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Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureParenting, Protest, and White SupremacyYou ever feel like the world is on fire and you're holding the matches and a bucket of water? Yeah, us too. In this raw and candid convo, Becky and Taina unpack their experiences around the No Kings protest, the complicated dynamics of white allyship, what it means to show up (and what it doesn’t), and the impossible standards placed on parents, especially moms. From the emotional labor of unlearning white supremacy to the tension between safety and activism, this episode dives deep into the mess of trying to do liberation right—and how there’s no one right...2025-06-2345 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureBitch on Wheels: Sylvia Rivera's Forgotten Stonewall SpeechSPECIAL RELEASE: Becky & Taina on Becky's other podcast, Assigned Reading (if you like this conversation, check out this new podcast here)Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown dive deep into Sylvia Rivera’s 2001 speech, "Bitch on Wheels." They unpack Rivera’s righteous rage, explore the erasure of trans voices in LGBTQ history, and reflect on the importance of solidarity and intersectionality in the fight for liberation. This raw speech from a legendary activist is just as urgent today.✍️ “Bitch on Wheels” by Sylvia RiveraDiscussed in this episode- Sylvia Rivera’s legacy and spe...2025-06-1858 min
Assigned Reading with Becky Mollenkamp: Conversations about Feminist EssaysTrans Anger and Feminist Solidarity with Taina BrownIn this episode, Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown dive deep into Sylvia Rivera’s 2001 speech, "Bitch on Wheels." They unpack Rivera’s righteous rage, explore the erasure of trans voices in LGBTQ history, and reflect on the importance of solidarity and intersectionality in the fight for liberation. This raw speech from a legendary activist is just as urgent today.This week’s text: ✍️ “Bitch on Wheels” by Sylvia RiveraThis week’s guest: Taina Brown is a justice-centered DEI consultant and co-host of the Messy Liberation podcast. She brings an academic and embodied lens to conversations ab...2025-06-1758 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CulturePorn, Smut, and Intimacy: Feminists Talk Romance BooksThis episode dives deep into Becky and Taina’s wildly different takes on romance novels, smut, and fanfic—plus what makes storytelling feel intimate or just pornographic. We cover the books we’re reading this summer, why Becky knocks stars off for explicit content, and what Audre Lorde has to say about feeling embodied. It’s messy, it’s honest, and it might make you laugh (or blush). Whether you love fanfic, hate sex scenes, or feel somewhere in between, this conversation unpacks it all with a feminist lens and zero shame.Discussed in this episode• Becky...2025-06-1645 min
Empowered & Embodied ShowThe Cost of Gatekeeping & the Courage to Lead as Your Whole Self with Taina BrownSend us a MessageWhat if the key to powerful leadership isn’t more structure… but more soul?In this rich, heart-centered conversation, Kim and Louise are joined by coach, strategist, and recovering academic Taina Brown to explore what it really takes to lead as your whole self, especially in systems that reward fragmentation and performance.They unpack the impact of gatekeeping (from academia to coaching to the workplace), the myth of “getting it right,” and how somatics and play open new doorways to healing, embodiment, and aligned leadership.Taina sh...2025-06-1051 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureSinners Review: A Masterclass in Black Storytelling (+ Trump's deranged politics)Is it possible for a horror movie to teach you history? In this episode, Becky and Taina dive deep into the viral new film “Sinners,” unpacking its cultural, political, and emotional power. From Ryan Coogler’s revolutionary copyright deal to the legacy of Jim Crow and Chinese immigration in the South, they explore how this southern gothic, vampiric allegory reveals the truth about American racism, resilience, and black joy. With plenty of irreverence and a little lipstick talk to start, this episode is one for your brain *and* your heart.Discussed in this episode:The movie “Sinners”...2025-06-0954 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureYou Can’t Manifest Your Way Out of Capitalism: A conversation with Stella GoldYou don’t expect to leave a conversation about death and capitalism feeling inspired—but here we are. This episode dives headfirst into the intersections of death work, money trauma, collective care, and class consciousness. Stella Gold (they/them), founder of My Gold Standard, joins Becky and Taina to talk about their journey from hospice and death doula work to anti-capitalist money coaching—and how rebirth, grief, and radical redistribution play into all of it. Whether you’ve sworn off capitalism or are just starting to untangle your money mindset from the girlboss playbook, this convo will meet you where yo...2025-06-0243 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureTherapy, hyper-fixations, baked goods, and other random messy chatWhat happens when fanfic, therapy, chronic illness, and croissants collide? This episode of Messy Liberation is a rich blend of real talk and radical self-reflection. Becky and Taina explore chronic illness, returning to therapy, and the nuances of finding a Black therapist. They also deep-dive into the power of rest, hyperfixation (hello fanfic and HTML rabbit holes), and the liberatory framework of awareness, analysis, action, and accountability. With laughter, food porn, and a dash of ADHD hyperfocus, this convo is messy, meaningful, and full of feminist flavor.Discussed in this EpisodeTaina's return to therapy and...2025-05-2639 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureCreative Expression for Adults: Reclaiming Joy Beyond ProductivityWhat if creativity wasn’t about talent or output—but about liberation? In this raw and relatable episode of Messy Liberation, Becky and Taina unpack the complicated relationship adults have with creative expression, especially under capitalism and toxic productivity culture. They talk about creative hobbies like sewing, baking sourdough, painting rocks, and learning languages—and how fear of imperfection or 'wasting time' often stops us from even trying. From ego death to somatic healing, they explore how creative play can be an act of reclamation, resistance, and embodiment. This one’s for anyone who’s ever said, 'I used to be crea...2025-05-2054 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureFanfic, Faith, and Feeling SeenIn this grab bag episode, Becky and Taina get candid about everything from perimenopause and airplane germs to religious trauma and transformative fanfiction. Taina shares how one piece of Draco/Hermione fanfic cracked her wide open, while Becky reflects on the power of feeling seen in storytelling and media. They dig deep into the Catholic Church’s history of abuse, the political theater of the new Pope’s election, and how both personal and collective healing are tied to dismantling the systems that harm us. Expect musings on community, curiosity, cultish behavior—and a few pop culture tangents along the wa...2025-05-1252 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureFinding Joy When Everything SucksIn this episode of Messy Liberation, Becky and Taina go deep on how to stay informed and engaged without burning out. They talk about the importance of limiting your news intake, ditching moral judgment about productivity, and embracing self-care that actually nourishes you (hint: it’s not a face mask). From managing chronic illness to laughing in the face of despair, they explore how joy, pleasure, and tiny acts of resistance keep us rooted—and keep us going.Discussed in This Episode:Why reducing your news intake can be life-savingThe somatic signs of stress and how to l...2025-05-0552 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureNo Gatekeepers, No Girl Bosses: We’re Building the Coaching Community We Always WantedBecky and Taina are pulling back the curtain on the newest thing they’re building together: the Messy Liberation Coaches Circle—a community for people who coach (formally or informally) and want to practice coaching through a liberatory, feminist, and anti-capitalist lens. In this episode, they share the messy, honest backstory of how the group evolved from a free meet-up into a paid space—and why that change was necessary for sustainability and reciprocity.They talk about what makes the circle different from other coaching programs (no formulas, no gatekeeping, no 5K price tags), and what member...2025-04-2852 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureSmall Anti-Fascist Actions With Big Impact: Snail Mail, Swaps, and SolidarityFeeling helpless about the state of the world? Same. In this episode, Becky and Taina serve up a spicy mix of rage and real talk about how to practice anti-fascism and anti-capitalism without burning yourself out. From mailing junk to the White House as protest (yes, really!) to joining tool libraries and neighborhood swaps, they share ideas that are affordable, actionable, and rooted in mutual aid.They also go in hard on billionaires-in-space propaganda (👀 looking at you, Jeff Bezos), talk about why libraries are the ultimate resistance tool, and share fanfic-fueled joy as an act...2025-04-2244 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureBeyoncé’s Cowboy Carter, Misogynoir, and the Fight for Creative LiberationIn this powerhouse episode, Becky and Taina go deep on the tangled roots of American music—from Negro spirituals and funk to country and bluegrass—and how Black artists have always shaped the sounds we now call “mainstream.” They unpack Beyoncé’s Cowboy Carter backlash, how misogynoir fuels that criticism, and the difference between cultural appreciation and appropriation. And yeah, they go in on white defensiveness, Trump regrets, and what true harm repair looks like (hint: “sorry” isn’t enough). If you’re uncomfortable, good. You’re probably learning something.Discussed in this episode:The healing power o...2025-04-141h 03
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureRethinking Leadership Through a Feminist Lens🎙️ In this episode of Feminist Founders, Becky Mollenkamp and Faith Clarke take on the second pillar in their 5-part framework for running a justice-focused business: Leadership.Leadership isn’t just about having a team or managing others—it’s about how you lead yourself. In this conversation, they explore why self-accountability is crucial, how internalized hustle culture shows up even when we “know better,” and what it really means to invite clients, collaborators, and contractors into your vision.They also unpack what vulnerability in leadership looks like, how to avoid replicating hierarchical systems, and why building commun...2025-04-0730 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureVisioning a Feminist Future: Building a Business and Life Rooted in Equity, Rest, and ReciprocityBecky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown explore what it means to move from reactivity to proactive dreaming in business and life. They unpack how a feminist future isn't just a dream—it's a practical framework rooted in collective care, somatic awareness, and justice-based entrepreneurship.They weave in the wisdom of Black and Indigenous feminists like bell hooks, the Combahee River Collective, Audre Lorde, and Paula Gunn Allen. This episode is for liberation-minded founders who are tired of toxic "abundance mindset" advice that ignores class, and who want to explore equity-based business practices that reflect their va...2025-04-0750 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureFeminism Backlash or Male Fragility? Breaking Down the Gender DivideIn this fiery episode of Messy Liberation, feminist business coach Becky Mollenkamp and special guest Taina Brown dive into the growing generational divide around gender equality. Sparked by Cosmo's recent “Feminism Recession” article and the global study it references, this episode unpacks the backlash to feminism among Gen Z men, the weaponization of data, and the hubris of white male leadership.Discussed in this episode:Cosmo's “Feminism Recession” article breakdownGender equity and generational dividesThe rise of anti-feminism among Gen Z menPolitical gaslighting and SignalGateWhy data literacy and framing matter in feminism conversationsWhite male privilege, institutional power, a...2025-03-3142 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureNeuroscience Explained: Happiness Myth, Collective Trauma, Manifestation, Attention Spans & MoreIn this episode, neuroscientist Dr. Kaela Singleton joins us to discuss the neuroscience behind manifestation, dopamine hacking, and why happiness isn’t a sustainable state. We explore how trauma and epigenetics impact the brain, why radical self-care is essential, and the intersection of neuroscience and systemic oppression. Kaela also shares insights on neuro-racism, the effects of capitalism on mental health, and how we can shift our mindset for true contentment.Discussed in This Episode:What dopamine hacking is and why it’s misunderstoodHow manifestation and neuroscience actually intersectThe truth about happiness and why it i...2025-03-2452 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureThe Ethics of Reality TV: Trauma, Consent & CapitalismReality TV is entertaining, but at what cost? In this episode, Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown dive deep into The Ultimatum: Queer Love, exploring how reality TV manipulates emotions, exploits trauma, and raises serious ethical concerns. They discuss the psychology behind our obsession with reality TV, the impact on mental health, and why binge-watching these shows can leave us feeling complicit in the drama. From Love Is Blind to The Real World, they examine how reality TV has evolved and whether it can ever be ethical.Discussed in This Episode:The Ultimatum: Queer Love – What ma...2025-03-1748 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureSurviving the News Cycle: Strategies for Long-Term ResistanceIn this episode, we explore the challenges of staying engaged in activism without burning out. We discuss the emotional toll of activism, the importance of balancing activism and self-care, and how to navigate political exhaustion while maintaining momentum. We also unpack the role of joy in activism, strategies for self-preservation in social justice work, and why finding community in political resistance is essential. If you’ve been struggling with activist energy management, political fatigue, or feeling overwhelmed by the news cycle, this conversation offers tangible ways to stay hopeful and engaged.Discussed in This Episode:How to...2025-03-1044 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureThe Fragile Male Ego: How Gender and Power Dynamics Hold Everyone BackIn this episode, Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown dive deep into how the fragile male ego shapes business, politics, and social structures. From toxic masculinity in business to the role of male fragility in politics, they explore how gender and power dynamics reinforce exploitation, scarcity, and entitlement. They also discuss the myth of ethical billionaires, how capitalism thrives on scarcity, and why feminist entrepreneurship offers a better path forward.Discussed in This Episode:How the fragile male ego shows up in business and leadershipToxic masculinity in business and how it impacts decision-makingWhy billionaires...2025-03-0347 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureThe Intersection of Science and Social Justice: A Former Astrophysicist on Finding CommunityIn this episode, Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown are joined by Dra. Nicole Cabrera-Salazar, a former astrophysicist turned social impact consultant, to discuss the challenges women of color face in STEM, the problem with DEI in science, and the complexities of leaving academia for activism. Dra. Cabrera-Salazar shares her experience as a Latina scientist navigating systemic barriers, her transition from astrophysics to social justice work, and why marginalized communities drive innovation. The conversation explores perfectionism, self-sabotage as self-protection, and the radical act of asking for help in leadership. They also dive into how fear and confusion are u...2025-02-2446 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureFighting Political Despair: How to Stay Engaged Without Burning OutIn this episode, Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown dive into the emotional and political turmoil of the current moment, discussing RFK Jr.'s appointment, Project 2025, and the SAVE Act's potential impact on voter suppression. They explore the balance between political despair and activism, the importance of self-care as resistance, and how communities can organize in the face of systemic attacks. With a focus on economic activism—including the upcoming February 28th no-spend protest—they discuss ways to resist burnout while staying engaged. If you’re feeling overwhelmed by the state of the world, this conversation will remind you that you’re...2025-02-1736 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureFamous Celebrity Crushes: Who’s Your Ultimate Hall Pass?What’s a hall pass, and who would be on yours? In this episode, Becky and Taina dive into the fun (and slightly messy) world of celebrity crushes and the famous faces that make their lists. From Paul Rudd’s dad bod appeal to Charlize Theron’s effortless elegance, and even the surprise pick of Jeff Goldblum, they unpack the psychology of attraction, the cultural fascination with hall passes, and whether they’re just harmless fun or something more. Plus, do we really have a type, or is attraction totally random? Let’s get into it!Discussed in This Ep...2025-02-1037 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureGrieving a Changing World: Election Stress, Systemic Trauma & Self-CareGrief isn’t just about losing a loved one—it’s also about losing a sense of security, hope, or the future we envisioned. In this episode, we explore collective grief, political trauma, and how to navigate grief in uncertain times. Whether you're dealing with election grief, managing stress and burnout, or struggling with systemic trauma, we share practical strategies for self-care during political turmoil, coping with overwhelming news, and finding comfort when the world feels heavy.We’ll also discuss how grief manifests in the body, somatic healing techniques, and the surprising connection between burnout and grie...2025-02-0345 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureRethinking Health Equity: The Intersection of Mutual Aid and Fat LiberationIn this episode of Messy Liberation, hosts Taina Brown and Becky Mollenkamp welcome guest Marina Daldalian, a software product manager, health coach, and passionate advocate for fat liberation and mutual aid. Marina shares her journey into mutual aid, including how it intersects with fat liberation, and explores the power of direct giving over traditional charity models. The conversation delves into how systemic inequities in capitalism and healthcare impact marginalized communities, the principles of Health at Every Size, and the importance of ethical health coaching. Marina also reflects on COVID realism, its connection to disability, and her approach to community...2025-01-2748 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureTV, Books, Spreadsheets, and Other Joyful Distractions for Difficult TimesBecky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown discuss what’s bringing them joy amidst the chaos of 2025. The duo explores topics ranging from the emotional weight of MLK Day coinciding with the inauguration of a second Trump presidency to personal tools for finding balance, like Becky’s “sexy-ass spreadsheet.” They also dive into the cultural phenomenon surrounding Red Note, the platform rising from TikTok's potential ban, and their favorite media that brings light to dark times. This episode offers equal parts levity, resilience, and actionable inspiration to navigate a complex world.Discussed in This EpisodeMLK Day Reflecti...2025-01-2048 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureColonizing Greenland and Meta Fact-Checking: Media Literacy in the Age of TrumpIn this episode, Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown dive deep into current events and societal issues that intersect with politics, education, and media literacy. Starting with Trump’s shocking comments about taking over Greenland, they explore the deeper implications of colonialism, geopolitics, and the myths surrounding the American Dream. They also tackle the growing distrust in mainstream media, the controversy over Meta dropping fact-checking, and how critical media literacy is vital for the next generation.Through their discussion, Becky and Taina share insights into why Denmark is consistently rated one of the happiest countries in the world an...2025-01-1347 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureWhy Everything You Do—from makeup to parenting—is PoliticalBecky and Taina dive into the reality that everything is political. From the "boy mom" TikTok trend to the everyday choices we make as parents and consumers, they unpack the systemic forces that shape our lives and decisions. Together, they explore how privilege influences parenting, the ethics behind makeup and toys, and why small, intentional changes can create ripples of systemic change. This conversation challenges listeners to see the political implications of even the most mundane decisions and take actionable steps toward building a more equitable world.Discussed in This EpisodeWhat "everything is political"...2025-01-0642 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureLessons from 2024 and Setting Intentions for 2025In this episode, Becky and Taina reflect on the challenges and lessons of 2024, offering insights into resilience, community, and personal growth. They discuss the importance of learning from failure, navigating systemic issues, and embracing joy and self-care amidst chaos. Whether you're looking for practical business lessons, inspiration for 2025, or simply some thoughtful conversation, this episode has something for you.Discussed in This EpisodeResilience in hard times and overcoming anxiety in challenging yearsLessons from 2024: personal, business, and community insightsThe value of interdependence and community support during a crisisJoyful living in 2025 and setting intentional goalsNavigating a “shit sh...2024-12-3051 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureDiverse Representation and Big Themes in Children's MoviesIn this episode, Becky and Taina dive into the world of children’s movies and TV shows that offer more than just fluff. From revisiting nostalgic favorites to exploring newer releases, they discuss how these stories tackle complex themes like grief, emotions, family dynamics, and representation. Whether you're looking for media to watch with your kids or hoping to heal your inner child, this conversation is packed with insights into the deeper layers of children's programming and its impact on adults and kids alike.Discussed in This Episode:Avatar: The Last Airbender: Exploring its complex st...2024-12-2341 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureLuigi Mangione Case: The Fight for Equitable Healthcare (plus, the future of our podcast)In this episode of Messy Liberation, Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown dive deep into the complexities of the US healthcare system, sharing their personal experiences with chronic illness, denied insurance claims, and the frustrations of navigating healthcare in America. They also discuss the Luigi Mangione case and its implications for healthcare reform and inequality. With honesty and wit, Becky and Taina explore what it means to fight for health equity while balancing the personal and political challenges of living with disability.From sharing practical tips like refusing unnecessary weigh-ins at the doctor to reflecting on the intersectionality...2024-12-1651 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureBeyond Charity: Wealth Redistribution and Social JusticeIn this episode of Messy Liberation, Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown dig deep into the complicated and often problematic world of philanthropy and charitable giving. From the systemic failures that make nonprofits necessary to the capitalist underpinnings of modern-day charity, this conversation unpacks why "giving back" often does more to maintain inequities than address them. Becky and Taina also explore alternative approaches like wealth redistribution and mutual aid, offering actionable insights for listeners who want to create real social impact.Discussed in This EpisodeThe problematic roots of charitable giving and white saviorismNonprofit sector challenges, including...2024-12-0951 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureRethinking Social Media: Balancing the Attention Economy with Entrepreneurial SuccessIn this episode of Messy Liberation, Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown discuss the complexities of balancing business growth and personal well-being in the digital age. They dive into strategies for embracing digital minimalism, reflecting on how social media impacts mental health, energy, and productivity. Becky shares her journey toward reducing her digital footprint, including her move to BlueSky and creating a nine-grid on Instagram, while Taina reflects on her relationship with social platforms. This candid conversation is filled with practical insights, personal anecdotes, and recommendations for anyone seeking to rethink their digital presence.Discussed in This...2024-12-0248 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureDecolonizing Thanksgiving: Ethical Celebrations and Indigenous RightsIn this candid and thought-provoking episode, Becky and Taina tackle the complexities of Thanksgiving—a holiday deeply rooted in colonialism and one that many now see as a day of mourning for Indigenous peoples. From exploring the history of the Land Back movement to dissecting the capitalist takeover of the holiday season, this episode is full of reflections, insights, and actionable ideas for listeners who want to align their celebrations with their values. Becky and Taina discuss ways to decolonize Thanksgiving traditions, support Indigenous rights, and rethink consumerist habits like Black Friday shopping. They also share personal anecdotes and co...2024-11-2541 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureCollective Resistance and Community Building in Times of CrisisIn this episode, Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown dive into strategies for building resilience, creating community, and thriving amidst social and political upheaval. They discuss creative resistance tactics, managing privilege in allyship, and ways to support mutual aid efforts at local and national levels. From anti-capitalist holiday shopping to the power of small, purposeful actions, this conversation is packed with ideas for meaningful change. Becky and Taina also explore how we can set boundaries with media and social media for mental health and make values-aligned decisions for the holidays.Discussed in This EpisodePractical ways to...2024-11-1852 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureA Feminist Lens on AI: Navigating the Complex Landscape of AI Tools in BusinessIn this episode, Becky and Taina discuss the ethical and environmental concerns surrounding artificial intelligence. Reflecting on the impact of AI on content creation and business, they dig into the unsettling future AI could bring if unchecked. From Google's Notebook LM to ChatGPT, they explore the role of ethics, climate change, and mindful usage in navigating AI’s complex landscape.Discussed in This Episode:Google's Notebook LM and its potential applicationsThe ethics of AI in podcasting and content creationThe environmental impact of AI, including water consumptionAI's potential biases and limitationsAI’s influence on social media and...2024-11-1142 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CulturePost-Election Healing: Grounding Meditation and Social Justice ReflectionsIn this special post-election episode, Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown dive into the emotional impact of the recent election, exploring how communities can heal and find resilience amidst political trauma. Joined by pleasure activist Goddess Erica, the episode includes a powerful grounding meditation for self-care and stress relief. This practice is designed to center the mind, reconnect with purpose, and empower listeners as they navigate the emotional challenges of the current political climate. Becky and Taina also discuss the importance of white allyship, accountability, and intersectional feminism in the wake of voting outcomes, highlighting the need for unity, reflection...2024-11-0656 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureSex Work and Capitalism: Ethical Porn and EmpowermentIn this thought-provoking episode, Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown dive deep into the nuances of ethical porn and sex work, exploring how intersecting issues of capitalism, shame, and the male gaze impact these industries. With a feminist perspective, they question whether ethical consumption of porn is possible within our current capitalist systems and discuss how platforms like OnlyFans have introduced new avenues for female empowerment and agency. Together, Becky and Taina examine the limitations of traditional porn, its portrayal of women, and how the female gaze could reshape the landscape for consumers and creators alike. Tune in for an...2024-11-0443 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureFinding Liberation in Business: How Core Values Guide Ethical ChoicesIn this episode of Messy Liberation, Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown dive deep into the complexities of values alignment in business. They discuss how to navigate ethical decision-making when faced with murky opportunities, using the Chief networking group as a focal point. Becky and Taina explore the nuances of white feminism, power dynamics, and how to stay true to core values in spaces that may not be fully aligned with one's beliefs. They also delve into the meaning of true allyship, rejecting performative activism, and how scarcity mindset affects business decisions. Throughout the conversation, they emphasize the importance of...2024-10-2855 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureAging and Self-Worth: Tyra Banks, Body Image, and Redefining BeautyIn this episode, Becky and Taina dive into a thought-provoking conversation about aging, beauty standards, and the lasting impacts of media on body image. They reflect on the recent Victoria's Secret fashion show featuring Tyra Banks and unpack the mixed messages around body positivity, age inclusivity, and harmful beauty stereotypes. The discussion highlights the complex journey of self-acceptance and empowerment as women age, while critiquing how media and brands often fail to reflect true diversity. With a feminist lens, they tackle the role of diet culture, the contradictions of beauty ideals, and the experience of finding freedom in aging.2024-10-2156 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureBreaking Relationship Myths: Queer Dynamics, Separate Bedrooms, and Parenting ConflictsIn this episode, Becky Mollenkamp and guest Taina Brown dive into the complexities of relationships, discussing everything from managing conflict to the dynamics between queer and heteronormative couples. Becky opens up about the ongoing, light-hearted "conflict" she has with her husband about sleeping in separate bedrooms, especially now that perimenopause has made her even more sensitive to comfort during sleep. Taina shares her own experiences in the LGBTQ+ community, shedding light on the challenges of navigating toxic masculinity in same-sex relationships and the harmful stereotypes queer couples face. The conversation also delves into attachment styles, managing differences in introvert-extrovert...2024-10-1453 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureWhite Women, Feminism, and Voting: Breaking Down Political MisogynyIn this episode of Messy Liberation, Becky, Taina, and guest Dee Frayne dive deep into the complexities behind white women's voting patterns, particularly the significant number who have supported Donald Trump. The conversation explores the role of patriarchy, internalized misogyny, and white supremacy in shaping these decisions, while also examining whether centering white women as 'the problem' is productive or counterproductive.The discussion emphasizes the systemic nature of these issues, as well as the emotional labor involved in trying to change deeply embedded voting behaviors. With an honest and messy conversation, the hosts consider whether it's worth...2024-10-0744 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureNew! Empowered & Empowered podcastTake a moment to learn about Empowered & Embodied, another show in the Feminist Podcasters Collective. If you love Messy Liberation, you'll probably love this awesome show, too. (And, Becky Mollenkamp will be a guest on Empowered & Embodied soon.) Listen on this pod app or on YouTube.2024-10-0402 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureVP Debate Breakdown: Racism, Abortion Lies, and Gun Control HypocrisyIn this episode of Messy Liberation, Becky and Taina dive into the VP debate aftermath, tackling the key moments that had them cheering, cringing, and downright furious. They break down JD Vance’s slippery rhetoric on abortion, illegal immigration, and school shootings, while giving a shoutout to Tim Walz’s quieter, but solid points on gun control and housing. They also critique Margaret Brennan’s skillful moderation and the frustrating limitations on fact-checking. The conversation goes deep into the dangerous narratives around reproductive freedom, American imperialism, and racism that dominated the debate stage. Tune in for a brutally honest analys...2024-10-0343 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureState-Sanctioned Violence: Marcellus Williams and the Death Penalty in AmericaIn this important episode of Messy Liberation, Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown discuss the devastating case of Marcellus Williams, a Black man executed in Missouri despite strong evidence of his innocence. They explore the racial inequities embedded in the U.S. legal system, focusing on the death penalty, the prison industrial complex, and the connection between modern-day incarceration and the legacy of slavery. This conversation touches on state-sanctioned violence, the systemic oppression of Black and brown bodies, and the urgent need for change in how justice is delivered in America.Discussed in this episode:Wrongful...2024-09-3038 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureIntersectional Feminism and Liberation for Beginners: It’s Time to Move Beyond White FeminismIn this episode, Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown dive deep into what it means to begin and sustain the journey of liberation. This rich conversation covers topics such as intersectional feminism, transformative justice, Afrofuturism, and fat liberation. Becky and Taina discuss the complexities of dismantling harmful systems like capitalism and patriarchy, while exploring how to foster liberated relationships both personally and professionally. The episode touches on the importance of community care, radical self-care, and how these efforts contribute to building a more just world.Discussed in this Episode:Liberation as a Messy Process: Liberation isn’t li...2024-09-2357 min
Feminist Founders: Building Profitable People-First BusinessesFeminism and Womanism: Taina Brown's Intersectional Approach to LiberationNOTE: Feminist Founders is a listener-funded podcast. Your contributions enable us to continue bringing you these important conversations. To support the mission and to receive bonus content from this episode, sign up for a subscription: https://feministfounders.substack.com/Feminist coach Taina Brown joins Becky Mollenkamp to share her journey into intersectional feminism, how her experiences as a Black woman shaped her feminist identity, and the distinctions between feminism and womanism. The conversation delves deep into the challenges faced by women of color in the workplace, particularly the impact of microaggressions and the compounded effects of...2024-09-191h 08
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureMessy Conversations on Parenting and Social Justice (plus, an 8-Year-Old’s Take)In this special episode of Messy Liberation, Becky Mollenkamp’s eight-year-old son, Gus, makes his podcast debut! Gus joins Becky and co-host Taina Brown to discuss what it’s like being a young person in today’s world. Gus shares his thoughts on racism, LGBTQ+ rights, guns, and even a few of his business ideas. Later, Becky and Taina debrief on the experience of parenting through an intersectional feminist lens, navigating patriarchy’s impact on kids, and the complexity of raising children in a world steeped in societal expectations.Key Discussion Points:Racism & Social Justice: Gus tackles...2024-09-1653 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureAbortion, Immigration, and Dog Whistles: Dissecting the Harris-Trump DebateIn this special bonus episode, Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown get messy while unpacking last night’s presidential debate. With raw honesty, humor, and some well-placed zingers, they break down Kamala Harris’ debate performance, Donald Trump’s unraveling, and what it all means for the upcoming election. While Kamala wiped the floor with her opponent, the hosts also explore their mixed feelings about her and the Democratic Party’s moderate stance. Expect sharp critiques, political insight, and a whole lot of shade thrown at mediocrity and narcissism in politics.Key Discussion Points:Kamala’s Debate Dominance: Becky and...2024-09-1148 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureProblematic Faves (art vs. artist), Billionaire Ethics, and Navigating White FeminismIn this episode of Messy Liberation, hosts Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown dive headfirst into the murky waters of problematic favorites. From Kamala Harris' centrist policies to Taylor Swift's status as a billionaire, they explore how these public figures—who were once celebrated—raise ethical questions.Key Discussion Points:Problematic Faves: Kamala Harris is at the center of the conversation, with the hosts dissecting her stance on Palestine, centrist politics, and identity politics.No Ethical Billionaires: The controversial statement that "there are no ethical billionaires" is applied to Taylor Swift, as Becky questions how billionaires accumulate weal...2024-09-0955 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureChappell Roan, Body Empowerment, and the Fight Against Diet CultureBecky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown dive deep into the complex and often challenging journey of body liberation, body neutrality, and body positivity. They discuss their personal experiences with body image, health struggles, and how society's ever-changing beauty standards impact our relationships with our bodies. From the challenges of dealing with chronic illness like fibromyalgia and perimenopause to the liberating power of embracing body neutrality, this conversation is a candid exploration of what it means to live in a body that doesn’t always conform to societal expectations.The episode also highlights the importance of trauma work in re...2024-09-0248 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureFrom Ghosting to Growing: The Messy Side of Adult FriendshipsIn this episode of Messy Liberation, Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown dive into the complex world of adult friendships. From navigating the awkwardness of making new friends to understanding the dynamics of friendship breakups, they explore the challenges that come with forming and maintaining relationships as adults. Drawing on personal experiences, they discuss the unique hurdles introverts face, the impact of societal expectations on how we view friendships, and the importance of community in resisting toxic individualism. Whether you’re struggling to connect with others or reevaluating the friendships you already have, this episode offers insightful perspectives and practical ad...2024-08-2645 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureCommunity, Catastrophe, and Coping: An Unfiltered Talk/Therapy Session 🤣In this raw and honest episode of Messy Liberation, Becky and Taina dive deep into the emotional rollercoaster that can be triggered by a simple email. Becky opens up about how one small rejection can lead to a spiral of catastrophic thinking, touching on themes of abandonment, core wounds, and the difficulty of separating personal feelings from business realities.Together, they explore how these deep-seated emotions impact their approach to business, relationships, and self-care. Taina shares her own struggles with similar issues, providing a supportive space for reflection and discussion. The conversation also delves into the...2024-08-1946 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureFrom Olympics to Elections: How Power and Racism Shape Our WorldFrom Olympics to Elections: How Power and Racism Shape Our WorldIn this episode of Messy Liberation, co-hosts Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown dive into the controversies surrounding the 2024 Olympics, including the Imane Khelif controversy and the drama between Mykayla Skinner and Simone Biles. The discussion explores the intersections of race, gender, and media framing, highlighting how power dynamics and systemic biases continue to play out in sports and beyond. The conversation then shifts to politics, touching on the recent U.S. election developments and the troubling influence of AIPAC on progressive candidates like...2024-08-1254 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureGuilty Pleasures and Gender Roles: The Hidden Depths of Trash TVSummary: In this episode of Messy Liberation, co-hosts Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown dive deep into the world of reality TV and its societal implications. From the allure of guilty pleasures to the entrenched gender roles and societal expectations, Becky and Taina unpack the complexities behind what many dismiss as "trash TV." They discuss how these shows reflect and challenge social conditioning, the double standards in entertainment consumption between men and women, and how indulging in reality TV can serve as both an escape and a mirror to our own lives. They also explore the underlying misogyny in labeling...2024-08-0539 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureIs Tipping Culture Toxic?In this episode of Messy Liberation, co-hosts Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown dive into the complexities and frustrations of tipping culture in America. Becky shares a recent spa experience that highlights the manipulative practices tied to tipping and product sales. The conversation evolves into a broader critique of the capitalist structures that perpetuate these issues, the emotional and financial burdens placed on consumers, and the ethical dilemmas faced by business owners and patrons alike. Becky and Taina explore how tipping has become mandatory and discuss the systemic changes needed to create a fairer, more equitable system for workers and...2024-07-2930 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CulturePolitics & Values: Tenacious D, Usha Vance, and Sticker MuleSummary: Feminist coaches Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown dive into the political and cultural turbulence of the past week. The discussion touches on the backlash against Tenacious D, Usha Vance's complex positioning, and the controversial Sticker Mule email supporting Trump. With their signature no-nonsense approach, Becky and Taina explore the importance of clear values in personal and professional life, urging listeners to confront the messy realities of power, privilege, and political discourse.Key Takeaways:Questioning Narratives: The alleged assassination attempt on Trump raises questions about the authenticity of political events and the divisive impact on public...2024-07-2254 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureSick Days and Self-Care: Navigating Forced Rest as a Business OwnerIn this episode of Messy Liberation, co-hosts Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown dive deep into the complex emotions and societal pressures that come with forced rest. Becky shares her recent experience with a debilitating illness that left her bedridden and riddled with guilt, despite being an advocate for rest and self-care. Taina reflects on her extended hospital stay and the existential crisis it triggered. Together, they explore how gender roles, societal expectations, and toxic individualism impact women's ability to rest without guilt. They discuss the importance of collective care, redefining success, and embracing the messy process of growth and...2024-07-1540 min
Empowered & Embodied ShowMessy LiberationSend us a MessageThe journey toward liberation is messy AF, and Taina Brown and Becky Mollenkamp are here for it! 💥Join them for the Messy Liberation, a podcast about current events, politics, pop culture, and business through an intersectional feminist lens. Taina and Becky aren’t perfect activists or allies, so don’t expect polished and perfectly formulated conversations with 3-step solutions (that’s toxic capitalist BS anyway). 📣 Instead, listen in on their real-time, messy thoughts as they make sense of the world around them. If you’re sick of superficial appr...2024-07-1101 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureIs This the End of Democracy?Summary: In this episode of Messy Liberation, feminist coaches Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown dive into the recent Supreme Court ruling on presidential immunity and its profound implications for democracy. They share their raw emotions and discuss how this decision feels like a monumental shift in the nation's trajectory. From the disassociation many Americans experience in the face of such news to the anxiety and fear of a future without accountability, Becky and Taina explore the deep-seated issues of systemic oppression and the potential for meaningful systemic change.Key Takeaways:Supreme Court Ruling...2024-07-0842 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureDivestment, Intersectional Feminism, and Imperfect ActivismIn this premiere episode of "Messy Liberation," feminist coaches Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown introduce their new podcast, aiming to tackle the complexities of living as intersectional feminists. They discuss the messy realities of divestment from capitalism while still operating within it, the balance between individual and collective responsibility, and the challenges of maintaining values-aligned business practices. They delve into specific examples, such as divestment from companies involved in the Israel-Palestine conflict, and the importance of systemic change alongside personal actions. Join Becky and Taina for a candid conversation on navigating liberatory leadership and using business as a force...2024-07-0844 min
Feminist Founders: Building Profitable People-First BusinessesIntroducing Messy LiberationThe journey toward liberation is messy AF, and Taina Brown and Becky Mollenkamp are here for it! 💥Join them for the Messy Liberation, a podcast about current events, politics, pop culture, and business through an intersectional feminist lens. Taina and Becky aren’t perfect activists or allies, so don’t expect polished and perfectly formulated conversations with 3-step solutions (that’s toxic capitalist BS anyway). 📣 Instead, listen in on their real-time, messy thoughts as they make sense of the world around them. If you’re sick of super...2024-07-0101 min
Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop CultureIntroducing Messy Liberation with Taina and BeckyThe journey toward liberation is messy AF, and Taina Brown and Becky Mollenkamp are here for it! 💥Join them for the Messy Liberation, a podcast about current events, politics, pop culture, and business through an intersectional feminist lens. Taina and Becky aren’t perfect activists or allies, so don’t expect polished and perfectly formulated conversations with 3-step solutions (that’s toxic capitalist BS anyway). 📣 Instead, listen in on their real-time, messy thoughts as they make sense of the world around them. If you’re sick of super...2024-07-0101 min
Feminist Founders: Building Profitable People-First BusinessesSummer Break: Ask a Feminist CoachSUMMER BREAK: Season 3 of Feminist Founders is coming in September featuring new interviews with more inspiring leaders. During the summer I'm bringing you some special content, starting with this conversation with my friend, feminist life coach Taina Brown. She asked a few months ago if I’d be game for “Ask a Feminist Coach” as a series for Feminist Founders. Of course I said, “hell yes!” So we asked for some questions, and jumped right in to tackle three of the questions. Then we decided we liked it so much that we are going to turn it into something even bigge...2024-06-1933 min