unfaithful to him 10 years ago. He is currently texting with a girl that he used to text with in a sexual context 4 months ago. He says it's no longer sexual, just small talk and he's shown me some of the messages.I felt neglected when he was deep...2025-02-1817 min
The SpeakeasyHealing from Pornography: A Conversation on Addiction, Shame, and Support | Ashley JamesonAssociate Director at Pure Desire Ashley Jameson joins Blake to discuss the often-overlooked topic of women and pornography, addressing the shame, struggles, and lack of support many women face in Christian communities. Ashley shares her personal journey of discovering her husband's addiction, her own struggles with sex and love addiction, and the challenges of finding real help within the church. The discussion also covers how early exposure to pornography can be a form of trauma, shaping unhealthy perceptions of sex and relationships. The conversation highlights the need for integrating biblical truth with psychological and clinical insights, emphasizing the importance...2025-02-121h 02
The Fierce Freedom PodcastHelp for Compulsive S*xual Behaviors & Betrayal Trauma w/ Certified S*x Addiction ProfessionalToday's guest Ashley Jameson works as a Certified Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional and is passionate about partnering with churches to help individuals break free from addiction and shame, build healthy intimacy, and embrace the life God has for them through her work with Pure Desire Ministries. She shares with listeners about how her personal experiences with teen pregnancy, s*x and love addiction, and betrayal trauma have inspired her work now. Above all, she wants listeners to know that there is hope and healing with this kind of addiction is possible whoever you are and wherever you've...2025-02-1143 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love039 - How Do I Support My Addicted Husband?Email us your questions! - unfiltered@puredesire.orgThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions:Do I have to have sex whenever he wants it to keep him from temptation?My husband is working on his recovery, but he says he needs me to be more supportive. I’m crushed and angry. How can I tell him I am unable to cheer him on right now?Is it true that men only feel intimacy through sex?Resources:Find Al...2025-02-1114 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love038 - Let's Talk About Control & Manipulation Email us your questions! - unfiltered@puredesire.orgThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions:What is the difference between being controlling and setting boundaries?We are 6 years into recovery from my infidelity. My husband still associates my drinking with me being unfaithful. We've had to work through his controlling tendencies and unintentional manipulation in our recovery process. He is definitely more important than alcohol, but if I say I’m not going to drink, I feel like it’s giving into...2025-02-0417 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love037 - The Do's and Don'ts of Marital Sex (What's Not Okay?)Email us your questions! - unfiltered@puredesire.orgThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions:Over 30 years ago, an elderly woman met with one of our pastors to tell him that the Lord had told her that oral sex is a sin. He took it to heart, and preached a whole sermon about its evils. Is oral sex a sin?If both husband and wife agree, is masturbation okay?Is there a sexual act in the marriage bed that's wrong? I've...2025-01-3010 min
The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice#62 27 Hand Job Tips to Make Him Explode with Ashley MantaHand jobs are often overlooked as an appetizer to sexual experiences when the truth is, they can lead to an incredible explosion of pleasure for anyone with a penis! In this episode of The Bad Girls Bible, sex expert Ashley Manta joins us to share her hand job tips. Tuning in, you’ll gain insight into Ashley’s extensive experience working as a sexual violence counselor, a phone sex operator, and even at a Planned Parenthood clinic. You’ll find out how she became passionate about helping people improve their sex lives and how she found an amazing connection betwee...2025-01-2944 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love036 - Porn is Destroying My Marriage…What do I do?Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.In this episode, we answer these questions:Why does my spouse's porn use and inappropriate sexual behavior feel so personal (even though it’s not)? Understanding this has been one of the hardest parts of my journey.My husband has, what I'll call, a porn addiction induced inability to orgasm. What I would like to know, is this fixable? He is in a Pure Desire group right now and just started Seven Pillars. If it is fixable, what do we need to...2025-01-2317 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love035 - Why Support Groups are Essential in Betrayal HealingThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.In this episode, we answer these questions:I’m close to completing the Betrayal & Beyond group but it doesn’t seem like our group will continue to interact much after the group ends. I am only 6 months into this journey and still feel like I need the support of a group (especially since no one in my real life knows about this issue). If the recovery process is 3-5 years, what do y’all recommend for continued connection after Betrayal & Beyond? Are th...2025-01-1619 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love034 - Navigating Anger and Lack of Attraction During SexEmail us your questions! - unfiltered@puredesire.orgThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.In this episode, we answer these questions: I feel rage every time I have sex with my husband. I am angry about how he took advantage of me all these years by having sex with himself and stealing my sex. I do NOT want him to feel any pleasure because he has already stolen enough pleasure for a lifetime through abusive behaviors. How can I possibly move forward in this relationship? A...2025-01-0917 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love033 - Handling Unique Betrayal SituationsEmail us your questions! - unfiltered@puredesire.orgThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.On this episode, we answer the following questions:I'm in a Betrayal & Beyond group and it's been great for healing BUT my question is, where do I fit in as the girlfriend? How do I approach a Safety Action Plan when I'm not a spouse and don't really know about relapses or anything in that space?We just had our 31st anniversary—second one since disclosure. It was rather miserable for me...2025-01-0214 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love032 - Rethinking Sex: Answering Your Unique Sex QuestionsEmail us your questions! - unfiltered@puredesire.orgThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.On this episode, we answer the following questions:My husband has cancer and is unable to have an erection without viagra. He's offered to help me achieve orgasm in other ways, but this feels selfish. What do I do?How do you deal with your sex drive after your spouse dies? You ladies talked about prior marriages but does it work the same way with the death of a spouse?How...2024-12-2615 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love031 - Is Abstinence In Recovery Biblical?Email us your questions! - unfiltered@puredesire.org Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions:In porn/sex addiction recovery resources, most of them seem to recommend a celibacy period of at least 90 days. My husband, who is a recovering porn addict, uses 1 Corinthians 7:5 to say that is unbiblical, saying that if we "deprive each other" then we will be more likely to fall into temptation. If the celibacy period is truly something that is worth doing to speed up recovery, how do...2024-12-1912 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love030 - Creating Boundaries That Actually Make a DifferenceThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.On this episode, we answer the following questions:What do I do if my boundaries are not honored and my spouse continues to gaslight me and make me feel like the mean one?What is the best way to come up with boundaries and what are some good boundaries?We have been doing "recovery" for 6 years now. My husband cannot go more than 6 months white knuckling sobriety before diving back into addiction—then lying and telling me he’s sober. I’ve tri...2024-12-1215 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love029 - Who Else is in Your Bedroom?Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.On this episode, we answer the following questions:How do I stop thinking about the prostitutes my husband was with when he and I have sex? How do I get my head sorted out?Do you ever get to the point where your spouse's past with a prostitute doesn't bother you or will you always experience triggers?What happens when a partner’s porn and sex addiction ends up rearing its ugly head in the marital bedroom?Resources:Th...2024-12-0614 min
JonBenét TodétJonBenét Todét | Episode 46 | Reach Out & Teach Someone | The Ramsey Machine w/ Special Guest Ashley RayBobby & Teddy discuss the Netflix Documentary aftermath and how The Ramsey Machine has been churning out the same propaganda for almost 30 years. They are also joined by their special guest, ASHLEY RAY!
Ashley Ray is a comedian, actor, and writer, who recently came under fire from John Andrew Ramsey himself for posting a substack article critical of The Ramsey's and suggesting Burke's involvement.
Read her article HERE -
https://deeptrouble.substack.com/p/why-the-jonbenet-case-still-feels
Check out her very funny Comedy Album 'Ice Cream Money'
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6o-RtdZGdDA&list=OLAK5uy_m37BoFls0PJSs9JB7c9...2024-12-051h 04
Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder?#423 - How to Heal from S*xual Brokenness with Ashley JamesonMy guest this week is the amazing Ashley Jameson. She is the Associate Director of Pure Desire Ministries- a ministry dedicated to equipping individuals and churches with the tools to heal from the impacts of sexual brokenness, addiction, and betrayal. She and her husband, John, discovered Pure Desire during one of the most challenging seasons of their marriage, battling the devastation caused by a pornography addiction. It’s tools and resources provided them with the support necessary to heal their marriage and family. Four years later, Ashley now leads leadership training for Pure Desire's regional group advisors na...2024-12-0445 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love028 - Will My Husband Always Choose His Addiction Over Me?Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.On this episode, we answer the following questions:My husband is in a Pure Desire group but does the bare minimum. He says he’s sober and offended that I don’t trust him. He says he will always resent me for asking for a polygraph. Should my husband’s attitude toward me change with recovery?Is it an unrealistic expectation that my husband wouldn't fantasize about other women?Will my husband always be a sex addict and want his addiction more t...2024-11-2818 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love027 - Top Questions Women Have About Sexual AbuseThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.On this episode, we answer the following questions:How do I process my own betrayal from his porn addiction and abusing my daughters and their friends?How do I reconcile with my daughter, who was sexually abused by her dad, whom I'm still married to?We have not resumed anything sexual, hardly even touching, as we work with a coach on building intimacy emotionally and spiritually in our relationship. I realized recently that I feel like it will be betraying my...2024-11-2116 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love026 - The Dark Details of Sexual FantasyThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.On this episode, we answer the following questions:I’m in a Betrayal & Beyond group and my husband is in a Seven Pillars group. We are working through this painful process. I’m curious about what specifically men are seeking out that they are not being provided with by their partners? Are we talking about specific acts, positions, role playing? I would love to understand what makes pornography better than me. Part of my addicted spouse’s acting out is using me for s...2024-11-1418 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love025 - The Emotional Impact of SexThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.On this episode, we answer the following questions:When my husband's secret affair life was exposed, I felt like I had to have sex all of the time to keep him from cheating. Now, he doesn't know how to have sex (or true intimacy) because sex was always "done to him." How do we work through all of this?How do I deal with my husband not being sexually interested in me?My husband is doing well with his recovery, but...2024-11-0726 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love024 - One Sided HealingThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather.On this episode, we answer the following questions:I'm the only one in my group whose husband is not working on recovery or counseling of any kind. How do I navigate this, not manipulate or give ultimatums, and keep myself safe as I engage in this healing process alone?For me to feel safe and start rebuilding trust, I’ve asked to see my husband’s emails, but he refuses. He won’t join a men’s recovery group. I don’t know how...2024-10-3124 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love023 - Parenting While In Recovery (Part 2)Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions:As a parent in recovery, how do I start the conversation about sexual health with my kids?Is there anything about a teen brain that is different from an adult when it comes to struggling sexually or emotionally?How can I help my kids who struggle? (not just boys, but girls struggle too)ResourcesFull Episode On YoutubeBetrayal & BeyondUnraveled: Managing Love, Sex, and RelationshipsAuthentically Y...2024-10-2419 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love022 - Parenting While In Recovery Part 1Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. On this episode, we answer the following questions:As a parent in recovery, how do I start the conversation about sexual health with my kids?Is there anything about a teen brain that is different from an adult when it comes to struggling sexually or emotionally?How can I help my kids who struggle?ResourcesFull Episode On YoutubeBetrayal & BeyondUnraveled: Managing Love, Sex, and RelationshipsAuthentically YouSeven Pillars
2024-10-1719 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love021 - Trading AddictionsThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions: If we struggle with addictions, why can’t we just quit cold-turkey? How long will it take to fully recover from addictive behaviors?How can the Three Circles tool help?ResourcesFull Episode On YoutubeBetrayal & BeyondUnraveled: Managing Love, Sex, and RelationshipsAuthentically YouSeven PillarsThree Circles Tool
Find this and all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com...2024-10-1020 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love020 - Women, the Church, and ShameThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. On this episode, we answer these questions:I went to my church for help and left feeling more confused and ashamed. What should I do now?If I’m a woman who struggles, how do I know if I can go to my church for help? What can churches do to create safe environments for women who need help whether it's their own sexual struggles or betrayal from someone else?If you have a question you’d like us to answer on Unfil...2024-10-0315 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love019 - I Relapsed Last WeekendThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex & Love, with Ashley and Heather. On this episode, we answer these questions:I relapsed last weekend and feel so much shame. How do I pick myself up off the floor?Who do I tell about my relapse?What tools can I use to get back to restoration? If you have a question you’d like us to answer on Unfiltered, email us at unfiltered@puredesire.org or simply reply to this email. We can’t wait to hear from you!ResourcesFull Episode On Youtu...2024-09-2611 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love018 - My Marriage Is A FacadeThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. On this episode, we answer the following questions:Everyone thinks he’s the ideal husband, but I’m miserable. Where do I find help if nobody sees the problem?Why is it so hard to walk away from someone causing me pain?My husband and I are in counseling, and the counselor thinks I’m the one overreacting. What can I do?If you have a question you’d like us to answer on Unfiltered, email us at unfiltered@puredesire.org. We can’t wa...2024-09-1913 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love017 - Mom Life - Part 2: As a Struggling MomThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex & Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions: How much do I share with my kids?If I tell people about my struggles, will I look like a bad mom? How do I avoid hurting my kids while I’m recovering? Will I be able to raise secure kids when I’m such a mess?If you have a question you’d like us to answer on Unfiltered, email us at unfiltered@puredesire.org. We can’t wait to hear from you!Resour...2024-09-1224 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love016 - Mom Life - Part 1: As a Betrayed MomThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions: Since discovery, I can’t seem to function like I did before. I’m crying one minute and angry the next. How long will this last?As a betrayed mom, what steps can I take to begin healing and ensure I don’t take out my pain on my kids?How much do I share with my kids?P.S. If you have a question you’d like us to answer on Unfiltered, email us a...2024-09-0515 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love015 - Sex & SingleThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. On this episode, we answer these questions:What does it mean to be sexually healthy as a single?What type of boundaries should I have for dating?I’ve heard of the “love cocktail” of chemicals people experience when falling in love. Can a person actually experience withdrawals from feeling in love?ResourcesFull Episode on YouTube
Find this and all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@_UnfilteredPodcast/videos GET STARTED2024-08-2914 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love014 - Understanding My Thoughts, Feelings, & BehaviorsThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions: What comes first: thoughts, feelings, or behaviors?I grew up in a home where we didn’t talk about feelings. How can I learn more about feelings, so I can teach my kids about feelings?I struggle with talking about feelings, especially to my husband. What can I do to get better at communicating my feelings?ResourcesFull Episode on YouTube
Find this and all episodes on YouTube: http...2024-08-2217 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love013 - Sex After BetrayalThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions: I could go the rest of my life without sex. Is this normal?My husband is sexually anorexic. What does this say about me?Does the Bible really tell us we can’t withhold sex from our husbands?ResourcesThe Great Sex Rescue, by Sheila Wray GregoireBetrayal & BeyondFull Episode on YouTube
Find this and all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@_Unfi...2024-08-1518 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love012 - Is this Normal?Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. On this episode, we answer the following questions:I’m five days post disclosure and I’m clueless how to handle this. How should I feel? Can I sleep with my husband if I want and be so angry and hurt at the same time? It’s a weird place to be. He didn’t have an affair but lots of acting out online in chat rooms, fantasy too. I think I’m still numb, is that normal? I’m also a therapist s...2024-08-0814 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love011 - When will my Husband Learn about Betrayal Trauma?Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions: I’m in a Betrayal & Beyond group and it’s teaching me so much about emotional awareness and health. My husband is in a Seven Pillars group and he’s not learning anything about emotional health or betrayal trauma? Why is this?When/How will my husband learn to be empathetic and take responsibility for the pain he’s caused me, if it’s not in the Seven Pillars work?My husband has been in group for months...2024-08-0116 min
Grab the Essential Full Audiobooks in Romance, ModernWhere We Promise by Ashley MuñozPlease visit https://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/784789 to listen full audiobooks. Title: Where We Promise Series: #3 of Stone Riders MC Author: Ashley Muñoz Narrator: Faith Clark, Nick Mondelli Format: Unabridged Audiobook Length: 9 hours 44 minutes Release date: July 30, 2024 Ratings: Ratings of Book: 5 of Total 2 Ratings of Narrator: 5 of Total 1 Genres: Modern Publisher's Summary: The Amazon bestselling motorcycle club romance series returns in this third installment. Book three will follow two new members of the Stone Riders MC, who have been thrust into suspense and are sure to steal your heart. In a tangled mess of betrayal and chaos, I was mo...2024-07-3003 min
Get Your Favorite Free Audiobooks in Romance, MysteryWhere We Promise by Ashley MuñozPlease visit https://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/784789 to listen full audiobooks. Title: Where We Promise Series: #3 of Stone Riders MC Author: Ashley Muñoz Narrator: Faith Clark, Nick Mondelli Format: Unabridged Audiobook Length: 9 hours 44 minutes Release date: July 30, 2024 Ratings: Ratings of Book: 5 of Total 2 Ratings of Narrator: 5 of Total 1 Genres: Mystery Publisher's Summary: The Amazon bestselling motorcycle club romance series returns in this third installment. Book three will follow two new members of the Stone Riders MC, who have been thrust into suspense and are sure to steal your heart. In a tangled mess of betrayal and chaos, I was mo...2024-07-3003 min
Get Your Favorite Full Audiobooks in Romance, MysteryWhere We Promise by Ashley MuñozPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/784789to listen full audiobooks.
Title: Where We Promise
Series: #3 of Stone Riders MC
Author: Ashley Muñoz
Narrator: Faith Clark, Nick Mondelli
Format: Unabridged Audiobook
Length: 9 hours 44 minutes
Release date: July 30, 2024
Ratings: Ratings of Book: 5 of Total 2
Ratings of Narrator: 5 of Total 1
Genres: Mystery
Publisher's Summary:
The Amazon bestselling motorcycle club romance series returns in this third installment. Book three will follow two new members of the Stone Riders MC, who have been thrust into suspense and are sure to steal your heart. In a tangled mess of betrayal and chaos, I was moved al...2024-07-309h 44Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love010 - Good Sex, Bad SexThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions: Can my husband rape me?Can I say no to my husband?I feel disconnected when we don't have sex, but when I have sex with my husband I feel used. What can I do to change this pattern?ResourcesFull Episode on YouTube
Find this and all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@_UnfilteredPodcast/videos GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Be...2024-07-2516 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love009 - Orgasm…That’s Right, We Said ItThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. On this episode, we answer these questions:My question is how do you know if you are actually having an orgasm?I don’t know that I have ever enjoyed sex. I can orgasm but I don’t know how to wake my body up. Sex was shamed in my Christian home then I was supposed to enjoy it after marriage but for so long, sex was used as a tool when my husband was in his addiction. We are doing so much bett...2024-07-1820 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love008 - Sex and ShameThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. On this episode, we answer these questions:My husband went to a “massage parlor” for a hand job about every two weeks until I discovered what he was doing 13 months later. How do I get over the shame?My question is, after a 33-year marriage, where I trusted my husband, I found out he was having a long-term affair with a married woman. I suspected porn and seeing some of the pictures on his phone, he was into some very devious stuff. I’m now...2024-07-1119 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love007 - Lying, Gaslighting, and the TruthThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. On this episode, we answer the following questions:Since discovery, it's been hard for me to know when my husband is telling me the truth. Should I trust my gut intuition even though he’s telling me I’m being paranoid?What is gaslighting? Can you give examples of what this looks like?What are the best ways to respond if I think someone is gaslighting me?Show Notes:The Betrayal Bind, by Michelle MaysResourcesFull...2024-07-0417 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love006 - When Anger Shows Up UnannouncedThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions: Why am I so angry?My husband betrayed me; why am I taking it out on my kids?Growing up, it was implied that being angry was sinful. I know I'm hurt but how do I know if I'm dealing with anger?Show NotesAnger TestResourcesFull episode on YouTube
Find this and all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@_UnfilteredPodcast/videos ...2024-06-2716 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love005 - Is Sexual Addiction Legit?Thanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions: Is calling a sexual sin “addiction” just excusing the behavior?Is sex addiction real?People who struggle with sex addiction, why can’t they just stop the behavior?Show NotesUnraveled: Managing Love, Sex, and RelationshipsResourcesFull episode on YouTube
Find this and all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@_UnfilteredPodcast/videos GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understa...2024-06-2017 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love004 - D-Day: Discovering Sexual BetrayalThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions: What is betrayal trauma?My husband says I'm overreacting but the pain and foggy-headedness I'm feeling seem uncontrollable. Is it possible to heal from betrayal trauma?Women I’ve been with in group use phrases like "before Pure Desire and after Pure Desire.” What are they referring to?ResourcesFull Episode on YouTube
Find this and all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@_UnfilteredPodcast/videos GET STA...2024-06-1315 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love003 - FantasyThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions: Is fantasy ever okay?Should my husband share his fantasies with me?I can’t be intimate with my husband unless I fantasize. How can I practice being more present?Show NotesThe Fantasy Fallacy, by Shannon EthridgeResourcesFull Episode on YouTube
Find this and all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@_UnfilteredPodcast/videos GET STARTEDFree...2024-06-0622 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love002 - Sex, Sex, and More About SexThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions: I quit drinking and now I don’t enjoy sex. How can I learn to like sex again?I am afraid to re-engage with my husband sexually after quitting porn. How do I learn to become aroused by my husband instead?My husband and I are doing well with our recovery and healing but I’m still afraid to engage sexually, because I can’t get the images of his porn use and affairs out of m...2024-06-0622 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love001 - Where to Turn after Sexual BetrayalThanks for listening to Unfiltered: Real Talk about Sex and Love, with Ashley and Heather. In this episode, we answer these questions: I’m nervous about telling anyone what’s really happening in my marriage. Where can I find safe people?Since discovery, I feel like I’m going crazy! Where can I find help?Is this long, expensive process going to fix anything, when I’m not the one with the problem?ResourcesFull Episode on YouTube
Find this and all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@_UnfilteredPodcast/videos...2024-06-0623 minUnfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & LoveTRAILER - Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex & LoveSince 2016, Ashley Jameson and Heather Kolb have supported, educated, and equipped women to experience sexual health, healing from betrayal trauma, and success in relationships. We know what it’s like to be in crisis—searching for answers—and continually hearing the churchy answer. Each week, you’ll hear real talk about sex and relationships from a biblical and clinical perspective.ResourcesFull Episode on YouTube
Find this and all episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@_UnfilteredPodcast/videos GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma2024-05-3001 min
Thicc Man IncOne BOLD Prediction for EVERY NFC Team | NFL 2024We give one bold prediction each for every single NFC team. What are your hot takes for the NFC in 2024? Let us know in the comments!
Time Stamps:
00:00 Intro
00:23 Will Dak Prescott be a Cowboy next year?
02:50 Brian Daboll’s final season in New York
03:54 Malik Nabers Offensive Rookie of the Year?
05:29 A healthy amount of giants hate
06:09 Tush Push is even better than last year?
06:48 Saquon Barkley set to break the rushing record?
08:10 Commanders will have a to...2024-05-2335 min
PSR PodcastUnderstanding Female Sexuality and StrugglesIn this episode, we welcome back Ashley Jameson from Pure Desire Ministries. She helps us understand trauma, addiction, and women's struggles with sex and relationships, shining a light on the importance of transforming our worldly views on sexuality.Ashley candidly highlights the different ways women grapple with their sexuality. Ranging from matters of toxic relationships to fears of intimacy, her insights and personal journey resonate deeply.Ashley also explores the negative impact of violent sexual acts in fantasies and media content. She emphasizes the urgent need to redefine our perspective of sexuality as a beautiful...2024-04-1031 min
The Covenant Eyes PodcastBreaking the Silence: Navigating Sexual Brokenness, With Ashley Jameson | Covenant Eyes PodcastSend us a textIn this powerful episode of The Covenant Eyes Podcast, join host Karen Potter and special guest Ashley Jameson from Pure Desire Ministries as they dive deep into the crucial conversation surrounding women's struggles with sexual brokenness. Ashley, an associate director of women's groups at Pure Desire, shares her own journey of overcoming sexual addiction and betrayal, providing invaluable insights and wisdom along the way.Discover how technology, social media, and societal pressures are impacting women's sexual identities and relationships, and learn practical strategies for navigating these challenges. From the importance of...2024-03-1320 min
Girl Talk with Krissy and LaurenHow Ashley Created a Communal CompanyIn this episode we interview successful young entrepreneur Ashley McKinney-Jameson about her mother daughter journey building Holy Cow Tack & Feed into the communal company it is today.
Join us for her best kept secrets and genuinely lovely demeanor!
@HolyCowTackFeedPet on Facebook & Instagram2023-12-1931 min
Question EverythingFearless creative wins clients with Jameson Fleming, Managing Editor @ AdweekExtra, extra – Adweek’s Jameson Fleming has entered the chat. This news guru has held just about every role possible in the Adweek newsroom – now serving as Managing Editor of Marketing and Agencies. Our favorite thing about Jameson? His passion for agencies big and small makes him very accessible. Even to independent shops like ours. But it hasn’t always been all advertising for Jameson. Before getting his start in the industry, he earned his stripes in sports: covering a Super Bowl, Final Four, and the longest college hoops game in history – all before he was 24, NBD. You may ev...2023-12-0435 min
We Are One PodcastS1 Ep 5 | Do You Crave And Fear Intimacy At The Same Time? with Ashley JamesonAre you a Christian male or female struggling with love, sex, and relationships? If so, please know we love you and are here for you because we know this is not something one person is struggling with but it is something everyone in every church and city around the world can and struggles with to an extent.
Today, I brought Ashley Jameson from Pure Desire Ministries to talk about the lack of addressing sexual brokenness in the church, what to do about it, and the healing we can get from processing our unprocessed trauma from our past...2023-10-091h 02
Unsung Murder BalladsEpisode 24: Ashley Pond and Miranda GaddisWe'd Love to hear from you!! Message us here!!In this episode, Janus, Jameson, and Joyous Dead discuss the abductions and murders of Ashley Pond and Miranda Gaddis at the hands of Ward Weaver III.#AshleyPond #MirandaGaddis #WardWeaverIII #Oregon #ChildAbduction #Murder #TrueCrime2023-08-2351 min
Geek History Lesson469: Most Under-Appreciated Spider-Man Characters with Sabir PirzadaJoin us and special guest Marvel TV Writer Sabir Pirzada as we shed light on the unsung heroes of Spider-Man's universe: J. Jonah Jameson, Robbie Robertson, Liz Allen, and Betty Brant. From journalistic prowess to behind-the-scenes insights, we unveil the captivating stories of these underappreciated characters that have shaped Spidey's world. Swing into this thrilling episode to witness their pivotal impact and celebrate their well-deserved spot in Spider-Man lore. Follow Sabir & his new comics -- https://www.instagram.com/sabirpirzadaSupport GHL Intern Cat Brego's Medical expenses with the Podcasting Cat Pins here: https://bit...2023-08-011h 16
Oceanbites Out LoudEpisode 11 - Dr. Brett JamesonBrett recently graduated with his doctorate and his research focuses on the role of microbes in biogeochemical cycles in marine ecosystems. Brett is currently a postdoctoral researcher working at Arizona State and the Bermuda Institute of Ocean Sciences.Website: bdjameson.comTwitter: @bdjameson2023-07-1435 min
SheRecovery Podcast with Crystal Renaud DayS4 E3: Ashley Jameson - Uncovering & Healing the Wounds from Racism & Sexual BrokennessIn S4E3 of the SheRecovery Podcast, you’ll hear from Ashley Jameson. Ashley shares openly about her wounds from racism and how they influenced her struggle with love and sexual addiction—including as the victim of rape (**trigger warning**). We also discuss how we can better support women of color who are facing sexual brokenness while exposing the widespread systemic racism in pornography and exploitation. Ashley is the Associate Director of Women's Groups for Pure Desire. She is a certified Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional (PSAP) through the International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP) and has b...2023-02-1452 min
All ThingsEpisode 97: More Women & Girls Are Viewing Porn: Hope for Healing & RecoveryIn recent years women and girls have become increasingly active users of pornography websites. Not only that, but young women are increasingly viewing violent porn. Pornography should not be considered a man’s issue, but a human issue. More women and girls are addicted every day and unsure of where to find help.To shine a light on this weighty topic, I invited Ashley Jameson of Pure Desire Ministries onto today’s episode. Ashley says she spent years in a pattern of finding freedom from one addiction only to find herself in another. She has overcome betrayal and...2022-10-2732 min
PSR PodcastRacism and Sexual BrokennessToday’s guest is Ashley Jameson, the Associate Director of Women’s Groups at Pure Desire, and she has a powerful story and message related to racism and sexual brokenness. How much is one’s identity shaped by racism and/or sexual brokenness? What kinds of wounds and trauma from racism exist that then effect sexual brokenness? Ashley shares her story of how all these elements intersected in her life and how much more prevalent they are than we imagine. She also shares a message of hope and good news for those who want to heal – a...2022-08-2332 min
Discover Top Full Audiobooks in Romance, ModernBound to Me by Katie AshleyPlease visit https://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/575135 to listen full audiobooks. Title: Bound to Me Author: Katie Ashley Narrator: Justine O. Keef Format: Unabridged Audiobook Length: 7 hours 28 minutes Release date: June 28, 2022 Genres: Modern Publisher's Summary: When Sophie Jameson first became a domme at Club 1740, it was more out of financial necessity than it was for personal pleasure and sexual exploration. But over the years as she rocked her leather corsets and boots while wielding every crop and flogger imaginable, she grew to love the thrill and adulation that her clients brought her. But all along, her path in life and...2022-06-2810 min
Discover Top Full Audiobooks in Romance, ModernBound to Me by Katie AshleyPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/575135to listen full audiobooks.
Title: Bound to Me
Author: Katie Ashley
Narrator: Justine O. Keef
Format: Unabridged Audiobook
Length: 7 hours 28 minutes
Release date: June 28, 2022
Genres: Modern
Publisher's Summary:
When Sophie Jameson first became a domme at Club 1740, it was more out of financial necessity than it was for personal pleasure and sexual exploration. But over the years as she rocked her leather corsets and boots while wielding every crop and flogger imaginable, she grew to love the thrill and adulation that her clients brought her. But all along, her path in life and her...2022-06-287h 28
Full Audiobook: Where Words Come Alive and Dreams Take FlightBound to Me Audiobook by Katie AshleyListen to this audiobook in full for free onhttps://hotaudiobook.com/freeID: 575135
Title: Bound to Me
Author: Katie Ashley
Narrator: Justine O. Keef
Format: Unabridged
Length: 07:28:54
Language: English
Release date: 06-28-22
Publisher: Tantor Media
Genres: Romance, Rom-Com, Contemporary
Summary:
When Sophie Jameson first became a domme at Club 1740, it was more out of financial necessity than it was for personal pleasure and sexual exploration. But over the years as she rocked her leather corsets and boots while wielding every crop and flogger imaginable, she grew to love the thrill and adulation that her clients brought her. But all along...2022-06-287h 28