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Girl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesNot-So-Secret, Naughty or Nice, and WTF Blood?! Awkward Sex and Dating SurprisesUnexpected visitors, a "super nice" guy, mysterious blood! We're wrapping this Girl Boner year up with awkward sex and dating surprises featuring voices you may recognize. Keep listening after the stories for a special bonus. August's friend and colleague, Susanna Brisk, a certified sex educator and sexual intuitive, joined her to chat about the stories. They touched on everything from exhibitionism and online dating to self-acceptance and penis size. Free discovery call with Emily Zawadzki: https://linktr.ee/emilyzedsexed Dr. Heather Bartos' new book: https://www.amazon.com/Quickies-Hundred-Little-Lessons-Midlife/dp...
2025-12-0353 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesDiffering Desires and Higher Notes of Love - replayJohn Kim and Vanessa Bennett are therapists and coauthors of, It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better. They're also a couple, who met at a time when neither was anticipating life-changing love. Learn how the pair came together, what made the start of their relationship rocky, how they navigate desire differences and what they want us all to know about relationships – all in this replay from September, 2022. Sign up for August's free email list for occasional updates: https://substack.com/@augustmclaughlin IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TT:: @augustmclaughlin.gb ...
2025-11-1940 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesA Shocking Wakeup Call and Getting Intimate with StressDr. Rebecca Heiss received a phone call that made her question – and change – virtually everything about her life. Learn how she applied her research as a stress physiologist, how it all impacted her intimate life, and her top advice for better navigating (and even benefitting from) stress. Springboard, by Dr. Rebecca Heiss: https://www.amazon.com/Springboard-Transform-Stress-Work-You/dp/1646871995 Sign up for August's free email list for occasional updates: https://substack.com/@augustmclaughlin IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TT:: @augustmclaughlin.gb augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner ...
2025-11-0524 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesBecoming a Cyclical Woman: Would it Save Her Relationship?Stefanie Adler was young and in love when her mood swings and emotional outbursts threatened her relationship with her partner. Would a major health decision make a difference? Learn more about Stefanie Adler and her offerings: https://www.instagram.com/stefanieadlerwellness/ https://www.stefanieadler.com For an inclusive guide to birth control, check out chapter 10 of August's Girl Boner book or head to besider.org. Sign up for August's free email list for occasional updates: https://substack.com/@augustmclaughlin IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TT:: @augustmclaughlin.gb augustmclaughlin.com...
2025-10-2227 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship Stories365 Days of Orgasms: Annette BenedettiEarly on, Annette Benedetti learned that it's normal for women not to have orgasms during sex. And then, for years into adulthood, she didn't. After a marriage and raising a daughter, she felt disconnected from her sensual self. Spicy exploration and a tipsy, New Year's Eve proclamation led her to a vow that would change her life – and her pleasure experiences – for good. Check out her coaching offerings and her podcast, Talk Sex with Annette: https://talksexwithannette.com/ Sign up for August's email list for occasional updates: https://substack.com/@augustmclaughlin IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB...
2025-10-0838 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesHer Joyful Foursome: Susan BrattonSusan Bratton has had a lot of spicy adventures over the years. Recently, sex with her three partners, including her new girlfriend, seemed like a worthy new adventure. Some smart planning and practices helped make her first foursome with her polycule joyful, meaningful, and fun. Learn more from intimacy expert, Susan Bratton: https://susanbratton.com Download her free ebook: dirtytalkbook.com Sign up for August's email list for occasional updates: https://augustmclaughlin.com IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TT:: @augustmclaughlin.gb augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner Get f...
2025-09-2325 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesSex, Intimacy and Neurodivergent Women: Emily, Kat and RachaelDysregulation during sex made early intimacy challenging for Emily Zawadzki and her now wife – until a diagnosis changed everything. Kat's Asperger's made romantic relationships tricky, until she met her wife. Rachael Rose navigates polyamory as an ADHD person, and sees how her drive for dopamine and lack of a sense of time ("time blindness") affects sex and dating. Download Emily's free workbook, Redefining Sex and Communication as a Neuro-Queer: emilyzedsexed.com/newsletter Learn more from Rachael Rose: https://hedonish.com/ IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TT:: @augustmclaughlin.gb a...
2025-08-2741 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesAwkward Sex and Dating Confessions - Summer Replay (4:4)August is joined by friend and colleague, Makenzie Mizell, to discuss times they made sex or dating experiences awkward. You'll also hear about listeners' "OMG" dates and Makenzie's latest (and spicy!) ventures. Topics touched on include bodily functions, a gay 'ol pickup line, a myth about female sexuality and male desires and more! (Originally released in November, 2022.) Learn more about Makenzie at makenziemizell.com. G: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TT:: @augustmclaughlin.gb augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner Get free shipping at Crave! Elegant, woman-des...
2025-08-0640 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesSex When You Don't Feel Like It, with Cyndi Darnell - Summer Replay 3:4Did you know that horniness is one of hundreds of reasons folks feel motivated to have sex? It's not even the most common. Understanding your own desire, and what sex and relationship therapist, Cyndi Darnell, calls your erotic template, can help you cultivate an erotically charged sex life – whether you're single or partnered. (Originally released in July, 2022) Learn more from Cyndi: https://cyndidarnell.com/ IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TT:: @augustmclaughlin.gb augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner Get free shipping at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys:
2025-07-2342 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesWhat's Your Erotic Blueprint? – Summer Replay 2:4Jessie Fresh was in her early 20s when she realized that silence was her main sex educator. After a mid-coital wakeup call and two relationships—one with sexual chemistry, one with only emotional sparks—she sought ways to cultivate the richer relationships and sexual experiences she desired. Discovering the Erotic Blueprints changed everything for her. And they may do the same for you. (Originally released in May, 2022) Learn more from Jessie Fresh: https://www.jessiefresh.com/ IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TT:: @augustmclaughlin.gb augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner...
2025-07-0932 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesA Sexy Midlife Awakening – Summer ReplayJade Chang Sheppard was nearing 40 when she started wondering if she was living life to the fullest, including sexually. Was monogamy really her best option? Was she actually bi? Or kinky? What was group sex like? Rather than seeing the exploration and life changes that followed as a crisis or breakdown, she's embraced it all as a revolution. This episode, the first of four summer replays while August works on a special GB-esque project (more on that soon!) originally aired in October, 2022. Learn more about Jade's work at scarletsociety.com
2025-06-2532 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesG-Spot Sex Toy Stories + Tips: Ebony and DeborahEbony Mystique shifted from a medical career to starring in adult films, where she used a vibrator for the first time. Deborah Kagan went "on a mission" to find her G-spot, using a special toy. More from Ebony: https://hoo.be/ebonymystique More from Deborah: https://deborahkagan.co IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TT:: @augustmclaughlin.gb augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner Get free shipping at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys: https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14
2025-06-1120 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesWild Breakup Stories: Suzannah and ZacharySuzannah Weiss had a psychic reading that made her wonder if the sex mishap she and her soon-to-be ex experienced was predestined. Zachary Zane went through a breakup that changed his approach to relationships. His next one brought heartache in a shocking way. Suzannah's' books: https://suzannahweiss.com/book Zachary's book: https://www.zacharyzane.com/books Check out the latest specials at thepleasurechest.com! IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TT:: @augustmclaughlin.gb augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner Get free shipping at Crave! Ele...
2025-05-2833 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesChoosing (Hotter) Monogamy: Dr. Diane MuellerDr. Diane Mueller traded sexual pain for pleasure, then explored polyamory twice before reclaiming monogamy in a sexier, more intentional way. After her story, hear her top tips for spicing up a monogamous (or any long term) relationship. Learn more about Dr. Diane Mueller and take her libido quiz at libidocode.com. Join her hot and modern monogamy club or get her free e-book at hotterlife.com. Check out the latest specials at thepleasurechest.com! IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TT:: @GirlBonerRadio augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner
2025-05-1419 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesSex-Positive Celibacy and a Self-Wedding: Lilith, Lea and MakenzieLilith Foxx and Lea Levi are sexuality experts whose journeys started with a lot of silence and shaming around sex and led to both spicy exploration and celibacy. After a rocky dating history, podcast producer, Makenzie Mizell, married herself. This episode briefly mentions intimate partner/domestic violence and touches on the feminist 4B movement. Listen after the outro music for a funny BTS story/confession involving Makenzie's ring. Learn more about this episode's storytellers: https://lilithfoxx.com Instagram: @thelilithfoxx https://www.makenziemizell.com Lea recommended checking out FLURE.
2025-04-3048 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesDiscovering Her Kink Identities: Darshana AvilaWhat if there are parts of your sexuality just waiting to be untapped? Can kink and spirituality coexist? Answering these questions for herself changed Darshana Avila's life. Always precocious, Darshana explored her sexuality from early on. After a "very vanilla" marriage and a spiritual awakening, she delved into kink. As she sought more from sex, she learned a lot about her desires and her identities. To work with Darshana, visit darshanaavila.com. Find Darshana on YouTube @darshana-avila. Check out the latest specials at thepleasurechest.com! IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TT:: @GirlBonerRadio
2025-04-0927 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesShared Orgasm and Fisting Firsts: Spring Fling ReplaySuzannah Weiss was already writing about sex and relationships when she began a mission to experience orgasm during partnered sex. Judy Calabrese never expected to go down a lust-filled path with her doula—but sometimes, things…happen. (Originally released in 2022.) Learn more from both women: suzannahweiss.com judycalabrese.com The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2 (Cleis Press), edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel: https://bit.ly/3CAQJqg Check out the latest specials at thepleasurechest.com! augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner Get free shipping at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys:
2025-03-2639 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship Stories(Very) Orgasmic without Trying: Susan Morgan TaylorSusan Morgan Taylor was always a very sexual person, but shame and a lack of pleasure education stood in the way. After a sexless marriage, several epiphanies and a very surprising phone call changed everything. Learn more about Susan Morgan Taylor and her retreats at pathwaytopleasure.com. Get her free resource, The Pleasure Keys Ebook, at pleasurekeys.com. Check out the latest specials at thepleasurechest.com! And explore their Earth Gift Guide. IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TT:: @GirlBonerRadio augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner Get free shipping at Cra...
2025-03-1235 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesSteamy and Fun Power Exchange: Domina Mara and Eireann ShellsOne Dominant partner, one submissive, and a whole lot of spicy fun. Domina Mara and her pup, and Eireann Shells and her partner, engage in kinky D/s play in very different ways. Learn how Mara and her pup delight in their Dominant/butler-like relationship, and how Eireann cultivated a 24/7 power exchange dynamic with her crossdressing Daddy. Eireann's sexy stories: The Adventures of Waverly Goode on Amazon Best Women's Erotica, Volume 10, most anywhere books are sold More from Miss Mara: https://www.dominamara.com/ ...
2025-02-2622 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesFinding Sexual Authenticity: Ayce KyptynAyce Kyptyn grew up in a conservative Christian environment, where he struggled to embrace his true self. When depression followed a major life change, he knew he needed support. Working with a therapist and then a sex coach helped change everything, shedding light on his desires and much more. Then he had another awakening during an erotic massage. Learn more about Ayce: https://www.aycekyptyn.com https://www.instagram.com/ayce_kyptyn/profilecard Check out the latest specials at thepleasurechest.com! And explore their Earth Gift Guide. IG: @G...
2025-02-1220 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesMid-20s "Virgin" to Phone Sex Operator: April WouldWriter April Would felt shame for being a virgin in young adulthood. When she realized her relationship with her "first time" partner wouldn't last, April questioned a lot of what they'd learned about sex and their own desires. Eventually, April delved into sex work and audio erotica, which brought even more epiphanies – and more chances to work through shame. Check out April's story in Best Women's Erotica, Volume 10. (More purchasing options here.) Follow @AprilWould on Bluesky and Patreon. Check out the latest specials at thepleasurechest.com! IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TT...
2025-01-2927 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesFruit Loop Orgasms and Sexy Confidence: LachiGlobally touring recording artist, Lachi, wasn't sure what orgasms were when she left the U.S. for boarding school overseas. After exploring her sexuality for a while, she realized what Big Os really entail. That awakening set the stage for greater confidence, in and outside of the bedroom. In addition to Lachi's story, you'll get her top tips for cultivating confidence and feeling sexy. More from Lachi: https://lachimusic.com/ Check out the latest specials at thepleasurechest.com! Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin. ...
2025-01-1524 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesA Fun, Sexy Game! updated replayFive years ago, a group of friends gathered with August in the Girl Boner Radio studio to play You Don't Know My Life. They shared spicy, funny, embaraassing, and touching stories from their lives. You'll hear about puberty mishaps, awkward kisses, sexy exploration, unforgettable dates and more. Listen, enjoy, and play along! This episode features: Erin Tillman https://erintillman.com IG: @datingadvicegrl Makenzie Mizell https://www.makenziemizell.com IG: @makenziemizell Rayne Parvis https://rayneparvis.com IG: @RayneParvis Vanessa McGrady http://vanessamcgrady.com IG: @art_and_intrigue You Don't...
2024-12-1859 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesA Green-Eyed Orgasm: Dr. Joli HamiltonWhat if jealousy isn't a monster after all? Dr. Joli Hamilton had built a career studying and helping others navigate jealousy when her own "green eyes" impacted her sexuality in ways she'd never imagined. You'll also hear about Joli's sexual self-discovery journey, an epiphany during her first marriage that changed everything, and her top advice for anyone struggling with jealousy -- whether you're in a polyamorous, open, or monogamous relationship. Learn more from Joli at openeasier.com or jealousyroadmap.com. Do your holiday shopping at thepleasurechest.com! A few fun picks: Ev...
2024-12-0453 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesThe Affair (Amid Purity Culture) They Don't Regret: Julia and JeremiahBoth Julia and Jeremiah grew up in religious communities, where sexuality, affairs and divorce were deeply stigmatized. Their journeys shed light on the importance of context around infidelity and the role evangelical ideas and purity culture play in all of these things. Today, Julia and Jeremiah are certified sex therapists and co-hosts of the podcast, Evangelicals. Learn more at https://www.sexvangelicals.com Check out the latest specials at thepleasurechest.com! Get free shipping at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys: https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref...
2024-11-131h 00Girl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesGlimmer to Spark to Bonfire: Chris Maxwell RoseSomatic sex educator, Chris Maxwell Rose, was leading a rich, full life when a sudden medical crisis threatened their life. Eroticism, care from others and, eventually, self-care, saved them. Hear Charlotte Mia Rose's story in the previous episode. Chris and Charlotte are co-founders of pleasuremechanics.com. Check out their courses, including Mindful Sex, here! Access your FREE Listening to Your Pleasure worksheet: https://www.pleasuremechanics.com/listen Check out Kinktober specials at thepleasurechest.com! Get free shipping at Crave...
2024-10-3036 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesRediscovering Her Eroticism: Charlotte Mia RoseCharlotte Mia Rose felt connected to her eroticism from early on. It remained a huge part of her life and identity into adulthood, when she met her life and work partner, Chris. A year after having a baby, Charlotte's world changed when she became a triple caretaker. And for the first time, she felt an erotic disconnect. Learn how Charlotte found her way back, what she learned through the process, and practical ways to benefit from pleasure when you're feeling spent. Stay tuned for Chris's story in the next episode. Charlotte is...
2024-10-0931 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesDark Spaces, Sexploration and Self-Worth: Ginelle and Nancy JoGinelle Testa sought connection in chat rooms as a kid, which led her to webcam for coins and validation. Nancy Jo Sales was "very sexualized" in childhood, too, then experienced common and related challenges while using dating apps as a middle-aged woman. Both women wrote powerful memoirs about their experiences – Ginelle's with addiction and seeking belonging; Nancy Jo's with online dating. And they both have a lot to say about self-acceptance, cultivating healthy relationships and pleasure - in and outside of the bedroom. Nancy Jo's story was originally released in a 2021 epis...
2024-09-2543 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesTurning Herself On, for Real: Rena MartineWhen Rena Martine found herself feeling burnt out in her career as a sex crimes Deputy District Attorney and unable to stay faithful in her monogamous relationships, she knew something needed to change. Epiphanies about both life areas changed just about everything for the better. In addition to Rena's story, you'll learn a powerful practice for turning yourself on – one that's especially helpful for women, parents, long-term partners and anyone with a busy lifestyle. This episode also touches on: What can happen when you have early exposure to sex...
2024-09-1132 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesFrom Sexual "Purity" to Freedom and Self-Love: Mattie Jo and AmberMattie Jo Cowsert and Amber Cantorna-Wylde grew up entrenched in purity culture, which impacted their relationship to sex, pleasure, and themselves profoundly. Their rocky paths to freedom shed light on the powerful role sexual self-discovery can play in our lives and relationships. This episode touches on: Childhood trauma Masturbation and self-pleasure Ways purity culture harms women, men and LGBTQIA+ folks A common female sexuality stereotype Spicy exploration Benefits of trauma therapy and affirming faith communities in dark times L...
2024-08-2845 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesMasculine/Feminine Stereotypes and Being True to Yourself: Suzannah WeissSuzannah Weiss learned to loathe her body during adolescence. After high school, a positive hookup experience helped her realize why, and set her on a path of sexual self-discovery with her pleasure and needs at the center. Learn about her journey, including standout sex-related experiences — such as a BodySex workshop and orgasmic meditation — plus the ideas around sex and gender that felt off to her. She also shares her top related advice for leading a fulfilling life, in and outside of the bedroom. Learn more about writer, feminist, and resident sexologist for Bii...
2024-08-1424 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship Stories"OMG" Body Stories: Renee, Nora and Niba – replaySolo play, spicy bits, and…releasing! Renee Powers, Nora and Niba of The Feminist Book Club community, reveal unforgettable dating and sex experiences in which bodies surprised them. August recommends a sexy product in honor of each story. The stories in this episode were originally released in September, 2019. Stay tuned next month for brand new stories! Explore the latest specials at thepleasurechest.com! IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner Hosted and produced by August McLaughlin
2024-07-1724 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesWhen Sex Got Super Woo-Woo: Alicia and MagdaWhen Alicia Davon went upstairs with her now husband, six months into their relationship, she knew they'd have a great time. But she didn't expect the his and hers spiritual experience that unfolded. Magda Kay was part of a conscious community (one she'd later recognize as a cult) when two transcendent sexual experiences blew her mind. Hear their true stories, plus related advice. More from Alicia Davon: 415.308.9580 Love Life ConsultationWhat People are Saying- Mastery of Relationship More from Magda Kay: https://magdakay.comhttps://youtube.com/@MagdaKay https...
2024-07-0325 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesExploring Sex and Living in a Body: Dr. Carol QueenCarol Queen, Phd, was like the Nancy Drew of sex early on, exploring her way to answers through years of trial and error. Her curiosities and exploration led to extraordinary experiences, including self-pleasuring on stage before 4,000 people. And she wants everyone to know the importance of living in our beautiful bodies with integrity. Get The Sex & Pleasure Book: Good Vibrations Guide to Great Sex for Everyone at goodvibes.com. Read or listen to Real, Live, Nude Girl via Amazon or Audible. And visit the Antique Vibrator Museum in San Francisco. Explore the...
2024-06-1943 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship Stories"OMG" Stories: Squirting Out, Stuck Inside and Mind GamesDiscovering squirting, a misplaced squirt, a misplaced condom and some trippy mind games… This "OMG" round of Girl Boner sex and relationship stories features: Lala, of Lala's Bedtime Tales Nicoletta Heidegger, LMFT, of Sluts and Scholars Makenzie Mizell, media producer Carly, of Aurore And August Check out Afternoon Delight: https://nazanin-moali.mykajabi.com/offers/ESbAz2o5/checkout Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner augustmclaughlin.com/girlbone...
2024-06-0525 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesWhat's Going on With Her Libido: Jean FranzblauJean Franzblau was enjoying a loving relationship and her intimacy and platonic touch-based career when she noticed a dramatic change in her libido. Where had her robust desire gone? Her journey to finding the answers – and solutions – took her to surprising places. Learn more about Jean and My Mother Doesn't Know I'm Kinky: mymotherdoesntknow.com jeanfranzblau.com youtube.com/@CuddleSanctuary cuddlesanctuary.com Erotic Blueprints (episode): https://augustmclaughlin.com/erotic-blueprints/ Celebrate mindful masturbation at The Pleasure Chest! IG: @GirlBone...
2024-05-2234 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesTwo Frenchmen in One Day + Sharing Sexy StoriesCarly Pifer's creative field research about sex and dating surprised her by becoming super sizzling for herself. Her intimate interviews overseas led to steamy romps, including sex with two very different Frenchmen in one day. Once Carly's study was over, current events prompted her to want to celebrate positive sexual experiences. She's been on a mission ever since. Check out Aurore at readaurore.com and @readaurore on Instagram. Celebrate mindful masturbation at The Pleasure Chest! IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/gir...
2024-05-0832 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesInfidelity Recovery: Q&A with Dr. Talal AlsaleemDr. Talal Alsaleem is an award-winning infidelity recovery expert who's on a mission to teach clients and counselors how to use the trauma of affairs to establish, rediscover and maintain healthy relationships. In this bonus for Jennifer's story (parts one and two), August talks to Dr. Talal. You'll hear his thoughts about working with Jennifer and Adam, risk factors for cheating and betrayal, pillars for healing after infidelity, the notion of "once a cheater, always a cheater," and more. Dr. Talal's books Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! ...
2024-04-2429 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesAfter Her Affairs: Jennifer, Part 2Continuing Jennifer's story from the last Girl Boner Radio episode, you'll hear how Adam reacted when she returned from her intensive therapy program, what happened in their relationship post infidelity and how they've both found healing. This episode touches on childhood trauma and abuse. Please take care while listening. ACE childhood trauma quiz Dr. Talal's books Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner Produced...
2024-04-1728 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesUntangling Her Affairs: Jennifer, Part 1Jennifer had built a successful career and a happy family life when she became deeply involved in infidelity. While the first affair ended rather quickly, the second led down a path she couldn't have imagined. This episode touches on childhood trauma, abuse and cheating. Please take care while listening. ACE childhood trauma quiz Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin
2024-04-0347 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesHotwifing and Finding Love: Casey DonatelloWhat "kind of woman" gets into threesomes and gang bangs? Do "good girls" even grow up to enjoy sex? These questions once lived in Casey Donatello's mind. Little could she have imagined she'd one day delve into the swinger's community and hotwifing. Today the sex-positivity advocate is passionate about play she once considered taboo and "dirty." Casey is equally passionate about busting related stereotypes and sharing related wisdom. You'll hear about: Casey's friend's sexual experience that put her off of sex early on How that very thing la...
2024-03-2027 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesBack to Her Body: Pamela MadsenPamela Madsen was a happily married mother of two with a successful career when she felt drawn to an erotic experience that made her jaw (and clothes) drop. The experience launched a life-changing journey of sexual exploration that continues today — her "nutrition," as she calls it. Some of the topics you'll hear about: Sexological bodywork and massage Erotic self-pleasure trans states Incongruent desire in a relationship Sexual self-embracement for eating disorder healing Female sexuality Sexual empowerment D/S dominance/submission and sensation play...
2024-03-0631 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesMultiple Orgasms: Stories, Tips and Myths (Busted)Lala didn't realize she could experience one orgasm, much less multiple, until she had the "best sex [of her] life" with her now husband – so why aren't serial Os her favorite? Lora found her way to multiple Os using one of the most popular sex toys among women. (The same didn't work for August...) And Yuval and Court are proof that O after O isn't just a "female experience." In this Girl Boner episode, you'll hear these stories plus related tips, multiple orgasm myths, busted, and more! Learn more from Lala, Yuval and Court.
2024-02-2132 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesA Sex Therapy Confession that Changed Everything: Leah CareyFor years, Leah Carey felt equal parts shut down and obsessed re: sex. Meanwhile, she chose terrible partners. Then in her 40s, during her final session with a therapist, she revealed a long held sexual secret. Leah's admission marked the start of what would become an across-the-country sexual awakening adventure. She eventually landed on desires that surprised her and began transforming her life into helping other women find similar healing. Learn more from Leah: leahcarey.com Save 50% on a Beducated annual pass: https://beducate.me/pd2406-august Get a fre...
2024-02-0749 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesHot Sex From a Distance + Dirty Talk TipsEF Dodd dated a guy from a distance in pre-FaceTime days. Jenay had a relationship that started in Idaho and ended with him overseas. And both women found ways to keep things spicy, challenges and all. (And yes, dirty talk played an important role!) This episode also features Dr. Megan Fleming's thoughts for a listener who feels uncomfortable, yet curious, about dirty talk, and August's favorite tip. To learn more about EF and her latest novel, Almost Perfect, visit efdoddwrites.com. For more from Jenay, check out her podcast, My Naked Mi...
2024-01-2423 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesA Spicy, Enlightening Orgasm Journey: Jordan D'NelleWomen's sexuality educator Jordan D'Nelle went from not realizing orgasms were a thing or possible with a partner to finding orgasmic bliss in incredible ways and places. Her steamiest experiences taught her a ton about sex, pleasure and her body – lessons she pays forward. Learn more from Jordan: https://jordandnelle.com Register for Afternoon Delight here! Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner Produced by August M...
2024-01-1027 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesLife-Changing Sexual Awakenings: Lynn and AugustCan an orgasm change your life? Is it ever too late to invite a sexual awakening? As a special wrap up to the year, August shares a conversation she had with colleague and friend, Lynn Brown Rosenberg, at the Residence 11 Desire Summit in Los Angeles. Register for Afternoon Delight (with early bird pricing) here! Order Lynn's memoir, My Sexual Awakening at 70 on Amazon. Explore The Pleasure Chest holiday gift guides! IG: @GirlBonerMedia TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio FB: @MyGirlBoner augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner...
2023-12-2023 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesKinky Surrender, Sexy Reclamation and Squirting: Replay (and a special invite!)Intimacy coach Lee Noto didn't realize she'd been longing for surrender until a crush turned into far more. Author Liz Asch fell away from her queer expression, then gradually reclaimed it. And that growth led to more than squirting. Yes, this week's Girl Boner replay is a juicy one… You'll also hear about Afternoon Delight – a live, interactive podcast event August is co-hosting with three wonderful colleagues in February. Register (with early bird pricing) here! Learn more about Lee Noto: leenoto.com Becomethehighpriestess.com Learn more about Liz Asch and You...
2023-12-0638 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesBody Acceptance, Lust and Romance at Sea: Jennifer Silva RedmondWhen Jennifer Silva Redmond asked her fiancé, Russel, "What would you do if you could do anything?," his response and the decision that followed changed the course of their lives. Since then, she's learned a great deal about intimacy, sex, her body and herself while living and loving at sea. You'll also learn: How Jennifer's hippy-like upbringing made bodies okay (at first) The impact LA's acting culture had on her body image How she moved past faking orgasms Benefits of trying a sex toy or pos...
2023-11-1538 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship Stories"Ho Phases" and D&S Play: Jenay and CourtJenay Leger and Court Vox have had different sexual self-discovery journeys with powerful common threads — including an illuminating ho-phase. Learn what their spicy escapades revealed about their desires and kinks, plus tips for making the most of your own sexual exploration. You'll also learn a simple way to play with power dynamics in a relationship, how Dominant and Submissive (D&S) experiences can vary from media depictions and how a crying kink can play out. Learn more from Jenay by listening to My Naked Mindset. Find her Self-Love Journal on Amazon. ...
2023-11-0139 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesSex Clubs, Kink and Discovering Something Deeper: Yuval MannYuval Mann is an erotic intelligence mentor who helps people use their sexual expression as "a vehicle of individual and collective evolution." Early on, though, he was barely allowed to interact with girls, much less embrace his sexual desires. His journey from the Israeli army to the global fetish and kink scene taught him about pleasure, intimacy and so much more. You'll hear about: His sexual awakening, after growing up as an Orthodox Jew A relationship that helped heal some of his sex-related shame What he discovered at...
2023-10-1821 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesAdventures in Polyamory and Open Relationships: Dr. JoyLong before Dr. Joy became a groundbreaking relationship expert, she gleaned harmful messages about sëxuality. Her journey into ethical non-monogamy and polyamory shed light on important truths, while invited lesson-rich challenges and benefits she continues to cherish. Today Joy helps others cultivate authentic, pleasure-rich lives and relationships, no matter the style. And her work continues to reveal myths so many of us learn about intimacy, ways they damage (supposedly) ethical non-monogamous relationships, and the wonderfulness that can unfold when we unlearn them. In addition to Joy's personal journey into non-traditional part...
2023-10-0428 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesIgniting Love/Lust After 40: Treva and CKTreva Brandon Scharf was in her early 40s when she set her sights on becoming a single mother. Little could she have anticipated what would unfold in her fertility journey, from spicy escapades to frustrating challenges – much less the major love life shift that would follow. After CK Love learned of a partner's betrayal, she set out on a journey to connect with her sensual self — something she hadn't realized needed more healing. And both women have found their way to a deeper sense of self, fulfilling relationships and sexy sparks we can all learn from. ...
2023-09-2046 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesBlindsided on the Way to Lasting Pleasure: Alana and KrystalAlana McKenzie Page was stunned when a surprise, supposed-to-be-sexy date turned out to be...very much not. Krystal Casey realized that the very thing she strove to protect her kids had entered her home. Both women found their way from blindsiding challenges to immense pleasure and fulfillment – in and outside of the bedroom. This episode touches on a few difficult topics, with mentions of abuse, addiction and death (in the second story). It's also rich with light, encouragement, sex lessons learned…and a few laughs! As always, please take care while listening. Che...
2023-09-0651 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesLibido Challenges and an Erotic Awakening: Mariah FreyaMariah Freya grew up feeling pretty comfortable about bodies. Then her teens brought rockiness that stood in the way of her sexual empowerment. After years of off-and-on low libido in adulthood, she encountered a workshop that changed…everything. Mariah's sexual awakening set her on a path of spicy exploration and eventually to co-founding Beducated. Save 25% at Beducated here. Check out The Pleasure Chest's latest specials! And their Anal August top picks here. More Girl Boner fun: IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio augustmclaughlin.com/girlb...
2023-08-2327 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesFetishism, Roleplay and Stability Kinks: Arielle GreenbergArielle Greenberg realized very early on that her sexuality didn't match up with the masses. Her story sheds light on what it means to be a fetishist, the erotic potential of roleplaying, what a "stability fetish" involves, myths about kinky folks and more! You'll also hear about Arielle's new book, Superfreaks: Kink Pleasure and The Pursuit of Happiness. Check out The Pleasure Chest's latest specials! More Girl Boner fun: IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner Produced by August McLaughlin
2023-08-0935 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesLove Bombing, Energetic Sex and Thinking Off - "best of" replay!A seemingly perfect date gone very wrong, powerful sex that involved no nakedness or penetration and a listener question on hands-free orgasms! A few things you'll learn about in the episode: Why we need to take care of ourselves after breakups The importance of feeling, rather than ignoring, our feelings The importance of feeling in your body, aka embodiment A simple breathing/energetic sex exercise A throw-back "think-gasm" story Hands-free orgasms tips Learn more about Samantha Skelly's breath work and download the Pause B...
2023-07-2626 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesGrowing Up with Deep Throat: Gerard Damiano Jr.Imagine being raised by a father who was nicknamed the "king of porn." Now imagine that it's the 1970s, and your dad attracts attention from the FBI because of his renowned and very spicy filmmaking. Perhaps too much for many of us to imagine… But for Gerard Damiano Jr., it's a walk down memory lane. Gerard Damiano Sr's film, Deep Throat, is the most famous adult film of all time – one known for bringing triple-X films into the mainstream and gleaning a ton of controversy. And this year marks the film's 50th anni...
2023-07-1234 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesEmbracing Sex at 35: Joe's StoryJoe was in his mid-30s when he had sex for the first time, while working through his fears with a surrogate partner. That healing work opened the door to not only sexual pleasure and romance, but to surprising benefits throughout his life. This episode touches on eating disorders. Please take care while listening. Interested in appearing in Joe's upcoming podcast, Pan Talk? Send an email to: pantalkpod@gmail.com More stories about sex/love addiction, including different takes on the terminology: Hooked on L...
2023-06-2851 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesGender Magic Q&A with Rae McDanielWhat if you're not sure what gender identity or label suits you? Or you're cisgender want to date someone who's trans or nonbinary? How can cisgender folks become better allies? In this bonus episode, you'll hear August's conversation with Rae McDaniel, sex therapist, speaker, DEI consultant and author of Gender Magic: Live Shamelessly, Reclaim Your Joy, & Step into Your Most Authentic Self. You'll learn about the book, related themes and Rae's answers to thoughtful listener questions! Follow Rae on Instagram: @theraemcdaniel More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/gir...
2023-06-2136 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesFinding Pleasure and Keeping Sexy Sparks Alive: Elisa MagagnaAuthor Elisa Magagna (E.C. Stilson) was once exorcised for having premarital sex, admid a spree of harmful messages. Since then, she's learned to embrace her sexuality and pleasure of many kinds – through a journey that's involved time as a homeless street musician, having five kids, finding true love and, a most recently, navigating a terminal illness. Elisa's story sheds light on ways to manage during difficult times, the importance of keeping sexy sparks ignited when life gets tough and more. While you'll hear about some difficult topics in this episode, it also includes a lot...
2023-06-1434 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesHotness in Mid-Air and Embracing Exhibitionism: Mischa ByruckWhen Mischa Byruck went to Burning Man in 2017, for the first time he felt as though "he wanted to be seen, naked, exhibitionistically, sexually." He couldn't have imagined just how that would play out…or where his dip into a particular sexy public display would lead. Topics touched on in his story include rope bondage, a surprising and welcomed orgasm, homoerotic play and more! You'll also learn why exhibitionism is often considered part of female sexuality, reasons many people (of any gender) enjoy it and what Mischa most hopes to accomplish with...
2023-05-3126 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship Stories8 Incredible True Orgasm Stories — "Live" with SPLABig Os that blew our minds! And then some... As shared with August at an event co-hosted by Sex-Positive Los Angeles called Donuts and Orgasm Stories – featuring Erin, Joe, Heidi, Norma, AP, Rachel and Kelsey, plus one of August's own. Highlights include: A brussels sprouts-gasm Before and after menopause climaxes A first orgasm after years of sex-phobia The sexiness of "messiness" and safe exploration Leaning into your intuition for more pleasure What donuts and orgasms have in common SP...
2023-05-1737 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesA Domme's Daughter and an End-of-Life StoryElizabeth Anne Wood's mother, Judy, had been enjoying her sexual prime (that started in her 50s) when she was diagnosed with terminal cancer. Elizabeth's memoir, Bound: A Daughter, a Domme, and an End-Of-Life Story, explores the last eight months of Judy's life and highlights the importance of sex-positivity. In this Girl Boner Radio episode, you'll hear: A few of Elizabeth's childhood memories, including the "pecker head story" How Judy began to embrace kink, BDSM and Domme life How BDSM helped Judy navigate aspects of her cancer treatment...
2023-05-0343 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesSex Tips from Sex Workers + the Stories BeneathSex advice from three awesome sex workers, including the personal experiences behind them! Inspired by a listener email and dedicated to LL's mom. Daisy Ducati @daisyducati NatsHoney @natshoney Steph Sia @strippedbysia Check out The Pleasure Chest's latest specials! More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio This episode was produced by August McLaughlin and Makenzie Mizelle @sidneylaneishere
2023-04-1932 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesUnfucking Gender and Sexuality, with Fiona DawsonFiona Dawson grew up in a semi-sex-positive home, and didn't question her orientation until she fell in love with a woman. Coming out as gay felt fairly easy to her. Coming out as bi was another story… Now an Emmy-nominated, award-winning filmmaker and author of the forthcoming book, "Are Bisexuals Just Greedy?," Fiona aims to un-f*ck gender and sexuality for a more harmonious world. You'll also learn about: Fiona's sexual "firsts" and a few from listeners The difference between bisexual and pansexual What Fi...
2022-05-0457 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesSex Toy Stories + the Bump'n JoystickIf you've used sex toys, you probably have memorable sex toy stories. Hear several from listeners, as well as Andrew Gurza and Heather Morrison of Bump'n—plus how these two siblings ended up launching an accessible sex toy company, with a mission that goes beyond the toy itself. Learn all about Bump'n and preorder the Joystick: getbumpn.com Check out the "Picture This" documentary on Prime. Explore the Pleasure Chest's Spring Fling collections! Get 2 months of fee-free investing at Vinovest: zen.ai/girlbonerradio ...
2022-03-0932 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesA Spiritual Orgasm and Self-Love through Sex Work: CK Love and Babe WestCK Love thought she was finally "fully open" in her sensuality when a breakup prompted her to dig deeper. Babe West has flourished since entering the porn industry for work that varies greatly from her survival sex work earlier on. Learn more about this episode's guests: CK Love: restlessspiritproductions.com Babe West: thebabewest.com Get 2 months of fee-free investing at Vinovest: zen.ai/girlbonerradio Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (girlbonerradio at checkout)
2022-02-1651 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesCultivating Magical Sex with Frank WiegersPleasure, connection, mindblowing sex! Frank Wiegers grew up during World War II, in a sexually repressive environment. Today, the former fighter pilot and Vietnam War veteran embraces "magical sex," and teaches others how to invite and make the most of the same. In addition to Frank's personal journey, you'll learn: What "magical sex" is, including 4 stages Activities that can deepen pleasure and connection How (and why) to apply sex magick after sex A ritual Frank and Judith practice to keep the spark alive ...
2022-02-0927 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesBecoming Unf*ck-with-able: Renée Schuls-Jacobson's StoryAfter a difficult pregnancy, traumatic childbirth and near death experience, Renée Schuls-Jacobson endured "next level insomnia." Little did she know the dark places her attempts to feel better would lead. For seven years she took medications as prescribed, not realizing the drug was intended for short-term use or that she'd grown dependent. Meanwhile, she tried to make her marriage, which lacked sexual chemistry, work. Renée's story is also one of hope, healing and vibrancy—including re: her Girl Boners. ;) This episode contains mentions of traumatic events and suicidal ideation. If you...
2022-02-0259 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesBisexuality, Demisexuality and Coming Out with Carolina HoyosEmotional connection before sexual chemistry, love without the heirarchy and more! August shares highlights from her 2019 conversation with Carolina Hoyos, an Afro-Indigenous (Quechua-Kichwa) actor, playwright, director, songwriter and voice artist. You'll learn about: Carolina's sexual empowerment journey Common myths about demisexuality Common myths about bisexuality Carolina's coming out (to family) story The importance of queer represention in films and TV Check out Carolina's film and festival: Indigiqueer Identity: Reclaiming Past, Present, and Future Save 30% on your first three...
2022-01-2632 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesA Casual Sex Fail + Creating Sexier ExperiencesAuthor Kandi Steiner was leaning toward no more casual sex when an experience with a friend bolstered that decision. She now creates female characters who voice their desires. Adult star turned author, Logan Pierce, learned similar lessons the hard way. And erotic fiction can help inspire steamier experiences. Take it from writer and editor, Rachel Kramer Bussel. A few more things you'll learn about: Communicating your desires Accepting sex-related feedback (with a throwback clip featuring Logan PIerce) Spicy and empowering perks of erotica Save...
2022-01-1937 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesHooked on Love, Lust or Dating Apps: How Two Women Moved ForwardAfter using dating apps for 10 years, author Shani Silver gave them up and gained surprising, life-shifting rewards. Therapist Kerry Cohen has learned to navigate life and relationships while managing sex and love addiction, terms that remain common and controversial. A few things you'll learn about: What finally prompted Shani to give up dating apps Her advice for anyone feeling miserably dependent on them A perspective shift she recommends for embracing single-hood When Kerry's struggles with sex and love emerged A few reasons "sex and...
2022-01-1246 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesSexless to Sexually Empowered: a Gynecologist's JourneyDr. Heather Bartos was well into her career when her husband stopped desiring sex. Navigating a sexless marriage opened up old wounds and led her to look deeply at her sex-related beliefs. A few more things you'll learn about: What Dr. Bartos learned about sex growing up in the '80s in Texas The most common sex-related challenge she hears about in her office 5 factors that fuel low sexual desire in anyone, men and penis-havers included Benefits of embracing your sexuality as your own—plus an im...
2022-01-0525 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesSex Aspirations for the New Year with Dr. Sakshi TickooWhy resolve to something diminishing when you can set your sights on something spicier? Dr. Sakshi Tickoo, a queer, Brown, chronically disabled occupational therapist and a sexuality counselor who's based in Mumbai, India, joined August to explore smart sexuality aspirations to consider as we move toward 2022. A few things you'll learn about: How (and why) to create a pleasure toolkit Sex goals set by listeners Benefits of exploring a new sexual practice, such as rope play or BDSM An exercise for building body confidence A...
2021-12-1524 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesSex Therapy Stories with Dr. Ian KernerAre you having the sex you desire, or has sex lost something over time - or perhaps seemed lacking to begin with? Ever wonder what actually happens in sex therapy? Whether you're having sex with a long-time partner(s) or having hookups, you have what Ian Kerner, PhD LFMT calls a sex script, both your own and one you co-create with your partner(s). And gaining awareness about your scripts can go a long way. A few things you'll learn about in the episode: Why Ian says to all...
2021-06-0231 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesGetting the Sex You Want, with Kait Scalisi, MPHIf you've struggled to ask for what you want sexually or aren't even sure what to aim for, you are far from alone. Kait Scalisi, MPH, founder of Passion by Kait, grew up in a household where no conversation topics were taboo, but conflict was. She now helps others find freedom in pleasure. A few things you'll learn about in this episode: Positive versus negative messages about sex and conflict Kait absorbed growing up Kait's advice for figuring out what you actually want in bed Kait's thoughts on listeners' desires and how to...
2021-05-0531 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship Stories"OMG" Sex and Dating Stories: Deep Dive EditionJordan Power discovered a family secret that changed the course of his life. Shana James realized she was bringing more to the bedroom than her body and desires. Dr. Megan weighs in for a listener who's curious about "dirty talk." How can you get started, years into a relationship? Learn more about Jordan on Instagram: @jpowercomedy Watch Shana's TEDx Talk: shanajamescoaching.com "Get sprung" with spring specials at The Pleasure Chest! thepleasurechest.com Check out Dr. Megan's FREE pleasure challenge: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure Support the show...
2021-04-2827 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesSex Tips for Couples and Delay Spray with Jeff AbrahamPromescent CEO Jeff Abraham speaks about his sexual empowerment journey, benefits of delay spray and his top sex tips for men and couples! A few things you'll learn about in the episode: What Jeff learned about sex, growing up in the 1960s and '70s What led him from small town life to bigger pastures A few ways to keep sex exciting long term! How delay spray can help penis owners and their partners, whether they're dealing with premature ejaculation (PE) or not Promescent's mission and the tragedy that fuels Jeff's work ...
2021-04-2128 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesSex and Urinary Incontinence: Desiree's StoryDesiree has lived with incontinence for about two decades, since age 6. She wanted to share her story with August because her symptoms have played a big role in her life, including her sexuality, relationships and self-esteem. A few things you'll learn about in the episode: Desiree's experience with urinary incontinence, including challenges and ways she's learned to manage How she navigates sexual intimacy amid her symptoms Facts about urinary incontinence, including the 4 types and how prevalent it is Awesome accessible toys/accessories, available at The Ple...
2021-04-1419 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesNarcissistic Abuse Syndrome and Sex After Trauma with Dr. Kate BalestrieriHave you ever felt as though you've lost yourself or your confidence after a relationship? Or wondered how a romantic relationship that started out like a fairytale spiraled into lies, gaslighting and pain? If so, you may be one of the many people who've grappled with narcissistic abuse syndrome. August has been there, as have numerous of her past guests. For this week's episode, she explores the impact of narcissistic abuse with Dr. Kate Balestrieri, a sex therapist and psychologist who specializes in treating people on both sides of the equation. A f...
2021-04-0734 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesSelf-Love, The Bachelorette and Rising Action (aka Foreplay) with Mike JohnsonSelf-love plays an important role in everything from pleasure and intimacy to our everyday interactions. But how do you cultivate it, especially when things feel difficult? In this Girl Boner Radio episode, Mike Johnson, author of Making the Love You Want, speaks about his childhood, how he's cultivated self-love and the impact self-love has had on his life. He also answers Girl Boner listeners' questions, reflects on how he was depicted on The Bachelorette, and shares his top tips for sexual empowerment! A few things you'll learn about in the episode:...
2021-03-3136 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesCasual Sex, Caring "Too Much" and STIs with Ella DawsonIf you've ever had a one night stand and then felt like you shouldn't talk about it, worried that you cared too much about sex outside of a relationship or acquired an STI from an abusive partner, you're not alone. Ella Dawson experienced all of these issues and writes about them, both so she can process it all and to help others who relate. A few things you'll learn about in this episode: Why Ella believes "casual sex" is a misnomer A few experiences from her life that illustrate major gaps in wh...
2021-03-2445 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesOrgasm Problems, Female Desire and Sex Points with Dr. Bat Sheva MarcusEver wondered why sex used to feel easy and pleasurable and gradually, or suddenly, that stopped? Or wished you could experience orgasms or great sex in the first place? Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus, sex therapist and author of SEX POINTS, believes everyone who wishes to can have "rockin' sex" and that all related challenges are surmountable. She spoke with August about her personal journey and lessons we can all learn from challenges she's encountered in the lives of her clients, as well as her own. A few things you'll learn about in...
2021-03-1734 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesSexless Relationships + Age-Proofing Your Libido with Tracey CoxDoes great sex start at 50? It sure can, according to Tracey Cox, a renowned bestselling author and expert about sex and relationships. A few things you'll learn in this episode: What leads to sexlessness in relationships When to accept or change that dynamic Myths about sexless marriages How to talk about low sexual desire or frequency, even if years have passed without sex The truth about "lesbian bed death" How to fuel female sexual desire The role body image can play in pleasure and desire How Tracey went from high to low lib...
2021-03-1029 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesThreesome Myths, Tips and Considerations with Stella HarrisCurious about threesomes? Or ways to make your next one better? Stella Harris, a Certified Intimacy Educator, Sex Coach and author of The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes, is expert at ways to effectively become "a threesome person," benefits of thoughtful threesomes and how to decide whether or not to bring this type of play into an existing relationship or your life in the first place. A few things you'll learn in the episode: What many folks get wrong about threesomes Questions to consider before deciding on a threesome Why...
2021-03-0339 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesMismatched Libido, Matching Love: Two True StoriesS and C are scientists and foodies who share a deep love. One thing they don't share is an equal desire for sex. While S is pretty much always "ready to go," her partner C desires sex less often. And when he does desire it, his wants aren't always those that S can fulfill. Shan is a virtual assistant and mother of two homeschooled teens who consistently desired sex less often than her beloved late husband, Jim. Navigating these differences well came in waves, she said, as they learned what did and didn't help over th...
2021-01-2753 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship Stories7 Sex Habits to Leave BehindHave you sent intentions for 2021? How about sexual intentions? As we make our way into a new year and reflect on what hasn't worked so well in the past, we shan't forget our sex lives! A few things you'll learn about in this episode: A common lube mistake to avoid A type of harmful self-talk that's super easy to fall into What to do when you feel uncomfortable during sex Which fantasies to speak up about (and ways to do so) Ways to feel more sex-inclined, if or when you wish to Mo...
2021-01-1918 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesSex-Positive Parenting, Fetish Play and Sexual Liberation with Jet Setting JasmineSex-Positive Parenting, Fetish Play and Sexual Liberation with Jet Setting Jasmine As a trauma-informed clinical therapist, sex worker, parent of three and woman of color, Jet Setting Jasmine knows a great deal about these topics, from personal and professional experience. A few things you'll learn in this episode: What Jasmine learned about sex early on and ways she challenged the negative messages early on Benefits of sex-positive parenting and ways implement it How kink and fetish play can support healing from trauma What the hashtag #pornandparenting is all abou...
2021-01-1342 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesCock Rings and Simultaneous OrgasmsEver considered putting a ring on it? On a penis, that is... Or wondered about reaching climax in "perfect time" with a partner? (Hint: simultaneous Os are pretty rare, but that doesn't mean you can't invite or embrace them.) A few things you'll learn in this episode: Sexual trends during the pandemic A bit of cock ring history The best cock rings for beginners How cock rings can help in the erection + pleasure departments Facts about simultaneous orgasms August and Dr. Megan's tips for a listener who wants to experience simultaneous orgasms with her h...
2021-01-0619 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship Stories"OMG" Dating Stories, Holiday Edition!They aren't all holidays-themed, but some fun distraction may be just what 2020 ordered! August wraps up the Girl Boner Radio year by sharing the voices and stories of librarian Jess Witkins, publicist Will Armstrong, sex educator Angelique Luna and #open's Maile Manliguis. A few things you'll hear about this episode: Some intense improv (and okay, lies) that fueled romance Attraction that was finally acted on, after a date with someone else A play date that turned into a lengthy therapy session An odd kind of handsy-ness at the end of sex Wild animals on a wi...
2020-12-1635 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesBody Mapping, Pleasure and Touch StarvationLong-time sex therapist Tara Galeano, speaks about her a journey to rediscover her body after difficulties in her personal life and health served as a major wakeup call. She now approaches her life and her work very differently. A few things you'll learn in this episode: How Catholic messaging early on impacted Tara's ideas about sex and marriage How she (and her body) responded to learning about her then husband's deceptions Body mapping basics and how it plays out in group therapy How you can try body mapping at home Benefits of body mapping, from stronger i...
2020-12-0929 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesSex Toys, Spicy Books and Your Fashion IdentityThien-Kim Lam, founder of Bawdy Bookworms, and Nhakia Outland, founder of Prevention Meets Fashion, run sex-positive businesses that stem from personal experience, as well as passion for cultivating needed change. A few things you'll hear in this episode: About Thien-Kim and Nhakia's sexual empowerment journeys Thien-Kim's top sex toy tip for newbies, plus pleasure advice for us all Nhakia's thoughts on fashion as a powerful form of self care, activism and personal identity Dr. Megan Fleming's thoughts for a listener who's struggling with anxiety around anal sex and penis size Join the Girl Boner Radio P...
2020-12-0238 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesComing Out + LGBTQ Activism: Dr. Tim Seelig's StoryDr. Tim Seelig, Emmy Award-winning director and San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus conductor, spent the first 35 years of his life closeted about his gayness in a traditional Southern Baptist community. A few things you'll learn in the episode: How Tim was outed to his entire community and lost everything What he gained by coming out How his Baptist Christian family reacted and how those relationships evolved How encountering a man with AIDS changed him Highlights from an incredible forthcoming documentary Dr. Megan Fleming's thoughts for a listener who wants to support her frie...
2020-10-2038 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesADHD, Sex and RelationshipsIf you or a partner has ADHD, you know that brain styles can impact sex and relatioships in all sorts of ways. A few things you'll learn in this episode: Common challenges related to sex and ADHD, from "time blindness" (for lack of a better term) to distractability How this type of neurodivergence can enhance relationships and intimacy Some related funny-in-hindsight experiences, from August and Rachael Rose What to do if you're struggling with sex or intimacy Take the neurodiversity, sex, love and relation...
2020-10-1432 minGirl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesIncredible Orgasm StoriesPhone sex operator Amberly Rothfield had just gone through a several-month sex hiatus when she experienced an orgasm that changed her life. Dr. Samantha Allen had started to think orgasms were no longer in her future when, two years after sex reassignment surgery, she was surprised by one. Sex therapist Vanessa Marin had her first orgasm on the playground as a child. only to struggle in the climax department years later. A few things you'll learn in this episode: A common myth about gender, being transgender and what sex-reassignment surgery actually entails ...
2020-10-0538 min
Girl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesSex, Dating and Reality TVHost August McLaughlin interviews model and "Celebrity Big Brother" star Jasmine Waltz on her career path, sexual turn-ons and more, then chats with Dr. Megan Fleming about sex tapes and erotic photos.
2015-11-1945 min
Girl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesSex, Dating and TechnologyHost August McLaughlin interviews sex and dating columnist Ashley Papa and addresses an email from a listener concerned about masturbation stigmas with Dr. Megan Fleming.
2015-11-1245 min
Girl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesBreast Cancer & Sexuality + a Girl Boner Grab Bag!August McLaughlin interviews Elle, an author who recently finished treatment for breast cancer, then dives into a sex, love and dating Q&A with comedian Troy Rawlings.
2015-10-281h 10
Girl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship StoriesHealing From Abuse and Stopping "Slut" Shaming August McLaughlin interviews actress Sophie Ullett on healing from sexual abuse and slut-shaming—why it happens and how we can stop it. Sex educator Kait Scalisi, MPH answers a question from a listener who loves sexting, but whose boyfriend is feels it's risky. You'll also hear a teaser from UnSlut: A Documentary Film, directed by Emily Linden. #GirlBoner #UnSlut
2015-08-1343 min