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First on Film & EntertainmentS03E16: It Ends With Us: Romance Cloaked in Domestic Abuse**Host:** Alex First**Guest Critics:** Jaqui Hammerton, Greg King, Peter Krause**Episode Summary:**In this compelling episode, Alex First, Jaqui Hammerton, Greg King, and Peter Krause delve into the latest romantic drama, *It Ends With Us*. The discussion extends to the powerful themes of domestic violence and the film's execution, including Blake Lively's performance and the film's handling of serious subject matter. The critics also explore the intricacies of Russell Crowe's new film *Sleeping Dogs*, discussing its convoluted plot and Crowe's standout performance. Finally, the episode touches on the French comedy *Iris and the Men* and its...2024-08-1853 minFirst on Film & EntertainmentS03E15: From the Olympics to the MCU: Deadpool and Wolverine Unite**Host:** Alex First**Guest Critics:** Jaqui Hammerton, Greg King, Peter Krause**Episode Summary:**In this lively episode, Alex First is joined by Jaqui Hammerton, Greg King, and Peter Krause to discuss the latest in film and entertainment. The Timms kicks off with a spirited debate about the Olympic Games before diving into the highly anticipated "Deadpool and Wolverine." The episode also features reviews of the charming French rom-com "Mister Blake at Your Service" and the chilling crime horror thriller "Long Legs." Each critic brings their unique perspective, blending humour and serious critique to provide listeners with a...2024-08-1853 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 57: S0307 – Your Comfort Zone is Making You FatDisclaimer: this episode contains opinions that are mine and may be offensive to others. While I do not care if a topic or opinion offends you (see here), I want to extend the courtesy of letting you know this may trigger you if you're afraid of hearing strong ideas about fitness, motivation, and complacency. Before I got married, I made a commitment to fitness. It was actually a perfect time to do it. I started at the new year and ended half way through May when Jami and I went to Italy to get hitched. I cut 27...2019-08-1922 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 56: S0305 – The Truth About Happiness with Jim McCarthyI know I've touched on the role and importance of happiness before, but this time I'm kicking it up a notch with science to explore the truth about happiness. Not to be confused with it's apathetic cousin, contentment, happiness is about finding joy in the everyday, and letting it permeate into the tasks, trials, and takeaways of your everyday life. On this episode, I'm joined by Jim McCarthy. He's a TEDx speaker and # 1 bestselling author of Live Each Day: A Surprisingly Simple Guide to Happiness. He teaches people how to create their happiness by blending mindfulness techniques and t...2019-08-0447 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 55: S0304 – How to Buy or Sell Your First HomeThe real estate market these days seems like a combination of fire and ice. As still as that sounds, some buyers and sellers are experiencing properties and transactions that are red hot deals, while others are getting iced with poor maintenance, missed opportunities, and bad decisions. So what does one look for when buying or selling a home? More importantly, what do you look for when buying or selling your first home? It seems like such an easy thing when you see if on television, and "anybody can make millions" when pitched to you at a seminar, b...2019-07-2142 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 54: S0303 - How To Gain Clarity & Recognize OpportunitiesIn the last year, opportunity has shown up in a bunch of different spaces in my life. From relationships, friendships, travel, technology, and especially business ventures, it feels like opportunities are everywhere and I'd have to actively work to avoid them. It's a good feeling. But it's not like I didn't do some adjusting to get here. This is a combination of focus and preparation. Speaking with a friend of mine, I heard the tell tale sign of someone blind to opportunities: "I wish I was as lucky as you are. You're surrounded by opportunities...2019-07-0822 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 53: S0302 – Five Ways to Upgrade Your Bachelor Pad with Misty MaxeyWhen you're setting yourself up for success, you're probably aware (of have heard repeatedly) that the people you surround yourself with everyday have a direct impact on your trajectory. The right people can help you feel powerful, tackle problems with critical thinking, and help you view the world from a perspective that enables you to be and do your absolute best. What you probably didn't think about, however, is the impact your personal physical space also has on your success trajectory. Trying to feel like a boss, ready to go out and conquer your goals can prove...2019-06-2438 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 52: S301 – Nobody Cares if You're Offended!Man, that title just hits you in the face, doesn't it? It is unapologetically raw and maybe even rude. Hell, some people might even say it's offensive to be so crass. This is such a perfect topic to talk about – especially in today's divisive and politically charged, social-media fueled, attention seeking society. Nobody cares if you're offended. Let's explore this with some context. If you've ever been on the internet (well, beyond this site), you may have had the unfortunate experience of wandering into the comment section on a news article. Be advised – don't wander into...2019-06-0924 min
15 Minutes to FreedomE145 Interview with Blake Hammerton, The Sharp GentlemanToday I chat with Blake Hammerton, a certified life coach, fashion expert, and creator of The Sharp Gentleman lifestyle that is all about character and style, attitude and engagement, confidence and wisdom. We discuss how you dress and affect how you perform and how you are perceived by others, as well as the difference between baggage and luggage. Questions, comments, requests? Feel free to contact me at ryan@gsdmediagroup.com. I’d love to hear from you..2018-09-1344 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 51: How to Find Balance as an Entrepreneur and Family ManDid you know one of the most often searched terms is “how to find balance as an entrepreneur and family man” on Google? Why is that? Well, it’s probably because having a work life balance as an entrepreneur is hard as hell. While many people may look at successful entrepreneurs and feel they “have it together” based on their viewpoint, sometimes that’s the furthest thing from the truth. As an entrepreneur, priorities and schedules, and investments and expenses are different than others’ that work in Corporate America. The idea that the struggle is real is more than just...2018-06-2536 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 50: The State of Today's Man with Robert KandellThere are so many messages of manliness out there in the world these days, all vying for more and more of your attention, but which ones are true? Which messages are good for you, and which are good for everyone? There's a big difference there. Some influencers will have men believe that the world is getting softer and that men need to focus more on being manly, growing beards, and getting tough. Some are focused on being the best version of yourself so you can have a more authentic impact on the world around you. ...2018-06-1833 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 49: The Truth About HustleSometimes the hustle can bring great success and confidence, and other times the hustle brings exhaustion, despair, and defeat. So what's the catch with hustle? In this episode of the podcast, we're exploring the tale of two entrepreneurs and the differences between a hustle that works and a hustle that hurts. No, it may not cause physical harm, but a hustle that doesn't work is every bit as exhausting and fruitless as trying to ride a bicycle through wet cement. Let's fix that and get you on your way. You do NOT need to grind...2018-04-0915 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 48: Asking Permission vs Begging ForgivenessI recently had a conversation with a client of mine regarding what he truly wants. He had so many things to say about what he wanted. And, he had even more to say about why it's too hard or impossible to make happen. There are all these "reasons" for how it just can't be done, or it's too scary, or what will happen if it doesn't work out – and every last one of them is made up. In too many cases, we are seeking permission to take the leap and go for it. We're looking for the vali...2018-03-2518 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 47: Definitive Guide to Improving Your CreditGentlemen, having a crap credit score is not only an ungentlemanly thing to have, but it's also completely fixable. There are resources, tricks, and actions you can take to completely change your score, so today, we're going over the definitive guide to improving your credit score, and keeping it that way. The first thing to understand about credit health and your score, is that it isn't something that mysteriously appeared at no fault of your own doing. It takes a while to ruin credit, and it subsequently takes a while to bring it back into the high...2018-03-1228 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 46: How to Win Valentine's DayMy wife and I are a good example of opposites attracting. I'm a hopeless romantic and she's much more practical. I'll plan grand gestures of romance, cloaked in secrecy for surprise, and deliver a symphony of Kodak moments we'll cherish forever. It's all orchestrated for my own satisfaction. I do it because it's fun for me. Yes, of course, she enjoys the romance, but grand gestures aren't really that important to her. So I do it for me. This exact truth got me thinking about all of you guys. Do you know what your significant...2018-02-1224 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 45: How to Honor Your Family while Starting Your OwnIn this episode, we're exploring the relationships that are affected when you become a man of your own. It is an episode for sons, and daughter-in-laws, and even my own parents and in-laws. There’s a space for guys to recognize the auxiliary players in their transition from boys to men. We forget that the world doesn’t revolve around us. We forget there are those that came before us, and we forgo wisdom for independence all too often.2018-01-2233 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 44: How to Become a Dependable Man of Your WordOne of the things that we all strive to be is dependable as men. We want to be strong providers and trusted unconditionally. We want to be honorable men, even if many of us aren't exactly sure what that means. We like, and often romanticize the Gentleman's Agreement. When we are told something is going to happen, we want to believe it. We like the idea that "he's a man of his word," and "he's a good man, he'll come through." You want to be "a man of your word," but how do you get...2018-01-1518 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 43: 10 Questions to Have The Best Year EverIn a year from now, you'll wish you started today. When I want to have the best year ever, I look at this quote. This is one of my favorite quotes because it keeps me focused on what I'm committing to when I procrastinate. Every time I say no to getting up and getting out there, I'm saying yes to missed opportunities; yes to broken promises to myself; yes to feeling overwhelmed later when I feel like I haven't gotten anything done; yes to excuses – the list goes on. When I say yes to those things, I'm als...2017-12-2919 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 42: Keeping Your Integrity Through DistractionsIntegrity Through Distractions Temptation is everywhere, gentlemen. You can be driving to the gym, ready to hit it hard, and find yourself in the Dunkin' Donuts drive thru a moment later... if you give into the temptation. Integrity through distractions, right? Distractions are even more prevalent. Distractions are temptations disguised as noise. You may not feel that temptation is the right word, but when you see the Facebook notifications on your phone, it's difficult to resist the temptation to pause what you're doing and check them, right? On a bigger level, having the d...2017-12-1118 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 41: What happens when You lose your DadTHIS EPISODE HAS CURSE WORDS. I went to an event yesterday and heard Tony Robbins speak. One of the exercises he had us do was to meditate on a moment we are forever grateful for, and I thought of the time my dad visited me and Jami in Texas, and I taught him how to tie a bow tie. Coincidentally, we just passed the anniversary of his death, and a young man for whom I am a mentor just lost his father to the same deadly, unexpected heart attack. He is processing, and I am...2017-10-2218 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 40: Why you NEED challengersThis time, Ego IS the answer. For many of us, happiness and contentment are synonymous. We reach a moderate level of success, while secretly wishing we could do (fill-in the blank). Most of the time, that one thing we wish were doing professionally –instead of what we're currently doing– is in a completely unrelated field. It is our fear of switching gears and venturing out into the unknown that keeps us in our safe place –our regular job, regular pay, regular, predictable life. Until one day, someone enters our social circle and is doing exactly the th...2017-10-1019 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 39: The Power of PauseHaste makes waste, gentlemen. In today's modern society of what I like to call Throwaway Ideals, it can be difficult to see yourself finishing anything all the way. Most of us are too easily conditioned to cut and run when the going gets tough because there's opportunity and alternatives abound. We start a lot of projects, chase a lot of ideas, and break ground on new endeavors... but we rush through the motions so quickly that we often miss details, and cause things to derail. More importantly, when things derail we jump ship and start...2017-09-2519 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 38: Gentleman's Guide to Sin City“What’s a gentleman like you doing in a place like this?” Las Vegas is dubbed as “Sin City,” and with good reason, as it offers just about every kind of earthly delight under the sun. As such, it might seem a contradiction to recommend this place to bona fide gentlemen. Nonetheless, there are actually a lot of activities that gents can try out, without succumbing to a truly hedonistic lifestyle, and burning a hole through their wallet. In this article and episode, we'll explore where to eat, where to stay, what to wear, and where to play.2017-09-1822 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 37: How to Attend a Party Like a GentlemanThere is often a misconception when it comes to bringing alcohol to different social gatherings. What’s the best drink to bring to a party? Should bring anything at all? Beer or wine? Both? Food as well? It’s all a lot to keep balanced! You definitely want to bring a gift to the host of whatever social gathering you’re attending, and this episode will detail what gift AND what else you want to do when you attend!2017-08-2017 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 36: 10 Hard Truths You Need to HearThe world is an interesting place – one full of opportunities and adventures, yet also riddled with terrible decisions, fear, doubt, and distractions that keep us from becoming the best men we can be. Sometimes it takes a hard truth to snap us out of our funk and get us back on track. These hard truths can be difficult to digest, but necessary to keep you from wearing those jeans you cut into shorts. Seriously, throw those things away. The impetus for a hard truth is never born from malice; rather, it's delivered to guide you back toward yo...2017-08-0721 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 35: Breaking Up - How to KNOW & How to GOBreaking up is hard to do. At the same time, staying in a relationship that doesn't serve either party is also hard to do. Unfortunately, we are willing to do more of the latter that we are of the former, and that's a disservice to ourselves and each other. Look, it sucks to break up, but it also sucks to be in an unhappy relationship. A fair amount of my clients (and emails I receive) ask what they should do to exit their unfulfilling relationships. They've read other posts and episodes about listening and building better partnerships...2017-07-2329 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 34: Building a Business After a BreakdownWe've all heard, in some form or another, the old adage that "you have to hit rock bottom before you can truly change." In the case of my friend Jan, his rock bottom was a nervous breakdown due to the compounding stress of being an employee, a student, and a man in his 20s trying to figure things out. It turns out, some men aren't built to be employees, while others aren't built to be entrepreneurs. When you're the latter, you see the risks, the uncertainty, and the stress as too much to handle and you'd rather...2017-07-1024 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 33: How to Make Passive IncomeLook, we all want a way to make more while doing less, right? Passive income is the vehicle to allow that, BUT –and this is a big one– they aren't going to make you rich overnight, and they all come with their own shortcomings. In this episode (and article), I'm going to cover the 5 main channels for passive income and what you need to know going in. I'm also going to share what I've done and what I currently do to make passive revenue each month. It goes without saying (even though I'm saying it now) that some...2017-06-2627 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 32: Seriously, I Got Hit By a BusI was recently having a conversation with a group of friends and business connections and mentioned a little bit of my story after my accident, and was met with "what accident?" in response. It turns out, many of my connections don't know my story. The short version is: I was in a terrible car wreck just after high school and it changed my brain. Pretty crazy, right? In this episode, I will tell the story of the day I was hit by a bus. I'll take you through the events as I remember (and as I was...2017-06-1219 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 31: Finding Success Surviving a Stroke - Suzy WigstadtMany of us are lucky we never had to/have to transition through a life-altering accident, illness, or injury to emerge with a much greater amount of clarity, conviction, and confidence. In this instance, Suzy went through a pretty wicked stroke and emerged with a new perspective on 'listening to your gut' – and some insights that will help us all avoid making the same mistakes she did. In this episode, I interview Suzy Wigstadt of Stroke to Success and she reveals her story of suffering a hemiplegic migraine that turned out to be a stroke, and waking up...2017-05-2923 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 30: You Can Make Today Legendary™On a random day a few weeks ago, I was perusing Instagram and stumbled across a brand called Make Today Legendary. They sent me a message about their cause and what their wristband was all about. Skeptical at first, I have to admit I grilled the founder with some follow-up questions. After discovering more about him and the movement behind MTL, I invited him onto the podcast so we could introduce the mission to all of you. It's an excellent interview, and I definitely advise you to order some bands of your own after you...2017-05-1525 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 29: Elevating Your Leadership with StoicismAs we grow into management and leadership roles, we are often taught how to lead from the wrong people. More often than not, we learn to lead by seeing the world through the lens of the leader immediately above us. This isn't necessarily bad, but it can often have us attached to outcomes, directions, and processes that aren't really our own. The question I invite you to chew on in that situation is this: Is it really your point of view if you were given the lens from someone else, and it's already pointed where they were...2017-05-0219 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 28: 10 Dating Commandments for the Modern GentDating has progressed from meeting people in public places and having conversation to swiping left or right and texting for hookups. Does it mean all hope for a real relationship is lost? I argue that no, all hope is not lost, but you must be aware of the rules of the game so you don't fall victim to it. This goes for men and women. In this episode, I'm going to cover the 10 commandments of dating for the Modern Gent. They're not difficult, but they almost certainly end in disaster if not followed. Everything from who to w...2017-04-1720 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 27: Why Being a Hero Makes You an IdiotMen are programmed to conquer things. We come with software already installed from the factory that has us compelled to solve things, right wrongs, and stand and fight. It's what makes us such great linear thinkers! We see a problem, we focus on the next steps, we take them, and we conquer. Piece of cake. Unfortunately, in our male-pattern-thinking, we completely miss the perspectives and emotions of those around us, and how our actions impact them. To call us stubborn and bullheaded is such an easy thing to do when we are in our default mode of "...2017-04-0321 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 26: Wearing a Toupee at 24 Years OldThe one thing none of us focus on when think think about what we'll be when we grow up, is how we'll look. Maybe that's a good thing. Most Americans simply grow up and get wider, not taller as they age. I'm actually in better shape today than I ever was in high school, but I fell victim to something much more sinister. In honor of keeping things fresh and not-too-grown-up, let's take a minute to talk about something very adult: male pattern baldness. In this episode, I want to entertain you with the grand story of...2017-03-2020 min
The Pathways to Success with Julian Placino55: Becoming the modern Gentleman - Blake Hammerton - Founder of The Sharp GentlemanBlake Hammerton is the founder and creative director of The Sharp Gentleman, a company focused on helping guys earn more respect by being more respectable. He’s a certified coach with a background in psychology and relationship dynamics, and uses his ever-expanding arsenal of tools to help clients all over the world become the men they were born to be. What you will learn: What a modern gentleman is and why you want to be one 4 steps to becoming a modern gent for the subtle guy Essential outfits for every modern gent The modern gent's guide to i...2017-03-131h 07
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 25: The Gentleman Warrior with John LymberopolousThis episode was recorded with lavalier microphones worn on our lapels at SyncLab Media Studios in Dallas, which was both amazing and left me wishing the sound was a better. To help make sure nothing is missed, I took the time to transcribe everything form out 20 minute interview below. There's also a video (it is a video studio after all) of the interview with bonus footage and some extras, but it is reserved for the members of The Gentleman's Inner Circle. If you're looking to take your personal development as a man to the next level, I...2017-03-0621 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 24: The Right Way to Wear CologneHave you ever been minding your own business when suddenly a perfume or cologne wafts through the air and completely captures your attention? Maybe it was a scent that reminded you of that old girlfriend you had back in college. Maybe it reminded you of that guy at the office that smells like he bathes himself in cologne before coming to work every morning. Whatever it is, smell is one of the most powerful senses when it comes to triggering old memories and creating new ones. Make sure you’re making the right impression with your scent, ge...2017-02-1315 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 23: 5 Ways You Can Become a Modern Gent Featuring Aimee BentsonToday, I am on location with my good friend Aimee Bentson. You may remember her from the episode where we discussed the Dos and Don'ts of Online Dating. It was a hit episode, and I thought it would be a good idea to get her take on the modern gent these days. So today, we are going to cover 5 ways you can become a modern gent – more importantly, a version that is authentic to who you already are. We can all look like modern gentlemen, but some of us don't naturally want to wear a suit and tie...2017-02-0636 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 22: How to Give a Toast Like a GentlemanIn a world full of phobias, public speaking is up there at the top – right next to that spider at the end of Arachnophobia. And yet, men and women both dream about absolutely dominating the room with the perfect toast. Many secretly dream of raising a glass and speaking off-the-cuff with such prose that the ladies swoon and someone starts a slow-clap. It may not go quite as dramatically, but there’s actually a good formula for making sure your toast is remembered for the right reasons, and not because you embarrassed yourself or someone else. Here are...2017-01-2318 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 21: 5 Secrets to Restoring Momentum When You're StuckWith New Year's Resolutions in full swing, I know a lot of us, myself included, can often feel like we're not going to make it happen. We're simply not strong enough to keep up with the willpower necessary to make that big change. We feel stuck... even nine days into the new year. Sometimes it just takes a few quick things to turn it around for me - the same can be true for you. More often than not, you just need a little perspective reminder of where you are, and how much you've actually done. More i...2017-01-0920 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 20: How to Fight with Your Spouse WITHOUT Ending Your MarriageWhy would you want to know how to fight with your spouse? Because it's a natural part of building a healthy, long-lasting relationship. Marriage in America has become something of a joke. Well, not really a joke – more of a statistical mess. Approximately half of all marriages in the US end in divorce. Clearly, we take commitment very seriously. There are many reasons marriages end, including: adultery (I wanted my cake...and some other cakes too) finances (I wanted more cake, but we always fought over our cake budget) life goals (She wanted lots of little cake...2016-12-2720 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 19: Interview with Julian Placino of Pathways to SuccessPublic Speaking for the Anxious Guy with Julian Placino The Pathways to Success Podcast is a weekly a show where Julian interviews leaders on business, personal development, health & fitness and many other topics designed to help you find your unique Pathway to Success. Although there are principles and commonalities of success, everyone has to walk their own path and craft their own story. How you define success might not be how someone else does. That’s why he invites a highly varied group of experts who have succeeded in many different avenues. On the show, he...2016-12-1225 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 18: 7 Lessons You Need to Unlearn Right NowSome lessons just need to be forgotten... It never ceases to amaze me how brilliant people can opt not to pursue their big ideas because old lessons they've learned are so deeply ingrained. What a tragedy it is to watch someone give up before he or she even begins. Some poor lessons we learned as early as childhood can still haunt us today. Even in my own business and personal life, I wrestle against lessons I have gleaned from past experience, my parents, friends, teachers, and the media. It's made me realize that more often...2016-11-2123 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 17: How to Start a Business that Doesn't FailI was recently having a conversation with a friend of mine about entrepreneurship and the changing landscape of business success these days, and I discovered a few coaching moments I want to share with you. He's an incredibly hard working guy and it shows in his business and brand. He is the first one in and last one out of the office seven days a week. He's created a culture of innovation, creativity, and hard work in his company. And he's completely overwhelmed. Success in small businesses comes in waves. The tide rolls out and...2016-11-0720 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 16: Why You Need to Stop Being in Charge of EverythingControl can kill. Gentlemen, this may sound counter-intuitive, but you need to stop being charge of everything in your life – If for no other reason than it's killing you. If it doesn't end up physically killing you, it will at the very least kill a metric ton of pleasure, enjoyment, and realized success. Sure, you may reach that goal you're shooting for, and do it your way, but you'll be too exhausted to recognize and appreciate the fruits of your labor. Control can kill. What do you do about it? Look, I'm a pr...2016-10-2419 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 15: Gentleman's Guide to the Four AgreementsDon Miguel Ruiz wrote The Four Agreements, and I'm sure you've no doubt read quotes from it and learned of these agreements from one source or another. Whether you read the book or not, I want to address each agreement from the gentleman's perspective, and a few extra pieces that can help really bring it home in a big way. The basic four agreements are: Be impeccable with your word Don't take anything personally Don't make assumptions Always do your very best These are each sound pieces of advice on their own, but combined they...2016-10-1019 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 14: How to Build Your Legacy like a GentlemanThere are a myriad of outlets describing how to build your legacy these days, and yet we don't really care much for it until we start noticing our impact on the world. Sometimes that means our children, sometimes it means our coworkers, sometimes it's just our sudden realization that we're going to die someday and we worry how we'll be remembered. Whatever the catalyst, legacy becomes a buzz word for most men in their 30s, and only amplifies as the years pass. The definition of legacy, however, is flawed. It is often referred to as what is...2016-09-2622 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 13: How to be a better listenerOne of the most misused superpowers a man can have is the power to listen deeply. Millions of self-proclaimed "good listeners" are actually just listening well enough to keep a conversation going in his or her direction. Genuine listeners hear what isn't being said, connect more deeply with their partner, and create a pathway for creative collaboration and power. This is incredibly important for any man trying to better himself and the world around him. Gentlemen, this is you (at least it should be). When you learn to genuinely listen at a deeper and more active level...2016-06-1521 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 12: 5 Rules for Getting Fit for the Rest of Your LifeToday, we're talking about the 5 rules for getting fit for the rest of your life. These aren't necessarily the perfect food, nutrition plan, supplement, or exercise; rather, they're the 5 rules you need to follow if you want to achieve actual longterm success on your fitness journey. Oscar and I were never huge or morbidly obese guys, but we both grew up with extra pudge. We also (especially me) noticed that we were working on quite an excellent Dad-Bod physique. This is no bueno. I'm not a dad, and I work very hard to prevent Dad Jeans in my...2016-05-0945 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 11: Tipping & Gratuity Etiquette w/ Oscar GuerreroToday's podcast is about something you're all familiar with, but may not know exactly what the rules are in it: tipping. Gratuity – when should you, how much should you, what makes a good tip, why should you, etc. These questions roll around the heads of many men every day, and we're here to talk about what the rules are, and what to be aware of in the tipping world.
This is also a special show because I'm introducing my friend, and potential future podcast cohost, Oscar Guerrero to all of you. He's a stand up guy that ha...2016-04-1430 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 10: Rise Above & Take Action with Ryan Michler - Order of ManI have an amazing show for you today. [remember to Subscribe Here] I’m joined by a man I can now call a friend, and one that makes our roles as men better because he’s here to help us make smart moves and go boldly into that good night.
My guest today is Ryan Michler of ORDER OF MAN. Through his site, podcast, and personal missions, Ryan is driven to take back what it means to be a man, and he wants us all to learn together – from the best men the world has to offer. From in...2016-03-2830 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 09: The Secret to Performing Better in EverythingIn the game of life, we are all seeking better performance. Whether that means better performance at our jobs, our relationships, our athletics, or in the bedroom, we want to be better – we need to be better. When it comes to actually achieving that better-ness, we often seek answers and solutions in the wrong direction. We chase external supplements, external validation, comparisons, and even approval from people beneath us. In our quest for better performance, we often discount ourselves for the validation from someone else. This is no good.
The secret to better performance in everything is act...2016-03-1318 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 08: 7 ways your haters are important for your successEntrepreneurs know the impact haters can have on their success, and more importantly, look for them as an indicator that they're on the right track. As an owner of several ventures, I'm always on the lookout for detractors and naysayers because they provide me with motivation that I can't get from my best cheerleaders. Strange as it may sound, someone looking at your ideas and telling you they're not possible or impractical or stupid or ridiculous or (fill in the blank) will often light a fire inside you to prove them wrong.
Rather than talk about what...2016-03-0718 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 07: 5 Ways to Make Your Marriage Better Than EverThere comes a time in every man's education when he reaches the conclusion that the happiness of those he loves is paramount to his own. It is at this moment that the realness of that man begins to blossom. He becomes more than he's ever been. He becomes a better listener, a better provider (for himself and others), and a driving force for greater, less trivial things.
This is what love does. Every single time.
Unfortunately, men often commit when they're in-love with lust, and in-lust with rom-com love – you know, the kind of love you...2016-02-1424 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipTSG 06: How to Handle Risk Like a BossThis is near and dear to me because I know how to handle risk – risk is my copilot. I venture into what-ifs like they're going out of style. I wasn't always that way, and occasionally I'm not as bold or brazen as my brochure would have you believe. Most days I'm ready to take on the world and all its wonder, but because I'm still human, I will have "holy crap, what am I doing" days too. There's no quick fix for all types of risk aversion, but there are a few keys that make it so you know ho...2016-01-1025 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipEpisode 5: The Best New Year's Resolution EverIt’s such a cliche to talk about the Best New Years Resolutions, isn’t it? We all know they’re not going stick – well, at least not for the vast majority of us. We’re the same weight and fitness level we were last December, we haven’t made a significantly higher income, that old car is still in the driveway, and we still haven’t manned-up and booked that crazy vacation we know we deserve. So let’s change the game and resolve to do something that’s not only possible, but will provide peace of mind, stress relief, bett...2015-12-2119 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipEpisode 4: 8 Things You Can Do to Be More AttractiveIn the grand scheme of things, a few imperfections don’t make a lick of difference. By the same token, being attractive to whomever you’re trying to influence, makes all the difference in the world. Whether it’s a prospective employer, that woman at the office you can’t stop thinking about, or most importantly, your own self-confidence, you want to be attractive. It may seem trivial, but there are some pretty simple things that can change your game forever. Here are eight easy ways to be more attractive:
Take your style and confidence to a new leve...2015-12-1418 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipEpisode 3: The Dos & Don'ts for Successful Online DatingGentlemen, the dating world is getting more complicated and a lack of etiquette can absolutely obliterate your success rate. If you're sending out messages and not getting anything returned, this podcast is for you. If you're wondering what it's like on the other side of the screen, this podcast is for you. If you're ready to step up your online dating game, this podcast is for you.
I am joined by the beautiful, talented, hilarious, Aimee Bentson of Avyn Apparel [@aimeebentson & @avynapparel ](among many other things), and she's here to help you know what it's like to...2015-11-2148 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipEpisode 2: 10 Kick Ass Ways to Boost Your ConfidenceEvery man, whether he's super successful or the fry cook at the local fast food joint, wants to have more confidence. Often, they're looking for some way to get an edge and stand out in a crowd... for all the right reasons. In this show, I'm going introduce you to my 10 killer ways to boost your confidence without spinning your wheels. No gimmicks, no products to buy, no audio programs to download and listen to every night. This is straight-up, no filler.
Take your style and confidence to a new level and take on the day like a...2015-11-1328 min
The Sharp Gentleman: Style | Relationships | Dating | Confidence | EntrepreneurshipEpisode 1: Make an Impression with Holiday Party EtiquetteIt's that time of year again, where companies cut loose and hold holiday parties to reward their employees for jobs well done, and to celebrate the season. Many men find themselves making mistakes and leaving a poor taste in their wake. This is an opportunity to step up your game, gentlemen, and I have 5 easy ways you can take it to the next level this holiday season.
Take your style and confidence to a new level and hit the company party like a true modern gentleman.2015-11-0820 min