Shows
Change The OddsGrief, Marriage, and Going on Offense w/ Taylor & Chloe GallTaylor & Chloe Gall join us to talk grief, marriage in the “90/10” seasons, parenting four boys, and finding identity in Christ. Real talk on community, prayer, and moving from defense to offense after loss.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2026-02-2559 minChange The OddsWhen Fighting Is the Only Way You Feel CloseWhat if your biggest fights are actually your deepest moments of connection? In this Fight Club episode, we unpack anxious vs. avoidant attachment, makeup sex, and why some couples feel closer through chaos than calm.--Got a fight you want us to break down on the show? Submit it here and we’ll analyze it using Love Styles (attachment styles) and Lead Styles (enneagram): https://go.bayside.church/fightclub
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Re...
2026-02-1832 minChange The OddsMind Reading Is Ruining Your RelationshipEver feel hurt by something you never actually asked for? This Fight Club unpacks expectations, mind reading, attachment styles, and why romance falls apart when clarity goes missing—especially around Valentine’s Day.--Got a fight you want us to break down on the show? Submit it here and we’ll analyze it using Love Styles (attachment styles) and Lead Styles (enneagram): https://go.bayside.church/fightclub
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2026-02-0433 minChange The OddsRepair Before RomanceWhen one partner reaches for connection through sex and the other pulls away, it’s not about rejection—it’s about repair. This Fight Club dives deep into attachment, intimacy, and the emotional work beneath the surface.--Got a fight you want us to break down on the show? Submit it here and we’ll analyze it using Love Styles (attachment styles) and Lead Styles (enneagram): https://go.bayside.church/fightclub
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.
2026-01-2830 minChange The OddsWhy Do I Even Have to Ask? The Mental Load FightWhat happens when one partner carries the weight of everything—while the other says, “you never asked”? We unpack the fight about invisible labor, attachment styles, and how to stop the burnout spiral in your relationship.--Got a fight you want us to break down on the show? Submit it here and we’ll analyze it using Love Styles (attachment styles) and Lead Styles (enneagram): https://go.bayside.church/fightclub
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.
2026-01-2134 minChange The OddsThe Real Fight Behind Being Late with Dinner WaitingWhat happens when he’s late (again), she’s overwhelmed, and neither feels seen? We break down the anxious-avoidant loop, love styles, and what actually helps couples change the odds when the same fight keeps happening.--Got a fight you want us to break down on the show? Submit it here and we’ll analyze it using Love Styles (attachment styles) and Lead Styles (enneagram): https://go.bayside.church/fightclub
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.
2026-01-1436 minChange The OddsWhen Christmas Blows the Budget and TrustHe said $800, he spent $2,000. Can a little Christmas magic justify a big financial betrayal? We break down the fight, the fallout, and how to stop money issues from ruining the season.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-12-1035 minChange The OddsWho Gets Christmas? Family Boundaries & Holiday Battles with Your SpouseChristmas is supposed to be joyful—but for many couples, it’s anything but. We unpack one couple’s holiday dilemma and dive into boundaries, triangulation, and how to stop dreading December.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-12-0343 minChange The OddsWhy Our Marriage Works: The Thompsons on Timing and TeamworkKevin and Jenny Thompson join us to talk love, ministry, parenting challenges, and what makes a strong marriage work—even when you don’t cry at dedications.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-11-2658 minChange The OddsIntimacy on Empty: When (It) Feels Like a ChoreWhen sex turns into another task on the to-do list, what’s really going on in the marriage? We unpack pursue-withdraw cycles, anxious attachment, and how real connection begins outside the bedroom.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-11-1942 minChange The OddsControl vs Connection: The Parenting Fight No One Warns You AboutWhat happens when “because I said so” meets “let’s stay connected”? Blaine and Adrienne unpack a listener-submitted parenting fight and explore how control and connection can work together—not against each other.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-11-1242 minChange The OddsFight ClubWhat if a fight over lost keys isn’t really about the keys? We break down how everyday conflict reveals deeper personality traits, attachment styles, and the hidden strength of a healthy fight.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-11-0534 minChange The Odds5 Signs You’re Growing Together in Faith and PurposeStruggles, spelling, and spiritual growth—this episode unpacks five signs your marriage might be aligned with God’s will (and why pain might actually be proof you’re on the right path).
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-10-2946 minChange The Odds5 Spiritual Practices Every Strong Couple NeedsForget the cookie-cutter advice—this episode dives into five bold spiritual practices that build real connection, intimacy, and purpose in your marriage. It’s time to change the odds, together.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-10-2243 minChange The OddsRed Flags, Real Talk, and Rebuilding TrustFrom smashed wedding cakes to CrossFit crushes, we’re talking marriage red flags, rebuilding trust after betrayal, and how to guard your relationship from subtle dangers—without sounding like your spouse’s preacher.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-10-1545 minChange The OddsStop Saying “He’s Logical, She’s Emotional”—Try This InsteadWe bust the “logical vs. emotional” myth, unpack the head–heart–gut framework, and share practical tools—“it felt like…”, absorbing the first jab, and naming emotions—to strengthen marriage, conflict, and parenting.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-10-0843 minChange The OddsQ&A: Firemen, date nights, and dreamsQ&A time: staying connected with unpredictable schedules, business meeting vs date night, high/low drive and physical touch, dividing housework fairly, and how to align individual dreams into a shared one. Real talk, practical moves.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-10-0143 minChange The OddsTruth, Love, and Maturity in MarriageWhat happens when truth and love collide in marriage? We unpack why honesty, maturity, and intentionality are essential to unity—and how speaking truth in love transforms relationships.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-09-2443 minChange The OddsGrowth: the foundational skill for every marriageWe unpack how couples truly grow: build connection first, then stack skills. Growth mindset, tiny daily habits, community, and safety over nagging. Prehab > rehab. Practical steps you can start tonight.--Be chosen by a child. Poverty steals choices from kids—give those choices back. Sign up, submit your photo, and a child will choose you as their sponsor. Learn more about Chosen at World Vision: "The power to choose is in a child’s hands." https://go.bayside.church/worldvisionpodcast
2025-09-1747 minChange The OddsDreaming Together: Rest, Vision, and Partnership in MarriageWe share how a retreat reshaped our view of marriage, rest, and partnership—and why dreaming together may be the most important thing you do as a couple.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-09-1027 minChange The OddsThe Window of ToleranceWe unpack the “window of tolerance”—hyper vs. hypoarousal, co-regulation, and simple tools (hello, breathing) to handle conflict, parenting chaos, and work stress—so you can fight for calm, not control.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-09-0347 minChange The OddsCanadian Chocolate, Lost Rings, and the Real Secrets of MarriageBlaine and Adrienne celebrate 14 years of marriage—from sweet surprises to lost rings and everything in between—and reflect on what they’ve learned (and unlearned) along the way.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-08-1340 minChange The OddsHow to Parent Together Without Pulling ApartHow do you keep your marriage strong while parenting kids with big personalities? Kevin and Blaine unpack five keys to unity in marriage—even when life gets chaotic.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-06-1248 minChange The OddsWhat Nobody Talks About (But Everyone’s Asking) with Dr. Barbara WilsonWe open the vault on a raw, insightful live Q&A with Dr. Barbara Wilson—covering everything from spiritual intimacy to sex after 70, toys, trauma, and turning vulnerability into connection.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-05-2156 minChange The OddsBreaking the Silence: How Couples Can Talk About Sex and IntimacyLearn how open conversations about sex can transform your marriage, strengthen your parenting, and break old taboos—with expert tips from Dr. Wilson and real talk from Blaine and Adrienne.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-05-1542 minChange The OddsWhat Great Lovers Understand: A Conversation with Dr. Barbara WilsonDiscover how couples can reignite intimacy, navigate vulnerability, and make sex meaningful again—featuring clinical psychologist Dr. Barbara Wilson and real-life marriage insights.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-05-0741 minChange The OddsBeyond the Bedroom: Building Emotional Intimacy in MarriageDiscover why intimacy starts outside the bedroom. Kevin, Blaine and Adrienne welcome Dr. Barbara Wilson to unpack how trust, respect, and vulnerability shape connection and lasting love.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-04-3033 minChange The OddsThis Is Why You Keep Having the Same Fight in MarriageKevin dives into Sue Johnson’s three types of recurring fights in marriage—Find the Bad Guy, Protest Polka, and Freeze & Flee—offering tools to break the loop and build deeper connection.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-04-2337 minChange The OddsThe One Thing You Are Forgetting in Every CommunicationDiscover how the stories we tell ourselves shape our feelings, actions, and relationships—with practical tools for deeper, more compassionate communication in marriage and beyond.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-04-1636 minChange The OddsPower Couple Finances: Systems That Save Your SanityWhat if you never had to fight about money again? We unpack how financial trust, team systems, and intentional spending can transform your marriage.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-04-0945 minChange The OddsDoes Your Spouse Respect You? Part 2What does disrespect really look like in marriage? Kevin, Blaine, and Adrian unpack the subtle ways we dishonor our partners—and how to rebuild trust and connection with intentional respect.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-03-2653 minChange The OddsDoes Your Spouse Respect You? Part 1Respect isn’t just a nice-to-have in marriage—it’s essential. In this episode, we dive into what respect is, what it isn’t, and how to cultivate it in your relationship. Plus, real-life moments that prove respect makes all the difference!
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-03-1946 minChange The Odds7 Daily Habits to Strengthen Your MarriageIs apathy the true enemy of marriage? In this episode, we unpack why drifting apart—not adultery, finances, or poor communication—is the real cause of divorce. Learn how small, intentional actions can transform your relationship and keep you and your spouse connected.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-03-1241 minChange The OddsWhat Are You Becoming?Is your marriage thriving or just surviving? In this episode, we unpack how to intentionally build a relationship rooted in friendship, partnership, and intimacy—before drifting into something you never intended.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-03-0744 minChange The OddsBecoming a Power CoupleWhat does it take to become a power couple? In this episode, we explore the keys to building a thriving relationship—shared vision, secure attachment, personal growth, and more. Whether you’re in a great place or facing struggles, these insights will help you grow and inspire others along the way.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-02-2746 minChange The OddsThe Power of Opposites in MarriageAre differences in marriage a weakness or a strength? In this episode, we unpack how contrasting personalities, perspectives, and habits can actually strengthen relationships—if handled with respect and understanding. From dishwasher debates to financial mindsets, Blaine and Adrienne explore how their differences bring balance, growth, and unity.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-02-2153 minChange The OddsLove, Loss, and Learning to Grieve TogetherGrief looks different for everyone—but what happens when two people in a marriage process loss in completely different ways? Blaine and Adrienne share their deeply personal miscarriage story, revealing the unexpected challenges, the healing power of community, and how suffering can either pull couples apart or make them stronger than ever.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-02-1249 minChange The OddsHow Your Childhood Shapes Your MarriageYour childhood experiences shape your relationships more than you think! In this episode, we dive into attachment theory—the science behind why we connect, argue, and love the way we do. Learn how to break old cycles, build secure attachments, and strengthen your marriage.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-02-0751 minChange The OddsThe Science of Personality: How It Shapes Your MarriageDo you greet your kids or your spouse first when you walk through the door? This episode dives into the science of personality, exploring how different perspectives shape relationships, communication, and connection in marriage. Discover how to use your differences as strengths and build a stronger family dynamic.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-01-3051 minChange The OddsThe ABCs of Marriage: Agency, Bonding, and CertaintyHow do personality and autopilot behaviors impact your marriage? Kevin Thompson dives into agency, bonding, and certainty with Blaine and Adrienne Neufeld, exploring the Enneagram, parenting, and rewiring your relationship dynamics.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-01-231h 03Change The OddsWhy Marriage and Parenting Are Evolving in 2025Explore the five biggest marriage trends of 2025 with Kevin Thompson. From delayed marriages to flourishing relationships, this episode unpacks the changing dynamics of love, partnership, and family.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
2025-01-1644 minChange The OddsFive Marriage Trends for 2025: Redefining ConnectionStart 2025 right! Kevin Thompson sits down with Blaine and Adrienne Neufeld to explore five game-changing marriage trends for the year, tackling myths about marriage happiness, overcoming distractions, and sharing simple ways to deepen connection daily.
---You don’t have to lead alone. Thrive Leaders NorCal | April 30–May 1: Two days to grow in clarity, courage, and calling.Register here: https://go.bayside.church/thriveconferenceforpods
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