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The Real UsBig, Beautiful, and Brutalđď¸ Episode 21 â Big, Beautiful, and BrutalFinal Episode of Season 1 of The Real Us Podcast!Affirmation: In a hundred years, it will not matter... â so SPEAK THE F*CK UP today. 'We made it to the finale, babes â and weâre not going out quiet. In this season-ending mic drop, weâre unpacking whatâs been heavy, whatâs been hidden, and what absolutely needs to be hollered from every rooftop: đĽ Talking Points:đ¤ LGBTQ+ + AI â Why some of us are opting out of content that doesnât see us. (And why that matters.)đŞď¸ Texas Disasters â Climate chaos mad...2025-07-102h 27The Real UsTruth or Liesđď¸ Episode Title: Truths or Lies⨠Affirmation: I am curious, grounded, and open to truthâno matter how wild it is.đ Description: Welcome to the rabbit hole, darling. In this episode, weâre strapping on our tinfoil hats and our truth goggles. From secret societies pulling hidden strings to everyday fibs we tell ourselves just to get through the week, weâre exploring whatâs real, whatâs rumor, and whatâs a delicious, mind-bending blend of both. Why do we crave certainty so badly? What happens when the stories we cling to start to unravel? Letâs find out together.2025-07-031h 12The Real UsHoly and Heatedđď¸ The Real Us â Episode 19 (Season 1)Title: Holy and HeatedSegment: The Real Us: After DarkTheme: ForbiddenAffirmation:I allow desire to flow through me as a source of power and creativity.đĽ Smut Levels: Tame to Spicyđ Just the Tip:You are not too much.You are the medicine.You are the fire they tried to tameâAnd now⌠you remember.In this sultry After Dark edition, weâre diving into the sacred and scandalous. Weâre talking all things Forbiddenâfrom fantasies tucked deep in the shadows to the pass...2025-06-261h 30The Real UsFuck it! Just Say it!đď¸ Episode Title: Fuck it! Just Say It!Podcast: The Real Us 𧨠In this raw and urgent episode, we talk about what no one wants to say out loud:Gun violence in our backyards,The âNo Kingsâ protest that ended in tragedy,Utahâs rising political and cultural tensions.đŻ Affirmation of the Week:âI take accountability for my silence, and will be silent no more.â đĽ What We Cover:The âNo Kingsâ protest shooting: remembering Afa Ah Loo, a vibrant Pacific Islander creative, father, and Project Runway alumâaccidentally shot by a peacekeeper after a gunman pulled an AR-15 on the crowd.The WestFes...2025-06-201h 30The Real UsTalking ShitTherealuspodcast@gmail.com2025-06-1128 minThe Real UsVeterans FT. Sgt Major Says, Rene Criswellđď¸ Episode 16 â Veterans FT. Sgt. Major Says, Rene Criswell⨠Affirmation: âThere is strength in surviving, but even more in healing.â This week, we honor the voices, experiences, and resilience of those whoâve served. Joined by the incredible Sgt. Major Rene Criswell, also known as Sgt. Major Says, this episode is a heartfelt and unfiltered conversation about life in and after the military, the realities of mental health, and the journey of rediscovering self outside of service. We talk about:The mental battles that follow the physical onesResilience and vulnerability as two sides of the same coinBreaking the silence around PTSD, identity...2025-06-051h 37The Real UsA Smuty Taleđ§ Episode 15 â A Smutty Tale⨠Affirmation: There is magic in the stories I tell, especially the ones that make me blush.đ¨ â ď¸ CONTENT WARNING â EXPLICIT MATERIAL AHEAD â ď¸This episode dives headfirst into the world of smut, sensual storytelling, and steamy confessions. If topics like sexuality, erotic writing, or cultural taboos around desire make you uncomfortableâor could be triggering for youâwe lovingly invite you to skip this one and join us next week for a heartfelt episode on Veterans and Mental Health.đĽ This week, Benji and Alyssa get personal, playful, and just a little bit flushed as they explore:Cha...2025-05-291h 17The Real UsSex SellsIn this bold and honest episode, Benji and Alyssa dive deep into the world of sex, experiences, and kinks, exploring both the playful and powerful sides of intimacy. From a brief history of sex to the ways it shapes our identities and relationships, nothing is off-limits.We cover essential topics like consent and communication, the balance between emotional and physical connection, and the importance of safety and protection. Whether you're discovering new parts of yourself or reclaiming your sensuality, this episode reminds you that "Caring for my sensuality is caring for myself."đĄ Just the Tip: Check out...2025-05-221h 13The Real UsBreaking Viceđď¸ The Real Us â Episode Title: "Breaking Vice"Hosts: Alyssa & BenjiAffirmation of the Day: "I am defined by myself, not by others."Breaking Vice, In this episode, we dive deep into the power of vices â how it shapes identity, connects cultures, and (letâs be honest) sometimes gets a little spicy! đWe start with a personal story that gets real about communication, expression, and self-discovery. Then, we roll into the fascinating history and fun facts about alcohol and drugs. Join the convo: Whatâs your favorite curse word? Drop it in the comments or email...2025-05-151h 09The Real UsWhat That Mouth Do?đď¸ The Real Us â Episode Title: "What That Mouth Do?"Hosts: Alyssa & BenjiAffirmation of the Day: "Any and all things are possible through effort, love, and imagination!"What does that mouth do? In this episode, we dive deep into the power of language â how it shapes identity, connects cultures, and (letâs be honest) sometimes gets a little spicy! đWe start with a personal story that gets real about communication, expression, and self-discovery. Then, we roll into the fascinating history and fun facts about language, touching on the roots of both English and Portuguese. And of course...2025-05-011h 23The Real UsDino-rawrWelcome to the wildest episode yet! In Episode 11 of The Real Us Podcast, we take you on a time-traveling journey to a land before timeâwhere giants roamed, roars ruled the earth, and the facts are just as fierce as the creatures themselves.đŚ This episode is a full-on prehistoric party packed with 50 fascinating dinosaur facts for all ages. But this isn't just about facts... it's about fun.We're turning learning into laughter with six interactive podcast challenges that bring the dino world to life through creativity, imagination, and pure audio magic.đĽ Hereâs what youâll exp...2025-04-241h 04The Real UsAll Fun and GamesAfter getting real and raw last episode, we're lightening things up with some laughs, games, and fun facts! In this episode, we play a few silly (and maybe slightly chaotic) games and reveal some random, quirky, and unexpected things about ourselves. Sometimes the best way to connect is through joy and laughter.Take a break from the heavy and come have some fun with us!Got a fun story, random fact, or just something you want to share?Send it to us at therealuspodcast@gmail.com â weâd love to hear from you!...2025-04-1051 minThe Real UsA Hard Pill to SwallowAffirmation: Itâs okay to begin again. Life is a battleâwe win some, we lose some. Every time, we have to stop, breathe, and be thankful for any and all good in our lives.Description:In this episode, we get really vulnerable about some of the hardest truths weâve had to acceptâthe hard pills to swallow. Growth isnât easy. It requires us to take a deep breath, release our ego and prejudice, and face ourselves head-on. We all struggle, but the key is transformation. Who we were isnât who we have to be.Challen...2025-04-031h 53The Real UsIt's a woman's world..đď¸ Affirmation: I am worthy of all the universe has to offer.Women have shaped history, broken barriers, and built legacies that continue to inspire us today. In this episode of The Real Us, Benji DeSomer and Alyssa Joy Chambers celebrate the power, resilience, and brilliance of women throughout history and in our everyday lives.From past trailblazers to modern changemakers, weâre diving into what it truly means to live in a womanâs world.đŹ Drop a comment of your favorite women in history! Who inspires you? Who paved the way for you? Letâs honor their...2025-03-271h 29The Real UsLet it go bitchđď¸ Affirmation: I accept what I cannot change.Life has a way of throwing curveballs, and sometimes, the hardest lesson to learn is letting go of whatâs out of our control. In this episode of The Real Us, Benji DeSomer and Alyssa Joy Chambers dive into the power of releaseâwhy clinging to the uncontrollable only weighs us down and how true freedom comes from surrender.đĽ Just the Tip: Read The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbinsâit just might change the way you see things.đŹ Comment Your Favorite "Let It Go" Expression! Whether itâs "Not my circus, n...2025-03-2049 minThe Real UsRamblings of mad hatters!In this episode, we dive deep into the chaos of corporate America, the so-called "American Dream," and the never-ending struggle to find stability and sustainability in a world that never slows down. Life and time? Sometimes, they feel like pure bullshitâand weâre here to talk about it. đš Affirmation of the Episode: Let them, and let me. đš Just the Tip: Keep breathing, take a moment, and let the world flow around you.Weâre embracing the madness, questioning the system, and finding our own way through it all. Whatâs your favorite spring activity? Drop a comment a...2025-03-131h 54The Real UsBehind the smile"My emotions are not weaknesses; they are proof of my depth and humanity."Mental health is real, and so are we. Behind the Smile is a safe space where we talk openly about the struggles we often hide, sharing tools, skills, and real-life experiences to help navigate the ups and downs. No filtersâjust honest conversations and support.đż You're not alone. If you need help, reach out:đ Utah Warm Line: 833-773-2588đŹ Chat Support: 833-372-3388đ¨ Utah Crisis Line: 1-800-273-8255đ Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (U of U): 988đ Need a boost? Positive Pep Talk: 707-873-78622025-03-0644 min