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Strictly Outside the LinesEp. 50 - The Living DeadIt's time to get real.
Suicide is a serious epidemic happening across the world. There are many reasons for it, yet there are many more that aren't discussed. In reading a book inherited from my father, I came across a passage that describes living without meaning as being worse than suicide.
We dive into this topic and what it means to live a life without meaning, to live as a zombie, and how to overcome these challenges.
Tune in and share with those who...2024-02-1425 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 49 - Shut Up & ListenHow well do you listen when others are talking to us?
How well are you listened to when you're speaking to others?
Listening is one of the most valuable and yet under-practiced skills one can have in their tool belt.
In this episode we explore what it means to truly listen to those we interact with and how listening goes beyond tuning in with our ears. 2024-02-0726 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 48 - CommunityIn today's episode we explore the meaning of community. Often times viewed as something that is reliant on a physical location, or something we must remain part of, in this episode we explore how you can and need to break free of our pre-conceived notions of community2024-01-3116 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 47 - UnqualifiedIn this week's episode we talk about the importance of being unqualified.
Society tells us we need to be qualified and certified for everything we do. Yet, in order to get qualified we need to jump through hoops and have experience it is impossible to have without having the experience.
In this episode we rip that all apart and approach it all with a new outlook and the idea to just go for it and learn as you go. 2024-01-2417 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 46 - On Faith & FearWelcome back to Strictly Outside the Lines!
It has been quite a while since we last spoke and it is good to be back behind the mic.
In this episode we dive into the ideas of faith and fear and how they are more connected than we realize.
I share with you my thoughts on the matter and how I overcome the fear that I experience.
I also share with you a very recent story of an opportunity I had to overcome...2024-01-1722 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 45 - Marriage, Parenting, and the Importance of Role Models w/Yaakov ShimonovIn this week's episode we have a fascinating conversation with Yaakov Shimonov, a clothier and owner of Suitscribe, a premiere custom suit creator. But we don't just talk about suits (that actually comes in the next episode.) Instead, in this episode we talk about what it is like to be married with kids and without.
I share some of my story and the challenges I faced as a new husband and new father, and Yaakov shares his perspective as a young husband without children. We discuss the challenges and benefits in both cases and...2023-08-1632 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 44 - The Truths of Marriage w/Avichayil YachnesIn honor of the Jewish calendar date of Tu B'Av, the day we celebrate dating and marriages, we bring you another special guest episode with Avichayil Yachnes.
In this episode we cover a lot of ground on the topics of marriage and dating, but probably most importantly we talk about the importance of Honesty, Trust, and Communication.
Of course there's the friendly debate and banter about whether jokes about marriage are appropriate or not, and various other topics, but at the end of the day you won't be disappointed. 2023-08-021h 20Strictly Outside the LinesEp. 43 - The New Face of Jewish Comics w/Guest Arnon ShorrGrowing up we all had that favorite Comic Book character and Super Hero. Mine was Batman. I loved the alter ego aspect of his character, and how he was just a regular man with great abilities.
However, growing up, I never felt like I could be the superhero, because there was no real Jewish representation in comics.
Well that's all about to change.
Arnon Shorr is an author, director, filmmaker and now Editor-in-Chief of Maggid comics. He and the crew at Maggid are committed...2023-07-2637 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 42 - A candid Discussion with Raziel Cohen, The Tactical RabbiIn this week's episode I put Raziel Cohen, the tactical rabbi on the spot with a last minute request to join the show. He graciously accepted and boy am I glad he did.
We talk about everything from sales to religion to prayer. We share some tips on how to get through life as a sales person as well as how those principles apply to life.
As usual, with any conversation with Raziel, it was a blast and highly insightful.2023-07-2639 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 41 - Discover Your Magnificence w/Guest: Pam DunnWhat if I told you that you were Magnificent! Not in and of yourself, but by how you respond and react to situations…
What if I told you that the mistakes you made are not you.
What if I told you, you could have the chance to absolutely change your life for the better in a matter of three days.
This and more is what I talk about with my guest Pam Dunn, Owner and Chief responsibility officer of Your Infinite Life coaching and training.
We dive into the story of her l...2023-07-1949 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 40 - The Wholeness of Self: w/Guest Levi Rapoport, LMHCAnother incredible episode in the books.
This time I'm grateful to have had the opportunity to interview Levi Rapoport, LMHC a Brooklyn based Mental Health Counselor. In this episode we talk about What is Mental health actually all about.
We explore the challenges that people of religious and cultural backgrounds face as they work to marry the two worlds. We discuss practical tips and tools that can be utilized in the day to day to help overcome some of the challenges we face.
We go in depth into what it...2023-07-1251 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 39 - FocusIn this episode we talk about the importance of focusing on your personal goals and family goals and ignoring societal pressures. It is not always easy to do but it is oh so important, now more than ever.
We talk about the dangers of comparing ourselves to others and the feelings of resentment and inadequacies it can lead to. I share some stories from the office and the lessons we've discusses there on the importance of these topics.
#Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi
2023-06-2829 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 38 - New BeginningsJoin us in this inspiring episode of our podcast, "Embracing New Beginnings." #NewBeginnings #GrowthMindset
In this episode, we delve into personal stories of individuals who have successfully navigated new beginnings. Discover the challenges they faced and the strategies they employed to overcome them, while highlighting the positive outcomes and lessons learned from their experiences. Gain insights into the psychology behind embracing change and the fear of the unknown, and explore the importance of adopting a growth mindset when approaching new opportunities. #Resilience #Adaptability
We also provide practical skills and...2023-06-2130 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 37 - Doing It AloneThere's a grave misconception amongst men that they need to be the ones to do it, and that they must do it alone.
What is the IT I speak of...everything.
We've all heard jokes about men who refuse to ask for directions, but the scary reality is that the joke isn't such a joke when it comes to real life. How many men reach out to others when they need help?
How many men have a circle of influence, a Board of Directors for their life, and qualified individuals who can help...2023-06-0732 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 36 - Living a LegacyWhat does it mean to leave a legacy?
What are legacy's even?
When do Legacies start being created?
Most of think of a legacy as some great financial wealth left behind for future generations. You can even say that a legacy is some great accomplishment during life time that lasts for years to come.
I am here to tell you that a legacy is less about what happens after death and more about what happens during your life. We need to start living the legacy we want to create NOW. Making...2023-05-3130 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 35 - Just Say HelloHave you ever been somewhere, awkwardly smiling at people, wondering what's going on in their minds?
How about thinking about what they're going through in their day to day lives?
Have you ever been out and just wished someone would say something to you, start a conversation or even just give you a simple "hello"?
How about the time you saw someone with a really nice car, and you wanted to compliment them on it, but didn't want to seem weird.
What if I told you you should do exactly that...2023-05-2427 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 24 - Dream OnGrowing up I'm sure you had a big hairy dream that you were certain you were going to accomplish. Whether to be a fireman or police officer, or to live in a castle on the hill. We grew up on, and lived by our dreams. In reality we lived IN our dreams.
Yet, as we grew older those dreams started to slowly slip away. Adulthood sets in and so does this thing we call "reality". And slowly but surely our dreams begin to slip away to the dark recesses of our tired and weary brain. Occasionally they...2023-05-1728 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 33 - The End of an EraThe time has come to say goodbye to the classroom. After 15 years in education, my career as a classroom teacher is over. In this episode I share with you some of the lessons I've learned from my years in education, lessons that can be applied to business and marriage as well.
We discuss the importance of acknowledging the truth, as difficult as it may be, and supporting our teachers on the front lines. And I share with you why I believe that if parents don't do this, they'll end up being the ones to suffer most.
2023-05-1028 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 32 - Am I My Brother's KeeperWe all know the story of Cain and Abel, and the famous question that followed.
Well, what we don't know is the importance of being sure that we are, in fact, our brother's keeper.
While it is not our responsibility to provide everything they need, it is our responsibility to ensure we are contributing to their well being when we can. The honest truth is that all it takes is a phone call. A simple call can drastically change someone's life for the better.
The incredible thing is that when we take time...2023-05-0326 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 31 - Lessons from the Construction SiteIn this episode we get into all things manliness.
I share with you some of the lessons I've learned over the weekend as I begin to experience what it means to perform manual labor. I've been very blessed to have an opportunity to work with a friend and mentor on doing some construction and contracting work.
Along the way I am learning a lot about myself and what I can in fact do. I've been challenging limiting beliefs, overcoming negative mindsets, and gaining important experience.
This and more in this weeks episode.
2023-04-2628 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 30 - It's Good to be CrazyHappy Birthday!
In this episode, I give you a birthday blessing in honor of my 33rd birthday. I also share with you some of the lessons I’ve learned in my 33 years on this planet.
We talk about the power of impact you can have from one little act of good that you do, whether a smile, a kind word, or giving someone a much-needed resource or tool.
Finally, I leave you with some words of belief and encouragement to take with you as you...2023-04-1927 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 29 - Faith, Family, & Firearms with The Pew Pew Jew, Yehuda RemerThis episode we speak to none other than The Pew Pew Jew himself, Yehuda Remer and he shares with us his story on how he came to be the world renowned Second Amendment advocate that he is today.
Yehuda shares with us his personal journey on how he entered the world of gun ownership, and how he discovered the lack of proper children's educational resources for gun ownership. He also shares with us how he began to fill the void that was there, and how you can apply this to your work.
I also pose th...2023-04-1150 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 28 - Chase Your FreedomThe Holiday of Passover is upon us, and with it comes the discussion of freeing ourselves from limitations. The incredible thing about Passover is that it is a holiday that reminds us of the past, helps us appreciate the present, and look forward to the future.
We are commanded to live each day as if we are leaving Egypt today.
That's actually easier to do than we realize. Sure we may not be slaves physically in Egypt now, yet we are all slaves to our own limiting beliefs. We are letting them hold us captive...2023-04-0530 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 27 - Resilience, Authenticity, & Tearing it Down with Travis CrutcherIn this glorious episode you get to hear from my coach and mentor and good friend Travis Crutcher. Aside from an exceptional career in the US Army as a Ranger Qualified Infantryman and Drill Sergeant, Travis has become a leading coach in the industry, helping people sick of the suck of every day life, to create a life they love using real proven skills.
In this episode we talk about the importance of standing up for your truths no matter the consequences. We also talk about what Fear actually is.
We discuss a wide spectrum...2023-03-2941 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 26 - Holding People as CapableOften times life gives us a sucker punch to the stomach, and then kicks in the groin when we are down on the floor. Most often this happens when we see or hear something from someone that causes us to self-criticize. All of this leads us down a deep, dark path of negativity and despair.
Yet, the thing that can prevent this from happening is by taking the time to actually acknowledge the good that we are. Who we've become. How much we've accomplished. We have to realize that we are good and that we have done...2023-03-2230 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 25 - Guest: The Tactical RabbiIn this episode we have a special guest, Rabbi Raziel Cohen - The Tactical Rabbi. Raziel Cohen is a reputable firearms instructor and security consultant who has been extensively covered by notable news outlets such as Fox News, NRA TV, The Drudge Report, LA Times, and featured in a Vice mini-documentary.
His company, NDFTraining, offers comprehensive in-person and online courses for those seeking professional firearms and security training.
In this episode we talk about the mindset behind properly preparing for marriage and life. Raziel shares with us his experience going from a childhood of dreaming...2023-03-1546 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 24 - Surviving DatingThe final episode in the series on dating.
Here we dive into some of your feedback and thoughts on how to navigate the dating system. We give you advice from the trenches, and not just my own personal opinions.
We talk about how to trust your gut, how to say no, and the importance of self-care. Of course we also talk about how horrible and mean shadchanim are. Just kidding. But we do take them to task.
Finally, I give you three more tips and thought processes to have while dating. These three th...2023-03-0830 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 23 - 3 Steps to Successful DatingLast episode gave a wake up call to those struggling in the Shidduch System. This episode will provide you with some of the solutions you need to make it successful.
It's important to remember that dating for marriage is a long-term goal. Dating for any other reason is dumb. But as with any other significant life change, it has to be approached with a mindset and attitude.
This episode of SOTL we discuss the mindset necessary for successful dating and marriage, as well as the investment you need to make in yourself and future. We wi...2023-03-0131 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 22 - How Stubborn are YouIt was bound to happen. An episode calling out all of you saying you want to get married, but not willing to do the work to get there.
Fact is, you will never find the perfect person, because you're not the perfect person. Until you are willing to change yourself, you won't be able to attract that person into your life.
This doesn't just apply to the world of dating. The same goes for the job hunt, or business growth. If you're being stubborn with your personal growth and development and not willing to see the...2023-02-2231 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 21 - Love Thy BullyWhat do you do if your child comes home complaining about a bully?
What do you do if someone in your workplace is bullying you?
Though is may not be a popular opinion, I believe in having compassion for these individuals and trying to see where they're coming from and why they're acting the way they are acting.
And of course if need be, sock 'em in the stomach.
At the end of the day the way we treat a bully has more to do with who we are as people, th...2023-02-1530 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 20 - Do you smell like a Horse?Are you willing to learn new things?
Can you really teach an old dog new tricks?
Fact of the matter is that you can not grow and improve your life if you're not willing to learn new things. But learning is only as good as your application of what you learned.
In today's episode we discuss a story of a great Torah scholar who became a wagon driver and shoveled manure just so he could achieve his dream.
Are you willing to do the same?
#Father #Husband #Travel #Journe...2023-02-0827 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 19 - Be a DiamondThis week we celebrate the Hassidic Holiday of Yud Shvat by speaking about the influence of Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson, The Lubavitcher Rebbe.
We talk about what it means to "Be Rebbe" and how to have that level of influence and impact in our lives and the lives of others. We discuss how instead of working to gain followers, we should be striving to create leaders.
We talk about emulating those who have come before us for their good habits, and not about trying to just be them.
It's a show you don't want to miss.
#Rebbe #Lubavitch #Chabad #Hassidic #Has...2023-02-0125 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 18 - On Parenting & LeadershipRe-Uploaded for Better Audio Quality
Parenting is challenging. No question about it. But it's harder if you're a lazy parent.
In this episode we reflect on my recent trip to #Florida for a #Business & #LeadershipDevelopment Summit where I had the opportunity to hear #JohnnyAgar and his family speak about their journey. We discuss how to push past challenges we may have, how to push our children beyond their limitations, and how to set high standards.
Parenting is not for the weak minded. But neither is living.
Send me a voice message...2023-01-3130 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 17 - On Parenting & LeadershipParenting is challenging. No question about it. But it's harder if you're a lazy parent.
In this episode we reflect on my recent trip to #Florida for a #Business & #LeadershipDevelopment Summit where I had the opportunity to hear #JohnnyAgar and his family speak about their journey. We discuss how to push past challenges we may have, how to push our children beyond their limitations, and how to set high standards.
Parenting is not for the weak minded. But neither is living.
Send me a voice message with your thoughts using this link: https://anc...2023-01-2534 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 17 - The Schooling SolutionEnough Complaining!
It's about time we stopped kvetching about what is wrong with the world and start doing something to make a difference.
In this episode we talk about the difference between #complaining and #venting, defining each and acknowledging the benefits of one over the other. We also talk about how when we are presented with a challenge, it is up to us to face it.
And of course as promised, we address the #Education #Crisis and I share with you my thoughts on how we can improve the world of education and th...2023-01-1835 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 16 - School is a ScamAs an educator of 15+ years I can officially say "School is a Scam". At least in the modern form.
This episode we discuss how the educational system has lost touch with reality. We analyze the origins of the modern day school system, and how it no longer fits the needs of our children.
We also break the myth of education ending after graduation. We discuss the idea of ongoing education, and how to properly educate ourselves and our children.
Join us as we talk about how to break the school system.
2023-01-1134 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 15 - Perfection KillsEverybody has their opinion on who you should be. Yet few people actually care to see you become who you are meant to be. I say, be who you want.
In this episode, we welcome in the #NewYear by discussing how to show up in our lives the way we want to. We talk about choosing who we want to be for our own reasons, and not because others say we should be a certain way. And of course, we discuss the lies of #perfection.
This episode is about encouraging you to become who you want to be as a fa...2023-01-0434 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 14 - 3 Steps to Achieving your GoalsThe time is here. It is time to go. You're not waiting any more. You are ready to start puruising you dreams, and hitting those goals.
In this episode we talk about some practical steps you can take to make this year better than the rest. We discuss my method for coaching clients to success and how you can set up a game plan to achieve your goals this year.
I offer some words of encouragement for you and show you how you can accomplish what you want because you've done it before.
#Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #PersonalDevelopment #Growt...2022-12-2839 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 13 - Stop WaitingEverybody loves New Years resolutions. Very few people actually keep them.
In this episode we look at some of the hard facts and the reality behind why New Years resolutions fail. We examine the mindset of those who fail in their resolutions, and those who succeed.
This episode highlights the importance of establishing your goals and starting on them right away. I offer some insight that you can and should start applying right away to make your New Year successful.
#Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #PersonalDevelopment #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi #NewYear #Resolution #Fitness #Gym #Inspiration #Motivation #Habits #Routine #Goals
I'd love...2022-12-2133 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 12 - Achieving the Impossible Dream - GUEST Yermi KurkusThis episode we are joined by special guest Yermi Kurkus of Yermi Kurkus Consulting.
Yermi is a successful business consultant who partners up with organizations and individuals to help them achieve their impossinle dreams both in #Business and in their personal lives.
In this episode we talk about what it takes to achieve your impossible dream, and Yermi shares with us his story how he was hit with 3 major traumas in a period of 10 days, and how he was able to overcome them, and grow stronger from them.
He shares with us what it means to be a Business Partner and par...2022-12-1442 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 11 - The Lie of Being Self-MadeIn this episode we talk about one of the greatest lies ever told...the lie of being "Self-Made".
So many people pride themselves on being "Self-Made" in their success, whether in their business or life. They credit themselves and themselves only with their success, neglecting all those who have paved the way before them.
In this episode we talk about the importance of finding a coach, mentor, or guide who can help us along the way, show us the path. We explore the idea of having a community of like minded individuals w...2022-12-0729 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 10 - Overcoming PrideIn this episode I share with you my experiences of having to overcome pride and ego and humble myself to ask for help. Often times the hardest challenge for us to accomplish is the one with the greatest reward.
As men, it is our responsibility to take care of the household and provide for our family. While this is a noble cause and important role, it often times becomes a heavy burden to bear, and we mistakenly believe it is one we must do alone.
I share my story o...2022-12-0734 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 9 - PerspectiveIn this episode we talk about the importance of our perspective and how your perspective shapes the life you live. We talk about the Jewish saying "Gam Zu LTovah - This Too is for the Good".
We share the importance of looking for the positive in everything and seeing the good presented to us. We talk about having a view of Childlike wonder as we see the world even as adults.
We talk about how when viewing the positive we can see potential and opportunity.
#Faith #Family...2022-12-0620 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 8 - Sprints and MarathonsIn Today's episode we talk about the difference between running full steam ahead, and taking things slowly. We talk about how sprints and marathons applies to business and life.
I share with you my entrepreneurial journey, learning how to pace myself properly, and the importance of true rest.
#Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #Personal Development #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi #Rest #Relaxation #Hustle #Grund #Hardwork #Entrepreneurship
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https...2022-12-0625 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 7 - Own Your StoryIn this episode we talk about my time dabbling in novel writing and how story writing translates into the journey of life.
We discuss how all the events that have happened to us are there as part of our story, and have helped us to be who we are. Our history is meant for us to embrace, learn from, and take ownership of, so that we can move forward with great pride and courage.
We talk about the choice we have when faced with trauma, to choose to be a victim or victor.
2022-12-0629 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 6 - A Word of EncouragementIn this episode I offer some simple words of encouragement to you, the listener, as you continue on your journey of self-growth and pursuit of purpose. I share a powerful story of searching for a great treasure that's in the least likely place.
#Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #Personal Development #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi #Treasure #Purpose #Journey #Encouragement #Hope
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https...2022-12-0613 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 5 - Marriage & RelationshipsIn Today's episode we begin to talk about how to have a marriage that is outside the lines. We talk about how a true marriage is one that requires hard work and attention.
We challenge the societal norms for modern day relationships and dive into how our marriages should be. We share tools and exercises to help us have healthier more fulfilling relationships and marriages.
#Faith #Family #Finances #Health #Spirituality #LifeCoach #Personal Development #Growth #LifeByDesign #Jewish #Rabbi #Transparency #Authenticty #Vulnearbility #Marriage #Relationships #Love
I'd love to hear from y...2022-12-0630 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 4 - Purpose & CareerIn this episode, we talk about pursuing our purpose and how it plays out in our careers.
Often times "Purpose" is taught to us as the "ONE GOAL" we are meant to accomplish when in reality it's more about the lessons we learn along the way, and how we become better people through those experiences.
I share with you some stories of my journey along the way and some specific tools and mindsets I was able to adopt in order to succeed and excel in my career and the pursuit of my purpose.
...2022-12-0527 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 3 - Seeing Beyond the LinesIn this episode we talk about how to start seeing beyond the lines, the limitations, we have placed upon ourselves, and those that have been placed upon us by outside sources.
We discuss how to look beyond the life that has been laid out for us, and start living a life that challenges the status quo. We discuss the role of our unique selves and how we are each meant to leave a lasting impact on the world, and we talk about how to go about accomplishing our purpose.
We also discuss the importance of s...2022-12-0525 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 2 - Identifying the LinesIn this episode, we talk about what it means to be living a life "Inside the Lines" as well as one "Outside the Lines".
We explore how to identify the lines that we live between, whether imparted on us by ourselves and limiting beliefs, or those placed on us by society, culture and community.
We focus on the areas of Faith, Finances, Relationships, Health, & Spirituality and how to start seeing the limiting factors in your life in those areas. We ask the questions to challenge our current beliefs and narratives that have gotten us this...2022-12-0529 minStrictly Outside the LinesEp. 1 - IntroductionsWelcome to "Strictly Outside the Lines", the show for Successful, Impact Driven individuals who are looking to create a life worth living, a life by design.
In this introductory episode, I tell you more about who I am, where I am coming from, and where I am going.
I share with you stories of my experiences as an Educator, Coach, and Chabad Chassidic Rabbi and how those experiences have shaped me to be who I am today.
We will dive into the purpose of this podcast and how it'll help empower you to st...2022-12-0128 min