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The Rest Is NoiseNarcissistic Abuse - Outstanding from My Three Year Work Relationship with Yuri AndriesI share the depth of my encounter with a Belgian Photographer. The Emotional, The Psychological and The Sexual Manipulation I endured over the last three years only for the ending to be even more brutal exploitation of black queer art through not just his narcissistic personality disorder but also his racist and capitalist stance which he claims "is the norm" by most photographers he'd spoken to, "you can ask Max Pinckers or Bieke Depoorter," he said. Maybe I should investigate these two others as well.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://a...2022-04-041h 28The Rest Is NoiseKnowing Narcissistic Personality Disorder (Red Flags)With examples from my recent encounter with a narcissist, I share in layman's terms how to catch this disorder in people. The proof is always in the details and while people have recurring partners with narcissistic traits is attributed to 'having a type' and hence the cycle of abuse, your experience cannot prepare you for it or prevent another cycle if you don't look closely and deeply at what these disordered people present themselves to be and how they do it. Here are a few red flags. @Oteanankanduro (Instagram)--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to m...2022-03-2843 minThe Rest Is NoiseFetish - White Supremacy, the Ghanaian or African perspective.My friend shares highlights of an encounter with a manipulative white person in a time where I am questioning my own fetish for the white skin. We are both Ghanaians finding the fine lines that intersect narcissistic personality disorder and white supremacy: White Saviourism.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/healer-of-snakebites/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/healer-of-snakebites/support2022-03-2133 minThe Rest Is NoiseI Have A Thing For White BoysA writer traces his deepest fetishes on a race filter, exploring the conditioning of the ordinary African and our worship of the white or fair skin complexion.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/healer-of-snakebites/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/healer-of-snakebites/support2022-03-1410 min
The Rest Is NoiseFront Seats Only, Mr. Man'Balance' is the keyword here whether in commitment to self, a business partner or in marriage/relationship. The role of the masculine and feminine can only be defined through the extension of which energy is dominant and which one is lacking in the self. Once that is discovered, your only role is to choose wisely and let nature run its course. You can be logical or emotional and still be in control and the secret is 'vulnerability'. #gender #masculine #Feminine #wellness #selfmastery #oteanankanduro Follow me on Instagram, I want to know you. @Oteanankanduro --- This episode is...2021-10-1810 min
The Rest Is NoiseUMASS - Racism. Why you can't be Black and Desperate.Systemic racism and bigotry of all forms condition black people to feel inferior and thus render us beggars trying to find a place at a table of people who are in fact our equals. An anonymous racist letter from the University of Massachusetts makes me question my own circumstances as a queer black man victimised by my own people in a land I call home here in Africa. #racism #black #africa #lgbtqia #blacklivesmatter #allblacklivesmatter Follow me on Instagram @Oteanankanduro --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in...2021-10-0421 min
The Rest Is NoiseWhen Was The Last Time You Cried?Getting personal about tears and why you too can and should embrace your emotions. Do not be gaslighted about being sensitive and emotional. This is a guide on how to let empathy become your strength even if your Narc believes it's a weakness they can manipulate. #wellness #lgbtqia #world #africa #scorpio Connect with me on instagram @Oteanankanduro--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/healer-of-snakebites/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/healer-of-snakebites/support2021-09-2711 min
The Rest Is NoiseToo Sexual because we are Gay?The question about who is destroying the moral fabric of society. The LGBTQIA+ will always take the blame and this is why. Listen and connect with me on Instagram @Oteanankanduro #ghana #africa #killthebill #lgbtqia --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/healer-of-snakebites/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/healer-of-snakebites/support2021-09-2016 min
The Rest Is NoiseS02E02 - Dry Humping/Stroke Game Festival of GhanaFolsom Street in Ghana but for straight people; boring as **** and without the kinky stuff. Grazing the surface of Ghana and its media, the hypocrisy and double standards that marginalize the queer, effeminate and all the different people under the rainbow umbrella. Connect with me on Instagram, lets get personal. If you're interested in Tarot readings, you can also dm. @Oteanankanduro.--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/healer-of-snakebites/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/healer-of-snakebites/support2021-09-1310 min
The Rest Is NoiseS02E01 - Boy With Rubies For FrecklesAn auto-fiction of infatuation and race. An effeminate black man meets a white man on a photoshoot. Ghana's queer community and colourism.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/healer-of-snakebites/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/healer-of-snakebites/support2021-09-0625 min
The Rest Is NoiseEpisode 6 - Masculine CuisineI like the name Spaghetti Man. If it were a Super Hero name, I would wear it for all effeminate men especially the queer ones because We Love COOKING!!! Everyone can cook! Jump off the ego horse and wrap that apron around your waist, you sexy masculine man. I find cooking meditative but when you cook for me, mmm, it's romantic. I will tell you why. Listen to this episode and connect with me on instagram @Oteanankanduro--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://a...2020-06-2511 min
The Rest Is NoiseEpisode 5: Tobil Wants VirginitySome Birthday Wish, Tobil! After a heavy lunch prepared by yours truly, we stay longer at the dining table talking about many things. Knowing that there were two Geminis and two water signs; Kwesi, a Pisces and me, Scorpio, there was no way I was going to let our conversations go with the wind. Tobil wants to talk Virginity and that's exactly what he gets from his three effeminate friends as a proper birthday gift. When four effeminates sit at the table, it's not just gossip like most believe. Connect with me on instagram @Oteanankanduro--- This episode is sponsored by · A...2020-06-1817 min
The Rest Is NoiseEpisode 4: Witch Hunt - Grindr vrs EffeminateMy three week unintentional social experiment on grindr. This is an experience I would never forget and I am sure most effeminate men who use Grindr among other dating apps share similar experiences. Our experiences are real. Discrimination against feminine men, gay or straight, by straight people and in the gay community are real. Let's not downplay these experiences. Speak up. Call out the bullies! Join me on my cyber journey on grindr. Let's connect on instagram @Oteanankanduro --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice m...2020-06-1129 min
The Rest Is NoiseEpisode 3 - Nostalgia meets Trauma with Kwesi AliboToday on The Rest Is Noise, I introduce to you my guest and co-host, Kwesi Alibo. A beautiful effeminate man with whom I shared my childhood. It's been crazy gist after gist since we reunited. We both share how life was and is now as an effeminate Ghanaian; how no one says 'Kojo Besia' these days. Everyone says 'Gay'. This puts all our (effeminates) lives not just in ridicule but in potential danger. Let's connect on instagram @Oteanankanduro--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: h...2020-06-0424 min
The Rest Is NoiseEpisode 2: Part of a Grand Scheme - George FloydBlack people are not angry people. We are just aware and acknowledge that our enemies, seen and unseen, have waged a war, not a laughing contest. They want not just our wealth but our blood. So we are not angry, we are protective! Protection demands aggression and aggression brings revolution. The black people (Especially Africans) who want to stay on the sidelines should stay there and shut up. If you want to stay ignorant and keep being brainwashed it's your choice but don't belittle the stuggles and blame it on us. There are giants in the sky who keep us...2020-05-2811 min
The Rest Is NoiseEpisode 1: Name Game - Kojo BesiaThe difference between Koobi and Tilapia is salt. It can be claimed that Koobi is manmade, however true or false, Koobi is made through a natural additive or preservative, salt. Koobi maintains the right to be called fish, a vital addition to nature. This is what effeminates are, not fish, but close, human. Spice is not to everyone’s taste but we belong here in nature, just like both Tilapia and Koobi thrive together in the marketplace. Instagram - @Oteanankanduro--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voi...2020-05-2409 minThe Rest Is NoiseThe Rest Is Noise - TrailerJoin me! Find me! New episodes every week as I share general and personal stories as an effeminate young man born and living in Ghana. Follow me at @oteanankanduro on Instagram and let's get intimate. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/healer-of-snakebites/messageSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/healer-of-snakebites/support2020-05-2100 min